On the fence or doubting HRT is for you. U kidding me?! =)

[mattcoyle10]

Thank you so much for this video. I found it helped me quite a bit. I'm hoping to transition someday but I still have to find a gender therapist. I've started to take a few steps though so maybe I can find one soon.

The feelings you described at the beginning of your video, I can understand them so well. It basically describes my feelings perfectly. I'm glad things have worked out for you.

[sarahadelle]

Hrt,dosent work properally for me, ive been on hormones just as long as you Jordon,i seen your videos from day one to now,and your hot,i mean it literally.

But i think its my dosage im on,that is not anouf estrogen,but to much testrone blocker,in my case.I ll try to up my dosage to 5 mg of Estrace.Yes i need facial feminatin too,my adams apple reshaping,and nose reshaping.

My Grs is in Sept,19,2012

Keep up the good work Jordon,and i allways will be your Trans Sister for life,Sincerily Sarah

[LittoBlueWolf]

You have no idea how much I needed to watch this video right now. Totally need to find a therapist soon. Thank you.

[hasbeen61]

YES do it while your younger, you will get much better restults

[hawk99223]

@UnforgivableMen stfu, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything, if you don't know what's someones gone through and still want to be a douche and point out hurtful things that are not true, get a heart.

[charliemi16205]

I just turned 30 and I've finally made the decision to transition, there are times when I get scared about what lies ahead as it see daunting (and amazing too of course) - thanks for posting this video, it's good to hear positive advice :D you rock too!!

[Coll010150]

Yeah- it doesn't go away with age. It only gets worse. Add in that you went down the path of denial, got married, had kids etc. If you feel like this is you - don't procrastinate because I think if you weren't transgendered you probably wouldn't even think about changing your body permantly.. if I only had courage earlier in life. It doesn't "go away"!

[wtbfemale]

@Coll010150 Your absolutly right! It doesn't go away ever!!! I'm 44 and Just now starting to transition. I have two lovely daughters and a lovely wife that love me very much for who I am. It only did get worse. The more I ignored it the more unpleasant I was to be around.

[UnforgivableMen]

You look like a dude and sound like a dude.

[JoshuaDanilyuk]

@UnforgivableMen Fuck you, you're an asshole

[TheTrippinhard]

given me alot of hope, and its given me that lil bit of an extra push, as if to say "cmon , you can do this" so id like to thank you for posting this, you have no idea how happy its made me :D

ty ty ty ty ty so much :D

[TheTrippinhard]

ive asked so many other TG women on youtube for the same advice you're giving right now, and i could never get the help or advice id been seeking. i guess maybe they thought i was another sick perverted guy on the prowl or something like that, and i dont blame them if that was the case, Although im not that kinda person, im more a less confused about my situation, and whether or not ill will end up happier if i choose to take the next step, but in saying that, your video has.. continued...

[Angelmagik2]

In one part of the world not sure if it's Philopenes or India ( geography not my hot subject) hermaphrodites are normal. They have an official 3rd gender status. I only know about this as it came into conversation the other day with a doctor friend as I was saying you you do get gay animals even though people argue being gay is unnatural. So I was questioning this and the 3rd gender is also natural and has always been around. In fact in an episode of House the perfect woman is genetically a man

[genrys1]

beautiful! I'm happy for you!

[CaseyMcC83]

This video was great I've been on HRT for one month now and its amazing how much happier i am being myself. Thanks for sharing your good advice with the people of the world i think you r so brave. I'm 28 so i was kinda nervous and this was probably the best thing and i hope someday i will be beautiful like you. I still have a long way to go but im not giving up!!!

[montrose527]

You are beautiful..

[electricvideoperson]

Thank you for saying this. I am 29 and have been on the fence since I was 20. I sometimes feel it is to late. Recently I have finally come to terms with everything and I still have doubts sometimes. It's really important to have encouragement for me right now because it's so easy to fall into the negative places of self doubt and depression. Thank you :) Love and Hugs!

[onebfb]

Thank you!

[kokomaks]

Wow this by far is the most meaningful and needed advice I could have asked for ... Thank you ... I too have my letter now since a month ago and still on the fence ... My issue is that I am wondering if this will impact my kids negatively .... My wife supports me but we are both worried about the effect on the kids ... Any thoughts

[pozzimystic]

Jordan thank you so much your words are perfect! I am 46 and estrogen works just fine

[Agitpropist]

yer butt changed shape!?

[TheMamadeira]

You are soo beautiful! :) 

[freekylovejoy]

you look and sound awesome! The boy That I saw earlier is almost impossible to see! Thank you

[WheedWhack3R]

I was always sure about being a girl, but fear of being rejected by my friends & family made me hide my suffering for so long I was ready to die. I quite eating & and started having real health issues. Then I finally realized I only wanted to live if I could be a girl so I came out & started HRT, got a therapist & now a DR. too. I have a long way 2 go but I am happier now then ever before. Jordan is right about starting to love who U R! I'm 5 months in and the pants thing happened to me twice!

[ToriAnneSmith]

Wow, talk about sitting on the fence. I've been sitting on that fence for more than 30 years and let me tell you, it isn't a very good place to be. Major depression and nervous breakdowns, constant fear, and the isolation is just miserable. If anyone is even considering this, get help and do it. Don't wait.

[Cakeisbetter]

thank you.

[KindaLegit42]

I cried so hard after watching this, thank you so much <3

[ClarissaX100]

Always looking happy even when telling about the not so happy thing. I've just been looking thru all of your videos, and it makes me happy. And even singing a great bit like a girl, THAT IS THE TEST! If I could spot you? Probably YES, but for the positiv. Remember like you I know what to look for. Even though I'm no footballfan at all, I am glad you keep all your interests. It makes a whole person. Too many would stop because it is not considdered feminin. Clarissa

[TiffanyMarie105]

Watched this video a few times, very inspiring.... somehow just now noticed The A's jersey.... knew you were a fan form previous videos.

Nice to see you still representing the green and gold!

[90pokeman]

what would you recommend for a person (me) who is a freshman in high school and seriously thinking about transitioning? ive already told my parents and several friends, so thats out of the way, but what now?

[x0xDandix0x]

@90pokeman

Talk to your parents about booking you a visit with a gender psychiatrist for a referal to a endocrinologist to start hormones :)

[90pokeman]

@x0xDandix0x well, me and my mom kind of have, but its for like puberty delaying hormones or something, not hrt. personally, im hoping i can start hrt before the beginning of my sophomore year, if not before 2012.

[x0xDandix0x]

@90pokeman

If you can start hormones before male puberty kicks in you have a much better chance of looking fantastic!

[90pokeman]

@x0xDandix0x mm true. however, my voice is rather deep already, and im getting a v-shaped back. how will these affect me?

[lopsided1]

Hey I think your webcam is set to "reverse" mode.. Your vids look like they were shot in the mirror. If you're techie a bit peek around in your settings so that we can see you better! (text is reversed and stuff right now)

[VirginiaSiloah91]

i've watched it at least 25 times! it's so inspiring.! thank u :)

[Alex120410]

Thank You!! Omg is really cheer me up I really needed this! :D

[ThePlankton71]

this video is so cool and genuine ! I have been using it to show a couple of people who did not understand me yet... and it made a big impact... Seeing you so confident as you, makes me and the people I show it too just understand the problems we face so much more easy. Great work for the community and I guess for your self too Jordan

[ErinBeSoCute]

"let me shake you" best moment of my day lols i love your videos i come away happier everytime : )

[NikkyCee12]

Jordan, thankz 4 making that video... im about 2 get an apointment wiff a therapist n i hope it will work out 4 mee... i loved that video thankz again.

[YOUPMC317]

Jordan, that is not the only reason you are happy and smiling a lot!! it is the best one though.

420 is just a couple of days away.

I can't believe it has been another year already.

thanks for your time and efforts. good luck to you.

[YOUPMC317]

Jordan, that is not the only reason you are happy and smiling a lot!! it is the best one though.

420 is just a couple of days away.

I can't believe it has been another year already.

thanks for your time and efforts. good luck to you.

[kaydencenow]

Jordan you are so awesome. I want to thank you for making videos like this. I'm starting HRT in early June and I couldn't be more excited.

Finding you on YouTube has made this process a lot easier on my brain just knowing I wasn't alone in the world.

Thanks again. *internet high five*

[ashley98102]

thanks for the inspirational video

The message felt very personal to me

and the timing is perfect as well

thx again ,Ashley :-)

[fated2pretend]

Jordan, THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video. It was exactly what I needed to hear right now. This may have just became my favorite video on youtube. Such an inspiration! <3

[underloved1]

You are bang on. I am transgendered don`t have a referal letter yet so i have to selfmedicate.I am 57 and have been taking hormones for 5 years now. The results speak for themselves.Was 5" 8 210 lbs, Now i am 5"7 145 lbs, mesurements are 36-27-36 and everyone that tries to guess my age gets it wrong. They say that i don`t look my age they say that i am more like 35 or 40 max. Makes me feel great. Its all hormones baby! It does also curb your male agressivity, bonus. Hugg& kiss. Bye!

[TiffanyMarie105]

My therapist has stated that she's ready and willing to write me an approval letter for HRT whenever I give her the all clear. Currently am just trying to save up the cash, as I will likely be paying out of pocket for the not so cheap blood work.

I'm excited, a little scared and nervous as well.. not going to lie.. but ready to face any and all challenges coming my way. It's worth it to finally be happy and to finally be myself.

Thanks for the inspiration and showing it can be done!

[TiffanyMarie105]

You are such an inspiration Jordan... I've been taking steps since January of this year (at the age of 31... so still fairly young) toward finally being my true self.

It's been a rough road, was suicidal for a good 15 plus years straight. From the age of 14 right up until January when I finally came to terms with who I was. (in retrospect, should have realized it a lot sooner when as a teen I would cry myself to sleep because I wasn't a girl)

[leesjourney]

Hi Jordan, You are so right! i am in my second year of hormones, and am now 45. all i can say is i am so happy i did not wait another day. my body is still changing but the femme form comes through loud and clear! changing over for good last August at work and home was long over due. i am thankful for not having to worry how i look ever again because i always felt self-concious as a boy or a man. for those 19-20 year olds, i agree, now is the time! thanks for all your vids Jordan!

[reneezubie]

Hey Jordan, I loved how you described the wasted brain power. I felt the same way, I couldn't concentrate on anything I called it the "noise" in my head. I did the same thing when I got my hormone letter. I waited for like 6months.  Once I was on them the "noise" went away! That alone was worth it! Love your videos...take care.

[djanblom]

Hi Jordie, Thanks for the very inspirational speech! Ment a lot to me! :) You're so awesome ^^ - take good care of yourself.

[Amfazio3]

That was very inspirational and touching. I think that was the best inspirational speech I have ever heard. I get very depressed sometimes as I'm sure everybody else does and that cleared it right up and gave me hope!!!

Thank you SO MUCH!!!!!!!

[ljunganzzz]

Thanks!!!!!!!!<3

[NewtypeGirl85]

That was the best speech i've heard so far for people doubting hrt, your video's give alot of people hope & you should feel proud of yourself jordan. Omg at the end i thought you were gonna cry and it actually made me cry....hormones strike again! =/

[TransBillie]

Great video Jordan, so many of us have gone through this and felt this way.

[TransistorSounds]

Excellent advice! ^.^

[lansier2]

thank you for this video, you are a saint. only if I had your spirt , my job and family would never actsept me. keep on living the dream

[whothehellamI01]

Thank you so much for this video. I'm exactly the type of person you targeted with this thing, and you got your message across loud and clear. Thanks so much!

[Leila96088]

Hey Jordan

Thanks for that lovely video and the message behind it. It gave me such a lift babe!!!

Ps sorry Tottenham lost last night!!! I am devastated honest LOL

Have a wicked weekend babez

Leila xxx

[marvolo21mz]

Thanks doll, luv ya face! ( =

[tiresianphoenix]

Good advice Jordan... I started at barely 20 and my shoulders are female-width, pretty much... the results really are amazing.

[Fiorwestcoast]

2:51 Hey estrogen!! hehe looking great hun! remember when you first wrote me now look at you!

[Fiorwestcoast]

@Fiorwestcoast hahaha that's is so funny!

[minorqback]

@Fiorwestcoast oh fior. of course i remember. i was so scared and unsure just like all these people who write me now. you still are one of my favorite people cuz you helped give me the courage to do this and change my life for the better. thanks infinity.

[dgxchange]

you are amazing Jordan...Dee PhD

[AudreyH336]

One of the greatest videos of all time........Ever.

Thanks so much.

[springfieldmp]

I logged onto youtube today and your vid popped up - I just got the prescription for my hormones and am at the point you described... thanks for sharing this :-)

[deej1011]

My doubts aren't so much that I won't look good or won't pass (I've come to terms with that possibility and it doesn't bug me), mine stem more from the worry that if I were to start HRT, they wouldn't have the emotional effect that's expected; and instead of feeling better or more at ease with myself, I'd somehow feel "worse" or something, and would have to take it as a sign that I wasn't trans to begin with :/ Perhaps it's just me being paranoid, but I dunno...

[AIRMAN182ify]

Good talk, love your vids Hugs Sarah

[riverwest1]

Let's hear it for hormones!!!! Absolutely, positively use them if you feel its for you!!! I only wish I would have access to them and started at a much younger age!

[BpenguinFire]

im only 17. havent started anything yet (obviously) i wish i could start now. i really want to...but i cant. i dont have any of the support. and i dont even know how to start them, i dont know the steps...

[TheTransBarbie]

Love love LOVE it girl!! Very uplifting!!! :)

[MsTWOSPIRIT]

Honey you are SOOOOO right!

[LadyBoyLovlie]

This video, has given me an extra push that i needed.. I have always had dreams that i was the most attractive woman and being a woman always felt so good and natural. this was all in my dreams mind you. I also have always been jealous of my friends and even my sisters... not that they know that cuz i kept it to myself... but just for them being able to wear make up every day and have BOOBS. its great. I am going to begin my transition at 22 and it is going to be amazing... :D thanks JOrdan

[AliAliDillyDally]

I wish I could go back in time and tell myself back at 13 and my parents already know. Just go tell them! They'll still love you and support you. lol

[minorqback]

@AliAliDillyDally me too. i cant believe that i never gave my parents the chance to surprise me. i was so sure that i was the only one who felt like this, and that i was wrong. i would rather die than tell anyone this awful secret. now i have no secrets from my friends. haha. so confident and happy.

[ToriAnneSmith]

@minorqback My mother knew, she even took me to a doctor when I was 12 who told her that it was just a phase and that I would grow out of it. My mother wanted her son and was determined to keep him even if it required blinding herself to the truth that she saw many times over. Telling people, family and friends, is unpredictable at best with the outcome.

[WheedWhack3R]

@minorqback My pants first ripped on the trampoline with a few people over so I totally relate and that is just recently 2. What you said is sooo true about starting to love who U R. & I am so jealous of your awesome FFS! I can't wait to do the whole package from top 2 bottom. I just got some legal documentation to change my ID gender and pic. I went 2 extremes to get where I am & did not let anyone stop me! This will change your life 4ever if U need 2 do it, DO IT!! I love being a Girl! Hugs

[ToriAnneSmith]

@AliAliDillyDally Hindsight is always 20/20. I think we all wish we could go back and do things differently.

[MissSiul]

Im 15 years old and I already wrote a letter and told my twin brother about it,i think is better start now to get better effects(my body is masculine but i have feminine face shape,lips and eyes-my nose is kinda long but it works in my face-)and everybody says im just like my father when he was younger(he is veeery manly looking)so i think i cant wait until it gets worst... in my blog i put your channel in the list of my favorites :) you are looking great

[ApplePieManFromMars]

Wish the transition age was earlier, like 13 or 14, then I would be so very happy.

[SHWADE22]

OMG. How did you know what I was thinking??? :) I got taken off of estrogen like 2 weeks ago by my endo so she could get a baseline on my hormones and I met this girl at work that I like and all this other stuff that made me seriously reconsider whether I really wanted this. I think I still knew it was something I wanted, but your video was kind of like a boost for me. Thank you so much!! You are the best.

P.S. Tottenham and Gareth Bale v Madrid in 10 minutes! :)

[danexus1]

thank you so much for this Jordan. I am 28 yrs old atm, and will have to wait a few years to get my hrt, im also a bit like jesslyngirl87 just really really short. to me to get the hormones will be all worth it and even if I wont get great results im fine with that because in the end I will become my true self and that's all that matters =)

you are such an inspiration and you give me so much hope, I just want you to know that your videos really really means a lot to me. Lots of hugs =)

[KristenMac100]

Jordan you are so awesome!!! I am late to being myself and maybe I had to deal with life first. You are right about changes in the body and happiness. Yes on weight loss and i am going for major lbs drop. You are such an inspiration. I think next winter I am getting back on skis. Hugs Kris

[JustJami62]

Jordan is an inspiration and I couldnt agree with her more on this subject. I am a living example of what could happen if you wait. Im 48, living full time female and just now got my letter to start HRT. Im not waiting any more in my life. I know my hormone effects are going to be way less than when I was in my 20's, but know in my heart of hearts that since begining my journey I am sooooooo much happier with me.. and everyone else. The lesson is clear! Don't wait. HUGS Jordan!!

[optionalmail]

Jordan, your videos are so inspirational! I dress up a lot at home, have been to parties as my Jackie, but always use the excuse that it is all fun. I am a big guy, like the Jesslyngirl87 was but your height. Damn, this is so dificult. You always mention age, you think a 34yo can reach the same results, given that I am super fit and very healty.?

[CHNOPSXXY]

Very nicely said, Jordan.

In this life, being happy with yourself, or perhaps just being satisfied with yourself, is most of the battle. Once you feel at home in your own body, your spirit feels free to soar to so many possibilities.

Gender transition, is just one way to achieve this feeling. One can also become comfortable in one's own skin, or change a few elements of your physique, or fashion. People should explore both within and without, and continue to learn throughout life.

[Staceyrae100]

I finally started HRT a couple of months ago and it's the best decision. I'm so happy now.

[TheSarahMaybe]

Jordan, I made a video response to this video and hope you approve it. I love your message and I love your attitude. You give a good message and are a very good role model for Transgender girls in your age group. I agree with you. Don't make excuses. Challenge yourself and do it if it is right. It's the same message I give those my age over at my youtube channel.

Love ya... Keep up the great Videos.

-Nichole

[JakeegirlXO]

HRT BRING IT ASAP xx girl

[XxJeNNeexX]

You changed my mind for now 1 yr

[juloboys1985]

I look you videos and I see you're helping a lot of people you're an extraordinary girl thank you for making me better understand and know your community

[rebekahkaren2]

thank you so much, you are a great inspiration to me

[DenasMomma]

Jordan, this video is a must for those wanting to begin the journey!!! About the hands: I had lunch w/ a gentleman, that I met on the bus, on the way to see my psychiatrist. It turns out that he was a piano teacher. He said that I had the most beautiful hands that he had ever seen.!!! - krw

[micheleabutler]

Jordan, This is an amazing video! Its funny, I am right on the verge of being able to start HRT and I became very hesitant. And it was a lot of what you said to be honest. So thank you, Nearly perfect presentation.

I have to ask though.... an Oakland A's Jersey?? ~sigh~ (jk)

[pborsky1]

Thanks so much, you've inspired me to follow my dreams and become a Dolphin.

[markemark11]

God bless you , your a star , between you and Jess your the most influencial girls on line and have helped me transition , i have just been diagonised, and im in a mental state and over whelmed at the same time , ... its all happening ... thank you for being you .xxRachel

[simplekilika]

Almost fell out of my chair when you shook me! lol jk but no seriously I have always like your videos and how much you try to help people out in understanding who they are. This one is by far one of the most..."LISTEN IF YOU WANT IT DO IT!" videos I have seen in a while. I am already in the process of getting mine but I am even more excited now about it even though I didn't think that was possible. Your awesome!! Wish we could smoke a bowl together sometime, Im not that far away :P

[beavisandbutthead104]

You're awesome! You're videos are all pretty great but this one has touched me most of all. I will definitely subscribe to your channel. I'm 20 so this really means a lot to me. Thank you :) -Bobby

[OfficialSuicideKing]

your best video to date... I tweeted it and shared on my Facebook :O) This video really hit home and helped Thank you !!!!!

[xLittleButterfly07]

Thank you so much you give me a lot of confidence juste whit your video ! :) Im 20 so you give me a smile when you say thats is the best age but i have to let you know that you are a beautiful girl and i hope i get good result to and be happy with myself. I have already talk to a lot of my friends and my sister , in 1 week i go to my born city to talk to my dad about my becoming transition ! Do you have already make a video about how you have tell to yours ?

[Metaton666]

I'm 37 now but i was wanting to start when i was 18 and right after my high school graduation and its difficult to do it cause of my cultural background or but thes younger generation that coming along will have it easier than us because being trans will be the norm some day.

[ax41113]

This was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thanks Jordan.

[Jesslyngirl87]

i agree with jordan :) you will change and just be happy being you!

great vid girl

jess

[kisamekaulitz]

cool video it will help people

[zaiden08]

Hey beautiful your facebook link is not working :) I am such a fan and you are an inspiration to me.

[blnami]

you are amazing...

you give strength to a lot of people

[az2tx1]

just what i needed to hear.