It's no surprise that Stephen explains this more eloquently than anyone else. He is an inspiration to everyone with the condition and i'm grateful he is honest enough to share his experiences with us.
To all sufferers of bipolar, ween yourself off the prescriptions you have ASAP (talk to your doctor about it first, never stop taking these addictive medications abruptly, you'll experience rather horrible psychological withdrawal symptoms unless you taper off). Anti-depressants are known to increase mania and suicidal thoughts! Anti-psychotics (used to treat manic symptoms) are known to increase risk of psychotic episodes (makes your dopamine system over active once drug wears off)!
@cincofone I kind of agree with you. They work for some people though, you would soon know if it was having an adverse effect. My boyfriend (who is bipolar) had an uncle who also suffered and took the drugs and killed himself because the drugs messed with him. They are something to be wary of, they are not a quick fix by any means.
@amy3971 Sure sometimes the drugs can work. But so do sugar pills, and at almost exactly the same rate of efficacy (for anti-depressants that is). Sugar pills however do not have the enourmous list of dangerous side effects
Stephen Fry's self-loathing has gone too far as to seek the sympathy of his audience under the false pretense of "mental illness". What a cheap advertisement, if I'd seen any. I wonder how much money the American Psychiatric Association payed him for this gimmic...
@Richthor1889 also, you can always tell someone who isn't used to using large words when they say things like "sycophant(,) pseudo(-)intellect(ual-btw)" and "diatribes". Use simple but thought out words and you'll sound smarter.
(Or were you trying to mock everyonedoesit2? The "eh!" just can't be serious.
@Richthor1889 Have you ever seen "Who do you think you are?" It's a program with celebrities going back and finding out who their ancestors were. If you ever watch the Stephen Fry episode you will take back your comment about him not being Jewish. The things he found out about his close relatives were shocking and moving. I think to say such unthoughtful things is incredibly hurtful (of course it's no skin of Stephen's nose as he will never see it) but it is unnecessary and ignorant.
@Richthor1889 Erm, no. His grandparents and beyond on his mothers side are Jewish, so he is of Jewish descent. I have no idea why you're bringing up his ancestry... For the record he knows he's no bipolar, he was diagnosed with cyclothymia, a subset of biopolar disorder. Get a medial degree then get back to us with your ranting and raving.
@Richthor1889 He does seem to bang on about it. I have depression (I wonder if its diagnosed bipolar since im so up ann down)-why am i telling you, because literally noone gives a shit!!!! No TV interviews, no books etc....this guy is fucking milking it. Jees, he might as well get HIV-he'd rake it in on that one. Tortured gay
@cockywatchman1976 Stephen Fry is a celebrity. Of course he's going to get interviews etc. And he's not saying "oh woe-is-me", he's destigmatising an illness and spreading awareness of it. He's describing his own experiences (and other people's you'll notice) in order to help others understand it. Plus how is he a tortured gay, in any way? He's proud of his sexuality, as I'm sure you are,it doesn't mean he flounces around saying everyone's discriminating against him.
@richthor1889 I'm sorry sir, but you have no right to tell this man he isn't bipolar. I am bipolar, and it takes one to know one. Gosh you're rude. He has suffered a great deal and for you to say it's bs well that just pisses me off.
Steven's analogy of it being like weather is SO true , and for someone who does not suffer it is hard to get the full picture of what it is like, it is an acceptance , not something which people tell you often nowadays as something to 'get over' - It would be great if society could begin to understand this instead of ignoring it :/
@josh218 I was only diagnosed 18mnth ago at 43 with BP2 . My kids put up with my drinking and blue moods although (by the grace of God) i wasnt violent or distructive. I did however quit many jobs and sadly also my family once my youngest was 16. I never knew why until 18mnth ago. They all know of my diagnosis and understand. I thought for years that i was mad. My thoughts are with you and your father. If you wish to contact me feel free, it would be an honour if i could help another.
All the psychiatrists are wrong. None of these conditions even exist and people only think they have them because sombody told them they did and they believed what they were told and did not question as to whether they were wrong or right. Don't let the doctor fool and worry you. WHat you have to remember was never any evidence produced that proves that any human being must like this planet by default. Happiness or unhapiness doesn't even exist there is only existence.
@210482fmj The thing I will oppose in that is that psychiatry is only there because mental instabilities exist. Doctors have to share information with each other, set characteristics of these instabilities and naturally give names to the diseases. It makes it easier. Whether these conditions are how you see them is irrelevent. The only thing to be done to help these people that cannot possibly "snap out of it" by themselves is to generalize and set principles. Noone's fooling anyone.
Is the full version of this interview on youtube and if so what is it called? Thank you :)
I suffer with chronic depression with major depressive episodes, so I don't get the wonderful rebound that people on the bi-polar spectrum get, my auntie does though as she suffers with bi-polar. In the UK there are so many people who claim to have depression in order to get disability pay that people like me can't get any kind of help without having to suffer the indignity of undue scrutiny.
I should add for those who don't know, there are "nurses" who've been send on a "course", and they can over-rule years worth of doctors treatment and assessments of your mental health or any other condition - it's a farse, which is why I just suffer poverty instead when I'm hit badly with depression that is treatment resistent.
Manic episodes don't happen in cyclothymia or BP 2. BP1 is a universe away as Stephen says but......all people suffer that suffer. Stephen is eloquent but above all loving and God Bless Him....even though he may be an atheist
I went through depression and anxiety at the beginning of this year. I didn't sleep in over a week, and I thought such stupid thoughts. I really wanted to end my life, but I was too scared to make the move. I couldn't think straight and whenever someone spoke to me, I could hear them but I couldn't understand what they were saying, and I couldn't stop thinking. It was horrible. I don't know how I got better, but I'm so glad Stephen Fry is speaking out about mental illness.
I can totally relate to the whole thing about moods being like the weather, and the massive mood swings.. I'd like to know, if anyone is manic depressive, how long do those bursts usually last? Is it a few hours? Or is it months at a time?
@timewilltell7 After 20+ years of thinking i was mad ,to find i was actually BP2 was a relief. I had already lost many jobs and my wife because of it. I know the celeb thing makes it seem like its an excuse for their weird behaviour (and i actually think sometimes it is), but to think u r mad and not understand why u behave as u do i so scary esp when u have kids. I do however understand ur question as i would have felt the same had i not experienced what i have.
"It was nothing like as terrible as the pain that made me stand in front of that lorry..." That right there, is one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever heard. To be so apologetic and so depreciating on oneself, it makes my heart ache, it truly does.
my advice to people is do not get put into a mental unit. Be careful what you say to psychiatrists. Sometimes its better to keep your feeling quiet. If you get sectioned because they think you might be a risk to your self they can force you to take meds. if anything you will come out worse off.
@210482fmj they can only force you to take meds while you are in hospital. They only affect you in the short-term (one month tops) On the other hand you have no idea who are talking to on the internet. They might have a more serious condition which requires control if they are to get on with the rest of us. I've found working with the doctors to be rewarding. Build a relationship. If you don't think they listen ask for another one.
@nine0rowan I don't know about that man. I have seen some people have really bad weight gain from medications and their faces heads become looking slightly swelled up and enllarged. Its difficult to predict the side effects of these obviously powerful lab chemicals. THe people who taker this meds are the ones who are testing it out. results on paperwork compared to reality are different for medication side effects.
I can't imagine what it must be like to be bipolar. I have monopolar depression and it sucks, because most of the time I can't imagine what it must be like to be incredibly happy. But to suffer from both depression and extreme ecstacy must be so overwelming.
my mom has this dissorder, since i was young i was moving from fosterhome another foster home, it's a very serious illness, cause the times when she was manic she drink a lot alcochol, and used a lot of drugs. she also had a lot of stupid ideas, and when she's depressed, it was REALLY serious. it's one of the worst psychical illnesses u can have, cause you're not yourself, your hurting people and i know my mom doesn't wants to hurt me, but she isn't herself. she can't help it..
@IMMABESHUFFLIN I think there are different degrees. With any illness its best to believe that you are responsible for it. It sounds weird, but it gets you to act. Its possible for anyone to stay off drugs and alcohol. Go live in a strict muslim country where you can't get any?
@IMMABESHUFFLIN She is lucky to have you . I was 43 when i finally got diagnosed and had already split from my wife n kids. I told her and them about it and im glad they have understood. We are still very close but it very important that people who know of BP share it. I wasnt diagnosed earlier because i never knew of it , i actually thought i was mad and drank to hide it.. All my best wishes go to u and her for the future .
Sooner or later people are going to realize how easily Depression illnesses can be helpped with diet and exercise. I went through depression when i was 18 through 20. I adapted a Chinese protocol of exercise and a raw vegan diet and I now am 24 and have not had a single symptom of depression since. I feel great.
I think I have Cyclothymia =/ What Stephen said about imagining no future when you have a dark mood - how everything slows down and you become so sad you can't even conceive the idea that you'll ever be happy again - that rings true for me SO much.
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I was diagnosed with bipolar type I four years ago and I've found Stephen Fry's insight and eloquence on the subject to be of great comfort. The weather analogy is so bang on key, a truly remarkable man
I was diagnosed with Bipolar (II) a while back. It can get very bad for me, but at the same time, I wouldn't want to change who I am. My bipolar is part of me, and yes there are times when I wish I could just be 'normal', times when that would be far easier, but no, I am me, and I'm happy to be me, even if me is sad.
@GeorgeMaier Interesting, I was diagnosed with manic depression as a teen, I later discovered after studying philosophy and psychology that it's not what we think that produces our emotions, it's how we think, and that's our choice. I highly recommend a book by Dr Richard Bandler called "Get the life you want". Some of the principals in this book are very similar to Buddhist philosophical teachings... Have you ever seen an angry monk?
If you read this book, I'd love to know how you think then.
Chemicals in the brain go out of whack in bipolar and other depressive conditions. Chemical or hormones imbalance of any kind is never good news. I admit I was rather shocked at how many people thought less of this condition.
some truth in it. Bipolar isn't like a cold that you can catch and then get cured of. It is with you for life - desasterz didn't have Bipolar, he was probably having a bad day or something. You don't have it and then not have it. That is just a classic example of total bloody ignorance. If you think you have Bipolar you probably don't have it. You KNOW when you have Bipolar.
There is something to be said for the many comments i've read saying that bipolar is esssentially a by-product of the world and sociaty we live in. I have a suspician that these sorts of disorders come about because we are overstimulated and too far removed from the more important things in life by the media and general business and this is love. We all need to be loved and feel loved. In Western society we are too isolated from each other. I know this sounds terrribly simplistic but there is..
Not really. It doesn't help the depression when you crash after days,weeks or months of a mania and realise that a: you've spent your money and taken up silly loans b: face the courts because you did something illegal or c: Catched a diseased because you fucked everything with a pulse.
Bi Polar Disorder is a myth. I had it. I realized certain things in life and it cured. People "sorted me out" and it came back. And now it's cured agaoin. This society is morbide!
I have manic depression and the difference between "depression" and "manic depression" is it has drastic highs and lows, just like Fry said... From a joy and happiness it can drop into inimaginable darkness and misery in one day, one hour. When in the depression people stay in darkness...
Choked up when he said about the man who walked in front of the lorry saying "This pain was nothing like the pain that made me stand in front of that lorry..." What a way to describe it, really gives a sense of how they much feel... <3
He is so right. Manic depression is a VERY serious disorder and i despise the way it has grown in popularity of late due to several famous people coming out and saying they have it. You can convince yourself of almost anything if you try hard enough but no matter how hard you try you cannot ever deny that you have manic depression. It affects everything, you essentially ARE manic depression when you have got it. I don't mean to offend anybody with this comment. I'm not as eloquent as Mr Fry!
@sarahparsons87 I am not offended, however, I disagree that it being "popular" is really a bad thing. The more exposure mental illness has, the more people who suffer with it will be understood. If this particular disorder is a bit overdiagnosed for a brief time, and I don't believe it is, it is worth for those who may eventually be able to talk about what they have suffered with alone for so many years, ashamed when shame is unnecessary.
@sarahparsons87 I know exactly what u mean. When i finally found out about BP and saw my gp, i was referred to the mental health people and was actually asked 'Why do you want to be bipolar?' . To which i replied after 20+ yrs of thinking i was mad ( in that i knew i behaved differently), 'It beats the alternative.' I was 43 when i got diagnosed but i felt that BP was the 2000's adhd, (in that the 90s it was add or adhd in the 2000's it bipolar). Thats how it came across to me.
I suffer from depression - not manic depression but 'ordinary' depression - and yet I still felt like Stephen Fry was describing me with much of what he said.
I can especially sympathise about the anecdote about the Royal Navy Commander - people don't realise just how painful depression can be because none of it 'appears' physical. I grew up with people like that, and it made everything that much harder.
People like that are not only clueless but also part of the problem imho.
@Afterthoughtbtw My sis in law suffers badly from depression (unipolar) but she as i did got diagnosed easy. However, my meds made me worse because my prob wasnt depression alone. I write this not to make light of your problem but to encourage you to fight. She is actually being given less focus due to being a 'routine' problem. (Thats my opinion as a bp2 sufferer). People have no idea how the inky blackness of death can be seen as a blessed relief. Keep fighting, save others.
@ukmwm40 Thanks. I'm stubborn, and don't like to lose, so I keep fighting as best I can!
My problem stems from the fact that I refused to see any doctor about it for far too many years. Basically because of the stigma about it. Had I asked for help earlier, I'd probably be in a far better situation.
If there's one thing that should be done about mental illness, it's to destigmatise it - especially when it comes to men and boys.
I seem to get exactly these symptoms but have never been diagnosed with bi polar, I especially understand the mania side, I love writing and sometimes I just can't stop thinking and theres so many things in my head at one time, but then when I'm down it just seems like theres no point in anything and I just want to die. I put myself down by thinking "get over yourself, people go through much worse". Now I'm not sure if I have bi polar. I've been to the same dark places stephen describes here.
you could tell his illness, by the quick confidence that grew in this interview: no more stuttering, smooth speech, and humor. I can relate, and i am in depressive state. I would def press the button, but i still experiment and see if i can maintain that manic state forever.
Friends of mine with extreme manic episodes act as if they are directing the movie of life, and you are only a cast member. When a cast member does not act according to the director's instructions, or fails to understand the "word of God," as it sometimes seems, the director gets very frustrated, and perhaps will take you off the set. It can be very alienating for both. However, I do understand from the manic depressive's point of view that it is a complete and lucid state of mind--fulfilling(?)
I've always somewhat loved and hated that Stephen Fry has Manic Depression. I also suffer Manic Depression, and I appreciate the fact that such a well-spoken and well-known man is able to be a spokesperson for the disorder. It helps a lot more people get more interested in understanding the illness. I hate it because I know the places he has to be at times in his illness. It's a horrible thing. You wouldn't believe the kind of dark one can see....
I have and am due to have more intensive nhs privately funded treatment. This is so strange, years spent suffering from extreme manic depression and what stephen just said about the moody weather is the best thing I have ever related to and heard in my entire life about manic depression. It sums up, especially how I feel right now perfectly. Thank you so much. I have written down what he has said and I will show it to my doctors....
I wonder if depression takes the worse expression in the nihilism of the world surrounding one person or when it slowly takes every rational positive thought out of them. It's like trying to oppose the wish for death and the wish for not living life.
I've watched the documentary he refers to, Secret Life of the Manic Depressive, several times. It's worth its weight in gold as far as I'm concerned, as the more stigma is drawn away from mental health issues, whatever they may be, the more likely a sufferer will seek help, realise they are not alone and perhaps decide to push on and survive rather than ending their life. The stigma and fear of a mental institute can be enough to bring people to suicide. See the documentary if you haven't.
This man is so wonderfully articulate on what it is to have Bipolar and how it truely feels! I am so Thankful to him for everything he says about the Disorder, as it helps so many people with and without it understand a little better and see that there is true hope!
@adelaidebliss I don't have manic depression, as far as I know, but my doctor and therapist have suspected it. So I am going to be evaluated. I'm just wondering... to what degree does your bipolarity affect you?
When someone asks what it's like for me, as a person with bipolar disorder, I always suggest looking at a Stephen Fry interview. He really captures what it's like in a beautiful, yet simple to understand way. Any ways, thank you Mr. Fry for verbalizing what I cannot.
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People are scared to press that button which stops the bipolar disorder just only because they are scared to lose the onliest thing they have, I think so.
Stephen speaks very accurately about the experience of bipolar affective disorder. What is shocking is how many people these days WANT that diagnosis. Believe me, guys, you don't.
My ex-hushand (dear friend) has bi-polar disorder with schizophrenic tendencies. He has been hospitalized 9 times - none of them his idea. I worry for his life. I have saved him many times and pray for him the rest. He is the father of our daughter. She is 18. I hope she doesn't inherit this illness. He will not take his meds because he is an artist and hand sign writer - the best I know. He could work for Disney. No computer can replace him. He is in Mich. most of the time and winters in FL now
i have schizoaffective bipolar type 1. actually on a mixed episode right now. i wouldn't get rid of it but i don't blame anyone who would. instead i want to aim it, take the good parts and channel them for real good and try to manage the bad parts. no one with mental disorders or any diseases are freaks even if we sometimes feel like it. accept help and life, you all are not alone !
Bipolar disorder is like a stealth disease. It FEELS like the whole world can see the black fug of smog infecting every breath, but in reality nobody knows what you're going through unless you tell them. But telling people is tricky, since usually the reaction is so unhelpful. So we pretend we're fine. Secretly, though, the only way to survive is to canoe your way through those rapids while forcing yourself to function anyway. Take help if you can, but never stop paddling or the river wins.
The whole emo scene has ruined the lives of people with actual forms of manic depression. Its incredibly tasteless and people won't take the illness seriously if people claim to have manic depression because they got the wrong energy drink or their wristband broke and actually turn this illness into a scene.
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i just cant imagen being someone like virginia woolf living with this illness and having no medication.
Its a really embarrassing, childish thing but i often used to just wish someone would lift the illness off me, i wish my mum could make it go away lol. Its hard somedays to think ill probably have to shoulder depression my entire life through.....
But then i geuss being brave is easy in the good times, it shows your true braveness when times are terrible.
I've suffered from manic depression twice in the last 18 months. I went to counselling on and off for several months but stopped in the summer. But I can feel myself going downhill again. I'm more afraid of the depression than of the thing I've been depressed about.
@Terrra91 I'm also bipolar, and you should know that it's a biological thing-literally your brain chemistry leads you into those depressive states. Not an event, person, or a thing that you get depressed about. Of course, as your depression sets in and during it, those things will seem amplified, and it sometimes will convince us that it's those things themselves that get us depressed. But it's not. Seeing a doctor helps! I always suggest therapists before I suggest psychiatrists! Good luck :)
@FromAbby2You Thanks. I heard on QI that the most common illness doctors come across is depression. But like Fry says, there's a taboo around it that you should just walk it off and stop being so ridiculous but I even forget how bad it is. Then it hits you out of nowhere. Ah well, you can't have happiness without unhappiness.
Both my sister and I have depression. It never got to the point for me were I tried suicide, but I was so amazed that Stephen could get the feeling out in words. I was so happy to find this video and hear it and see that people out there really do understand. Thank you Stephen, thank you all.
i dont know much about bipolar diagnosis but i do get depressions where things look dark. i dont even see it as an illness or anything, just think it is human nature for certain people, not necessarily for everyone though.
I must admit - I had no idea how serious bipolar disorder could be. I don't have it, and I found it very difficult to believe that people could actually call it a disorder. I was the kind of person who would say 'snap out of it' (although more carefully and more polite of course).
stephen, thank you SO MUCH for sharing to the whole world about this delicate matter. I understand it a whole lot better now.
@mrsladida People like us appreciate when people who don't live with mood disorders can be open-minded enough to understand that these things do exist. It's a lot harder for us when people simply won't understand.
@mrsladida So many people have that "snap out of it" attitude. In the beginning i wanted to charge people who said that and bludgeon them to death for their unbelievable ignorance and rudeness. These days I just pity the people with that view on mental illness.
@ronnysoeberg I always think that telling someone in the midst of a depressive episode to 'snap out of it' is like telling someone with a broken leg to walk it off- worse than useless. The kindest and most helpful people I've had the pleasure to know are the ones who never made any judgments, but simply set to work trying to draw me out of myself, however they could. I had a friend who would meet me for coffee 3 times a week, and I can honestly say she was the best thing in my life back then.
@eversoplucky Hehe yeah. Walk it off, slacker! I suppose it's quite hard for "sane" people to empathize with just how unbelievably depressed people get, though. Whenever I'm completely honest about my feelings and thoughts in depressive episodes, people with little or now knowledge of depression or bipolar disorder get extremely uncomfortable. They just don't have the slightest idea of how deep the proverbial rabbit hole goes.
Yes i totally agree with him. I have depression (not manic depression) and i too get this overwhelming feeling of apathy and despair about the future or that no matter what i do or try to do, things will never get better. It's a numbness to everything positive or colourful in life
Don't have manic depression, but a lot of what he said kinda fits in with regular depression as well. I wish more people would understand how serious of an illness this is.
@RazzWasThere i too suffer from periodic depression, but bi-polar is far worse. a lot of people don't realize that the manic phase can be just as dangerous as the depressive phase. fry's analogy of the weather is quite a good one though, but he's a really smart guy so i shouldn't be surprised.
@RazzWasThere In some ways (as Stephen Fry has said himself) 'normal' depression is worse. At least manic-depressives get the 'manic' stage where they are on a huge high. For someone suffering from depression, there are no highs.
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Cannot meditation help?
humaner 2 days ago
@humaner I think it can to some extent. Exercise helps as well, I've heard.
adi87tya 1 hour ago
@insidegame33 There's no helping people such as yourself. You have no idea what you are talking about
Jerzjayusa 1 week ago
@210482fmj You are an idiot
Jerzjayusa 1 week ago
It's no surprise that Stephen explains this more eloquently than anyone else. He is an inspiration to everyone with the condition and i'm grateful he is honest enough to share his experiences with us.
NexusWR 1 week ago
ud think people with money wud be far more happier than a poor or middle class !! damn u bipolar !!!
massiveattack786 3 weeks ago
Well at least people with bipolar get the bright highs as well as the dark lows... just being depressed you feel shit all the time
haribo687 3 weeks ago
To all sufferers of bipolar, ween yourself off the prescriptions you have ASAP (talk to your doctor about it first, never stop taking these addictive medications abruptly, you'll experience rather horrible psychological withdrawal symptoms unless you taper off). Anti-depressants are known to increase mania and suicidal thoughts! Anti-psychotics (used to treat manic symptoms) are known to increase risk of psychotic episodes (makes your dopamine system over active once drug wears off)!
cincofone 3 weeks ago
@cincofone I kind of agree with you. They work for some people though, you would soon know if it was having an adverse effect. My boyfriend (who is bipolar) had an uncle who also suffered and took the drugs and killed himself because the drugs messed with him. They are something to be wary of, they are not a quick fix by any means.
amy3971 3 weeks ago
@amy3971 Sure sometimes the drugs can work. But so do sugar pills, and at almost exactly the same rate of efficacy (for anti-depressants that is). Sugar pills however do not have the enourmous list of dangerous side effects
cincofone 3 weeks ago
@cincofone Show me the case studies that suggest placebo's work "almost exactly the same rate of efficacy (for anti-depressants that is".
splicedenergy 2 weeks ago
@Richthor1889 ooo
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Stephen Fry's self-loathing has gone too far as to seek the sympathy of his audience under the false pretense of "mental illness". What a cheap advertisement, if I'd seen any. I wonder how much money the American Psychiatric Association payed him for this gimmic...
insidegame33 1 month ago
Nobody respond to "Richthor1889", he apparently was a troll and closed his account anyway.
IceburgFanell 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 also, you can always tell someone who isn't used to using large words when they say things like "sycophant(,) pseudo(-)intellect(ual-btw)" and "diatribes". Use simple but thought out words and you'll sound smarter.
(Or were you trying to mock everyonedoesit2? The "eh!" just can't be serious.
Tykilover 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 Have you ever seen "Who do you think you are?" It's a program with celebrities going back and finding out who their ancestors were. If you ever watch the Stephen Fry episode you will take back your comment about him not being Jewish. The things he found out about his close relatives were shocking and moving. I think to say such unthoughtful things is incredibly hurtful (of course it's no skin of Stephen's nose as he will never see it) but it is unnecessary and ignorant.
Tykilover 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 Ignore my last message. Richthor1889 is just a pure bread troll. Just take a look at his profile lol. Wow!
everyonedoesit2 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 Erm, no. His grandparents and beyond on his mothers side are Jewish, so he is of Jewish descent. I have no idea why you're bringing up his ancestry... For the record he knows he's no bipolar, he was diagnosed with cyclothymia, a subset of biopolar disorder. Get a medial degree then get back to us with your ranting and raving.
everyonedoesit2 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 He does seem to bang on about it. I have depression (I wonder if its diagnosed bipolar since im so up ann down)-why am i telling you, because literally noone gives a shit!!!! No TV interviews, no books etc....this guy is fucking milking it. Jees, he might as well get HIV-he'd rake it in on that one. Tortured gay
cockywatchman1976 1 month ago
@cockywatchman1976 Stephen Fry is a celebrity. Of course he's going to get interviews etc. And he's not saying "oh woe-is-me", he's destigmatising an illness and spreading awareness of it. He's describing his own experiences (and other people's you'll notice) in order to help others understand it. Plus how is he a tortured gay, in any way? He's proud of his sexuality, as I'm sure you are,it doesn't mean he flounces around saying everyone's discriminating against him.
Why are people so ignorant?
Tykilover 1 month ago
@Richthor1889 you're dumb and pathetic and exceedingly narrow-minded!!!!!
sSuUnNshine123 1 month ago
@richthor1889 I'm sorry sir, but you have no right to tell this man he isn't bipolar. I am bipolar, and it takes one to know one. Gosh you're rude. He has suffered a great deal and for you to say it's bs well that just pisses me off.
ThinkMcGeek 1 month ago
Steven's analogy of it being like weather is SO true , and for someone who does not suffer it is hard to get the full picture of what it is like, it is an acceptance , not something which people tell you often nowadays as something to 'get over' - It would be great if society could begin to understand this instead of ignoring it :/
619wisey 1 month ago
@josh218 I was only diagnosed 18mnth ago at 43 with BP2 . My kids put up with my drinking and blue moods although (by the grace of God) i wasnt violent or distructive. I did however quit many jobs and sadly also my family once my youngest was 16. I never knew why until 18mnth ago. They all know of my diagnosis and understand. I thought for years that i was mad. My thoughts are with you and your father. If you wish to contact me feel free, it would be an honour if i could help another.
ukmwm40 2 months ago
I'd press the button.
SpocksSister08 2 months ago
All the psychiatrists are wrong. None of these conditions even exist and people only think they have them because sombody told them they did and they believed what they were told and did not question as to whether they were wrong or right. Don't let the doctor fool and worry you. WHat you have to remember was never any evidence produced that proves that any human being must like this planet by default. Happiness or unhapiness doesn't even exist there is only existence.
210482fmj 2 months ago
@210482fmj The thing I will oppose in that is that psychiatry is only there because mental instabilities exist. Doctors have to share information with each other, set characteristics of these instabilities and naturally give names to the diseases. It makes it easier. Whether these conditions are how you see them is irrelevent. The only thing to be done to help these people that cannot possibly "snap out of it" by themselves is to generalize and set principles. Noone's fooling anyone.
sanbilge 2 months ago
@sanbilge But then that is only the thoughts your mind is forming. Thats only how you see it through your own senses
210482fmj 2 months ago
Is the full version of this interview on youtube and if so what is it called? Thank you :)
I suffer with chronic depression with major depressive episodes, so I don't get the wonderful rebound that people on the bi-polar spectrum get, my auntie does though as she suffers with bi-polar. In the UK there are so many people who claim to have depression in order to get disability pay that people like me can't get any kind of help without having to suffer the indignity of undue scrutiny.
DrNjtp 2 months ago
I should add for those who don't know, there are "nurses" who've been send on a "course", and they can over-rule years worth of doctors treatment and assessments of your mental health or any other condition - it's a farse, which is why I just suffer poverty instead when I'm hit badly with depression that is treatment resistent.
DrNjtp 2 months ago
The weather analogy was the greatest thing i heard this year...
LordInfamous2011 2 months ago
Manic episodes don't happen in cyclothymia or BP 2. BP1 is a universe away as Stephen says but......all people suffer that suffer. Stephen is eloquent but above all loving and God Bless Him....even though he may be an atheist
skywardism 2 months ago
manic depressions bad wonder what bipolar wud be like :S:S:S
Sunnyrach 2 months ago
I went through depression and anxiety at the beginning of this year. I didn't sleep in over a week, and I thought such stupid thoughts. I really wanted to end my life, but I was too scared to make the move. I couldn't think straight and whenever someone spoke to me, I could hear them but I couldn't understand what they were saying, and I couldn't stop thinking. It was horrible. I don't know how I got better, but I'm so glad Stephen Fry is speaking out about mental illness.
fwuffleclouds15 2 months ago
I can totally relate to the whole thing about moods being like the weather, and the massive mood swings.. I'd like to know, if anyone is manic depressive, how long do those bursts usually last? Is it a few hours? Or is it months at a time?
321holly123 2 months ago
this is amazing. i'm cyclothymic too :) love love
veronicachic 3 months ago
i want to know - is this an indulgence?
timewilltell7 3 months ago
@timewilltell7 After 20+ years of thinking i was mad ,to find i was actually BP2 was a relief. I had already lost many jobs and my wife because of it. I know the celeb thing makes it seem like its an excuse for their weird behaviour (and i actually think sometimes it is), but to think u r mad and not understand why u behave as u do i so scary esp when u have kids. I do however understand ur question as i would have felt the same had i not experienced what i have.
ukmwm40 2 months ago
"It was nothing like as terrible as the pain that made me stand in front of that lorry..." That right there, is one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever heard. To be so apologetic and so depreciating on oneself, it makes my heart ache, it truly does.
omegavimtocus333 3 months ago 6
my name is finn!!!!!!
FIONNBAHRR 3 months ago
@TizianoCrudeliNo1Fan then why say anything?
nine0rowan 3 months ago
my advice to people is do not get put into a mental unit. Be careful what you say to psychiatrists. Sometimes its better to keep your feeling quiet. If you get sectioned because they think you might be a risk to your self they can force you to take meds. if anything you will come out worse off.
210482fmj 4 months ago
@210482fmj they can only force you to take meds while you are in hospital. They only affect you in the short-term (one month tops) On the other hand you have no idea who are talking to on the internet. They might have a more serious condition which requires control if they are to get on with the rest of us. I've found working with the doctors to be rewarding. Build a relationship. If you don't think they listen ask for another one.
nine0rowan 3 months ago
@nine0rowan I don't know about that man. I have seen some people have really bad weight gain from medications and their faces heads become looking slightly swelled up and enllarged. Its difficult to predict the side effects of these obviously powerful lab chemicals. THe people who taker this meds are the ones who are testing it out. results on paperwork compared to reality are different for medication side effects.
210482fmj 3 months ago
@210482fmj completely true, i suffered great wait gain from quentiapine
TomRAFC 3 months ago
I can't imagine what it must be like to be bipolar. I have monopolar depression and it sucks, because most of the time I can't imagine what it must be like to be incredibly happy. But to suffer from both depression and extreme ecstacy must be so overwelming.
AppelMak 4 months ago
my mom has this dissorder, since i was young i was moving from fosterhome another foster home, it's a very serious illness, cause the times when she was manic she drink a lot alcochol, and used a lot of drugs. she also had a lot of stupid ideas, and when she's depressed, it was REALLY serious. it's one of the worst psychical illnesses u can have, cause you're not yourself, your hurting people and i know my mom doesn't wants to hurt me, but she isn't herself. she can't help it..
IMMABESHUFFLIN 4 months ago 22
@IMMABESHUFFLIN I think there are different degrees. With any illness its best to believe that you are responsible for it. It sounds weird, but it gets you to act. Its possible for anyone to stay off drugs and alcohol. Go live in a strict muslim country where you can't get any?
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RETIREMESOON 3 months ago
@IMMABESHUFFLIN She is lucky to have you . I was 43 when i finally got diagnosed and had already split from my wife n kids. I told her and them about it and im glad they have understood. We are still very close but it very important that people who know of BP share it. I wasnt diagnosed earlier because i never knew of it , i actually thought i was mad and drank to hide it.. All my best wishes go to u and her for the future .
ukmwm40 2 months ago
Sooner or later people are going to realize how easily Depression illnesses can be helpped with diet and exercise. I went through depression when i was 18 through 20. I adapted a Chinese protocol of exercise and a raw vegan diet and I now am 24 and have not had a single symptom of depression since. I feel great.
leahcimrac 4 months ago
I think I have Cyclothymia =/ What Stephen said about imagining no future when you have a dark mood - how everything slows down and you become so sad you can't even conceive the idea that you'll ever be happy again - that rings true for me SO much.
RikMayallAddict 4 months ago
i have this and man it sucks always feeling bummed out for no reason and totally apathetic. really hope to get out of it. stupid chemical imbalances.
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lightandbeautiful 4 months ago
I was diagnosed with bipolar type I four years ago and I've found Stephen Fry's insight and eloquence on the subject to be of great comfort. The weather analogy is so bang on key, a truly remarkable man
hydser 5 months ago 58
*gives you hug, hydser.
SiliconBong 2 months ago
I was diagnosed with Bipolar (II) a while back. It can get very bad for me, but at the same time, I wouldn't want to change who I am. My bipolar is part of me, and yes there are times when I wish I could just be 'normal', times when that would be far easier, but no, I am me, and I'm happy to be me, even if me is sad.
GeorgeMaier 5 months ago
@GeorgeMaier Interesting, I was diagnosed with manic depression as a teen, I later discovered after studying philosophy and psychology that it's not what we think that produces our emotions, it's how we think, and that's our choice. I highly recommend a book by Dr Richard Bandler called "Get the life you want". Some of the principals in this book are very similar to Buddhist philosophical teachings... Have you ever seen an angry monk?
If you read this book, I'd love to know how you think then.
frostyuk2007 4 months ago
Chemicals in the brain go out of whack in bipolar and other depressive conditions. Chemical or hormones imbalance of any kind is never good news. I admit I was rather shocked at how many people thought less of this condition.
coffeenciggy 5 months ago
I'm manic-depressive & Borderline. So I understand this from the inside. I'm also a musician...
gayforlife2020 5 months ago
some truth in it. Bipolar isn't like a cold that you can catch and then get cured of. It is with you for life - desasterz didn't have Bipolar, he was probably having a bad day or something. You don't have it and then not have it. That is just a classic example of total bloody ignorance. If you think you have Bipolar you probably don't have it. You KNOW when you have Bipolar.
sarahparsons87 5 months ago
There is something to be said for the many comments i've read saying that bipolar is esssentially a by-product of the world and sociaty we live in. I have a suspician that these sorts of disorders come about because we are overstimulated and too far removed from the more important things in life by the media and general business and this is love. We all need to be loved and feel loved. In Western society we are too isolated from each other. I know this sounds terrribly simplistic but there is..
sarahparsons87 5 months ago
I'm in depression right now. Sometimes I wish I were bipolar just to get me to those highs everybody's talking about.
aravindh2002 5 months ago
@aravindh2002
Not really. It doesn't help the depression when you crash after days,weeks or months of a mania and realise that a: you've spent your money and taken up silly loans b: face the courts because you did something illegal or c: Catched a diseased because you fucked everything with a pulse.
Kverul 5 months ago
everything stephens saying in this video is true, im going through exactly what is going on throughout this lecture right now.
tobie1 5 months ago
Bi Polar Disorder is a myth. I had it. I realized certain things in life and it cured. People "sorted me out" and it came back. And now it's cured agaoin. This society is morbide!
desasterz 5 months ago
I have manic depression and the difference between "depression" and "manic depression" is it has drastic highs and lows, just like Fry said... From a joy and happiness it can drop into inimaginable darkness and misery in one day, one hour. When in the depression people stay in darkness...
AlicelnWonderIand 5 months ago 2
what is this from? is the enditre interview uploaded?
michjray 6 months ago
@michjray Stephen Fry Live at the Sydney Opera House
If you type that into Youtube's search bar, Parts One and Two both come up.
russhofbloodtolatete 6 months ago
I've watched this many times and will watch it many times again. Glad I did this time, it helps.
Draakur 6 months ago
I have bipolar.
It affects my eating, my sleeping, my entire life.
3:00 I wouldn't press the button.
Bipolar is a true horror, whilst also being a true gift.
Thank you Mr Fry.
You are an inspiration.
JaCkCrIpS 6 months ago 2
Choked up when he said about the man who walked in front of the lorry saying "This pain was nothing like the pain that made me stand in front of that lorry..." What a way to describe it, really gives a sense of how they much feel... <3
HisForeverr 6 months ago
He is so right. Manic depression is a VERY serious disorder and i despise the way it has grown in popularity of late due to several famous people coming out and saying they have it. You can convince yourself of almost anything if you try hard enough but no matter how hard you try you cannot ever deny that you have manic depression. It affects everything, you essentially ARE manic depression when you have got it. I don't mean to offend anybody with this comment. I'm not as eloquent as Mr Fry!
sarahparsons87 6 months ago
@sarahparsons87 I am not offended, however, I disagree that it being "popular" is really a bad thing. The more exposure mental illness has, the more people who suffer with it will be understood. If this particular disorder is a bit overdiagnosed for a brief time, and I don't believe it is, it is worth for those who may eventually be able to talk about what they have suffered with alone for so many years, ashamed when shame is unnecessary.
infpdarling 5 months ago
@sarahparsons87 I know exactly what u mean. When i finally found out about BP and saw my gp, i was referred to the mental health people and was actually asked 'Why do you want to be bipolar?' . To which i replied after 20+ yrs of thinking i was mad ( in that i knew i behaved differently), 'It beats the alternative.' I was 43 when i got diagnosed but i felt that BP was the 2000's adhd, (in that the 90s it was add or adhd in the 2000's it bipolar). Thats how it came across to me.
ukmwm40 2 months ago
Only Fry could explain something so terrible in such a beautiful way.
dlbassett1 6 months ago 4
waiting for the sun!
MrChimig 7 months ago 2
Everything Stephen said... with a side of "you can ruin your own life."
Rox1SMF 7 months ago
I suffer from depression - not manic depression but 'ordinary' depression - and yet I still felt like Stephen Fry was describing me with much of what he said.
I can especially sympathise about the anecdote about the Royal Navy Commander - people don't realise just how painful depression can be because none of it 'appears' physical. I grew up with people like that, and it made everything that much harder.
People like that are not only clueless but also part of the problem imho.
Afterthoughtbtw 7 months ago
@Afterthoughtbtw well said. My own experience is quite similar so I sympathize.
tmage01 7 months ago
@Afterthoughtbtw My sis in law suffers badly from depression (unipolar) but she as i did got diagnosed easy. However, my meds made me worse because my prob wasnt depression alone. I write this not to make light of your problem but to encourage you to fight. She is actually being given less focus due to being a 'routine' problem. (Thats my opinion as a bp2 sufferer). People have no idea how the inky blackness of death can be seen as a blessed relief. Keep fighting, save others.
ukmwm40 2 months ago
@ukmwm40 Thanks. I'm stubborn, and don't like to lose, so I keep fighting as best I can!
My problem stems from the fact that I refused to see any doctor about it for far too many years. Basically because of the stigma about it. Had I asked for help earlier, I'd probably be in a far better situation.
If there's one thing that should be done about mental illness, it's to destigmatise it - especially when it comes to men and boys.
Afterthoughtbtw 1 month ago
"Bipolar Lite." Lmao!!!! Love, love, LOVE this man. <3
soyuncatacol 8 months ago 2
Every word of it a fraud. "Blessed are they who mourn."
cusanusnicolas 8 months ago
Fry's nose is oblique
Casarzino 8 months ago
I seem to get exactly these symptoms but have never been diagnosed with bi polar, I especially understand the mania side, I love writing and sometimes I just can't stop thinking and theres so many things in my head at one time, but then when I'm down it just seems like theres no point in anything and I just want to die. I put myself down by thinking "get over yourself, people go through much worse". Now I'm not sure if I have bi polar. I've been to the same dark places stephen describes here.
LuvLennonMcCartney 8 months ago
you could tell his illness, by the quick confidence that grew in this interview: no more stuttering, smooth speech, and humor. I can relate, and i am in depressive state. I would def press the button, but i still experiment and see if i can maintain that manic state forever.
ThrEEleggedFilipino 8 months ago
Friends of mine with extreme manic episodes act as if they are directing the movie of life, and you are only a cast member. When a cast member does not act according to the director's instructions, or fails to understand the "word of God," as it sometimes seems, the director gets very frustrated, and perhaps will take you off the set. It can be very alienating for both. However, I do understand from the manic depressive's point of view that it is a complete and lucid state of mind--fulfilling(?)
harlowfarblast 9 months ago
I've always somewhat loved and hated that Stephen Fry has Manic Depression. I also suffer Manic Depression, and I appreciate the fact that such a well-spoken and well-known man is able to be a spokesperson for the disorder. It helps a lot more people get more interested in understanding the illness. I hate it because I know the places he has to be at times in his illness. It's a horrible thing. You wouldn't believe the kind of dark one can see....
TheLastHoneybee 9 months ago 3
Amazing man. I commend him for opening up his life experiences to others.
Mayokitty7 9 months ago 2
this man. is something truly fucking special.
annawee3 9 months ago 3
all i can say is that the minute he said the weather. i burst into tears because for ONCE in my life someone has been able to describe what this IS.
annawee3 9 months ago 2
Hi there i have bipolar the same as Stephen and he explain it exactly as i feel 100%.
kristovmontez 9 months ago
Hi there i have bipolar the same as Stephen and he explain it exactly as i feel 100%
kristovmontez 9 months ago
I have and am due to have more intensive nhs privately funded treatment. This is so strange, years spent suffering from extreme manic depression and what stephen just said about the moody weather is the best thing I have ever related to and heard in my entire life about manic depression. It sums up, especially how I feel right now perfectly. Thank you so much. I have written down what he has said and I will show it to my doctors....
Rebecca
pistachio1987 9 months ago
I wonder if depression takes the worse expression in the nihilism of the world surrounding one person or when it slowly takes every rational positive thought out of them. It's like trying to oppose the wish for death and the wish for not living life.
3edere 9 months ago
I've watched the documentary he refers to, Secret Life of the Manic Depressive, several times. It's worth its weight in gold as far as I'm concerned, as the more stigma is drawn away from mental health issues, whatever they may be, the more likely a sufferer will seek help, realise they are not alone and perhaps decide to push on and survive rather than ending their life. The stigma and fear of a mental institute can be enough to bring people to suicide. See the documentary if you haven't.
SethHesio 9 months ago
This man is so wonderfully articulate on what it is to have Bipolar and how it truely feels! I am so Thankful to him for everything he says about the Disorder, as it helps so many people with and without it understand a little better and see that there is true hope!
EmuUpAGumTree 10 months ago 2
I have it. I wouldn't press the button.
adelaidebliss 10 months ago 3
@adelaidebliss I don't have manic depression, as far as I know, but my doctor and therapist have suspected it. So I am going to be evaluated. I'm just wondering... to what degree does your bipolarity affect you?
SethHesio 9 months ago
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miscellaneousness 10 months ago
When someone asks what it's like for me, as a person with bipolar disorder, I always suggest looking at a Stephen Fry interview. He really captures what it's like in a beautiful, yet simple to understand way. Any ways, thank you Mr. Fry for verbalizing what I cannot.
oddsam 10 months ago 3
"Gay, Jewish and bipolar - how could You fail in Holliwood?")))))
People are scared to press that button which stops the bipolar disorder just only because they are scared to lose the onliest thing they have, I think so.
And thx Mr Fry - it's QI)))
buravCHk 10 months ago 3
god everything he's saying is so true, it's just ugh so true
mollehhhx 10 months ago 3
Stephen speaks very accurately about the experience of bipolar affective disorder. What is shocking is how many people these days WANT that diagnosis. Believe me, guys, you don't.
Thagros 11 months ago 4
Very good.
askjiir 11 months ago
wheres that switch again?
Kjameson75 11 months ago
My ex-hushand (dear friend) has bi-polar disorder with schizophrenic tendencies. He has been hospitalized 9 times - none of them his idea. I worry for his life. I have saved him many times and pray for him the rest. He is the father of our daughter. She is 18. I hope she doesn't inherit this illness. He will not take his meds because he is an artist and hand sign writer - the best I know. He could work for Disney. No computer can replace him. He is in Mich. most of the time and winters in FL now
musicloverarmeda 11 months ago
i have schizoaffective bipolar type 1. actually on a mixed episode right now. i wouldn't get rid of it but i don't blame anyone who would. instead i want to aim it, take the good parts and channel them for real good and try to manage the bad parts. no one with mental disorders or any diseases are freaks even if we sometimes feel like it. accept help and life, you all are not alone !
TheMonotonousBastard 11 months ago
i have bi polar type 2. i would switch it off in a heartbeat
passion672 11 months ago
I always used to feel like a freak having bipolar.
Thank you stephen fry.
BeTheDeathOfMe 11 months ago
At least his socks are cheerful. :)
I ♥ S.F. and wish him well.
Aeschylus 11 months ago
Bipolar disorder is like a stealth disease. It FEELS like the whole world can see the black fug of smog infecting every breath, but in reality nobody knows what you're going through unless you tell them. But telling people is tricky, since usually the reaction is so unhelpful. So we pretend we're fine. Secretly, though, the only way to survive is to canoe your way through those rapids while forcing yourself to function anyway. Take help if you can, but never stop paddling or the river wins.
Crunchy68 1 year ago 10
The whole emo scene has ruined the lives of people with actual forms of manic depression. Its incredibly tasteless and people won't take the illness seriously if people claim to have manic depression because they got the wrong energy drink or their wristband broke and actually turn this illness into a scene.
A0Candle0In0The0Dark 1 year ago 4
i have cyclothemia too. i relate very much to how he describes it.
It fucking sucks. But when i'm high and hyper, i love it so much. It irritates/entertains those around me unfortunately. But the depression....ugh...
And you drown in it, it takes over your psyche, the highs and then the lows. It's incredibly exhausting....
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mdcombs79 1 year ago
Im only 21 but im bipolar.
i just cant imagen being someone like virginia woolf living with this illness and having no medication.
Its a really embarrassing, childish thing but i often used to just wish someone would lift the illness off me, i wish my mum could make it go away lol. Its hard somedays to think ill probably have to shoulder depression my entire life through.....
But then i geuss being brave is easy in the good times, it shows your true braveness when times are terrible.
SuperYellow1989 1 year ago
@SuperYellow1989 its not embarrassing or childish to wish away suffering. we'll find ways to ease up the bad times
TheMonotonousBastard 11 months ago
I've suffered from manic depression twice in the last 18 months. I went to counselling on and off for several months but stopped in the summer. But I can feel myself going downhill again. I'm more afraid of the depression than of the thing I've been depressed about.
Terrra91 1 year ago
@Terrra91 It is a good idea to see a doc. Good luck.
JamesThornbrook 1 year ago
@JamesThornbrook Thanks. I'm alright now actually it was just a blip that lasted about a day. But it really shows how fragile your mental state is.
Terrra91 1 year ago
@Terrra91 Yes it can be. All the best.
JamesThornbrook 1 year ago
@Terrra91 I'm also bipolar, and you should know that it's a biological thing-literally your brain chemistry leads you into those depressive states. Not an event, person, or a thing that you get depressed about. Of course, as your depression sets in and during it, those things will seem amplified, and it sometimes will convince us that it's those things themselves that get us depressed. But it's not. Seeing a doctor helps! I always suggest therapists before I suggest psychiatrists! Good luck :)
FromAbby2You 1 year ago
@FromAbby2You Thanks. I heard on QI that the most common illness doctors come across is depression. But like Fry says, there's a taboo around it that you should just walk it off and stop being so ridiculous but I even forget how bad it is. Then it hits you out of nowhere. Ah well, you can't have happiness without unhappiness.
Terrra91 1 year ago
Both my sister and I have depression. It never got to the point for me were I tried suicide, but I was so amazed that Stephen could get the feeling out in words. I was so happy to find this video and hear it and see that people out there really do understand. Thank you Stephen, thank you all.
mushroomnut1 1 year ago
i dont know much about bipolar diagnosis but i do get depressions where things look dark. i dont even see it as an illness or anything, just think it is human nature for certain people, not necessarily for everyone though.
Simon0 1 year ago
I must admit - I had no idea how serious bipolar disorder could be. I don't have it, and I found it very difficult to believe that people could actually call it a disorder. I was the kind of person who would say 'snap out of it' (although more carefully and more polite of course).
stephen, thank you SO MUCH for sharing to the whole world about this delicate matter. I understand it a whole lot better now.
mrsladida 1 year ago 88
@mrsladida People like us appreciate when people who don't live with mood disorders can be open-minded enough to understand that these things do exist. It's a lot harder for us when people simply won't understand.
So, thanks for having an enquiring mind.
ohdoshutit1 1 year ago 4
@mrsladida thank you for understanding with us.
TheMonotonousBastard 11 months ago
@mrsladida So many people have that "snap out of it" attitude. In the beginning i wanted to charge people who said that and bludgeon them to death for their unbelievable ignorance and rudeness. These days I just pity the people with that view on mental illness.
ronnysoeberg 10 months ago 3
@ronnysoeberg I always think that telling someone in the midst of a depressive episode to 'snap out of it' is like telling someone with a broken leg to walk it off- worse than useless. The kindest and most helpful people I've had the pleasure to know are the ones who never made any judgments, but simply set to work trying to draw me out of myself, however they could. I had a friend who would meet me for coffee 3 times a week, and I can honestly say she was the best thing in my life back then.
eversoplucky 9 months ago 2
@eversoplucky Hehe yeah. Walk it off, slacker! I suppose it's quite hard for "sane" people to empathize with just how unbelievably depressed people get, though. Whenever I'm completely honest about my feelings and thoughts in depressive episodes, people with little or now knowledge of depression or bipolar disorder get extremely uncomfortable. They just don't have the slightest idea of how deep the proverbial rabbit hole goes.
ronnysoeberg 8 months ago 3
@mrsladida Thanks for the comment.
Everything that Stephen has said is very true x
BarmeyBunny 8 months ago
Where is this from? where can I get the rest of it?
K4MAR 1 year ago 5
@K4MAR From when he was in Australia - speaking at the Sydney Opera House.
itsageoffrushthing 1 year ago
I've got it.
AtticusStount 1 year ago
One second he is speeking slow and is alot more chubby, next he cant shut up and hes thinner its wierd...
george1punk2 1 year ago
Yes i totally agree with him. I have depression (not manic depression) and i too get this overwhelming feeling of apathy and despair about the future or that no matter what i do or try to do, things will never get better. It's a numbness to everything positive or colourful in life
StuyP89 1 year ago 3
@StuyP89 hope you get better, everyone deserves to be happy :)
kar88lina 1 year ago
Don't have manic depression, but a lot of what he said kinda fits in with regular depression as well. I wish more people would understand how serious of an illness this is.
RazzWasThere 1 year ago 122
yeah i've definately been depressed, and tried suicide but not experienced the mania [thank god]
BananaSandwich1 1 year ago
@RazzWasThere i too suffer from periodic depression, but bi-polar is far worse. a lot of people don't realize that the manic phase can be just as dangerous as the depressive phase. fry's analogy of the weather is quite a good one though, but he's a really smart guy so i shouldn't be surprised.
Putaspellonyou 8 months ago
@RazzWasThere In some ways (as Stephen Fry has said himself) 'normal' depression is worse. At least manic-depressives get the 'manic' stage where they are on a huge high. For someone suffering from depression, there are no highs.
wesmatron 4 months ago
well said
libertineoverdose187 1 year ago
Thank you, sir.
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ftenzer 1 year ago