A baby actually turns a life round for the better not for the worse! Not all teenager mums are unreponsible or immature or owt,Im sick of people judging teen mums,its wrong. your not one to judge because you've made mistakes in your life,your not perfect. It shows how low & immature you can go to ruin an others life by slagging a teen mum off.,its quite sicknen tbh. Most teen mums are goodmothers & the best thing you can give a child is LOVE,NOT TOYS!
I'm sick and tired of how teenage mothers are represented. My best friend is 19 with a baby, who she absolutley adores. She sat her A-levels, went to college and is now in a good job earning good money, which she worked hard to achieve. She has a loving husband, lives in a detached house and spends every moment she can with her son. and yet the media has created this stereotype of ungrateful teenage mothers, often depicted as being naiive and dumb with no hope of a future career....
if she is getting 'hammered' every weekend and staying out all night she shouldn't have been shocked when she found out she was up the duff! -_- also, what is this desire some people have for getting drunk every weekend, im 19 and went through this phase of wanting to go out every week for about two months, now i can't be bothered and it wastes to much money. im starting uni in september i have no desire to go out and get smashed every night. i'd rather save my money up to go to australia :)
all young kids seam to want to do these days is get pregnant there is lots of young mums in my home town. People say its a accident well no its not. There is so much contraception out there and you can use 3 things at a time like the condom coil and pill. Whcih would make your chances of getting pregnant zero. Im paying for her to bring up her brat working long hours getting up at 4.00 every morning.
She has no idea what people have to do to provide for little slappers like her.
@Vodkakickgirl21 Some teen pregnancies are unplanned and are the fault of contraception failing, we have been taught contraception DOES NOT mean you WILL NOT get pregnant, it doesn't protect from pregnancies 100%. I got pregnant at 18 and it was a silly accident but I got up at 5am every morning for work till I couldnt go anymore and I plan to finish uni and start a proper life. So it would be appreciated if you didn't genralise your arrogant comment to all 'young mums', some of us are decent.
having sex and getting pregnant are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS!!!
yes it does lead to pregnancy even with protection. I have a step sis who became a mum of 2 by the age of 17, 2 different dads, but so what?, thats to blame for her poor upbringing and she's expecting her third baby to a third dad and shes 21 now.
She isn't a slag, it's just not a 100% gaurantee that a condom or pills can work and she is a good mum.
My opinion is have sex when youre MENTALLY prepared for any risks
I just think its unfair on the baby. I'm not being funny but how's she gonna get the money, time and space to look after it? She's at the age where you should be focusing on school and friends and stuff and having SAFE sex, if she's gonna have it at all. Just saying lol :p
It bothers me when people always call teenage mums 'chavs' and 'spongers'.
But sometimes these things just happen, Some people dont plan having a child at such a young age (Like the girl in the video), and i think more people should realise that instead of insulting them all the time.
Agree with you. I am 17 and just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend works on a farm and brings in £2000 a month after paying tax etc. We didn't plan for this, I am in college and had been on the pill. My doctor put me on a steriod drug for my weak lungs which stopped the pill from working, although he didn't tell me this. We will be raising the baby ourselves and I am finishing my college course. Not all young parents are bad. x
If your going to have sex, wear a condom so you dont end up having to look after a baby if you dont want one, fucking ireponsible idoits, and im not even talking about young girls who get raped thats a different story im talking mothers like this who dont care nor give a shit bout their child but care about themsleves and having fun well thats what you get for unprotected sex, HORE
@TheTruth8018 my mother had me at 16 and she did put a condom on and she was on the pill when that failed she made me so it is not always the mother's or fathers falt.You splet whore wrong. my mother is responable but she made a mistake and now she has a great job and a great life. so before you make a quite rude comment think who it may insult.
i don't think that stuff like this is propaganda. it's purely meant to be a preventative. this girl explaining her life is like a verbal condom. and this young woman should go to college, become a hairdresser and do whatever she wants to do with her life. (i believe she did make the decision not to have a baby at the end of the show).
i hate how people think it only children/teens that are poor or not had agood upbringing who get pregnant so young! it could be anyone of any f*kin class. my cousin is mega rich and fell pregnant at 14 her parents disowned her she now lives with me. so dont anyone tell me its f*kin poor teens my a*se. any teen girl can have sex without contraception.even if they have it, it doesnt always work !
i dont like it when people say their lifes are ruined by having a baby, i didn't know what i wanted to do until i got pregnant & after my baba is born i will be going to college & training to be a midwife.
When a condom splits, you ask for the morning after pill. It's free and confidential and available at any pharmacy! If you are too embarassed to ask for it, it means that you're not ready for sex, full stop. Why is it always teenagers who have condom failures anyway? my bf and I used them for 3 years and it never split! You just have to know how to use it properly.
To be honest i think teenage parents get prejudged too much. Just because you have seen some young single mums pushing their kids around and puffing on cigarettes doesn't mean all young mums are going to get council flats and regret their decision. I was brought up in a good family home, and my sister got pregnant when she was fifteen, it was her first time hving sex and the condom split. She's 25 now, still with the father, and lives in a flat she owns herself. And she doesn't regret it at all.
There is one teenage mother and a girl who wants to be in her situation. The teenage mother is not here to complain, she just wants to give a message: 16-years-old is too young to have children. I see nothing wrong with her giving that message
I don't have that much sympathy for her either, but it's not only her fault, as ppl have mentioned, that baby has a dad, who doesn't take responsibility. At least that teenage mother does. She accepts that going out partying is no longer possible. She has made a mistake, she is paying for it, and she is telling a girl who wants to be in her situation not to make the same mistake.
i dont agree wtth Obortion or getting your baby Abdoucted. but its not just girls fautlt if they get pregnant its half boys fault too if not more. sometimes young girls dont choose to have sex but have no choice Bcuz some get raped even worse.
I think it's brilliant this girl has been honest and said i made a mistake dont do what i did. So many young mums are like "its the best thing ever" and post pictures of there baby on social networking sites etc encouraging young girls to follow in their footsteps. At least this girl is taking responsibilty and wants others to learn from her actions
Why don't you immature people stop going around fucking people without condoms and grow up.
A life isn't a joke, think about things before you stupidly go about slagging your selfs off to people, but then again, if you get pregnant, it's your fault, so live with it.
Excuse me, i'm 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant and I USED A CONDOM, they don't ALWAYS work, i'm not going to encourage people to get pregnant because if i could i wouldn't be! Don't go judging people when i was safe but got pregnant don't jump to conclusions it's pathetic how you all think we live with crap backgrounds i have a family behind me, yes i am too young but i wouldn't change it now i've seen i'm having a little boy i'd change it so i was older but it'ds happening now... Stop judging us!
@LilMissSquidge , i think its wrong to judge people by the age they are, if they had protection it obviously didnt work and thats not their fault. i would stick by my friends if they were in that situation. i wish you all the best for you and the little baby :)
@TheSmiley773 well you can so have another one:) maybe when you're 18 or sumthin? :) but yeh same i want a baby to, but imma wait till im 25 at least. :)
I don't really think people have a say on how others choose to live their lives. At the end of the day you can't really dictate to people how they should live their lives. We're all different and considering this is common nowadays then why don't you just accept it. It happens the same way we have illegal immigrants sponging off our government no one likes it but it happens so you need to accept it for what it is. Nothing you can do about it so why bother bitching about it.
I really doubt that this girl shown actually wanted to have kids for the benefit. Who'd want to live like that with a baby? I think it's very easy for women who've never got pregnant and men to say 'Oh, she shouldn't have done that- she's taking our money', but what would they do if they got pregnant while they were still children? Lastly, how can you get a job when you've got a small baby and can't afford childcare? And the wanna-be teenage mum is just like the other kids on this- deluded.
That girl is not a disagrace to the nation, she was just young and made a mistake, who doesn't at 16? She lives in a small council flat but do you think she's happy about it? Maybe she regrets not to have had an abortion but it would have been hard too. At least she's honnest and doesn't lie to Chantelle about what it's like to be a young single mother
I know it's wrong to generalise but the majority of teen mums are on benefit. even labour MPs agree that the benefit system that goes on forever encourages them to stay at home and do nothing. I can't believe that you can live on your own at age 16, let alone with a baby...
I watched this last night it was good :) I personally would never have a child at a young age but i kindof saw reasons why people would want one.If girls want to have babies then thats there choice & i wish them luck.
Your language is appalling xxbabexx22, it's clear your trying to defend yourself but it frankly doesn't make any sense. I think you need to chill out and realize everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Arguing on Youtube isn't going to change anything...Whoever this girl is in the clip has put herself into this situation, no amount of arguing and using the word fucking in every sentence is going to change that. Your painting yourself in the wrong light.
hemizzle you are seriously fucking me off grow the fuck up and get a fucking life and stop bitching about the girls number 1 one of them is my sister and number 2 u are chatting shit u must lead a sad fucking life u twat now do one u little fucking bitch
i find that very rude and most young mums work but regardless i find that non of ur business lets just hope that your kids or grandkids dont sponge cause i bet they will somewhere in there life
I doubt it darling, i live in a 6 million pound house in North London, have gone to private school in Knightsbridge my whole life. You obviously haven't.
u wish darling, more like a council flat in essex and an average education? not tht there's anything wrong with that, mind. have anice day you lyin, retarded, slag.
If i lived in the environment you suggest I would most probably be the same as the people on this show, which i most certainly am NOT. It would be like myself saying I hate millionaires. Get a grip, and a brain. Regards, Lady Ann.
u cheeky fucking bitch that is my sister and my mom in that program how dare u diss them saying ur certainly nothing like them there is fuck all wrong with them u snob oh little miss posh are we leittle mis click ur fingers and iget well my dear we dont need money cause money dont buy love or babies so i suggest u shut the fuck up and run back to mommy and daddy u little prick and yea ur prob in a council flat on bennifits with fuck all
For the last time the evidence is there for anyone to see, I've already explained this. How about YOU provide some evidence that says single mums on the dole is an urban legend? Like you claim it is lol
you tube = discussion? omg how sad can u be sitting on here all day commentin abwt other people , when u dont even know them! maybe u want to try and sort ur own life's out b4 makin horrible comments. besides noones perfect and every1 makes mistakes
Why Is Everyone Judgeing? It Really Fkn Annoys Me When People Just Judge, And They Dont Even Know The People, I Understand That You Think They've ruined their lives, etc, but you dont have to be so fkn nasty, Most Of Them KNOW They made a mistake, and a alot of them try to convince teenagers not to do what theyve done, so could you just calm down a bit mayby?
Its the boys quite oftenly who I feel against. Theres alot of pressure they apply onto girls and unfortunately enough, leave and put more pressure not only on the tax payers but...the girl herself
That a bit of a generalisation don't you think? They don't all think that, and some people that I know are young and make great mothers, it not all meant to be for us when we are in our 30s and married, although for most...it probably should be.
And don't even go there about non-educated people, because believe me there are plenty of things that happen in life that a book will never teach you.
You are entitled to your opinion but I just thought it was a little harsh and a massive sweeping statements.
My sister had a baby as a teenager too and she a fantastic mother, one of the best infact and I'm not being bias because we didn't speak for years - anyway that is a story for another day.
But she has worked hard raising her daughter by herself and she was very good in school. Yes, her life was on hold for a while but it is never wasted she is actually going to uni this year.
shut the fuk up will u....thts fukin me on tht prog....chantelle..if u fukin new mate y i wanted a child so fuckin much u wud shut the fuk up. u think ur so good fuckin judgin ppl...well at least i fukin put my hands up and told the truth bout everythink, and ive got an education thanks and so has the fukin other girl so before u start sayin shit shut the fuk up coz one day its all gna cum bk on u...fukin knob
chan there just a bunch of little twats that no fuck all love u babe i think ur great on the vid fuck these bunch of ass holes there just jealous xxxx
I think its extremely funny, that you even suggest I would go on benefits. Are you on benefits? Council house/flat? Brilliant if you aren't, if you pay for EVERYTHING for your child yourself and don't take anything from the government then of course there's no problem in yourself having a child at your age. I bet you don't though, because if you did they wouldn't put you on this 'show'. It's a shame none of you types can even spell simple words. The grammar in your comments is atrocious also.
I think its extremely funny, that you even suggest I would go on benefits. Are you on benefits? Council house/flat? Brilliant if you aren't, if you pay for EVERYTHING for your child yourself and don't take anything from the government then of course there's no problem in yourself having a child at your age. I bet you don't though, because if you did they wouldn't put you on this 'show'. It's a shame none of you types can even spell simple words. The grammar in your comments is atrocious also.
i FEEL SORRY FOR any children you have. They are going to grow up being the same as you (How awful!), Spongers, Non Educated, Council tenants. What do you ACTUALLY think you can give a child? Love is the easy answer, what about a well educated set of parents? I doubt that very much, judging on your comment.
too right what do they think they can give anyone let alone a baby? they don't even have jobs its a disgrace just look at them dirty benefit scroungers arent they!
teenage mothers get no sympathy from me for one....they have reckless, promiscuous, unprotected sex and when they get pregnant and give birth they suddenly realise they can't go out and party anymore...they learn the hard way by there own 'fuck you I do what I want' attitude..global warming is chicken feed compared to the problem of overpopulation..there should be a global agreement to prevent female overbreeding
@9thprotocol Agreed with you. get not sympathy from me, they sit there complaing and blaiming everyone else when they can't do fuck all coz they got a kid...errrm....think they need to look in the mirror...it's thier faults they can't go out to party's and "have fun" they should of thought before they opened their legs to a dickhead of a lad who just wants to get his end in and piss off. haha STUPID TEENAGER!
@9thprotocol Way to generalize. Many teenage mothers might act like this, but not all of them. That's like saying that all teenagers are stupid and immature.
had my first child at 16 now i'm 21 had my second i'm in a stable relationship and is happier then ever my kids mean the world 2 me and i dont see y people r makin such a fuss about underage pregnancies its a womans job 2 reproduce lolol
It is amazing really, you need a license to do most crap, but popping out kids is 'accepted', if I went outside and told someone I wanted to kill myself I would get arrested for self harm or whatever, BUT if a teenage girl wanted to get pregnant she would be rewarded and have her own show,.. GREAT logic
Could you really justify the ethics behind deciding who can and who can't have children? What if these unlicensed people still had children? Are these babies going to be aborted or adopted? Could the parents be sterilised?
Getting a bit dramatic, but you can see my point right?
Once again, self harm isn't against the law any more than depression is.
There are a variety of reasons why people will want to have children, let's not generalise people and assume it's all psychological.
Well sometimes we need to do unethical things to prevent problems getting out of hand, do you really want UK to be the next China?
Based on what I have researched the reasons for having a child fit in the following area, 'feeling left out, everyone of they friends have one', 'feeling empty, something missing', 'to lock a relationship, or prevent it from breaking'.
I don't really think I have heard anyone ever say a valid argument for having a child and "because I want a family" isnt one
In China the one-child policy was universal and needed to take the country out of extreme poverty. You're suggesting picking and choosing which people can have child for an issue which has been shown to have been improved with education.
(Note the differences in teen pregnancies in correlation with school grades)
How is 'because I want a family' not a valid argument?! You'd be surprised how many of these teenagers actually want to start a family with someone they love.
I want a family, but I know even at my age it would be a bad move, I want pets and I know thats a bad move, just because people want stuff doesnt mean they should get it without thinking of the future.
I don't feel we are getting anywhere with this discussion, however I will respect your views, but I will stick with my comments and knowledge / experience in the area.
Btw the Chinese policy on child control was primarily to manage the population
The Chinese policy was put in place because the population was getting too great - this caused extreme poverty because it's pretty difficult feeding billions of people. Poverty was the issue, population was the cause.
Granted we're getting no where fast at least, I would just suggest that you further research the area concerned.
Everyone makes mistakes you dickhead, and as for being a chav how can she help how she's braught up and what area shes in? She had no intention of getting pregnant but shit happens, maybe if she'd of had better parents to stop her going out getting hammered she wouldn't of got pregnant.
Most teenage mothers I've met don't seem very intelligent. And why are most of them hairdressers or beauticians? Why do they never go for a more intelligent career? And before someone bring it up, no I'm not saying everyone in these careers are unintelligent people.
cant beleve she regrets it i had my first when i was 15 was tough i dropped school and got a factory job then by 18 i was the first out my friends to own a house while they was getting mashed i was in my shed heh it does make you grow up and act hold have no regrets and wouldnt change a thing plus as my little one is teens now can go college or drinking and still in my 20s most my friends are in uni debts cant afford children and still get mashed,,i perfer my shoes heh
You're on the assumption they WANT KIDS. They are (by the rulebook) earning more then you intially where in your factory job even with the debts so they can afford it more then you could. They've got their degrees, can still go "drinking" as you say and will most likely provide a more stable family cause their Mother won't feel the need to go out drinking when their in their teens. Don't perpetrate a myth.
im not perpetrating a myth or condone teen pregnancy's but babys dont make them selves im just saying to stand up and take responsibility for decisions made whether right or wrong if i stayed in education i would have worked at it and made it work for me but i went another root and made that work instead,tougher maybe but isnt the end of the world
I came off harsh. No one doubts you can't make a good life for yourself as a teen mum. But to say you'd rather be in your shoes does seem to encourage it. I don't expect you to go back on your child, but be honest about the other possiblities which could of happened. Thats all! :)
yeah i was referring to some of my friends that prove you can have no children and the best education and still waste it but should never waste being a parent yet alot of mothers do expect the government to raise there kids while they get mashed with there uni friends who expects the government to give them a job, its never going to work heh
SHE IS TAKING RESPONSIBILTY! She's telling young people not to make the same mistakes she did. More responsible than parading your babies pictures online like the teen mums i know
the real bad thing is that the people who get pregnant are seen as "strong mothers" which is retarded. thats what the News is calling Sarah Palin's Daughter! if people give them free stuff and see them as heroes then more and more fucking retarded kids are gonna do it. because they dont lose anything. all they do is gain! a child! and a bunch of other free shit! David Letterman was right to make fun of Bristle Palin. she was retarded and everyone knows it
i know what you mean. Don't you think young girls who dont get pregnant deserve more applaud than these girls. Its easy to get pregnant, it takes a strong person to stand up against peer pressure and say no.
what sort of a life have half the teens in the nation got if the're all like this? its just the status quo now and its just stupid. come on ppl surely you can all see something's not right here.
It's not a theory its a fact and I only have to walk out my front door and see the single mums from the council estate pushing a buggy with a screaming child in and yelling at it to shut the f**k up between puffing on a fag. You won't see any of this living in a nice part of town with semi-detached houses but it's all you will see in any council estate across this country. That and crime.
Take your head outa your arse and go see for yourself you ignorant tool.
For your information I don't live in a shit hole I said I just have to walk out my front door to see the single mums from the council estate. I live in my own home and actually have a job it just so happens that the local parade of shops near me serves said council estate. My job as it so happens is a postie and I also deliver to that council estate.
i live in a semi-detached house and you know what you are so right, fuckin weird. I have a lot of mates who do live in council houses and their mentality of life seemed some what lower, for example i always known from primary school i would go from school> College> Uni as most of my family have and most of my council mates are the 1st in their family to be going to UNI.
@Longs81 Stop Juding! U Dont KNOW Them So Theres No Need 2 Judge! fair enough there young and still at school,, ect but some teens can cope some might no they have made the wrong mistake, but u can't judge them, because you never know it could have happened to you when you was younger and if it did, you would have thought differently!!!!!
@Rack4EvaEastEnders My hard earned taxes are paying for most of these single young mums to sit at home raising a young child or children. I think that gives me EVERY right to judge them. I applaud any of them that sorts their life out by trying to go to work when their child starts school and does everything they can to educate their own children so as not to repeat the mistakes they themselves made, Sad thing is something like that happening isn't likely.
@Longs81 u are not being fair people can get pregnant whenever they want to they do not need ur other peoples oppinion and think that they may need help and they could be alone ur just being selfish it's all about u and ur money and don't judge people wen they mite be ready
@beautypethelp So if they are ready to have a child they can support themselves and their child without help from the state. Your right it is about me and my money because it's MY money, I earned it and I begrudge the taxes taken from it being spent on putting up some teenage mum who thought it was a cool idea to have a baby while she's still at school and doesn't have any means of supporting herself. Having a baby costs a lot of money and is hard work, too many girls don't realise this sadly.
We have every right to judge her. We have to burden the consequences of her actions. She'll bring up a shit kid who will cause havoc in school, disrupting education of other kids.
She will claim benefits from the taxpayer including clothing, housing, food...
She should be ostracised from our community to teach other girls a lesson not to get knocked up.
Making up imaginary consequences is not at all intelligent. You're ostracisation idea is patently ridiculous. May I suggest that you do not have children?
A baby actually turns a life round for the better not for the worse! Not all teenager mums are unreponsible or immature or owt,Im sick of people judging teen mums,its wrong. your not one to judge because you've made mistakes in your life,your not perfect. It shows how low & immature you can go to ruin an others life by slagging a teen mum off.,its quite sicknen tbh. Most teen mums are goodmothers & the best thing you can give a child is LOVE,NOT TOYS!
SophieandBrogan 3 months ago
I'm sick and tired of how teenage mothers are represented. My best friend is 19 with a baby, who she absolutley adores. She sat her A-levels, went to college and is now in a good job earning good money, which she worked hard to achieve. She has a loving husband, lives in a detached house and spends every moment she can with her son. and yet the media has created this stereotype of ungrateful teenage mothers, often depicted as being naiive and dumb with no hope of a future career....
littlebluebox1 3 months ago
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littlebluebox1 3 months ago
Wow, I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and proud..
xAyaLollikies 4 months ago 7
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Same :) xx
MissCarlySmith 4 months ago
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@xAyaLollikies Well you are under age?
jayc342009 2 months ago
ABORTION!
SkinDeep13X 6 months ago
if she is getting 'hammered' every weekend and staying out all night she shouldn't have been shocked when she found out she was up the duff! -_- also, what is this desire some people have for getting drunk every weekend, im 19 and went through this phase of wanting to go out every week for about two months, now i can't be bothered and it wastes to much money. im starting uni in september i have no desire to go out and get smashed every night. i'd rather save my money up to go to australia :)
ZipDominatrix 6 months ago
all young kids seam to want to do these days is get pregnant there is lots of young mums in my home town. People say its a accident well no its not. There is so much contraception out there and you can use 3 things at a time like the condom coil and pill. Whcih would make your chances of getting pregnant zero. Im paying for her to bring up her brat working long hours getting up at 4.00 every morning.
She has no idea what people have to do to provide for little slappers like her.
Vodkakickgirl21 9 months ago
@Vodkakickgirl21 Some teen pregnancies are unplanned and are the fault of contraception failing, we have been taught contraception DOES NOT mean you WILL NOT get pregnant, it doesn't protect from pregnancies 100%. I got pregnant at 18 and it was a silly accident but I got up at 5am every morning for work till I couldnt go anymore and I plan to finish uni and start a proper life. So it would be appreciated if you didn't genralise your arrogant comment to all 'young mums', some of us are decent.
MissP28x 5 months ago
having sex and getting pregnant are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS!!!
yes it does lead to pregnancy even with protection. I have a step sis who became a mum of 2 by the age of 17, 2 different dads, but so what?, thats to blame for her poor upbringing and she's expecting her third baby to a third dad and shes 21 now.
She isn't a slag, it's just not a 100% gaurantee that a condom or pills can work and she is a good mum.
My opinion is have sex when youre MENTALLY prepared for any risks
LisaChuUK 10 months ago
I just think its unfair on the baby. I'm not being funny but how's she gonna get the money, time and space to look after it? She's at the age where you should be focusing on school and friends and stuff and having SAFE sex, if she's gonna have it at all. Just saying lol :p
kelly19091 1 year ago
It bothers me when people always call teenage mums 'chavs' and 'spongers'.
But sometimes these things just happen, Some people dont plan having a child at such a young age (Like the girl in the video), and i think more people should realise that instead of insulting them all the time.
xlollypopbabex 1 year ago 18
@xlollypopbabex these things just happen? so much for self control ...seems like lots of the human race are weak/pathetic/brainless nowadays...
TheBlackPhantom878 11 months ago
@xlollypopbabex
Agree with you. I am 17 and just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend works on a farm and brings in £2000 a month after paying tax etc. We didn't plan for this, I am in college and had been on the pill. My doctor put me on a steriod drug for my weak lungs which stopped the pill from working, although he didn't tell me this. We will be raising the baby ourselves and I am finishing my college course. Not all young parents are bad. x
XxbritpupxX 2 months ago
@XxbritpupxX you do realise you can sue your doctor?
keveydaking 1 month ago
If your going to have sex, wear a condom so you dont end up having to look after a baby if you dont want one, fucking ireponsible idoits, and im not even talking about young girls who get raped thats a different story im talking mothers like this who dont care nor give a shit bout their child but care about themsleves and having fun well thats what you get for unprotected sex, HORE
TheTruth8018 1 year ago
@TheTruth8018 my mother had me at 16 and she did put a condom on and she was on the pill when that failed she made me so it is not always the mother's or fathers falt.You splet whore wrong. my mother is responable but she made a mistake and now she has a great job and a great life. so before you make a quite rude comment think who it may insult.
babyprincessgemstone 5 months ago
@babyprincessgemstone Women don't put condoms on. If a woman falls pregnant by accident it is both there faults.
jayc342009 5 months ago
maybe she should of kept her legs closed and it wouldn't of happened
TheMissypenny 1 year ago 2
the teenage mother here seems very intelligent.
i don't think that stuff like this is propaganda. it's purely meant to be a preventative. this girl explaining her life is like a verbal condom. and this young woman should go to college, become a hairdresser and do whatever she wants to do with her life. (i believe she did make the decision not to have a baby at the end of the show).
redvelvetjacket 1 year ago
Fucking hell. Ive never seen so much propaganda condensed into 1 minute.
mckenzieafro 1 year ago
i hate how people think it only children/teens that are poor or not had agood upbringing who get pregnant so young! it could be anyone of any f*kin class. my cousin is mega rich and fell pregnant at 14 her parents disowned her she now lives with me. so dont anyone tell me its f*kin poor teens my a*se. any teen girl can have sex without contraception.even if they have it, it doesnt always work !
10curriecait 1 year ago
i dont like it when people say their lifes are ruined by having a baby, i didn't know what i wanted to do until i got pregnant & after my baba is born i will be going to college & training to be a midwife.
bonniemwi1 1 year ago
whats the big deal? there must be plenty of coat hangers in the wardrobe
CallumMichealVittles 1 year ago
To everyone who moans about condoms splitting:
When a condom splits, you ask for the morning after pill. It's free and confidential and available at any pharmacy! If you are too embarassed to ask for it, it means that you're not ready for sex, full stop. Why is it always teenagers who have condom failures anyway? my bf and I used them for 3 years and it never split! You just have to know how to use it properly.
celinou84 1 year ago
@celinou84 - i agree . i'm a teenager and its never split. its an excuse for pissed up sex i think
SceneGiirl100 1 year ago
How did I know she'd be a hairdresser?
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cementishdog 1 year ago 2
the girls advice at the end was helpful "Wait, Serious"
theebluekangaroo 1 year ago
To be honest i think teenage parents get prejudged too much. Just because you have seen some young single mums pushing their kids around and puffing on cigarettes doesn't mean all young mums are going to get council flats and regret their decision. I was brought up in a good family home, and my sister got pregnant when she was fifteen, it was her first time hving sex and the condom split. She's 25 now, still with the father, and lives in a flat she owns herself. And she doesn't regret it at all.
EmoScreamox 1 year ago
What does the old woman say?
It sounds like "I got married at twenty, I had an affair so I look twenty one"
That can't be right. What does she say?
perfacetus 1 year ago
@perfacetus she says "I got married at twenty,
I had my first one at 21" meaning
she had her first child when she was 21
xnataleejanee 1 year ago
@xnataleejanee Thanks! Couldn't understand that bit at all!
perfacetus 1 year ago
There is one teenage mother and a girl who wants to be in her situation. The teenage mother is not here to complain, she just wants to give a message: 16-years-old is too young to have children. I see nothing wrong with her giving that message
celinou84 1 year ago
I don't have that much sympathy for her either, but it's not only her fault, as ppl have mentioned, that baby has a dad, who doesn't take responsibility. At least that teenage mother does. She accepts that going out partying is no longer possible. She has made a mistake, she is paying for it, and she is telling a girl who wants to be in her situation not to make the same mistake.
celinou84 1 year ago
i dont agree wtth Obortion or getting your baby Abdoucted. but its not just girls fautlt if they get pregnant its half boys fault too if not more. sometimes young girls dont choose to have sex but have no choice Bcuz some get raped even worse.
sophie8798 1 year ago
I think it's brilliant this girl has been honest and said i made a mistake dont do what i did. So many young mums are like "its the best thing ever" and post pictures of there baby on social networking sites etc encouraging young girls to follow in their footsteps. At least this girl is taking responsibilty and wants others to learn from her actions
101nutmeg 1 year ago
Why don't you immature people stop going around fucking people without condoms and grow up.
A life isn't a joke, think about things before you stupidly go about slagging your selfs off to people, but then again, if you get pregnant, it's your fault, so live with it.
Zanwolf 1 year ago
Excuse me, i'm 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant and I USED A CONDOM, they don't ALWAYS work, i'm not going to encourage people to get pregnant because if i could i wouldn't be! Don't go judging people when i was safe but got pregnant don't jump to conclusions it's pathetic how you all think we live with crap backgrounds i have a family behind me, yes i am too young but i wouldn't change it now i've seen i'm having a little boy i'd change it so i was older but it'ds happening now... Stop judging us!
LilMissSquidge 1 year ago
@LilMissSquidge fair point
Vodkakickgirl21 1 year ago
@LilMissSquidge , i think its wrong to judge people by the age they are, if they had protection it obviously didnt work and thats not their fault. i would stick by my friends if they were in that situation. i wish you all the best for you and the little baby :)
KiieraWiieraTiiger 1 year ago
im pregnant and i dont know how to tell my mum
Jellybuscuit 2 years ago
@Jellybuscuit
Better to tell them than them to find out as gossip belive me
as they will find out as gossip from other people eventualy
masterjustin45 2 years ago
err get rid or tell her man
Hornylildevil20 2 years ago
@Jellybusuit
I had a baby 6 months ago, and if i didn't have my mum's support i would have gone mad, better just to blurt it out then to keep it to yourself x
carolineashmore 2 years ago
Are you being seuris?
i had my first child at 14, one of the biggst regrets of my life, even to my gorguss son Lee means the orld to me,
its better just telling your mum as soon as possible, once you'v told her you'l feel so much better
xXxhugme2008xXx 2 years ago
I really want a baby :) I got pregnant when I was 13 an Had an Obortion and I feel... evil, horrible.
TheSmiley773 2 years ago
@TheSmiley773 well you can so have another one:) maybe when you're 18 or sumthin? :) but yeh same i want a baby to, but imma wait till im 25 at least. :)
pianosxheadphones 1 year ago
just slags with poor parents
sweetypie000 2 years ago
I don't really think people have a say on how others choose to live their lives. At the end of the day you can't really dictate to people how they should live their lives. We're all different and considering this is common nowadays then why don't you just accept it. It happens the same way we have illegal immigrants sponging off our government no one likes it but it happens so you need to accept it for what it is. Nothing you can do about it so why bother bitching about it.
1RaeRae8 2 years ago
I really doubt that this girl shown actually wanted to have kids for the benefit. Who'd want to live like that with a baby? I think it's very easy for women who've never got pregnant and men to say 'Oh, she shouldn't have done that- she's taking our money', but what would they do if they got pregnant while they were still children? Lastly, how can you get a job when you've got a small baby and can't afford childcare? And the wanna-be teenage mum is just like the other kids on this- deluded.
GrotesqueChild 2 years ago
channy chav yer right
Hornylildevil20 2 years ago
That girl is not a disagrace to the nation, she was just young and made a mistake, who doesn't at 16? She lives in a small council flat but do you think she's happy about it? Maybe she regrets not to have had an abortion but it would have been hard too. At least she's honnest and doesn't lie to Chantelle about what it's like to be a young single mother
celinou84 2 years ago
She sounds like an absolute moron.
"I was goin owt am getin abslutly ammered evy noyt but nao it stop innet"
Fucking chavs.
PivotRJ 2 years ago
@PivotRJ -- I believe its called an accent. No, not the best, but one nevertheless.
NextMrsBradPitt 1 year ago
some people are ready to be parents well before others. some people mature quicker than others, if theyre ready so it be.
SuperLouby 2 years ago
sad gits
XoXshortarseXoX 2 years ago
I watched this some nights ago it was really good but not as good as the boob job one lol
xxsavieboomxx 2 years ago
pmsl init x very skanky style these girls absolute disgrace to the nation
Hemizzle 2 years ago
fuk off
Channy8Janson 2 years ago
I know it's wrong to generalise but the majority of teen mums are on benefit. even labour MPs agree that the benefit system that goes on forever encourages them to stay at home and do nothing. I can't believe that you can live on your own at age 16, let alone with a baby...
celinou84 2 years ago
I watched this last night it was good :) I personally would never have a child at a young age but i kindof saw reasons why people would want one.If girls want to have babies then thats there choice & i wish them luck.
iyasmin08 2 years ago
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bingomaster4 2 years ago
oh and this especially goes to Channy8Janson...
midnightdream52 2 years ago
Your language is appalling xxbabexx22, it's clear your trying to defend yourself but it frankly doesn't make any sense. I think you need to chill out and realize everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Arguing on Youtube isn't going to change anything...Whoever this girl is in the clip has put herself into this situation, no amount of arguing and using the word fucking in every sentence is going to change that. Your painting yourself in the wrong light.
midnightdream52 2 years ago
i totaly agree with you there is no need to talk in that manner she is showing her self up>
elliebabe155 2 years ago
hemizzle you are seriously fucking me off grow the fuck up and get a fucking life and stop bitching about the girls number 1 one of them is my sister and number 2 u are chatting shit u must lead a sad fucking life u twat now do one u little fucking bitch
xxbabexx22 2 years ago
Absolute makes me sick how dare they have children at their age SPONGERS
Hemizzle 2 years ago
i find that very rude and most young mums work but regardless i find that non of ur business lets just hope that your kids or grandkids dont sponge cause i bet they will somewhere in there life
xxbabexx22 2 years ago
I doubt it darling, i live in a 6 million pound house in North London, have gone to private school in Knightsbridge my whole life. You obviously haven't.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
u wish darling, more like a council flat in essex and an average education? not tht there's anything wrong with that, mind. have anice day you lyin, retarded, slag.
liberteenagedirtbag 2 years ago
If i lived in the environment you suggest I would most probably be the same as the people on this show, which i most certainly am NOT. It would be like myself saying I hate millionaires. Get a grip, and a brain. Regards, Lady Ann.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
but what i'm saying is yo probbly DO live in
the same evirnment as these peopleand are pretending you dont.
stop pretending you'e a millionare on youtube, pretty tragic dude.
liberteenagedirtbag 2 years ago
No, I do live where I say, read my previous comment and listen to the oh so poignant previous post I made.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
u cheeky fucking bitch that is my sister and my mom in that program how dare u diss them saying ur certainly nothing like them there is fuck all wrong with them u snob oh little miss posh are we leittle mis click ur fingers and iget well my dear we dont need money cause money dont buy love or babies so i suggest u shut the fuck up and run back to mommy and daddy u little prick and yea ur prob in a council flat on bennifits with fuck all
xxbabexx22 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
And we care because.....?
footyroolz 2 years ago
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xxbabexx22 2 years ago
its on thursday 16th, 8 0r 8.30 :)
lottiecharlottie 2 years ago
does anyone know when this is on
bina4545 2 years ago
when is this on?
lottiecharlottie 2 years ago
For the last time the evidence is there for anyone to see, I've already explained this. How about YOU provide some evidence that says single mums on the dole is an urban legend? Like you claim it is lol
Longs81 2 years ago
'ammerddd....
alex573573 2 years ago
they dont need some nasty harriet harperson getting their claws into them
misterfishermaan 2 years ago
this is the bit where bbc staff give me thumbs down and pretend its just an average youtuber
misterfishermaan 2 years ago
wat
Iegendlol 2 years ago
not wat but wen
misterfishermaan 2 years ago
seri-assly!
FieldHockey007 2 years ago
you tube = discussion? omg how sad can u be sitting on here all day commentin abwt other people , when u dont even know them! maybe u want to try and sort ur own life's out b4 makin horrible comments. besides noones perfect and every1 makes mistakes
danielletucker100 2 years ago
horrible mouths an accents
megaman8484 2 years ago
Why Is Everyone Judgeing? It Really Fkn Annoys Me When People Just Judge, And They Dont Even Know The People, I Understand That You Think They've ruined their lives, etc, but you dont have to be so fkn nasty, Most Of Them KNOW They made a mistake, and a alot of them try to convince teenagers not to do what theyve done, so could you just calm down a bit mayby?
xNiamhxMcHendriexX 2 years ago 7
@xNiamhxMcHendriexX Thank u People Are Always Juding and they dont even noe them!
Rack4EvaEastEnders 1 year ago
I think differently.
Its the boys quite oftenly who I feel against. Theres alot of pressure they apply onto girls and unfortunately enough, leave and put more pressure not only on the tax payers but...the girl herself
Flipflopab 2 years ago
here u go people judgin YET again! its pathetic
danielletucker100 2 years ago 3
youtube can be considered a forum for discussion so don't read the comments and don't get involved if you dont like it!
ThreeWordsFirstWord 2 years ago
stupid idiots
they think kids are just a fashion accessory, then when they have a baby they realise their life is basically over
its their own non-educated faults
HeadInACloud123 2 years ago
That a bit of a generalisation don't you think? They don't all think that, and some people that I know are young and make great mothers, it not all meant to be for us when we are in our 30s and married, although for most...it probably should be.
And don't even go there about non-educated people, because believe me there are plenty of things that happen in life that a book will never teach you.
fakegirl15 2 years ago
my best friend became a single mother at 14 years old, so i am entitled to my opinion because i have seen how it has affected her life...
she is a great mother dont get me wrong, but she was also very intelligent, and now has wasted her life by having a child so young
they are just having kids because everyone else is and its pathetic
HeadInACloud123 2 years ago
You are entitled to your opinion but I just thought it was a little harsh and a massive sweeping statements.
My sister had a baby as a teenager too and she a fantastic mother, one of the best infact and I'm not being bias because we didn't speak for years - anyway that is a story for another day.
But she has worked hard raising her daughter by herself and she was very good in school. Yes, her life was on hold for a while but it is never wasted she is actually going to uni this year.
fakegirl15 2 years ago
Welcome to Wolverhampton
guerillacity 2 years ago
shut the fuk up will u....thts fukin me on tht prog....chantelle..if u fukin new mate y i wanted a child so fuckin much u wud shut the fuk up. u think ur so good fuckin judgin ppl...well at least i fukin put my hands up and told the truth bout everythink, and ive got an education thanks and so has the fukin other girl so before u start sayin shit shut the fuk up coz one day its all gna cum bk on u...fukin knob
Channy8Janson 2 years ago
chan there just a bunch of little twats that no fuck all love u babe i think ur great on the vid fuck these bunch of ass holes there just jealous xxxx
xxbabexx22 2 years ago
I think its extremely funny, that you even suggest I would go on benefits. Are you on benefits? Council house/flat? Brilliant if you aren't, if you pay for EVERYTHING for your child yourself and don't take anything from the government then of course there's no problem in yourself having a child at your age. I bet you don't though, because if you did they wouldn't put you on this 'show'. It's a shame none of you types can even spell simple words. The grammar in your comments is atrocious also.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
thank u babe xxxxxx
Channy8Janson 2 years ago
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I think its extremely funny, that you even suggest I would go on benefits. Are you on benefits? Council house/flat? Brilliant if you aren't, if you pay for EVERYTHING for your child yourself and don't take anything from the government then of course there's no problem in yourself having a child at your age. I bet you don't though, because if you did they wouldn't put you on this 'show'. It's a shame none of you types can even spell simple words. The grammar in your comments is atrocious also.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
i FEEL SORRY FOR any children you have. They are going to grow up being the same as you (How awful!), Spongers, Non Educated, Council tenants. What do you ACTUALLY think you can give a child? Love is the easy answer, what about a well educated set of parents? I doubt that very much, judging on your comment.
Hemizzle 2 years ago
i agree how can a child be bought up right with parents that are still children themself
elliebabe155 2 years ago
too right what do they think they can give anyone let alone a baby? they don't even have jobs its a disgrace just look at them dirty benefit scroungers arent they!
Hemizzle 2 years ago
erm excuse me? i have a job thanks so fuck u init
Channy8Janson 2 years ago
she's not welsh you fucking idiot. she's from the west country. way to go bigot.
pixiegirl87 2 years ago 2
Go for it kids! Get a child! Ruin your life!
ornkmd 2 years ago
teenage mothers get no sympathy from me for one....they have reckless, promiscuous, unprotected sex and when they get pregnant and give birth they suddenly realise they can't go out and party anymore...they learn the hard way by there own 'fuck you I do what I want' attitude..global warming is chicken feed compared to the problem of overpopulation..there should be a global agreement to prevent female overbreeding
9thprotocol 2 years ago 5
@9thprotocol to be fair, not all teenagers have reckless & unprotected sex. there are fail rates of contraception, you know.
fullspeedaheadx 1 year ago
@fullspeedaheadx but most of these choose not to use a condom.
99arr0w99 1 year ago
@9thprotocol then the world will have less people, cause they would die..etc unless thiers a limit.
99arr0w99 1 year ago
@9thprotocol Agreed with you. get not sympathy from me, they sit there complaing and blaiming everyone else when they can't do fuck all coz they got a kid...errrm....think they need to look in the mirror...it's thier faults they can't go out to party's and "have fun" they should of thought before they opened their legs to a dickhead of a lad who just wants to get his end in and piss off. haha STUPID TEENAGER!
redeyedangel09 1 year ago
@9thprotocol Way to generalize. Many teenage mothers might act like this, but not all of them. That's like saying that all teenagers are stupid and immature.
MoonFlower238 1 year ago 20
sort your fucking life out!
genevaslab 2 years ago
had my first child at 16 now i'm 21 had my second i'm in a stable relationship and is happier then ever my kids mean the world 2 me and i dont see y people r makin such a fuss about underage pregnancies its a womans job 2 reproduce lolol
xxMissMilesxx 2 years ago
is it not also a mans job to reproduce?
nix231 2 years ago 2
glad you did not choose abortion
emilioTOMASbarca 2 years ago
Because you're not mature enough at 16. You've got 'X's' in you're name for gods sake.
OWT2OWN 2 years ago
meow meow
Jackcouldcanyou 2 years ago
mywires is a perfect example of a kid having kids and trying to defend it lol.
Read her story's and my point is made.
kanharn 2 years ago
all I have to say is Slapper Chav,
I blame the Parents and feel sorry for the soon to be born kid.
Kids having kids is a joke.
any girl having a baby 16 and under needs educating.
how many more baby's can be conceived in parks and tiny bopper party's.
Its usually because these kids are stupid skipp school have no education or understanding of what their actions will cause
kanharn 2 years ago
It is amazing really, you need a license to do most crap, but popping out kids is 'accepted', if I went outside and told someone I wanted to kill myself I would get arrested for self harm or whatever, BUT if a teenage girl wanted to get pregnant she would be rewarded and have her own show,.. GREAT logic
VoluptuousAlchemy 2 years ago
Would you prefer it if people had to be licensed to have a child...?
You can't get arrested for self harm by the way. xD
As for the show itself, these kids didn't have the babies because they got a show out it! GREAT logic.
MRaverz 2 years ago
Yes to the license, and yes to the self harm thing, and well my reply had some sattire involved, but I get what you are saying.
The obsession with having kids is psychological but that doesnt mean people can have one, I certainly don't think having a child will 'complete' me.
As for abortion (below comment), in the teenage pregnancy sense, I think it's 100% necessary
VoluptuousAlchemy 2 years ago
Could you really justify the ethics behind deciding who can and who can't have children? What if these unlicensed people still had children? Are these babies going to be aborted or adopted? Could the parents be sterilised?
Getting a bit dramatic, but you can see my point right?
Once again, self harm isn't against the law any more than depression is.
There are a variety of reasons why people will want to have children, let's not generalise people and assume it's all psychological.
MRaverz 2 years ago 2
Well sometimes we need to do unethical things to prevent problems getting out of hand, do you really want UK to be the next China?
Based on what I have researched the reasons for having a child fit in the following area, 'feeling left out, everyone of they friends have one', 'feeling empty, something missing', 'to lock a relationship, or prevent it from breaking'.
I don't really think I have heard anyone ever say a valid argument for having a child and "because I want a family" isnt one
VoluptuousAlchemy 2 years ago
In China the one-child policy was universal and needed to take the country out of extreme poverty. You're suggesting picking and choosing which people can have child for an issue which has been shown to have been improved with education.
(Note the differences in teen pregnancies in correlation with school grades)
How is 'because I want a family' not a valid argument?! You'd be surprised how many of these teenagers actually want to start a family with someone they love.
MRaverz 2 years ago
I want a family, but I know even at my age it would be a bad move, I want pets and I know thats a bad move, just because people want stuff doesnt mean they should get it without thinking of the future.
I don't feel we are getting anywhere with this discussion, however I will respect your views, but I will stick with my comments and knowledge / experience in the area.
Btw the Chinese policy on child control was primarily to manage the population
VoluptuousAlchemy 2 years ago 2
The Chinese policy was put in place because the population was getting too great - this caused extreme poverty because it's pretty difficult feeding billions of people. Poverty was the issue, population was the cause.
Granted we're getting no where fast at least, I would just suggest that you further research the area concerned.
MRaverz 2 years ago
seriarse like mega seriarse!! learn to speak before you raise kids you fucking idiot! its said serious!
benthebeast06 2 years ago 2
Stupid chav, she deserves it for fucking up her life.
nos238 2 years ago 3
Everyone makes mistakes you dickhead, and as for being a chav how can she help how she's braught up and what area shes in? She had no intention of getting pregnant but shit happens, maybe if she'd of had better parents to stop her going out getting hammered she wouldn't of got pregnant.
imnotover18haha 2 years ago
Most teenage mothers I've met don't seem very intelligent. And why are most of them hairdressers or beauticians? Why do they never go for a more intelligent career? And before someone bring it up, no I'm not saying everyone in these careers are unintelligent people.
unrealeck 2 years ago
cant beleve she regrets it i had my first when i was 15 was tough i dropped school and got a factory job then by 18 i was the first out my friends to own a house while they was getting mashed i was in my shed heh it does make you grow up and act hold have no regrets and wouldnt change a thing plus as my little one is teens now can go college or drinking and still in my 20s most my friends are in uni debts cant afford children and still get mashed,,i perfer my shoes heh
mywires 2 years ago
You're on the assumption they WANT KIDS. They are (by the rulebook) earning more then you intially where in your factory job even with the debts so they can afford it more then you could. They've got their degrees, can still go "drinking" as you say and will most likely provide a more stable family cause their Mother won't feel the need to go out drinking when their in their teens. Don't perpetrate a myth.
blabigalini 2 years ago
im not perpetrating a myth or condone teen pregnancy's but babys dont make them selves im just saying to stand up and take responsibility for decisions made whether right or wrong if i stayed in education i would have worked at it and made it work for me but i went another root and made that work instead,tougher maybe but isnt the end of the world
mywires 2 years ago
I came off harsh. No one doubts you can't make a good life for yourself as a teen mum. But to say you'd rather be in your shoes does seem to encourage it. I don't expect you to go back on your child, but be honest about the other possiblities which could of happened. Thats all! :)
blabigalini 2 years ago
yeah i was referring to some of my friends that prove you can have no children and the best education and still waste it but should never waste being a parent yet alot of mothers do expect the government to raise there kids while they get mashed with there uni friends who expects the government to give them a job, its never going to work heh
mywires 2 years ago
SHE IS TAKING RESPONSIBILTY! She's telling young people not to make the same mistakes she did. More responsible than parading your babies pictures online like the teen mums i know
101nutmeg 1 year ago
i feel sorry for her - she really regrets it...
LDNDoll 2 years ago
the real bad thing is that the people who get pregnant are seen as "strong mothers" which is retarded. thats what the News is calling Sarah Palin's Daughter! if people give them free stuff and see them as heroes then more and more fucking retarded kids are gonna do it. because they dont lose anything. all they do is gain! a child! and a bunch of other free shit! David Letterman was right to make fun of Bristle Palin. she was retarded and everyone knows it
CheapAssMediaProd 2 years ago
i know what you mean. Don't you think young girls who dont get pregnant deserve more applaud than these girls. Its easy to get pregnant, it takes a strong person to stand up against peer pressure and say no.
MORE PRAISE FOR CHILDLESS TEENS!
101nutmeg 1 year ago
Seriously how stupid u gotta be to get pregs these days?
Most youngsters would rather spend 2quid on gut-rot cider than buy protection, or they do it for the money and free house.
Another scurge of decent society this feckless government has left us with.
djrupture666 2 years ago
what sort of a life have half the teens in the nation got if the're all like this? its just the status quo now and its just stupid. come on ppl surely you can all see something's not right here.
billiesbiggesfan 2 years ago
i know ppl 16 hu have had kids i think itz ridiculous
SparklersElite08 2 years ago
I think your spelling and bastardisation of the english language is ridiculous
DaveMacbean 2 years ago 2
go fuck yaself
SparklersElite08 2 years ago
You are stupid.
meekychuppet 2 years ago
Come to my city and see all the teenage mums and the social system that breeds more and more teenage mums then call me stupid you fucking muppet.
Longs81 2 years ago
Ok, you're still stupid. Go ahead and provide evidence to support your 'theory'.
Stupid.
meekychuppet 2 years ago
It's not a theory its a fact and I only have to walk out my front door and see the single mums from the council estate pushing a buggy with a screaming child in and yelling at it to shut the f**k up between puffing on a fag. You won't see any of this living in a nice part of town with semi-detached houses but it's all you will see in any council estate across this country. That and crime.
Take your head outa your arse and go see for yourself you ignorant tool.
Longs81 2 years ago 12
Right, so you haven't got any evidence at all, you're just angry because you live in a shithole.
You can solve this problem. Instead of blaming everyone else, better yourself and take responsibility for your own wellbeing and lifestyle.
It's amusing for you to accuse me of ignorance when your opinion is based solely upon what you see when you go out of your front door.
meekychuppet 2 years ago
For your information I don't live in a shit hole I said I just have to walk out my front door to see the single mums from the council estate. I live in my own home and actually have a job it just so happens that the local parade of shops near me serves said council estate. My job as it so happens is a postie and I also deliver to that council estate.
Longs81 2 years ago
So you're angry at your job then.
In either case, I see no reason you should single out young mothers, unless you're an obnoxious bully.
Wait a minute...
meekychuppet 2 years ago
i live in a semi-detached house and you know what you are so right, fuckin weird. I have a lot of mates who do live in council houses and their mentality of life seemed some what lower, for example i always known from primary school i would go from school> College> Uni as most of my family have and most of my council mates are the 1st in their family to be going to UNI.
guerillacity 2 years ago
@Longs81 Stop Juding! U Dont KNOW Them So Theres No Need 2 Judge! fair enough there young and still at school,, ect but some teens can cope some might no they have made the wrong mistake, but u can't judge them, because you never know it could have happened to you when you was younger and if it did, you would have thought differently!!!!!
Rack4EvaEastEnders 1 year ago
@Rack4EvaEastEnders My hard earned taxes are paying for most of these single young mums to sit at home raising a young child or children. I think that gives me EVERY right to judge them. I applaud any of them that sorts their life out by trying to go to work when their child starts school and does everything they can to educate their own children so as not to repeat the mistakes they themselves made, Sad thing is something like that happening isn't likely.
Longs81 1 year ago
@Longs81 u are not being fair people can get pregnant whenever they want to they do not need ur other peoples oppinion and think that they may need help and they could be alone ur just being selfish it's all about u and ur money and don't judge people wen they mite be ready
beautypethelp 1 year ago
@beautypethelp So if they are ready to have a child they can support themselves and their child without help from the state. Your right it is about me and my money because it's MY money, I earned it and I begrudge the taxes taken from it being spent on putting up some teenage mum who thought it was a cool idea to have a baby while she's still at school and doesn't have any means of supporting herself. Having a baby costs a lot of money and is hard work, too many girls don't realise this sadly.
Longs81 1 year ago
@beautypethelp a.k.a i ment it's NOT all about u they may need help would u really have an abortion mistakes happen :(
beautypethelp 1 year ago
@Rack4EvaEastEnders Learn how to spell
ii5HORTYx 1 year ago
how old is she?
hugoefoda 2 years ago
honest to god, wait..seriaaaaaaaaaass
SkateSpark 2 years ago
Because these women are immature, naive idiots who have no understanding of the real world where their freinds are everything to them
crazzer123 2 years ago
its good to be a boy ;)
cookzyuk 2 years ago 2
hey guys its her choice if she wants to get knocked up so respect her decision u
skomer26 2 years ago
We have every right to judge her. We have to burden the consequences of her actions. She'll bring up a shit kid who will cause havoc in school, disrupting education of other kids.
She will claim benefits from the taxpayer including clothing, housing, food...
She should be ostracised from our community to teach other girls a lesson not to get knocked up.
RacistWinker 2 years ago 5
'she'll bring up a shit kid'
looool
djheslin 2 years ago 7
ur out of order nobody is A SHIT kid ... moron maybe expect ...u
Celia2455 2 years ago
I totally agree with that :)
iHaveNoIMagination09 2 years ago
Making up imaginary consequences is not at all intelligent. You're ostracisation idea is patently ridiculous. May I suggest that you do not have children?
meekychuppet 2 years ago