I've Been Trying To Get Over You

[murph20051]

I can relate to this song alot... I was not married but was with my girlfriend for 7 years and engaged for 9 months... We still love one another but are just friends now... I hope that will change later but thats something we never know... It was just as hard when she took that engagement as it would have been if we were married... I miss and Love you Kayla... we will always be friends... IT'LL TAKE DYING TO GET IT DONE...

[texannkansas]

He can't seem to go forward and forgive me--I've tried going forward, but can't seem to do so. I will miss him immensely

[MysteriousPsychic]

The painfull memories of my most recent relationship lingers throughout my head constantly. We went out a month but it seemed like forever. I have spent more time and created 100 times more memories with her then all of my other exs combined. She used me and flurted with other guys alot and she said things that got me mad and i said i wanted to kill that guy she recently was all over and then she turned around got me suspended from school for a week if not longer, plus i have to go to court.

[1213grandjeep]

Such an incredibly beautiful and sad song. Note the black and white video. This was well planned for the song.

[1213grandjeep]

Such an incredibly beautiful and sad song.

[TheeZulu]

Happy Birthday Pamela...I miss you.

[tigerkitti]

I took off the ring...and walked away. We stayed friends but neither of us ever found anything better. Do your best to reconnect with that one that loves you, or you could be like me....I buried the man that chose to love only me this past week. I will forever have to live with the realization that all the reasons in the world for being apart, could never have outweighed the reasons I should have stayed. It took his dying to get it done. :-( 

[1977CaperGuy]

three months, and it just keeps getting worse rather than better, the bridge is calling louder all the time



[XximsuchanidiotXx]

Love hurts, Its hard to maintain and diffcult to keep alive. Its true that u don't know what you have until its gone. I'll never love another like him, and I know that nw he deserves better than me.. I broke his heart.. I need him to be healed.. I want to be the one to heal it.

[dandman1ify]

maybe you two need to get together

[lonelyangel1966]

I absolutely love this song, makes me want to cry everytime I hear it. I know exactly what its like to love and to not be loved in return

[lonelyangel1966]

I hear you!

[1234556684]

meaning ful to me...

[TombstoneInc]

i dont understand how you can be with someone for 7 years have a child, and then one day up and leave, how can you just turn off love, how can you just drop feelings that fast, im a man and i cant get over it that fast maybe if it was only for a few months but 7 YEARS, how in the hell can women get over men so fast, i just dont understand life and love, its such a pain, id rather be alone forever then to deal with a breakup again, it still hurts after a year and will always

[narxstephanie]

me to i done every thing for him to show how much i love him that was wrong i heard you should never do more for a man then they do for you it should be equal

men are big baby they think women are put on this earth to cater all there needs what about women needs they have needs to

[narxstephanie]

me to i done every thing for him to show how much i love him that was wrong i heard you should never do more for a man then they do for you it should be equal

[narxstephanie]

me to i down every thing for him to show how much i love him that was wrong i heard you should never do more for a man then they do for you it should be equal

[logtech663]

great song

[24Monira]

how true is this song??? does it real take dying to get over someone? Yes just like me i dont seem to get over you Ian C

[Marybass09]

You could have given me a million reasons why But it wouldn't change a thing you said it all when you said goodbye you took off your wedding ring CHORUS: I've been tryin' to get over you I've been spending time alone I've been tryin' to get over you It'll take dyin' to get it done All my friends keep tryin' to fix me up They say I need somebody new When it comes to love I've all but given up Cause life don't mean nothin' without you CHO x 2 It'll take dyin' to get it done

[timmit2002]

This song says my life story... I've told the woman of my dreams how i feel, but she still looks at me as a friend. Right now I would rather have her in my life as a friend than not at all. But I still can't do anything without trying to include her, and her daughter; whom I also love with all my heart.

[uncletomthall]

I've been trying to get over a girl since 1994. But like this song says, I think only dying will get me over her.

[lazygirl0923]

me and my exboyfriend on and off pass years and i tries to move my life date other guy and something always draw back to him and my friends thinks i need to get him out my life for good and there of him always draw to him and me and him have four kids together and there something about him always him back into my life

[keeganpitts]

story of my fucked up life.

[KurtBuschRules2]

This Reminds Me of Two Of My Ultimate Loves: One, My Ex Sara. I Dated Her for 4 Months off-and-on, from like April '08 to August '08. I've Never Loved Anybody More Than Sara. Next Comes Amanda, The Girl I Was In Love with For 3 Years. I've Always Asked Her If She Wanted To Give Me A Chance. Problem Was I was 13 When We Met and She Was 15. But I Was Madly In Love with Her And I Still Am To This Day.

[72cuddlebug]

We have all been there!!

[nayenaye81]

this song will never get old!

[crombie92]

NICE

[srz807]

When i was young i would have said . That in time you will forget, well now i know thats not always the case . It's been 27 years and i still havn't forgot her

[Melassidy]

I've been trying to classify Vince Gill. Is he really that good? Elvis said Roy Orbison was the best singer he ever heard. Vince doesn't quite have Roy's range, but his perfect pitch and ability to choke a grown man up are unparalleled. I think he is the greatest singer ever to record. Yes, he's that good.

[bszwed]

Great song, Great artist

[bigdaddymoran7777]

its been 4mos now. i know we wernt married and i didnt get to give you the ring i bought for you. but im still ttryng to get over you. you were and still are the love of my life !!!

[niftyrosa]

For the love of Michael....it shouldn't take his dying to get it done............R.I.P. Till We Meet.

[ruvikings]

One of the greatest voices of our generation.

[frdschmdt]

I Love to hear vince gill. I feel like this song this song explains my feeling perfestly.

[ramlinrose2]

you never get over someone just half to live with it in your heart ..... there will always be days when you think about them i have done this for years and i still havent gotton over it ........ as i look back i think this is the reason i screwed up my hold life ........ who knows

[niftyrosa]

I am responding to your comment: as i look back i think this is the reason i screwed up my whole life ........ who knows

you didnt choose to screw up your life.....but you have the choice now unscrew it?? I mean make it better....Take care and keep shining!!!

[barriehomeboy]

No it was a Vince Gill song. Actually, the Martina video, that was her house burning down. It was one of his most loveable songs too. Sweet and slow just like this one.

[barriehomeboy]

Does anyone know the name of his song with the burning churches in the video?

[chasitydanny]

the only song i know of is Indepence Day from Martina McBride.

[jeromedwayne]

GREAT SONG.

[rubberbuggybaby]

freakin' bitchin'!

[eatmebich]

i just wish i could i find this again...its been too long...the older u get the wiser and i haven't let anybody in my heart since...i say "FUCK" the games...only 31 and too damn old for that shit!!!!!!!

[rockfan2k9]

One Of The Greatest Country Love Songs

[thoglow]

May 17 my wife of 10 years took off her ring.

I wasn't perfect but I did my best.I think this song says it all.Every last word fits

the way I feel.

[djmike4life]

trtrtr

[79wylie]

this is one painful song and true although she never wore a ring its been over 20 years and when i hear songs like this shes the only person i think of so in a way yeah you do only have one love and it will take dying to forget her

[frdschmdt]

I feel your pain!!

[breffnipark]

Yes it defiantely pulls at the HEART strings,

but still a fab track...

Great singer Vince Gill !

[ACKBERSINGH23]

ITS HURTS TRUST ME I KNOW. eVERYTIME I HEAR THIS SONG IM SORRY I CANT HELP BUT CRY. ITS HARD WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEBODY SO MUCH AND DO ALL U CAN FOR THEM AND THEN THEY JUST LEAVE. :(

[chad606060606060]

Nothing HURTS more to love a women who doesn't love you!!!

[progolfer635]

Amen to that one. I had one do the same thing to me only she told me that she felt nothing and left me.

[vababygir1]

Hurts as much as loving a man that dont love you back in return.. been there done that..

[junior61106]

I couldn't agree more

[swioklo2000]

@chad606060606060 It hurts more when you love a woman who loves you back but you can't be together!!!

[AmFluss08]

@swioklo2000

Very true.

[jmsweeney1]

@swioklo2000 Amen Brother!!!

[rjburbine]

@chad606060606060 I know what you mean Chad. I lived that experience earlier this year. It still hurts.

[chelseakirk1]

@chad606060606060 Yes. Loving a man who doesn't love you.

[DemonicReign]

This song reminds me of her, I'm about to write a metal ballad called "Missing Someone", this song pretty much explains it all.

[dwrhdwrh]

One of the most heartfelt and perfect guitar breaks ever.

[thatedwardsgirl]

i couldn't have said it better myself. :/

[teenaremy]

really!nice song i like it.....

[alexslove24]

this song reminds me of the man that I love..... I have known him for 7 years and he has always been there for me and I am trying to get over him but it isn't working. We have a very sorted history and we just started talking a few months ago and I told him that I stil have feelings for him and he turned me down and I am trying my hardest to get over him but it isn't working. Just like the song says "It will take dying to get it done"

[prettyrivers]

I feel for you. I've been on the other side, turned him down and now he's moved on...i regret everything, 6 yrs ago and i can't get it out of my head. Life moves on but sometimes we get left behind. Thats how i feel.

[dacreeguy]

you're chasing amy!!!

[Moonshine36]

Wonderful song.

[charlie111888]

donna......i will love you until the day i die x x x x

[duchessdonna]

aww charlie ;)

[charlie111888]

2 yrs and still trying :(

[veelighted7]

beautiful vocals and beautiful face Vince : )

This is my song now.

[gmulud]

i love u doug

[stever71]

One of the best "BROKEN HEART" videos/songs I have ever seen/heard and what a voice Vince Gill has !! Smooth as silk !! The slide guitar being played brings tears to my eyes...man...I just love this song and video !! One of the best all time songs and videos !

[austinala59]

And right up there would be Little Texas' "What Might Have Been." Both are classics!

[Pepitepi]

Thank you C, for sharing this one..

[dakoda0401]

he has one of the greatist voices ever

[xxlonestarxchickxx]

vince IS country!

[chasitydanny]

what a great song. vince gill is the greatest at good songs

[gfiman]

I love this song. The guy who played steel guitar on this song was the great John Hughey. I always sang along to this song every afternoon when I'd come home from middle school.

[gilbertsonchristina]

One of his best songs ever!!!

[mikeluvsagnes]

I love this song soooooooo much

[lisangb]

I can so relate to this song, I'm living it. The only difference, instead of you take off your wedding ring, he put one on. gb143

[SANDOR51]

when this song first came out i was working at the tennessean newspaper. I was there only a wekk when my ex found someone new. The area i worked in was small and i ran a printing press. Some of the people that worked ther hooked about four radios all the same station. This song played around 20 times a day.

[duchessdonna]

Man talk about torture-that sucks! nice song though, vince has a nice voice.

[GeekRonin]

Shelley,

I'm sorry... I love you.

Ben

[vanmaxwellcool]

Do not loose what you love most.God Speed

[auziechick]

just yesterday morning, in tears i wrote my boyfriend a break-up letter. im not sure of the exact reason why but i just couldnt handle it. i was hurt already, i dont want it to get worse. i felt like he was pussing me away since he's on the other side of the world. i still love him the same way and it'll take dying to get over him.

[wanda1201]

Jessica,sweet baby girl. I've trying to get my life back together you since you left us. I love and miss you. I know you are in a better place now.

Love Mom

[wanda1201]

I love this song, I don't know why I love the sad songs about breaking up.

[nicholealbert]

Ive been trying to let go of my life long dream. Ive been with my boyfriend for three years now. I dont know how he just fell out of love with me. My world crashed down. I love him so much this song describes exactly what Im going through. We are even engaged. I dont know any more

[wdblackburn]

Nicole, hang in there. When my wife passed away last year, my world also crashed. I'm still putting the pieces together and still miss her terribly, but life goes on and time is beginning to ease the pain. Vince's lyrics are much more eloquent than I could ever be.

[sailingstu]

Thanks for putting it up. My Vince Gill favorite, and it's not on the CMT site.....

[urbanaries]

I don't really like Vince Gill (or country music) but this is one of the most powerful songs ever...when I was going thru a breakup this sure would get that pain to the surface!!! Bravo

[atunatekanene]

This is so beautiful it really touch my heart

[glennewby]

A highlight here is the featuring of Shawn, daughter of the great John Kay (and Steppenwolf). Well done.

[123marcopolo123]

Thanks Vince for the nice song. I'm sure it'll work. thats my only option and is gonna try... buhbye life, buhbye melissa... I love you for ever and ever

[123marcopolo123]

This song just describes my life right now. The woman of my dreams left me and dying is the only thing that would get it done

[mwolf49]

I just read on the Steppenwolf site that the young woman in this video is Shawn Kay. . daughter of John Kay. . Mr Wolf himself. Who knew? She's a beauty. Love Vince. And this album is so expressive. He's an original.

[auziechick]

my boyfriend and i danced to this song on the night we met..... didn't know the lyrics then, but we both love this song still....

[muffytown72]

we lost our dear mother 2 years ago and try to move on but for some reason i can't.people say in time things will get easier how long?cause i can't,they say time heals all wounds but mine just won't and yes vince i think it'll take dying to get it done.. R.I.P. mommy until we meet again i love you des

[faronfan]

so sorry you are hurting so much..things will get easier, but you'll always miss your mom. I lost mine last year. Time may heal all wounds, but they leave a scar and scars never go away. Try to find a Hospice support group in your area..they can be a lifesaver..and God bless!

[RAZOR4U]

One of Vince's best songs. I great simple guitar solo makes this song all Vince Gill.....

[richardnallin]

1991 Rachel Rae, what i would.nt give to go back.

[cristibalan]

great song, like many of his songs

[missylumon]

OMG.... i love this song so much.... soothes the soul.... decreases the aching in your heart and makes you just close your eyes and remember all the good times that you've had....and just be gratefull for what you've got.. what can i say?? It's a real heartbeat song..... (*sighs*)

[THEGRINNINGDOGGY]

Gorgeous-talented and an all around good guy.

[Rainmaker1960]

this rocks.  thanks..

[ichhabeein]

i love this song.