DRAMA!?!?!

[Westclock86]

My sister lives in a state of drama, though she only remains there for her undying crave for attention. So she has to make everything dramatic so everyone will either notice her or feel sorry for her. Drama queens are extremely annoying.

[kassiedill2]

HAHAHAH that is sooo true tits always the ones who are like " i hate drama"

[gears2fan1995]

Put both of ur hands on ur chest

2.Think of someone that u like......

3.Tommorow that person will ask you out or say i love you.

4.Heres the catch just send to 5 more vidoes

[sweetsmile1]

OMG, Drama is my mom for real. i have stopped talking to her to remain sane myself!

[vanessanjohnny4ever]

"People...whoof!" You're too adorable sweets. Goodness, I so needed this video right now more than ever! Thank you so much for just being...you.I have recently let myself become one of those people and I don't even know why. I used to always make sure to stay conscious of the fact that everyone has their fair share of troubles. I'd never been the kind of person to put so much focus on my own.Maybe that's the problem. I've lived my life always putting myself last and now it's all coming back.=/

[lovemusic8]

wow ...

you're beautiful

[kplummer66]

yup and if you are around these people they will just drag you in. Its just realy easy to walk way, say something nice and walk/stay far away ^^

[xPRINCESSxROCKx]

I know right! I'm a senior in high school and the girls are the same way!

URG they're like "I hate drama but it follows me"

I'm like BETH YOU CREATE IT

hahaha ily <3

[karmatic1110]

If I could I certainly would in a heartbeat.

[kikilimon69]

Hello,beautiful girl and beautiful voice,i,m spanish girl.

[SimpleBum]

i wish i sounded like you i love ur voice

[Metrukuta]

Some people don't mean to live in drama.

My grandmother's neighbor has had 3 out of four children die (1 committed suicide on Christmas) and her husband had a second family with children in both families and nobody knew about it until he died.

Talk about drama...

[WeedTeaHippie]

You are really really good looking:D

[Juststircrazy]

WHEW-Is knows what your sayins!

[Abortedjesus721]

A good friend of mine has a quote that I like to use:

"Drama fo' yo' mamma nigga!"

Completely random. But applicable nonetheless.

[gothique11]

drama sux.

[karmatic1110]

Haha well put. Hope all is well hun!

[Abortedjesus721]

Charlotte is a hottie (reow)

[jennykts]

I think it's just a magnified version of what most people do. Their thoughts are really all about what other people should do or shouldn't do, not realizing that they are talking about themselves. They mentally run other people's lives and business because they are upset about their own and can't touch it. or something. :)

[davyjoe2000]

I've been thinking about this for a couple of days now. I know exactly what you mean. I suspect that at some level they feel unimportant, maybe unloved, and probably uninteresting and do it in order to feel as large as life, if not larger than life. Some of them, I think, are just disturbed, and that is sad, but annoying nonetheless. BTW, highest marks go to the girl in New England for most beautiful channel art!

[Jayhawke]

the drama lover, who seems to revel and cause drama; seems a certain personality type that both attracts and is themselves the cause of said drama. philosophy for self....AVOID!

[getnervous]

this is so true- i had a friend for about 10 years who constantly created reasons to have fights with friends, it was like there was a rotating chart of who to fight with next. I finally got the hell away from her. And still, every so often I see a facebook friend request from her... no thanks!

[jadedsoulofmine]

i have noticed with the dramatic people that i have met most of them were the only child and spoiled rotten. they got used to being the center of attention at home and begin to expect it everywhere else. so they do anything to be at the center of attention.

[furrypurrykitten]

When looking at roommate or personal ads, I've always avoided people that say "hates drama." Translation: drama mama!  :p

[ReverendTomorrow]

Attention Whores...they have to be the center of attention, and a good way of doing that is over dramaticizing everything. Self-centered egotistical people that feel the world does, in fact, revolve around them. And the more drama they create, or the more dramatically they react, then the more they find themselves in the focus of others.

I just came up with that with very little thought, so I'm probably way off base, heh.

But it's a thought...

[oceanbruce1980]

I only know 1 person like this. I think she has some sort mental disorder. I just try to avoid her.

[highflyerlaura]

Heya Charlotte!

I think that you have chosen a rather permiating topic with your latest video. As a part of my Journalism degree at University I've been studying drama in detail. I've analysed a lot of Jean Baudrillard's philosophical papers that address the interactions between symbols, reality and society in relation to all types of drama. i.e. interpersonal, entertainment, political etc.

Try reading his "Simulacra and Simulation" treatise. I think that you would like it.

*hugs!*

Laura.

[missdivinestalls]

In drama or for drama? IMO people live in drama meaning their lives are really difficult for whatever reason but living for drama means they will create it. Of course these two will mesh. And yes living in/for drama will attract more. I think they use drama as a means to not have to deal with themselves, their past or their present.

[maizemann]

People that grow up in a chaotic environment have difficulty adjusting as adults. They only find comfort and familiarity in similar settings. Therefore, they will create drama where none exists in an attempt to feel comfortable. Take a look at your friends childhood.

[Vynnie]

I have a friend just like that. and she 'hates drama'

haha.

[shipwrecksilence]

ugh i know what you mean! there is this one girl i met on youtube and she is ALWAYS IMing me with her drama. she just goes on an on.... oh shit. =P

[karmatic1110]

LOL I do not! I message you to say hello and we joke around haha.

[staciefallan]

Oh God, My drama left when my wife moved out of the house.

[karmatic1110]

Hahahaha! Really didn't expect that.

[leonardo0200]

Aren't you living in drama and being dramatic. Hell you made a video about it. Sounds convoluted to me. Bringing up a topic like disliking people who are dramatic and complaining about it, to me, seems like a dra-mast-tic thing to do. Are you hoping to cure being dramatic?

[karmatic1110]

By bringing up a topic about people living in a dramatic state constantly I dont think I fit that description. How am I living in misery by making this video?

[leonardo0200]

oh I forgot no one is allowed to disagree with you. cause it just causes more drama. and you hate drama.

[karmatic1110]

That is entirely incorrect. Your first message was extremely rude. Why would I then have a dialog with someone who is talking down to me for no apparent reason? I wasn't rude to you, however you went out of your way to be rude to me...thereby creating drama :)

[karmatic1110]

I also searched out the definition of drama and posted it to back up my statement and your response was not a counter argument. I am sorry but when someone blames everyone else for their situation the only common denominator is that person. Some people just can't take responsibility. If a counter argument is not pursued, then it is evident that it was never about the argument and more disagreement out of frusteration.

[leonardo0200]

I guess being rude is having an opinion and being inquisitive. You are pursuing your own argument that you created. I didn't blame anyone . I merely asked you a question that you have yet to answer. stop acting like such a victim here.

[karmatic1110]

I am the victim? "Everyone left me and doesn't talk to me." I wonder who said that to me...hmmm. You then after I tried to be supportive called me an idiot and you call me dramatic? I am not one to name call. I have answered the question on the original message.

[karmatic1110]

Under that pretense then anyone who has ever expressed negative emotions would be considered "dramatic" which is completely untrue. Drama also means that a person would have to react in such a way that the general population would consider excessive. The reaction not befitting the situation.

[leonardo0200]

then you're talking about something totally different than drama.

[karmatic1110]

What are you talking about? Drama is defined as the following:

The quality or condition of being dramatic

So how exactly am I talking about something else? Please enlighten me as to how I am wrong.

[karmatic1110]

And frankly I found your initial comment quite rude.

[BriarRoseTv]

I have a friend who I have become loathe to see walk into my frame of view, because that friend's life is a MESS.

Life's handed him an absurd amount of drama to deal with, and in my mind, he deals with it in the most ridiculous, disastrous way possible, creating more drama every step of the way.

On an average day, I usually try to avoid him.

On my good days, I'm always surprised to find the thing lying in my heart at the end of our encounter is compassion.

Maybe he's here to teach me.

[JezebelDecibel]

People can become addicted to emotions just like they do drugs.

If the cells in the body are exposed enough of one chemical; presto; you have an addiction.

All emotions release chemicals; that we can become addicted to, that is the basic biology behind behavioral addiction.

Yes; we can become addicted to emotions we don't like; our cells are a little stupid, that is why we need to exercise our consciousness.

[sammwa713]

I have a "friend" like that. Just oozes drama. I get a headache just talking to her on the phone for five minutes. On the plus side though, it really gives me perspective on my own life. Every time I think I can't deal with my stressful life, I think about hers and am so thankful. I guess you can learn something from every person.

[candiFLA]

"You talkin' to me? You talkin' to me? You talkin' to me? Then who the hell else are you talkin' to? You talkin' to me? Well I'm the only one here. Who the f*ck do you think you're talking to?"

[karmatic1110]

I am sorry but I do not tolerate that type of language on my vlog.  I will have to speak with you about the tone your message is conveying and ask you to refrain from such practices. Thank you for your time and we ask that you consider others and stop being such a hot bitch. LOVE YOU!

[candiFLA]

oh HA HA.. .that was funny, you actually had me fooled for a second there. *whew*

you ever think about a job in human resources?

[karmatic1110]

I would be fired for snooping through people's files. I am way too nosy :)

[MarcImmeker]

Get a job in records management! I have and I get to satisfy my curiousity and get paid too. Those files are boring by the way.

greetings,

Marc

[PurplenovaX]

ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME

Oh, Am I talking too much about 'ME'?

I am so sorry, lets talk about you then!!

'What do 'YOU' think about 'ME'"? XD

[bewhizzled]

Yes, I have a friend like that and it she really gets annoying sometimes. I don't think that she does it for attention or anything she just has a low self-esteem

[PurplenovaX]

Same goes in reverse..

If someone has dealt with their toughest matters and are cool with it, they tend to energise people around them just from their presence but especially the way they can always see, through tinted eyes, the good things.

Drama, just like enthusiasm, is a snowball and can gather momentum in either direction as we add to it.

Some people add to their main issue by creating side issues that can manifest to an 'air' about them..good or bad.

[PurplenovaX]

HAHAHA..Yes the Drama Queen.

I have noticed, no expert, that people react to things that are related through association.

Like if I am having a bad day, everything is tinted bad. If I am a muso, everything is tinted musicaly, blah blah.

If someone feels an injustice in their life, at any stage, and it hasn't been dealt with, then it seems as if they go on tinting everything with the same intensity of the matter not dealt with and sometimes they give the wrong energy to other matters.?8)

[Bradly62]

What if you are in a play about ordinary life...is that drama?

[feyleon]

Okay, I loved this so much I featured it.

[feyleon]

Oh, PREACH IT! GAWD! I have been trying to tell everyone around me to just STOP with the freakin' DRAMA! It's obvious though that they just have to live it out to the bitter end. Ugh. I'm too laid back for this shite.

[LTLIS69]

Hi Charlotte. *Meow* :D

When people have there own personal issues it's "I have a problem." When other people have problems then it's drama.

You should listen to my problems because it's not drama it's important issues. If you listen to other people then it's drama and not really important. Along that same line.

I guess they will get over it once they have delt with the problem in there mind. For some people it happens quickly, for others....

[kaylawishing]

I use Drama as a tool of comedy. I think thats the only way drama should be used.

I like showing how smart I am, it helps my ego. lol see.

[furrypurrykitten]

I used to be a drama queen. It was part of how I dealt with not feeling right about myself (before I realized I was trans). My parents were experts too, I still barely talk to my mother who can't deal with my changes.

Life's too short for the bull now. I cleared such people out of my life as the start of transition, and mainly it was those sorts of folks that were the few that had any issues with my life change. Interesting...hmm...

[femstarlight]

I don't understand drama.

[Spytrxter]

1st up - either you had an accident with some heavy object or with the make-up kit - which was it? :)

Drama - I can think of two reasons off hand: adrenaline and attention

I don't know much about attention, but I know you can get addicted to adrenalin - some can get it pumping just by fluffing about whilst others need to almost kill themselves to get a little dose of it

there might be more, but I think that's really what it boils down to

[karmatic1110]

Bad lighting

[cp7932]

It is self inflicted for whatever reason. Maybe one stays in it because they get so accustomed to it that they don't know how to live without it. I am glad I am learning to get past my own.

[confabulaterecluse]

Unfortunately I have two such members in my family. My brother and my uncle are like drama magnets. Threats to kill themselves, a ton of fights, multiple women, unable to keep a woman, unable to actually find a woman who is worth a crap...

Oh I could go on, ohhhh yesss I could go on!

I have come to the conclusion that musicians come up with such good love songs etc because they can't seem to hold a relationship. This theory boils down to the love of music more than people. (House MD Inspired)

[damageinc2]

There is so much drama in the Gay,Lesbian, and Transgender community it is unreal. When i was with my x it just enveloped us, i hated it, but she loved it. It was almost like because i was willing to put up with it she knew i loved her. I also belive that if you are raised around drama as a kid, u almost need drama as an adult. like kid raised in a drug dealing family, more than likly as a adult there gonna deal drugs. Same thing as abused kids, it gets passed down.

[karmatic1110]

So maybe then as kinds the child somehow associated love or attention to drama? Interesting :)

[steelydrwu]

There are quite a few people who have made an artwork out of doing the "Stop the Drama" Videos, it's especially bad at Livevideo. I don't know why People would even watch these Videos much less fall into the trap of actually taking them to heart and responding and such. It's probably a question that can't be answered. Mental defect I reckon?

[donri07]

but i think that every one those it some times in there live. but the sittuesion (time and place ) is different for all off us. its like william shakespear ones wrote. live is one big stage .and were all play a part in it;) ( drame .lol..hahahahaaa okeeebybyy

[donri07]

yes yes your sooo right about that girl .but it is a learning curve for those people that do this in there everday life!! they think they are smart;) or don,t even no it that they do it..but like you sad it brings them more drama in there live. but for most it is a away too get attention too my mom is 1 off those people she is sweet in away but what a drama queen okeee charlotte bybybyy hugs peace8lovemoi :D

[Noelg26]

i agree...I think it is cos they want attention. I will admit sometimes I do live in drama. But I am starting to leave that state of mind. there is no need for it. the best way is just to be yourself. Simple as. Life would be so much sweeter. :)

[karmatic1110]

Everyone has dramatic situations that they have to deal with. Some people however LIVE for it. Life would be better :)

[manniefaces]

I think the chaos makes them feel alive. They don't want to admit that they need and crave it. Maybe the learn but more than likely they don't. Just have to keep your distance I guess.

Lillian

[karmatic1110]

Very good observation :)

[manniefaces]

Reow! :)

[Poeboi]

I know sooooo many people that yer talking about. I think a lot of these people want attention in their lives those are just my two lousy cents. Good vid btw

[karmatic1110]

Thank You :)

[LadyVonDiva]

ahahha who are you talking about... your sister in law... lmao remember that

[karmatic1110]

LOl I am not talking about you! haha! Miss you! MUAH!