Chronicles of a "Nappy Headed" Professional (I'm So Stupid)

[aliseimbeautiful]

im a psychology major as well and hope to be able to get my ph.d as well one day!

[aliseimbeautiful]

this really hits home! i viewed this video at the right time. not to pour my whole story out but i was struggling in school and recently finally was able to get a 3.5 last semester and 3.6 this one. i ignored all the thoughts that i wasnt smart and just completed each task to the best of my ability, came to class actually ready to learn and studied when needed. i realized i was never lacking in intelligence and its amazing how much that alone boosted my self esteem. you are such motivation!

[sweetnectar83]

THANK YOU MY SISTA!!! THANK YOU!!! THAT'S HOW I AM FEELING RIGHT NOW AND I'M GOING TO WORK ON ME AS AN INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE RIGHT NOW I FEEL LOST!!! PLEASE CONTINUE TO MAKE THESE MOTIVATING VIDEOS!!!

[sdsdoe]

You are a God-send. As I hear you speak (teas flow) and I can feel His anointing in my spirit. Thank you so much for giving me the "push" I needed to press forward in so many aspects of my life. 

[German6k1957]

You are awesome!

[hoopzsquared]

Would you please go over study tips? I am having problems with studying? can you please go over what helped you?

[TheDawnmirage]

@hoopzsquared I been trying to ask her the same thing for the longest time : (

[BcuzIcan02]

Thank YOU ~

[prettycarmencurls]

You are so Wonderful,

THANK YOU !!

[Mishawn8908]

Thank You so much for making this video, honestly I needed to hear this. I am a 22yr old psychology major. I am aspiring to become a doctoral level psychologist. I was going to college for the pass two years and some sem's I wouldn't do to bad, others weren't so good. My financial aid was not granted to me this comming semester. So I was feeling down, hopless, I felt as though I was being left behind. This has opend my eyes to see that this is just a temp. and that I can still persue my dream

[LoveLocsLectionary]

Preach it Sister!

[ama00010]

I loved the intro, I don't mind watching it a few more times.

[vsimmons6130]

weight loss, hair, motivational speaker. you are on point. my take from this is to stop making excuses about why we cannot reach out goals.

[anisia02]

Next video please ..

[cheryledinbyrd]

You better SPEAK! May the Lord continue to strengthen you and enlarge your territory!

[Jesuskee]

Can you talk about how to pay for school?

[Brena1971]

Thank you so much for sharing and being transparent!!! It has helped me and know that it will continue. Know that your words are not falling on deaf ears!

[chineyeye88]

Thank you so much for sharing! You've been my inspiration since I saw your weight maintenance video earlier this May when you were rocking that Gold eyeshadow (LOL). I'm proud to say I lost 10 lbs. & I've been keeping it off because of you & your determination to actually live. Thank you for being you & for putting up these videos, because you're changing lives & already doing what you set out to do. - Alyssa

[1908prettylawyer]

"cultivate & encrouage"...YAAAASSS, Soror!!! Say that!!! :-)

[lifeshortsostandtall]

OOOOoo your experiences r inspiring. Thanks for sharing. :)

[Dawn74100]

Thank you for real talk I can respect you even more for this. I feel the same way in what you are saying again thank you:)

[NylaBeauty]

I agree with you completely!! Presentation is EVERYTHING...Its not vanity...its the truth. How you speak, dress, present a project, present your meals, show your home, keep your car...and the many things we do says alot about you. I always tell other this and live it myself...especially if you a Christian person.

[MsTruth09]

THIS is why I love your videos. You are so real and so inspirational. I thank you for that. 

[NaturallyinLove]

i just want to thank you for being transparent and sharing your personal steps even through struggles to where you are now....this past weekend of me doing my class assignments every feeling you described i felt thank you so much for the encouraging words....Great Inspiration :) This is how you encourage the ppl to LIVE

[DivinelyUnique]

You got deep in this vid! Go ahead on! PReach! On the realness!

[SYDNE1216]

Oh my goodness you just don't know what you just did for me! I needed to hear this at this very moment. You are the next Oprah for sure! I love you. Keep doing it big. Thank you!

[shanzie81]

I needed this soooo much. Thank you :)

[Alexsh2010]

fellow young black girl (who is also natural) such as myself feel like there is hope for a person like me to make it and be successful in the professional world regardless of the stereotypes. You really don't know how badly I needed to hear this. Thank you so much BBBD!

[Alexsh2010]

college kicked my butt the first semester and tore up my GPA. I worked my butt off the next semester but it didn't improve my GPA enough so now I am deciding to change my major to Physical Therapy. I am so ready to give it my all this year and become a successful professional like you (when I'm done with college and get my masters or higher)! I know race shouldn't matter but it is really is encouraging to see a black female who is also natural that can speak about stuff like this and make a

[Alexsh2010]

This video is a breath of fresh air for me because I can relate to a lot of the stuff you said. Lately I have kind have been discouraged because my grades in college weren't high enough for me to stay in this nursing program we have here and I've only been in college for a year so I feel like I wasn't given a chance to show what I'm made of. And like you were saying how you were a smart girl in HS and took AP and Honors class and were basically getting by, it was the exact same way for me but

[w104tch]

Thank you Doctor I needed to hear this so bad, im on the verge to give up and quit college and you are so motivating thank you

[MsBlueGemini]

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol I find myself coming to your videos when I need a good talking to. It's so easy for me to get lazy and lose my focus. Thanks for sharing these videos with us!

[OmoItsekiri]

@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol Thank you Dr Harvey, I'm glad I'm learning from your experiences instead of mine lol, xox

[LeiLeiboo10]

This video means a lot to me. I completed 107 hours at LSU, but I haven't finished. I want my degree with everything in my but I don't feel as if my level of knowledge is equivalent to those around me. I feel as if I have failed bc I have watched all of friends that graduated high school with honors as I did succeed and obtain multiple degrees and I haven't gotten one. I am just praying for guidance. Thank you for the encouraging words.

[uniquebonkers]

i love ur intro!!

[iluveyeshadows]

THANKS!!!!

[MsJdeli]

Do not lose heart. Though OUTWARDLY you are we are WASTING AWAYyet INWARDLY we are being RENEWED DAY BY DAY. For our light and momentary troubles are acheiveing for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all I Cointhians 4:16-17

[wagechi29]

wow! you are such an inspiration!!!!!

[NaturallyHapE]

Good word!!



[absentminded20]

I thank God above for your constant encouragement for everyone to always strive to become better in our lives..

[nakesha75]

YOU ARE SO INSPIRATIONAL!!!

[HappitoRelax]

AMEN, AMEN, AMEN! 

[vivacious1083]

Great video! I luv how encouraging and inspirational your videos always are.

[kymkym121]

I really enjoy every aspect of your videos. Some youtubers just be doin to much and they end up spreading themselves thin, but not you. I like the part in the intro wher you go "on a quest for...amazing" I always sing along with that part. Thank you for being so transparent. I felt bad because my GPA was horribly low my freshman year, the fact that yours was lower than mine and you now have a PhD encourages me. Keep doing what your doing because its helping me if no one else.

[CharminglyPink]

I love your videos! You always inspire and motivate me to do better. Whenever I want to give up or feel sick of not being successful. You always put a video up and I feel like you are talking directly to me. Thank you so much and keep on allowing God to use you to bless us.

[bmw0688]

Oh my goodness- what a blessing to have stumbled upon this video! "It seems like everyone around you is succeeding and you're standing still." You took the words out of my mouth and vocalized my most unspeakable fear :/ This is definitely the inspiration I needed, as a master's student preparing for GREs and applications to doctoral programs. Thanks so much for sharing- it not only validated that I'm not crazy as well as provided great tips. I say stay blessed because I know you are blessed!

[urumor]

Girl u are preaching lol

[Jazzmon2009]

I LOVE YOUR HONESTY!!!!!

[ladymills]

Hi BBBDol, after u rec'vd ur doctorate degree, became successful in ur profession, and lost weight beyond ur goal, did u feel fulfilled in ur life? Is ur life complete now and devoid of all voids? I was also wondering if once a person makes it to the "top" what's next? Or once u meet ur goal what's next? What r ur thoughts and experiences in regards to these statements?

[QueenChezabelle]

Yep I am loving this series :) love you message and your honesty! Really looking foward to more videos.

[DECOART1]

Me...I am your biggest fan...lol...it seems that you have many #1 fan's and I am pleased to be in included. You are awesome...as always. Looking forward to the next installment.

[anisia02]

nina nina nina I PROMISE U I AM YOUR BIGGEST FAN!!! i just love u girl and whats so amazing is that your story mirrors so closely to mine...i have felt like that before when i had no reason to i just needed to believe in myself come out of my shell and let my true self shine through....much love Nisi

[ambriverson]

You are truly a big inspiration and motivation in my life. As an African Amercian woman who is also natural and looking to lose 100lbs, you drew me into your videos. As a college student trying to graduate, I have been dealing with failures and obstacles. These Chronicles are phenomenal and much needed in my life. You are a phenomenal Woman and God Bless You!

[taeboamped]

wow...you are just amazing!! I love how you acknoledge that you are not perfect and how you kept pushing forward regardless of all the obstacles....you stuck through your weight loss journey..stuck with your natural hair journey and now have the title 'Dr." in front of your name...sucess at its finest! you are proof that anything can be done :) you are trully an inspiration.

[Queenshaw07]

Dr. Nina Ellis-Hervey you are bad to the bone...girl you better walk into your calling!!!!! God Bless you....im sooo loving this new series!! The passion you have behind your story is touching soo many lives...this is only the beginning

[ZPYT86]

Thank you....i really needed this

[TheShonta21]

Thank God so much for you! Your honesty and motivation really is needed!

[msebele]

This is wonderful!

[mscalmdelight]

Thank you for posting this. When I was going to graduate school for my Master's degree in social work, I often felt STUPID. I felt that I could not measure up to the other students. However, I did receive my Masters in social work. This video help me realize that others think like that too. Thank you. Your videos are really making a positive impact on others.

[YOUniquelycreated]

Another awesome video! Keep them coming!

[662PlusSizeQueen]

THIS IS DEFINITELY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR!! THANK YOU SOOO MUCH <3

[Krytikalmass]

Well said Sister.

Hotep!

Subscribed!

[ele38ful]

Thank you, Nina!

[candacereneejones]

Thank you!!! Wow.....amazing! How does one create that value?

[AtlantaAngel84]

I can relate. Students are not taught in elementary or high school how to study so when we get to college its like whoa! a culture shock. Thank you for sharing your experiences, they are very inspiring!

[thelovely80]

Yet another home hitter, an Angel sent by God...Thanks Dr. Hervey... :0)

just can't wait for the next one applying all the knowledge you apply on expressing you life with viewer likes myself

[CoCMember]

Thanks for all you do!

[kriskahn21]

I can't wait for your next video! I didn't realize how hungry I was for inspiration. Thank you!

[nbilladeau]

girl having smarts with no esteem is rough because we end up cheating ourselves with lack of self love therefore lack of self motivation and pushing ourselves to the next level thats why a lot of smart and internally beautiful ppl stay on one level n never go higher.

[quitejaded]

P.S. Yes, I posted this video on my blog and facebook :)

[quitejaded]

I am looking at the comments and its so funny. The feeling of "I'm the dumbest person here" is a lonely feeling. You don't think ANYONE ELSE is feeling it. Its so funny to read the comments and see all these other girls who felt exactly how I felt and also the fact that you are now a doctor who went through what i went through. I'm sure you feel so fulfilled that you are helping people realize their potential. Thank you again and everyone else, go for the gold!!

[godsflame2]

Wow I really LOVED this video. So inspiring and thanks for being transparent on how you became successful. Whenever the question is asked to people who have become successful, how they did it etc... It's always the same answer. YOu have to see your self there, you have to make the dream concrete and then focus on making it a reality. And on the feeling stupid part? Yes Maam its SO true, and it shows up at every new level. great I will stay tuned for the follow up vid!

[quitejaded]

Thank u for being so real! This is what I needed to hear and I wish someone said this to me when I was younger!!!!

[ab82510]

Girl you had me get up out of the bed to get my laptop because I did not want to watch on my phone... You and your strong, positive words get my FULL attention. Keep up the positive work. I love that you are using this forum like a classroom! I know you are going to be a WONDERFUL professor! Much love and blessings!!!

[MTLady11]

I'm so glad you spoke about this today. I've been feeling like this for quite a while. I'm grateful for your words. Thanks : )

[nina24D]

why would anyone dislike an uplifting positive video....... anyways thank you thank you I needed to hear this. I am looking forward to more videos to come

[avarochelle]

Thank you for sharing your story with us....You've said things that I've also felt, but was afraid to say such as feeling stupid at times compared to my other counterparts...You're very positive & I enjoy watching your videos. The serve a great purpose!!!!!

[VirtousDiva35]

you are a true inspiration!

[VirtousDiva35]

luv it thanks, this is real talk!thank you for sharing, may God continue to bless you!

[sexxxyeye34]

Love it!

[naturalblackcocoa]

Keep it up. I love to see this part of you. I'm in college right now and struggling with some of the things you talk about. sometimes its hard not to feel inferior or I'm the "black" girl, life and be quite intemidating at times, but I just tell myself that these people are no better than me; they have to learn just like i. But any how thank you for sharing your exipierences. It feels good to know that others have shared my pain and got through it. God bless

[thecreativelady]

This is such a universal message and will help many people.

[genieinabottle42]

wow, this vid is so inspiring. You hit it on the nose love. God bless and thank you!

[Msnaturallyliving]

All I can say is thank you. You are an inspiration and it is truly a relief to know that others have or are feeling the way I do when it comes to school work. I will definitely remember your advice when I start to doubt myself again. Thank you again and I wish you much success.

[SuperPhdiva]

Dr. Ellis-Hervey, I am going through the same thing right now. I am even in the same field as you.

[zheahra]

You're brilliant!!! Glad I found your channel. Bigger and better things to come.

[naturallymesmooches]

Woowwww! I love the intro. Definitely gotta look back for the first chronicle. Very interested to your future ones as well. Great vid!!!!

[ZoeyZoBaby]

btw can we get it to download... that would be a nice ringtone for my phone

[ChooChoogirlelle]

Thanks

[ZoeyZoBaby]

frequent viewer or not girl im loving that intro in every video !!

[spiritualprincess1]

I have to say what you're doing is so powerful. Being a young black woman myself, I feel that there are not enough professionals that we can look up to. I was so discouraged about school and improving myself professionally until I had a push from my husband. But its not the same as having a role model that has done it before you to give you the occasional "you can do it speech. Thanks again for doing this series.

[wallotri]

Thank you.

[87imastar]

I'm glad U made this video. I can very much relate 2 feeling beneath others in grade school & college. U really do have 2 look @ the bigger picture & focus on you. Just because some1 is better @ something does & Will Never make them better than u. It took me yrs to learn that. As long as you're trying 2 better yourself don't ever feel stupid.

[QRuTHieB]

WOWWWWW I feel like im listening to myself speak looking at this video. I too ended with a horrible GPA, had a baby after my sohphmore year, but still graduated with my degree. I am now doing Post-Bacc work before heading to Ga Tech and then Medical school. CONTINUE TO SPEAK LIFE!!!!!!

[TheGrannys2]

You have such a beautiful story to tell. It sounds like a book in the making. Keep going!!! I believe there are a lot of us pushing you from behind.

God bless,

Granny

[rosebug27]

keep em' coming. this is awesome!

[eclecticbuni]

ms.nina i am going through the same thing you went through with college right now. i ended my freshman year with a 1.2 gpa. i feel so stupid sometimes. especially being someone who is used to getting A's easily. Now i find out during the summer that they've taken away half of my financial aid. So im transferring to a new school in the fall. but it was a humbling experience

[intjurban]

You have shared so much here, awesome lady! That video response button should have a select that reads "Incredible"!

[loveaneater]

Nina, you do not know how much you are speaking to my life right now. I feel like you are the friend I never had. Thank you so much Nina, thank you.

[kahleentenshi]

Dr. Ellis-Hervey, thanks for being honest, sharing your experience, and inspiring us. Because you didn't have to take time out of your day to motivate, but you do. I appreciate you so much for what you do!

[NaturalBeauty4Real]

You are absolutely RIGHT ON!!!! Hopefully I'll get to meet you on tomorrow! Keep on keeping it 100!!!

[DreamAngel48]

could you give some tips on how you learned to study?



[justamember2]

You are a wonderful speaker.

[konchetta30]

Thank you for aspiring to go to the next level

[jasminekh121]

first yayyy