How to get your ex back - Does Your Ex Still Care

[cavesuki8510]

She is showing alot of indifference, like everything is completely fine. But when we talk or text her conversations are hollow like if she is still holding back emotions? Is that a good sign? at the most?

Cause i want her back but now it seems alot harder due to the indifference.

[hamismymeat]

HA EVAN!

[fifafan1]

i have a question my gf broke up with me after a fight that was my fault and i admited it was my fault and she told me she needs space but she still calls me almost every morning and told me shes thought about getting back together. But i just get confused and hurt

[missvalerie101]

It seems my ex is reaallly loovey with me.

but when it comes down to being around other people

he acts different

i'm getting mixed signals

Its hard but i think i should just let go

what do you think??

[TheCm28]

haha

[CMVMic]

wow...then she must be feeling indifference towards me.... she avoids my calls, changed her phone number, doesnt ask about me and doesnt show she still cares in any way. What should I do? help! lol

[Cydoli]

and he thinks he did the right thing. We've been dating about 6 months we never had a fight. And he also says that he was feeling a bit lazy in the relantioship the last 2 weeks. I just need a chance to get back together. Because right now I know that i was being lazy in the relantioship...I just need a chance to prove that i can change my behavior. Is not the first time a guy broke up with me, but this is the first time I'm feeling devastating.

[Cydoli]

he broke up with me last week. he came to me said he needs to talk I saw him very nervous, red face, saying that don't really know whats going on but he thinks need to break up. He comment maybe he should move out of his parents house. And he only look me in the eyes at the end of his sentences, arms crossed, sometimes cover his mounth with his hand (don't know the meaning of body language can say in this case. What I really know is that he is feeling bad and guilty

[kim17c]

my ex-boyfrnd nd me r frnds agn n we went for a few outings too...he care 4 me as a frnd bt cn i gt him bck even wen he has a new girlfrnd hez happy with

[MRRIDGE88]

who is this shaved Amish little jerk and why is anyone listening

[linz1408]

he blocked my house number, my cell, and both my parents cell. He said he would think about stayin but nothin else.... i have alreadyy accidentallyy txted and called him too much which is why he blocked all the numbers.... what shoukd i do? i messed up big time! UGH!

[bbenally88]

thats ok Thomas! We still cool =D

[Duquet01]

Idk bout this, i did the mistake of calling her n stuff, when she dumped me, and now i think she justed gave up!!!! I have no clue wat to do now!

[jaetguz]

I really like this!

[ecrira4u]

A man with low self-esteem or a lack of self-confidence coupled with stubbornness or too much pride (usually a means of overcompensation) will also behave indifferently when he has an argument with a girlfriend, spouse, or ex. Indifference is often a defense mechanism also.

[althealovesmusic]

@ecrira4u * but what do i do now he's behaving that way? it's been a month since he broke up with me. we haven't spoken at all, should i call? it's his birthday in a few days... i know u don't know me but u hit the nail on the head in your description of his "defense mechanism" behaviour. thanks in advance.

[trigun1702]

i liked your video a lot

[Bananamanda]

My ex is acting very different of what you said.

He still tells me he loves me and when I dont talk to him for a while he text's me and tell me im sorry for not texting you and I just wanted to say goodnight and that I love you and ill tty tomorrow. He tells me he still wants to be with me but then he is having mixed emotions. I'm so confused.

[SugarRose25]

I agree. When my boyfriend and I have fought, he has raised his voice to say, "I hate you, I've never hated anyone else as much as you, you're a #%@" Then when we made up, he cried and said he loved me and didn't want to break up. He says "Let's get married, let's have kids" and when we fight he goes opposite and says "I HATE YOU, and I'm going to hurt myself. I wish I never met you!" So, love and hate...my bf has so much emotion to me. He isn't my ex right now but I'm going to take it easy

[ecrira4u]

@SugarRose25 Yeah, I think you SHOULD take it easy...you might be dealing with a bipolar, borderline or manic-depressive personality. When their emotions get out of control, they become unpredictable and potentially harmful to self and/or others, an often lethal combination.

[convidspro]

what if the they act friendly towards you? does this mean they dont want to get back together?

[philiesgurlxo]

what is your best friend tells you that your ex doesn't like you at all but the ex doesn't say it towards you but he tells your best friend?

[TMBfan]

Yea my Ex and I are such good friends I have a pretty good feeling my ex is gonna break up with the person she's dating she's told me how much he annoys her and everything