Getting a Boyfriend - Even if You're Shy

[Crazeepazee]

Great message

[Dearclaudia1]

Thanks for the video.

[temps105]

This video is motivating, but I think you're wrong. I don't think this lady knows what she's talking about... you can have self-love even if you think negatively. I bet that 21 yr old girl has finished college, has a good job, takes care of her body through excercise or sport and probably eats right. Is that not self-love? It is... therefore she doesn't know what she's talking about. Self-love is not just your thoughts, it's in your actions and you can love yourself even if you think negatively.

[mari9333]

@temps105 I think you are wrong. Your thoughts are reflected on your actions. I think you will take care of yourself physically if you love yourself mentally.

[darkwavekid]

omfg i thought this was a guy O_O i was like "wtf this dude is wearing the most gayest shirt!!" lol soo i clicked on this vid and it turns out its a chick!! lol .. fml -_-

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@darkwavekid thanks for taking the time to share that with me!! You made my day

[retrogirl91]

great adivice...I can really relate with jenifer, and as a shy girl myself its true we just have to accept ourselves and ignore what people think, but thats the challenge i guess:)

[mermaidbeliver123]

i agree with @MitchKid432. how old r u? wht grade?

[mermaidbeliver123]

please hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeelllppp

[mermaidbeliver123]

Well im only in sixth grade in middle school and i have a ex boyfriend but i want a another one but he does not like me. what should i do?

[ggreedyjew]

GOD this milf is so fuk-able!!!!!

anyway, i watched this video muted and with my pants unzipped

[CritterKissesxx]

thanks so much for this video kathleen, i am a shy girl and was feeling insecure about my self but now i realise all i have to do is accept myself the way i am and not worry about what others think. but what i think (:

[sweetybel9280]

@owls228 I understand how u feel..... :/

[owls228]

i am extremley shy all the time. i never talk. but i know why im shy because im scared of what other people think. ive known that.

[101feven101]

But being shy is a bad thing, though. In society everybody treats it as a bad thing. I'm shy sometimes but I'm not that way all the time. When I'm people who I don't really know I'm not as open and myself as I am with people I am comfortable with

[louea380]

Following from last comment-- By saying "who you are" you don't give the client the option to transform.

[louea380]

Following from last comment--by saying "who you are", the client might make the assumption that they don't have the option to transform.

[sweety3611]

ok so.....you do all this to be someone you're not just to get a guy.....well no thxs,i want a guy to love me for who i am not for being fake!!!

[Momokabomo]

Thanks for the advice. Did you play the aunt in Harry Potter?

[j1607760]

Great video!

And your advice empowers women by telling them to be PRO-active.

I'm also glad that you shared that you asked your husband out on your first date.

I get SOOOO tired of women hiding behind the "But I'll look desperate" line when the truth is that they think the guy asking them out means they have the leverage and can demand gifts from him.

I keep telling women who ask me why us nice guys don't come and sweep them up that "It's the 21st century, you know. YOU can ask US out now!"

[OrochimaruSangre]

Im reeeeaaaly quiet and i blame that for why i bever get a date or anything. i have plenty of friends who are guys but no boyfriemds. im a tomboy whos into karate anime video games rock music and against makeup, I dont hink theres any hope for me

[Prettygurlroc24]

@Miyukichan14 i feel ya.

[7987sunny]

I could never ask anyone out...I am way to shy I always have my friends do it or they have to be around me

[ambyleeful]

I started to cry, because no one has ever told me it was okay to be shy. Everybody, even my family has told me being shy was a bad thing. I've been always trying to find ways to stop being shy, but none of them seemed to work. I am just like the girl in the video. i always feel like people are judging for it, and I always feel like that's why guys don't like me. Thank you so much for your advice!!

[louea380]

@ambyleeful There is nothing wrong with being shy but if you wanted to become less shy you could change. If you were to make that decision though, it would have to be something you really wanted.

[bigMouth191]

I am shy. The girl i like is shy. This can't end well.

[SamLynn93]

@bigMouth191 sure it will i mean look at your username! bigMouth191? lol that had to come from somewhere....so find your "bigmouth" and ask her on a date! or at least go on a group date to make it less scary! whats the worst that can happen? she says no to a date? so what! she might say yes....but you wont know until you ask...

[CassidyBeauty]

You have helped me so much. I moved from a school that i was in for 6 years. Then moved to a completely different area. At first i would barely talk, a person even asked if i was deaf because i didnt talk for the first two weeks. At that time everyone was calling me a nerd and shy. I felt hurt and just started questioning if what i did was right. But now after about 7 monthes i have accepted myself and others and many people talk to me as if i've been there all along. Thank you (:

[Tafelkleedj]

thanks for the advice. it helped :) xxx shygirl :$

[duckdongable]

I like this lady!

[bloop6484]

i like a shy-ish guy and im shy, but i think he likes this one girl who's VERY VERY bold and outgoing and idk if he wants a shy girl or a bold one...btw, i've been getting a liot of signs that he likes me because his friends talk to me more than they used to and he will like, stare at me from across the room or even campus and then when i look over, he looks away as if nothing happened...i dont know what i should think...please respond and help me(:

[Sonicfangirl103]

i am really shy but a boy likes me but he wont ask me out because he also is shy soi might get my friend to ask him out but I DONT KNOW

[Miyukichan14]

People find me intimidating @ school just cuz I'm quiet. The people that actually talked to me thinks that I am a nice person but the others.. Well.. It kinda sucks going to a school full of rich stuck up kids while ur just average -.-

[Theowlcitygirl]

This is the advice I've been looking for for like 5 years. best, ever-3

[genesimmons1999]

im 11 and there is this boy tht i have benn friends with since the 2nd grade and now i am in 5th and i think he is a little cute but i am shy to ask him out and i think he like s me to because everyday at my middle school u have to go in the autitorium and he sits by me and one day in the lnch room he got in line behind me and was poking me in my lower back does he like me or no?????

[bloop6484]

@genesimmons1999 you're too young...

[94heba]

Hello kathleen. This is a great video, very helpful.

BTW, I was exactly like her but I changed myself to not being quiet.

Is that a bad thing? I couldnt accept it so I became more outgoing and hyper.

I feel better about myself now though. I dont think I did it for anyone.

I was only putting in mind my self image as I pushed myself to change.

[shaybabydolls]

is this based on the book The Secret?

[brooke8972]

@mitchKid432 hey im really shy... do you really think that? cause i JUST HATE how shy i am and i dont think a lot of boys like shy girls... so i don't think i can ever get a boy :( i like a boy and i just feel he doesn't even know i exist...

[BabiiePhat314]

@brooke8972 Same thing here!!

IM so shy :(

[adrie2407]

Thankyou so much for this video, that girl's email really expresses how i feel. You really made me feel better about how i feel and about myself.

[Czarrvalen]

I had problems with shyness, and I didn't have a boyfriend for a while, but I found that if you just offer a guy you like a free blowjob, you can reel him on in.

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@Czarrvalen WOW... I thought about deleting this comment, but it is probably the most truthful post and really reflects what girls think they need to do in order to get the guy. Cuz if she's not, then someone else will. Call me a prude, but I think this is the saddest thing. Everyone's trying so freaking hard to be "all that" and so sexy instead of just being real and letting relationships just evolve and grow over time.

[PanicAttackRelief]

@KathleenHassanDotCom Keep quiet. There should be more girls like that. Do you know how lonely and sad a man can get? I myself, being alone and never had a girlfriend would totally appreciate and fall in love with a girl who would offer me such kindness from her.

Yeah, you obviously do not realize what blowjobs mean to a man.

[tripvids420]

@Czarrvalen

you go girl! I hope your not serious...

[iheartsugercookies]

@Czarrvalen HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Jerusha241]

@Czarrvalen

This is so true I can tell from expirence!!

[impactgirl101x]

im not the prettiest gurl in me class

+im really shy and dont talk alot.

i had a sleepover lastnight and my friends started phoning up the boy i liked.

i didnt hae the guts to talk to him, how can i pick up the courage to talk to him?

[TheGirlRocker2]

im 11 and 12 in a couple of days. Im not shy really but i have never had a proper bf (One tht lasts for atleast a day) Lol. What should i do? Boys arnt really attracted to me/

[QuixoticXmischief]

I feel just like the girl in the letter... Ugh I need to beat shyness! 

[pandaxoxo716]

yeahhh...so i can't stop myself for being shy. there was a year when i tried to change myself to be more outgoing and stuff. but in the end i just felt so fake and gave up. i like ME better and i don't think i will ever change myself again just to "fit in" :)

[TheLawliet1]

i need some help you see i like this boy but i think he likes me but i thyink he is shy i need help on making him feel more confedent around me but without over doing it. well im shy as well and this is my first time.

[sasukeandion]

I can relate to that girl, i'm years younger than her, but i'm still very shy. i can't even talk to the guy i like, he prob. doesn't know i'm even alive and it's depressing. I wanted to ask him to homecoming but he's a sophmore and i'm a freshman. I only have one class with him so i don't see him much :( I don't knnow what to do!

[sophiex9]

everyone always tells me being shy is a bad thing :/

[nassianthi]

i am shy and i never had a boyfriend too but I don't think being shy is bad...but other thinks it.....or else why i don't have a boyfriend?

[xRhythm]

Nothing wrong with being shy. Okay who wants to go out? ;)

[brooke8972]

@xRhythm uh... how old are you exactly? :/

[tripvids420]

sweet chair.

[victoria4984]

Thanks a lot for this video I have felt the same way as Jennifer for a long time, but this video made me feel a lot better :)

[MCRThreeDaysGraceFan]

thanx, this helped me alot :)

[DianaGal97]

Im not afraid to show who I am... so this video is not for me. People say I have very high energy and spirit, not just my friends. So when I first talk to a guy I dont get shy I treat him like I would to any other friend I have. Unless he's flirting I think its completely fine to be shy guys dont expect much more.

[EMD1022988]

Im shy and quiet because i dont like ppl yelling at me so im scared to say something but the only good thing about it is that im the best student in my school because instead of talking i only focus on th teacher and my work. but then i act up around my family and close friends so im not always quiet.

[mw2sniper121]

Kathleen there is this guy and He's like my best friend and I really like him but I'm really really really shy. What should I do?

[MitchKid432]

I really don't see why this girl is concerned about being quiet. Many guys (myself included) are particularly attracted to quiet girls. They come across as more mysterious and interesting. They also appear more mature, like they are over hype etc...

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@MitchKid432

I agree Mitch - it's OK to be shy and if we try to change ourselves so that others like us... then we might miss out on the one who liked us just the way we were before we tried to hard to be so different.

Thanks for your insight and perspective!!!

[cndygurl990]

Ive always been shy, and scared of what people think of me.. but now that i watch this, i feel so much better:)

[puppyxdogxwoof]

it's weird how i think im a shy person, but pplz think im outgoing...

[Grapes428]

I am a 24 year old guy who is college educated, can be outgoing, am genuine according to my friends, have a sense of humor, decent looking, and have never had a girlfriend. Everything happens for a reason. A lot of the girls I date or go after just aren't attracted to me.  They like certain things about me and enjoy my company but they never seem to feel the attraction. I always think I'm ugly because of it. I think a lot of single women out there are too picky.

[twifan13]

ive really been shy my whole life and this video has really helped me realize that being shy is not a bad thing so thanks :)

[lauren15951]

This was very inspiring :) I'm 15, and very shy and quiet at first too, and also have never had a boyfriend. But I'm not ashamed of it anymore! That's just who I am and how God created me. I'm going to focus on being more positive and confident about who I am this school year. Thanks so much!

[gloi2]

i love shy girls i hate bitchy girls

[coolinka96]

well I'm not okay with being shy..can this change?pls answer :(

[TwilightHostGirl]

The past couple of years I have been extremely shy! I'm always so worried if I'll say the wrong thing. I think a big reason why I'm so shy is because I'm just afraid of what others will think of me. I know that other people's opinions shouldn't matter when it comes to this, but I take other's opinions on me very personal. I want to stay that sweet, innocent girl, but at the same time, I want to break out of my shell a bit.

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@jjxgirljj

Sweet pea... the energy of desperation is sending out a vibration that will attract more opportunities for desperation right back atcha! Start giving yourself everything that you hope a boyfriend would give to you - love, acceptance, romantic gestures - go out and buy yourself some flowers... get in the feel good place of what it would be like to have a boyfriend and that will become your dominant vibration and that is what you'll attract back to yourself.

[MegaDreamer88]

You're husband sounds like a great guy and btw you truly make a lot of sense. ANd wow you brought god into it which makes this advice even better.

[qreenninja]

Im super shy but I do get mad when people call me shy just like charmz4lyfey.

[HeyHannahProductions]

Wow. This is a little too cliche.

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@HeyHannahProductions

hmmm... honestly I wasn't even sure what you meant by your comment so I actually looked up the word cliche:

a trite, stereotyped expression; a sentence or phrase, usually expressing a popular or common thought or idea, that has lost originality, ingenuity, and impact by long overuse

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

@HeyHannahProductions

part 2:

yeah, so I guess this is cliche... there is nothing original about universal laws of truth - as within so it is without... I guess it's been said a million ways since Jesus, Buddha and all the great masters who have taught the power of thought. I'm just passing on this simple message and trying to help those who may not realize just how powerful they truly are. Peace out HeyHannah - it's all good!

[jenlo21babe]

This is actually kinda freaky because i am like that girl i am the same age and have the same name and also the same problem.....

[nebenanx]

@jenlo21babe This is exactly me too :) just that my name is not jennifer.

[Honeysingh555]

hi i'm Jennifer and i'm 21 years old

[liskeylis]

iw was shy too, but my frendz turned me into some crazy girl;P now i talk to everybody, i say every good thing that is in my mind, and i made a lot of frendz now

[nahual9]

@iDIDurBFlastNIGHT95,

What you accept as true, you believe, and what you believe becomes only a sound perspective of what you've come to accept to believe is true, for you.

However, it doesn't mean that it is true outside of what you believe? And what others tell you is just a view of what they 'THINK' might be percieved as being true, but still might not be true.

Listen for what you already hear God telling you than what society tells you.

What can you begin to believe is true?

[tedoymisojos]

the other women he's been involved with. Somehow my family made me internalize that there was always something wrong with me in comparison to everybody else. Parents have a huge influence on their children. They can make it very hard for their children to accept an see reality as it is and be okay with it to work from there.

[tedoymisojos]

Very good advice. Im not a teenager but this was still very useful. Im engaged to a man I love immensely and the fear of him rejecting me at some point or another for the things that i know are part of who I am Its very present. Like the young girl that sent you the letter I grew up being told that my "shyness", which is an incorrect term because Im not very shy, Im just more serene and silent, was a very bad thing. Many times Ive thought that maybe he doesnt find me special compared to

[peachcubes]

thanks for this video(:

[Shana8708]

T/y you've helped a great deal.

[stoffeboyei]

i'm a guy, and this vid actually speaks to me lol. awkwaaaaaaaaaaaard :$

[LTFallenAngelForever]

@stoffeboyei Hahaha!

[ILuvboybandzz94]

wow this is soo me. Im slim, pretty an 15..but also very shy and dont have any confidence.. =( ..it find it hard to get a boyfriend and also make new friends..ive got a fear of what people think of me,,,all the time..an i find it difficultt to deal with..

[picochuliyo]

I'm shy

[ZOMGAPOTATO]

All my life, I have been not shy, but socially awkward.

:/

[KiaTheRisingStar]

Me too

[dawndawn992]

same with me.

[zannal1316]

im not sure if im shy or socially akward, half of each i guess :P

lol

[Rosazuly7]

@ZOMGAPOTATO Im from Colombia, Can you explain to me that concept? socially awkward.....

[tripvids420]

@ZOMGAPOTATO

hey the best way to fix that is to talk to people, It takes practise. Dont be lazy!when going to the store talk to the cashier. whatever, just talk any chance you get, learn how people respond to you. you will learn what is apropriate to say and what will make people laugh at the right moment.you will eventually be confident in what you say.  My name is lara, for only the price of a pizza i will enlighten more of my lifes knowledge;)

[brooke8972]

@tripvids420 wow thanks for the advice i'm going to try that... ;)

[4evaAShygurl]

@ZOMGAPOTATO Me too :/

[1yo2many]

@ZOMGAPOTATO I think I'm shy because I'm socially awkward... I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing...

[swimbeauty101]

@ZOMGAPOTATO got that right



[craziangel1]

yea umm this is the total oppsoite from me.Soo it didnt really help ima big mouth,wild and crazy teen chick.i cant really change or tone it down because ive tried that before and everyone freaks out and thinks somethings wrong.Which of course its not but ever since like 2nd grade that was my repuation that was who i was.Then eventually i freak out on them cuz they wont stop asking me am i ok?and im back to my normal self.Soo can you help me?please

[hermione1995990]

i have a question im fourteen and have never had a boy freind im really pretty but i think that guys think im ugly because im fat how do i get a boyfreind

?

[anya497]

ey. my name is amber and i am fat but i am very pretty. if you will leave me a comment on my channel about your problem, i can help you out even more. dont be sy, leave a comment please. i can help you get a boyfriend. trust me.bye bye. also i am fourteen too.

[rickgut2004]

It's really sad, but guys notice a girls looks mostly. Not a lot of guys see an over weight girl and say wow, I wish I had her.. It's sad but it's the truth. You want a guy? Get skinny and I promise you'll have guys all around you..

[deltaboy767]

The old saying goes, you are what you speak. So that means that YOU are shallow like the others out there. Ano NO that is not HOW it is, that is the way society has made it to be, we dont have to follow the crowd, and be like others do we? Nope we dont. We can be unique and still be liked and stand out more.

[pinkcoach182]

i like your advice

and also i'm the

same way. my shyness is akward and i have little friends and would like to experience life a little more but since i heard your advice i going to practice not letting anyone get to me and just be myself and get out of my shell!

thank you!

[husshed]

I feel the exact same way!

[rickgut2004]

If you want a boyfriend, look attractive! That's the main thing that guys look for! I'm a guy and I'm not proud to say that hotness is our #1 goal in a mate, but that is the facts..

[xXGreyDazeXx]

Do you think womans choose better? xD

[mali1893]

last year (my 10th) I used to be shy and quiet, but it wasn't me (i'm not a partty kind of girl, but i love joke arround with friends), it was because I had a bad relationship, and for some reason i hated everyone, parties, i hated myself, my life, I even got all paranoid thinking that everyone hated me, and talk about me, but over the summer i decided to forget about the guy who hurted me the way he did. I'm still single, but I have new friends, and school is better, and fun.

[AdVikesAd]

I really don't have a clue.

haha

[krazywayz100]

omg i love your videos it helps soo much but i nevr kissed a guy before and im 15 and im really shy and im nervous to kiss my boy friend so what do i dont want to look like i dont know how to kiss and i dont want to look stupid helppp!!!!!!!

[AdVikesAd]

From a guys perspective, probably not. Most (but not all) guys are very shy, and are intimidated by girls. I'm sorry, but you will probably have to ask him out. Because most guys are just too shy to do it.

[pokythecat5]

im so quiet and shy that i can not talk for a whole day at school and im only 13 when ever i have to talk in front of the class i talk fast and mess up and my crush thinks its cute i hope he likes me for that :)

[pikopikochuu]

thanks so much!!

everyone always criticizes me for it, but you know what? i'm going to tell them to piss off because this is who i am!

[deb9891]

I am actually the same way. Never had a boyfriend, quiet, shy, 20 years old. Its been something on my mind only for the past year, but i was actually beginning to think the same way. So this helps. Thanks a bunch :)

[HerSecretDiary]

you have great advice :]]

I'm really shy and I thought it was a bad thing too...I subbed by the way :]]

way better than oprah :)

[im2sexyforyou]

Quiet and shy girls are irresistable to me.

When they're quiet and shy, they make me want to get to know them so much more.

I actually feel so much for a girl right now and i've only spoke 5 sentences w/ her in the past 3 years

[1yo2many]

@im2sexyforyou I see what you mean. If a person, an attention whore, is always yelling out what he or she likes, everything about themselves... what's the point of dating that person if they're always talking about themselves? With a shy person, you always learn more and more about them, and it just progresses from there. Thanks for posting, as a shy girl myself, I feel insecure sometimes, but those kind of comments always make me feel better :)

[chasleshea92]

OMG PLEASE WRITE A BOOK so i can buy it your like 10 times better than oprah

[PenelopeAndYou]

thank you so much :) you're an angel :)

[Aspenfash899]

yeah im very shy in akward thats why i been single all my life im 18 =[

[Co8o]

Same here, accept i'm 15 and a guy...

[bee14em]

i'm really shy, so thanks for your advice

it helped (:

[charmz4Lyfey]

i'm shy too, and i always get really pissed when anyone calls me shy

[goddess002]

i used to suffer from shyness as a teen. I used to be the quiet girl with not many friends & no confidence. I wasn't that much liked by guys either. I can say that i'm 22 now with so much more confidence & self-love. Things really do get better when u value who u are as person.  When u stop monitoring ur every move & just be YOU, thats when u will attract guys! Besides, a little shyness is always cute!

[spunkyspam]

cont'd...........

Could you give some remedies on the first step: how to truly love yourself? How to really take that quiet time to yourself and express that love and really use it to believe in what you think is what you are devoid of any self consciousness.

[spunkyspam]

Kathleen, does that always work in context meaning we should settle with the one who is a complete contrast to who we are? That opposites attract? Seeing as you're more of an outgoing soul, you'll be connected to one who's more introverted/ good listener etc? So if i'm shy, does that mean my girlfriend/boyfriend has to be the louder one, that two quiet souls will not operate and become destructive?

I love your advice.

[songbird3171993]

i'm shy too, and i always get really pissed when anyone calls me shy. this really helped me.

[Serubis]

Asome 5 *

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

Dear KrazyKelsey - I'm sorry this happened to you. But there is absolutely NOTHING you can do about it and to take it personally only hurts YOU. There is a quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estes that says "If you live your life trying to please others, half will like you and half won't... but if you live according to your own truth - half will like you and half won't." It's just a fact that no everyone is going to like us. And hard as it might be, we need to just accept it and let it go.

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

There is another expression that says "hurt people hurt people" and I believe that to be true. That guy was really hurtful but I'm guessing that somebody hurt him and he's just trying to feel powerful by making someone else feel bad. Delete the email from your computer, and then go into your mind and delete it from there too. Only you have the power to change your life by changing your thoughts... and if you let him stay in your head - then that's your fault. Say a prayer for him and let it go.

[creameggxx]

i am 13 and never had a boyfriend, i feel really left out already :O .... if i hadnt seen this video and others... god knows how long i would of been single for :( ..

[miession]

I´m 17 and never had a boyfriend -.-

Maby it´s because I´m too boy-like ôO but I´m not going to change :P

[kawoss]

me to...bever had one eather and im 17 xD

but its ok :D

[terrific012]

ppl think im fridged but im not really i m just shy n also wheneva i go out with some 1 every one crouds around me wat shell i do?

[ri0twh0r3]

you make some really good points, & I have the same type of swing chair (:

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

Huh? Don't have a man? I've been happily married to my soul mate for twenty five years. We met in junior high school, but didn't reconnect until after college. And if you only knew how much I know about looking for love in all the wrong places....

My dad died when I was ten, then my mother died when I was 16 and my teen years were horrific. If I can spare one girl from all that pain - it will be worth it.

[toogood03]

he maybe got hurt when you said "..but find it a bit creepy that you're on a channel for teen girls" haha!anyways, I really love watching your videos. I just want to cry it out. I am working with myself by creating a 2 xanga accounts. one is public one is private. Private one is like my journal. Thank you very very much. You and your videos help =)

[superdodola]

wow...what you just said was great!

you are soooo.....actually I don't know...I'm speachless....you are just more than great!

[copnite12342]

@KathleenHassanDotCom be strong.

[omhsarah]

Come on, I'm 25 and never had a b/f! LOL!

[Candsy]

im shy :( i need to be more confident.i agree that thats who i am, but theres all these girls in my school who are confident and they all have so many friends & the boys talk to them and i cant speak up like when we are put into groups or somthing i am very quiet and im too self confident to say barely anything. :[

[1yo2many]

@Candsy That's exactly how I am...

[KathleenHassanDotCom]

MrNiceGuy131... I agree, but find it a bit creepy that you're on a channel for teen girls. And dropping the f-bomb no less... not cool. I thought about blocking you, but your message is right on.

[kottonkandyx]

yep, im quiet and shy too, I worry that people think im arrogant and rude because of it.

[Candsy]

yeah me too.

[Victorian9322]

I have this EXACT problem! Thanks so much!

[rem45acp]

excellent video, i'm a firm believer in that a woman should be able to ask the first date and ask for a number first, it works just as well

[gotricecakesgurl]

thank you so much for this! i am in the same situation right now...you inspire me! :]