I would marry a bisexual man. Actually, it's a fantasy of mine to have a threesome with me and 2 guys. If it was a bisexual man I married, he'd be more likely to be up for it, right xD? It doesn't matter who their past lovers were.... if they're kind and funny and smart I would date them. We're all just people, and, according to Kinsey, most of us have SOME bisexual urges. I don't see what the big deal is.
The issue with bi-guys might actually be the sex. Since I know some bi-guys want their girlfriends to use toys on them, if you know what i mean...Not all girls are up for that but some might be. If a guy is a sex-addict or doesn't wanna be in a long lasting relationship he's not in love.Although I know of a couple who been together for years yet have an open relationship! It seems to be working for them but it wouldn't work for most people.
Wether someone cheats or not depends on their character. I'm a bisexual/heteroflexible woman and would never cheat because it goes against my values. Women may face problems with bisexual men who prefer men, he would probably cheat och dump you if he was longing for a male partner. The hetroflexible guy would most probably not engage in a relationship with another man, he wouldn't fall for another man because the attraction is usually purely physical. It would be like any other relationship
I will never marry a bisexual dude.....NO OFFENSE to anyone but I see bisexual and gay men being less of a man than straight dudes...i know thats rude, im sorry :(
@AlanaPower111 Well good because im sure no bisexual man would ever want to marry someone as ignorant as you are anyway! I know I damn sure wouldn't want to marry an IDIOT! Bisexual men are less than a man whos straight? What's your definition of a man? Just because a dude is straight doesn't make him a "REAL" man! I know bi men who raise their children and are responsible fathers and straight men who dont! Im bi and fucked plenty straight dudes up so wtf are u talking about? smh
@JAYLOVE47 Well you lumped all straight people together when you said they dont accept homosexual. You were speaking from your experience and I was speaking from my experience with bisexual men. Its really all the same, and why you're on here, I think you should do a video about your views on homosexuals adopting and raising kids. I would love to hear your point of view :)
@uky1985 that's a false stereotype, straight men are just as whorish, everytime you see a trashy music video or a magazine cover with an airbrushed girl, all of that is made for the straight man. Stop being so closed minded and judgmental, anyone can be good or bad, sexuality doesn't always have something to do with it.
Can you blame them? Bi-sexual men are nothing but whores. Bi-sexual men and monogamy is an oxymoron. It just does not work out. Bi-sexual men are a bunch of nasty asses.
@uky1985 1985? You're about 26, 27 and you mean to tell me you aren't smart enough to know that all men are whorish and have high sex drives? Bisexual men are no more whorish and promiscuous than straight men... unless you've taken a study and have data proving that bisexual men are more whorish than straight men you can't make that statement unless you're just an ignorant idiot who believe in stupid stereotypes
@JAYLOVE47 I'm not the slut. I'm not the one with the stigma hanging over my head.I know how to keep it in my pants and keep my zipper up unlike bi-sexual men. I will dog bisexual men every chance I get.
@uky1985 And neither am I! You might not be a slut but you're definitely an idiot for generalizing all bisexual men and putting them into one category. You don't know every bisexual man so how can you say we are all sluts. As unfaithful as straight men are, as much as straight men cheat on their wives, as much as straight men pay women and prostitutes for sex.. how can u say bisexual men are sluts and straight men aren't? Dude you are delusional! All men (straight gay & bi) are sexual
@uky1985 But how can you bash all of us and say we are sluts when u dont know all of us.. straight men are sluts too.... most straight men have sex with more than 40 women in their whole life so why dont u call them sluts... all the straight men that cheat on their wives and pay young girls and prostitutes for sex... how aren't they sluts? You can judge anyone u want but u cant prove bisexual men are sluts, I can prove straight men are though! I mean everyone know most straight men cheat!
@JAYLOVE47 Straight men may cheat, but bisexual men all they do is play games. The chances of bi-sexual men cheating are far greater than straight men cheating.
@uky1985 What about all these straight "pimps" what are they? What about all these straight older mature males that pay young girls for sex.. what do we call them? "Sugar daddies"! What about all the men who are athletes and make lots of money who can get any girl they want or the rappers who call themselves "players"? Aren't they sluts too? lmbao! You're not making any sense right now dude!
I don't trust bisexual girls. Every bisexual girl I've ever dated has cheated on me with another girl. Their logic is always the same, that if she cheated on me with another guy, that would be bad, but having sex with another girl while she's with me, that's ok, it shoud turn me on and I'm being weird and unmanly to be hurt by being betrayed like that. Yeah, I heard that a lot and it blows my mind every time. Not to say all bisexual girls are like that, but the one's I've dated are.
My ex girlfriend told me she would never marry me because I'm bisexual. What bothers me is that she is also bisexual. The root of her reason is that she thinks too much of what other people think especially her family which are all republicans and bigots. Later, I told her that I am the "T" in LGBT. Yes, I told her I am mtf transexual. She didn't like that but gave me no answer why. Many LGB do not understand T, but the LGB is catching up.
@tkathryyn Can you blame her? Bi-sexual men are nothing but whores. Bi-sexual men and monogamy is an oxymoron. It just does not work out. Bi-sexual men are a bunch of nasty asses.
Some women are extremely leery about commiting to/marrying/concieving with a bisexual man because of the "what if...?"
Me, personally, I like both genders, but with men the bullshit is near minimum compared to women. I can be honest with a black woman (or any woman) but that can cut my throat as well.
I don't know... David Bowie is bi, and married to Iman; Angelina is bi, she has Brad; Kim from TRHoA is bisexual, she got Kroy (and Kroy JR.)...
bismillah. i like the fact that u do wat a wife n children. some ignorant ppl like Tyra banks think youd b miserable but shes crazy. i dont agree wit any fornication but im all for marraige which is for man n woman. dont give up. b honest n u will find a good loving wife lord willing. meantime i invite u to read the Book and study Islam for the greatest crime is to worship other than God for He is One without partner n son and to Him we return.
is actually trying to be politically correct when they pretend most new HIV cases are from heterosexual sex. Thats a half truth. Most people who get it from straight sex are women who have sex with bi men, so it still all goes back to male homosexuality. That can also be verified with a quick google search of scientific studies.
Scientists have actually studied the psychology behind that. Their is a scientific reason as to why two women are considered a turn on and two men are not. You can look it up on google if you want, its too much to type. And anyway, whether you want to believe it or not, gay men are the leading group when it comes to HIV or any other STD. This is verified by CDC stats. You can look that up to. You need to read a book by Michael Fumento called The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS. The media
I don't agree that women are too picky, women have their preferences and so does gay men. But I do agree that as a woman, any man that willingly have sex with another man is gay. I don't understand the logic behind bisexuality but that it is a disguise for what an individual truly is-gay. In the end a bi man will not settle w/ a woman, not b/c of the woman, but b/c he truly is gay. I think its better to accept being gay, be proud of it, & u can still have a nuclear family of ur own.
@berrycandid I totally disagree with you. As a bi guy i really prefer women as partners in relationships and sex, but i do find some from BOTH genders to be very attractive, it all depends on the person. Good looking people are good looking people. But that's just me. I had one experience with a guy, the rest has been with women. Bi guys (and girls) kinda vary widely. Some prefer opposite sex, some prefer same sex, some don't even have much of a preference or feel evenly split.
In speaking to friend, I asked him whether a straight woman should ever date a bi man and he said the only people who should date bi people are bi people because the hankering for the same sex never goes away. That would be my issue, not the fact that the man had slept with other men, but that at some point in the marriage he would miss it. What say you Jay?
I did not know you are bi-sexual till you confessed that you are..If u feel you like more men then women don't want u. Because you have the same feeling as women attracted to men. u can not give full affection towards woman that u marry.
-cont'd- The fear of getting a life ruining disease like hiv/aids or hepatitis from someone you should feel safe and in love with is just too much, so I know i'm guilty of dismissing the idea of being with anyone who's been with other men on that principal alone and I've actually helped a friend bury her child born due to the consequences of her cheating hubby's down low relations.
the reason a lot of women are not accepting is because right now hiv is ravaging in particular the black community because its not as socially acceptable in black communities to be gay so they keep it on the downlow and the women end up with horrible diseases sometimes due to the men not using protection when they're cheating on them with other men. As a black woman I've both witnessed and been the butt of a cheating 'bisexual' man and it scared me --
The double standard is that it's okay for men to like seeing two women together, bit vice versa it isn't. I'm a woman and I would be with a bisexual man.
My brother is openly bisexual and proud of his sexuality and his past and has been happily married to his WIFE for 5 years. Statistically, bisexual people usually end up in long term heterosexual relationships. If being with a woman long term is what you want, go for it! You will find what you are looking for, just don't give up.
I'm gonna reverse it. Why is it that if a white person bakes themselves in the sun everyday to get dark, make their lips bigger, get but implants, boob jobs it's ok but if a black person does the opposite of everything the white person is doing, it's self hate? See you never talk about that so why don't you do a video about white women that try to look like us instead of black women trying to look like them?
must say that you can have all of that with a man! i'm bisexual and i'm not worried about it really, i know i can be happy with either a man or woman and have that dream. is it right that women do this, no it isn't it makes me angry that people think bis can't commit. but just to let you know you can still have that dream. still be honest with who you are and realize you can be happy with either a man or a woman!:)
i kinda disagree with you brother. i'm very much a male bisexual catholic and my heterosexual prodestant christian female fiance' loves me very much and wants to marry me and be with me forever. may gOD BLESS YOU BROTHER...HUGZ N KISSES. :) XOXOXOXO
Oh man, any subject like this brings out the WORST in YouTube commenters. I don't see why people feel obliged to make such a big deal over everything, and to stereotype so bluntly and idiotically! NOT ALL PEOPLE IN A CERTAIN GROUP BEHAVE IN ONE WAY - this applies to race, gender, sexual orientation, you name it...
It does seem to me that it's more difficult to be a bisexual male, as the awful generalizations remain but are combined with extra stigma regarding masculinity and such.
this video was actually very insightful. I'm a chick that wouldn't fuck with a bisexual male but seeing this video makes me think, maybe that wouldn't be a total deal breaker...
Note: Whenever people use absolute terms like "never" the statement that usually contains them is complete BS. I'm a girl and I wish my boyfriend were bisexual because two men actually make me ^_^.
Im a bisexual woman who actually prefers to date bisexual men. I would rather have an honest bisexual man than a "straight" man who hides who he is out of fear...o and Im black :-)
Im a bisexual woman who actually prefers to date bisexual men. I would rather have an honest bisexual man than a "straight" man who hides who he is out of fear
Most gay guys that I know don't care that much about penis size.I would guess that a really long dick would kinda hurt in the ass.This is coming from a straight guy though so I wouldn't no from personal experience.
@GloomySunset and i'm only saying this because LGBT seems to be a bit less of an issue with white people. they seem less religious and less macho-oriented than we are (by "we" i dont just mean blacks cuz I'm mixed)
That is a Load of shit. I prefer bisexual/pansexual men and I know many woman who do too so..it's not a HUGE population of women that enjoy bi men but a good amount do
There ARE women out there who want bisexual men. (Usually bi women) The problem however is no different than a black and white couple during segregation . Outside world is hard to combat. Gay men claim that gay men don't want women straight men and women want to believe that sex is a "straight" line, and the term "down low brother" has made villians of any bi black male.
@Kissiq1618 my ratio is 80/20 i love me some women, but if i am attracted to a guy then they are really feminine.. im too dominate to take that but i will give it.
That's not true. Maybe I don't apply, because I'm mixed and have more of a European world view, but- truthfully, I would marry my a man, who I loved, if he told me that he was bisexual. BUT, I wouldn't want everyone else to know that he liked men. I'm somewhat a non-conformist, but it would unearth too many problems for it to be known that my husband was bisexual.
As a dude who has dated a Bi-sexual girl in the past I can understand why someone wouldn't want to date them in a commited/serious relationship or not at all for that matter. At least when I date a straight girl I can peep males around her who may be trying to be more then friends. But, with Bi sexuals, forget about it. You have to be suspicious of her homegirl,homeboy, her hairdressers, the postman. Bi sexual woman got a nigga looking like inspector gadget! the way you keeping tabs on her.
I think I know why women don't want bisexual men. I talked with friend of mine and he said there is no such thing as bisexual men. According to what he told me bisexual men are in transition to becoming gay (whether they know it or not). Once you had sex with men, they could never really be loyal to their woman or even really "into" their women. And just by watching this video, I would say he is right. I can tell by watching this video your not really "into" women at all. I can tell just by the
way you talk you don't even really like women, and you don't want to deal with them, but feel you have to just so you can have the children you desire. Which might I add is very selfish, I can’t believe people are so selfish and so quick to bring another human life (that’s right another real life, not just a thing you made to leave your mark on this world) into this world, who never asked to be here in the first place, not out of love, but just to carry your name, and hurting whoever you want
in the process? But I digress... Just imagine dude its bad enough when woman find out their man cheats on them with other woman, but some would kill themselves if it was with a man. They will always have that thought in the back of their head that they are just not enough to satisfy a bisexual man. Other women they can compete with… but how the hell are they suppose to compete with a man? They are not men.
I mean think about, the only reason you want to be with a women is to have
kids. which is why most gay man do pretend to be straight so they can have both married/family lifestyle as well as their own little lifestyle on the side and women don’t want to end up with a dude secretly doing men on the side. You could never give a woman what she really deserved or treat a woman the way a straight man could. I’m sorry, but that is just the way it is. You choose your lifestyle; you cannot have it all!
And getting with a woman just to children is not being honest and fair to yourself either and is a terrible reason, instead of actually loving her and wanting her to be your queen always and forever by your side.
@leightweight420 First of all please dont come onto my video and disrespect me and my fellow bisexual bruthas. You so ignorant and u talk stupid.How u gone tell me or anybody else what they are and what they want. Tell your friend he is an idiot and unless he is bisexual he cant speak on our desires or tell us what we feel and whats in oru heart and mind unless he has supernatural abilities or unless he's a psychologist. I do like women, very much so you're wrong, stop making silly assumptions
Well I am hetero so maybe I was making assumptions... it just really seems to me that you don't like women (or at the very least not the way that I do!) I brought my friend into the discussion because he use to be bi, he is now gay and happy with his partner of four yrs. it is his theory that there is no such thing as a bisexual man and that they are just in transition to becoming gay. so I figured it was worth mentioning as a reason why women would not want that... thanks for all the insults
@leightweight420 I didn't insult u but u cant judge every bi male off of what your friend did.. Just because he was confused and was transitioning doesnt mean all bisexual men are like him. There is a such thing as a bisexual man how can u say its not? Ur not making sense. Bisexual men like both men and women and i know men who cant live with just pussy and cant live with just dick they need both. You cant speak for everyone and tell someone what they are or what they think, only they know that
But that is the point right there that I was trying to make! You just said it, “cant live with just pussy and cant live with just dick they need both” that’s why I said I think I know why women don't want bisexual men. Think about it women trip out when you cheat on them and want a man that is loyal. They don’t want to always feel like they are not enough for you and could never fully satisfy you. Tell me could you be fully satisfied with just a woman and only a woman? You said you need both?
@leightweight420 I said some bisexual men feel this way i never said how i feel about just being with women and at this point yes i honestly do feel like tight wet pussy would be enough definitely but u already have your mind made up because u think ur a psychic and can read minds so whatever sir... have a nice day
if you still dont understand where Im coming from watch this video on youtube called "Bisexual Men With Straight Wives And Girlfriends. Can They Be Faithful?" and it will give you a better idea why i think no women wants to be with one and why marriage/family lifestyle wont work for you man, like I said you choose your lifestyle and cannot have it all! You cannot place a bisexual into traditional type of lifestyle that women want
@leightweight420 And even if he was not into women, SO FUCKIN WHAT. You so busy judgin niggas preferences, i cant stand little shit turds like you who judge people and their decisions. Ok if he is bi,and its a problem to you find a solution to his problem....Hmmm....Cant find a solution, Well what could that mean..oh yea,..YOU NEED TO MIND YA FUCKIN BUSINESS BITCH AND LET PEOPLE FUCKIN LIVE, YOU DUMB ASS SHITTY BRAINED GORILLA PUSSY SLIDING OUT OF KINDERGARTENER
I like your video and I agree. I am a bisexual man myself and I'm honest about it. I'm not ashamed of who I am. I've dated girls and guys in the past. At the time when I dated a women I wanted to be honest with her and I told her my past me being with a dude. But I couldn't tell her the truth and come to the reality that I was bisexual. So I told her I was straight. Now that we've broken up she's knows I'm bi and for the most part she's
Me personally, I would never knowing be with/marry a bisexual man. My reason is, even though I don't judge the gay/bisexual lifestyle, I could never see myself being with a man knowing he likes/is attracted to men. The thought of it is disgusting to me.
I have a friend who is bi-sexual and is very open about it, even in high school and he dated a really good friend of mine for > than a year he is now married (2 a different women) but he doesn't deny anything about his past In his case, it didn't seem difficult for him to find a guy or a girl... I can see how it can get frustrating but continue being honest and I'm sure you will eventually find that sum1 who is truly accepting of you,
yesterday i was chaining up my bike and i bent over to chain up my bike and i was wearing some skintight latex leggings soo i guess my butt was shiny and some guy came behind me on a bike and was like hey hello hows your day and i got turned on and he wasnt even my type.he was black though hhaha and sounded masculine.......
IM PRETTY MASCULINE IN TERMS OF HOW I ACT BUT I LOOK VERY FEM..I WEAR EYELINER EXTENSIONS IN MY HEAD AND skintight pants but i walk and talk very macho like
Im bisexual male and openly bisexual i never been fucked in the butt but have let my girlfriend put fingers in my butt atleast your honest about your sexuality and its kinda hard being openly bisexual,black and stuff ...I know. does your family know?
I can appreciate this video however me as a BW can't date/marry a gay or bi man period. And also I know guys that think the same way. They may have "fun" with a bi chick but make a wife out of a Straight woman. For me it's not being gay or bi thing that's the issue, it's more so of finding a man who's spiritual views/morals regarding sexualilty (and other issues) are in sync like mine.
I havent gone through all the comments so dont know if its been mentioned but one of the reasons is because alot of people dont believe in bisexuality even alot of gay people dont. Bi's get hated on by gay people all the time. Its one or the other to people so to your woman she may think you really just are gay and havent come to terms with it yet so what would be the point? I personally believe in bisexuality but alot of people dont.
I'm going to keep it real. As a dude I dont agree with the idea that men have no probs with marrying a bi chick. I know a lot of dudes (myself included) who would never marry a bi chick. I can have sex with a bi chick, and have a lot of fun with one but honestly my ego can't handle only being half of what my woman really wants. I like having a chick that basically can't seem to live without the dick lol. To me there is nothing like a (at least mostly) hetero chick.
@JAYLOVE47 U might hate me4 this but I don't think openly gays should have kids. I think its selfish2 kids who had enough 2b bullied2 suicide over b4da internet came along. Porn stars & openly gays should adopt a turtle R something. A hooker could B a mother if she relocates but a porn star should hang it up (U think Kim Kardashian would be single if she didn't make that tape ?). Find U a sista who doesn't want kids & just have a good life w/ her after U give your heart 2da Lord Jesus.
@JAYLOVE47 BW have shown me some love even though they knew I was bisexual for 2months, 16yrs ago. They wanted2 get w/ me but i was married2 a sista @ the time. I passed on those offers. Here's da catch 22. BW will accept U if U R a good man, but they will struggle in seeing U as a complete man b/c of the peer pressure they will receive. It's not their fault4 seeing U as tainted. We put them in that position by pushing da envelope. Suck up your pride & deal w/ their challenges 2your past.
@JAYLOVE47 U say U honest. Well lets see if you can deal with this. Being gay in this world is like wearing your underwear outside of your clothes six months away from Halloween. It is a tremendous culture shock for folks and no matter how society tries to push the gay agenda down folks throat, they will never normalize the gay life style especially in this Judeo-Christian society. I really think people who are openly gay like I was are mentally ill. Closet gays are just immoral. Real talk
@JAYLOVE47 The devil is a damn liar. Bah-lee dat. Black women will forgive you for your homosexual past if your game is right. Trust me. I got to 2nd base or 3rd base with 2 men like 16.5 years ago. Each relationship was one month apart. I doubt I did the thing more than 10 times between the both of them. I was just experimenting. I was molested when I was six years old. I am very honest and masculine. Could have been downlow but I outted myself and been branded ever since.
just lie to any of you futer black girl friends and tell them your 100% straight and that your not bisexual by you makeing this video its gona make it hard to finde a black woman that you like because any black woman you might like in the futer might have seen this video and then wont want you
am a black female and i actualy think bi men are really sexy cos theyre open minded in this conservative society that stil bugs about sexuality- gay, bi, pansexual, transsexual blah blah. esp in the black society. its really hard i guess...i still hav my hangups. props to u dude. U brave doin this video!
man i should have guest with you makeing all of these videos about gay black men and trying to promote gay behaviour but are you bisexual or fully gay
I could never be with a man that has had sex with another man. I have nothing against gay people, to each their own. That is just not something I want for myself. I think most women would agree. Marrying a man that likes both sexes, there is a risk that he will always secretly want men or be unfaithful with one. All while married to and sleeping with you. The thought of that is absolutely revolting.
I have to respectfully disagree with you. I am a black woman and in love with a black bisexual man and I am more than willing to marry him. Unfortunately, he is alot like you and very negative because of how other people see him and us. I cant pretend to understand what it is like to be bisexual, b/c I am not. Most people are scared b/c of STDs and cheating, but monogamy and honesty has no sexual orientation. Keep your head up and keep an open mind. ;)
Props to you dude. To be honest though I think more and more women are accepting the fact that there are many bisexual men. It seems it is an inevitable thing and those that keep expecting that "man" as the stereotype will only be left alone. Honesty, on the other hand, is to be prized..and those that appreciate that will set themselves up for success in the long run.
You know I am going through this right now. The man was never honest with me from the beginning. We were together for 10 years and 2 kids and he never mentioned that he was bisexual. I didn't want my choices taken away from me like that. I left him. Only for him to come back six years later still lying about this. I got the truth by snooping. He has brutally hurt me and his daughters cause he was dishonest not because he was Bi..I can never trust men now
You can live a straight life style after being gay, I know blk men that got out of the Army, and admitantly had slept with men,came home and got married and had many children--men do it all the time--it becomes a problem when the man go between the two.Blk Women do not want to share with anyone-and definantly not a man.
Wow,interesting I always kind of thought you maybe Bi-sexual--yet, I find you very masculin. And I have felt this way about men that I was close to, however they have never confirmed my feelings. I get the feeling they find dealing with men easier-less emotionperhaps...They have male friends whom they "chill" with to all hours of the night-I always get that feeling like they enjoy eachother company over womens company-mind you they both have wifes, girl friends and kids.
One of my favorite sitcoms is Will & Grace, and even though he is gay and their relationship is platonic, they seem to have a better relationship than the traditional family. I know a lot of women don't want to settle for that but it is a better alternative than being alone waiting for your true love. In the sitcom they have one of the strongest relationships I have ever seen and thought that they should get married. When your ass gets old, sex is going to be to be the las thing on your mind.
Women subconsciously see sex as an act of submission. So if she's a straight woman, she feels that you have submitted to another man, therefore you are perceived by her to be like a woman, therefore she is no longer attracted. That is why they want their man to be an alpha, to be the most dominant man, so that they feel he is more man than they are. Granted, what some of them consider to be alpha is questionable, but, they still want alpha none the less. It's about perception.
Being honest is important and if you choose to be bisexual then that is your choice but choosing that you have to understand that some women don't want a man who has been with another man. Me personally I don't want to be with a man that has been with another man. It's not because of the fact that you have been with a man its just once a man has sex with another man you can pretty much tell in how they cary themselves and the way that they walk and talk. I like my men to be the alpha male.
@KcGurl4Lyfe You dont even make sense... you have gay/bisexual men who are more built and masculine than some straight men so spare me with that elementary excuse
@torrentANONYMOUScodc no you are not born with it, then i supose all serial killers were born to be serial killers, it a CHOICE, oh and you agreed with me that i knew the answer so dont deny it , body features is what you are born with, you are not born with a prefrence choice in your head, you choose your path once your brain developes, i dont even like getting in to that scientific stuff but science proved that you are not born with it, it not a genetic effect either,your welcome :))
@torrentANONYMOUScodc well i did say your welcome did'nt i ? and hun youtube is full of crazy people so this should'nt be your area and one thing it kinda should be your area when it comes to head crazyness though
R U Crazy! I’m sure you’re a nice person. Friends yes! Husband never…..you are the reason I’m not really dating. there are so many bisexual men out there. Most men don’t tell you that they been with other men. You want me…you want him. trust me if you get married you’re going to cheat. WOW! all I can say is WTF.
@woyay no gay people need to adopt children. there are far too many kids orphanages because there parents cant take care of them or are not around. this is an epidemic all across the world not just america or asia. besides we have more then enough people in the world as its not necessary that EVERYONE has to reproduce!
I know what black women are like. And thats what its going to be if you limit you're self to black women. You live in america.. man you got all colors of women. All mindsets, cultures etc etc. Open up man.
I've not really noticed this at all! I know quite a few women that have had crushes and been in relationships with bi men and I also know quite a few bi women that are married to bi men. My mom has been married to a bisexual and conceived me by a bisexual male. So yeah this is new to me
I don't know if I should be responding to this but I will. It’s like what you said women bring up too much drama and stuff that's because you're use to being with men but she's not a man she's a woman. It’s like I'm not good enough for you and I'm not what you want. You don't want a woman you want a man or expect me t
I would marry a bisexual man. Actually, it's a fantasy of mine to have a threesome with me and 2 guys. If it was a bisexual man I married, he'd be more likely to be up for it, right xD? It doesn't matter who their past lovers were.... if they're kind and funny and smart I would date them. We're all just people, and, according to Kinsey, most of us have SOME bisexual urges. I don't see what the big deal is.
lovelierlex 5 days ago
i hope these chicks are listening to ur honesty bro. its refreshing ...i think. good job.
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Chrissypooh1991 2 weeks ago
The issue with bi-guys might actually be the sex. Since I know some bi-guys want their girlfriends to use toys on them, if you know what i mean...Not all girls are up for that but some might be. If a guy is a sex-addict or doesn't wanna be in a long lasting relationship he's not in love.Although I know of a couple who been together for years yet have an open relationship! It seems to be working for them but it wouldn't work for most people.
lina8208 3 weeks ago
Wether someone cheats or not depends on their character. I'm a bisexual/heteroflexible woman and would never cheat because it goes against my values. Women may face problems with bisexual men who prefer men, he would probably cheat och dump you if he was longing for a male partner. The hetroflexible guy would most probably not engage in a relationship with another man, he wouldn't fall for another man because the attraction is usually purely physical. It would be like any other relationship
lina8208 3 weeks ago
I will never marry a bisexual dude.....NO OFFENSE to anyone but I see bisexual and gay men being less of a man than straight dudes...i know thats rude, im sorry :(
AlanaPower111 1 month ago
@AlanaPower111 Well good because im sure no bisexual man would ever want to marry someone as ignorant as you are anyway! I know I damn sure wouldn't want to marry an IDIOT! Bisexual men are less than a man whos straight? What's your definition of a man? Just because a dude is straight doesn't make him a "REAL" man! I know bi men who raise their children and are responsible fathers and straight men who dont! Im bi and fucked plenty straight dudes up so wtf are u talking about? smh
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 I didn't mean to offend anyone. But I was talking to a dude who was on the down low and it changed my opinion of all of bi men.
AlanaPower111 1 month ago
@AlanaPower111 u should at least give people a chance before lumping all of them into one category
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Well you lumped all straight people together when you said they dont accept homosexual. You were speaking from your experience and I was speaking from my experience with bisexual men. Its really all the same, and why you're on here, I think you should do a video about your views on homosexuals adopting and raising kids. I would love to hear your point of view :)
AlanaPower111 1 month ago
@uky1985 that's a false stereotype, straight men are just as whorish, everytime you see a trashy music video or a magazine cover with an airbrushed girl, all of that is made for the straight man. Stop being so closed minded and judgmental, anyone can be good or bad, sexuality doesn't always have something to do with it.
micstar615 1 month ago
Can you blame them? Bi-sexual men are nothing but whores. Bi-sexual men and monogamy is an oxymoron. It just does not work out. Bi-sexual men are a bunch of nasty asses.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 1985? You're about 26, 27 and you mean to tell me you aren't smart enough to know that all men are whorish and have high sex drives? Bisexual men are no more whorish and promiscuous than straight men... unless you've taken a study and have data proving that bisexual men are more whorish than straight men you can't make that statement unless you're just an ignorant idiot who believe in stupid stereotypes
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Bisexual men are trashy. I know. My ex-boyfriend was bisexual and all he did was cheat.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 So me and my bi friends who rarely ever have sex are trashy?
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Basically. ALL bisexual men do is fuck around. Period end of story.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 Unless you know all bi sexual men you cant prove that... bye bye
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Whatever whore.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 ok moron
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 I'm not the slut. I'm not the one with the stigma hanging over my head.I know how to keep it in my pants and keep my zipper up unlike bi-sexual men. I will dog bisexual men every chance I get.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 And neither am I! You might not be a slut but you're definitely an idiot for generalizing all bisexual men and putting them into one category. You don't know every bisexual man so how can you say we are all sluts. As unfaithful as straight men are, as much as straight men cheat on their wives, as much as straight men pay women and prostitutes for sex.. how can u say bisexual men are sluts and straight men aren't? Dude you are delusional! All men (straight gay & bi) are sexual
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Dude I can judge people.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 But how can you bash all of us and say we are sluts when u dont know all of us.. straight men are sluts too.... most straight men have sex with more than 40 women in their whole life so why dont u call them sluts... all the straight men that cheat on their wives and pay young girls and prostitutes for sex... how aren't they sluts? You can judge anyone u want but u cant prove bisexual men are sluts, I can prove straight men are though! I mean everyone know most straight men cheat!
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Straight men may cheat, but bisexual men all they do is play games. The chances of bi-sexual men cheating are far greater than straight men cheating.
uky1985 1 month ago
@uky1985 What about all these straight "pimps" what are they? What about all these straight older mature males that pay young girls for sex.. what do we call them? "Sugar daddies"! What about all the men who are athletes and make lots of money who can get any girl they want or the rappers who call themselves "players"? Aren't they sluts too? lmbao! You're not making any sense right now dude!
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
Keep the faith, Nigga! You will find a woman or a man cuz you are honest with yourself.
kittygalore69 1 month ago
pathetic, ignorant racist
karaps 3 months ago
I don't trust bisexual girls. Every bisexual girl I've ever dated has cheated on me with another girl. Their logic is always the same, that if she cheated on me with another guy, that would be bad, but having sex with another girl while she's with me, that's ok, it shoud turn me on and I'm being weird and unmanly to be hurt by being betrayed like that. Yeah, I heard that a lot and it blows my mind every time. Not to say all bisexual girls are like that, but the one's I've dated are.
carlinsaves 4 months ago
My ex girlfriend told me she would never marry me because I'm bisexual. What bothers me is that she is also bisexual. The root of her reason is that she thinks too much of what other people think especially her family which are all republicans and bigots. Later, I told her that I am the "T" in LGBT. Yes, I told her I am mtf transexual. She didn't like that but gave me no answer why. Many LGB do not understand T, but the LGB is catching up.
tkathryyn 4 months ago
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@tkathryyn Can you blame her? Bi-sexual men are nothing but whores. Bi-sexual men and monogamy is an oxymoron. It just does not work out. Bi-sexual men are a bunch of nasty asses.
uky1985 1 month ago
Some women are extremely leery about commiting to/marrying/concieving with a bisexual man because of the "what if...?"
Me, personally, I like both genders, but with men the bullshit is near minimum compared to women. I can be honest with a black woman (or any woman) but that can cut my throat as well.
I don't know... David Bowie is bi, and married to Iman; Angelina is bi, she has Brad; Kim from TRHoA is bisexual, she got Kroy (and Kroy JR.)...
gayboymotown 4 months ago
bismillah. i like the fact that u do wat a wife n children. some ignorant ppl like Tyra banks think youd b miserable but shes crazy. i dont agree wit any fornication but im all for marraige which is for man n woman. dont give up. b honest n u will find a good loving wife lord willing. meantime i invite u to read the Book and study Islam for the greatest crime is to worship other than God for He is One without partner n son and to Him we return.
1tauheed1 4 months ago
is actually trying to be politically correct when they pretend most new HIV cases are from heterosexual sex. Thats a half truth. Most people who get it from straight sex are women who have sex with bi men, so it still all goes back to male homosexuality. That can also be verified with a quick google search of scientific studies.
clip11 4 months ago
Scientists have actually studied the psychology behind that. Their is a scientific reason as to why two women are considered a turn on and two men are not. You can look it up on google if you want, its too much to type. And anyway, whether you want to believe it or not, gay men are the leading group when it comes to HIV or any other STD. This is verified by CDC stats. You can look that up to. You need to read a book by Michael Fumento called The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS. The media
clip11 4 months ago
With HIV any woman who has sex with a bi man is gambling with her life. My mom's friend caught HIV from her bisexual ex husband.
clip11 4 months ago
I would -I'm only attracted to bisexual men.
NiymbleFingers 5 months ago
same thing goes for women men view you as dirty once you tell them your bi
MsMisskitty1990 5 months ago
I would marry a bisexual man
sarabower1 5 months ago
@sarabower1 ME TOO!
poetryrb 3 months ago
I don't agree that women are too picky, women have their preferences and so does gay men. But I do agree that as a woman, any man that willingly have sex with another man is gay. I don't understand the logic behind bisexuality but that it is a disguise for what an individual truly is-gay. In the end a bi man will not settle w/ a woman, not b/c of the woman, but b/c he truly is gay. I think its better to accept being gay, be proud of it, & u can still have a nuclear family of ur own.
berrycandid 5 months ago
@berrycandid I totally disagree with you. As a bi guy i really prefer women as partners in relationships and sex, but i do find some from BOTH genders to be very attractive, it all depends on the person. Good looking people are good looking people. But that's just me. I had one experience with a guy, the rest has been with women. Bi guys (and girls) kinda vary widely. Some prefer opposite sex, some prefer same sex, some don't even have much of a preference or feel evenly split.
ckinch 4 months ago
In speaking to friend, I asked him whether a straight woman should ever date a bi man and he said the only people who should date bi people are bi people because the hankering for the same sex never goes away. That would be my issue, not the fact that the man had slept with other men, but that at some point in the marriage he would miss it. What say you Jay?
kinneycutie 6 months ago
Niether will a gay guy because bisexual men are disgusting and should be put to death.
neil22100 6 months ago
@neil22100 Stfu you ignoramus.
AfterForeverNever 6 months ago
@AfterForeverNever Shut up, filthy bi!
neil22100 6 months ago
@neil22100 Lmfao.
AfterForeverNever 6 months ago
@AfterForeverNever ha hang the bi!
neil22100 6 months ago
i think you are very brave for being honest your about your sexuality, big ups.
kfields0021 7 months ago
I did not know you are bi-sexual till you confessed that you are..If u feel you like more men then women don't want u. Because you have the same feeling as women attracted to men. u can not give full affection towards woman that u marry.
tfnny85 7 months ago
This is bullshit and fucking stupid. Screw those who have prejudice against your sexuality, they aren't worth it anyway.
MegaOrangePenguin 7 months ago
-cont'd- The fear of getting a life ruining disease like hiv/aids or hepatitis from someone you should feel safe and in love with is just too much, so I know i'm guilty of dismissing the idea of being with anyone who's been with other men on that principal alone and I've actually helped a friend bury her child born due to the consequences of her cheating hubby's down low relations.
crimsongirlx 7 months ago
the reason a lot of women are not accepting is because right now hiv is ravaging in particular the black community because its not as socially acceptable in black communities to be gay so they keep it on the downlow and the women end up with horrible diseases sometimes due to the men not using protection when they're cheating on them with other men. As a black woman I've both witnessed and been the butt of a cheating 'bisexual' man and it scared me --
crimsongirlx 7 months ago
Some black women will.
Not seeing the point of the double standard.
Plenty of double standards for both genders.
Deal with it.
udolipixie 7 months ago
The double standard is that it's okay for men to like seeing two women together, bit vice versa it isn't. I'm a woman and I would be with a bisexual man.
theonlygoodthingVLOG 7 months ago
My brother is openly bisexual and proud of his sexuality and his past and has been happily married to his WIFE for 5 years. Statistically, bisexual people usually end up in long term heterosexual relationships. If being with a woman long term is what you want, go for it! You will find what you are looking for, just don't give up.
jmcochran410 7 months ago
I'm gonna reverse it. Why is it that if a white person bakes themselves in the sun everyday to get dark, make their lips bigger, get but implants, boob jobs it's ok but if a black person does the opposite of everything the white person is doing, it's self hate? See you never talk about that so why don't you do a video about white women that try to look like us instead of black women trying to look like them?
the0018 7 months ago
what do u enjoy pussy?
whatigot2say 7 months ago
u have nice lips , a sexy mouth, man2man luvin.
whatigot2say 7 months ago
must say that you can have all of that with a man! i'm bisexual and i'm not worried about it really, i know i can be happy with either a man or woman and have that dream. is it right that women do this, no it isn't it makes me angry that people think bis can't commit. but just to let you know you can still have that dream. still be honest with who you are and realize you can be happy with either a man or a woman!:)
sillykatz 7 months ago
do you boo, all day every day!!!
MultiShunda 7 months ago
i kinda disagree with you brother. i'm very much a male bisexual catholic and my heterosexual prodestant christian female fiance' loves me very much and wants to marry me and be with me forever. may gOD BLESS YOU BROTHER...HUGZ N KISSES. :) XOXOXOXO
sweetguy410 7 months ago
u say most black women wud say "oh hell no, i aint messing with no gay dude" i'd be like "THATS HOT!" lol and i'm a black female
PamdaBear1 7 months ago
have we seen your package? when?
jonasalden29201 8 months ago
I'm not even going to watch your rant. You're wrong to judge 50% of humanity based on a few bad experiences.
babybunnyberry 8 months ago
I don't want to hear it. I leave them alone.
missexi718 8 months ago
Oh man, any subject like this brings out the WORST in YouTube commenters. I don't see why people feel obliged to make such a big deal over everything, and to stereotype so bluntly and idiotically! NOT ALL PEOPLE IN A CERTAIN GROUP BEHAVE IN ONE WAY - this applies to race, gender, sexual orientation, you name it...
It does seem to me that it's more difficult to be a bisexual male, as the awful generalizations remain but are combined with extra stigma regarding masculinity and such.
moscowmasha 8 months ago
@moscowmasha Agreed!
babybunnyberry 8 months ago
Bisexual people are just horny people.
Somalivlogger 9 months ago
Then you should never had crossed that boarder!
Funkella 9 months ago
this video was actually very insightful. I'm a chick that wouldn't fuck with a bisexual male but seeing this video makes me think, maybe that wouldn't be a total deal breaker...
sapphireflow 9 months ago
What girl wants to be with a man who's had sex with another man?
Locketii 9 months ago
@Locketii
I would, if I fell in love with one. It's no big deal. I seriously don't see why it would matter, sheesh.
zaswerty 7 months ago
Note: Whenever people use absolute terms like "never" the statement that usually contains them is complete BS. I'm a girl and I wish my boyfriend were bisexual because two men actually make me ^_^.
Oh well.
Deroliebe 9 months ago
"Once you get fucked by a nigguh", that really made me lol :p.
sanlontos 9 months ago
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Im a bisexual woman who actually prefers to date bisexual men. I would rather have an honest bisexual man than a "straight" man who hides who he is out of fear...o and Im black :-)
prettymissj 9 months ago
Im a bisexual woman who actually prefers to date bisexual men. I would rather have an honest bisexual man than a "straight" man who hides who he is out of fear
prettymissj 9 months ago
im sorry my friend but you're wrong my fiancee knows im bisexual and she's totally straight , im sorry you feel this way i hope you find a soul mate
chatanwarrior 10 months ago
Most gay guys that I know don't care that much about penis size.I would guess that a really long dick would kinda hurt in the ass.This is coming from a straight guy though so I wouldn't no from personal experience.
Johnnybomb1 10 months ago
what would you do if a black woman actually was sexually attracted to you?..and like you,..coz of your brains and intelligence! ....lol,,,
moondear2000 11 months ago
hey what do you mean you gay,...and you want to marry a woman! are you going to stop being in relationships with men if you marry!!!!
moondear2000 11 months ago
there are women who will be with a bi guy, but most of those women probably aren't black...
GloomySunset 11 months ago
@GloomySunset and i'm only saying this because LGBT seems to be a bit less of an issue with white people. they seem less religious and less macho-oriented than we are (by "we" i dont just mean blacks cuz I'm mixed)
GloomySunset 11 months ago
That is a Load of shit. I prefer bisexual/pansexual men and I know many woman who do too so..it's not a HUGE population of women that enjoy bi men but a good amount do
Jelloxox 11 months ago
There ARE women out there who want bisexual men. (Usually bi women) The problem however is no different than a black and white couple during segregation . Outside world is hard to combat. Gay men claim that gay men don't want women straight men and women want to believe that sex is a "straight" line, and the term "down low brother" has made villians of any bi black male.
jameelahere 11 months ago
I would. :) I think it's awesome. Then Again I'm bisexual too...but I figure he wouldn't mind. ;)
notblondeswede 11 months ago
@Kissiq1618 my ratio is 80/20 i love me some women, but if i am attracted to a guy then they are really feminine.. im too dominate to take that but i will give it.
legalman07 11 months ago
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i get fucked in the ass
cricketchandra 11 months ago
That's not true. Maybe I don't apply, because I'm mixed and have more of a European world view, but- truthfully, I would marry my a man, who I loved, if he told me that he was bisexual. BUT, I wouldn't want everyone else to know that he liked men. I'm somewhat a non-conformist, but it would unearth too many problems for it to be known that my husband was bisexual.
IsisAmtiess 11 months ago
@IsisAmtiess lol now thats funny the postman
chitownzfinesthustla 9 months ago
As a dude who has dated a Bi-sexual girl in the past I can understand why someone wouldn't want to date them in a commited/serious relationship or not at all for that matter. At least when I date a straight girl I can peep males around her who may be trying to be more then friends. But, with Bi sexuals, forget about it. You have to be suspicious of her homegirl,homeboy, her hairdressers, the postman. Bi sexual woman got a nigga looking like inspector gadget! the way you keeping tabs on her.
FitnessGuru1988 11 months ago
@FitnessGuru1988 well that's not fair, just cuz she bi dont mean she wanna fuck everything that walks!
GloomySunset 11 months ago
I think I know why women don't want bisexual men. I talked with friend of mine and he said there is no such thing as bisexual men. According to what he told me bisexual men are in transition to becoming gay (whether they know it or not). Once you had sex with men, they could never really be loyal to their woman or even really "into" their women. And just by watching this video, I would say he is right. I can tell by watching this video your not really "into" women at all. I can tell just by the
leightweight420 1 year ago
way you talk you don't even really like women, and you don't want to deal with them, but feel you have to just so you can have the children you desire. Which might I add is very selfish, I can’t believe people are so selfish and so quick to bring another human life (that’s right another real life, not just a thing you made to leave your mark on this world) into this world, who never asked to be here in the first place, not out of love, but just to carry your name, and hurting whoever you want
leightweight420 1 year ago
in the process? But I digress... Just imagine dude its bad enough when woman find out their man cheats on them with other woman, but some would kill themselves if it was with a man. They will always have that thought in the back of their head that they are just not enough to satisfy a bisexual man. Other women they can compete with… but how the hell are they suppose to compete with a man? They are not men.
I mean think about, the only reason you want to be with a women is to have
leightweight420 1 year ago
kids. which is why most gay man do pretend to be straight so they can have both married/family lifestyle as well as their own little lifestyle on the side and women don’t want to end up with a dude secretly doing men on the side. You could never give a woman what she really deserved or treat a woman the way a straight man could. I’m sorry, but that is just the way it is. You choose your lifestyle; you cannot have it all!
leightweight420 1 year ago
And getting with a woman just to children is not being honest and fair to yourself either and is a terrible reason, instead of actually loving her and wanting her to be your queen always and forever by your side.
leightweight420 1 year ago
@leightweight420 How bout you stop being so judgemental towards muthafuckas and get laid once in ya life
biracial910 1 year ago
@leightweight420 Speak on issues that ya dumbass fully understand, Cause right now bitch you just talkin out ya rabbit asshole. Cuntfuck
biracial910 1 year ago
@leightweight420 First of all please dont come onto my video and disrespect me and my fellow bisexual bruthas. You so ignorant and u talk stupid.How u gone tell me or anybody else what they are and what they want. Tell your friend he is an idiot and unless he is bisexual he cant speak on our desires or tell us what we feel and whats in oru heart and mind unless he has supernatural abilities or unless he's a psychologist. I do like women, very much so you're wrong, stop making silly assumptions
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
Well I am hetero so maybe I was making assumptions... it just really seems to me that you don't like women (or at the very least not the way that I do!) I brought my friend into the discussion because he use to be bi, he is now gay and happy with his partner of four yrs. it is his theory that there is no such thing as a bisexual man and that they are just in transition to becoming gay. so I figured it was worth mentioning as a reason why women would not want that... thanks for all the insults
leightweight420 1 year ago
@leightweight420 I didn't insult u but u cant judge every bi male off of what your friend did.. Just because he was confused and was transitioning doesnt mean all bisexual men are like him. There is a such thing as a bisexual man how can u say its not? Ur not making sense. Bisexual men like both men and women and i know men who cant live with just pussy and cant live with just dick they need both. You cant speak for everyone and tell someone what they are or what they think, only they know that
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
But that is the point right there that I was trying to make! You just said it, “cant live with just pussy and cant live with just dick they need both” that’s why I said I think I know why women don't want bisexual men. Think about it women trip out when you cheat on them and want a man that is loyal. They don’t want to always feel like they are not enough for you and could never fully satisfy you. Tell me could you be fully satisfied with just a woman and only a woman? You said you need both?
leightweight420 1 year ago
Im sorry if I worded my pervious statements wrong and it seems bringing in my friends theory just confused everyone.
leightweight420 1 year ago
@leightweight420 I said some bisexual men feel this way i never said how i feel about just being with women and at this point yes i honestly do feel like tight wet pussy would be enough definitely but u already have your mind made up because u think ur a psychic and can read minds so whatever sir... have a nice day
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
if you still dont understand where Im coming from watch this video on youtube called "Bisexual Men With Straight Wives And Girlfriends. Can They Be Faithful?" and it will give you a better idea why i think no women wants to be with one and why marriage/family lifestyle wont work for you man, like I said you choose your lifestyle and cannot have it all! You cannot place a bisexual into traditional type of lifestyle that women want
leightweight420 1 year ago
@leightweight420 Judgemental mothafucka you
biracial910 1 year ago
@leightweight420 And even if he was not into women, SO FUCKIN WHAT. You so busy judgin niggas preferences, i cant stand little shit turds like you who judge people and their decisions. Ok if he is bi,and its a problem to you find a solution to his problem....Hmmm....Cant find a solution, Well what could that mean..oh yea,..YOU NEED TO MIND YA FUCKIN BUSINESS BITCH AND LET PEOPLE FUCKIN LIVE, YOU DUMB ASS SHITTY BRAINED GORILLA PUSSY SLIDING OUT OF KINDERGARTENER
biracial910 1 year ago
I like your video and I agree. I am a bisexual man myself and I'm honest about it. I'm not ashamed of who I am. I've dated girls and guys in the past. At the time when I dated a women I wanted to be honest with her and I told her my past me being with a dude. But I couldn't tell her the truth and come to the reality that I was bisexual. So I told her I was straight. Now that we've broken up she's knows I'm bi and for the most part she's
multiracial17 1 year ago
Me personally, I would never knowing be with/marry a bisexual man. My reason is, even though I don't judge the gay/bisexual lifestyle, I could never see myself being with a man knowing he likes/is attracted to men. The thought of it is disgusting to me.
SEXYNDA07 1 year ago
I have a friend who is bi-sexual and is very open about it, even in high school and he dated a really good friend of mine for > than a year he is now married (2 a different women) but he doesn't deny anything about his past In his case, it didn't seem difficult for him to find a guy or a girl... I can see how it can get frustrating but continue being honest and I'm sure you will eventually find that sum1 who is truly accepting of you,
frisebelle 1 year ago
Ive been married 3 times and I FUCK NIGGAZ!
downlowblackmen 1 year ago
yesterday i was chaining up my bike and i bent over to chain up my bike and i was wearing some skintight latex leggings soo i guess my butt was shiny and some guy came behind me on a bike and was like hey hello hows your day and i got turned on and he wasnt even my type.he was black though hhaha and sounded masculine.......
0deefreak 1 year ago
but its true people ridicule make it hard for people to be themselfs especially when it comes to men being bi or gay
0deefreak 1 year ago
haha chocolate nigga with the big mandingo dick haha
0deefreak 1 year ago
IM PRETTY MASCULINE IN TERMS OF HOW I ACT BUT I LOOK VERY FEM..I WEAR EYELINER EXTENSIONS IN MY HEAD AND skintight pants but i walk and talk very macho like
0deefreak 1 year ago
Im bisexual male and openly bisexual i never been fucked in the butt but have let my girlfriend put fingers in my butt atleast your honest about your sexuality and its kinda hard being openly bisexual,black and stuff ...I know. does your family know?
0deefreak 1 year ago
I can appreciate this video however me as a BW can't date/marry a gay or bi man period. And also I know guys that think the same way. They may have "fun" with a bi chick but make a wife out of a Straight woman. For me it's not being gay or bi thing that's the issue, it's more so of finding a man who's spiritual views/morals regarding sexualilty (and other issues) are in sync like mine.
Kamirarenee 1 year ago
you need a hippie female champ.
igrowweedfromaseed 1 year ago
I havent gone through all the comments so dont know if its been mentioned but one of the reasons is because alot of people dont believe in bisexuality even alot of gay people dont. Bi's get hated on by gay people all the time. Its one or the other to people so to your woman she may think you really just are gay and havent come to terms with it yet so what would be the point? I personally believe in bisexuality but alot of people dont.
MsJessism 1 year ago
I'm going to keep it real. As a dude I dont agree with the idea that men have no probs with marrying a bi chick. I know a lot of dudes (myself included) who would never marry a bi chick. I can have sex with a bi chick, and have a lot of fun with one but honestly my ego can't handle only being half of what my woman really wants. I like having a chick that basically can't seem to live without the dick lol. To me there is nothing like a (at least mostly) hetero chick.
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nursetrish 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 U might hate me4 this but I don't think openly gays should have kids. I think its selfish2 kids who had enough 2b bullied2 suicide over b4da internet came along. Porn stars & openly gays should adopt a turtle R something. A hooker could B a mother if she relocates but a porn star should hang it up (U think Kim Kardashian would be single if she didn't make that tape ?). Find U a sista who doesn't want kids & just have a good life w/ her after U give your heart 2da Lord Jesus.
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@JAYLOVE47 BW have shown me some love even though they knew I was bisexual for 2months, 16yrs ago. They wanted2 get w/ me but i was married2 a sista @ the time. I passed on those offers. Here's da catch 22. BW will accept U if U R a good man, but they will struggle in seeing U as a complete man b/c of the peer pressure they will receive. It's not their fault4 seeing U as tainted. We put them in that position by pushing da envelope. Suck up your pride & deal w/ their challenges 2your past.
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BarabbasLove 1 year ago
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@JAYLOVE47 The devil is a damn liar. Bah-lee dat. Black women will forgive you for your homosexual past if your game is right. Trust me. I got to 2nd base or 3rd base with 2 men like 16.5 years ago. Each relationship was one month apart. I doubt I did the thing more than 10 times between the both of them. I was just experimenting. I was molested when I was six years old. I am very honest and masculine. Could have been downlow but I outted myself and been branded ever since.
BarabbasLove 1 year ago
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nursetrish 1 year ago
I'm bisexual and I'd love a bisexual man...especially a black one...
MissShanniboo 1 year ago
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nursetrish 1 year ago
wait JAY you are bisexual?
TheRoyaldiamond 1 year ago
just lie to any of you futer black girl friends and tell them your 100% straight and that your not bisexual by you makeing this video its gona make it hard to finde a black woman that you like because any black woman you might like in the futer might have seen this video and then wont want you
Samuel115s 1 year ago
am a black female and i actualy think bi men are really sexy cos theyre open minded in this conservative society that stil bugs about sexuality- gay, bi, pansexual, transsexual blah blah. esp in the black society. its really hard i guess...i still hav my hangups. props to u dude. U brave doin this video!
sweetappletits 1 year ago
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sweetappletits 1 year ago
man i should have guest with you makeing all of these videos about gay black men and trying to promote gay behaviour but are you bisexual or fully gay
Samuel115s 1 year ago
WHAT! jaylove you GAY i cant believe it your black your not alowed to be gay im not homophobic but its still shoking
Samuel115s 1 year ago
I could never be with a man that has had sex with another man. I have nothing against gay people, to each their own. That is just not something I want for myself. I think most women would agree. Marrying a man that likes both sexes, there is a risk that he will always secretly want men or be unfaithful with one. All while married to and sleeping with you. The thought of that is absolutely revolting.
MsPrettyCute 1 year ago
I have to respectfully disagree with you. I am a black woman and in love with a black bisexual man and I am more than willing to marry him. Unfortunately, he is alot like you and very negative because of how other people see him and us. I cant pretend to understand what it is like to be bisexual, b/c I am not. Most people are scared b/c of STDs and cheating, but monogamy and honesty has no sexual orientation. Keep your head up and keep an open mind. ;)
MRSASHLEY3000 1 year ago
Props to you dude. To be honest though I think more and more women are accepting the fact that there are many bisexual men. It seems it is an inevitable thing and those that keep expecting that "man" as the stereotype will only be left alone. Honesty, on the other hand, is to be prized..and those that appreciate that will set themselves up for success in the long run.
jefemexicano 1 year ago
You know I am going through this right now. The man was never honest with me from the beginning. We were together for 10 years and 2 kids and he never mentioned that he was bisexual. I didn't want my choices taken away from me like that. I left him. Only for him to come back six years later still lying about this. I got the truth by snooping. He has brutally hurt me and his daughters cause he was dishonest not because he was Bi..I can never trust men now
debbi491 1 year ago
You can live a straight life style after being gay, I know blk men that got out of the Army, and admitantly had slept with men,came home and got married and had many children--men do it all the time--it becomes a problem when the man go between the two.Blk Women do not want to share with anyone-and definantly not a man.
heartsspeak2me 1 year ago
Wow,interesting I always kind of thought you maybe Bi-sexual--yet, I find you very masculin. And I have felt this way about men that I was close to, however they have never confirmed my feelings. I get the feeling they find dealing with men easier-less emotionperhaps...They have male friends whom they "chill" with to all hours of the night-I always get that feeling like they enjoy eachother company over womens company-mind you they both have wifes, girl friends and kids.
heartsspeak2me 1 year ago
You can get with a bisexual woman.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
A bisexual woman would :)
ohruth 1 year ago
One of my favorite sitcoms is Will & Grace, and even though he is gay and their relationship is platonic, they seem to have a better relationship than the traditional family. I know a lot of women don't want to settle for that but it is a better alternative than being alone waiting for your true love. In the sitcom they have one of the strongest relationships I have ever seen and thought that they should get married. When your ass gets old, sex is going to be to be the las thing on your mind.
bshainhunter 1 year ago
Women subconsciously see sex as an act of submission. So if she's a straight woman, she feels that you have submitted to another man, therefore you are perceived by her to be like a woman, therefore she is no longer attracted. That is why they want their man to be an alpha, to be the most dominant man, so that they feel he is more man than they are. Granted, what some of them consider to be alpha is questionable, but, they still want alpha none the less. It's about perception.
openfist247 1 year ago
@openfist247 exactly
KcGurl4Lyfe 1 year ago
Wellni
SliC3oFicE 1 year ago
Being honest is important and if you choose to be bisexual then that is your choice but choosing that you have to understand that some women don't want a man who has been with another man. Me personally I don't want to be with a man that has been with another man. It's not because of the fact that you have been with a man its just once a man has sex with another man you can pretty much tell in how they cary themselves and the way that they walk and talk. I like my men to be the alpha male.
KcGurl4Lyfe 1 year ago
@KcGurl4Lyfe You dont even make sense... you have gay/bisexual men who are more built and masculine than some straight men so spare me with that elementary excuse
JAYLOVE47 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 get her!! lol
al13forreal 1 year ago
@JAYLOVE47 yeah but i should never have to have a conversation with a man that i love about who's ex had a bigger dick.
KcGurl4Lyfe 1 year ago
@KcGurl4Lyfe it isnt a choice.
torrentANONYMOUScodc 1 year ago
@torrentANONYMOUScodc so you are born with it? yes it is a choice,
TheRoyaldiamond 1 year ago
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torrentANONYMOUScodc 1 year ago
@torrentANONYMOUScodc no you are not born with it, then i supose all serial killers were born to be serial killers, it a CHOICE, oh and you agreed with me that i knew the answer so dont deny it , body features is what you are born with, you are not born with a prefrence choice in your head, you choose your path once your brain developes, i dont even like getting in to that scientific stuff but science proved that you are not born with it, it not a genetic effect either,your welcome :))
TheRoyaldiamond 1 year ago
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torrentANONYMOUScodc 1 year ago
@torrentANONYMOUScodc well i did say your welcome did'nt i ? and hun youtube is full of crazy people so this should'nt be your area and one thing it kinda should be your area when it comes to head crazyness though
TheRoyaldiamond 1 year ago
R U Crazy! I’m sure you’re a nice person. Friends yes! Husband never…..you are the reason I’m not really dating. there are so many bisexual men out there. Most men don’t tell you that they been with other men. You want me…you want him. trust me if you get married you’re going to cheat. WOW! all I can say is WTF.
2007dtw 1 year ago
gay people need to have more children.. that's why bisexuality is kinda necessary ...
woyay 1 year ago
@woyay no gay people need to adopt children. there are far too many kids orphanages because there parents cant take care of them or are not around. this is an epidemic all across the world not just america or asia. besides we have more then enough people in the world as its not necessary that EVERYONE has to reproduce!
StrongGayBlackMan 1 year ago
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ughhh i knew you were gay
ricogarth 1 year ago
I know what black women are like. And thats what its going to be if you limit you're self to black women. You live in america.. man you got all colors of women. All mindsets, cultures etc etc. Open up man.
BRUTAL4SWEETNESS 1 year ago
I've not really noticed this at all! I know quite a few women that have had crushes and been in relationships with bi men and I also know quite a few bi women that are married to bi men. My mom has been married to a bisexual and conceived me by a bisexual male. So yeah this is new to me
Indigos8rboi 1 year ago
I don't know if I should be responding to this but I will. It’s like what you said women bring up too much drama and stuff that's because you're use to being with men but she's not a man she's a woman. It’s like I'm not good enough for you and I'm not what you want. You don't want a woman you want a man or expect me t