I hope you have a benefit from the navy.... knowing that you will the navy will give you a better future and since the war is about to be over you are in a better position
Just ask yourself what you really want in life. And what benefit to your future each choice will have. Whatever you choose won't ruin your life. Bc you can change your mind at anytime if you decide its not for you. You never know if its what you really want until you try...
I say do what your heart tells you. Life is far to short! Trust me i know. I hope you find what your looking for. Have no regrates, i know it is easyer said then done sometimes.
What are you doing right now in Florida? I say if it's something you really want to do, then go for it! You live once, and you'll regret it if you don't try. Trying never hurt anybody.
hon i work for the navy and i am dating a sailor. if u can handle doing bitch work and working ur ass off without being able to stay in one place for over a couple months, the navy's great! i personally would choose the air force because they treat their people better. However, do some soul searching, the answers right there. Glad to see you're ok on some level, be safe!
The point is though, you don't seem to have a solid goal, and I feel that you rather the goals come to you. Maybe a change in your lifestyle could help? What are your hobbies? think about what it is you've always been passionate about, even if you don't think it's acceptable in modern day society (like a man riding a unicycle on top of a 300 foot cliff, just to give you an idea), and go out and be the best you can at it. Keep staying active, that helps more than anything.
If you have to sit down and question what it is you want to do, then it appears your more interested in a drastic change than anything else. It doesn't seem to be a solid goal, if it isn't what you want. A change of environment is always good, and its something I can see that you need. Joining the navy = traveling. Moving to Jersey = Traveling. Maybe it is time to pack up and go, starting fresh?
ehh I dunno... I think its all about perspective really, maybe you should take a step back and review whats going on in your life right now. Usually people don't end up in "crossroads" unless some strong event has occurred in their lives for the thought to even come up. Moving out of state is usually what people do when they need to relocate for jobs, and joining any military branch is something people do when they know what they want to get out of it.
If it's very hard to get a job where you live then it doesn't seem like that bad of an idea. It would be better if there wasn't a war going on. You seem like a very smart guy. You can make any situation work for you. In the long run you can have the whole rest of your life made as far as a career if you join any branch of the military.
I think that we all face at least one crossroad in our lives, this is definately yours. Picture yourself in 10 years if you go to Jersey, then picture yourself if you had joined the navy. It's a dangerous time to join the armed forces right now what with the war happening. If youre looking to pick up and start fresh then I would say move to Jersey, but if you want to leave the past in the past and start completely over then I would sday join the Navy. Good luck to you brother!
Though moment. Personally, what i did was to picture myself 5 to 10 years from now... doing something I enjoyed while getting paid for. I think its crucial that you set yourself Goals (short & long term) depending on your personality and go from there. It took me a while because you need to know yourself pretty well to make those kind of decisions. Anyway, good luck :)
The future is unknown for everyone, your not the only one at a crossroads. Do what you have to do to be at peace. If that means going back to jersey then do it. I advise not to join the navy, everyone I know that has joined the military has wanted and gotten out, and they will all tell you not to.
becoming a navy seal whould be pretty cool...but i dunno... following orders is pretty tough... especialy when they're comming from u'r dad... he's an airforce general and stuff... you should probbably think it over and decide for you'reself... we live in different enviroments... my parents want me to moveout and such.... i hate them... i whould probbably join the nvy.. dunno abbout you
I love you. I wish you the best of luck on all fronts, my beautiful Spyke <3 Never forget about me, and Jersey... and how you have to visit me
beautifulxdead 2 years ago
i love you too Raycee Jay <3
Spykopathic 2 years ago
My friend is in the navy and he hates it. He's almost done though. I hope things are looking up for you since you posted this! Take care ok?
RayneDrops4Ever 3 years ago
I think you should go to the US Navy. Thanks for posting. I also am thinking about joining the navy after college
lazyfreddy 3 years ago
well i hope to see you in there my friend.
I just got sworn into the Navy on December 9th.
Spykopathic 3 years ago
congrats...hope to see you thier
lazyfreddy 3 years ago
I hope you have a benefit from the navy.... knowing that you will the navy will give you a better future and since the war is about to be over you are in a better position
esco21tube 3 years ago
Just ask yourself what you really want in life. And what benefit to your future each choice will have. Whatever you choose won't ruin your life. Bc you can change your mind at anytime if you decide its not for you. You never know if its what you really want until you try...
lolitakairi 3 years ago
The only advice i can give is to follow your heart ;)
irocklove14 3 years ago
I say do what your heart tells you. Life is far to short! Trust me i know. I hope you find what your looking for. Have no regrates, i know it is easyer said then done sometimes.
All the best keep us all posted!
terryuk23 3 years ago
What are you doing right now in Florida? I say if it's something you really want to do, then go for it! You live once, and you'll regret it if you don't try. Trying never hurt anybody.
laura241984 3 years ago
hon i work for the navy and i am dating a sailor. if u can handle doing bitch work and working ur ass off without being able to stay in one place for over a couple months, the navy's great! i personally would choose the air force because they treat their people better. However, do some soul searching, the answers right there. Glad to see you're ok on some level, be safe!
theoreo88 3 years ago
yea man I feel you, I am going this the same stuff
LordEarth69 3 years ago
i'm just in the same shit
i can be wathever i want, do, think, share, be stronger, create... something! but i don't find a sense of everything i do.
so, you're not alone (:
ovenaries 3 years ago
The point is though, you don't seem to have a solid goal, and I feel that you rather the goals come to you. Maybe a change in your lifestyle could help? What are your hobbies? think about what it is you've always been passionate about, even if you don't think it's acceptable in modern day society (like a man riding a unicycle on top of a 300 foot cliff, just to give you an idea), and go out and be the best you can at it. Keep staying active, that helps more than anything.
jester026 3 years ago
If you have to sit down and question what it is you want to do, then it appears your more interested in a drastic change than anything else. It doesn't seem to be a solid goal, if it isn't what you want. A change of environment is always good, and its something I can see that you need. Joining the navy = traveling. Moving to Jersey = Traveling. Maybe it is time to pack up and go, starting fresh?
jester026 3 years ago
ehh I dunno... I think its all about perspective really, maybe you should take a step back and review whats going on in your life right now. Usually people don't end up in "crossroads" unless some strong event has occurred in their lives for the thought to even come up. Moving out of state is usually what people do when they need to relocate for jobs, and joining any military branch is something people do when they know what they want to get out of it.
jester026 3 years ago
If it's very hard to get a job where you live then it doesn't seem like that bad of an idea. It would be better if there wasn't a war going on. You seem like a very smart guy. You can make any situation work for you. In the long run you can have the whole rest of your life made as far as a career if you join any branch of the military.
Goobian 3 years ago
I think that we all face at least one crossroad in our lives, this is definately yours. Picture yourself in 10 years if you go to Jersey, then picture yourself if you had joined the navy. It's a dangerous time to join the armed forces right now what with the war happening. If youre looking to pick up and start fresh then I would say move to Jersey, but if you want to leave the past in the past and start completely over then I would sday join the Navy. Good luck to you brother!
rush1231 3 years ago
Though moment. Personally, what i did was to picture myself 5 to 10 years from now... doing something I enjoyed while getting paid for. I think its crucial that you set yourself Goals (short & long term) depending on your personality and go from there. It took me a while because you need to know yourself pretty well to make those kind of decisions. Anyway, good luck :)
nekbeth 3 years ago
The future is unknown for everyone, your not the only one at a crossroads. Do what you have to do to be at peace. If that means going back to jersey then do it. I advise not to join the navy, everyone I know that has joined the military has wanted and gotten out, and they will all tell you not to.
BLUEFlSH7 3 years ago
becoming a navy seal whould be pretty cool...but i dunno... following orders is pretty tough... especialy when they're comming from u'r dad... he's an airforce general and stuff... you should probbably think it over and decide for you'reself... we live in different enviroments... my parents want me to moveout and such.... i hate them... i whould probbably join the nvy.. dunno abbout you
sepie 3 years ago