i think the song gets to me and im a guy im not suppose to cry, when i was 5 i was sexually abused by my cousin or u could say raped, ever sense then i've been having night mears and i even been cutting the pain just aches!!! the thought of it burns my heart and mind and it prevents me of being in a relationship with someone but watching this video lets some stress and pain away thank you soo much for this
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ii can now see my life from the outside. these things are what help me understand myself at every aspect, help me solve my problems, and help me to help others. this is an incredible, and moving video. twloha has inspired me to start my own organization. please check out the channel, and spread the love. love is the movement. <3
i am glad to say, i am a happy person, who got over my depression, and will NEVER scracth myself again. i learned that its not the way i want live my life. its too short and beatiful to waste. so to those still battling. theres hope. even in the darkest hour. find something that makes you happy. indulge in it. activity, a movie that makes you laugh, ur pet or your best friend. if you dont have friends, dont wry there there. find them. Youll feel better. it may not go away, but will help u heal.
I wrote a song about my friend that was cutting called Brea’s song. To see me perform it live copy or type (mason Bellamy Cedarville) in Youtube’s search window (I can’t post a link). THANKS!
~~PLEASE spread the word if you like it (Facebook, Twitter, ECT)! I want hurting kids to know their value and see it!~~ “YOU ARE A DIAMOND YOU’RE NO LONGER COAL”
To take pain away. Once I left about an scar on my wrist. I always feel ashamed when I do it and working thru it when it happens which is rarely now. But to those of you still battling depression, know you are never alone there is always hope even where it feels like there is none. if anyone tells u ur not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, popular enough, know that they are always wrong and THERE the ones with a problem. There is always a person who thinks ur amazing, you just have t
Two years ago I was very depressed. I was bullied everyday at school, told I was fat and ugly. At home I was pushed to do better. Even with friends I felt so alone. I didn't cut myself, had thoughts of it, but I wanted to run away. Some days I begged not to go to school. I found a way to be happy the next year I was shaky but coming back slowly. Today I am a happier person. some days I have things I call sorrow attacks where to take away pain I feel inside I scratch myself with my nail trying
@Crushedvelvet8484 i hate the school im going to as soon as i started there a group of people hate me and i started to cute. any advice of how to survive my last year at that school?
@xoEmoxLuvxo cutting yourself is a bad idea. not a good way to deal. dont listen to a single word they say. ask YOURSELF is that true? am i REALLY going to put up with that? tell a trusted adult about them if you decide. If they hate on you for that, say why shouldnt I? i dont want to put up with it. so i did something. THERE the ugly people, Ur a strong,beatitul person. dont let ANYONE tell u diffrent. You have the power of yourself. dont waste it. dont wry it gets better in the end. I promise
@xoEmoxLuvxo glad i could help. Just focus on good things in your life,Just enjoy it, and savor every experience that comes dont let them get you down, They must be on drugs cuz they have NO IDEA what there talking about. What helped me get through my bullies was my friends lets just say some not very nice comebacks. Or look them in the eye and say I cant believe you just said that. What kind of person are you to say those things? then walk away. Lol sry if its overkill. good mood:) Good Luck :)
This story is my life today........ Depression suicide just everything i not once played in my mind i would ever be....... I love the music thats played in this video. But depression is real very real. It will have you doing things you would have never done and or think of doing. Pray for me that i keep my mind on the lord and not look and not look away from him.
Omg this is my story :'( I was sexually assalted by 5 different guys and I may not have cut "Fuck up" into my arms but I did cut "Hated" my whole school saw it and wouldn't stop talking so soon I became addicted to cutting. Seeing this video showed me that I'm not the only one with a similar story and thank yhu <3
I got a tattoo of a heart music note and cross just to remind me there's always hope threw, love, music, and faith. Nobody understands what my tattoo means to me. But it will get me threw my senior year without a blade :)
love this! :D <3 so true (: i cut and put down on maself put ma hair in ma face; felt unwanted bc stupid people but uknow what we r all gifted ; we all feel alone; but we aren't everyone has their flaws; and imperfections; and talents trust me u dnt even know sometime sometimes u just need some1 2 listen 2 u and ur gud so any1 idc who u r talk 2 me 'bout ur issues, wanna help u all ! dnt be afraid; i feel better talking 2 strangers; so maybe u do 2. im not kiddin' hit me up on you tube message.
4/5/11 <3 i'll never forget the good times. Caitlin and I cried with Mere all day. You were a son, brother, leader, and your smile could be seen from miles away. If only you could see how much everyone misses you now. <33
This video is so sad..i almost started crying. Tomarrow at school some ppl are going to write love on each others arms to support it :) I have alreay written it once myself on my hand
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This is so sad :( i pray for the people who have problems cutting .. If you ever need someone to talk to if you ever feel alone , please feel free to message me .
Okay, emo is emotional ! Scene is an almost emo ! You have to cut yourself too be emo ! You can't just say you do and not have a single scar from a razor on you ! (;
Complain about how stupid labels are has nothing to do with the whole purpose of the song. Whether you're a 'geek', 'nerd', 'jock', 'prep', or 'emo' has nothing to do with how you cope with pain or stress. Grow up and quit with the hate comments on emos, because they're not the only ones this happens to. Raise awareness in a positive way. Don't be a douche and come on here and leave a comment on how stupid this is because you're a stereotypical prick. Shutup and write love on your arms, a'ight.
I'm sorry yeah but that was totally uncalled for. if you thought about committing suicide why don't you understand? it's fucking hard to stop self harming, trust me I know, I haven't conquered it yet. so you can fuck off and try to understand peoples feelings, becuz tbh what you said really upset me.
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sounds kinda emo to me.....suck it up thousands of people around the world have real problems, not me, im not complaining, but some people do. I thought about killing myself all the time in middle school about stupid shit. you know what, life gets much much much better... I love life every day, because life is not middle school and now that im a senior in college I think about how stupid someone would have to be to let emotions ruin all the wonderful, unknown times ahead
@CDUBSTUDENT wow your really f***ed up, i can't believe you really would say that about this... your probally like one of thoose people who cause suicide you make me so mad
@XComplicatedXMollyX I meant what I said, life is wonderful. If this video prevents just one person from suicide then I take it all back. I just think that if people in places like Haiti can overcome their giant problems then the average american teen has nothing to complain about. Suicide is a horrible problem, but kids should realize that feelings about life change. Anyone can change their destiny if they are brave enough to face their problems. I apologize if my indelicacies offended you
@CDUBSTUDENT Well Every body needs help and things like this help alot... Sometimes people are alone and all they have is like support groups, Friends, And Little things like this
@CDUBSTUDENT Thousands of people around the world do have real problems. And self-harm is one of them. If you really considered suicide, you'd understand what this is really saying. And life doesn't always get better. Sometimes it gets worse. You aren't stupid if you let emotions ruin your times ahead because for most of the people this is trying reach out to, their times ahead aren't so good. Next time you want to say something on a video like this, you need to understand what it really means.
Prayer is what Im expecting to come from this problem of suicide. Its beyond what a person can take in alone to understand! i pray in Jesus name that anyone who comes to this page will understand their is forgiveness for any thing that goes wrong in your life even suicide! Not to encourage suicide. But to understand thier is things that happen like this and their is a God of unconditional love who knows about you pain.
Hey guys, I posted this video over two years ago & I am actually surprised at the amount of attention it has received. To those who have supported, thank you. To those who were helped/enlightened by the video, I'm glad you got something from it. & To those who have been posting hate & negativity about the video & about those who support it, I kindly ask you to keep your judgments to yourselves.
@TheParamourProdigy This is an awesome video! I think it'd be cool to finish it, you know? I mean I know it's done, but to do the rest of the story. :) Good work!
TWLOHA Is here to help all of you who feel the grasp of self-harm, addictions, depression, etc. This video is not a place to come and trash talk all the people who feel this way, it is a place where hope is made. I hurts me to see people made fun of and looked down upon because they feel pain and unhappiness. some people acually go through a lot of pain, and the people who don't shouldn't be talking.
this hit me hard... TWLOHA is an amazing organization infact they are hero's i know this year has not been the easyest for me and this organization saved my life this vid was amazing <3
this video hit me like a tone of bricks every thing that girl went through i did to the men the depression feeling like a fuck up i have over fifty scares tho and i keep making more it is hard i want to stop but i cant all i ask is for one person to care but i have gotten no such answere iam alone and hate myself and my scares but i cant top its an adiction. just like drugs if you have had probs with drugs or drinking then you have felt the same as us "cutters" yet you look down on us wtf!!!!
You NEVER had the right to judge people who cut themselves. Coz you're not on their shoes! And if you think they're so LOW, think again. They're brave enough to conjure their depression. Not like others who drink, get drunk, do something stupid like SEX! :|
This is a great video helping out a great organization! Loved it! But you people on here talking crap about "cutters" and "emos" need to shut the hell up and go away. No one asked for your opinion and frankly must of the people here DON'T CARE! So go run off and be ignorant somewhere else....
@TheSarahcool269 But how does cutting yourself help you? It doesn't. It leaves you with scars, So stop being a woose with your life and find the joys in it. Not to be rude but it is TRUE. People who cut themselves are just in-secure and are not strong enough to handle it. Well you need to become stronger. And when you said "Let me sit down with you and tell you about my life" PROOF RIGHT THERE, You are just to weak to handle life. You need to learn how to get stronger.(This was not to be mean)
@lxCowGoMooxl It helps because it feels good to bleed.. When you bleed it feels like you've pulled out some negative energy it makes you feel.. clean.. It's a nice feeling but it can also get addictive... The pain of a cut is a lot better then the pains of depression
@Kenderra OH! But.. Its a bad thing because ._. People will be disappointed in you or call you crazy and you will feel bad about yourself for making the choice but the cutting is really hard to just STOP doing
@lxCowGoMooxl Hi. My best friends little sister has been beaten with a hammer. She should just SUCK IT UP. Right? Ever been held to gun point? Watched your father kill himself? Your girlfriend slit her throught? Been molested repeatedly? Watch what you say. KTHX!
@DevannNicolee No, You need to man the fuck up.You think your life is horrible, and all you can take it out with is by "cutting yourself" alot of shit has happened in my life too, Do I cut myself? No. Cause you NEVER know what tomarrow will bring, And cutting yourself does NOTHING, I truly think people who cut themselves just have VERY LOW self-esteem and Cannot handle everything. Well you need to grow out of this, This is life. Deal with it. Bitch.
@DevannNicolee Oh, I'm sure that Profanity witll get you damn 10x farther in life that being pitty and trying to get everybodys sympathy because "There life is so horrible"
@lxCowGoMooxl People cut themselves, not to get attention, but becuase they feel it's the only thing that they can have control over in their lives! Don't talk about people when you don't know shit.
@lxCowGoMooxl What I very much cannot tolerate is ignorance. You are a very ignorant person. Why don't you look up depression medically? Cutting is like an escape to people, they feel like they're letting bad stuff out. Don't you dare hate on the people who cut themselves. Don't you dare do that until you have experienced what they have. Everybody is different; their circumstances, how they deal with their problems, and how they escape. Don't hate on them or look down on them.
@Scorpygirl11 I don't hate them or look down on them. I'm just tired of people going "Omg, I hate my life, Because I caught my boyfriend cheating on me!" or "Nobody likes me!" Well they need to cry a damn river, that just tells you that they have EXTREMELY LOW self-esteem.. Now if its medically, They need to think that EVERYBODY goes through depressino ATLEAST ONE time in there life. There are many people that don't cut themselves, so if you do, (Another Page)
@Scorpygirl11 It shows that you have an issue, Cutting yourself does NOTHING, I don't care what you think it will do. Because I'm pretty damn sure that deep down you know its doing nothing but scars.. If its absolutly horrible, Talk to family or friends about it, Find a hobbie, get medical attention, Cutting does NOTHING!!!
@lxCowGoMooxl They don't cut because they were cheated on. They cut because of sexual, physical, and mental abuse, and being scarred in their lives. They can't just talk to people. That' s the problem. People will look down on them like you and call them freaks and unreasonable losers. It's emotional, not rational. I know cutting does nothing, but they need to do it in order to escape and release. They can't just "go find a hobby."
@lxCowGoMooxl If your friend suddenly came up to you, expressing their secret that they have been cutting and drinking to get rid of the pain, would you flat out say "Stop cutting yourself, it does nothing! Go find a hobby." That just makes things worse.
@lxCowGoMooxl No, I never said that. I simply stated that you do NOT tell a friend on the edge of murder that they should just get to their senses and find a hobby. That would push them to suicide. People like that need to know there are people that are willing to help and support them. If it was that easy to stop people from their addictions, this world would be happier. But it's not. It's an emotional thing, it requires support.
@lxCowGoMooxl They're stuck in an inescapable world of sorrow. The people who are getting sexually abused and afraid for their lives are part of the people who cut themselves. Not for measly little issues. I'm not gonna say "you don't even know my story." I'm a lucky person, not experiencing the worst. I want to stand up for those who have experienced it. You're right saying I don't have these problems. I'm not being conceited when I'm trying to express what I believe in.
Also, THAT'S THE POINT OF THIS VIDEO. It's to get clinically depressed people to talk. OBVIOUSLY cutting is bad, that's what the video is about, but you also have to understand then someone is in that much emotional pain, cutting is the most rational thing to do in their eyes. Why? CUZ IT RELIEVES THE PAIN BY RELEASING ENDORPHINS. If getting better was as easy as "finding a hobby" EVERYONE would be happy. Stop pretending to be superior because you obviously lack the wit and mentality for it.
@Scorpygirl11 There are people that are getting molested every day, or are afraid to go to sleep at night wondering if they will see the next day, So don't you DARE say "You don't even know my story" Im fucking sure you don't have these problems. So stop being so conceited.
@lxCowGoMooxl It's people like you, that's why we need videos like this. It's people like you who keep others from talking, from sharing. It's prententious, ignorant, sheltered people like you. Maybe you've had it good all your life; then you don't know what it's like to be in pain. Maybe you haven't had it good: then you should have empathy for people who are clinically depressed. Cutting releases ENDORPHINES which is a chemical opposition to pain.
Wow. I have really never met anyone that was like me. All the stories of pain and such. My bestfriend committed suicide when I was in eighth grade and I cutt because I felt it was my fault in a way. But then I stopped and I haven't cutt for about two years. I feel like I'm much happier now and I know that every one has the strength to stop because it takes so much strength to go through all that pain but most of you haven't realized that yet. It gets better once you stop.
I lost my girlfriend to suicide on March 8,2008. I have cut since 3rd grade for ALOT of reasons.I dated that girl in 8th grade for a year... I stopped cutting 3 weeks ago and counting :)) I love you Lexi...I always will
I couldn't catch my breath during this. amazing, truthful, - very good images of how i often feel. and a then a beautiful reminder that there is hope.
More than half the people in my school cut, and people find out and tell people who tell more people and then they are labled emo. Which never helps them stop cutting, I can honestly say I use to, it's tough feeling like every ones against you and no one will ever understand. I made my first cut when I was 6 years old, I started again in 6th grade and stop after 7th grade in the summer.
erm its not to help "emo-ish people" ok? suffering of depression, addiction, suicide, etc,. is something many people go through and "emo" is moreof a style they are so depressed that they take so f-ing longin the bathroom just to do the hair and everything, actual depressed people dont really care how they look, my mom suffered depression and of suicidal thoughts when she was getting beaten by my dad. The point of this video is about twloha!
this vid makes me really sob. like a choking sob. i watched my bff commit suicide, and i was the one to bury her. Can u imagine burying ur best friend?!? So all u " people who cut are emo" really need to get out from that hole, and open ur eyes. this stuff happens everyday. it could happen to u or someone u know and love. I SUPPORT TWLOHA ALL THE WAY. RIP Jamie. We all miss u. We'll see u someday. :(
@itskayIa i agree we shouldnt label but its kinda what humans do we cant help it... and if your Emo and dont cut yourself i think its considered as scene
O my gosh, this video is amazing. Like really it made me cry. I remeber last year when i cut. I was so depressed. People who havent felt depression are so lucky. Imagine feeling nausious every second of your life and when you are about to vomit, you just fall on the ground crying your eyes out. Crawling to your room to go cut yourself. But they're are people in this world who love you. People who will cry if you leave forever. They're are people who you can count on. Be brave and look
I remember the times where I was cutting. I'm so happy I stopped. When your that upset with yourself, and depressed, you don't realize how much you hurt the people around you. This video almost made me cry.
The song in the video is Underoath's Desolate Earth :: The End is Near from their album Lost in the Sound of Separation. Arron, their drummer/vocalist is involved with promoting TWLOHA. That's probably why they chose the song.
@shadesofmellow that is very true i know cutters who do it cause sexual asult there parents but then theres those people who just wanty attention either way it's not funny...
your a fucking ass hole if you honeslty think that people that have depression and that are emo are looking for attention sing as how they are both medical conditions okay grow up and open your eyes okay, like really look both of those things up and you will see that it is a medical condition,like really!!!!!!!! like really if aa friend did come up to you saying that they cant take life and theyr going to kill themself would you call them a freak and walk away like really? or would u help them??
8x26x08 what the hell is wrong with you honeslty do you have any idea what the fuck you are talking about depression is a medical condition honeslty if your that blind to the real world than get your head out of your ass cause you have no idea what the hell you are talking about and people with depresision are not *freaks* THANKYOU! okayat least 50% of the population have depression and its not something you can control so fuck off
Why is this video in the category 'Comedy'?!?
the1randomlol 5 days ago
i think the song gets to me and im a guy im not suppose to cry, when i was 5 i was sexually abused by my cousin or u could say raped, ever sense then i've been having night mears and i even been cutting the pain just aches!!! the thought of it burns my heart and mind and it prevents me of being in a relationship with someone but watching this video lets some stress and pain away thank you soo much for this
~andrew couillard~
TheAndrewcouillard 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
This video always makes me cry. But it is very powerful.
0skrillex0 2 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
This is such a powerful video. Thank you for creating it! It inspires me continually.
MsUrsulak 2 months ago
Those of you who need someone, check out my youtube or this facebook page facebook.com/pages/Anonymous-Life-Advice/270293856346803
I will always be here, and if its extremely bad will give you my cell to contact me in the middle of night, no one will ever be alone as long as i still breath
Just check it out help me get this around so those who need someone find someone
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AnonymousLifeAdvice 3 months ago
This video reminds me so much of myself.
misslipsticklullaby 4 months ago
ii can now see my life from the outside. these things are what help me understand myself at every aspect, help me solve my problems, and help me to help others. this is an incredible, and moving video. twloha has inspired me to start my own organization. please check out the channel, and spread the love. love is the movement. <3
EBIASC 5 months ago
this is what my life was like with out the drugs and alchool thank you so much i love you !!!!its helped me to see clearly
missunderstud13 5 months ago
i am glad to say, i am a happy person, who got over my depression, and will NEVER scracth myself again. i learned that its not the way i want live my life. its too short and beatiful to waste. so to those still battling. theres hope. even in the darkest hour. find something that makes you happy. indulge in it. activity, a movie that makes you laugh, ur pet or your best friend. if you dont have friends, dont wry there there. find them. Youll feel better. it may not go away, but will help u heal.
Crushedvelvet8484 6 months ago
The song in the background is by Underoath and it's called Desolate Earth...The End is Here
haileyBVB 6 months ago
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I wrote a song about my friend that was cutting called Brea’s song. To see me perform it live copy or type (mason Bellamy Cedarville) in Youtube’s search window (I can’t post a link). THANKS!
~~PLEASE spread the word if you like it (Facebook, Twitter, ECT)! I want hurting kids to know their value and see it!~~ “YOU ARE A DIAMOND YOU’RE NO LONGER COAL”
mysoteria7 6 months ago
To take pain away. Once I left about an scar on my wrist. I always feel ashamed when I do it and working thru it when it happens which is rarely now. But to those of you still battling depression, know you are never alone there is always hope even where it feels like there is none. if anyone tells u ur not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, popular enough, know that they are always wrong and THERE the ones with a problem. There is always a person who thinks ur amazing, you just have t
Crushedvelvet8484 6 months ago
Two years ago I was very depressed. I was bullied everyday at school, told I was fat and ugly. At home I was pushed to do better. Even with friends I felt so alone. I didn't cut myself, had thoughts of it, but I wanted to run away. Some days I begged not to go to school. I found a way to be happy the next year I was shaky but coming back slowly. Today I am a happier person. some days I have things I call sorrow attacks where to take away pain I feel inside I scratch myself with my nail trying
Crushedvelvet8484 6 months ago
@Crushedvelvet8484 i hate the school im going to as soon as i started there a group of people hate me and i started to cute. any advice of how to survive my last year at that school?
xoEmoxLuvxo 6 months ago
@xoEmoxLuvxo cutting yourself is a bad idea. not a good way to deal. dont listen to a single word they say. ask YOURSELF is that true? am i REALLY going to put up with that? tell a trusted adult about them if you decide. If they hate on you for that, say why shouldnt I? i dont want to put up with it. so i did something. THERE the ugly people, Ur a strong,beatitul person. dont let ANYONE tell u diffrent. You have the power of yourself. dont waste it. dont wry it gets better in the end. I promise
Crushedvelvet8484 6 months ago
@Crushedvelvet8484 thank you this really helped me and made me smile for what you said :)
xoEmoxLuvxo 6 months ago
@xoEmoxLuvxo glad i could help. Just focus on good things in your life,Just enjoy it, and savor every experience that comes dont let them get you down, They must be on drugs cuz they have NO IDEA what there talking about. What helped me get through my bullies was my friends lets just say some not very nice comebacks. Or look them in the eye and say I cant believe you just said that. What kind of person are you to say those things? then walk away. Lol sry if its overkill. good mood:) Good Luck :)
Crushedvelvet8484 6 months ago
if anyone knows the artist in the background, tell me!!
ana51315 7 months ago
i need to know the song playing in the backround. i'm in love with it.
ana51315 7 months ago
This story is my life today........ Depression suicide just everything i not once played in my mind i would ever be....... I love the music thats played in this video. But depression is real very real. It will have you doing things you would have never done and or think of doing. Pray for me that i keep my mind on the lord and not look and not look away from him.
skittlerainbow08 7 months ago
This is and will be my story. I hate it. I hate me. I hate my story.
vanillatwilight82 7 months ago in playlist WhateverReplay
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LittleLoisDreamer 7 months ago
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LittleLoisDreamer 7 months ago
what song is this?
BrycetheTiger 8 months ago
Omg this is my story :'( I was sexually assalted by 5 different guys and I may not have cut "Fuck up" into my arms but I did cut "Hated" my whole school saw it and wouldn't stop talking so soon I became addicted to cutting. Seeing this video showed me that I'm not the only one with a similar story and thank yhu <3
AmyBooSM 9 months ago 10
love the video <3
JSwrongchoice64 9 months ago
I got a tattoo of a heart music note and cross just to remind me there's always hope threw, love, music, and faith. Nobody understands what my tattoo means to me. But it will get me threw my senior year without a blade :)
vrock14 9 months ago 2
love this! :D <3 so true (: i cut and put down on maself put ma hair in ma face; felt unwanted bc stupid people but uknow what we r all gifted ; we all feel alone; but we aren't everyone has their flaws; and imperfections; and talents trust me u dnt even know sometime sometimes u just need some1 2 listen 2 u and ur gud so any1 idc who u r talk 2 me 'bout ur issues, wanna help u all ! dnt be afraid; i feel better talking 2 strangers; so maybe u do 2. im not kiddin' hit me up on you tube message.
uniquedaydreamer1996 9 months ago
What song is this?
crayonsNslipknot 10 months ago
Dear Paramour prodigy,
I am in tears,
ive tried this.
You are my hero.
You helped me relize just
two minutes ago,
that there is hope.
You have no idea how importent that is to me.
Thank you SO much.
-Hannah.
HannahMusicLover 10 months ago 14
r.i.p Nathan Cox.
4/5/11 <3 i'll never forget the good times. Caitlin and I cried with Mere all day. You were a son, brother, leader, and your smile could be seen from miles away. If only you could see how much everyone misses you now. <33
ChloeSweetie123 10 months ago
so sad :'(
peawee111 11 months ago
This video is so sad..i almost started crying. Tomarrow at school some ppl are going to write love on each others arms to support it :) I have alreay written it once myself on my hand
TATER957 11 months ago
Open up your Bible... Isaiah 42:6-"I, the Lord, have called you into righteousness. And I will hold your hand."... God is there.. He loves you!
mattiewhitten 11 months ago 4
Hey guys! If you'd like to be featured in the next TWLOHA video, jus' message me, and I'll give you the details! The deadline is April 15. (: thank you.
PhotographsandSummer 11 months ago
i got goose bump at 1:39! :D
blackstar1871 11 months ago
grr i made a stupid mistake last night now i need 13 band aids jus to cover it up :(
Rachelleb94 11 months ago
I am also 12 and have cut since I was maybe 9. It gets really bad to the point where I have to go to the hospital.-|3
MsMusicBaby1000 11 months ago
This is so sad :( i pray for the people who have problems cutting .. If you ever need someone to talk to if you ever feel alone , please feel free to message me .
xJessiPoo 11 months ago
@xJessiPoo i have that problem.... this video made me cry....
TheOnlyImperfectOne 11 months ago
Underoath - Desloate Earth The End Is Here
MissingStrings 1 year ago
the first time i ever heard about this was in my health class.
missQisdabeastiest 1 year ago
@missQisdabeastiest Really? What were yew guys talking about? that lead too talk about TWLOHA♥
blackstar1871 11 months ago
the song is by underoath...
jarono 1 year ago
@jarono what's the name?
ChloeSweetie123 1 year ago
This is so intense. I am 12, and have cut for two years now.
please message,
....help...<3
Emmierox37 1 year ago
@Emmierox37 your still cutting?
ksisavampire16 11 months ago
@ksisavampire16 No, not anymore.(:
Emmierox37 11 months ago
@Emmierox37 thats amazing, keep it up, how long have you been clean for?
ksisavampire16 11 months ago
Does anyone know what song this is????
MLNnsngal 1 year ago
& people ask me why I care so much about this. The reason is. because I care. Rescue is possible.
HiyaaMaxineMelodic 1 year ago 2
What is the song?
magymnast 1 year ago
emotionally... beautiful <3
SuicidalMasterpeice 1 year ago
I cried .. so hard .. saaad as fucking hell .
great job ,, keep it up,& ..
TWLOHA FOREVER .
ProjectSkinniez 1 year ago
Okay, emo is emotional ! Scene is an almost emo ! You have to cut yourself too be emo ! You can't just say you do and not have a single scar from a razor on you ! (;
HelloMyLoove 1 year ago
Complain about how stupid labels are has nothing to do with the whole purpose of the song. Whether you're a 'geek', 'nerd', 'jock', 'prep', or 'emo' has nothing to do with how you cope with pain or stress. Grow up and quit with the hate comments on emos, because they're not the only ones this happens to. Raise awareness in a positive way. Don't be a douche and come on here and leave a comment on how stupid this is because you're a stereotypical prick. Shutup and write love on your arms, a'ight.
WakaFlockaFresh 1 year ago 3
What song is this???
MLNnsngal 1 year ago
Who sings this song???
blackstar1871 1 year ago
@CDUBSTUDENT
I'm sorry yeah but that was totally uncalled for. if you thought about committing suicide why don't you understand? it's fucking hard to stop self harming, trust me I know, I haven't conquered it yet. so you can fuck off and try to understand peoples feelings, becuz tbh what you said really upset me.
CrazyyyMoo1996 1 year ago
Whats the name of the song?
BattyDevin1 1 year ago
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lezHelpPpl 1 year ago
what song is in the background???
justuslovesyou 1 year ago
what song is this?
HeAdBaNgEr3597 1 year ago
This is my life....
unicornbuddys1 1 year ago
@unicornbuddys1 Same here..
SunshineBeMine 1 year ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
sounds kinda emo to me.....suck it up thousands of people around the world have real problems, not me, im not complaining, but some people do. I thought about killing myself all the time in middle school about stupid shit. you know what, life gets much much much better... I love life every day, because life is not middle school and now that im a senior in college I think about how stupid someone would have to be to let emotions ruin all the wonderful, unknown times ahead
CDUBSTUDENT 1 year ago
@CDUBSTUDENT wow your really f***ed up, i can't believe you really would say that about this... your probally like one of thoose people who cause suicide you make me so mad
XComplicatedXMollyX 1 year ago
@XComplicatedXMollyX I meant what I said, life is wonderful. If this video prevents just one person from suicide then I take it all back. I just think that if people in places like Haiti can overcome their giant problems then the average american teen has nothing to complain about. Suicide is a horrible problem, but kids should realize that feelings about life change. Anyone can change their destiny if they are brave enough to face their problems. I apologize if my indelicacies offended you
CDUBSTUDENT 1 year ago
@CDUBSTUDENT Well Every body needs help and things like this help alot... Sometimes people are alone and all they have is like support groups, Friends, And Little things like this
XComplicatedXMollyX 1 year ago
@CDUBSTUDENT Thousands of people around the world do have real problems. And self-harm is one of them. If you really considered suicide, you'd understand what this is really saying. And life doesn't always get better. Sometimes it gets worse. You aren't stupid if you let emotions ruin your times ahead because for most of the people this is trying reach out to, their times ahead aren't so good. Next time you want to say something on a video like this, you need to understand what it really means.
ConverseLover100 1 year ago
just watching this makes me tear-eyed...
weridparamorefreak 1 year ago
Prayer is what Im expecting to come from this problem of suicide. Its beyond what a person can take in alone to understand! i pray in Jesus name that anyone who comes to this page will understand their is forgiveness for any thing that goes wrong in your life even suicide! Not to encourage suicide. But to understand thier is things that happen like this and their is a God of unconditional love who knows about you pain.
dieckk100 1 year ago
@dieckk100 cutting isnt about suicide and not everyone believes in god but i do appreciate the thought
BrokenWings94 1 year ago
You get a 100/10 in this. Really beautiful and shocking. :)
There is hope! <3
GigiTheRockstar 1 year ago
uumm.....these r actually lyrics to a song
lkcullen1918 1 year ago
Hey guys, I posted this video over two years ago & I am actually surprised at the amount of attention it has received. To those who have supported, thank you. To those who were helped/enlightened by the video, I'm glad you got something from it. & To those who have been posting hate & negativity about the video & about those who support it, I kindly ask you to keep your judgments to yourselves.
Thank you. xoxo
TheParamourProdigy 1 year ago 37
@TheParamourProdigy
Heey
what song is used in the backround ?
Kaay .
KawsarAyee 1 year ago
@TheParamourProdigy This is an awesome video! I think it'd be cool to finish it, you know? I mean I know it's done, but to do the rest of the story. :) Good work!
lovestruck90 10 months ago
TWLOHA Is here to help all of you who feel the grasp of self-harm, addictions, depression, etc. This video is not a place to come and trash talk all the people who feel this way, it is a place where hope is made. I hurts me to see people made fun of and looked down upon because they feel pain and unhappiness. some people acually go through a lot of pain, and the people who don't shouldn't be talking.
StarXxBuckx 1 year ago
this hit me hard... TWLOHA is an amazing organization infact they are hero's i know this year has not been the easyest for me and this organization saved my life this vid was amazing <3
robinatorandshannino 1 year ago
what song was that?
Jojoseelye 1 year ago
this video hit me like a tone of bricks every thing that girl went through i did to the men the depression feeling like a fuck up i have over fifty scares tho and i keep making more it is hard i want to stop but i cant all i ask is for one person to care but i have gotten no such answere iam alone and hate myself and my scares but i cant top its an adiction. just like drugs if you have had probs with drugs or drinking then you have felt the same as us "cutters" yet you look down on us wtf!!!!
emogodesscici 1 year ago
You NEVER had the right to judge people who cut themselves. Coz you're not on their shoes! And if you think they're so LOW, think again. They're brave enough to conjure their depression. Not like others who drink, get drunk, do something stupid like SEX! :|
chupermimay 1 year ago
This is a great video helping out a great organization! Loved it! But you people on here talking crap about "cutters" and "emos" need to shut the hell up and go away. No one asked for your opinion and frankly must of the people here DON'T CARE! So go run off and be ignorant somewhere else....
xfallenxnightmarex 1 year ago
this song helpeddd mehh get ovr muhh cutting problemm :)
JoiTandarriaRose 1 year ago
how can people be so screwed up just shows they deserve death
countrymackandchevy 1 year ago
I'm crying :( But I love it. You did so good on this :)
escaper88 1 year ago
What software did you use when creating/editing this?
I love it!
GREST JOB
:D
AwesomeLooroo 1 year ago
i love how the drums got really loud at "FUCK UP" it made it really intense.
KelsoLives 1 year ago 22
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If you like this, please go listen to Cross my Heart by Marianas Trench.
summ3rjammx4 1 year ago
@TheSarahcool269 But how does cutting yourself help you? It doesn't. It leaves you with scars, So stop being a woose with your life and find the joys in it. Not to be rude but it is TRUE. People who cut themselves are just in-secure and are not strong enough to handle it. Well you need to become stronger. And when you said "Let me sit down with you and tell you about my life" PROOF RIGHT THERE, You are just to weak to handle life. You need to learn how to get stronger.(This was not to be mean)
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl It helps because it feels good to bleed.. When you bleed it feels like you've pulled out some negative energy it makes you feel.. clean.. It's a nice feeling but it can also get addictive... The pain of a cut is a lot better then the pains of depression
Kenderra 1 year ago
@Kenderra OH! But.. Its a bad thing because ._. People will be disappointed in you or call you crazy and you will feel bad about yourself for making the choice but the cutting is really hard to just STOP doing
Kenderra 1 year ago
@Kenderra Did you listen to a word I said??
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl Hi. My best friends little sister has been beaten with a hammer. She should just SUCK IT UP. Right? Ever been held to gun point? Watched your father kill himself? Your girlfriend slit her throught? Been molested repeatedly? Watch what you say. KTHX!
DevannNicolee 1 year ago
@DevannNicolee No, You need to man the fuck up.You think your life is horrible, and all you can take it out with is by "cutting yourself" alot of shit has happened in my life too, Do I cut myself? No. Cause you NEVER know what tomarrow will bring, And cutting yourself does NOTHING, I truly think people who cut themselves just have VERY LOW self-esteem and Cannot handle everything. Well you need to grow out of this, This is life. Deal with it. Bitch.
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl Lovely way to retaliate. Profanity will get you no where in life sorry HUNBUN(:
DevannNicolee 1 year ago
@DevannNicolee Oh, I'm sure that Profanity witll get you damn 10x farther in life that being pitty and trying to get everybodys sympathy because "There life is so horrible"
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl you dont know their story, nor mine. so dont judge until you know the facts.
17SavedByGrace 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl People cut themselves, not to get attention, but becuase they feel it's the only thing that they can have control over in their lives! Don't talk about people when you don't know shit.
caribeary92 1 year ago
@caribeary92 I do know "Shit" and you shouId Iook at my previous comments.
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl What I very much cannot tolerate is ignorance. You are a very ignorant person. Why don't you look up depression medically? Cutting is like an escape to people, they feel like they're letting bad stuff out. Don't you dare hate on the people who cut themselves. Don't you dare do that until you have experienced what they have. Everybody is different; their circumstances, how they deal with their problems, and how they escape. Don't hate on them or look down on them.
Scorpygirl11 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 I don't hate them or look down on them. I'm just tired of people going "Omg, I hate my life, Because I caught my boyfriend cheating on me!" or "Nobody likes me!" Well they need to cry a damn river, that just tells you that they have EXTREMELY LOW self-esteem.. Now if its medically, They need to think that EVERYBODY goes through depressino ATLEAST ONE time in there life. There are many people that don't cut themselves, so if you do, (Another Page)
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 It shows that you have an issue, Cutting yourself does NOTHING, I don't care what you think it will do. Because I'm pretty damn sure that deep down you know its doing nothing but scars.. If its absolutly horrible, Talk to family or friends about it, Find a hobbie, get medical attention, Cutting does NOTHING!!!
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl They don't cut because they were cheated on. They cut because of sexual, physical, and mental abuse, and being scarred in their lives. They can't just talk to people. That' s the problem. People will look down on them like you and call them freaks and unreasonable losers. It's emotional, not rational. I know cutting does nothing, but they need to do it in order to escape and release. They can't just "go find a hobby."
Scorpygirl11 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 Did you listen to a single word that I said? If its horrible, Talk to friends or family or something. And yes they can find a hobby.
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl If your friend suddenly came up to you, expressing their secret that they have been cutting and drinking to get rid of the pain, would you flat out say "Stop cutting yourself, it does nothing! Go find a hobby." That just makes things worse.
Scorpygirl11 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 Oh my Gosh.. You really expect me to go
"Don't worry, You can make it , Come on! Try harder!"
What the FUCK?
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl No, I never said that. I simply stated that you do NOT tell a friend on the edge of murder that they should just get to their senses and find a hobby. That would push them to suicide. People like that need to know there are people that are willing to help and support them. If it was that easy to stop people from their addictions, this world would be happier. But it's not. It's an emotional thing, it requires support.
Scorpygirl11 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 Nevermind. I'm done argueing with you. Damnit.
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl They're stuck in an inescapable world of sorrow. The people who are getting sexually abused and afraid for their lives are part of the people who cut themselves. Not for measly little issues. I'm not gonna say "you don't even know my story." I'm a lucky person, not experiencing the worst. I want to stand up for those who have experienced it. You're right saying I don't have these problems. I'm not being conceited when I'm trying to express what I believe in.
Scorpygirl11 1 year ago
Also, THAT'S THE POINT OF THIS VIDEO. It's to get clinically depressed people to talk. OBVIOUSLY cutting is bad, that's what the video is about, but you also have to understand then someone is in that much emotional pain, cutting is the most rational thing to do in their eyes. Why? CUZ IT RELIEVES THE PAIN BY RELEASING ENDORPHINS. If getting better was as easy as "finding a hobby" EVERYONE would be happy. Stop pretending to be superior because you obviously lack the wit and mentality for it.
darkprincess1012 1 year ago
@Scorpygirl11 There are people that are getting molested every day, or are afraid to go to sleep at night wondering if they will see the next day, So don't you DARE say "You don't even know my story" Im fucking sure you don't have these problems. So stop being so conceited.
lxCowGoMooxl 1 year ago
@lxCowGoMooxl It's people like you, that's why we need videos like this. It's people like you who keep others from talking, from sharing. It's prententious, ignorant, sheltered people like you. Maybe you've had it good all your life; then you don't know what it's like to be in pain. Maybe you haven't had it good: then you should have empathy for people who are clinically depressed. Cutting releases ENDORPHINES which is a chemical opposition to pain.
darkprincess1012 1 year ago
this is so touching..
it's amazing what TWLOHA is doing. <3
jadeybabyYEAH 1 year ago
@blackstar1871 the song called the end is here from underoath (:
OcaColaQuaaak 1 year ago
OMG im breathles!!! i wanna help so bad!!!! PLEASE what can i do to help!!!!!!!
P.S What is this song called?!?!?!
blackstar1871 1 year ago
Wow. I have really never met anyone that was like me. All the stories of pain and such. My bestfriend committed suicide when I was in eighth grade and I cutt because I felt it was my fault in a way. But then I stopped and I haven't cutt for about two years. I feel like I'm much happier now and I know that every one has the strength to stop because it takes so much strength to go through all that pain but most of you haven't realized that yet. It gets better once you stop.
FearLessFigureSkater 1 year ago
i knew all about pain belive me
britney100blackqut 1 year ago
what song is that?
TheOmar2906 1 year ago
wow... this is pretty brutal... TWLOHA = <3...
freetoflyy 1 year ago
Wow powerful video.. I hvnt cut for about a month and a half. I started in 7th n continued till 9th
nerdtotherainbow1 1 year ago
I lost my girlfriend to suicide on March 8,2008. I have cut since 3rd grade for ALOT of reasons.I dated that girl in 8th grade for a year... I stopped cutting 3 weeks ago and counting :)) I love you Lexi...I always will
OrelinaOrgasm 1 year ago
Damn....that shit is for real...
VASILISA17 1 year ago
That gave me goosebumps.
notYOURshortie 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
The song is To Whom It May Concern by Underoath.
(:
dreafea12 1 year ago
this is serious and heart-touching.
COCOLATE135 1 year ago
i was this girl, untill 2 months ago... fucked up... since i was 2... i never found help.. still not sure if i have found it...
NiiNaBoBiiNa 1 year ago
@NiiNaBoBiiNa i dont beleive in help... theres nothing out there... im pretty sure tonight will be my last...
FlyingAllMyCars 1 year ago
@FlyingAllMyCars lets make a deal.. the day yew give upp and die...ii give upp && die too... deal?
NiiNaBoBiiNa 1 year ago
Wow. Deep and serious, not to be messed with, deep shit.
babygrl961 1 year ago
i want them to ocme to nz..
GirlOfTemperance 1 year ago
@GirlOfTemperance They were here last year for Parachute '09 but unfortunately weren't there this year :(
xASAAPx 1 year ago
I couldn't catch my breath during this. amazing, truthful, - very good images of how i often feel. and a then a beautiful reminder that there is hope.
ta2dangel 1 year ago
powerful video.
amyymac23 1 year ago
what song is this???
AnimeLover1230 1 year ago
@AnimeLover1230 underoath
emonerdrock1 1 year ago
@emonerdrock1 lol thats what i thought
AnimeLover1230 1 year ago
what song is this????
AnimeLover1230 1 year ago
@AnimeLover1230
GOD DAAMMMIT !
Ive beeen askin for agee's .
KawsarAyee 1 year ago
what song is that?
wtfmlena614 1 year ago
@wtfmlena614 underoath
emonerdrock1 1 year ago
More than half the people in my school cut, and people find out and tell people who tell more people and then they are labled emo. Which never helps them stop cutting, I can honestly say I use to, it's tough feeling like every ones against you and no one will ever understand. I made my first cut when I was 6 years old, I started again in 6th grade and stop after 7th grade in the summer.
JustThoseKrazyTeens 1 year ago
wow.. this is deep. i went through that stuff with my sister. were the same age but not twins and we go through everything pretty much together.
shatteredfromhim 1 year ago
erm its not to help "emo-ish people" ok? suffering of depression, addiction, suicide, etc,. is something many people go through and "emo" is moreof a style they are so depressed that they take so f-ing longin the bathroom just to do the hair and everything, actual depressed people dont really care how they look, my mom suffered depression and of suicidal thoughts when she was getting beaten by my dad. The point of this video is about twloha!
i luvd the video very deep :D
xXvoodoo4uXx 1 year ago 32
Wow . this is very powerful
i love it ,
<3
xtarynalbertx 1 year ago
This is deep my nigguh .
yungspin 1 year ago
this vid makes me really sob. like a choking sob. i watched my bff commit suicide, and i was the one to bury her. Can u imagine burying ur best friend?!? So all u " people who cut are emo" really need to get out from that hole, and open ur eyes. this stuff happens everyday. it could happen to u or someone u know and love. I SUPPORT TWLOHA ALL THE WAY. RIP Jamie. We all miss u. We'll see u someday. :(
Musiclover11697 1 year ago
This made me cry :[
Chelsie130000 1 year ago
@itskayla. AMEN!!!!!!!!
cbsixxgirrr 1 year ago
this is cool, yet sad, but its very emo-ish too. then again, thats the point, isnt? to help so-called 'emos' 2 stop and get help...
ErinBates99 2 years ago
your calling them emos??!!!?? wow that will surely help ppl who struggle with this >_>
lilyallen21 1 year ago
wow ignorant much? not all emos cut, and not all cutters are emo. and emo is a bogus label anyway. quit the labeling
itskayIa 1 year ago 29
@itskayIa i agree we shouldnt label but its kinda what humans do we cant help it... and if your Emo and dont cut yourself i think its considered as scene
XComplicatedXMollyX 1 year ago
all i can say is wow. this is so powerful
♥
stickynotes889 2 years ago
ASHLY!!! ="( this so makes me think of her
popcornwuver 2 years ago
O my gosh, this video is amazing. Like really it made me cry. I remeber last year when i cut. I was so depressed. People who havent felt depression are so lucky. Imagine feeling nausious every second of your life and when you are about to vomit, you just fall on the ground crying your eyes out. Crawling to your room to go cut yourself. But they're are people in this world who love you. People who will cry if you leave forever. They're are people who you can count on. Be brave and look
razerdle 2 years ago 2
I remember the times where I was cutting. I'm so happy I stopped. When your that upset with yourself, and depressed, you don't realize how much you hurt the people around you. This video almost made me cry.
JessicaAnnGates 2 years ago 2
The song in the video is Underoath's Desolate Earth :: The End is Near from their album Lost in the Sound of Separation. Arron, their drummer/vocalist is involved with promoting TWLOHA. That's probably why they chose the song.
jondowd11 2 years ago
how lamee!!
cutting is not for attention if it was for attention why thee hell would people hide them under braclets, long sleeves?
vrock14 2 years ago 2
@vrock14 exactly
pipmorri 2 years ago
What song is this?
enigma0526 2 years ago
What's the song at the end?
luvmyMCR4evaxx 2 years ago
ahh
05ayn29 2 years ago
it is true that a lot of people just cut for attention.
but some people actually have issues and face depression.
its very easy to tell them apart.
shadesofmellow 2 years ago
@shadesofmellow that is very true i know cutters who do it cause sexual asult there parents but then theres those people who just wanty attention either way it's not funny...
xScenegirlwillrockux 2 years ago
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Miguelhp89 2 years ago
your a fucking ass hole if you honeslty think that people that have depression and that are emo are looking for attention sing as how they are both medical conditions okay grow up and open your eyes okay, like really look both of those things up and you will see that it is a medical condition,like really!!!!!!!! like really if aa friend did come up to you saying that they cant take life and theyr going to kill themself would you call them a freak and walk away like really? or would u help them??
lindsx2010xxx 2 years ago
LeaHavoc- i agree with you
and
8x26x08 what the hell is wrong with you honeslty do you have any idea what the fuck you are talking about depression is a medical condition honeslty if your that blind to the real world than get your head out of your ass cause you have no idea what the hell you are talking about and people with depresision are not *freaks* THANKYOU! okayat least 50% of the population have depression and its not something you can control so fuck off
lindsx2010xxx 2 years ago