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  • This song makes me want to cut myself again.

  • this song makes me cry SO much!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • ok i cut for ovr 4 years and i just stoped i am only 14 so itsa lot and i have to many scares to count this song helpd me through a lot at one point in time i hade cuts covering both of my arms and legs and i stabbed myself in the stomach a few times but im not like that anymore and if anyone needs someone to talk to just know there r people that have been there and just listen to this song it helps me everyday! <3

  • this song helps me to stop cutting when I want to do it again

  • Fuck i love this song<3

  • this makes me think of my friend:(

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  • This band continues to help me through my depression.. I don't know what I would do without them.. :)

  • Wow... her father runs to school and gets her? Lets see my parents yelled at me and threw a knife to me and said have at it. I'm 22 and still cutting today... been over 8 years now. This video, though I know it didn't intend to, has only pissed me off. Wish I had parents who cared that much. Not run to school but at least not yell at me.

  • @talgie22890 i know how you feel, my parents yell at me every day. they blame me for it and tell me its bullshit.

  • my favorite song

  • I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL YEASTERUDAY

  • I love this song+video, makes me cry ha :) but i dont think my parents would be as understanding as her dad.

  • If anyone needs someone to talk to, feel free to message me.

  • i love the noise youtube makes when you like a comment :D

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  • some of these kids dont understand your soo young you still have the rest of your life to live yes ur gonna have hard times thats part of life and hows to overcome them you will always have people who love you suicide is most selfish thing you can do, you dont kno what will happen to the love ones youve heart by leaving them im still recovering form my friends sicide probly never will R.I.P. cassidy

  • I break down everytime i listen to this song. Basically explains my life.

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  • uk some of us it does help though. the pain feels better than feeling unloved ugly thick everything wrong. Our parents would hurt us if they found out. We are the silent ones that cannot be taken.

  • omg was that dad Grysome from csi :o

  • i recently relapsed.. i'm ashamed. i hate it. my boyfriend is the only one who knows...

    but I'm changing that. He's going to go with me to talk to my youth pastor. I want to stop, and I'm going to make it happen. Pray for me.

  • i struggle at least every other day im not even sure why and i would love to explain it to somebody but i dont understand it myself like i tried to tell one of my friends but she just didnt know what to say or help. im just lost i have anxiety problems with panic attacks and stuff like that and its just stuff normal people dont understantd and ive been cutting for two years and it just feels like its the only thing that can calm me down if somebody could relate i would LOVE to hear it

  • @jellywigglz17 its okay, I know how it is with the panic attacks, message me if you want to talk :)

  • @jellywigglz17 i have the same thing but i dont cut but what helps for me is not taling about it or expressing it because to me that makes it worse i guess it makes it more real in my eyes

  • @rh3blonde what do you mean expressing it ? like writing it down or something?

  • I cut myself to this song....I don't listen to the end, because the beginning is everything I feel.

  • @FaithWillLead recovery is possible but only if you yourself want to get better.

  • @Browniethehamster139 I have wanted to, I've been trying since I was 14. I've been on many medications and seen a dozen therapists. It's not easy.

  • @FaithWillLead well you shouldn't. seriously, if you want to vent just email me. I can help, trust me.... I can help

  • 5 months strong,... its a struggle

    but life has always been a battle

    i'm not through with mine yet

  • This is the perfect song to promote my website on .. ( KeepThatSilverAway.Webstarts. Com ]

    This site stated above ^ , is for people to go to and to go to let them know thar they are not alone and there is always somebody there for them , just to vent , or to get a sence of hope . You can contact me personaly or comment on the Blog , just read blog reviews , or read the whatever you please . Just know there is always somebody here for you ..<3

    ( KeepThatSilverAway.Webstarts. Com ]

  • 3 weeks clean :) but still have horrible scars alll over my arms, but they are healing! NO more cutting for me!

  • Must... find.. more songs... like... these...

  • @redruner100 hey, I'm sorry I didn't get on youtube much at all this semester. I do care so don't worry about talking to me. Have you told her that you care about her? why don't you tell her how you're feeling? it might seem scary but its even worse to not try. the worst that could happen is that she's not interested. there's tons of great girls out there but sometimes you have to wait till the right moment to find the one <3 :)

  • 7 months clean:) i still struggle but my bf helps me through it all:)

  • What kind of razor is that, like how do you get it, that was in the ring box? I need one to cut my hair.. o.o

  • It's been a while since I heard this. Can't believe I forgot this. =(

  • I need somebody to talk to....

  • This song Gave me strength to break my Razor and get my ex back tonight.. If i didn't break that razor id be in the same place I was a month ago.. I had a break up and more other ex drama , i listened to many other songs but this one saved me. <3

  • You're not alone ..  None of you ..

    Visit my site : KeepThatSilverAway.Webstarts. Com

    It may help a little .. <3

    Stay Strong , Beautifuls <3

  • If i ever told my mother that i do and have had this problem before she wouldnt comfort me... shed call me phycotic and probably put me in a mental hospital... Shows how much she cares about how i feel...

  • idk i have tryed to stop but it like im addicted ik it sounds stupid but it true ):

  • @TheSasuke135 i know how it feels.. me to

  • not a day gose by where i dont think about it still i struggle this song has memorys altho no one was ever there for me i am always there for a friend

  • I'm on my 2nd day clean since I broke..who knows how long.../:

  • 1:08 <3 scene bean :D

  • i cut less than an hour ago...

  • i dont cut all that deep...

  • To everyone watching this video stay strong <3

  • love how he just appeared on the bus at 1:15

  • You ask me why I dislike this video... well, it honestly reminds me of how the pain used to be relieved so easily when I used to cut... and this video makes me want to do it more... :'/

  • Trying to stop... One day at a time I suppose

  • Ryan is my cousin :) shame they broke up :(

  • 2 days clean. aha. Not much but it's the long for me.

  • so close to being a month clean today, November 18.....but of course at midnight I failed and couldn't even do that right. </3

  • tried so hard to come clean... im 15 been a self injurer for about 6 years...

  • @xam3liiax I'm so sorry I didn't mean to press like on this comment. D: and stay strong hun. i self-injured since 5th grade. i'm 20 and still have my relapses cuz i struggle a lot but there is hope!!!!! <3<3<3 much love.

  • been clean since march 2nd... and struggling more and more lately to not fall back into it :(

  • I've been cutting for a year today :(

  • uggh i can't decide if i should cut or not tonight.......i know it would hurt you chloe but the pain i feel is worse.....but i love you so i'm gonna try to be strong for you....some days its so hard....you being at central me being alone at east...i just want to see you so bad every day....i'm weak if a girl tried really hard to take me idk if i still hang on.....but i'm living on the hope that 2-3 years from now we can finally start dating :) and thats whats keeping me alive :) i love you chloe

  • @redruner100 there's hope <3 don't give up. instead of cutting, try painting, reading, writing, drawing, watching a movie, etc.

  • @EvenDeathLies i saw her today :) but when we were hanging out before her band concert she paid more attention to her hotter guy friend.....and kept poking his abs and laughing :(( Just seems like hes better than me like more attractive and not super awkward and weird and hes cooler........i just hated how she looked at him sometimes.... ;( i'm sorry your reading this i doubt you care....just feel like telling someone

  • so my dad randomly went through my closet this morning cause he needed something and found my knife and then showed it to my mom, and they asked why i had it and i just said idk, but i know there going to ask again because they were just in a hurry at the moment,buys im desperate i need an excuse so badly i just know theyll ask me tonight, please any thoughts???!!!

  • @jellywigglz17 You use it in case theres a robber in your house and you need to defend youself? Hope it helps :3

  • i broke after 2 good months last night.

  • Like if you support To Write Love On Her Arms.

  • @KingSheamusCena

    Like!

  • If anybodys just wants to talk and or need my help, message me and i will give you a link to my facebook.

  • No body! And i mean nobody deserves to go through as much pain as i bet a lot of you go through. Now, i havent had anything drastic or horrific happen in my life and i hope it never will, but for some it just never seems to stop. And for thoughs that need somebody there for them or somebody just to talk to, im here for you. I might be just some random kid on youtube, but i just want everybody to know that i love and care for all. Even if we did just meet and exchange a few words.

  • @MrDazzeed we could be friends :D my real name is Tiffany and i've been through a WHOLE MESS of crap, especially in the past eight months and i'm in nineth grade and i havent cut myself for about two and a half months now even though i started in the beginning of seventh grade when i wasnt even 13 yet. I'll be 15 in about a month from now.

  • @xxsecretcelebxx I'm here for ya (: .

  • @MrDazzeed as someone who has struggled with self injury for almost 7 years...

    thank you...

    understanding and mercy mean alot...

  • @blondestjohn I just want people to know i'm here for them in a time of need.

  • When you feel the urge, listen to this song. It's not worth feeling the guilt of breaking promises that you wouldn't cut. It only hurts the ones close to you. It may be a short relief, but the more you cut, the worse everything gets. Listen. Its. Not. Worth. It. I know the feeling of not being able stop. But trust me. Its in you, to stop. Stay strong <3
  • so im on my second week of not cutting and nothing bad is going on in my life but i feel the urge so badly, i cry myself to sleep like everynight i feel beyond depressed fo no reason and i feel like the more you dont do it the worse i feel so each day just gets worse and worse for me, god i hate this so much i dont even feel like a person anymore, what the fuck is wrong with me?

  • @jellywigglz17 Nothing's wrong with you, you are just going through withdrawl. Trust me, I'm there, but only day 3. You can do it though. I recommend finding a great group of friends, and someone to trust to talk to when you feel like giving up. Also, find a new hobby, like painting! We can do this, praying for you :)

  • @UnveilingMyNightmare :) thank you and im trying but none of my friends understand, theyve never done that before, so im kind of alone but its so overwhelming i can literally feel the tension in my chest and sometimes i cant breathe and feel like im having a panic attack. and ive tried alot of different things like working out and writing but idk nothing i do feels much better, its just hard i think its more than just a habbit i think its an actual addiction

  • @jellywigglz17 It will be hard to break your habit, but I promise you it will be worth it. Your friends, if they are true friends, will be able to help you through this no matter if they have been through it before. My best friend has never been depressed or suicidal like I have, so it just took a little bit of courage to talk to her. Talk to a guidance counselor at school and see if they have some support group, or if you can just talk to the guidance counselor.I did this and it helped alot.

  • my parents found me cutting and i hated it. they took my knife and I believe they have no right..... I promised my boyfriend I wouldnt cut while he was away.... im on day three and already having a hard time.... 3 more months till he comes back but when he does i want to make sure there are no new cuts on my arm im done hurting him.... just not myself.

  • @Heyflyleaf I know how it feels... I promised mine I wouldnt, and 2 days later I broke it... Try as hard as you can not to break that promise. It's an awful feeling to break that kind of promise. You feel way worse when you break a promise and cut, than not cutting at all... trust me.

  • @angelajulie23 Thank you... but now i feel bad... I saw your reply right after i broke my promise.... your right it sucks it hurts so much but i will try harder to not do it again....

  • @Heyflyleaf I know how hard it is... But you can do it.. Imagine how happy he will be to know that you love him enough to not hate yourself... i am in a position much the same... I have made it a few weeks so far... It feels good to watch the scars fade. He and I have both made promise to eachother to not cut... So I know if I break it i hurt him twice... I break a promise and I hurt myself... Which would then make him feel like it is okay for him to do it and we end up back where we were...

  • @emoTeam95 thank you. I'll try my best and only wish the best for you :)

    God Bless.

  • I struggle with this issue, I have a lot of days where it's really hard to not cut and it's a day-to-day thing. I started my addiction when I was 13, and I'm 19 and I still have relapses. This song is so inspiring, I listen to it when I need the release, it's not worth it, it's really not worth the pain, blood and crying. @jellywigglz17 it'll be okay, my dad found out first but I kept it from my mom for a long time. It'll be fine, just get the help from someone, don't let it consume you.

  • I want one night that I don't hit a vein. That I don't stay up for hours stopping the bleeding. That I don't touch my knife. I'm so trapped in this addiction. I hate it, but can't stop. I'm too addicted. Self loathe and hateful people can really change you and not for good. The longer I keep this up the deeper the cuts are getting.

  • has everyone been too distracted by the song to wonder: what the fuck was her dad doing in the girls bathroom at a school?!

  • @jellywigglz17 i completely understand what your talking about, and i hate that i do. i started to cut about 4 years ago and its almost like its the only way out, the most recent time i did was 2 days ago, and i don't understand how my family still doesnt know

  • so i struggle with cutting almost everyday i started when things were tough and that was like a year and a half ago. i got so used to doing it that eventually every time i became even slightly upset it was the first thing i thought of. so now im trying to stop but dont think i can its so hard i feel like i need to see the blood and feel the pain to get over whats going on at the time does anybody else feel me?

  • @jellywigglz17 I know exactly how you feel. It sucks. It's the only thing I know to do anymore, though. Once you cut long enough it becomes a part of you. All I can do is hope I'll fix things. My parents are finding out this week. My youth pastor is going to tell them. i'm freaking out.

  • @tearstoroses317 i agree it definatly becomes apart of you like apart of your identity, but hey i go to a therapist and he told me that telling your parents might not be the best idea and mine are very caring, it could help you but at the same time it could make things worse. i seriously wouldnt do that i would find some other way to get better but again this is my opinion

  • @jellywigglz17 Not only that but it's like anytime you're the slightest bit upset it's what you want to do and even if i'm not upset I go and do it...it's just an addiction. And I don't want to tell my parents at allll..my youth pastor is making me. I hope it all ends up okay in the end haha.

  • I cried at the end when I realized her dad died..

  • oh my... i thought this was about a girl and a boy not her dad haha this almost made me cry T~T

  • 5 years clean! still struggle everyday. One day at a time <3

  • ♥2-3 years clean♥

  • My fucking life. My song.

  • This song gave me the strength to stop, that there is a reason to stop... ~3 months clean~

  • i freaking love this video with passion

  • ♥1 month clean♥

  • @angelhart6598 You can do anything you put your mind to. But a friend of mine once told me to chew gum. Everytime you feel the urge to cut, chew some gum instead, and try to focus on the good things in life.

  • @daisycutiebebe hmmm ill try that ive never heard of that one sound like it might accutally work for me thanx soo much

  • @angelhart6598 You're welcome(:

  • hey! check out my new video of us doing a snatch and grab prank at the jack in the box drive thru!

  • His eyes, are like, damn.

  • I Wish my dads was just like the girls . . . <|3

  • omfg his eyes are so cool

  • They are really good live.. The lead singer's brother's band Through You is one of my favs...

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  • @SuperAshTheGeek just because you dont cut doesnt mean you can go saying all this. some people cut because its the only way to deal with it, and their friends and family should support them through it. leave them alone

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  • @Haylee14315 Just don't do it. It's a bad way to coop. I do support them, but Im not gonna say it's okay.

  • im not gonna repeat what everyone else has already said,,, you can guess why im here, but i will say if anyone ever wants to talk, i know sometimes its easier to talk to people you dont know,, ill listen okay? just message me, i dont bite..,,id like to help people,, even if i cant help myself. xx

  • I was clean from cutting for 6 months...I broke it today

    :/ fml

  • I'VE WRITTEN "LOVE" on my arms many times just to see if people react to it..and guess what?

    they don't! :(

  • @axelx666 Not true, I'm reacting to it...i've been clean for a year and a half. People care, even if you haven't met them IRL.

  • @axelx666 Man,if I saw that written on your arms I would of nodded and said "Great song"

  • Cutters are just Darwinism at work. Learn how to handle stress, people!

  • @Shawnaldo75 I'm workin on it..four and a half month self harm free :)

  • i just cant stop......

  • This song describes how I once felt but I'm happy to say I'm not that person anymore. To anyone struggling there is hope, you can put down the knife. Stay strong.

  • The last time I cut was in school and I carved the word HELP on my arm. I decided to get help. I told the school and they also agreed that I needed help so now I am going going to a hospital during the day to help me stop cutting. Sometimes its hard to admit that you need help. I'm glad that I did and i'm trying my best to stop! :)

  • I don't get why they go 'she opens it theres nothing there mum and dad had no right' when the blade was there?

  • @TheFishingElf the lyrics at that part are "she opens it there's nothing there is only left-over tears, mom and dad had no right she screams" and thats because (I'm guessing) that she cuts when she's feeling angry, and the blade reminds her of other times she's felt that way. therefore the lyrics would make sense... hope this helps.

  • Amazing song. Better acoustic in my opinion, though.

  • this song brought me to my knees in tears </3

  • Every song played form between the trees has a meaning. I think this one has true meaning towards anyone. even if you don't cut yourself. This is amazing.

  • :( god i needs help... im so fucked up ...

  • i broke down last nite i cut my legs 28 times dear god i need help

  • omg,

    his eyes!

  • This song brings me to tears everytime, I love how its not all glamourised and it is actually shown that cutting is not attention seeking but rather a way to deal with pain, and how they show that anyone can succomb to it, not just 'emos' which i hate stereotypes are disgustiong. Phenomenal song

  • after 9-10 years of attempted suicide and cuttin I was finally saved by tha most increadible guy I have eva met. tho he doesn't love me I am in love wit him and he still cares bout me. he has helped me through so much he is tha only guy that could eva keep me alive. when he got me ta stop cuttin and tryin ta kill myself I knew he would b tha most important guy in my life and he is witout him I would b dead or in a mental hospital. I love you Robert Levis.

  • this song has saved me so many times from cutting myself

  • @jesterinflames Then, obviously, you didn't have it that bad if you could simply bring yourself out of it with distractions. Or you're denying that you're over it. Cutting is like alcoholism- it's an addiction. You can't just stop- it doesn't work that way. Usually, cutting comes with depression, and you have to be happy in order to get into doing other things. Plus, people don't cut to kill themselves- some cut to make sure they're alive, others to punish themselves for living, etc.

  • @musicjunkie109 You don't have to be happy to do other things. Excerise/sport releases endorphins and endorphins relieve pain/make you happier. Anything can be fixed with the right mindset. If you deny that, then you're being pessimistic and stupid. Cutting isn't necessary, I find it a little extreme.

  • @jesterinflames yeah well some people are going through hard times and have no other way to deal with things. think before you say something that you dont even know about at all

  • :/

  • 1 year today...so excited :D

  • @mojojojo101202 Congrats :D

  • i dont cut but i use tooo. but now i feel empty and would love it if someone would return the love to me that i share with everyone else

  • He has the most gourgeous eyes :3

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  • Orlando brahh!:) i remember hanging out with these kids :)

  • ♥Four Days Clean♥

  • its been a couple of months now...everytime i look at a rozar i get sick ...i cant even look at my arms it feels like the scars will never fade

  • not even a day clean :/ not even 3 hours clean... i dont know if i'll ever be able to stop...

  • @leaveMJalone I know what you mean.

  • @leaveMJalone I know it may feel like that, but if you try you can do it. I'm 26 days clean, and every day I want to... but life's so much easier and more enjoyable when you find the strength to stop.

  • 23 years old, and haven't cut since i was 18. I promise everyone it gets better if you let it. ^_^

  • wish my dad was actully like that..

  • @TheSouljagirl2 Good job:) congrats :D

  • This video is so sad. Makes me think of my two best friends. I tried everything to help, nothing stopped them. I still won't give up.

  • @conor1423 the same thing im going through.

  • lol

  • I went 4 weeks clean but couldn't stop myself last night :(

  • When listening to the song, I accidently muted it....worst time of my life.....

  • i was clean for 5 months, but did it again a few weeks ago. i was so disappointed in myself.

    God's love has really helped pull me out of this darkness and addiction.

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  • @GloomyDucks Yeah, that every day reminder that you made a horrible mistake...I'm not one to brag, I hide them. I understand what you are saying.

  • You guys should look up "Brea's Song Mason Bellamy" if you liked this. It's about cutting and abuse. It's a song I wrote, but I assure you this is not some stunt to get more views. God gave me the song and I really think it can speak to people.

  • ive been cutting for 9 years nw and im trying to stay clean of if bc my boyfirend doesnt like it and i know every time i do it , it hurts him and then i do it more and when i have a child i dnt want them to see me cutting and then they cut bt its really hard to stop ive gotten better i only do it once a week nt 4 or 5 times a day and even more then that

  • My last cut was in February and I wear the scar as punishment, having to see it everyday and think about what I put my family through is enough to make me never want to do it again.

    My sister however just cut about a week ago and I thought I was going to lose her for good this time.

    What's worse is that she saved me from killing myself in February, but I wasn't able to help her when she needed me.

    She's alive and well now, but I worry about her every single day.

    I'm never cutting again.

  • I honestly only stopped because I made myself promise to never have more scars than I have birthdays...

  • 66 people aren't depressed. lol

  • @MrPineapple9900 Zip it, not everyone that cuts is depressed and not everyone that dislikes this song isn't depressed. So just shit it would ya?

  • @MrPineapple9900 Dude, shut up, cutting and depression is serious shit, don't be joking about it.

  • @MrPineapple9900 Dude, I don't do any of this stuff but it still gets to me because it's a serious matter. You're freaking heartless.

  • @dmattfittysix it's called growing a pair and sucking it up because there are people who have had it worse.

  • @MrPineapple9900 You need to understand something. People who cut or hurt themselves in any other way are not always depressed. It could just be replacing an emotional pain with a physical one because more often than not, words hurt more than you can believe; like your own! So before you come here to judge us, open your own eyes to try to understand something. We ALL have problems, and EVERYONE expresses themselves differently. Also, I'm willing to bet someone close to you has hurt themselves.

  • @conor1423 And now I feel like a dick.

  • @MrPineapple9900 I didn't say it to make you feel like that, I just want you to be more open minded and accepting.

  • Ive been one week.... It's so hard. I wish I had someone to care for me. I may be a guy, but once you start, its so hard to stop, and nobody gets it because I'm a guy. I really need someone.