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  • I love how I watch a video with an intelligent, insightful, cool and collected guy who seems to be a real professional and gentleman. And then I scroll down the comments and find out the views are loaded with IDIOTS who don't seem to be taking any of his amazing advice into account.

  • okay time to go find a girl reading a psychology book.

  • I went to Whatever State University also! What are the odds.

  • I would say " Tell me what kind of weather do you prefer and I'll order it for you " :)

  • Why the hell are you soo obsessed with physcology?!!

  • you know this is very true...its kind of like starting a conversation,but its giving her a chance to talk to you more than you would...better than gettind a "yeah" "no" or those type of short answers from her...another way that she might think that yu are REALLY interested in her(the bad way) GREAT VID

  • what if she says, "would you shut the fuck up, nigger?"

  • @JoeCaliforniah then u hav bigger issues bro lol

  • GIRL: I am taking english literature, math +++

    BOY: okay you are too smart for me.

  • agreed!!! love the video!

  • i dare you bitch, say "oh" one more time...

  • i'm afraid to ask more questions cuz they don't even ask me back....its so awkward to ask over and over again while they are not even interested to ask you back...

    better not to ask anymore and forget her..

  • this guys strategies are made for high schoolers who are always working those witty pickup lines...

  • Wow u are very fucking stupid:D

  • my friend u became a part in my life with your website and your videos

  • basically what hes saying is don't ask her question after question, ask questions but add in statements and some stories and interesting things to say

  • nice, real nice boring small talk! if I didnt know from the beginning that you say you shouldnt talk like this, then I would wath an other video

  • @kingkingf

    Ahhhh what profound words you speak - replete with intelligence my friend. Alternatively, you could have said "If I had the sound off, I might have thought you were talking about the painting on the wall or your sweater". Pearls of wisdom! >:(

  • or you walk up and flip your dick right on the book, in fornt of everyone in the coffe shop.... jk that will proably just get you arrested.....

  • that response sounds boring sorry bro

  • what do i do when i just dont care what she has to say ?i go up to her "o that looks like a heavy read" and all i hear is charly browns teacher "blahhh blaahh blaaah blaaah blaahhh just broke up with my boyfriend blah blah blahh blahhh blahh" and all i can think about is dammm thats a sexy mouth! so after shes done cherping im like danggg this girl is going to b a psycologist??? errrrrr "wanna hang out some time" rofl

  • you are the best bro, I was able to use your advise and landed a number recently

  • Unfortunately I've never had met such a polit guy like you. I'm a German girl, and anyway it seems to me it's not that easy to find them in America either. Most Guys are still retarded stone Age man as you can see here at some comments.It's sad there aren't unextinct

  • @desolina1000 The word is EXTINCT you, you, that's what you are!!

  • It easy for this guy to score pussy with a killer accent that like that!!!

  • dont ever be serious when you speak to girl... trust me this works

  • I would definitely suggest not bringing up any argumentative or emotional related subjects.

    That about covers everything,The end! Unless your prepared armageddon.

  • Maybe cuz I smoked this fat joint before watching this, but he reminds me of Borat a little bit.

  • Are you supposed to say "Oh" everytime in response?=)

    Just kdding

    Just sounds funny

    Great work!

  • Without confidence and a positive self image no guy will be successful picking up women

  • "show us where ya piss from" is always a winner

  • Take a pill of Ecstasy. Talk to the girl you like. Is is absolutely and nearly always a win in my book.

  • @3.44 ..that is wht all guys luck..lls

  • best dating advice I ever heard: "Pretend she's your retarded cousin's pesky little sister who flunked out of high school." Even though it isn't true, it'll give your mind a different perspective on how to psychologically approach the date. It takes away her edge that you've built up in your conciousness. It helps you relax a little, then you can start forming thoughts and start saying whatever you want, without fear of her reaction.

  • Always open up with "Oh" lol.

  • "do you get cold easily?" this video is ridculous! where was the flirting in any of those conversations!? they were all super deep. The girl will feel like she just got out of class after talking to u.

  • @begerp not really. It good to be light and flirty with a girl. But you cant be that way all the time. You need to have a deep conversation.

  • Man, I'm sure that if your girfriend sees this you're dead meat! 

  • HOLY!!!dejavu.................­...

  • She might tell you to piss off as she's studying for her exams.

  • Dude... Your dating tips are kinda lacking substance. You are a good looking dude(no homo) and you have a nice Israeli sounding accent...You probably do better because of your natural endowments and courage then what your actual strategy is.

  • If I was the girl with the book, I would puke to the cheezyness of the second guy of your 'good' example.

  • It looks like it going to rain.... what you doing this weekend? Wanna Date?

    I aggree you have a small window to get to a point in how to meet her again. Easiest way is to just come out and say you find her attractive and is she single?

    If the answer is yes then just ask for her number and say that you will call her and lets get to know each other over sushi or something... Then leave.But call her the next day... dont wait to long.

  • Yes, this "why do you think.... this happens..." Seinfeld's style of conversation, is simply great.

  • I dunno about the "do you get cold easily?" question, but the rest of it seems pretty helpful

  • ...do you really have to say "oh" so many times?

  • @arkady39 ? each line you say... you say "ohh" before the line ? are we suppose to say "ohh" so we dont sound like we are talking to our boss or teacher ? serious question :)

  • If you're borat...just makes sure you have a pack of Rohipnol with you,and you'll get the result you desire!

  • Jackpot!

    As long as I spend the next few weeks searching coffee shops for girls reading huge books, I will have a wife in no time!

  • What if the girl at the coffeshop said MIND YOUR OWN BUISNESS dude i want to study!! Hahah OWNED!!

  • @6191440 What if the girl at the coffeshop said MIND YOUR OWN BUISNESS dude i want to study!! Hahah OWNED!! Then you say:

    "No need to be so rude about it, geez why study if you'll still act like an ignorant then?" - it should work if you say it loud enough for a third party to listen to you. That way she becomes the "bitch" and will probably proceed to:

    a) try to apologise

    b) make a bigger fool out of herself

  • deep

  • Hey fellas don't listen to this corny dude in this video, you'll never get the pussy.

  • oh, psychology? that's interesting, NOT

  • oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

  • what works for me is go up to hot babe and be like " hey nice ass i wanna stick it in your pooper!" WORKS! but im from kentucky....

  • @JSauer89 and after that, you get a big kick in the groin... yes, so much for trying

  • wow, amazing guy he is! why don't we meet this kinda guy nowadays, but weird people. Luckily, I'm a talker.

  • r u a player o.0?

  • quick tip: 4 your approach dont go talking about u u u

  • @urielisag yea its not the best thing to do actually talk about her is the best way to keep the conversation going

  • What I really wanted to ask her was: what are you doing today's evening? Do you wanna maybe go get a cup of coffee sometime somewhere? Do you have plans for the weekend? Are you meeting anyone at the moment? Do you like sushi? I was thinking all those things but couldn't find a a good connective phrase or a sentence to link a Mardi Gra parade with going out together later... Am I just not a social person or something? It seems that to some people it just comes naturally, doesn't it? Please help.

  • @nemozetbit

    Hey man, I found the best thing to do is to not think about the 'what ifs'.

    Apply a 3 second rule, if u plan to say or do something, do it within 3 seconds before you back out. If you feel you have said or done something awkward, wait for her reaction first before getting embarrased and/or excusing yourself. Don't take it so seriously, if she makes fun of you just laugh it off. Chances are she could be flirting.

  • @nemozetbit Do you just start throwing in some questions one after another because you NEED to or do you wait for the response and maybe ponder it for a bit and then state your opinion of it, maybe quote a line from a movie to make it a more interesting response? 'Cause if you were to plan ahead what kinds of questions you'd be asking, you might as well be interviewing that person about their job/profession. Sometimes you don't need to ask too many questions in order to get a conversation going.

  • Later an amazing thing happened... I met the same girl at the same supermarket AGAIN! I was happy but at the same time very scared. I thought of million things at the same time while approaching her. I started a conversation very confident and well we talked about a parade in the city we had some time recently. I liked and enjoyed our small talk but it didn't lead anywhere. What I really wanted to ask her wasn't the things we were talking about...

  • I met a pretty girl at a supermarket once... we made an eye contact and smaled at each other. She looked interested. I started a conversation on some shitty topic and couldn't develop it well. I ended up saying I have something to do elsewhere to wrap it up somehow so it won't go to a silent stupor. I hated myself later for not being able to present myself better and to go further in getting to know each other. I don't get to meet gurls that cute that often.

  • you know.. you just gave me a pick up line to try out. I just have to go out looking for girls in a coffe shops with psycology books haha ))) how many girls like that there are I wonder. But honestly I find it hard to find common ground with random girls pretty fast. I may start well but then it goes nowhere just like you said.

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx GTA4 LOL

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @lena1492v hahahahahahahahahahahahahaa

  • yeah if she starts answering to all that, ill probably fall asleep

    HAHAHAH 

  • and what if she is only walking with a friend?How I can start a conversation with her??

  • do you get cold easy Rofl

  • He's cuuttte <3

  • it was painful to hear you ask the questions to yourself lol

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  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx hahahhhaha niko!

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx

    LOL exactly!!!

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx AND when my drunk irish friend packie calls me in the middle of a conversation to go to a strip club :D

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx hahah lol sounds like your talking about gta 4

  • The earlier conversation is indeed very boring. I would add in: Why you wanna study human behavior? Stop studying theory and study me...

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  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx

    GTA :P

  • i jus pull my dick out (in my joker voice) wait till they get a load of me lol

  • so basically its...

    STEP 1: walk into a coffee shop

    STEP 2: approach chick with big book ( as long as its not the bible, you will see why)

    STEP 3: Say DAAYYYUUMMM GUUH... daz a big azz book.. is you tryina use it for a steppin stool or read it?

    STEP 4: wait for cute smile....

    STEP 5: wait.....

    STEP 6: ask if she wants to make out, have sex, play xbox, or watch sportscenter

    STEP 7: Wait for YES.. if she says no then...

    STEP 8: Walk away QUICKLY because it simply WASNT meant to be..

  • @LionLoxx yea i like to be very direct as well. Its the best approach!

  • @LionLoxx Thats the funniest thing i've ever seen LOL

  • @LionLoxx no offense but that's just typical and BORING.

    after step 2, why not say "wow, that book could take me at least a month to finish. what is it about?" And from there, the conversation could go anywhere if you just keep adding your own ideas to whatever topic is being discussed. I think it would definitely keep the conversation going when you state your own opinions (just as long as its not rude) in relation to the topic and maybe drift off to something random like... the weather.

  • @QuoGirl I think LionLoxx was just making fun of it lol I laughed so hard haha

  • @LionLoxx OMG DUDE U HAVE NO FANTASY. PEOPLE PICK UP LINES DONT WORK. SHE WILL LOOK AT YOU LIKE A FREAK. STOP THINKING WHAT TO SAY NEXT OR HOW TO START A CONVERSATION INSTEAD LEARN TO BE AS U DONT GIVE A FUCK IMAGINE HER BEEN FAT WHATEVER HELP FACT IS THE MORE REALXED U ARE THE MIORE THOUGHTS U WILL HAVE IN UR HEAD eXAMPLE U ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO TALK TO UR FRIEND COUSE U ARE RELAXED JUST SAY HEY HOW R U THINK U ARE QUTE SO DECIDED TO COME BY SAY HI WHAT UR NAME IF U DO IT FRIENDLY WORKS

  • @LionLoxx lol fucking genius...it works

  • i jus go OHHHHHHHHH WHOS GOTA BIG DICK WHOS GOTTA BIG COK

  • a heavy read?

  • i get cold easily

  • See a target reading a big book.

    PUA: That's a big book for a little girl. Good thing you have been using that to beat off all the weak ass guys waiting for me to show up. You can take a break book worm now I'm here (sit down right next to her - lean back) The real physiology (noticed it during approach) lesson is about to start (playful smile direct eye contact till she looks away)

  • Instead quoting Freud is a good way to be attractive :P

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx HAHA my thoughts exactly. GTA!!

  • you tube sucks at helping...

  • can your nips cut glass

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx

    HAhahaha

  • The second guy scenario would come across as to strong for an opener. Its too long, if you broke that up and fed the conversation with it. It would be more natural and fluid.

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx hahahaha

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx AHAHAHHAHAHHAHHA

  • its not about WHAT, its all about WHY... remember this words... :D

    PEACE

  • "Do you get cold easily?"

  • Sometimes the woman (or man) just fucking sucks and they have no depth. Once I express "depth" in a subject and they become clueless will automatically make me turn off my conversation. Especially when I figure out that they have no interest in education, lack ambitions, and are working at a dead end job. Working at a dead-end job isn't the problem, but working at a dead-end job with no alternative options and ambitions in store is a huge problem with the person someone would want to be with.

  • I agree a lot with much is said here. After opening up, don't ask question after question, like an interrogation, but try to spend some time conversing back and forth on a single topic.

    On the other hand delving so deeply and specifically into a topic may be a bit too much IMO. Try to keep the conversation light, and don't be afraid to over exaggerate a bit and tease her; in this case, about reading such a heavy book.

  • hahaha your first conversation with yourself was funny

  • you are the real love guru!!! but i have a problem im only 11 im in middle school and i pretty sure this girl likes me and im crazy for her but i dont know how to ask her to be my girlfreind......plz reply plz

  • @MegaMoogleMan , give me ur email ill explain for u :)

  • GENIUS!!!!!

  • @Dashwood

    I think Arkady's point is ask more interesting, opinion-based questions instead of boring, factual-based questions. Plus, you come across as a more thoughtful and intelligent person by making the conversation more challenging. That, in a way, is flirtatious enough.  You don't have to go straight to talking about raunchy things and being nasty.

  • shes hot- yet

    YouTube's defo not great for videos of hot girls. check out Rudey tube - awesome short videos

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx LOOOOOL

  • Ask open ended questions (what do you think about ____) as opposed to closed questions (do you like ____). Never ask a yes/no question or a question with a specific answer.

  • i love random convos! guys should totally do that more! sheesh

  • "Why is it that psychology is not a mandatory subject in our high schools and colleges?" - yep, it's that kind of flirtatious gold has got me laid more than a few times.

    C'mon Arkady - your advice is usually pretty sound and helpful!

    Good work on the other clips, btw.

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  • i tried this but the girl i like gets shy after 2 minutes. what does that mean?

  • hahahahahhaa

  • man, you have some great tips. Thanx, take care!

  • oh, i'd like to take you to my place for some hot coffee...

  • ... To grab you because you steal their men.

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!

  • great advice

  • lol what my friend does if your at a party is that you bump into her and he says Hey! arent you [Insert name that is not hers]. she should say no then you shake her hand and introduce yourself. then you start it off from there

  • Yeah, NEVER ask about her plans. NEVER! Also, never discuss work, family, or politics with a woman you've just met. Besides being boring, you have a greater chance of saying something stupid or dumb. Have fun with a girl--not tell her about your jerk boss and your crappy job. NEVER!

  • Are we supposed to start every sentence whit "Oh..."?!

    Just kidding...

  • Whoa whoa whoa - never ASK if she has plans for the weekend!! Never ASK! - IF she has plans! Never make her assume a date BEFORE you get her info, and make sure it doesn't slip out before you meet up with her - because you asked her to meet you at a certain place you were going to go anyway while you were on the phone with her! Very good tips, but do not lead her into thinking "OMG this guy is already trying to plan some sort of future (interaction) with me?

  • @DjKDM7000 ..Now, If SHE says "what are you doing tomorrow" or "what are you doing today...etc" at any time during a conversation, you say "well what did you have in mind?" It's not only funny, but indirectly implies that you MIGHT want to get together with her, and best of all, most likely any answer she gives will fall right into play and lead to more teasing and future interaction planning at the same time! Never ask her if she has plans, unless your plan is to be friends with her.

  • @DjKDM7000 Also, always go out ASSUMING that you will have at least one successful conversation, and always have a second place to go (with her) in mind - a different environment. If you immediately turn it into a date, even if you don't get her number or it doesn't work out, at least you will not only conserve time and move right on to the next, but you can call it a success because after all you did go out with her! Always know what you are doing, where you are going, and why.

  • this guy is god lol.

  • haha dont worry he will die soon.

  • Unless I let Patrick's dumb ass sister who never lets me get any pussy die.

  • Respect bro

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx

    Cousinn! We should get drunk together..

  • Sorry Roman I'm a little busy driving this dump truck full of explosives at the moment I don't think getting drunk is a good idea.

  • @xXSadSnowflakeXx

    GTA iv FTW!!!

  • @shaneanderson1988

    wooty mc woot woot.

  • maybe you should go another time

  • LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • Ok - I gotta say -

    You are cool!

    ( :

    fgb

  • @hyperwarrior lol kk

  • yea nowhere is a pretty bad direction, wat id do after she says shes a full time student you kan possibly say 'wud that leave anytime for us to _____? just away to get out of a 'crash and burn situation' confidence and sharpness can go along way think kwik

  • Some OR Most Girls Think Random Is Freaky...

    What if she said your asking too many questions...what if she doing nothing and if she is im stuck with random ideas again which will be questioing and freaky...its a wired thing...

  • @Terriost124 Go get some rest, you're stressing too much...What if, what if, you keep your cool...xD

  • its desmound. or altair.

  • when im talking to a girl it always goes smooth for the first while , then its like i run out of things to say,  any advice

  • haha fucking best

  • lol

  • haha so clichè you probably dont even mean it makes me sick when people got no spirt when they ask these thinks

  • Seems like she got bored. I can understand that, actually. I have to say though, once I talked about lion mating practices to a girl.... LOL. I made a name for myself after that day XD

  • i love you

    still you have to keep talking about the weather AFTER she has shown massive disinterest and turned away

  • looooool, he said to be real. thats real

  • .....OH, DO you like cock?

  • buhhahaha

  • @darpachief HAHAHAHAHA F-ING NICE ONE!! LOL

  • @darpachief Hhahahahaha

  • @darpachief oh yes,in fact i have one too..