How To Get A Social Life And Make Friends Without Rejection!

[TonyLiam612]

Thanks becaus going to a new school any more advice.

[joeybrujah]

@stephennerdman I have friends and a few girls on mine, but I don't really like going out to partys and stuff... Is there something wrong about it?

[sergyboy100]

I have no friends, I am very sad.

[GreasyBalls418]

@sergyboy100 I feel for you bro. I only have like two friends in my whole school.

[marto6269]

So what if I'm living in a country where people are so far back you wouldnt even know this shithole is called Bulgaria im lonely as shit and i cant wait to get the fk out of here

[upallhours9]

Good video. I don't have many friends at all -maybe 2 or 3. I find I escape playing video games and watching tv. Stress/anxiety issues plague me-on prescrip meds-they help, but it's no cure.

[leonoff89]

i dont get girls b/c i have no job unfortunately in my town there isn't much public transportation and gas ain't cheap so only for school thats it

[MagnitudeOfSoul]

I actually forgot about that site but isn't it more popular in BIG cities rather than little small towns like where im from?

[MagnitudeOfSoul]

What if people just dont like you and you find it hard to socialise..not as simple

[MagnitudeOfSoul]

I need to get out more.

[thokih1]

TROLL I CAN BE YOUR FRIENDS

[razzdude31]

I wish I still had friends,

My friends dumped me for some magic-bellieving, thinks he's a special agent phsyco

[MrHav1k]

Hmm...

Well no shit.

[jaybrick8920]

i wish i was more outgoing i have no friends this sucks

[thepumkinboy]

@jaybrick8920 i have about 3 actual friends, and it's scary cause i'm being an ass to them and i'm scared to lose them now. at least this guy is legit.

[rockinsingleguy88]

i love myself and my xbox playing guitar know one gives a f#%k bout my life but me and my family

[rythemandthebeat]

truth is, I typed in 'how to get friends'. I don't get out much, except maybe 1 good friend.

[amouralizee]

i interract comfortably with so much people, unfortunately all of them are either guys or unnattractive old ladies.

literally f*** my life!

[SaraHeartsRunning]

I watched this because the title made me laugh!

[NikoSaltnes96]

Respect for you man, you have not given me any new tips, but I would NOT give my own self confidence !boosters! to anyone but my friends.

[Hysokaofficiel]

thank you !

[AVFCsi02]

Smokings a great way to meet people & also going the pub.

[MassiveM110]

@AVFCsi02 and joining a fight club, lol

[mofosixxxx]

no meetup in my shitty town :s

[2bored4school]

@Vanessagaming Vanessa as you will come to learn within a very short span of time, the people who speak in any tone similar to that are speaking the voice of THEIR own deepest fears. Now what I'm saying here is that they lack the peace of mind to understand the paradoxical judgement of how they act. Furthermore, I'm just saying that 'looks' don't matter immensly. Simply meeting a friendly person will teach you that the appearance means very little. Just be clean.

[TheNewRiflemanBob]

I don't have a social life because I spend too much time watching your videos when I should be outside.

[KinguNoKin]

Too bad there aren't that many groups in Italy. I'll check it out if I ever go to America. Unlikely.

[emcred]

@Vanessagaming Have a good opinion about yourself. I've learned that from pastor Joel Osteen. Your confidence will rise high.

[Justinio2]

@Vanessagaming Has it really come to that? They want you removed from the goddamn earth? Just fuck those people! They don't deserve the time of day with you (and you'll probably realize they're "alone" with the other "die" creeps, am I right?) Those other "fellow losers" around you? They're no different than anyone else, except that they're original. I guarantee you they're every bit as "ugly" as anyone else, search "How to trick people into thinking you're good looking". It's funny.

[juki0h]

i think some people truely cant make any friends at all, they could for awhile, but it doesnt last long, and they end up being by themselves. statistically speaking, theres always going to be people who dont have friends, girlfriend, wife, a life, etc.

[xzaxx]

@juki0h you are right. but its difficult to find the right people. with the right people i mean like-minded people. i have 2 close friends. i want to have more friends but havent found the right people.

[MrRomeostouch]

You're the Man Dude. I mean I Have wife but I'm ready to go out there and meet some women after these videos. lol (joke) Keep them coming man you're a great mentor.

[leesway]

I think this is a helpful video...I don't know what BiggxG was talking about.

[robgee23122000]

Are you listening to an AudioBook......... hhahaha jk

[DRCsyntax]

@BiggxG No, the problem is people like you, looking for someone to spoon feed you. It doesn't work that way; there is NO simple solution, no one step process. You need to learn, and read, and adapt; and take your ass outside and put yourself out there. How do you meet random people? Say hi to a stanger next time your in a bookstore, movie rental place, the theatre. Maybe they'll say hi back, maybe you'll scare them. Maybe you'll find your soul mate.

[Haseeb2]

The bottom line which is probably the best advice anyone can give would be to be comfortable in your own skin, be interesting and know interesting things. Interesting people attract other interesting people.

[MrBloodmoneyinc]

9 retards....so far ......... no one will ever get this joke..!!! HAHAHAHA 4 ever

[IconListening]

ALL THAT STUFF ABOUT GOING UP TO PEOPLE BEING NICE INTRODUCING YOURSELF DOSENT WORK IF YOUR NOT GOOD LOOKING OR RICH CAUSE PEOPLE MEN AND WOMEN WILL NOT SEE VALUE IN YOU.

REMEBER IF YOUR NOT GOOD LOOKING NOBODY WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU..AND IF YOU NOT RICH THEN PEOPLE CANT GET MONEY FROM YOU

SO YOU WILL SEE AND NOTICE THIS AND SAY TO YOURSELF -MAN IM BEING NICE AND FRIENDLY AND THE PEOPLE AROUND ME DONT EVEN CARE AND ARENT INTERESTED IN ME.

WHY CAUSE YOUR NOT GOOD LOOKING OR RICH

[SOCRATES012]

@IconListening Love yourself. That is the key to all success my friend. We are all One. Happy New Year to all

[DrSickFlow]

@BiggxG What's the point of posting a negative comment on a video... if you dont like it then dont watch.... your either trying to just bag on a video, or trynna get sum thumbs up by going against the flow.... OR you just have self esteem issues and are trying to make yourself feel better... how bout you pull your head out of your ass and listen to what the mans saying because im sure hes solved alot of peoples problems, maybe ur just not listening.

[mensch1025]

@BiggxG i think your problem is shyness....you are shy to talk to others..

[Awesomenizzleness]

your right i need to learn how to talk with people

[bg11215]

Hey thanks for posting this video. I've seen tons of videos on dating, how to meet women etc. (but I'm gay so they were of little interest to me lol), but this is the first video I've seen on making FRIENDS which is what I need and want. I checked out the website you mentioned. I could just hug you! Thanks. Or should I say Danke.

[chilldaddy81]

how do you atrract girls if you are really apathetic about sex?

[NarCal615]

@chilldaddy81 might aswell say you are gay if you arent interested in sex.

[chilldaddy81]

@NarCal615 not even close idiot. gays are interested in homo sex, im not interested in sex at all. you are an twat for making such a ridiculous statement.

[NarCal615]

@chilldaddy81 must you jump to conclusions so fast? what i meant by that was. And mind you, with my original statement i was joking. that gay guys are more able to have a girl open up to him, because she isnt worried that he is going to want to jump down her pants.

[chilldaddy81]

@NarCal615 sorry for jumping you, but you stated that a guy might as well say he is gay if he is apathetic towards sex and isn't looking for that in a companion. no, i don't agree. if i acted like i was homo, i would be lying to her and myself cause im not sexual at all, it is a really shit ass world where you have to lie to people to make them dig you. people think im crazy cause i don't fuck everything i can, but i think those people are the one off in the head. no self control at all.

[NarCal615]

@chilldaddy81 no ptoblem. but like i said it was just for humor. id suggest you look for someone who is apathetic towards sex aswell. there are six billion people in this world, and im sure there is someone out there.  Im kinda the same way. i actually hate sex. i think its a waste of time.

[chilldaddy81]

@NarCal615 id probably be down to have sex more readily if the chick wasn't expecting me to hump her leg the minute i saw her. its crazy cause they think you're weird or have no game if your not instantly wanting to fuck them. and romance is just a game to get in a chick's pants. its a fuckin put on. why cant i just be myself. when i meet a female, i try to talk to them like i would anybody else. i discuss deep thoughts alot. they say its boring or im taking myself too serious. so fuck them!

[NarCal615]

@chilldaddy81 exactly man. i used to be really "romantic" and then i realized. Flowers, dinners, mushy poems, etc. I like NONE of this shit! lmao.

[felixduhcat89]

Okay, I got your email, but the thing is I think you're right about this. Before I even begin speaking to attractive women, I have to learn how to speak to people. I am very introverted. I am about to sign up for this meetup website. Thanks! :D

[Dreameatertv]

wear a mask :D

[brianjuice]

So, what are you listening to there? lol

[lilsk8rboy]

How do I find people to meet who are in their age group 17-19 in that website you suggested?

[MrChunkyMonkey79]

you look like toby turner

[stephanerdman]

@BiggxG Wow...Cynicism is a powerful thing, isn't it? It makes you blind to even the most straightforward well meant solutions that work, that are totally free and stupidly simple!

[sentryshooter777]

@stephanerdman YEA STEPHAN!!!!!!! WHOOOO ROCK HIS FACE UP WITH A ROCK FACE!!!

[rextony22]

@BiggxG

i think its all up to you on how you go with it.

[Zubbubb]

The solution to shyness: Just say fuck it and be confident. It helped me. I don't care what people think about me.

[paksajjadi]

thanks, I am feeling proud of u ppl, :)

[Chuckrocker101]

What if there is no one on meet up where you live?? What then? There are lots in London, but none over here.

[lemurlover71]

Table Tennis!

[cherfer]

what's with the weird comments about the chinese? lol

[lemurlover71]

@cherfer he said chinese, and apparently the world-well, you know how we are with asians. ;)

[JDawg1expert]

Hey Stephan, although meetup.com is a good way, what would you say are some other good ways to getting a great social life would be to someone who has a small social life?

[488steven]

dont talk shit about da chinese! lOL

[Sparda849]

.....meet up means meet up with killers lolssss my parents told me not to meet people that i dont no.

[chemical2276]

am too damn shy ]= plus i look kinda intimidating but i'll give meetup a go. thank you [=

[sdoron79]

meatup? i'm veggie...

[meerkatlibrarian]

Thanks for this advice. I looked at meet up and there is one in Sydney. Hopefully I can meet some people my age. If you ever come to Australia, maybe we could meet up :-)

[shafia87]

Your accent is so adorable :-)...

[mumbles005]

Look Stephan, I’m really happy you like table tennis. Imma Let you finish. But Forrest Gump is the #1 table tennis player of all time.

[MrWhatever45]

table tennis makes me giggle abit

[MrWhatever45]

all you have to do is take interest in other people rather than yourself its not that difficult lol

[mariosmashfann]

omg im 14 and im so shy of everything.......people try talk to me i only talk a little then comes the akward silence.......i dont want people to think wrong of me....i never been this shy in my life.....i hope this is a phase cuz i just want to break out......shynes just keeps ruining my life and i dont want that ...... help why am i like this

[JonathanShelton1]

What if your kinda shy and theres nothing around where you live that your interested in?

[fermisk]

i got a severe stutter how about me ??

[MrWhatever45]

@fermisk  learn sign language

[sokka454]

@fermisk lmao

[LemonZeppelin]

@fermisk I am the same. I have a stammer/stutter but I did a speech therapy programme called the Mcguire Programme and it worked for me. Google it. (Y)

[butterflyRegrets]

it hurts to let my best friend go. I miss her a lot. she knows me best i can tell her anything but now she never wants to hang with me and ditches me for her new best friend n drink with the popular kids. I'm not funny or cool enough for her. should i let her go even though it hurts or wat should i do?

[motherchucker08]

@butterflyRegrets let her go cuz she stopped giving a fuck about u a long time ago. real talk

[ediie47]

haha that was perfect.before you even mentioned table tennis I was gonna go on meetup and look for table tennis groups lol.

[highlander3]

I've set up a profile but there's nothing near where i live (unless i want to be a beekeeper).

[raymondleeleggs]

I am shy seince I was 6 Its kind of sad really I don't even hang out with girls that were my classmates/freinds, or many people in general. I feel like a Winging Idiot.

[Christianpilot777]

I'm givin it a shot. Thanks for all your advice!

[StraussBR]

very good, thank you Stephan

[TheHalolover54321]

I never would of thought of that but that must really be true. Thanks, Steph. You're awsome, mate.

By the way, I LOVE your accent. U British? :)

[Arcane1Soldier]

You give such great advice. I have watched all your videos so far and taken notes and used all your advice in real life, and i must say that IT WORKS. My problem has always been " SHY" and never passing the "Hello" phase, i always become black and dont know what to say. But now, i have such confidence, and i talk to women all the time, anywhere i go, at every oportunity i get. Its not even to get a bunch of numbers , i just talk for fun and flirt and amazed at how your advice helped. THANKS

[stephanerdman]

Stephan here...Cool..glad you're getting great results and thanks for letting me and other viewers know!