I have social phobia and chronic depression. I can't help but hate myself. What's wrong with me? Everyone else around me is laughing and talking with their friends. Wtf did I do to deserve this.? :(
@kryhappy96 I also have severe social anxiety disorder and i'm almost always feeling depressed, i hate everything about myself too, my feelings, my thoughts, my looks, just basically me . . not having a single friend, or anyone to talk to really hurts, it makes you feel so alone, i feel sorry for anyone that has to live this way, i hope someday we all find a permanent cure and are able to live happily and appreciate ourselves instead of thinking negatively
@xBeautifulThingsx Thanks for replying, xBeautifulThingsx. It really helps to hear that someone feels exactly the way I feel everyday... Yes, I hope we'll all find a cure one day..cuz no one deserves this kind of pain and s***. --love, kryhappy96. <3 x
dificulde.tenho a conocer el mismo problema, parece no tener salida, pero con el uso de medicamentos adecuados han tenido buenos resultados, después de haber tenido varias alteraciones mentales,espero so recuperación,y puede sonreír de nuevo!charlezfuz@hotmail.com
I also go to talks. I can just sit there with people and listen and not talk. I am actually going to one tonight and have taken a close friend who knows about my phobia.
Maybe work on baby steps, suggest your next birthday will be out. Do you like animals? Maybe spend a day out at a zoo or nature reserve? I enjoy being around all that, it is very calming and animals don't judge you.
I am now thinking of being 'social' if things will benefit me ie going to a chocolate fair exhibition....I need some kind of carrot to motivate me. I avoid going to parties where I have nothing in common with people or they make me feel bad, so I think that just harm me.
I have social phobia and depression. It go so bad with my dep that I felt suicidal frequenly and because I felt like that, I have managed to get free CBT counselling on NHS, which is hard to get.The pills they gave me have helped, but I still find it hard in certain situations. I go to the Body Shop for a free makeover which gives me a bit of confidence and a bit of a mask. That helps me. I think I self esteem is my major problem.
I have found catching negative thoughts and re enforceing them wit possitive one s helps with social anxiety.Ive been to the doctors and was given anti depressants which i no longer take.I m going to try cognative behavioural theropy coz I also think taking pills is not answer.I initially thought I was a paranoid schizophrenic i was so self concious lol.I now realize its anxiety thats the problem.You should try CBT that has a high success rate for treating anxiety disorders:)
i have sp . it pretty much sux . i am really trying to observe others around me . & see how they act and change accordingly . but its just so hard & its only getting worse . i dont think im crazy(even the even one else does) i just seem to loose my grip around certain people . but im fine arond my family . do anyone know a cure is anything i can do to feel more confident .
you are beautiful. i feel the same sometimes. I hope you know that everyone feels sad.. feels alone... you have to reach out to others... they feel the same as you do... if you reach out people will connect with you..you only know you have one life that you know of.. make the best of lt... there is only one you!
Pretty sure author is not reading these since the video is 4 years old, but. Thank you for uploading this, I'm studying psychology and it's really useful to hear first hand experiences from people!
It's always nice to know other people have these same problems even though it doesn't really solve anything. You seem like a very kind and sensitive person, I hope you feel better.
i have it to i barely found out today about social phobia or watever , i first dident know what it was ive had it for 2 years i thought i was weird and noboby else was like me and there lucky but now i no im not the only one but still if 13% of people have it its so unfair i have to have it it just not fair
ha same for me, i make makeup tutorials but i dont talk cause im scared so i just do fast forward videos. i never worked i dont leave my room, my husband is like a father to me he does everything, cooks, cleans, shops brings home the bacon. my life is a prison
I wish i could give her a hug or something.shes cute and seems like a good person i feel bad for her..i hope she overcame it by now since this vid was posted 4 years ago
I used to think that my social anxiety had a lot to do with the way I look (I am unattractive), but judging by these videos looks have nothing to do with it. It's a hard thing to deal with, and finding a suitable job is even harder.
omg u r breaking my heart, hold on ok girl, it's gonna go away sooner or later, actually if u try it, it actually very easy, sumday u gonna look at this day and laugh at how u fear this thing so much
I am 22 as well and I have SA. Mine gets way worse in the winter... the nice weather has done more for me than any anti-depressant could. My SA gets worse at 'my time of the month' as well. Keeping a diary has been helpful to recognise and accept the ups and downs in life. SA sucks and I want to meet people and have long-term friendships. You are beautiful by the way! Good luck with everything!!! My advice is to join a club, get a hobby that forces you to interact.
Make friends at work that allowed. It's ok, matter of fact that's where you are supposed to make friends. Take the pills though it helps. Your depression is probably coming from the social anxiety. Making the depression feel better but not changing you social anxiety... Your just going to go full circle. Make one or two friends that know your problem and are patient to deal with it. Don't keep this a secret, secrets are our enemy.
I'm a guy and I feel just the same as you. I also have ADD and depression and life is basically just hard. but life goes on, and all we can to is fight! we are not "normal" but thats just for us to accept it, and start to learn to live by it even though it's hard...
and sometimes i feel like i just wanna die! Idk how much more of this i can take but i have gotten to the point where i have developed deep depression and break stuff out of frustration.. I have tried pills but i cant seem to find the right ones, and some have completely knocked me out or made me feel even worse and i have gone to councelling and NOTHING seems to work.. I need my life back! (I feel like i'm living in someone else's body and im trapped!) I REALLY NEED HELP!!!
F**k.. that's exactly my situation, i bloody hate this house and i'm always stuck in my room and as much as i hate it, i'm like attached to it, cos im here so often and i wanna start flatting but "something" just stops me and i get all freaked and i dont know what to do!! I have a hard enough tiem living with my dad and his voice drives me up the f*in wall, i feel chlosterphobic and feel like a baby and everyone else my age is going out and doing something!! I feel like a hopeless sack of s**t
What about bus stops? You can TALK to those waiting, if you are there first. It has to be the right bus stop, in a way. One with a bench to wait. In a bigger city, maybe? And you can REPEAT that endlessly. Maybe even at night, if buses drive.
i feel the same way. i barely have any friends, its my last year of high school and the prom is soon but i know im not going. id be too self concious and have no one to go with. anyone know where to get help for this? i want my life back..
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I also have to social phobia and hate it and have the same exact problems as you i don't go out, it is hard for me to make friends, when i am out i know people are talking crap and i hate it so much they also make it so obvious, and fell like i am never gonna have a girlfriend, and people who also try to make me look stupid
This is so deprecing cus my birthday is coming in 3 days and i barely have 1 friend no girlfriend , and nobody to talk to, sometimes i just feel like criyng
@YOZcreative@YOZcreative yea, also i rather like to cam because i am still in my comfort zone at home. it is going outside and the thought of going outside is hard :/ i even have trouble with answering phonecalls :( it sucks.... but it's different for everybody i guess. at first i was scared of camming too but ones i did it with a girl i liked and she insist that i did it. so i tried drunk first :D.... after that it i was pretty much addicted to camming :D even sober. just saying : )
@llllExTreMellll cool, I had no clue my comment had such good ratings. Thanks for sharing your story, I recognise things from it for sure. My YouTube channel is growing every day and that makes me want to hide even more. I would freak out if I would be recognised on the streets as beeing known on YouTube. Thats why I dont show myself on cam.
Im dreaming of meeting people on YouTube who is affraid of showing themselves but love to share videos. Everyone seem to love showing their face around here
@YOZcreative yeah, lot's of video's from people with social anxiety i've just noticed :D and me too, i want to be invisible if i'm in public. showing myself on picture's on a site is no problem and i like interacting with people through messaging. and in no way i put a video of myself telling my story :D. as far as that goes i'm with you ;) cheers
@YOZcreative yeah, i think that too, i still can´t tell my best friends about my condition and these people are spreading their feelings on the net. They´re so brave.
@bastardindindin you are amazing to have any best friends at all so You are brave on that! I only have "friends" online. IRL friends doesnt work at all for me
@bastardindindin Hi, I was thinking of you yesterday. That if you do have best friends and you believe in them as best friends. Then they would respect and support you if you tell about your Social phobia. But I know, its more difficult to face it IRL than on the internet right...
yo tambien tengo la f.s. y es feo cuando no puedes hablarle a una mujer y compartir varias cosas pero ahora me propongo hablarle a una chica y tambien quiero hacer un video contando mi caso y quiero saber si tomas pastillas yo tambien quiero hacerlo por un tiempo hasta q pueda desemvolverme sin miedo a hacer el ridiculo por que si no lo hago voy a perder mis habilidades q tengo
espero contactarme con tigo por que uno se siente bien cuando se siente escuchado y .
you sounds like me... i have social phobia all my life, i had friends.. but i am very shy, and too shy to even smile, i dont like going to shops if the cashier going to small talk, if it happens, i tend to not going back for a very long time, i get nervous when someone talks to me in a public surrounding.. i tend to isolate myself too. not happy about this...
This is very sad situation, peoples cant live there lives. U want to do so many things but u cant becuz of the fear. It makes u feel uncomfortable and weak. I have social phobia. This is keeping me away from wanting to be a dj and having a girlfriend. I took days off from work becuz of this I get sweaty and nervous.
This is very sad situation, peoples cant live there lives. U want to do so many things but u cant becuz of the fear. It makes u feel uncomfortable and weak. I have social phobia. This is keeping me away from wanting to be a dj and having a girlfriend. I took days off from work becuz of this I get sweaty and nervous around new people.
I wish I could just be left alone in the work place!!! I'm sick because I have to go to work soon. ; [ I wish it was as easy as someone just telling me what I would be happy doing and there was a place in my society for people like me. I want to work on designing renewable energy, but I have save up $30,000 for an engineering degree somehow. Anyway, I love your vids, wish I knew you in the real, u are a really nice person; and pretty.
Sorry to hear that. I happened to stumble upon your video when searching for what other people with SA have to say. I work at staples and I hate it!!! I hate the pressure of the company forcing me to sell things that most people don't want to pay for. I have to answer to my boss, make sure I "look" happy, while remembering how to perform all their "systems," AND sell the customer up the river.
hello congratulation to every one I found cure of this disease . first of all I am from India and sometimes I thought that I have social phobia also. But eventually i came to know that this not a disease but multinational companies of pharmaceuticals made this disease. It is due to lower level of oxygen in the brain. Just search baba ramdev kapalbhati videos . videos are about breathing exercises that will ensure oxygen to each and every part of brain nagative feelings even cant touch you
i have the same issues i feel like you are describing me anyway just want to let you know that you are very brave 4 making this video my name is damian im looking 4 a social phobia community so i can better deal with my fears well if u have any suggestions let me know or you can hit me up thanx
i am non-english speaker .my english bad . SOCIAL PHOBIA IS PSYCHOLOGICAL CANCER I AM PATHETIC : I DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS MY STUDY NOT GO SO GOOD I DECIDED NOT GET MARRIED FOREVER MY RELATIVES LIKE STRANGERS BEACUSE I ALMOST SEE THEM NOT BEACUSE OF THEM BEACUSE OF ME . I HAVE NO SOCIAL LIFE . I AVOID PEOPLE EVEN KIDS . I DECIDED IN THE FUTURE TO LEAVE MY COUNTRY AND GO TO FOREIGN COUNTRY .NO ONE CAN KNOWS ME THERE. I THINK SOME PEOPLE THEY THINK I'M ARROGANT BRIEFLY I AM BIG BIG LOSER
you seem like such a sweetheart, id def wanna be your friend if i met you.
I get really bad social anxiety to & trust me hun it is curable not by taking drugs but through councling it does really help & youre soooooo pretty sweetie if u can overcome this just enough to go out ull get a boyfriend easy!
you are gorgeous, you just gotta believe it! xxxxxx
how can you have this problem when your so pretty? lol? man, i got his problem when i move in the US coz i cant speak much english. and dunno how to speak it right. but then who cares most successful person in the us cant even speak english they just have confidence! ur pretty ill date u over and over, hehe..
Have suffered with it for 50 yr.s .I've experienced all the feelings you're describing.I've never been treated for the condition at least not by a threpist but in the early 90's one of my Dr. Treated me for orkdepression with Prozac and in about3weeks I began to feel different .I didn't know it at the time but it was working to relieve anxiety.
with the help of a publication called Young People Ask put out by the Watchtower , began to work with shyness , like approaching ot
i dont know whats wrong with ppl with SAD,they always say the same shit that they are not alone,there are ppl out their with similar condition,comon ppl what is the point in saying that instead of searching for a solution
I dont know how you are now because this was posted a while ago, but watching this is extremely concerning to me. I have been where you are many a time. I am 22 going on 23 soon, and live with social anxiety. I know what its like to feel totally hopeless, wondering why it is that you are even alive. I have been going to therapy for the last couple of months, and suggest if you havent done so already to try it. I know its scary. The important thing is to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. You have the power.
I USED TO HAVE THIS UNTIL I BECAME A MIND CONTROL EXPERIMENT. Mind control done by people richer then Bill Gates is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Now I can have laughing fits and I am full of confidence. Look up gang stalking and satellite surveillance and you will learn about this thing. Unfortunately most of the people who are the experiments don't like it but you will like it if you have this condition and if the rich people want to bless you with Godly laughter.
Please go to my channel and see my testimony. I used to suffer from anxiety, panic attacks and agarophobia. I have been set free for over 5 years. No meds, no "panic away" or "linden method". You can be set free too and it won't cost you a dime. GOD bless you all.
Please check out my channel. I used to suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, ocd and agarophobia. I no longer suffer or go through any of it. I have my testimony on how I overcame it all in "my uploads" section on my channel. Please see it...you can be saved from it with no meds, no paying for any "techinique" or paying for anything. It's not a sales strategy...it's my true story. Care about you,
I can somewhat relate to this. I spent most of my life living like a hermit and not hanging out with friends. Now, I really want to change that and start hanging out with friends like everyone else does but I'm just too scared.
im from mexico, and a have the problem maybe we can coment some solucions because a have the help of my psiquiatric, and at the begining help but then everything go away and you have to dare to reality, angel.uvm@hotmail.com everybody coment solucions thanks
im from mexico, and a have the problem maybe we can coment some solucions because a have the help of my psiquiatric, and at the begining help but then everything go away and you have to dare to reality, angel.uvm@hotmail.com everybody coment solucions thanks
LOOK PEOPLE IN THEIR EYES no one gave you SAD, not even you did. its just are bodies reaction to things we dont wanna say or do...when u care too much of what people say YOU ARE GIVING THEM POWER THEY DONT DESERVE. just bounce back, and i promise the biggest thing that will help and helped me. look people in their eyes, i know its uncomfortable but you will notice they are doing the same thing to you..eye contact..simple and effective, you will notice yourself connecting, a wonderful feeling..
Hey girl, how are you doing? I know exactly what you are going through because I have it too. Isn't it great knowing that you are not alone? Even though you may feel like it sometimes, but you are NOT. Don't get dwelled up into depression so much okay? There's no reason to. If you ever need to talk to me, I'll be here. Take baby steps one at a time. That's what I'm trying to do before I go into treatment next week. Take care and God bless your soul :)
Don't worry, friends can be a thorn stuck under your skin. You don't need friends to be happy or successful. The only friends you truly have is yourself and God. No one else matters, their only acquaintances.
Hi, stop just there, loads of people hate their job and don't have a boyfriend/ girlfriend, you said you are very good at hiding and loads of people are good at that. Your video is moving and compasionate and believe it or not, I love your honesty and frankness. I know this could not be easy, but that is in it self a credit to you you, despite what you may think of yourself, you have just shown amazing strength, take care..
what you have described is like an echo of what my life used to be like its not drastically better now but it is better ill tell you one reason you probably are the way you are its maybe because you live in scotland lol i live in scotalnd too and its not the happiest place if you ever need mentoring id be more than happy to help
when you say you feel like your "invisible" - isn't that a good thing - rather than constantly being stared at?
with me, wherever i go, people give me the evilest looks for no reason, and i wish that i was invisible, so that people couldn't stare - whereas - some people say they're annoyed because they feel invisible? i don't understand that.
I had SO many friends in highschool but gradually drifted apart from most of them while being in university. You want to know something? My social anxiety has gotten so bad that I've had everyone on my MSN list blocked for months and months. I unblock a friend when I want to talk to them. I've skipped so much class this year and didn't even apply to grad school like I had planned to because of how my phobia manifested. It sucks a lot.
hi, Iv'e had a mental illness- body dysmorphic disorder, part of my symptoms was Social phobia so I know what its like...I didn't have a life for years, no friends, i didn't go out in public, too scared to be seen by people...iv'e found drugs alot of the time made me worse but a few helped me. remember with alot of bad things that happen in life you can get through them...take care.
I understand , Your not ugly, your pretty, your reaching out, I pray to God you live as long as I have to this point , i,m 64, it breaks my heart to hear you talk, I wish I could hold you , and tell you that even a stranger , can care, and love you , I have vidio , please watch it, and if you need a friend , talk to me ok? I will keep you in my thoughts and my prayers
Supplements that can help: Magnesium with calcium (helps absorption) has a calming effect and can help with blushing. A vitamin B-complex (at least 50 mg, the "Stress" formulations are never enough Vit B) st John's wort can be efficacious, along with valerian and passionflower
People with this disorder often have depression as well. It's as if the brains neurotransmitters, (especially dopamine)-- first go into overdrive and cause social anxiety, awkwardness etc. in social settings--then later on, the neurotransmitters become depleted, and depression occurs, usually at a time when the patient is reflecting over the events of the day
Your right, you don't need religious devotion to solve your problems, you need Jesus. He is the only Way for you and all of us to "operate fearlessly" because in Him there is no fear. Just know this, no matter what you did, seriously, and no matter where you are at , even if it seems like your far away He is right there with you waiting for you to believe on Him so He can save you and give you the life He died for you to have. Fuentesevangelism.c-o-m
None of you have to live with this anymore. I used to be a victim of this and I know the frustration, embarrassment and fear that is involved. Please go to my site. You dont need to buy anything, I promise you its already been paid for fuentesevangelism-.-c-o-m-
I can't know exactly how you feel, but to the extent that I can see in this video, you seem to have much more going for you than you believe. You are beautiful, no matter what you may think, and you seem to be able to speak well. Some people aren't lucky enough to have either of those things! If I could guess, I would say that people think much better of you than you do, and all you need is a little bit of momentum, and maybe some medication. I wish you the best of luck; you can do it!
(Update) It is a never ending battle my family picks on me the most my mother & her boyfriend make fun of me My mom said she hates me b/c I pulled her hair when I was 3yrs old she said 3yrs olds know what they are doing My MOM makes fun of me the most Shes my problem & its very difficult to deal with her She been making fun to her friends & strangers my whole life I HATE MY MOM!
I like to have fun So I started on my journey getting in to conversations saying what I wanted to say Come to find out most dont like my point of views But hey thats just me:))) now days They dont like it its too bad for them Im more HAPPY and PROUD of myself than ever and thats what counts!
When people stare at you in the eyes for awhile they are intimidating you just to make you feel timid To make themselves feel good they are trying to overpower you through the eyes being the eyes are the key to the soul
I've always been ugly because of my weight and etc. It really cause me to have social phobia. Kids were always mean to me and ever since I was a teenager I avoided human contact as much as possible. I'm 21 years old. I'm not as fat and ugly as I use to be but I still don't get in contact with a lot of people. I never hang out with my friends or do fun stuff like go to the movies, date, party, etc. I pretty much have no life and I'm tired of it. I wish things were different for me growing up. =[
I feel the same way, I realised recently I have never enjoyed social situation since the time of social situation. I feel bad, I used to have many of dreams, achievement, but once I get close I fail, .................and it is killing me.
Like you said it ..............Life is passing me by
i can relate to your descriptions, it's a quite a helpless feeling. The confidence thing and no friends bothers me the most too. It's frustrating but i try my best to face these situations rather than hide away, the more you hide away the harder it's going to get...i'm trying my best not to sink too deep even though it's so hard.
p.s after seeing this video, can see you are a brave girl and very beautiful, this is my honest opinion. All the best !!
im exactley the same as you but i also suffer from schizophrenia. medication controls my schizophrenia but nothing helps my social phobia. i constantly think about death im always worried im 30 years old and my life is shit.
Check this audio program called overcoming social anxiety step by step. I know that it is expensive ($240). But message me if you have financal problem.
Well I enjoyed looking at and listening to you. Wish I could offer you some helpful advice, but all I can tell you is the only thing standing in your way is the phobia itself. If you were ugly, you'd still be fun to talk to; if you were stupid, lots of guys would still want you; but you're neither of those.
I had this same problem and i`m still suffering from it. I know that if i wish to get out of it, i can. But i`m not able to!... I just don`t answer the phone, haven`t gone out for months, except for some small shopping purposes and only if my apartment mates accompany me. I sometimes feel shy to open the door for a stranger who could be a courier delivery guy or that sort. Besides, you are good looking... Why do you fear? Let us all know one thing... We have only 1 lifetime and this is it!.
i hate my job because of sa i quit college now i work in a wharehouse with no hope of excelling to a better job i cant help you nor myself maybe I should just rob a bank and move to mexico : yea that seems like a good idea lol **0)
Girl don't ever take any psychiatric medicine. They would fuck with your brain physiology. The damage it could incur you could be irreversible. Don't ever take ever any of those. Just a friendly warning.
But the problem her with the vid is that she happens to be quite charming. If you forget SAD.
It isn't reality that is important , it is the experienced reality. You and me, might not experience reality the same way. So we will have different perception of reality. And therefore, you can not look at another person and have yourself as a reference. So the best way is just to listen.
I am pretty crazy, I have been starting to speculate in that one possible cure for SAD is to develop a slight degree of psychopathy ... but feel free to attack me and say I am wrong, please do, I am just hinking on the problem, I think it is about making the sourroundings "smaller". And maybe that can be accomplished by studying and thinking. I don't know, I am just trying here ... what do u all think... what do the shrinks think? That it is all mental gymnastic training camp? What u all thi
I have social phobia and chronic depression. I can't help but hate myself. What's wrong with me? Everyone else around me is laughing and talking with their friends. Wtf did I do to deserve this.? :(
kryhappy96 2 weeks ago
@kryhappy96 I also have severe social anxiety disorder and i'm almost always feeling depressed, i hate everything about myself too, my feelings, my thoughts, my looks, just basically me . . not having a single friend, or anyone to talk to really hurts, it makes you feel so alone, i feel sorry for anyone that has to live this way, i hope someday we all find a permanent cure and are able to live happily and appreciate ourselves instead of thinking negatively
xBeautifulThingsx 2 weeks ago
@xBeautifulThingsx Thanks for replying, xBeautifulThingsx. It really helps to hear that someone feels exactly the way I feel everyday... Yes, I hope we'll all find a cure one day..cuz no one deserves this kind of pain and s***. --love, kryhappy96. <3 x
kryhappy96 2 weeks ago
shit i cant even turn in some overdue books at my school cause then ill get all red
edgar720100 1 month ago
dificulde.tenho a conocer el mismo problema, parece no tener salida, pero con el uso de medicamentos adecuados han tenido buenos resultados, después de haber tenido varias alteraciones mentales,espero so recuperación,y puede sonreír de nuevo!charlezfuz@hotmail.com
Carlos51748 1 month ago
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.I am just like you, keep treating me,with drugs ( escitalopram ) and you too beautiful,reasons not to be happy.charlezfuz @ hotmail.com
Carlos51748 2 months ago
I also go to talks. I can just sit there with people and listen and not talk. I am actually going to one tonight and have taken a close friend who knows about my phobia.
charreva 3 months ago
Maybe work on baby steps, suggest your next birthday will be out. Do you like animals? Maybe spend a day out at a zoo or nature reserve? I enjoy being around all that, it is very calming and animals don't judge you.
charreva 3 months ago
I am now thinking of being 'social' if things will benefit me ie going to a chocolate fair exhibition....I need some kind of carrot to motivate me. I avoid going to parties where I have nothing in common with people or they make me feel bad, so I think that just harm me.
charreva 3 months ago
I have social phobia and depression. It go so bad with my dep that I felt suicidal frequenly and because I felt like that, I have managed to get free CBT counselling on NHS, which is hard to get.The pills they gave me have helped, but I still find it hard in certain situations. I go to the Body Shop for a free makeover which gives me a bit of confidence and a bit of a mask. That helps me. I think I self esteem is my major problem.
charreva 3 months ago
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You guys should come and talk to us other sufferers on Mapofmates :)
miissmiaa 3 months ago
open a new tap
type sad violin in search
click on the first video
play it at the some moment with this video
enjoy
PSYCHOMAN400 3 months ago
Poor girl, very brave for airing your problems on You-tube!!!! Such a shame, your so nice looking!!!!
TheDorancd 4 months ago
I have found catching negative thoughts and re enforceing them wit possitive one s helps with social anxiety.Ive been to the doctors and was given anti depressants which i no longer take.I m going to try cognative behavioural theropy coz I also think taking pills is not answer.I initially thought I was a paranoid schizophrenic i was so self concious lol.I now realize its anxiety thats the problem.You should try CBT that has a high success rate for treating anxiety disorders:)
cacktuspain 4 months ago
i have sp . it pretty much sux . i am really trying to observe others around me . & see how they act and change accordingly . but its just so hard & its only getting worse . i dont think im crazy(even the even one else does) i just seem to loose my grip around certain people . but im fine arond my family . do anyone know a cure is anything i can do to feel more confident .
aberrant456 4 months ago
you are beautiful. i feel the same sometimes. I hope you know that everyone feels sad.. feels alone... you have to reach out to others... they feel the same as you do... if you reach out people will connect with you..you only know you have one life that you know of.. make the best of lt... there is only one you!
samanthaeh101 4 months ago
Now, after three years
Do you still suffer from social anxiety?
3essi 4 months ago
Pretty sure author is not reading these since the video is 4 years old, but. Thank you for uploading this, I'm studying psychology and it's really useful to hear first hand experiences from people!
HaiJet 4 months ago
you are really beautiful why you think that you are ugly??
58mohit 5 months ago in playlist More videos from SxYkitten85
It's always nice to know other people have these same problems even though it doesn't really solve anything. You seem like a very kind and sensitive person, I hope you feel better.
elm118 5 months ago
i would totaly ask you out
joeyrolph 5 months ago
hi i am ayman from saudi arabia.. i want tell you something
YOU ARE SO BRAVE.
xaymansx 5 months ago 4
are you Scottish Might be a silly question but trying to read the acccent
Milpup 6 months ago
ERES MUY HERMOSA
45MDS 6 months ago
Youre so pretty:) I hope you've gotten better since you made this video!
autypataudie51 6 months ago
korn-thoughtless express how you might feel. hope it helps.
cresar 6 months ago
Wow, this is exactly how I am. I HATE it so much. It steals your life from you.
jay611j 7 months ago
Are you Irish?
TheSkabal 7 months ago
gush.. i wish i could have you but you wouldn't like me.. who suffers from social phobia...
hkbk2011 7 months ago
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DazedNConfused01 7 months ago
some things that help me..others shpuld also write about this topic..
1.Spending time with good people(especially Buddhist teachers near my place)
2. Doing physical activity like exercise or some wholesome work like writing something that is useful for others.
3.Helping good people without expecting anything in return.
4.Reading about Buddha and other great people(who have struggled etc)...and their teachings and trying to emulate them in real life.
harsha205 7 months ago
Your are very beautifu
standardliege25 7 months ago
for those of you thinking that you r not from this world check out starseeds.and you were looking at the stars and wondering:)
ShyBadger 8 months ago
i hope u get well soon and no, you're not ugly.
response207 8 months ago
i hope u get well soon.
response207 8 months ago
Wow...exactly like me....
livinglandfill 8 months ago
you're hot ;)
danceisfun43 8 months ago
i have it to i barely found out today about social phobia or watever , i first dident know what it was ive had it for 2 years i thought i was weird and noboby else was like me and there lucky but now i no im not the only one but still if 13% of people have it its so unfair i have to have it it just not fair
xxglambiciusxx 8 months ago
I'm in the exact situation as you. It sucks so much and I feel for you.
I'm from Scotland too :)
86Stooy 9 months ago
ha same for me, i make makeup tutorials but i dont talk cause im scared so i just do fast forward videos. i never worked i dont leave my room, my husband is like a father to me he does everything, cooks, cleans, shops brings home the bacon. my life is a prison
natasjaJerjomina 9 months ago
I wish i could give her a hug or something.shes cute and seems like a good person i feel bad for her..i hope she overcame it by now since this vid was posted 4 years ago
much2flyy 9 months ago
I used to think that my social anxiety had a lot to do with the way I look (I am unattractive), but judging by these videos looks have nothing to do with it. It's a hard thing to deal with, and finding a suitable job is even harder.
RetroJenny 9 months ago
omg u r breaking my heart, hold on ok girl, it's gonna go away sooner or later, actually if u try it, it actually very easy, sumday u gonna look at this day and laugh at how u fear this thing so much
jkdxtr321 9 months ago
I am 22 as well and I have SA. Mine gets way worse in the winter... the nice weather has done more for me than any anti-depressant could. My SA gets worse at 'my time of the month' as well. Keeping a diary has been helpful to recognise and accept the ups and downs in life. SA sucks and I want to meet people and have long-term friendships. You are beautiful by the way! Good luck with everything!!! My advice is to join a club, get a hobby that forces you to interact.
amarena489 9 months ago
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Realmadridforever100 9 months ago
Make friends at work that allowed. It's ok, matter of fact that's where you are supposed to make friends. Take the pills though it helps. Your depression is probably coming from the social anxiety. Making the depression feel better but not changing you social anxiety... Your just going to go full circle. Make one or two friends that know your problem and are patient to deal with it. Don't keep this a secret, secrets are our enemy.
Loudensll 10 months ago
I recorded video how i help myself getting out of Phobia if u would like to hear it and do same as I did visit my channel.
TvMeditation 10 months ago
I'm a guy and I feel just the same as you. I also have ADD and depression and life is basically just hard. but life goes on, and all we can to is fight! we are not "normal" but thats just for us to accept it, and start to learn to live by it even though it's hard...
termometen 10 months ago
I've been like this all my life. There was a period I was a bit better but it goes back to the same zone.
marvelous211 10 months ago
and sometimes i feel like i just wanna die! Idk how much more of this i can take but i have gotten to the point where i have developed deep depression and break stuff out of frustration.. I have tried pills but i cant seem to find the right ones, and some have completely knocked me out or made me feel even worse and i have gone to councelling and NOTHING seems to work.. I need my life back! (I feel like i'm living in someone else's body and im trapped!) I REALLY NEED HELP!!!
rickyrickrick1224 10 months ago
F**k.. that's exactly my situation, i bloody hate this house and i'm always stuck in my room and as much as i hate it, i'm like attached to it, cos im here so often and i wanna start flatting but "something" just stops me and i get all freaked and i dont know what to do!! I have a hard enough tiem living with my dad and his voice drives me up the f*in wall, i feel chlosterphobic and feel like a baby and everyone else my age is going out and doing something!! I feel like a hopeless sack of s**t
rickyrickrick1224 10 months ago
Your accent kicks ass, and you're not ugly. It's a pity if you're still single.
7ochka 10 months ago
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Alaron251 10 months ago
What about bus stops? You can TALK to those waiting, if you are there first. It has to be the right bus stop, in a way. One with a bench to wait. In a bigger city, maybe? And you can REPEAT that endlessly. Maybe even at night, if buses drive.
rabi9091 10 months ago
It's really encouraging to see videos like yours and others that remind me that I'm not alone. Thank you, SxYkitten85.
TheSpaghettiTerror 10 months ago
i feel the same way. i barely have any friends, its my last year of high school and the prom is soon but i know im not going. id be too self concious and have no one to go with. anyone know where to get help for this? i want my life back..
MarianneWaud1 10 months ago
@MarianneWaud1 was in the same position last year
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AwwwMuffinz 11 months ago
I also have to social phobia and hate it and have the same exact problems as you i don't go out, it is hard for me to make friends, when i am out i know people are talking crap and i hate it so much they also make it so obvious, and fell like i am never gonna have a girlfriend, and people who also try to make me look stupid
RobeVilla 11 months ago
This is so deprecing cus my birthday is coming in 3 days and i barely have 1 friend no girlfriend , and nobody to talk to, sometimes i just feel like criyng
aecc0357 11 months ago 23
@aecc0357 Happy Birthday :)
FlopsyDiggins 11 months ago
@aecc0357 I'm with you, your not alone man
TheMidwestsk8ter 3 months ago
same here
NehalTawfik 11 months ago
Amazing that people with social phobia can make videos of them talking about it! No way I could do that! I want to be invisible :-/
YOZcreative 11 months ago 41
@YOZcreative @YOZcreative yea, also i rather like to cam because i am still in my comfort zone at home. it is going outside and the thought of going outside is hard :/ i even have trouble with answering phonecalls :( it sucks.... but it's different for everybody i guess. at first i was scared of camming too but ones i did it with a girl i liked and she insist that i did it. so i tried drunk first :D.... after that it i was pretty much addicted to camming :D even sober. just saying : )
llllExTreMellll 5 months ago
@llllExTreMellll cool, I had no clue my comment had such good ratings. Thanks for sharing your story, I recognise things from it for sure. My YouTube channel is growing every day and that makes me want to hide even more. I would freak out if I would be recognised on the streets as beeing known on YouTube. Thats why I dont show myself on cam.
Im dreaming of meeting people on YouTube who is affraid of showing themselves but love to share videos. Everyone seem to love showing their face around here
YOZcreative 5 months ago
@YOZcreative yeah, lot's of video's from people with social anxiety i've just noticed :D and me too, i want to be invisible if i'm in public. showing myself on picture's on a site is no problem and i like interacting with people through messaging. and in no way i put a video of myself telling my story :D. as far as that goes i'm with you ;) cheers
llllExTreMellll 5 months ago
@YOZcreative yeah, i think that too, i still can´t tell my best friends about my condition and these people are spreading their feelings on the net. They´re so brave.
bastardindindin 3 months ago
@bastardindindin you are amazing to have any best friends at all so You are brave on that! I only have "friends" online. IRL friends doesnt work at all for me
YOZcreative 3 months ago
@YOZcreative they are my friends from childhood, that i still see occasionally.
bastardindindin 3 months ago
@bastardindindin Hi, I was thinking of you yesterday. That if you do have best friends and you believe in them as best friends. Then they would respect and support you if you tell about your Social phobia. But I know, its more difficult to face it IRL than on the internet right...
YOZcreative 3 months ago
yo tambien tengo la f.s. y es feo cuando no puedes hablarle a una mujer y compartir varias cosas pero ahora me propongo hablarle a una chica y tambien quiero hacer un video contando mi caso y quiero saber si tomas pastillas yo tambien quiero hacerlo por un tiempo hasta q pueda desemvolverme sin miedo a hacer el ridiculo por que si no lo hago voy a perder mis habilidades q tengo
espero contactarme con tigo por que uno se siente bien cuando se siente escuchado y .
hasta pronto.
rugal70 11 months ago
hey i suffer from the same problem and i can help you out in curing it. reach me at my id which is reamanu@live.com
rex4204 11 months ago
watching this video makes me want to revenge on social anxiety.
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socialanxietydisable 1 year ago
but i dont get why your like this, you seem like a lovely girl... i hope your more confident now and made some real friends..
chocomocha 1 year ago
you sounds like me... i have social phobia all my life, i had friends.. but i am very shy, and too shy to even smile, i dont like going to shops if the cashier going to small talk, if it happens, i tend to not going back for a very long time, i get nervous when someone talks to me in a public surrounding.. i tend to isolate myself too. not happy about this...
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This is very sad situation, peoples cant live there lives. U want to do so many things but u cant becuz of the fear. It makes u feel uncomfortable and weak. I have social phobia. This is keeping me away from wanting to be a dj and having a girlfriend. I took days off from work becuz of this I get sweaty and nervous.
slangmet352 1 year ago
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This is very sad situation, peoples cant live there lives. U want to do so many things but u cant becuz of the fear. It makes u feel uncomfortable and weak. I have social phobia. This is keeping me away from wanting to be a dj and having a girlfriend. I took days off from work becuz of this I get sweaty and nervous around new people.
slangmet352 1 year ago
I wish I could just be left alone in the work place!!! I'm sick because I have to go to work soon. ; [ I wish it was as easy as someone just telling me what I would be happy doing and there was a place in my society for people like me. I want to work on designing renewable energy, but I have save up $30,000 for an engineering degree somehow. Anyway, I love your vids, wish I knew you in the real, u are a really nice person; and pretty.
Bellerophon2200 1 year ago
Sorry to hear that. I happened to stumble upon your video when searching for what other people with SA have to say. I work at staples and I hate it!!! I hate the pressure of the company forcing me to sell things that most people don't want to pay for. I have to answer to my boss, make sure I "look" happy, while remembering how to perform all their "systems," AND sell the customer up the river.
Bellerophon2200 1 year ago
hello congratulation to every one I found cure of this disease . first of all I am from India and sometimes I thought that I have social phobia also. But eventually i came to know that this not a disease but multinational companies of pharmaceuticals made this disease. It is due to lower level of oxygen in the brain. Just search baba ramdev kapalbhati videos . videos are about breathing exercises that will ensure oxygen to each and every part of brain nagative feelings even cant touch you
vivekapply 1 year ago
you have a very soothing voice.
RobDC88 1 year ago
i have the same issues i feel like you are describing me anyway just want to let you know that you are very brave 4 making this video my name is damian im looking 4 a social phobia community so i can better deal with my fears well if u have any suggestions let me know or you can hit me up thanx
815loco 1 year ago
it's painful stuff, it's led me to a lot of petty crime.
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nubaaa1 1 year ago
thank you soooo much for making this video!
you seem like such a sweetheart, id def wanna be your friend if i met you.
I get really bad social anxiety to & trust me hun it is curable not by taking drugs but through councling it does really help & youre soooooo pretty sweetie if u can overcome this just enough to go out ull get a boyfriend easy!
you are gorgeous, you just gotta believe it! xxxxxx
crazyhippy685 1 year ago 2
how can you have this problem when your so pretty? lol? man, i got his problem when i move in the US coz i cant speak much english. and dunno how to speak it right. but then who cares most successful person in the us cant even speak english they just have confidence! ur pretty ill date u over and over, hehe..
supertrex2 1 year ago
I have S.A.D. And
Have suffered with it for 50 yr.s .I've experienced all the feelings you're describing.I've never been treated for the condition at least not by a threpist but in the early 90's one of my Dr. Treated me for orkdepression with Prozac and in about3weeks I began to feel different .I didn't know it at the time but it was working to relieve anxiety.
with the help of a publication called Young People Ask put out by the Watchtower , began to work with shyness , like approaching ot
if57 1 year ago
i dont know whats wrong with ppl with SAD,they always say the same shit that they are not alone,there are ppl out their with similar condition,comon ppl what is the point in saying that instead of searching for a solution
franian77 1 year ago
i hate SAD..its a terrible thing..watch my video on social anxiety and crap..it took me forever to do it but i did it
HellRises2012 1 year ago
I dont know how you are now because this was posted a while ago, but watching this is extremely concerning to me. I have been where you are many a time. I am 22 going on 23 soon, and live with social anxiety. I know what its like to feel totally hopeless, wondering why it is that you are even alive. I have been going to therapy for the last couple of months, and suggest if you havent done so already to try it. I know its scary. The important thing is to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. You have the power.
lesic67 1 year ago
Thank u so much for this vid......i have been hurting for most of my life and i thought i was the only one who felt this way.
rite311 1 year ago
I USED TO HAVE THIS UNTIL I BECAME A MIND CONTROL EXPERIMENT. Mind control done by people richer then Bill Gates is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Now I can have laughing fits and I am full of confidence. Look up gang stalking and satellite surveillance and you will learn about this thing. Unfortunately most of the people who are the experiments don't like it but you will like it if you have this condition and if the rich people want to bless you with Godly laughter.
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AimeebabyUK 1 year ago
I can somewhat relate to this. I spent most of my life living like a hermit and not hanging out with friends. Now, I really want to change that and start hanging out with friends like everyone else does but I'm just too scared.
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zahequi10 1 year ago
You are so pretty. : ) I love your Irish accent.
I think your more special because of the phobia.
You look so vulnerable, I hope you can help yourself-however you need to.
Love yourself!
j19527 1 year ago
@j19527 It's a scottish accent. and i do not believe for one second someone with social phobia would post youtube videos.
Taurai321 1 year ago
@Taurai321 What do you know you fucking big mouth. She's alone making this video. Get a clue before you open your ignorant trap.
tomcat13claws 1 year ago
your voice is sweet...u r unique...and different from rest of crowd..
58mohit 1 year ago
LOOK PEOPLE IN THEIR EYES no one gave you SAD, not even you did. its just are bodies reaction to things we dont wanna say or do...when u care too much of what people say YOU ARE GIVING THEM POWER THEY DONT DESERVE. just bounce back, and i promise the biggest thing that will help and helped me. look people in their eyes, i know its uncomfortable but you will notice they are doing the same thing to you..eye contact..simple and effective, you will notice yourself connecting, a wonderful feeling..
EWalk131 1 year ago
that it has a social phobia would not even dare show on youtube
Bosanac921 1 year ago
Hey girl, how are you doing? I know exactly what you are going through because I have it too. Isn't it great knowing that you are not alone? Even though you may feel like it sometimes, but you are NOT. Don't get dwelled up into depression so much okay? There's no reason to. If you ever need to talk to me, I'll be here. Take baby steps one at a time. That's what I'm trying to do before I go into treatment next week. Take care and God bless your soul :)
savedbygracexoxo 1 year ago
some1 tell what will you think of a person who blushed hard even without any reason
multamp 1 year ago
Don't worry, friends can be a thorn stuck under your skin. You don't need friends to be happy or successful. The only friends you truly have is yourself and God. No one else matters, their only acquaintances.
goldenbrood555 1 year ago
Hi, stop just there, loads of people hate their job and don't have a boyfriend/ girlfriend, you said you are very good at hiding and loads of people are good at that. Your video is moving and compasionate and believe it or not, I love your honesty and frankness. I know this could not be easy, but that is in it self a credit to you you, despite what you may think of yourself, you have just shown amazing strength, take care..
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onewishyeah 1 year ago
what you have described is like an echo of what my life used to be like its not drastically better now but it is better ill tell you one reason you probably are the way you are its maybe because you live in scotland lol i live in scotalnd too and its not the happiest place if you ever need mentoring id be more than happy to help
mrboyface 1 year ago
also the birthday thing - i've just been sat in the house by myself on my birthday for the last 5 years or so.
Posthuman7 1 year ago
when you say you feel like your "invisible" - isn't that a good thing - rather than constantly being stared at?
with me, wherever i go, people give me the evilest looks for no reason, and i wish that i was invisible, so that people couldn't stare - whereas - some people say they're annoyed because they feel invisible? i don't understand that.
Posthuman7 1 year ago
i get the same thing i'm in my 20s and 10 year old kids still laugh at me just for walking past them along the street.
Posthuman7 1 year ago
lyndon mergod and regression therapy might help??
good luck!
flixerich 1 year ago
I luv ur accent.
VanitieGrace 1 year ago
UR BEAUTIFUL IN LOOKS AND IN PERSONALITY
UCantHandleTheTruth3 1 year ago
if you ever wanna chat bout this, cause i have troubles with it too, you can contact me
Mattorzo 1 year ago
are you Scottish? I like your accent
BeIrie247 1 year ago
@BeIrie247 yes, she is scottish.
Posthuman7 1 year ago
I had SO many friends in highschool but gradually drifted apart from most of them while being in university. You want to know something? My social anxiety has gotten so bad that I've had everyone on my MSN list blocked for months and months. I unblock a friend when I want to talk to them. I've skipped so much class this year and didn't even apply to grad school like I had planned to because of how my phobia manifested. It sucks a lot.
jazzmatik 1 year ago
hi, Iv'e had a mental illness- body dysmorphic disorder, part of my symptoms was Social phobia so I know what its like...I didn't have a life for years, no friends, i didn't go out in public, too scared to be seen by people...iv'e found drugs alot of the time made me worse but a few helped me. remember with alot of bad things that happen in life you can get through them...take care.
madbandicooot 1 year ago
everything you said i nodded my head at, beacause i can relate... i know how you feel, girl. :(
FluroUnderwear 1 year ago
I feel your pain. You are very attractive and your accent is amazing. Hope they find a cure for this nightmare.
PYSCOPOMP 1 year ago
I understand , Your not ugly, your pretty, your reaching out, I pray to God you live as long as I have to this point , i,m 64, it breaks my heart to hear you talk, I wish I could hold you , and tell you that even a stranger , can care, and love you , I have vidio , please watch it, and if you need a friend , talk to me ok? I will keep you in my thoughts and my prayers
Uncledonny 1 year ago
u aint ugly wtf? but i got social anxiety to and it sucks.
stacks6969allday 1 year ago
Supplements that can help: Magnesium with calcium (helps absorption) has a calming effect and can help with blushing. A vitamin B-complex (at least 50 mg, the "Stress" formulations are never enough Vit B) st John's wort can be efficacious, along with valerian and passionflower
VerbalBlitzkrieg 1 year ago
People with this disorder often have depression as well. It's as if the brains neurotransmitters, (especially dopamine)-- first go into overdrive and cause social anxiety, awkwardness etc. in social settings--then later on, the neurotransmitters become depleted, and depression occurs, usually at a time when the patient is reflecting over the events of the day
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fathersonnholyspirit 1 year ago
At least you have free healthcare. America sucks.
Blueraptor3030 1 year ago
you kinda look like kirsten dunst
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fathersonnholyspirit 1 year ago
I can't know exactly how you feel, but to the extent that I can see in this video, you seem to have much more going for you than you believe. You are beautiful, no matter what you may think, and you seem to be able to speak well. Some people aren't lucky enough to have either of those things! If I could guess, I would say that people think much better of you than you do, and all you need is a little bit of momentum, and maybe some medication. I wish you the best of luck; you can do it!
adamsaltzberg 1 year ago
My mom has been making fun of me to her friends & strangers my whole life I HATE HER
4usexy22 1 year ago 25
(Update) It is a never ending battle my family picks on me the most my mother & her boyfriend make fun of me My mom said she hates me b/c I pulled her hair when I was 3yrs old she said 3yrs olds know what they are doing My MOM makes fun of me the most Shes my problem & its very difficult to deal with her She been making fun to her friends & strangers my whole life I HATE MY MOM!
4usexy22 1 year ago
I feel the exact same, it makes you feel trapped. Makes me want to run away
ZDarkStorm 1 year ago
I accept myself for who I am
I like to have fun So I started on my journey getting in to conversations saying what I wanted to say Come to find out most dont like my point of views But hey thats just me:))) now days They dont like it its too bad for them Im more HAPPY and PROUD of myself than ever and thats what counts!
4usexy22 1 year ago
I wish I looked like you Thats the truth girl!
4usexy22 1 year ago
laughing at you????? no freaking way!! are they nuts???? your pretty They are just jealous
4usexy22 1 year ago
When people stare at you in the eyes for awhile they are intimidating you just to make you feel timid To make themselves feel good they are trying to overpower you through the eyes being the eyes are the key to the soul
todimas2 1 year ago
When I was at work I would imagine the bosses talking about me and saying negative things about me.
Christopher711 1 year ago
I've always been ugly because of my weight and etc. It really cause me to have social phobia. Kids were always mean to me and ever since I was a teenager I avoided human contact as much as possible. I'm 21 years old. I'm not as fat and ugly as I use to be but I still don't get in contact with a lot of people. I never hang out with my friends or do fun stuff like go to the movies, date, party, etc. I pretty much have no life and I'm tired of it. I wish things were different for me growing up. =[
crowley201 1 year ago
I feel the same way, I realised recently I have never enjoyed social situation since the time of social situation. I feel bad, I used to have many of dreams, achievement, but once I get close I fail, .................and it is killing me.
Like you said it ..............Life is passing me by
Ppl round me don;t get me.
I believe this is the cause of my divorce
thank for you courage
Good luck
semayneshi 1 year ago
I feel what you're sayin.. but I have to realize and follow through with any potential change on my own
Blade9 1 year ago
ya i have sort of anxiety when i go into crowds of people i have aniexty attacks how do u get rid of them
lolastrong 1 year ago
i can relate to your descriptions, it's a quite a helpless feeling. The confidence thing and no friends bothers me the most too. It's frustrating but i try my best to face these situations rather than hide away, the more you hide away the harder it's going to get...i'm trying my best not to sink too deep even though it's so hard.
p.s after seeing this video, can see you are a brave girl and very beautiful, this is my honest opinion. All the best !!
lollipopzz1234 1 year ago
im exactley the same as you but i also suffer from schizophrenia. medication controls my schizophrenia but nothing helps my social phobia. i constantly think about death im always worried im 30 years old and my life is shit.
hi2babs 1 year ago
I think you are very brave for make these videos, your young and very pritty and have a lot to look forward to, that may be hard to see right now.
hull2474 1 year ago
i have social phobia too
UNSAMANEOY 1 year ago
If you still need something to help you out
Check this audio program called overcoming social anxiety step by step. I know that it is expensive ($240). But message me if you have financal problem.
rahulg510 1 year ago
you are so kind!
alisak55 1 year ago
Well I enjoyed looking at and listening to you. Wish I could offer you some helpful advice, but all I can tell you is the only thing standing in your way is the phobia itself. If you were ugly, you'd still be fun to talk to; if you were stupid, lots of guys would still want you; but you're neither of those.
exthelpfile 1 year ago
It's great to have the whole world laughing at me. I want to be humurous, I want to make people laugh.
royalsteven 2 years ago
I had this same problem and i`m still suffering from it. I know that if i wish to get out of it, i can. But i`m not able to!... I just don`t answer the phone, haven`t gone out for months, except for some small shopping purposes and only if my apartment mates accompany me. I sometimes feel shy to open the door for a stranger who could be a courier delivery guy or that sort. Besides, you are good looking... Why do you fear? Let us all know one thing... We have only 1 lifetime and this is it!.
zapxlib 2 years ago
i hate my job because of sa i quit college now i work in a wharehouse with no hope of excelling to a better job i cant help you nor myself maybe I should just rob a bank and move to mexico : yea that seems like a good idea lol **0)
killsanity 2 years ago
PS: You're pretty.
dav231988 2 years ago 52
Girl don't ever take any psychiatric medicine. They would fuck with your brain physiology. The damage it could incur you could be irreversible. Don't ever take ever any of those. Just a friendly warning.
dav231988 2 years ago
But the problem her with the vid is that she happens to be quite charming. If you forget SAD.
It isn't reality that is important , it is the experienced reality. You and me, might not experience reality the same way. So we will have different perception of reality. And therefore, you can not look at another person and have yourself as a reference. So the best way is just to listen.
MajSolo 2 years ago 2
I am pretty crazy, I have been starting to speculate in that one possible cure for SAD is to develop a slight degree of psychopathy ... but feel free to attack me and say I am wrong, please do, I am just hinking on the problem, I think it is about making the sourroundings "smaller". And maybe that can be accomplished by studying and thinking. I don't know, I am just trying here ... what do u all think... what do the shrinks think? That it is all mental gymnastic training camp? What u all thi
MajSolo 2 years ago
i too am alone.... so lets meet up... what do u think.???... that could be the first step to forget the loneliness.... lol
ketan9728 2 years ago
Could be a problem with control freaks or dominating people that this is just the kind of person they would love to have as a spouse.
And that is the kind of person we want to protect them from and keep them away from.
Sorry for al the comments I just had some on my chest I needed to get out.
MajSolo 2 years ago
I think you're lovely.
malma1 2 years ago 2
traduce esto del español al gringo.
god film.
yo tengo fobia social.
que bonita eres.
Andrestaker18 2 years ago
Jesus was the cure to all DISORDERS, I dont have social anxiety anymore because God taught me everything I needed to know to fight the Devil!
Read the bible! Believe in it! God will heal you all just like how he has healed me!
Praise The True Living God!
Chriomuz 2 years ago
@Chriomuz
this is true!!!!! The end is coming,we can only be free if we are spiritually free, cause the social anxiety comes from mental problems...