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  • nice, have to love heart ache. it's what makes us alive and Sarah does it so well, thank you

  • I too have had to let the love of my life go due to circumstances beyond my control.... and while I hope we can find our way back to each other... even if we do not... I will never let her go... She is my world.

  • Perfect talent

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  • love this women

  • Angels must sing like her...she is amazing!

  • About 10 years ago I became very close to an amazing woman. She had me listen to this song one day, it was her way of trying to tell me something. Long story short we fell in love and I ended up hurting her very badly, actually I hurt both of us very badly, she fell in love with another and I never stopped loving her, I will forever be missing her. I will always love you Lippy Dragonfly and what we had together.

  • I have her Mirrorball cd and listen to it quite a lot. This song in particular is just so beautiful, lyrically and musically. And it too has a certain meaning for me.

  • This song makes me think of the one I can not have... My nemesis, Genesis. The unattainable, impossible and unfathomable lover. I can't honestly say I've ever needed someone this way... But I fight myself to the death trying to figure out how to let go. I don't know if I can... Or will ever.

  • "Deep within i'm shakin by the violence of existing for only you"...........

  • After many years of a marriage that didn't work, I left. Four and a half years later, I met someone that I fell in love with (his soul and spirit ); someone I met Miam. We started e-mailing and we shared many interests, spirituality and on and on.

    Even went beyond the friendship. Two months later, I found out he had been in a relationship for 4 years.

    I have tried several times since that time to to be friends but it is just too darn hard. So, I have let go but do we ever really let go?

  • @karinashubaly1981 I understand. I was married for 7 years and divorced over 4 years now. I still don't know how to let to go. I am really sorry you got hurt. I know the pain. Sarah has gotten me through my heartbreak.

  • I'm hurting so much right now! I don't know if this song is helping or hurting me worse, but either way I love it!

  • Jules and Rod breathing another day and night...

  • LOVE YOU SARAH!!!

  • check out tabitha streets arms of an angel

  • Hey i was wondering if you could set your videos to where they can be played on mobile phones? Thank you

  • I have no one that I can communicate to how much I hurt inside. My wife and companion of 17 years, has been trying to get me to realize that I will never be enough for her, for nearly that entire time. I was diagnosed with m.s. 14 years ago and have been fighting it since before I met her. I cant keep being the person that holds her back. I've tried to console myself with some notion that I help her with caring and understanding,but it's a lie. I'm just a weight. One she shouldn't have to bear

  • @maninreno4 you are a treasured human being...you matter. stary strong..we love you

  • @thelooperz44 Yeah especially because Amy Winehouse is no longer with us...

  • sorry lady gaga and amy winehouse, both bery talented, but both will never ever reach the stature of this woman

  • god damn she is sexy

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  • This song never fails to make me cry, thinking about the first woman I loved and still do. I miss you.

  • brilliant is the 1st word that comes to mind

  • Just got to know, that everything I have done was unnecessary. I was waiting for someone who lives very far away from me, and I believed he is coming back. He just told me, maybe it is not gonna work out, cuz he seems to move on, and he doesn't know about coming back anymore...

    So "I have the sence to recogize, but I don't know how to let you go"

  • Most underrated Sarah McLachlan song for sure!

  • This song came on Pandora and made me think of My Dad..

  • one of the best song ever!!!!

  • What's not to love about Sarah? I just wonder since she's a divorced mother of two if she will have the time or inspiration to compose songs as unique or compelling as this performance. What a beautiful voice and her presence at the instrument masterful. When she plays guitar with the capo at the sixth fret watch how effortlessly she changes chords while her vocal phrasing loses nothing in tone or meter. As unique and rare a musical talent as Sandy Denny or Richard Thompson. You are my angel S

  • Amazingly beautiful song. A marvelous singer and just her piano. Not many singers sound this good.

  • Music is what you take from it. I just let the one person in this life I care for go because of circumstances beyond the control of either of us. As someone stoic and reserved, this song has made me weep effusively.

  • @Sunrunnerster How very tragic.

  • @Sunrunnerster

    hugs <3

  • it seems that that she writes to give voice to feelings that lack a vocabulary. Not just by sung words but by the very cord and key that it is written in. the hunting quality of the musice imitates the pain that lingers and stays or even the afterglow of love and ecstasy. amazing this womans work is. :)

  • beautiful singer, beautiful woman x

  • This song is absolutely beautiful and heart breaking at the same time. The line "And I have the sense to recognize that I don’t know how to let you go" is to true for words. Rest in Paradise, J

  • my first love Giovanni,i will never forget you and i will always love you and never forget your face <3 forever love

  • Any girls find her crazy attractive?

    *swoon*

  • I want to have her baby. I'm a dude as well. Wft.

  • One of the most beautiful songs ever written and sung. This is a very personal song for me.

  • Having been in a cult for 30 years (Scientology) and escaped out in 2000---I lost **all*** of my 30 year "friends", as well as my then loving husband, of 27 years. Nothing has communicated how deeply this pain is better than this song, and Sarah singing it. Thank you, sweet being. Your wings have touched my heart.

  • @ToryMagoo44 Cute Tory. I came here from your latest video. I wanted to see the song you were speaking of. It's very good :)

  • @anonymootle Isn't it just THE Yummiest song evvvvvvvvvvvahhhh?? I love her. I adore this song. It SO

    much speaks how this pain feels. :deeply shaken by the violence of existence--knowing I can't be with you, I

    do what I have to do:. Oh yeah! As I've said forever: Music can get under walls, music can get to your heart in ways nothing else can. This woman does just that, for me. Thank you, Sarah :)

  • @ToryMagoo44 Thanks Tory! Keep up the good fight, you and Wise Beard Man are the idols to the sect of anon you associate with Feb 10th 2008 :) my idols :) x

  • @ToryMagoo44 good job for escaping. it must have been very hard and very lonely. sorry ;(

  • @foxybox11 Thank you...........actually, it's been fantastic! People ALL around the world have helped me, and I've been able to help many, also. It's been THE most amazing journey I could ever imagine. Check out my YT site----it has many short videos explaining the route. Happy Sunday to all :)

  • @ToryMagoo44 thats really great to hear :)

  • @ToryMagoo44 you're very luck for escaping, it's not easy.

  • @ToryMagoo44 It takes a lot of courage and strength to leave any cult. You will find new friends and people to love who will value those qualities. Take care of yourself and God bless you.

  • @ToryMagoo44 Glad you escaped, but I'm confused about how you could be taken by something as silly as Scientology. In any case, glad you were inspired by McLachlan.

  • This song gives me goose bumps! I have ALWAYS loved it....what a beautiful voice LIVE. This woman is REALLY a singer, unlike some I have heard live. Thank you for sharing! :)

  • Powerful song...healing, too.  Listen to the cover of this song on Steve Hass's album "Traveler"--instrumental accompaniment and vocal delivery are unsurpassed!

  • What voice!

    What a piano!

  • KOCHAM TO!

  • Stunning lyrics..... "Deep within I'm shaken by the violence of existing for only you" WOW

  • i listen to this song for days after my husband died and i still after 12 years can still feel the pain of loosing him.......

  • @imissusomom I'm so sorry for your loss ... so very sorry. I have come to realize that in my pain and my loss - and in my suffering - I am the most alive. It is better to feel even pain than to feel nothing at all. May God Bless you and and comfort you.

  • Great song.

  • I can hear a faint from her whispered, crystal clear voice, putting me into deep sleep. Hoping my emotional wounds heal. May almighty God bless McLachlan.

  • hermosa canciooooooooooooon

  • Music that heals the soul.

  • Sarah is a Goddess....

  • @ptlump u couldnt have said it any better :)

  • I hope this is part of my next life!

  • Sarah is my obsession.

  • My very favorite EVER

  • one of my favourite songs..she sings from her heart..i adore her..<3

  • @Ms0987123456 si lo mismo me pasa a mi, proyecya su alma en cada cancion, maravilloosa!!!!!

  • I think this is one of the most beautiful and honest songs she's ever made. I love listening to it every time it comes one.

  • This is My life....This is excatly how i feel an have felt...... wonders if the pain will ever go away...."Trying to escape this desire".... </3

  • She's gotten though me the roughest parts of my life. Thank you. You save my life, Sarah.

  • imdádom,beutiful

  • i could sit all night long and listen to Sarah on her Piano, she is amazing!

  • what does Self indulgent even mean? that she does what SHE wants on her songs? That she says what SHE wants in her songs? that she talks about what SHE wants and what SHE feels? That she writes about things that SHE has experienced or how things made HER feel. imagine that...............

  • Beautiful.

  • Pra mim as vozes da Sarah McLachlan e a da Amy Lee (Evanescence) são as mais deliciosas de se ouvir!!! São indescritíveis!!!

  • this song describe a moment in my life right now that i am going through aftger 6 months of being away from the one i loved i can honestly say i dont know how to honestly tell them i dont know how to let go..

  • this song describes a rough time that im going through right now in my life and i cant tell the person after six months of being with out them that i dont know how to let them go....

  • I am in the process of reconciliation with my wife and this is dead-on where we are at now; her rage and my regret as we live apart form each other.

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  • Glorious, Gorgeous Perfection..

  • Line…..”Ever moment but with aspirations of your soul”__________ Are you haunted by unrequited love? Are you trying to escape this desire???

    I have an unconditional obsession that consumes me and sets me on fire…”I know I can’t be with you. I do what I have to do.” Sarah said it when I could not, “I don’t know how to let you go.” I may have sighed it in a dream.

    This is this music that healed me through all of my break ups. Thank you Sarah for being there.

  • Her voice is impeccably immaculate….

    An angel walks among us..... Her name, Sarah….I would drown Sarah's epic songs my glass of vodka and cranberry juice anytime. “Do What You Have To Do”How many times has fate lead you through it? Yes that BS that we put up with ..called denial!!

  • @BlackSwan254

    Of course her voice is immaculate! That song brings chills to my spine and tears to my eyes. I love that song...

    "There are strings in the human heart that better not be vibrated."- Charles Dickens

  • Anyone can relate her to her music because she expresses real feelings. This song breaks my heart.

  • Beautifully haunting... Always brings to my eyes...one of sarah's most epic albums and my fav song.love her!!!

  • some times its best to let go before it kills you!! amazing songs

  • Beautiful playing, and a soulful, haunting melody. Of all her slow tempo songs, this song and Angel are easily my two favorites. I especially love the added dynamics in her live performances, in particular the build and subsequent tempo change at 3:44 in this one.

  • Great song -for you Tenor.............Di

  • Love this song! :)

  • Quite simply one of the most hauntingly beautiful sad songs ever!

  • What I'm going through now... This song has been on my mind for a few days... It's still fresh... Even though it hurts, it helps me get through this... pain. Thanks Sarah and thank you anne for posting this.

  • Luv it!

    Luv it!!

    Luv it!!!

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    amei!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Beautiful Sarah

  • SHE IS AMAZING! i love her ! she's saying so much thing in her melodie! i love her, my fav signer! im 14 and i will listen to her all the rest of my life! ahaha

  • I never get tired of hearing this song. And one reason, besides the fact that it's so hauntingly beautiful, is that I can identify with the content so completely. sigh

  • i absolutely love her! :) she is one of the very few singers who sound the same on cd and live, and don't lipsync

  • Does anyone actually realize where the lyrics of this song come from? The song is actually a kind of ode to a stalker she once had. If anyone has read "Building a Mystery" there is a poem in there, written by this person. Read the words....this song is that person, once more, (i.e, Possession) with the words, again, taken right from his creation. My daughter explaine0d it as an honor to this person, a "siren's honor" to a victim. Now that, dear people, is living poetry and more....

  • @dag681 thats actually the song possession...

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  • wow. passion

  • Sarah's music is so soothing and full of love and forgiveness. I was sent into a tailspin after a breakup, it put me into a psychotic depression-I even accepted my death as payment for the pain I had been through. The lessons I learned resonate with every song on her album "Surfacing". I love her music as it isn't a reminder of my depression, but a reminder that I grew from the experience and became a stronger person.

    Sarah-you are heaven sent and helped save my life.

  • this song tell the story of my christian :(

  • I love sarah M

  • I just love this track!!!!

    Listen to the lyrics...

  • It's the way she sings it and means it with every inch of her soul that helps me connect. Am lifted.

  • This song is so much better when she's doing it live.. So real!

  • Still gives me chills - could Sarah have been sent from Heaven?

  • When this song was new, I heard about a woman just about to have her first baby. Her husband went out to fly his single-engine plane. She said "I wish you wouldn't," but he did and crashed it and was killed. Somehow this song is tied to that woman in my mind, and I think of it as being sung for someone who is gone, permanently. "I know I can't be with you...." "I don't know how to let you go..." I think that makes it stronger than just a breakup song.

  • wow @ 3:51

  • She is brillliant. Her song lyrics are poetry not just the redundant rhyme to just to rhyme BS so prevalent. Anyone who things she is too dramatic is out of touch with their own feelings. I'd rather be opened up to feel even pain than a human refrigerator. Ms. McLachlan is a git to humanity. Check out World on Fire and if you are not inspired and moved to do something POSITIVE you have problems.

  • i love here for the real emotion she puts in her music **

  • What ravages of spirit conjured this temptuous rage

    Created you a monster, broken by the rules of love

    Every moment marked with apparitions of your soul

    I’m ever swiftly moving trying to escape this desire

    The yearning to be near you, I do what I have to do

    But I have the sense to recognize that I don’t know how to let you go

    Deep within I’m shaken by the violence of existing for only you

    I know I can’t be with you, I do what I have to do...

    i don't know how to let you go

  • My favorite song from sarah

  • she is soooo good live! She is perfect!

  • powerful, heart ravaging, my soul is aching, perfect song. thx SM

  • I love you Sarah McLachan, I just love you! And these song is always my story in love... "I know I can't be with you, I do what I have to do, but I don't know how to let you go..."

  • I love this

  • how I felt this song with my man broke up with

    Sarah knows me

  • I don't know how to let you go.

  • I know that this song is somewhat dated in terms of the rest of her repertoire, and it's not as commercial... but I really wish she would play this at Lilith. I never got the chance to see her perform this in Mirrorball, but the effect it has had upon me is profound

  • what an incredible artist ! words cant describe how talented she is.

  • Not only did she use the "lunatics" poetry for Possesion she also used it for this song-much of these words were part of another poem either shared with her, or used, three years late (1997)

  • we went to see her in concert, she came out and did a song with her opening act. After the concert, which was unbelievably great, everyone was streaming out the doors, and she came back, sat down at her piano and sang another song, all by herself, her and the piano. It showed me how much she loves what she does, and how passionate she is about her art. I just love her music, it's taken me thru some dark times.

  • 11;11

  • I agree this song is amazing but so are some of her other works i have found and because of the work she puts into her soungs i have a high respect for this lady, it takes a lot of effort to truly make a good song work, To begin with u must start with the words tht flow and then compse the music tht goes into it not to menchion the effort and feeling tht ya get from the making of these songs and having them be wht they are today so i say kudos to u for this one

  • A great great song!!

  • Some people say her music is too self-indulgent and perhaps dramatic. But her passion reveals something about life and she speaks to and for those of us with no musical voice of our own. "What ravages of spirit conjured this temptuous rage, created you a monster, broken by the rule of love, ..."

    How many of us have mistreated someone we love and now have to live with the painful memory. This song is dedicated to healing painful memories.

    Thank you Sarah.

  • Couldn't agree more!!

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  • Also, how many people could express those same feelings in such a poetic way as, "What ravages of spirit conjured this temptuous rage, created you a monster, broken by the rule of love, ..."

    That takes talent and passion.

  • @ptlump well put... I agree... Sarah's music is beautiful and her voice is pure... gotta love an artist that has lived their own songs... puts their heart and soul into it as she does...

  • @ptlump Thank you for saying this. I agree. People that say that her music is "too self-indulgent" are selfish themselves because they want her to sing a song THEY themselves can relate to..they are looking out for them. I love her music because it is raw and real and its about personal experiences had or observed. And the reason why I relate is because it is so real.

  • @ptlump I have been lucky enough to be forgiven by THE ONE and now I dont know how I can live without her when she goes...she is now disabled and I wont go on long after her....I wasted so much time

  • @ptlump I agree with you ............,painful memories  my entire life

  • Well said..

  • Wow. Anyone know where to the sheet music for this?

  • I love this song, Sarah McLachlan has such a lovely voice.

  • J'aime tellement ! Magnifique.

  • Quite simply the most heartfelt song to touch me. Beautiful :)

  • @fesbahn  A Queen yes and dramatic yes; but not often viewed the way around you have chosen to stand and look at it. Life is only a point of view, I enjoy mine you obviously enjoy yours.

  • I love her style :)

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  • i'm prayin for you snazinhouston that she comes back.

  • i actually learned to play this once...

    what an awesome piece of music, even if it is very tori amos derivative...or fragmented...

    thank god all great music comes from somewhere else..

    sara is sort of the cat stevens of the states...

    how can god put so much talent into one person... it defies not only imagination but also gravity

    bravo

    douglas

  • shet very sexy, i love her teeth

  • creepy

  • shes hot sexy teeth

  • I love only you Carla I always have and I always will, God as my witness. I love you forever.

  • Carla, I love you with all my heart please come back to me.  I don't know how to let you go and never will I ever want to! I love you. Please forgive me!

  • tHe Best <3

  • I love this song it touches me deep in my soul.i miss you lori R.I.P.

  • ever so taken by this women, breath taken and beutifull she is

  • So sad, so lovely,

    & yet it tears me up every time I play it.

    35, mostly good, married years & it ends. It could have been patched up.

    After 4 years I have to let it go & move on.

  • It's so beautiful and sadly honest, making it probably the worst "get over your break up" song ever.

  • It's been two years since my gal died and I don't know how to let her go. I really should stop listening to this song. It just breaks me apart

  • I've always done the same thing with "Angel," since my Grandpa died. You just never get over some things.

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  • too beautiful.

  • i miss u babee..

  • perfect lyrics! "i'm shaken by the violence in existing for only you"......i wish i wrote that

  • maybe the best song ever written.. imo

  • A song you posters may like is "Where do you start" by the Bergmans. Sung by many people, I believe it has the finest, sweetest/saddest final verse in the whole world of songs.

  • ...and why I bring it up here is, I love Sarah, and this song I describe is like harmony to hers.

  • she is incredible - chills watching this

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  • Listened to this a few times in tears whilst holding my old cat who was dying...... so tough.

  • wow... nyfxtrader... i know ur pain. my cat's r my children.. they're so much better than us. so forgiving. and the unconditional love they give. and the warm feeling we get when we r close to them... although they can't speak, they let us know how much it means to them that we brought them into our lives... n yes this song is sad n is all about the difficulties in letting go...