Its okay. A comment can turn into a rant its cool no worries :] and I didnt notice the green paper thing until now...I really don't know what to say to your comment/rant though. Except that a lot of things have changed since I made this video, and I agree with a couple things you said, I guess.
As i said, it's all circumstantial whether one should abort, keep the baby, or give it up for adoption. I personally would find the bastard and give him my own personal kind of... "vasectomy"... Illegal as my own kind is. Than again, I'm in my BSCJA to put guys like that behind bars. Mmm Forensics ♥... Truly personal note~ All children should know who their parents are. Whether adopted, naturally conceived or conceived through Artificial insemination. Sorry for the rant! ^^;;
Situation call for it, but other than that no need. Situation being monetary purposes, certain elements around the house being unsuitable for raising a child, etc. Also, I agree with your post toward AuSchwaster, guys who stick to the "men don't want pre-made families" are nothing but ignorant thick headed cretins. You can't call guys who avoid relationships because of "pre-made families" men. As the saying goes~ "Any guy can be a father, it takes a MAN to be DAD." (Cont... Again...)
In my personal opinion, I'm against teen parenting. If it happens, it happens. If it causes exponential medical conditions (such as near death/possible death e.g. my own mother was near) then it's a possibility for abortion. I don't support abortion without probable cause such as I just stated. Something in your case, I do view as probable cause (I'm not saying that to be an ass) but I wouldn't have a child aborted just cause of that. I would give a child up for adoption should the (cont...)
I think that kids having kids is not ok. But like many things this serious there are very valid reasons to have a child and to still be a child; rape, incest and crap like that
I would keep it If I were pregnant. I am against abortion.And I'm 17 too. My parents would be mad if I kept the baby. Its part of you and the father. Thats the way I see it.
A general opinion of all teen parents would be difficult. Some teens are irresponsible, and are not able to stay not-pregnant, let alone correctly raise a child. Some teens, like yourself, are raped, and i can't really form an opinion about the so easily.
If she decided to keep the baby like you, i would need to know more about you, and how you raise children.
if they decided to get an abortion, i would also respect that choice, due to the means of conception.... continued in my next comment-
- especially because we don't know the details or what it was like for HER.
But if(like it seems many teens these days do) she decides to have sex, use a condom, use the pill, but don't use abortion as plan A. Most teens should not willingly have children and raise them as teens. Their ability to be parents, and the environment for a child raised like that may not be as good as possible.
In your case Desi, the child was not your choice, and id have 2 know u to make judgments about ur decision
maybe you will be a great mother. Anyway, its a little late to change you mind now. I just don't think you want to be thumbing your nose to any girl who makes the responsible decision to have an abortion.
Don't let the so called "pro life" people turn you into a poster girl.
They'd support your decision not to abort even if you let the kid starve to death.. (They are morons)
nah rather so people like you who actually find the time to say nasty shit to people. why can't you just pass a video like this instead of wanting to cause shit. noone is turning anyone into a poster girl. she is brave to tell her story and her main question was about teen pregnancy. and about supporting people to starve to death don't be a dumbass. there is always help out there to those who are truely in need of it. it's people like u who make people think they have no other options.
Listen chickydumb! The only reason I feel I need to troll abortion videos at all (everybody is entitled to their opinion) is because of the masses of faithtarded morons like yourself who think you are on a mission from god to convince the entire world abortion must be stopped. Go fuck yourself (it will prevent a pregnancy)
like i said, you dont need to be a dick about it and assume stuff you have no idea about. i support my child just fine, im not like all these girls out there having babies when they cant take care of them, and im against abortion unless it concerns the mothers health ugh i honestly feel like hitting you right now, im sorry
and im a good mom i have a job and a place to live and my babys healthy and thats what matters you dont need to be a dick about it just because you think everyones the same, i dont need money i dont need anything except a coffee this video starts off with me saying something about the last video i made and then i ask my question but as i was asking it i started to remember what happened to me so i shared it you dont know me so idk why you think im such a bad person
i agree with you they need to start teaching kids about sex at an early age because the average age for a girl to lose her virginity now is like 13 or 14 and they need to teach girls about abusive relationships and awareness about that stuff. i wish i wouldnt have let my fears control me so i would have gotten help sooner. but im happy my baby was born healthy and full term and hes perfect in everyway thank goodness for that =] im sorry you feel sad about giving up your baby =[ *hugs*
time has passed now and you are much stronger and wiser now but kudos to you for having the courage to make such a video i hope more people respond but positively cause you will get some idiots like the one posting on here trying to break you down but just ignore them they will go away in the end. i am sure you are a great mum and i know anyone can be a great mum it just takes hard work and determination.
thank you hun. x
keep on doing what your doing and let noone judge you on anything. x
well first off my hats off to you for making the bravest decision of your life and keeping your baby. Throughout a hard situation you have come through. Teen pregnancy in a normal situation eg boy and girl have sex with no condom needs to stop. use of protection needs to be enforced to children at a younger age as sex is now happening to those at such a young age. Abortion may seem like an easy option but i have felt the effects of an abortion and you always wonder what your baby is like now...
what do you mean you hope the baby isnt ruined? and i was raped after school by my ex boyfriend and i couldnt go to the police cause i would have been arrested for something else i did in the past your comment sounded mean, ass.
Not for me to judge you but you don't forget you are the girl who chose to chose to air your dirty laundry and use your 'rape' to push your opinions on abortion.
"what do you mean you hope the baby isn't ruined?" Aborted fetuses don't become a burden to society. What kind of life can you give the kid? Love don't pay the rent. Also men often do not want to get into permanent relationships with girls with pre-made families so you may have to compromise. Tha'ts no good for the kid either
what an asshole. people can go with anyone they chose to do so and most men are idiots but i know that there are some good ones out there. don't try and make her feel like she now has no proper chance at finding a life partner. your just a dumbass. you may think abortion is the end all solution but it isn't what a dumbshit. if she was raped and she chose to say it, it was her decision to do so and when you say it is bullshit u can go and fuck yourself.
okay ass i can give my child a great life and i am and i have found someone who doesnt care that the baby isnt his and he loves me just the same, your just an ignorant thick headed asshole. you think everyones the same, their not.
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hayiakkd78 1 year ago
That was an amazing story!
7thgradesux 1 year ago
Its okay. A comment can turn into a rant its cool no worries :] and I didnt notice the green paper thing until now...I really don't know what to say to your comment/rant though. Except that a lot of things have changed since I made this video, and I agree with a couple things you said, I guess.
DesiRadioactive 1 year ago
On a completely digressing note~ that green paper thing makes me think of The Sims =.=
Gokan1690 1 year ago
As i said, it's all circumstantial whether one should abort, keep the baby, or give it up for adoption. I personally would find the bastard and give him my own personal kind of... "vasectomy"... Illegal as my own kind is. Than again, I'm in my BSCJA to put guys like that behind bars. Mmm Forensics ♥... Truly personal note~ All children should know who their parents are. Whether adopted, naturally conceived or conceived through Artificial insemination. Sorry for the rant! ^^;;
Gokan1690 1 year ago
Situation call for it, but other than that no need. Situation being monetary purposes, certain elements around the house being unsuitable for raising a child, etc. Also, I agree with your post toward AuSchwaster, guys who stick to the "men don't want pre-made families" are nothing but ignorant thick headed cretins. You can't call guys who avoid relationships because of "pre-made families" men. As the saying goes~ "Any guy can be a father, it takes a MAN to be DAD." (Cont... Again...)
Gokan1690 1 year ago
In my personal opinion, I'm against teen parenting. If it happens, it happens. If it causes exponential medical conditions (such as near death/possible death e.g. my own mother was near) then it's a possibility for abortion. I don't support abortion without probable cause such as I just stated. Something in your case, I do view as probable cause (I'm not saying that to be an ass) but I wouldn't have a child aborted just cause of that. I would give a child up for adoption should the (cont...)
Gokan1690 1 year ago
I think that kids having kids is not ok. But like many things this serious there are very valid reasons to have a child and to still be a child; rape, incest and crap like that
ellie9595 2 years ago
I would keep it If I were pregnant. I am against abortion.And I'm 17 too. My parents would be mad if I kept the baby. Its part of you and the father. Thats the way I see it.
shortii12341 2 years ago
A general opinion of all teen parents would be difficult. Some teens are irresponsible, and are not able to stay not-pregnant, let alone correctly raise a child. Some teens, like yourself, are raped, and i can't really form an opinion about the so easily.
If she decided to keep the baby like you, i would need to know more about you, and how you raise children.
if they decided to get an abortion, i would also respect that choice, due to the means of conception.... continued in my next comment-
TheNewTheCraze4Ever 2 years ago
- especially because we don't know the details or what it was like for HER.
But if(like it seems many teens these days do) she decides to have sex, use a condom, use the pill, but don't use abortion as plan A. Most teens should not willingly have children and raise them as teens. Their ability to be parents, and the environment for a child raised like that may not be as good as possible.
In your case Desi, the child was not your choice, and id have 2 know u to make judgments about ur decision
TheNewTheCraze4Ever 2 years ago
maybe you will be a great mother. Anyway, its a little late to change you mind now. I just don't think you want to be thumbing your nose to any girl who makes the responsible decision to have an abortion.
Don't let the so called "pro life" people turn you into a poster girl.
They'd support your decision not to abort even if you let the kid starve to death.. (They are morons)
AuShawster 2 years ago
nah rather so people like you who actually find the time to say nasty shit to people. why can't you just pass a video like this instead of wanting to cause shit. noone is turning anyone into a poster girl. she is brave to tell her story and her main question was about teen pregnancy. and about supporting people to starve to death don't be a dumbass. there is always help out there to those who are truely in need of it. it's people like u who make people think they have no other options.
chickydum 2 years ago
Listen chickydumb! The only reason I feel I need to troll abortion videos at all (everybody is entitled to their opinion) is because of the masses of faithtarded morons like yourself who think you are on a mission from god to convince the entire world abortion must be stopped. Go fuck yourself (it will prevent a pregnancy)
AuShawster 2 years ago
like i said, you dont need to be a dick about it and assume stuff you have no idea about. i support my child just fine, im not like all these girls out there having babies when they cant take care of them, and im against abortion unless it concerns the mothers health ugh i honestly feel like hitting you right now, im sorry
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
"i honestly feel like hitting you right now, "
Don't be sorry, I have my doubts you would do much damage and if you think it would accomplish anything..what the hell..
As far as the kind of life a teen parent can give a child ...you have my blessings to prove me wrong.
AuShawster 2 years ago
and im a good mom i have a job and a place to live and my babys healthy and thats what matters you dont need to be a dick about it just because you think everyones the same, i dont need money i dont need anything except a coffee this video starts off with me saying something about the last video i made and then i ask my question but as i was asking it i started to remember what happened to me so i shared it you dont know me so idk why you think im such a bad person
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
this video wasnt started out to be about rape it was just a question "whats your opinion about teen parents?"
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
i agree with you they need to start teaching kids about sex at an early age because the average age for a girl to lose her virginity now is like 13 or 14 and they need to teach girls about abusive relationships and awareness about that stuff. i wish i wouldnt have let my fears control me so i would have gotten help sooner. but im happy my baby was born healthy and full term and hes perfect in everyway thank goodness for that =] im sorry you feel sad about giving up your baby =[ *hugs*
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
time has passed now and you are much stronger and wiser now but kudos to you for having the courage to make such a video i hope more people respond but positively cause you will get some idiots like the one posting on here trying to break you down but just ignore them they will go away in the end. i am sure you are a great mum and i know anyone can be a great mum it just takes hard work and determination.
thank you hun. x
keep on doing what your doing and let noone judge you on anything. x
chickydum 2 years ago
well first off my hats off to you for making the bravest decision of your life and keeping your baby. Throughout a hard situation you have come through. Teen pregnancy in a normal situation eg boy and girl have sex with no condom needs to stop. use of protection needs to be enforced to children at a younger age as sex is now happening to those at such a young age. Abortion may seem like an easy option but i have felt the effects of an abortion and you always wonder what your baby is like now...
chickydum 2 years ago
To each their own I guess? It is too bad people decisions are influenced by religious voo doo.
I hope that child isn't ruined ,
Was she raped or did she get shit faced and get 'raped' If she was raped she would have been to the police the same day.
What bullshit!
AuShawster 2 years ago
what do you mean you hope the baby isnt ruined? and i was raped after school by my ex boyfriend and i couldnt go to the police cause i would have been arrested for something else i did in the past your comment sounded mean, ass.
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
Not for me to judge you but you don't forget you are the girl who chose to chose to air your dirty laundry and use your 'rape' to push your opinions on abortion.
"what do you mean you hope the baby isn't ruined?" Aborted fetuses don't become a burden to society. What kind of life can you give the kid? Love don't pay the rent. Also men often do not want to get into permanent relationships with girls with pre-made families so you may have to compromise. Tha'ts no good for the kid either
AuShawster 2 years ago
what an asshole. people can go with anyone they chose to do so and most men are idiots but i know that there are some good ones out there. don't try and make her feel like she now has no proper chance at finding a life partner. your just a dumbass. you may think abortion is the end all solution but it isn't what a dumbshit. if she was raped and she chose to say it, it was her decision to do so and when you say it is bullshit u can go and fuck yourself.
chickydum 2 years ago
okay ass i can give my child a great life and i am and i have found someone who doesnt care that the baby isnt his and he loves me just the same, your just an ignorant thick headed asshole. you think everyones the same, their not.
DesiRadioactive 2 years ago
Took you long enough to get back to me.
All the best
AuShawster 2 years ago