@vention4wh: What are you talking about man ? I have a wife and that is the thing which is giving me power and freedom to move forward. If there is no wife, no kids, what is the point to be there ? I am less stressed, more self confidenced and have more time to think of some real business and your 2600 a month... :) i made 1000 just yesterday and i am happily married. What is your poor 2600 and loner life ?
I'm glad it's working out for you so far. But the moment she wants someone else, she knows she can kick you out of your home and nail you with crippling child support payments. And if you don't knuckle under to everything she demands she can make one call to the police and on her word alone you can be jailed for months. You may not know it and if all goes well you may never know it, but you are her bitch. I've seen it time after time and I pray to god it never happens to you.
I'd try to live with a man before marrying him... marriage is not kids game so make sure you know your boyfriend before saying "ok let's be spouses"! :D
So that you don't need to watch a man doing disgusting stuff daily while you're trying to eat.
Omg... where do you guys live... ? The women in my country are not like that at all !! I make my own money, drive my own car, do stuff with my own friends and fuck when i want !! Not because some guy tells me too...
@SoeSel America probably. I too don't get how women can just sit around and live off their husbands. My mom has never been a housewife even when she had a husband so it's hard for me to imagine what's it like being completely dependent on someone.
The only reason women are around is because we haven't invented a good artificial pussy. Do you honestly think we want kids running around getting in the way of our fun. Do you honestly think we love to here you bitching all day. Do you honestly think we want you taging along on everything we do, go hunting and have you making all kinds of noise. Bitching about how much XBox 360 we are playing. Just shut the fuck up, spread your legs and make me a sandwich.
@kpreston69 Honey, I think the reason you can't get along with women and enjoy their company is because you're an insufferable jerk, not because they're out to get you or do you financial harm. n.n Just saying.
So where is the video of why Men divorce women? It shows the part where he takes care of her for years without any appreciation. Lack of respect, trashing in front of friends, taking his money to do her nails and hair, putting him in $15,000 worth of debt, the car wrecks, fucking his friends, listening to the bullshit from his mother in law, listening to her bullshit, sitting around watching TV all day instead of cleaning, no dinner on time, headache all the time or period. Did I miss any?
@hellomynameiscobalt I know but then again women are pissed because men rule and always WILL rule the world. Aint it just upsetting that rich white men rule the world while the female underclass try to get us to tollerate faggots and write every hollywood movie to portray men as idiots and women as strong and independent. Women are weak, mindless and are just as vulger and horney as men. For some reason they like to be treated like shit by muscle bad boys that were breast fed up until 6 y/o.
@kpreston69 Lol you're gonna be so pissed in a few years.
Women are taking the lead. I say that as a man. I seriously doubt you've ever been to college, but considerably more women are succeeding in college than men are. Its simply a matter of time.
@1Vella Women aren't taking anything. Maybe the common airhead and only because they are 7 to 1 but who cares. The powers that be, those who really run the show are the wealthiest of European MEN and white. A women before Menapause can't run anything except a tredmil. You do have exceptions and a lot of women just marry into power or wealth was given to them. How many women actually went out and earned it.
Women only fucked themselves, they want to be equal well equal all the way. Fuck-em.
@1Vella btw, I've been to college and the women there...the older ones bitched because rich white men keep minoraties down and the younger ones with the wet pussies all the time just wanted to fuck. I seriously doubt that YOU have been to college. It was a waste of time and I learned nothing that I would use in any job skill. All my programing skills I learned on my own. I recently went to %^% and thier "Modern" computer networking class consisted of of Nic cards and shit from the 90's.
@kpreston69 Good lord you child. ALL the women were bitching about rich white men? Where the hell did you go to college? People don't bitch about that stuff that much. You simply have strong prejudices against women.
I AM at college. And if you went to one which had crappy stuff, than you simply went to a bad college.
@monny287 Bitter about what? I fell into that bullshit and kept my marriage together for 20 years because I let a woman do what she wanted. On the 20th Aniversary I divorced her ass and literally threw all her shit in the front yard in full view of the neighbors. I have the house I paid for, I have the kids and the Cars I paid for.
Now I have a GF 10 years younger than me. No, women aren't going to just do what they want. You bitches wanted equal rights well here you go.
@SackFulloApplez1993 hurts? With a trimmer it doesn' hurt at all. Just give it a try :). You'll make your gf happy and you'll love it too, i'm sure ;D
@TheTwilightSagaHeart Probably because 400 year old immortal vampires that dote on a woman every word don't exist. Check out youtube video "Why Twilight Is Popular". It's quite hilarious.
If you marry there's a very good chance your wife will throw you out, so I never married. It's not all bad though. Without a woman dragging me down I was able to payoff my home and get debt free and now about 30% of my take home pay covers all my spending for the month. That leaves about 2600 a month totally extra.
Plus I look at the married guys I know and the single guys and I have to say, the single guys are noticeably happier and less stressed out. I'm just sayin.
@vention4wh You will regret this sometime soon, trust me. Women may sometimes stress men out, but it's usually with a good intention. Also, you'll have no kids and you'll die alone. But yeah, you'll pay for your own retirement home. No one will visit you.
Everyone has to choose how to live their life and we have to live with those choices. You weigh each choice, comparing dangers to rewards and you have to choose (because not choosing is also a choice). I looked at how terribly men are abused and exploited when their marriages fail and after a lot of soul searching I arrived at the conclusion that the danger is too great. Yes I'll be alone when I'm old but there's a good chance that I'd be alone anyway due to divorce.
@vention4wh That's right, you can choose how to live your life. But my (true, unrequested) opinion is that the reward is too great and it is worth the risk. If you are really careful who you choose, your life may be a lot better than it is now. Maybe you'll find someone and you'll change your opinion someday. Maybe you won't get married but you will live with someone. It's not really a family, but it is way better than being alone. I wish you well.
You have a point but I can't stop thinking some friends of mine. When my friend Michael's divorce failed, one of the last events was his wife slapping and punching him repeatedly while holding his 2 year old daughter in her other arm as a human shield. Then she filed a false sexual offense accusation and the police took him to jail. She recanted the accusation hours later when her tantrum cooled down but it took him a month to get out of jail. It destroyed his life & career.
I can understand if you think marriage is worth it and for you I imagine it is. The chances of you having your assets seized, getting booted out of your home and nailed with crippling child support payments while you try to find a new place to live are very low. The chances of you being hauled off to jail due to a false accusation from your spouse are almost zero.
Basically marriage carries a vastly greater set of risks for a man than it does for you.
@vention4wh Are you asexual? If not, you still have a chance of being nailed with crippling child support - you can still go to jail for false accusations. Plus, living alone can be more expensive than sharing costs.
In other words, most of the 'cons' of marriage are still there, even for single people. Even the 'most married guys are stressed out' statement seems inaccurate - most people living in a city are stressed (compared to people living in rural areas, more stressed).
You're still young and you haven't seen the wreckage of as many marriages as I have.
Living alone is actually pretty efficient. Now that I've paid off my home I spend less than 30% of my take home pay (unless I want something special, like this high end laptop I bought yesterday. It cost over 1k but I can easily pay it off with only part of my next paycheck).
The men who are stressed out are my coworkers, mostly in their 40's and 50's and yes they're clearly more stressed out.
Am I asexual? Hmm, since my last girlfriend was about 2 years back, I guess I am. Do I care? Not even a little. A steady girlfriend starts to drive me up the wall after 6 months or so, and I'm not really happy or comfortable again until we break up. Then with a feeling of profound relief, I go back to my life.
Still now that I'm in my mid 40's most of the women I date would need fertility treatments to get pregnant (but I use a condom anyway). No point in taking chances.
But back to the living expenses issue. If i married, my wife would see my rather nice working class wages and then she'd want a big house and a new car for her (for safety since she'd be scared if she broke down somewhere). Anyway I'd have to pay for it. If I married I promise you, 95% of women wouldn't want to live in this paid off condo. Then when we bought a house together, the moment the marriage broke up, the house would be hers, along with all the money I put into it.
@vention4wh I'm not sure how the laws are where you live, but where I'm from, you can put the house into a trust (meaning you don't own it, meaning it won't be split in half).
You clearly misunderstood what 'sharing costs' means. It doesn't mean your wife or partner shares their expenses with you (as in, you having to pay for it), it means expenses are shared. As in, no, I don't pay for their shoes or their car etc. We pay for our expenses.
If I put the house into a trust after the marriage, the trust would be a family asset and the judge would sign it over to her when the divorce rolled around. If I owned the house or the trust before the marriage it would take a major feminist judge to seize that asset.
Ya they always say "lets move in together and share expenses" but it generally works out that you end up paying more than your share if you're a man. Often the expenses rise to the point where it takes 100%.or more
B. You asked if I gave up finding a good partner. It's not that, it's that when I passed 43 or so my priorities changed. My sex drive dropped to maybe 5% of what it once was and I started getting really comfortable in the life I've built for myself. I'm at the point where things change. It can be catastrophic for a family if the man's sex drive is all that's holding him in the marriage since when it goes away the marriage starts to break up.
C. I'm at the point where the fading sex drive sparks what society dismissively and scoffingly calls a midlife crisis. The man's evaporating sex drive is no longer strong enough to hold him to his overweight dumpy looking wife and then some men try to date younger hotter women in much the same way someone who's losing his hearing would turn the volume up on the radio. That usually ends in disaster too. There has to be something worth staying married for when your sex drive fails.
D. Now that I'm 46 and never married, my "midlife crisis" shows up in different way. It just makes me VASTLY more difficult to land as a husband. There are millions of women out there who would jump at the chance to land me as a husband, but what's in it for me? A woman who's about 10 years away from menopause? Do I want to be free and at peace with few expenses or burdened with her expenses while having to listen to her complain about her hot flashes. The choice is obvious to me.
@vention4wh The midlife crisis is not a reduction in sexual desire or libido. It is when people look in the mirror and realise 'I'm not young anymore', then buy a sports car/motorcycle and leather jacket in order to feel young again.
Also, biologically speaking, men can still have children at 45, it is like the 'peak' as far as reproduction is concerned (as long as you are healthy). For women, it is in their twenties and decreases with time.
The sex shouldn't be holding them in the relationship.
I disagree with you on the cause of midlife crisis. But honestly neither of us can truly know the cause since I'm not married and you're not middle aged. Neither one of us has walked in those shoes.
A agree with you that a 45 year old can have kids but I disagree your implication that the sex drive hasn't decreased. I was insanely horny when I was 20 years old but these days it isn't even worth paying for a date to get it. If you don't believe me now, you will when you're my age.
@vention4wh Why do you think it's called a midlife crisis?
I never said that the sex drive doesn't decrease, I said that is not what a midlife crisis is. Do you really believe only married people have midlife crises? Does that mean a man who is divorced won't have a midlife crisis?
You don't realise women can have a midlife crisis too?
@57worldwide Its not a Midlife Crisis, its a Midlife Awakening. Damn, after 40 years or so a man looks around and sees he ok to dream a little dream. But thats not the wifes dream, so he gets labled as being Crazy, Lazy, or Weak. If a man says, "I want to get a motorcycle." His wife should say, "Will you take me for a ride?" And honestly, that would satisfy the urge. But, no... the bitch says, "Youre crazy." And the guy knows he's not crazy, so he has to choose between his sanity and his freedom
@PaulGreen11 No, it is a midlife crisis. Whereby the male ego deflates, realising they aren't young anymore. They try to compensate, getting a motorcycle and leather jacket/sports car.
It's different if they were always/previously into those things. It's a midlife crisis when the guy is a middle aged middle management type, always living on the safe side, then wants to start taking risks when they have a family and mortgage paid off.
@57worldwide Please! Human Beings Are Compex! "Whereby the male ego?" What does the female ego want? Wait, I know, "Just adore meeeee!" Damn, do you think a man reaches a certain age when he should give up on his ambitions? His dreams? "Well, I should be his Dreeeaamm!" Bitch, Please! Talk to your husband or get out of his face! Dont be a drag. The reason all this is a Suprise to you is you Dont Talk To Your Husband. "The reason behind this desire?" The Pursuit of Happiness! Help him be happy!
@PaulGreen11 I'm male, you idiot. There is a difference between an ambition or goal, and a fantasy or dream. With the midlife crisis, the fantasy is being young again. The closest they can get is feeling young momentarily.
It's ironic - when you are young, you want to be old; when you are old, you want to be young.
Like I said, it's different if they were always/previously doing those things. There is a difference between going back to riding a motorcycle, and acting a part.
@57worldwide A man can learn to ride a motorcycle, learn guitar, nit, learn to fly a plane, travel cross country, learn brail, learn another language, shave his head, start working out, become vegetarian, take acting classes, do stand-up comedy, go fishing, write a book, run for city counsel, smoke pot, listen to different music, change religions, divorce, buy a gun, buy comic books, blog, build a website, get a tattoo, get braces, work the graveyard shift, AT ANY AGE and not be going crazy.
@57worldwide It has NOTHING to do with a Middle Aged Craze, its life. Human beings have the Right to Live and Pursue Happiness at Any Time In Their LIves. Damn!!! Youre saying a man who has taken care of his wife and family for 30 years doesnt have the Right to start eating medium rare stakes if he wants to? Damn, yours saying that 300 hundred years ago, if a blackman decided he didnt want to be a slave anymore and escaped to the north He Was Crazy to try!? Damn, brother wanted a CHANGE.
@PaulGreen11 You can understand the difference between trying something, and acting a part? As in, the difference between learning to ride a motorcycle and buying a leather jacket and Harley as one is a goal (learning to ride a motorcycle) and one is a dream (as in, fantasy)?
Are you trying to say that I can't see a defference between a goal (such as, freedom from slavery) and a fantasy (as in, being young again)?
This is the point, acting young is making them feel happy.
@57worldwide Please, youre just being stupid, youre not being reasonable. If a man decided to learn how to ride a motorcycle, or play guitar, or take up kite flying, he not "acting young." THATS JUST WHAT HE WANTS TO DO AT THAT TIME IN HIS LIFE. Doesnt a man have a RIGHT to live his life the way he chooses? Damn, you so fucking stuck up! Why should a man not do what HE WANTS TO DO just because YOU dont agree with it?? PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO CHANGE, A RIGHT TO SEEK HAPPINESS. Youre a nag.
@57worldwide And DONT REPLY TO ME ANYMORE. Get the fuck out of my life and go try and tell someone else they cant be FREE to think and feel and act as they please. WE ALL HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY. Not sit around the house all day because his wife wants him hurry up and die so she cant take up nitting.
@PaulGreen11 Are you purposely being ignorant? My point is clear. Learning to ride a motorcycle is a different goal to owning a Ferrari/Harley Davidson. You can't say that a middle aged man buying a Harley Davidson under the guise of 'learning to ride a motorcycle' is acheiving an IMPORTANT goal. If buying the Harley Davidson is the ONLY thing that would make him happy, then it is a midlife crisis.
Everyone has a right to be happy. Not to abandon or avoid responsibilities.
@57worldwide OMG! A man can buy and learn to ride a motorcyle JUST BECAUSE THATS WHAT HE WANTS TO DO. Its not that deep, he doesnt have to be Sick. ITS NOT A GOAL. ITS NOT A DREAM. Its just that he has the time and the money and he thinks he would enjoy it. DAMN, if a 50 years old man decides to take a walk across the Golden Gate Bridge everyday does that mean he's going through a Crisis?? Thats just what he wants to do, he ENJOYS it. God Damn it, a person has the right to LIVE their LIVES.
@57worldwide DAMN, a guy eats Whoopers all his life and one day decides he want to eat fish and cheese sandwitches from the local chinese carry out and now he's GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS!!!!!!
I also said that learning to ride a motorcycle is different to buying a Harley Davidson. If you want to say they are both the same thing, you are just making excuses. If a 50 year old man buys a Coupe, a 2 door sports car, can you really say that he is trying to be happy? Is that all it is?
Sorry to break it to you like this, but that is a midlife crisis. Especially if he has children and possibly grandchildren, it would then be a waste of money and time.
@57worldwide You tell me then, when is a man suppost to stop his pursuit of happiness? Where the hell is it written that can MUST NOT become curious after a certain age? Ok, your a male. But you have been de-masculated. Do you have a dream. When did you die?
@PaulGreen11 Do I have a dream? It was to travel to Germany. I'm here now! Now, I have another goal, which is to stay here as long as possible.
This is the thing, I have differentiated between a goal and a fantasy. I used to work with an older couple, who travel around New Zealand in an RV doing seasonal work. They probably had that ambition for years, after their children moved away they had less responsibility and could pursue it - which is different to a middle aged man chasing a fantasy.
@57worldwide Please, Motherfucker, Please! Stop your dumbshit!! A MAN WITH WIFE AND KIDS AND MORTGAGE AND JOB AND EVEN ELDERLY PARENTS TO LOOK AFTER... IF HE DECIDED HE WANTS TO LEARN HOW TO RIDE A MOTORCYCLE OR PLAY GUITAR HE CAN. That doesnt mean he's Abandoning his Responsibilities.
@PaulGreen11 Right, if he wants to learn to ride a motorcycle, that's not abandoning responsibility. You, however, have kept saying 'learn to ride a motorcycle', when I would think of buying a brand new Harley Davidson as a possible midlife crisis. Again, learning to ride a motorcycle is not buying a brand new Harley Davidson.
Do you not see that I have a point? Riding a motorcycle = dream; buying a Harley Davidson and a leather jacket trying to look/feel younger = fantasy.
@PaulGreen11 No, a Harley Davidson is a fucking expensive motorcycle to buy brand new (and it's overrated). Many people buy them for the image (eg, style over substance).
If learning to ride a motorcycle is a dream, you don't have to own a Harley Davidson. If you can afford to buy one, why not do so. If you have children and grandchildren, and aren't already wealthy (eg, you use your retirement money), it's not really in anybody's interests (except your own) to buy such a vehicle.
@57worldwide YOU DONT UNDERSTAND, its not about the price or the motorcycle, or what type of motorcycle... Its about Freedom to Live Your Life. And youre the one who bough up "Harley Davidson." I just said motorcycle. The End. Im Done. Dont Write Back. Peace.
@PaulGreen11@PaulGreen11 Of course it's about the price of the motorcycle. I brought up Harley Davidson because I see a distinction between an overrated overpriced status symbol and something which won't break the bank. You either see no difference, or just wanted to argue against a point which I wasn't making.
It's like you don't see a difference between 'desire to play guitar in front of people' and 'fantasy of becoming a popstar grandfather with young-adult groupies'.
@57worldwide Ok, I see that you're Bipolar, you keep expanding the conversation. You cant stay on topic, its not what we're talking about, its what You're talking about. If I say, "I like marbles." You'll demand that I acknowledge that the earth is round too. So, Im done.
@PaulGreen11 If you had scrolled up to read my earlier comments, you would have seen 'The midlife crisis is not a reduction in sexual desire or libido. It is when people look in the mirror and realise 'I'm not young anymore', then buy a sports car/motorcycle and leather jacket in order to feel young again.'
It's not that I can't stay on topic, you jumped into my discussion in order to argue against a claim I didn't make.
Read your first reply and ask yourself if it's incontext with what I said.
@57worldwide My friend, its not about re-capturing youth. Its about freedom, freedom to choose. Your reasoning bottles up the human spirit. If a man wants to skip rope in the park at 50 years old, then damn it, as long as he's not hurting anyone or himself, LET HIM DO IT AND DONT JUDGE HIM OR LAY YOUR GUILT TRIPS OR LABELS ON HIM! He's Free God Damn it!!
@PaulGreen11 You must not realise that what I was referring to was the attempts to relive the younger days. If learning to ride a motorcycle is a dream, that is one thing. But when they say 'It's the one thing that makes me feel young again,' that is the situation I was, and still am, referring to.
The whole 'he's not hurting anyone' rhetoric is moot. This is about wether responsibilities are abandoned and wether other people are disregarded, which would be the classic example of midlife crisis.
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
@PaulGreen11 No young or old? Don't make me laugh at you.
There is a reason it's called a midlife crisis. Which I have explained. You just want to argue against a point I'm not defending, which is 'wether or not someone can pursue happiness'.
'It only makes me feel young again' was what I was always talking about, which you would have understood if you had read the messages before the one you replied to.
'No such thing as young or old.. but nothing cooler than seeing an old man do...'
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
@PaulGreen11 What's grey about desire? Are you meaning to imply that some people don't buy things in order to feel young again?
Like I said previously, which you possibly did not read, a midlife crisis can be experienced by women as well. So your argument of 'there is nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he wants to do', aside from contradicting your statement that 'there is no old', is not addressing what I have presented with regards to a midlife crisis.
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
@57worldwide Please, Motherfucker, Please! Stop your dumbshit!! A MAN WITH WIFE AND KIDS AND MORTGAGE AND JOB AND EVEN ELDERLY PARENTS TO LOOK AFTER... IF HE DECIDED HE WANTS TO LEARN HOW TO RIDE A MOTORCYCLE OR PLAY GUITAR HE CAN. That doesnt mean he's Abandoning his Responsibilities.
@watcher4k5 Cool, where do you live now? I'm in Hamburg. I need to learn more German, I can't say much yet. Just basic things, like, 'ich komme aus Neuseeland'.
But it's not a total loss. Every month I put another couple thousand into savings and I get closer to my goal. In about 18 months I'll sell this fully paid off condo and add my savings then buy a house on an acre or so within commuting distance (mortgage free). Then I'll start turning that property into a massively productive, self sustaining, permaculture and food forest system. And I'll get a few roommates who are interested in such things, and live happily ever after.
And sure I know on an intellectual level that there is a woman out there somewhere who would have been my wife if marriage weren't so terribly dangerous. She and I might have had a great life together but due to the dangers involved I decided that I have to let her find her way through her life without me. Right now she's either one of the millions of aging single women or she's settled for someone who can't care for her as I would have. & she's wondering what went wrong.
It's possible I guess but then again a lot of men who marry end up lonely anyway & it's worse because after their wives take them for everything they own along with a big percentage of his income and any retirement he may have, he's both lonely and very poor. In my case I may be lonely someday but at least I'll have money. As a young man I was lonely pretty often but once I passed 40 it just went away. I've had one girlfriend (for 8 months) since I was 40 but it was a waste of time.
Thats the kind of thing you do before you get married... MY families rule of thumb is you fart in bed and pull the covers over both your heads... if she stays after that she's will stay through anything
I wonder what would the feminazis say if it was a woman displaying this kind of behavior? then they say we live in a patriarchy society? ha my ass, men is the victim of society, just like at the stats and the real world.
@Capscottmitchell Really? We do live in a Patriarchal Society. Some Women have had to use "what they have" to get by in a Male-Dominated Society. And this comment proves my point- "Men is the victim of society", no they are not. Women are still being raped and abused by MEN on a daily basis!!!
@QueenRachel89 yeah right, men dont get raped, men dont get abused by women, media doesnt display men being abused on a daily basis (like women slaping men in the face), men are not forced into the military, men dont die earlier than women, men ALWAYS had the right to vote and we were always the regents, there have never been Queens, or female Pharaohs, presidents, etc, oh men dont die in bigger numbers, men are not sent to jail for the same crime a women would get away with.
The number one reason women get married is for financial gain for her and *her* children.
The commercial is inaccurate. The woman would be throwing a fit as soon as he entered the room. Women respond very well to advertisements that show men as the stupid sex. That is how you sell something to a woman.
@uradunderhead To sell products to men, advertisers show the utility of the product. To sell products to women, advertisers have found that women need to told their are smart yet the men they associate with are stupid.
@feministsAreCorrupt Sorry but there's no logic in that because some companies tell men they are stupid when they are trying to sell products to them like Burger King for example that has commercials that insinuate that because men are too stupid to know how to cook, they need to head on down to Burger king. Burger King's number one customer base is men, NOT WOMEN, Not children but men so companies insult the very people they are attempting to get to buy their product. They all do this.
@feministsAreCorrupt You can't base anything on cosumer response either. Like radio stations supposedly have surveys they say people want to hear the same things over and over again. Bullshit. you listen to an oldies station that plays the same things over and over again when they have thousands upon thousands of songs they COULD BE playing. What you are witnessing is the 'dumbing up' of America. See any mainstream American films lately? Most are stupid and geared towards idiots.
@feministsAreCorrupt the woman in this commercial quite honestly would never be with a fuckwit loser like this to begin with. I don't believe women respond to this sort of commercial at all. Are there men like this, yes there are but they wouldn't do all this shit in front of the woman. You are basing your opinions on something the consumer has no control over . I certainly cannot tell any company on how to place ads for their business but I find nearly all commercials stupid.
@feministsAreCorrupt Ignorant much? Women get married for financial gain? Financial security is one of the reasons, but 'number one' is hardly accurate. But I'll just leave you to your skulking.
@NemesisPrime1989 I am not, because I am a MAN. Acting like a retard and getting offended at the slightest negative remark is not what real men do. The AD is STUPID, I agree. Do I care? Uhm, not really. Now back to scratching my balls.
if someone can translate what it says at the end, please do so. Funny commercial though
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johnlionson 2 months ago
he didn't fart or belch - weak
itubeyoublah 2 months ago
........no cream and sugar in his coffee? BITCH!!!
mrtundra45 3 months ago
Not that the reason!
Cougman1978 4 months ago
thats a true man!^^
seegurke34 5 months ago
@vention4wh: What are you talking about man ? I have a wife and that is the thing which is giving me power and freedom to move forward. If there is no wife, no kids, what is the point to be there ? I am less stressed, more self confidenced and have more time to think of some real business and your 2600 a month... :) i made 1000 just yesterday and i am happily married. What is your poor 2600 and loner life ?
IngMonkey 5 months ago
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I'm glad it's working out for you so far. But the moment she wants someone else, she knows she can kick you out of your home and nail you with crippling child support payments. And if you don't knuckle under to everything she demands she can make one call to the police and on her word alone you can be jailed for months. You may not know it and if all goes well you may never know it, but you are her bitch. I've seen it time after time and I pray to god it never happens to you.
vention4wh 5 months ago
number reason? number what? twelve? eighty-seven? funf und dreizig?
FredrickVonWinkle457 5 months ago
@FredrickVonWinkle457 All of the above.
57worldwide 5 months ago
i never saw an asshole like this guy wtf !
mppolice1 6 months ago
I'd try to live with a man before marrying him... marriage is not kids game so make sure you know your boyfriend before saying "ok let's be spouses"! :D
So that you don't need to watch a man doing disgusting stuff daily while you're trying to eat.
TheHollowstranger 6 months ago
Omg... where do you guys live... ? The women in my country are not like that at all !! I make my own money, drive my own car, do stuff with my own friends and fuck when i want !! Not because some guy tells me too...
SoeSel 6 months ago
@SoeSel America probably. I too don't get how women can just sit around and live off their husbands. My mom has never been a housewife even when she had a husband so it's hard for me to imagine what's it like being completely dependent on someone.
offwithurhead 2 months ago
Dont worry he has a big penis, she cant leave him :)
vireak209 6 months ago 13
The only reason women are around is because we haven't invented a good artificial pussy. Do you honestly think we want kids running around getting in the way of our fun. Do you honestly think we love to here you bitching all day. Do you honestly think we want you taging along on everything we do, go hunting and have you making all kinds of noise. Bitching about how much XBox 360 we are playing. Just shut the fuck up, spread your legs and make me a sandwich.
kpreston69 6 months ago
@kpreston69 Honey, I think the reason you can't get along with women and enjoy their company is because you're an insufferable jerk, not because they're out to get you or do you financial harm. n.n Just saying.
Psionic7Rat 6 months ago
Noone does that.
Savci008 6 months ago
What a tramp :)
xalewas243 6 months ago
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Yea All the men in my life act just like this pig.
PirateKing1256 6 months ago
Thank god I'm gay. So don't do that nasty stuff.
1Vella 6 months ago 2
bitch dont act like u dont do shit thats anoying lol
carrionpvp 6 months ago
It's better be alone than with bad companies](Mejor estar solo(a)que mal acompanado(a)]!
123456RaulMorales 6 months ago
IT'S BETTER BE ALONE THAN WITH BAD COMPANIES!
123456RaulMorales 6 months ago 2
Number Reason?....Huh?
usryb 6 months ago
wow she looks like keria knightly!
janejo223 6 months ago
Good habit would be washing your hands after you play with your balls ;)
harmannus1986 6 months ago
So where is the video of why Men divorce women? It shows the part where he takes care of her for years without any appreciation. Lack of respect, trashing in front of friends, taking his money to do her nails and hair, putting him in $15,000 worth of debt, the car wrecks, fucking his friends, listening to the bullshit from his mother in law, listening to her bullshit, sitting around watching TV all day instead of cleaning, no dinner on time, headache all the time or period. Did I miss any?
kpreston69 6 months ago
@kpreston69 you are a complete asshole.
hellomynameiscobalt 6 months ago
@hellomynameiscobalt I know but then again women are pissed because men rule and always WILL rule the world. Aint it just upsetting that rich white men rule the world while the female underclass try to get us to tollerate faggots and write every hollywood movie to portray men as idiots and women as strong and independent. Women are weak, mindless and are just as vulger and horney as men. For some reason they like to be treated like shit by muscle bad boys that were breast fed up until 6 y/o.
kpreston69 6 months ago
@kpreston69 Lol you're gonna be so pissed in a few years.
Women are taking the lead. I say that as a man. I seriously doubt you've ever been to college, but considerably more women are succeeding in college than men are. Its simply a matter of time.
1Vella 6 months ago
@1Vella Women aren't taking anything. Maybe the common airhead and only because they are 7 to 1 but who cares. The powers that be, those who really run the show are the wealthiest of European MEN and white. A women before Menapause can't run anything except a tredmil. You do have exceptions and a lot of women just marry into power or wealth was given to them. How many women actually went out and earned it.
Women only fucked themselves, they want to be equal well equal all the way. Fuck-em.
kpreston69 6 months ago
@1Vella btw, I've been to college and the women there...the older ones bitched because rich white men keep minoraties down and the younger ones with the wet pussies all the time just wanted to fuck. I seriously doubt that YOU have been to college. It was a waste of time and I learned nothing that I would use in any job skill. All my programing skills I learned on my own. I recently went to %^% and thier "Modern" computer networking class consisted of of Nic cards and shit from the 90's.
kpreston69 6 months ago
@kpreston69 Good lord you child. ALL the women were bitching about rich white men? Where the hell did you go to college? People don't bitch about that stuff that much. You simply have strong prejudices against women.
I AM at college. And if you went to one which had crappy stuff, than you simply went to a bad college.
1Vella 6 months ago 2
@kpreston69
Wow...someone is really bitter. -.-
monny287 6 months ago
@monny287 Bitter about what? I fell into that bullshit and kept my marriage together for 20 years because I let a woman do what she wanted. On the 20th Aniversary I divorced her ass and literally threw all her shit in the front yard in full view of the neighbors. I have the house I paid for, I have the kids and the Cars I paid for.
Now I have a GF 10 years younger than me. No, women aren't going to just do what they want. You bitches wanted equal rights well here you go.
kpreston69 6 months ago
@kpreston69 u miss a lot man HAAha
TheKantrius 6 months ago
im a man, and i find that disgusting
enylive 6 months ago 9
at least we don t manstruate all over the house every moth
Roald1988 6 months ago
wow i just realize how much i touch my self
poptat1 6 months ago
If only girls had hairy balls then they would understand.
SackFulloApplez1993 7 months ago
@SackFulloApplez1993 shave, honey
buriburizaemon 7 months ago
@buriburizaemon that hurts too >=(
SackFulloApplez1993 6 months ago
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buriburizaemon 6 months ago
@SackFulloApplez1993 hurts? With a trimmer it doesn' hurt at all. Just give it a try :). You'll make your gf happy and you'll love it too, i'm sure ;D
buriburizaemon 6 months ago
divorce??? Are you fucking kidding me?!?! i wouldn't even marry that guy in the first place!
TheTwilightSagaHeart 7 months ago 12
@TheTwilightSagaHeart Probably because 400 year old immortal vampires that dote on a woman every word don't exist. Check out youtube video "Why Twilight Is Popular". It's quite hilarious.
embracingreality 4 months ago
Gay marriage... if woman can divorce with women, where they need men?
foolevil 7 months ago
Gay marriage... if woman can divorce with women, where they need men?
foolevil 7 months ago
OH man , i never thought this could annoy my girlffriend.
Tr3L0sGLaDy 7 months ago
feeeeee....
Mldtvclt 7 months ago
what is the name of that song?!?!?!?!
Firock1 7 months ago
@Firock1 Loving You - Minnie Riperton
NESHero 7 months ago
@Firock1 loving you is the title of this song.. :)
phiepao09phiephao 7 months ago
hahah thanks god i'm gay, my boyfriend wont be disgusted if did this in front of him, because he will be doing the same xD
simon1430 7 months ago 3
If that would be the reason for divorce, then no one should marry XD
Dogmeng 7 months ago 5
i think you meant the number ONE reason why women Divorce
FISTACHILD 7 months ago
No man the number ne reason why women divorce is theirself!
apocalypse105 7 months ago
Damn i actually eat like this how do they know
apocalypse105 7 months ago
любовь зла))))))))))
LelikMakaronka 7 months ago
whats the PHANY?
atomisten 7 months ago
He has worms (in ass) and probably crabs 2
thrallskull 7 months ago 3
Its not a scratch its an adjustment!
Aerosmithizdabomb 8 months ago
If you marry there's a very good chance your wife will throw you out, so I never married. It's not all bad though. Without a woman dragging me down I was able to payoff my home and get debt free and now about 30% of my take home pay covers all my spending for the month. That leaves about 2600 a month totally extra.
Plus I look at the married guys I know and the single guys and I have to say, the single guys are noticeably happier and less stressed out. I'm just sayin.
vention4wh 8 months ago 20
@vention4wh but they got kids :)
razaa09 7 months ago
@vention4wh You will regret this sometime soon, trust me. Women may sometimes stress men out, but it's usually with a good intention. Also, you'll have no kids and you'll die alone. But yeah, you'll pay for your own retirement home. No one will visit you.
SilenceDuReves 6 months ago
@SilenceDuReves
Everyone has to choose how to live their life and we have to live with those choices. You weigh each choice, comparing dangers to rewards and you have to choose (because not choosing is also a choice). I looked at how terribly men are abused and exploited when their marriages fail and after a lot of soul searching I arrived at the conclusion that the danger is too great. Yes I'll be alone when I'm old but there's a good chance that I'd be alone anyway due to divorce.
vention4wh 6 months ago
@vention4wh That's right, you can choose how to live your life. But my (true, unrequested) opinion is that the reward is too great and it is worth the risk. If you are really careful who you choose, your life may be a lot better than it is now. Maybe you'll find someone and you'll change your opinion someday. Maybe you won't get married but you will live with someone. It's not really a family, but it is way better than being alone. I wish you well.
SilenceDuReves 5 months ago
@SilenceDuReves
You have a point but I can't stop thinking some friends of mine. When my friend Michael's divorce failed, one of the last events was his wife slapping and punching him repeatedly while holding his 2 year old daughter in her other arm as a human shield. Then she filed a false sexual offense accusation and the police took him to jail. She recanted the accusation hours later when her tantrum cooled down but it took him a month to get out of jail. It destroyed his life & career.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@SilenceDuReves
I can understand if you think marriage is worth it and for you I imagine it is. The chances of you having your assets seized, getting booted out of your home and nailed with crippling child support payments while you try to find a new place to live are very low. The chances of you being hauled off to jail due to a false accusation from your spouse are almost zero.
Basically marriage carries a vastly greater set of risks for a man than it does for you.
For me, it's not worth it.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@vention4wh Are you asexual? If not, you still have a chance of being nailed with crippling child support - you can still go to jail for false accusations. Plus, living alone can be more expensive than sharing costs.
In other words, most of the 'cons' of marriage are still there, even for single people. Even the 'most married guys are stressed out' statement seems inaccurate - most people living in a city are stressed (compared to people living in rural areas, more stressed).
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide
You're still young and you haven't seen the wreckage of as many marriages as I have.
Living alone is actually pretty efficient. Now that I've paid off my home I spend less than 30% of my take home pay (unless I want something special, like this high end laptop I bought yesterday. It cost over 1k but I can easily pay it off with only part of my next paycheck).
The men who are stressed out are my coworkers, mostly in their 40's and 50's and yes they're clearly more stressed out.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@57worldwide
Am I asexual? Hmm, since my last girlfriend was about 2 years back, I guess I am. Do I care? Not even a little. A steady girlfriend starts to drive me up the wall after 6 months or so, and I'm not really happy or comfortable again until we break up. Then with a feeling of profound relief, I go back to my life.
Still now that I'm in my mid 40's most of the women I date would need fertility treatments to get pregnant (but I use a condom anyway). No point in taking chances.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@57worldwide
But back to the living expenses issue. If i married, my wife would see my rather nice working class wages and then she'd want a big house and a new car for her (for safety since she'd be scared if she broke down somewhere). Anyway I'd have to pay for it. If I married I promise you, 95% of women wouldn't want to live in this paid off condo. Then when we bought a house together, the moment the marriage broke up, the house would be hers, along with all the money I put into it.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@vention4wh I'm not sure how the laws are where you live, but where I'm from, you can put the house into a trust (meaning you don't own it, meaning it won't be split in half).
You clearly misunderstood what 'sharing costs' means. It doesn't mean your wife or partner shares their expenses with you (as in, you having to pay for it), it means expenses are shared. As in, no, I don't pay for their shoes or their car etc. We pay for our expenses.
Did you just give up on finding a good partner?
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide
If I put the house into a trust after the marriage, the trust would be a family asset and the judge would sign it over to her when the divorce rolled around. If I owned the house or the trust before the marriage it would take a major feminist judge to seize that asset.
Ya they always say "lets move in together and share expenses" but it generally works out that you end up paying more than your share if you're a man. Often the expenses rise to the point where it takes 100%.or more
vention4wh 5 months ago
@57worldwide
B. You asked if I gave up finding a good partner. It's not that, it's that when I passed 43 or so my priorities changed. My sex drive dropped to maybe 5% of what it once was and I started getting really comfortable in the life I've built for myself. I'm at the point where things change. It can be catastrophic for a family if the man's sex drive is all that's holding him in the marriage since when it goes away the marriage starts to break up.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@57worldwide
C. I'm at the point where the fading sex drive sparks what society dismissively and scoffingly calls a midlife crisis. The man's evaporating sex drive is no longer strong enough to hold him to his overweight dumpy looking wife and then some men try to date younger hotter women in much the same way someone who's losing his hearing would turn the volume up on the radio. That usually ends in disaster too. There has to be something worth staying married for when your sex drive fails.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@57worldwide
D. Now that I'm 46 and never married, my "midlife crisis" shows up in different way. It just makes me VASTLY more difficult to land as a husband. There are millions of women out there who would jump at the chance to land me as a husband, but what's in it for me? A woman who's about 10 years away from menopause? Do I want to be free and at peace with few expenses or burdened with her expenses while having to listen to her complain about her hot flashes. The choice is obvious to me.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@vention4wh The midlife crisis is not a reduction in sexual desire or libido. It is when people look in the mirror and realise 'I'm not young anymore', then buy a sports car/motorcycle and leather jacket in order to feel young again.
Also, biologically speaking, men can still have children at 45, it is like the 'peak' as far as reproduction is concerned (as long as you are healthy). For women, it is in their twenties and decreases with time.
The sex shouldn't be holding them in the relationship.
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide
I disagree with you on the cause of midlife crisis. But honestly neither of us can truly know the cause since I'm not married and you're not middle aged. Neither one of us has walked in those shoes.
A agree with you that a 45 year old can have kids but I disagree your implication that the sex drive hasn't decreased. I was insanely horny when I was 20 years old but these days it isn't even worth paying for a date to get it. If you don't believe me now, you will when you're my age.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@vention4wh Why do you think it's called a midlife crisis?
I never said that the sex drive doesn't decrease, I said that is not what a midlife crisis is. Do you really believe only married people have midlife crises? Does that mean a man who is divorced won't have a midlife crisis?
You don't realise women can have a midlife crisis too?
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide Its not a Midlife Crisis, its a Midlife Awakening. Damn, after 40 years or so a man looks around and sees he ok to dream a little dream. But thats not the wifes dream, so he gets labled as being Crazy, Lazy, or Weak. If a man says, "I want to get a motorcycle." His wife should say, "Will you take me for a ride?" And honestly, that would satisfy the urge. But, no... the bitch says, "Youre crazy." And the guy knows he's not crazy, so he has to choose between his sanity and his freedom
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@PaulGreen11 No, it is a midlife crisis. Whereby the male ego deflates, realising they aren't young anymore. They try to compensate, getting a motorcycle and leather jacket/sports car.
It's different if they were always/previously into those things. It's a midlife crisis when the guy is a middle aged middle management type, always living on the safe side, then wants to start taking risks when they have a family and mortgage paid off.
Can you explain the reasoning behind this desire?
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide Please! Human Beings Are Compex! "Whereby the male ego?" What does the female ego want? Wait, I know, "Just adore meeeee!" Damn, do you think a man reaches a certain age when he should give up on his ambitions? His dreams? "Well, I should be his Dreeeaamm!" Bitch, Please! Talk to your husband or get out of his face! Dont be a drag. The reason all this is a Suprise to you is you Dont Talk To Your Husband. "The reason behind this desire?" The Pursuit of Happiness! Help him be happy!
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@PaulGreen11 I'm male, you idiot. There is a difference between an ambition or goal, and a fantasy or dream. With the midlife crisis, the fantasy is being young again. The closest they can get is feeling young momentarily.
It's ironic - when you are young, you want to be old; when you are old, you want to be young.
Like I said, it's different if they were always/previously doing those things. There is a difference between going back to riding a motorcycle, and acting a part.
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide A man can learn to ride a motorcycle, learn guitar, nit, learn to fly a plane, travel cross country, learn brail, learn another language, shave his head, start working out, become vegetarian, take acting classes, do stand-up comedy, go fishing, write a book, run for city counsel, smoke pot, listen to different music, change religions, divorce, buy a gun, buy comic books, blog, build a website, get a tattoo, get braces, work the graveyard shift, AT ANY AGE and not be going crazy.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@57worldwide It has NOTHING to do with a Middle Aged Craze, its life. Human beings have the Right to Live and Pursue Happiness at Any Time In Their LIves. Damn!!! Youre saying a man who has taken care of his wife and family for 30 years doesnt have the Right to start eating medium rare stakes if he wants to? Damn, yours saying that 300 hundred years ago, if a blackman decided he didnt want to be a slave anymore and escaped to the north He Was Crazy to try!? Damn, brother wanted a CHANGE.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@PaulGreen11 You can understand the difference between trying something, and acting a part? As in, the difference between learning to ride a motorcycle and buying a leather jacket and Harley as one is a goal (learning to ride a motorcycle) and one is a dream (as in, fantasy)?
Are you trying to say that I can't see a defference between a goal (such as, freedom from slavery) and a fantasy (as in, being young again)?
This is the point, acting young is making them feel happy.
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide Please, youre just being stupid, youre not being reasonable. If a man decided to learn how to ride a motorcycle, or play guitar, or take up kite flying, he not "acting young." THATS JUST WHAT HE WANTS TO DO AT THAT TIME IN HIS LIFE. Doesnt a man have a RIGHT to live his life the way he chooses? Damn, you so fucking stuck up! Why should a man not do what HE WANTS TO DO just because YOU dont agree with it?? PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO CHANGE, A RIGHT TO SEEK HAPPINESS. Youre a nag.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@57worldwide Youre the reason why most men Divorce, Fuck, you cant breathe with a bitch like you around.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@57worldwide And DONT REPLY TO ME ANYMORE. Get the fuck out of my life and go try and tell someone else they cant be FREE to think and feel and act as they please. WE ALL HAVE A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY. Not sit around the house all day because his wife wants him hurry up and die so she cant take up nitting.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@PaulGreen11 Are you purposely being ignorant? My point is clear. Learning to ride a motorcycle is a different goal to owning a Ferrari/Harley Davidson. You can't say that a middle aged man buying a Harley Davidson under the guise of 'learning to ride a motorcycle' is acheiving an IMPORTANT goal. If buying the Harley Davidson is the ONLY thing that would make him happy, then it is a midlife crisis.
Everyone has a right to be happy. Not to abandon or avoid responsibilities.
57worldwide 5 months ago
@57worldwide OMG! A man can buy and learn to ride a motorcyle JUST BECAUSE THATS WHAT HE WANTS TO DO. Its not that deep, he doesnt have to be Sick. ITS NOT A GOAL. ITS NOT A DREAM. Its just that he has the time and the money and he thinks he would enjoy it. DAMN, if a 50 years old man decides to take a walk across the Golden Gate Bridge everyday does that mean he's going through a Crisis?? Thats just what he wants to do, he ENJOYS it. God Damn it, a person has the right to LIVE their LIVES.
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@57worldwide DAMN, a guy eats Whoopers all his life and one day decides he want to eat fish and cheese sandwitches from the local chinese carry out and now he's GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS!!!!!!
PaulGreen11 5 months ago
@PaulGreen11 I'm male. You imbecile.
I also said that learning to ride a motorcycle is different to buying a Harley Davidson. If you want to say they are both the same thing, you are just making excuses. If a 50 year old man buys a Coupe, a 2 door sports car, can you really say that he is trying to be happy? Is that all it is?
Sorry to break it to you like this, but that is a midlife crisis. Especially if he has children and possibly grandchildren, it would then be a waste of money and time.
57worldwide 4 months ago
@57worldwide You tell me then, when is a man suppost to stop his pursuit of happiness? Where the hell is it written that can MUST NOT become curious after a certain age? Ok, your a male. But you have been de-masculated. Do you have a dream. When did you die?
PaulGreen11 4 months ago
@PaulGreen11 Do I have a dream? It was to travel to Germany. I'm here now! Now, I have another goal, which is to stay here as long as possible.
This is the thing, I have differentiated between a goal and a fantasy. I used to work with an older couple, who travel around New Zealand in an RV doing seasonal work. They probably had that ambition for years, after their children moved away they had less responsibility and could pursue it - which is different to a middle aged man chasing a fantasy.
57worldwide 4 months ago
@57worldwide Please, Motherfucker, Please! Stop your dumbshit!! A MAN WITH WIFE AND KIDS AND MORTGAGE AND JOB AND EVEN ELDERLY PARENTS TO LOOK AFTER... IF HE DECIDED HE WANTS TO LEARN HOW TO RIDE A MOTORCYCLE OR PLAY GUITAR HE CAN. That doesnt mean he's Abandoning his Responsibilities.
PaulGreen11 4 months ago
@PaulGreen11 Right, if he wants to learn to ride a motorcycle, that's not abandoning responsibility. You, however, have kept saying 'learn to ride a motorcycle', when I would think of buying a brand new Harley Davidson as a possible midlife crisis. Again, learning to ride a motorcycle is not buying a brand new Harley Davidson.
Do you not see that I have a point? Riding a motorcycle = dream; buying a Harley Davidson and a leather jacket trying to look/feel younger = fantasy.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide Let me get this straight... Getting your Real Estate License=Dream. Becoming a practicing Real Estate Agent=Fantasy.
Learning to play guitar=Dream. Playing your guitar for people=Fantasy
Learning to ride a motorcycle=Drean. Buying(the motorcycle you want) and riding it=Fantasy
Dream, ok. Living your dream, not ok.
I understand now.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 No, a Harley Davidson is a fucking expensive motorcycle to buy brand new (and it's overrated). Many people buy them for the image (eg, style over substance).
If learning to ride a motorcycle is a dream, you don't have to own a Harley Davidson. If you can afford to buy one, why not do so. If you have children and grandchildren, and aren't already wealthy (eg, you use your retirement money), it's not really in anybody's interests (except your own) to buy such a vehicle.
Understand?
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide YOU DONT UNDERSTAND, its not about the price or the motorcycle, or what type of motorcycle... Its about Freedom to Live Your Life. And youre the one who bough up "Harley Davidson." I just said motorcycle. The End. Im Done. Dont Write Back. Peace.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 @PaulGreen11 Of course it's about the price of the motorcycle. I brought up Harley Davidson because I see a distinction between an overrated overpriced status symbol and something which won't break the bank. You either see no difference, or just wanted to argue against a point which I wasn't making.
It's like you don't see a difference between 'desire to play guitar in front of people' and 'fantasy of becoming a popstar grandfather with young-adult groupies'.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide Ok, I see that you're Bipolar, you keep expanding the conversation. You cant stay on topic, its not what we're talking about, its what You're talking about. If I say, "I like marbles." You'll demand that I acknowledge that the earth is round too. So, Im done.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 If you had scrolled up to read my earlier comments, you would have seen 'The midlife crisis is not a reduction in sexual desire or libido. It is when people look in the mirror and realise 'I'm not young anymore', then buy a sports car/motorcycle and leather jacket in order to feel young again.'
It's not that I can't stay on topic, you jumped into my discussion in order to argue against a claim I didn't make.
Read your first reply and ask yourself if it's incontext with what I said.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide My friend, its not about re-capturing youth. Its about freedom, freedom to choose. Your reasoning bottles up the human spirit. If a man wants to skip rope in the park at 50 years old, then damn it, as long as he's not hurting anyone or himself, LET HIM DO IT AND DONT JUDGE HIM OR LAY YOUR GUILT TRIPS OR LABELS ON HIM! He's Free God Damn it!!
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 You must not realise that what I was referring to was the attempts to relive the younger days. If learning to ride a motorcycle is a dream, that is one thing. But when they say 'It's the one thing that makes me feel young again,' that is the situation I was, and still am, referring to.
The whole 'he's not hurting anyone' rhetoric is moot. This is about wether responsibilities are abandoned and wether other people are disregarded, which would be the classic example of midlife crisis.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 No young or old? Don't make me laugh at you.
There is a reason it's called a midlife crisis. Which I have explained. You just want to argue against a point I'm not defending, which is 'wether or not someone can pursue happiness'.
'It only makes me feel young again' was what I was always talking about, which you would have understood if you had read the messages before the one you replied to.
'No such thing as young or old.. but nothing cooler than seeing an old man do...'
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
@PaulGreen11 What's grey about desire? Are you meaning to imply that some people don't buy things in order to feel young again?
Like I said previously, which you possibly did not read, a midlife crisis can be experienced by women as well. So your argument of 'there is nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he wants to do', aside from contradicting your statement that 'there is no old', is not addressing what I have presented with regards to a midlife crisis.
I'm not bipolar. Thanks.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide Like I said before, "You're Bipolar." Why in the fuck are you projecting ideas like, "Its the only thing that makes me feel young again.?" You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so you dont have to deal with whats black and white. Thats a sign of Bipolarism. There is no young or old, there is just life. We have one birth, one death, and one life. If you were born, you will die, so live. There is Nothing cooler than seeing an old man doing what he Wants To Do.
PaulGreen11 3 months ago
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@PaulGreen11 Copy+paste my previous comment for me, will you? Thanks, friend.
It's good that you know that I know that you argued against a position I never held.
Me - present statement A
You - I disagree with B
Me - what does B have to do with my statement A?
You - You're expanding the conversation into deep grey areas just so bla bla bla B
57worldwide 3 months ago
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@57worldwide Please, Motherfucker, Please! Stop your dumbshit!! A MAN WITH WIFE AND KIDS AND MORTGAGE AND JOB AND EVEN ELDERLY PARENTS TO LOOK AFTER... IF HE DECIDED HE WANTS TO LEARN HOW TO RIDE A MOTORCYCLE OR PLAY GUITAR HE CAN. That doesnt mean he's Abandoning his Responsibilities.
PaulGreen11 4 months ago
@57worldwide
Germany is Cool, iam From Germany :)
watcher4k5 3 months ago
@watcher4k5 Cool, where do you live now? I'm in Hamburg. I need to learn more German, I can't say much yet. Just basic things, like, 'ich komme aus Neuseeland'.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@57worldwide
I live in Lüneburg thats near by Hamburg
watcher4k5 3 months ago
@watcher4k5 Okay, cool. Maybe I send you a friend invitation, if you don't mind.
57worldwide 3 months ago
@SilenceDuReves
But it's not a total loss. Every month I put another couple thousand into savings and I get closer to my goal. In about 18 months I'll sell this fully paid off condo and add my savings then buy a house on an acre or so within commuting distance (mortgage free). Then I'll start turning that property into a massively productive, self sustaining, permaculture and food forest system. And I'll get a few roommates who are interested in such things, and live happily ever after.
vention4wh 5 months ago
@SilenceDuReves
And sure I know on an intellectual level that there is a woman out there somewhere who would have been my wife if marriage weren't so terribly dangerous. She and I might have had a great life together but due to the dangers involved I decided that I have to let her find her way through her life without me. Right now she's either one of the millions of aging single women or she's settled for someone who can't care for her as I would have. & she's wondering what went wrong.
vention4wh 5 months ago
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@vention4wh i bet your'e ugly
BennoLP 5 months ago
@vention4wh yeah and FUCKING LONELY AS HELL IN YOUR BIG HOUSE hahahahahahahaha
onlyjoetee 4 months ago
@onlyjoetee
It's possible I guess but then again a lot of men who marry end up lonely anyway & it's worse because after their wives take them for everything they own along with a big percentage of his income and any retirement he may have, he's both lonely and very poor. In my case I may be lonely someday but at least I'll have money. As a young man I was lonely pretty often but once I passed 40 it just went away. I've had one girlfriend (for 8 months) since I was 40 but it was a waste of time.
vention4wh 4 months ago
yes, it makes women go lesbian so they can eat dirty pussy.
datzfast 8 months ago
Lmfao when he was itching his balls, so was I lol.
Bros gotta scratch what a bros gotta scratch.
rockloverdude 8 months ago
They have completed the first request for a divorce ...they got married ... why get married? so they can divorce xDD thumps up if u think same
raketaa1 8 months ago 2
playing with his balls is a crucial part of every man's morning!
nwijesinghe 8 months ago 138
@nwijesinghe trololo
TheEpicFailMan 7 months ago
@nwijesinghe do that in the shower when nobody is looking.ass
Hinatagirl1423 6 months ago
I don't see the problem? I do that all the time...
iRouRoui 8 months ago
playing with ur balls then eats is the way that men make their food delicious loool
bolobef1 8 months ago
give him a break he just woke up!
VivienForum 8 months ago 2
thank god I am gay so defy the entire rules of the difference between men and woman what a pointless conflict
ecos889 8 months ago
@ecos889 Thats Okay
stanleymilzink 8 months ago
Simple cause they r bitchese XD sorry joke
Mrkamikazeify 8 months ago
ewww how could he do that when he is eating
amna3d 8 months ago
@amna3d its a skill we are born with
FalloutMassacure 8 months ago 2
Thats the kind of thing you do before you get married... MY families rule of thumb is you fart in bed and pull the covers over both your heads... if she stays after that she's will stay through anything
luthernerdfighter01 8 months ago 3
Looks real familiar. They figure they don't have to pretend anymore and let all hang out. LOL..... I think he's my ex's twin brother.
TTCHome 9 months ago
anyone know the name of the song?
12345lans 9 months ago
@12345lans Its Loving You by Minnie Riperton
ShatteredPiece 9 months ago
@ShatteredPiece
Thanks bro...
12345lans 9 months ago
i don't see anything wrong with the butter spread tho
newcomer9747 9 months ago
@newcomer9747 lol i think he used d same knife for stirring the tea on the butter
mitoyosi2003 9 months ago
@mitoyosi2003 lol yea!
newcomer9747 9 months ago
can any 1 tel me wht song tis title plzzzzzzzzzz.........
MrAlex860428 9 months ago
I wonder what would the feminazis say if it was a woman displaying this kind of behavior? then they say we live in a patriarchy society? ha my ass, men is the victim of society, just like at the stats and the real world.
Capscottmitchell 9 months ago
@Capscottmitchell Really? We do live in a Patriarchal Society. Some Women have had to use "what they have" to get by in a Male-Dominated Society. And this comment proves my point- "Men is the victim of society", no they are not. Women are still being raped and abused by MEN on a daily basis!!!
QueenRachel89 9 months ago
@QueenRachel89 yeah right, men dont get raped, men dont get abused by women, media doesnt display men being abused on a daily basis (like women slaping men in the face), men are not forced into the military, men dont die earlier than women, men ALWAYS had the right to vote and we were always the regents, there have never been Queens, or female Pharaohs, presidents, etc, oh men dont die in bigger numbers, men are not sent to jail for the same crime a women would get away with.
Capscottmitchell 9 months ago
LOL~ Pure Hysterical! Never thought about this...because never crossed my mind about being so ignorant.
ru4change 9 months ago
Poor girl lol sges fucking hot
vuur150 9 months ago
...hahaaa...it's funny cuz I have never met a man who acted like that.
maddiecarlson 9 months ago
AHAHAHAHAHAHH
s4mir88 10 months ago
The number one reason women get married is for financial gain for her and *her* children.
The commercial is inaccurate. The woman would be throwing a fit as soon as he entered the room. Women respond very well to advertisements that show men as the stupid sex. That is how you sell something to a woman.
feministsAreCorrupt 10 months ago 2
@feministsAreCorrupt Lovin the username, asshole.
MsTiberiius 10 months ago
@feministsAreCorrupt You're just mad because this is an accurate portrayal of how some males are. Get over it.
uradunderhead 9 months ago
@uradunderhead To sell products to men, advertisers show the utility of the product. To sell products to women, advertisers have found that women need to told their are smart yet the men they associate with are stupid.
feministsAreCorrupt 9 months ago
@feministsAreCorrupt Sorry but there's no logic in that because some companies tell men they are stupid when they are trying to sell products to them like Burger King for example that has commercials that insinuate that because men are too stupid to know how to cook, they need to head on down to Burger king. Burger King's number one customer base is men, NOT WOMEN, Not children but men so companies insult the very people they are attempting to get to buy their product. They all do this.
uradunderhead 9 months ago
@feministsAreCorrupt You can't base anything on cosumer response either. Like radio stations supposedly have surveys they say people want to hear the same things over and over again. Bullshit. you listen to an oldies station that plays the same things over and over again when they have thousands upon thousands of songs they COULD BE playing. What you are witnessing is the 'dumbing up' of America. See any mainstream American films lately? Most are stupid and geared towards idiots.
uradunderhead 9 months ago
@feministsAreCorrupt the woman in this commercial quite honestly would never be with a fuckwit loser like this to begin with. I don't believe women respond to this sort of commercial at all. Are there men like this, yes there are but they wouldn't do all this shit in front of the woman. You are basing your opinions on something the consumer has no control over . I certainly cannot tell any company on how to place ads for their business but I find nearly all commercials stupid.
uradunderhead 9 months ago
@feministsAreCorrupt Ignorant much? Women get married for financial gain? Financial security is one of the reasons, but 'number one' is hardly accurate. But I'll just leave you to your skulking.
m2mfan4eva 9 months ago
all you people are stupid. This commercial is sexist. If your a man you should be pissed at this.
I've seen women do the same thing if not worse. All this video does is portray men as nothing but disgusting pigs.
NemesisPrime1989 10 months ago 3
@NemesisPrime1989 nah, it just portrays men that get a divorce from their wives as disgusting pigs.
and yes, when women do it it's like 10 times worse lol
mrkiky 10 months ago
@NemesisPrime1989 I am not, because I am a MAN. Acting like a retard and getting offended at the slightest negative remark is not what real men do. The AD is STUPID, I agree. Do I care? Uhm, not really. Now back to scratching my balls.
dondiemarte 10 months ago
my fiancé dosnt do any thing like that XD
NailzChan 10 months ago
put his hand in his paints >>> i hat it grosss
justmeAussi 11 months ago
Oh god he's just like my boyfriend...
Javaloach 11 months ago 49
poor girl :X
TeamFuckers 11 months ago
@Javaloach ur bf sucked my cock last Sat night and came home n kissed u on ur mouth on Sun morning :D
jeremynobigdeal 10 months ago
@jeremynobigdeal
How kinky! ;3
Javaloach 10 months ago