Some of your social commentary is very profound and honest.Good Q.and A. now and then and basicaly witty,current,sometimes brave and mostly entertaining stuff injected frequently with points to ponder.Unusual that a young guy with a web-cam in his bedroom is actually producing something that at its root often is a looking glass into the casual yet smart sub-culture of your generation made possible by a tool such as YouTube and not cam porn BS also made possible by the internet in general.Kudos.
I'm a hetrosexual female but If I see a really hot chick walking pass me and I think sexual thoughts does that make me bi? How woukd you lable me? Pleae give me your expert advice Anxiously Awaiting , Angel
I don't know about expert advice, but it seems to depend on sexual identity. For some, attraction is enough (i.e., being attracted to a woman makes you a lesbian). for others, you have to act on that impulse (i.e., you're not a lesbian or bi until you have had sex with a woman). for others still, you have to get romantically involved with a woman (i.e., date and like a woman on an emotional level). And then some say even further that you must declare yourself a lesbian.
Really great point. I agree. I don't like having to label myself, you know? I like the term pansexuality the best I guess. It's more inclusive and not as much of a label... I feel like the labels are actually restricting a person from actually allowing themselves to be attracted to someone. It's like someone is gay so they think of course they're not attracted to someone of the same sex. But, if that does happens, I feel like they'd just disregard it, b/c they're like no I'm gay, or vice versa.
I was glad to see this video. I don't understand why there is a need to classify these things either. I had a relationship with a girl and then people wanted to know,"Are you gay, straight or bi?" The thing is I was attracted to her alone, and yes there have been a few girls since but now I've fallen in love with a guy and a few of the people who asked me before now said I was faking "being bisexual". For me, I can't talk for anyone else, but for me it was the individual person.
Well said, my friend. It makes sense to try to figure out who you are and who other people are, so I understand the urge to try to grasp, "am I gay, straight, bi, etc.?" But sexuality is usually fluid and it doesn't dictate WHO YOU ARE. You are you. Cheers!
I'm gay, but I don't go around informing people that I'm gay. Only rare times, like this, do I ever even say the word. I am who I am. Most people around me that I know, who know I'm gay, found out without me saying that word.
Some of your social commentary is very profound and honest.Good Q.and A. now and then and basicaly witty,current,sometimes brave and mostly entertaining stuff injected frequently with points to ponder.Unusual that a young guy with a web-cam in his bedroom is actually producing something that at its root often is a looking glass into the casual yet smart sub-culture of your generation made possible by a tool such as YouTube and not cam porn BS also made possible by the internet in general.Kudos.
baddalbatross42 3 years ago
I'm a hetrosexual female but If I see a really hot chick walking pass me and I think sexual thoughts does that make me bi? How woukd you lable me? Pleae give me your expert advice Anxiously Awaiting , Angel
angellake88 3 years ago
I don't know about expert advice, but it seems to depend on sexual identity. For some, attraction is enough (i.e., being attracted to a woman makes you a lesbian). for others, you have to act on that impulse (i.e., you're not a lesbian or bi until you have had sex with a woman). for others still, you have to get romantically involved with a woman (i.e., date and like a woman on an emotional level). And then some say even further that you must declare yourself a lesbian.
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Wanda30955 3 years ago
Really great point. I agree. I don't like having to label myself, you know? I like the term pansexuality the best I guess. It's more inclusive and not as much of a label... I feel like the labels are actually restricting a person from actually allowing themselves to be attracted to someone. It's like someone is gay so they think of course they're not attracted to someone of the same sex. But, if that does happens, I feel like they'd just disregard it, b/c they're like no I'm gay, or vice versa.
annpetasupporter 3 years ago 2
I was glad to see this video. I don't understand why there is a need to classify these things either. I had a relationship with a girl and then people wanted to know,"Are you gay, straight or bi?" The thing is I was attracted to her alone, and yes there have been a few girls since but now I've fallen in love with a guy and a few of the people who asked me before now said I was faking "being bisexual". For me, I can't talk for anyone else, but for me it was the individual person.
dyndan19 3 years ago 2
Well said, my friend. It makes sense to try to figure out who you are and who other people are, so I understand the urge to try to grasp, "am I gay, straight, bi, etc.?" But sexuality is usually fluid and it doesn't dictate WHO YOU ARE. You are you. Cheers!
normanthepig 3 years ago
i agree with critterbug101, you're really smart
amanijuu08 3 years ago
I'm gay, but I don't go around informing people that I'm gay. Only rare times, like this, do I ever even say the word. I am who I am. Most people around me that I know, who know I'm gay, found out without me saying that word.
genmaximus110 3 years ago
your really smart
critterbug101 4 years ago 3
well said
italoblu 4 years ago 2