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  • Ya but sometimes loving someone to the point that u are there for them all the time, u come running whenever they call or text u or say they need help just hurts even worse when the one u love just hurts u over and over again but swears and says they're in love with u...What do u do? then to add up that fact we have a daughter together that he has abandon since birth....i don't know what to do anymore...i'm dieing inside :(

  • I have loved this song for years, and did it many times with my bar band. in 99 I met a little lady that knocked my socks off, but I never took the chance to tell her how I felt about her until about 6 years ago, there is 28 years between our ages, She shocked the life out me when she responded I love you to. Take the chance people it is well worth it!

  • @Mr81corvette, your story had me sobbing. I am 21 and desperately in love with a man who is 24 years older than I am and has a 12 year old daughter. He doesn't believe that my love is genuine or that our relationship would work in today's society given our big age difference. He's told me that he loves many times before, but now he wont speak to me. How do I get him to give me a chance and to give us a chance? I can't bear to live without him and I feel like I'm slowly dying. What do I do?

  • I miss my momma

  • shes the main reason my piss is clean meeting her was like a wake up call and i am amazed that i was awoken by such a beautiful lady that i would love so much to call mine. but it dont look like it.

  • go from heres a quarter to anymore xD

  • when i was a kid I would sing it in the aspect "im tired of pretending..i dont love you anymore" so i would sing it to guys that liked me but i didnt like them :) now that I am much older I realize it is opposite" ;)

  • tried to show her how i feel... then she was like " I like you to but..." then she walked away... now i just hope she would find someone who make her happy and can take care of her... i realy love her.. but if you really love someone.. you got to let them go...

  • @ProPersey Who is that??

  • @esthompson2012 who is who?

  • @ProPersey idk, i was just repsondin to your post..

  • @esthompson2012 its a girl from my class

  • @ProPersey oh ok, that's cool...

  • i miss you more than words can say. i know this will be hard on us both, but i love you and im willing to go the distance.

  • @ZeoZan1127 what do you mean??

  • @esthompson2012

    Me and my guy. * sigh * I don't want to let go of him, but eventually, I'll have to.

  • I give up

  • Maybe some of us need to think about buying this lovely piece of music, pack it up and post it to the person that makes us feel this way, with a short honest letter?

  • @MsLemonMarmalade doesn't work that way....

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  • Come back to me JLH, please, I need to talk to you......12 yrs was long enough and I can't wait any longer.....STOP ignoring me.....

  • @esthompson2012 I think im getting close, but Idk......

  • @esthompson2012 the number's never end, this is gonna take FOREVER, but hey it's worth it....

  • @578barbie... wow your going thru exactly what I am going thru... my ex went back to his daughters mom... I love you John S.... I always will... from AJ....

  • i love this song makes me so alive

  • I love you and I know u love me but you are with her trying to make things right got your son, and I won't stand in your way I want you to be happy even if its not with me...='( I love you ray g. Fm maryAnn c.

  • i love you with all my heart, and i know you do too but if you would rather be with the other guy your talking with i wont stand in your way. I just want you to be happy with you life and who your with, even if its not with me. I Love You Amanda

  • @shadow0imposter It hurts so bad to walk away. I had to do the same thing and I know how you feel so please keep your hopes up because thats all that has gotten me through the long heart break and depression.

  • @Know1sEntertainment thank you i appreciate the concern and kind words :)

  • I just hope she is happy....That's all I want....

  • @esthompson2012 Why not go show her How you feel ,goes a long ways

  • @cbyfate I would if I knew where she was :-(

  • @cbyfate I would if I knew where she was :-(

  • @cbyfate i tried telling a girl how i feel and she just looked at me like i was stupid and got rid of me right then and there

  • @braeder2 That is nasty.....I am sorry...feelings should be trampled on...

  • And im tired of pretending i dont love you anymore...

  • This video has helped me through all of my bad break ups. Especially my last relationship,when I get down I listen too this song because it helps me.

  • During my divorce this song, whiskey and me singing horribly got me through a lot....

  • @bobef1384 can i hang out with you then? i might be heading that way myself :(

  • @shadow0imposter I'm sorry to hear that, it is one of the hardest things a person can go through when it comes to relationships :( and anytime

  • gotta love traivs tritts REAL country music. not like the crap thats on the radio today! like if you agree!

  • I cant hold the hurt inside and keep the pain out of my eyes--anymore

  • I love this great guitar, lyrics...all around greatness.Love Travis Tritt

  • carl24419 you are so right

  • Why dose love hurt so damn bad?

  • @CARL24419 Because your heart is involved. And that's the place we

    seem to carry our feelings of love more so then in our head through our

    thoughts...You know the saying "Follow Your Heart" because it doesn't

    have a brain it just carries our feelings. It's our brain that sometimes has

    to step up and tell our heart that we are not in a good relationship. So the

    struggle between the heart and our head becomes a struggle to make the

    right choices. We need to protect our hearts from pain.

  • Beautiful.:)

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  • This is a beautiful song. Thanks for posting.

  • I cant keep pretending. I dont love you anymore.

    

  • its hard to be around ur ex wen ur still in love and they dont want u.... "i dont wanna pretend i dont love her, anymore........

  • @beachbumycmb Then don't pretend.Make sure she KNOWS for sure how you feel,and then if she rejects you,move on.It's that simple.

  • @jennayy71 she says she still loves me but im not to sure of it, it sounded sincere but she dont act like it but thank of the advise tho

  • @beachbumycmb no problem

  • @beachbumycmb I know what you mean but sometimes it has to be that way and then everything can go back to the way they used to be when the time is right or at least that's how i am looking at.

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  • this song is so heartbreaking. im still in love with this guy that lives in my hometown. hes married now, as far as i know. i never told him and i feel like i can never tell him. so i have to pretend that i dont love him. but what can i do? nothing. i have to move on with my life and wait for someone to come along. thats what i have to do.

  • so this song matches me right now i am in a relationship but a 4 day argumment has been going on and i want out but how to i put it easly for this guy even though i love one guy and in 5 months i can be with him and how do you tell a guy i dont love you the sam anymore i love you as a friend and not as a boyfriend i love someone else and i have loved this guy for 3 years straight if you can help plz comment to try and help me thank you so much.

  • The man I've been in love with for over a year rejected me and is now dating a girl who's "better" than me. The lyrics in this song basically reflect how I've been feeling for the past week. I wish I could move on from it, but it's hard to get over someone I've loved for so long--even though he never felt the same way about me and never will.

  • @TeenWench you can say she is but deep inside you know that its not true i feel your pain right now i really do i have loved the same guy for almost 3 years and i cant date him and we both know why cuz i am still under 18 and he is hurt just like i am so i know what it feels like and if you ever need some one i am here for you cuz i know how much that hurts

  • My heart can't take the Beating. That's my favorite part.

  • wow i can't say anymore, i know the feeling all too well

  • Love it!!! The words are so powerful

  • im in love with someone that doesnt want me...and when i move on, they leave me before it truely begins...so i understand...the man i love, know i feel that way but does not care.

  • the real video to this song is kinda sad, its a military man who got paralyzed and wont answer his wife's letters

  • @49erfanoz you are right.....And aren't the words somewhat different?

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  • I think the song is awesome, love the tune! But I'm with @209Longhorns. Gotta tell em or someone else will. And I also have 99 problems but a bitch aint one

  • I used to live this song and I told the girl how I felt and now I've got 99 problems and a Bitch ain't one

  • Corey Steven Nixon...you mean everything to me and I couldn't see my life without you...but you need to realize....You're pushing me away....you can't control everything I do....and I put up with some of it because I love you so much...but I honestly don't know how much longer I can deal with it...and that breaks my heart... :'(

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  • and so I believe I have found the man of my dreams, I think about him every minute, he thinks I'm perfect for him, he's so many miles away, we talk and talk and I would love to tell him exactly how I feel but I'm afraid it will push him away. I'm tired of pretending that I don't love him anymore.

  • I'm tired of pretending I don't love you, Kevin. So tired...every day without you hurts so much. We have wasted too many years, but I refuse to believe that it is too late....

  • Love this song too - you love her....tell her!

  • awesome song.  We've all been there before I bet. Or if you haven't stop standing on the wall and go live your life!

  • the problem with relationships in todays society is they keep PRETENDING, therefore they are never with the one they truly love and the hurt continues for a lifetime. STOP PRETENDING, STEP OUT OF YOUR BOX AND GET OUT THERE AND DO WHATEVER YOU GOTTA DO TO GET THE ONE YOU LOVE. THRU FAITH AND PRAYER ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!!!

  • @dadenton2 well spoken and never truer am doing that now so its good advice for anyone wanting to

  • I am still in love with my exboyfriend, he left me for another woman, 2 years later I had moved on and remarried and he calls me at work asking for me to forgive him and apologizing for being a fool, I still so in love with him but do not want to hurt my hubby, I know my ex and I are still friends going on 12 years now, but he is the love of my life and I keep fighting my feelings for him everyday.

  • Going through a messy break up after almost 11 years of marriage. I've loved this song forever, and I am a guitar player for a metal band! Music crosses all boundaries, but the words of this hit home hard. I pushed her away and took her for granted because she was always there. I can't tell her though. She doesn't want to be with me anymore. I have to learn to get on with my life, as Trav says.

  • she lived with me for a short time i gave her a place to stay we became friends so many things in common she seems like a woman i would spend the rest of my life with but she fell in love with somebody else so i tried to give up on the thought and i don't think i could ever tell her because i don't think she would feel the same but when i am with her she makes me feel so high like i could conquer the world i would love to sing her this song

  • Dear Mr Hutch53 I too have loved someone for almost 30 years. we were so very young when we met. Yet he decided one day he didn't want to be together ANYMORE. And just walked away. I struggle everyday trying to decide what to do with me now that he's gone. I just seen your comment and it hits home. I can't stop loving him yet he wants nothing to do with me. He has moved on and has a much younger girlfriend . I just turned 50 and feel like I will never find love like that again.

  • My good friend, be seeing you soon at the emporium in Germany.

  • How many people on earth can relate to this?......This song is so powerful and the video of the disabled vet is soooooooo numbing , it tears you heart out.

  • Happy Birthday Babie! Check your mail box in the morning! <3 forever and ever!

  • me and my wife split up 7 years ago, it was our anniversary the other day Nov 7th, every year that day still haunts me it was the happiest day of my life, i remeber looking at her as she entered the church and thinking wow she is beautiful, now i look at her and wonder do i still love her, sometimes i think i do, but I am so scared if i say anything she will say the opposite, so tired of pretneding after all these years i dont love her

  • When I was in 7th grade I was in love with this girl and she was in love with me. My mom never let me out of my house due to my trouble making, I told her I wouldnt beable to see her but she always said that we will always have school. teachers always made sure we couldnt show any kind effection for each other. We would kiss and hug when ever possible but I fought some guy and was expelled. We broke up after us not seeing each other for a while and my heart is still broken. (its been 4 years)

  • @Know1sEntertainment ; Hang in there young fella ; she will be there if you attempt to find her ; don`t screw it up !  Go for the breass ring ! First loves last forever ! Don`t forget to ask the necessary questions ; KNOW the whole story ;

  • Typical country listeners, so sad and talkin' about depressing shit.

  • @BasicallytoBasics People can relate to music. Get over it or stfo.

  • @tim24tn LOL, you're telling ME to get over it? I'm not the one who's crying. And nobody tells me to 'stfu'. I tell all of you on YouTube, to STFU!

  • @BasicallytoBasics STFO means stay the f**k out. Meaning don't post on this video if all you wanna do is put people down because this song actually means something to some.

  • @tim24tn I saw your comment, realized you were right; and ignored it. 10 minutes later I'm here to say you're right and sorry because I have to face the music and admit I'm an idiot. *Tips hat* good day, Sir.

  • @BasicallytoBasics Stfu. Us country lovers talk about stuff like his to relieve what were holding in. Dont comment on thi if ur just gonna down people.

  • This song is for my exhusband who i regretfully left this past year best advise i can give is never listen to family or anyone else just listen to ur heart

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  • The sad truth is sometimes even if you pour out your heart to someone you love it will just leave a hole when they pull it from your chest and put it in the blender.

    However it can be great if they return your feelings creating something that will last the ages.

    No risk no reward.

  • im still in love with my x and i cry everytime i hear this song.

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  • this song is like my all time favorite!!!!!((:

    gotta love thee ♫

  • Such an amazing song <3

    

  • This is so me and my boyfriend i fell in love with him the first day i saw him and we r still to this day highschool sweethearts (:

  • Not very many words, but very powerful lyrics.

  • Great job amazing graphics!

  • this song was written for me and freddie my boyfriend! i love u freddie!!!

  • Now this is country this crap they're trying to pass for country is a joke most of it is pop or something else not country......

  • Does this song give anyone else goosebumps? I mean, besides the fact that it's so romantic and so beautiful, I've yet to hear another voice that's quite like his. Simply brilliant on all levels!

  • Your all a bunch a cry babys everyones had there heart broke get over grow a pair

  • @taryhills77 DUDE I DONT THINK U EVEN KNO WHAT LOVE IS U SEEM SO HEARTLESS TO HAVE SUMONE TO EVEN LOVE U

  • THIS SONG IS ME,I HAVE LOVED SOMEONE,FOR 25 YEARS,USE TO BE MARRIED TO THEM,FOR 10 YEARS,THEN DIVORCED,BUT THE LOVE WONT GO AWAY EVEN AFTER 25 YEARS,AND ANOTHER WIFE,MY WIFE PASSED AWAY NOW,THE LOVE FOR MY FIRST WIFE IS SO STRONG NOW,IM SO TIRED OF PRETENDING I DONT LOVE HER ANYMORE,SO WHAT DO I DO??TAKE THE CHANCE OR LET IT PASS BY,SO I CAN GET ON WITH MY LIFE,IVE LISTENED TO THIS SONG 100 TIMES TO HELP ME

  • @MrHUTCH53 TAKE THE CHANCE!!! if you dont you will hate yourself for not trying! if she says no you did all you could. TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES, IT ONLY GROWS STRONGER!!

  • @MrHUTCH53 I say take the chance!!! Your comment made me cry & I never cry because of comments loll

  • @MrHUTCH53

    Please tell her.

  • @MrHUTCH53 HERES A LIL SUMTHING TO HELP U ITS A GOOD SONG TO NOT BETTER THAN THIS ONE BUT A GOOD ONE ITS BY LONESTAR SONG IS TELL HER

  • @MrHUTCH53 I am really sorry that your heart is going through that much pain.

  • @MrHUTCH53 ..dIfferent yet similar situation. hope you GO AFTER Her if you LOVE her that much!! In short..My husband & I met in 5/86, wed in 2/88 div 10/93 & remarried 2/99. ..He put this song on a tape he made 4 me/It meant alot to him while in Korea & gave up 10yrs in the AF to come after me when I left him. Realized I loved him more than ever & wow I had my soulmate until Cancer took him in 6 short wks. Now 3 yrs later I MISS & WANT HIM BACK BUT CAN'T, & HAVE LOVE THAT IS NOT GOING AWAY!

  • @MrHUTCH53 love is something you feel you shouldn't hide it...when someone special is in your heart you should tell them we are only on this earth for so long and when we lose loved ones remember they would want us to be happy we are here they are not good luck.

  • @MrHUTCH53

    Take the chance! worst that can happen is she will kick you to the curb. Nothing ventured nothing gained! Good Luck & God Bless

  • @MrHUTCH53 I would tell her, she may feel the same way. What do you have to lose, but the best love you ever had? Take the chance see what happens.

    I will be praying for you.

  • @MrHUTCH53 I think that it is meant to be so be it, I have been married and divorced and I know what you are going through. You can do what I did and don't push and let things be was meant to be it will, I thought I was going to be the old cat lady with no cats. And love found me, a pure love like I have never felt. I would never even look back after he walked in and took me off of my feet and showed love really is!! I stopped looking and it found me when I least expected it to!!

  • @MrHUTCH53 Find her NOW!

  • @MrHUTCH53 If you love someone you should never hide it, for all you know she is feeling the same

  • @MrHUTCH53 Take the chance, Will you still have both your arms and legs if she doesn't want you? yes, you will. You can't spend the rest of your life wondering what might have happened if you'd had the guts...

  • @MrHUTCH53 Let her go...get on with your life. :( Do it for her! Do it for you! I know it is hard, almost impossible, but you deserve to be happy. We all come from different places...I come from a place where I broke my husband's heart after 20 years of marriage. I just had to leave....I want him to be happy....I want me to be happy.....sometimes it is just over, you know? Be happy mrhutch53, just be happy. :)

  • @MrHUTCH53

    I think you have to ask yourself why you two split....what happened, can you get passed that or is it a deal breaker. I wish you all the best honey.

  • @MrHUTCH53 i know how you feel. i still love my ex.

  • @MrHUTCH53 GO FOR IT! I did, and he feels the same way after 2+ yrs being apart... We will be together again.... PROMISE!

  • @MrHUTCH53 1 life 1 chance.....

  • @MrHUTCH53  Pray and ask the Lord to give you the disires of your heart and be sincere

  • @MrHUTCH53 You be a man...you make a decision...do it or dont. Give her up, or go get her. Period.

  • @MrHUTCH53 Go for it Bud.... I did and after 3 years we're still together...NO REGRETS!!

  • deffanitly a song i can relate too for a girl i loved and love to this day

  • Theres a girl that this reminds me of. Im so sick of hiding it, I Still LOVE you KARLEE WILLCOX): (Of lebanon oregon)

  • this the last song that my sister listen to with my grandmother the night before shit passed away . and my grandmother has been gone 11 this year on the 19th of dec ... so i love this song as well <3

  • Also this was very artistically done. What program did you use to make it?

    Lovely!

  • I'm probably the oldest person to post on this but at 45 I can say I learned some lessons too.

    He was the time of my life.

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  • This song makes me cry. Its the words that you hope to never hear.

  • how can u dislike travis tritt this guy is a country legend

  • i think this song speaks for me with the one i love

  • Sure is jodywildthing love me some TT!

  • im a stronger person thanx to this song  many times ............

  • very good song

  • this is actually a profound and sad Music Video ( the actual MV anyways) take it from me when you come back scarred you expect people to find you an ugly grotesque monster, but this is usually not the case. People love you more than you know.

  • I feel this way about a guy that I have been dating for a year and I am just to afraid to tell him that I do love him and want to build a life with him.

  • @RDTZ70 you have dated for a year and..he does not see that in your EYES.??????????

  • @amximums I am sure he does and he loves me too but we both were hurt pretty bad by both of our ex's so we just want things to go slow not rush anything

  • @RDTZ70 it seems like after a year..the only thing you have in common is how both of you were hurt so bad..it's been a year..i see REBOUND.and one of you are going to hurt bad..and that realy sucks...

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  • Anyone else hear the bubbly sounds past 0:57?

  • @Frazier1337 hah yea. i thought i had a IM on facebook

  • @Frazier1337 I hear a weird noise in the background around the 0:57-60 mark but everything sounds fine after that. Very good quality sound actually.

  • @grasscutter88 That's actually a tiny glitch by the bass player on the original recording. Kinda surprised it made it through final edit like that, but there was probably a deadline. GOOD EAR!

  • Fullish pride is just something you have to grow strong and get over .. When you do that you can tell her anything and im sure thats what she'd want ..

  • amazing song though. love it.

    and you know what, life is just about trying trying and trying some more

    no one said it was gonna be easy

  • i seriously feel that my boyfriend of three years really does not love me anymore. he'll push and push and push til im at the end of my rope then just as im about to leave he'll change for about a month, then its the same story all over again.

    i feel like im stuck living life to make him happy and i only do things that work for him. never do i do anything for myself and im getting so tired of it but i love him so much and im trying so hard to have him change.

  • 120,000 views and no dislikes that just proves how great this song is

  • This song is the best song for me cause I do fall quick and I mean real quick for girls and all I ever say is I love them well one girl I say it to ever day of my life and thats how it shall remain