I'm back!

[itsjessina]

I need your opinion I'm gonna be 18 this year And there is the girl that is 26 that likes me I don't no what to do I think ppl would look at me word cause she older but she looks young it's hard to explain but I really like her too..I don't kno what to do

[tegansararock007]

i love how i get the ''shane-like'' thing. haha

and i loved how in the related videos there is a Tegan and Sara video.. its awesome.. imagine a video with them and the whole beaverbunch including maryb :) that would be just awesome! haha ... well, a girl can dream right? ;)

[1nWaves]

I love these videos, youre so passionate its awesome. thanks a lot!

[lightupto9]

Good Speech!

I replay and replay and listen to you because i need advice to myself, little burn out and seeking the way to heal. Anyways, its a great video!

[sarahhification]

um im straight but i think your realllyy cute..

[NowhereNomad]

awesome advice on flinfing i used to do that at first too and your completely right...im now commonly known as a player and thats not what i did but thats how it looks and its a really hard reputation to get away from no matter how many years its been or where you move to.

[NowhereNomad]

you rock! your take on last weeks topic wasnt directly connected to a haha "fling" i have going right now that id like to be more serious so yea thanx man.

Lane

[Glosh28]

This advice is gold!

[adri92239]

Haha Shane-like. ^_^ I love how I get that.

[jessiono]

Hey, you're cute. Just sayin'

[overainbows]

Even when I forced myself to be in a relationship, I never got emotionally involved. You're so right, it's so difficult to people not to attach to you! Nowadays I have 1 night stands mostly, because I don't wanna hurt anyone like I did in the past and also I don't wanna force myself to do something that doesn't come from my heart like I did before. But then, there's the comunity, although I don't share much of my whereabouts with friends to avoid the negative comments.

[vemisucipto]

you look more beautiful if you take of the google

[henrike87]

I always used to be the fling-person as well. Now I actually started dating this super cute girl and I think I might be falling in love. I'm really excited about it. She makes me nervous as hell. Yay! :D

[PosinGirl666]

I sit in my car/outside all the time and blog. haha.

[NoSpokenWordsHere]

Jess, your hair grows FAST!

[Minireb123]

loll yeah you're right about how people perceive girls who have a lot of "flings", guys on the other hand? Yeah, double standards are stupid.

Oh and your hair is getting so long! hahah it's awesome

[riomeraz]

is she wearing a do-rag?

[leolava]

Welcome back.

[Phonme]

Thank you so much for your video! Great advice and I can totally relate to the topic. Hope you and Mary had a good time in Conneticut :)

[Paraply1990]

Love your video! Amazing as always. No worries about last week - everyone needs a vacation once in a while and I'm just so greatfull that you guys take the time to make these videos every week - means the world! :)

[darbishardin]

Your hair is getting so long! Wow it's insane hehe

[lindseyreviews]

Hope you and mary had fun in connecticut! We missed you. anyway, you're good with advice, jess. you should be a therapist.

[16693hannah]

im with you on it being hard to not get too attached and having to 'duck out' when the other person gets too attached

being young, i think its best to just relax and date and just have fun, not have flings but just have fun and chill out basically

tbh i think its best to wait before you get into a serious relationship or at least until your sure your ready and can handle it

great video and awesome advice as always Jess :)

[dARKkme]

what really scare is to be the only one of the two feeling like that :S

[KimmyArmani]

sexy back jess!! hMMm im dating 3 girls at the same time... is that ok?? lolz.. as long as i dont get fucked up....??

[altersahara]

lool haha your comment made me lol . wow three girls at the same time ... as long as you remember their names and don't accidently call them by another name. =P

[KimmyArmani]

yeahh fellah, well im good about remembering names so i guess it's not gonna be a problem... :D but it's a bit difficult in arranging schedules for a date.

[CabbageTa13]

If they are aware of it, and accepting of it then it's okay, but don't go behind their backs...

[KimmyArmani]

yeahhh but the thing is they don't know.. well im actually planning to do so, and to be honest about it.. hmmm i think im gonna be so dead meat....

[EmmaDelamare]

I thought the problem with Shane was she was all to easy to get to know :)

[amandapanda32092]

o: you took your gauges out, how come? :P

[SuperRadical2]

I saw this topic earlier in the week and I was like meh, then today i found myself in this exact situation and I was like "must... watch... beaver... videos!"

[buckiemohawk]

I call it the Shane/Brian KInney syndrome. Everyone wants to be them or thinks there the pedastal when in real life nobody really likes a Shane too much and you tend to stay away

[Minireb123]

haha wow I never though about it that way but you're absolutely right.

Still, some days I want to be a Shane xD

[rescuecollie1]

You guys give the best advice ever! :D

Maybe I'll get the guts to actually ask out the girl I like... haha wish me luck

Anyway thanks so much :)

[Javacity]

"anything having to do with anybody you're attracted to is terrifying"

very true and for me also depressing every time i like someone they're interested in someone else i get so scared when i like someone cuz of that and...then have to watch as they pursue other ppl...awesome.

[lunargirlxx]

familiar situation... :P besides being terrified you don't get the good stuff out of it that would make up for the fear, you get a cloud of despair and depressing feelings. but honestly i think everyone has been there too. but yeah, somehow it can seem that it happens to you more often than others.

[razotan]

Great advice, thanks alot!

[AHippieKid]

i totally did the coffee shop first date thing.

[Justagirl551]

your videos always help me so much. thank you <3

[viciousandchaotic]

good to see you back jess! wise as always, and dude is your hair getting long!

[alyssa1411]

I want to see your hair without the hat.

[29021a]

I envy your wisdom.

[AmandaJuicebox]

dude since when do you have long hair?

[AHippieKid]

her hair is getting so long!

[lillerbee77]

yay! you've returned :)

[Sugarcane90]

I look completely straight..  how can I even get a girl to notice me, it's sad and I won't find someone ='[

[theGhostflowers]

@Sugarcane90

Don't worry there's always someone out there for everyone!!haha

[Paraply1990]

I personally like straight-looking girls, and I'm sure lots of others do to :) Don't worry so much, but get involved in the community, be out to friends and family if possible and then you will probably meet someone through someone.. but please don't change your looks or personality just cause you like girls.. Just wear a rainbow bracelet or something :b .. Best of luck to you!

[babyteethxo]

samesies, i'm kind of a girly-girl and alot of people are surprised when i tell them i'm gay.

but like Paraply1990 said, wear something rainbow! i had an old rainbow pin lying around and since i've been wearing it ive been gettin more looks lol.

but i feel you, maybe try going to a well-known "gay hangout" in your area or something? wish you well :D

[backinyourhead7890]

jess your hair! its.....LONG and amazing. LOVE it

[thevirginqueen1]

yay jess! you playa. missed you last week. good advice just do it like nike : )

[thebitchesofliving]

you are so beautiful i can't stand it <333333

[banditluva]

i missed you so much!!!! glad you're back. put up pics from connecticut!!

[TripnSlide]

Looking gorgeous-ly great.lol ha, i think I just made up a word.

Great to have you back! Love the hat ps.

[imagurlinlove]

holy hairdo!! looks good Jess! I appreciate you wearing a long sleeve, I know you don't get much of a winter, but I do and seeing you in a cut-off would make me dread the next 3 months even more.

[twin7819]

I missed you!

[emmerised]

Welcome back! Hope your vacay was swell!

[123MikeyGo]

Yay You're Back

We missed you!

xoxo

Mikey :]

[ateary]

little buddha

[technicolor444]

yayy i got really excited when i saw your video was up, jess. glad to see that you're back

[trueskiller]

i think I was the 25th to comment.

[voulezvous88]

yay jess you're back! glad to see ya :)

[tylertastic]

First hopefully