@lapen47 Now that's truly what's up! Love reading comments like this! So glad you all are able to still have that mutual respect and love for one another.
Yea these women and men dont know that they are just hurting the child and messing up their upbringing by not letting them see or spend a good ample amount of time with a parent.
Often times two people thinks it ok to have a child together then first sign of troubles the relationship is over. We all make mistakes, some of us learn from them and some of us don't.
Hey pear, Im a child of rape. My mother was raped when she was 13 years old, so I never had a father. I know they everybody has a father, bit I dont. I dont consider a rapist my father. I didnt find out about this til I was like 12. The funny thing about that is, I never spend time with my mother. She got married to a rich lawyer in Atlanta back in 2000, and she cut all ties to out family, family meaning my brother and my sister, Im the oldest of 3 (44). So who do I blame for seeing my mom
@MrClippers35 That is an extremely unfortunate situation my luv, and on behalf of both of the people who created you (I refuse to call them parents), I apologize. I couldn't imagine what it feels like to be in your situation, but despite the fact that neither of them seemed to consider you, as they should have and as the point of my video, you have to do the best you can to be the best parent you can if and or when you do have children.
i can relate dealing with my baby girls mother lady/men like that don't wanna see there kid(s) happy you try to be nice and understanding and in my case cave in to the doo- doo that's right i said doo-doo they spit out there mouth instead of there ass, but i try to be a good dad and let my child understand for herself whats going on and i love her.
@ccutta1983 well cutta, you definitely have the right idea and are handling things in an extremely mature manner. For that, I commend you luv. I know it's probably hard as hell not to pick up that doo-doo that she spits out and throw it right back at her, but always keep your child in mind when dealing with her immature mother. much luv hun.
This is about control. Men/women do it. Often Men can control with money while women can control with other things. In this case it's the baby. Sorry to say the only way he may get what he needs is to take her to court. However, be prepared for a womens scorned. Your friend should simply be the nicest person he can be with his ex. Remember its always about the baby. Be humble, slow your pride because the baby will know what daddy is all about no matter what the mother/father says about them.
I totally agree with everything stated in this video. I feel like parents should overcompensate in regards to being friendly with each other just because they are no longer together and the child isn't being raised in the same household as both parents. When you break up with your child's mom or father your common ground forever will be your child and should be pleasant co-parent environment.
The bad thing is what you're saying most people already know what they're doing they just feel like it's okay to do because the other will have to fight so hard, adn they feel like that's a way of getting back at them, the past is the past, and for a lot of these people out here they hold on to the past, and their pride,
Although I would never agree with or condone the calling of any of my Sisters a Bitch, I do understand the feelings that can arise because of this behaviour on the part of a parent, who will do things to interfere with the relationship of the non-custodial parent, with the child, despite the fact that the non-custodial parent provides monetary support! Personally, I find the term really degrading, especially with respect to MY sisters! Peace
@ReedSplitter True, the term may be offensive, but when it comes to affairs as such, I personally feel as if the term fits perfectly. In all honesty, there is far worse that could have been said about her actions because denying someone the rights to their child because you have an attitude is selfish and immature. Maybe the choice of language would not be what some would choose but I can only imagine the hurt he must have felt so I saw nothing wrong with his description of her. Thanks luv.
Tell your friend..that no matter what happens the child will see the truth..for what the parent is..I have similar problems..and friends tell me take them to court..but that's brutal for the child..so my MOMMIE..I mean mother..says..not the worry cause the child will eventually see the truth..cause children..see only truth and they will see what the "good parent" is doing and what the "bad parent" is..
@THYCHANIE The child may eventually see the truth at some point in their lives, but it shouldn't take years for that child to realize that her father really was a good person and truly wanted to be there for her when she was younger. Not on is a custody battle brutal, it can also be extremely time consuming and a huge waste of money. If people could just put aside their disagreements for their child, the courts shouldn't have to be involved at all. Thanks for commenting hun.
@jasadin Wow, really? That's so sad. I can't understand for the life of me why people would do something like that. Hopefully you and your father's relationship went unscathed as a result.
I agree completely, I bet that his ex-wife has suffered since her childhood from several problems like that, tell your friend that he should fight for his child, either through legal ways, or the ongoing attempts and determination to give the child life together free of psychological contract that will affect it in the future, no doubt.
I like your outfit..
Pear, here is the million dollar question for you: "Why you don't respond to your fans requests" ??
@MaZaGY1000 You know, I have seen some of the ugliest custody battles. It has gotten so bad for some people that I know that they ultimately gave up, which is the worst thing that could happen, but I guess they felt as if all attempts were useless eventually. Not really sure what you mean about why don't I respond to fan requests because lately that's usually who my video topics are from.
Pear i dont have any kids but i have a gang of nieces n nephews and like u said dat was some bitchmade nonsense most men love their kids but might not be able to show it wit da effort dat man made to see his child she shoulda gave dat nigga some lol nawl foreal those are the kind of women guys b talking about when we down grade women not name calling just genuine hate for evil spirited BITCHES
@js10582 lol @ she shoulda gave him some. Though I know we are joking, to be honest, I'm sure there are many other women who probably WOULD have given him some! Some men could care less about their children and it really upsets me when a man who truly does care for his child is denied the opportunity to see them because of evil spirited bitches. She shoulda met that man anywhere in that damn state so he could have saw his child!
I agree with you pear just cause thinks didn't work between to parents doesn't mean a child should feel the pain of that. I can relate to that cause my mom never let my dad see me. umm if want know more just hit my inbox pear I'll be glad to tell you sweetheart.
im a white teenager and honestly i love your personality and everything about you id do anything to be with you but the problem could easily be solved dont talk to people with that much drama in their life trust me it saves alot of time and trouble
@jasonbaseballer lol, you are too cute luv. As far as not dealing with people with drama in their life, I totally agree, the unfortunate thing, though, is that sometimes that drama remains hidden until it's a little too late. Before you know it, not only did you not see the drama coming, but you are swept up in it yourself, which is even worse. Thanks for commenting sweetheart.
Awww great video Twin. Tell momma Pear I love her for the woman she is n the woman she has raised. Prayers n heart goes out for dads doing the right thang.
PEAR.. I LOVE MY BABY DADDY. SHES WITH HIM NOW AND WE'RE GREAT FRIENDS. I LUCK OUT ON MINE AND BLESSED..
lapen47 1 month ago
@lapen47 Now that's truly what's up! Love reading comments like this! So glad you all are able to still have that mutual respect and love for one another.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Yea these women and men dont know that they are just hurting the child and messing up their upbringing by not letting them see or spend a good ample amount of time with a parent.
KdiLL11 1 month ago
@KdiLL11 i totally agree. thanks 4 commenting luv
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Pear...if you ever decide to get back on the market let me know..
SovenRecordsMusic 1 month ago
@SovenRecordsMusic lmbo! ok hun
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Often times two people thinks it ok to have a child together then first sign of troubles the relationship is over. We all make mistakes, some of us learn from them and some of us don't.
coolmancage 1 month ago
@coolmancage very true...thanks 4 sharing hun
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Hey pear, Im a child of rape. My mother was raped when she was 13 years old, so I never had a father. I know they everybody has a father, bit I dont. I dont consider a rapist my father. I didnt find out about this til I was like 12. The funny thing about that is, I never spend time with my mother. She got married to a rich lawyer in Atlanta back in 2000, and she cut all ties to out family, family meaning my brother and my sister, Im the oldest of 3 (44). So who do I blame for seeing my mom
MrClippers35 1 month ago in playlist More videos from pearshapedsista
@MrClippers35 That is an extremely unfortunate situation my luv, and on behalf of both of the people who created you (I refuse to call them parents), I apologize. I couldn't imagine what it feels like to be in your situation, but despite the fact that neither of them seemed to consider you, as they should have and as the point of my video, you have to do the best you can to be the best parent you can if and or when you do have children.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
age is just a number children having children fully mature people make better parents than dumb one night stand half ass mentally young people
aundrekerr 1 month ago
@aundrekerr A-to-the-men!
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
i can relate dealing with my baby girls mother lady/men like that don't wanna see there kid(s) happy you try to be nice and understanding and in my case cave in to the doo- doo that's right i said doo-doo they spit out there mouth instead of there ass, but i try to be a good dad and let my child understand for herself whats going on and i love her.
ccutta1983 1 month ago
@ccutta1983 well cutta, you definitely have the right idea and are handling things in an extremely mature manner. For that, I commend you luv. I know it's probably hard as hell not to pick up that doo-doo that she spits out and throw it right back at her, but always keep your child in mind when dealing with her immature mother. much luv hun.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
hey girl wit ya pearshape self you have a beautiful demeanor about you keep it up girl
arsenal280 1 month ago
(=__=) wonderful women ..
muntenash 1 month ago
@muntenash aww, thanks luv
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
baby mamma drama just dont stop
MrESBS13 1 month ago
@MrESBS13 nope, it's cyclical and sickening....
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Also, why are you going out without me. I wanna go too!!!!
bigld 1 month ago
@bigld lol, you shoulda told me!
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
This is about control. Men/women do it. Often Men can control with money while women can control with other things. In this case it's the baby. Sorry to say the only way he may get what he needs is to take her to court. However, be prepared for a womens scorned. Your friend should simply be the nicest person he can be with his ex. Remember its always about the baby. Be humble, slow your pride because the baby will know what daddy is all about no matter what the mother/father says about them.
bigld 1 month ago
@bigld beautiful advice my luv, thank you for sharing. I hope my friend sees it.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I totally agree with everything stated in this video. I feel like parents should overcompensate in regards to being friendly with each other just because they are no longer together and the child isn't being raised in the same household as both parents. When you break up with your child's mom or father your common ground forever will be your child and should be pleasant co-parent environment.
misssweetbabee 1 month ago
@misssweetbabee Love it! Thank you so much 4 sharing
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Very rare that the front view is better than the side
Shabaka87 1 month ago
Just stuck on how beautiful you are!
TheNorthStar09 1 month ago
@TheNorthStar09 lol, thank u sweetheart
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
You Banging in that dress..Thanx once again for switchin it up for me...
mandangalo72 1 month ago
@mandangalo72 lol yw
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
The bad thing is what you're saying most people already know what they're doing they just feel like it's okay to do because the other will have to fight so hard, adn they feel like that's a way of getting back at them, the past is the past, and for a lot of these people out here they hold on to the past, and their pride,
twoface151 1 month ago
@twoface151 Yes, I am very sure that most of them know what they're doing, and that's what makes it even worse. Thanks so much 4 commenting luv
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Although I would never agree with or condone the calling of any of my Sisters a Bitch, I do understand the feelings that can arise because of this behaviour on the part of a parent, who will do things to interfere with the relationship of the non-custodial parent, with the child, despite the fact that the non-custodial parent provides monetary support! Personally, I find the term really degrading, especially with respect to MY sisters! Peace
ReedSplitter 1 month ago
@ReedSplitter True, the term may be offensive, but when it comes to affairs as such, I personally feel as if the term fits perfectly. In all honesty, there is far worse that could have been said about her actions because denying someone the rights to their child because you have an attitude is selfish and immature. Maybe the choice of language would not be what some would choose but I can only imagine the hurt he must have felt so I saw nothing wrong with his description of her. Thanks luv.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
hi pear i think that your artist or best artist !! this clorhs areniiiiice je taime
webobo91 1 month ago
I couldn't have put it better myself
acharles123 1 month ago
Tell your friend..that no matter what happens the child will see the truth..for what the parent is..I have similar problems..and friends tell me take them to court..but that's brutal for the child..so my MOMMIE..I mean mother..says..not the worry cause the child will eventually see the truth..cause children..see only truth and they will see what the "good parent" is doing and what the "bad parent" is..
THYCHANIE 1 month ago
@THYCHANIE The child may eventually see the truth at some point in their lives, but it shouldn't take years for that child to realize that her father really was a good person and truly wanted to be there for her when she was younger. Not on is a custody battle brutal, it can also be extremely time consuming and a huge waste of money. If people could just put aside their disagreements for their child, the courts shouldn't have to be involved at all. Thanks for commenting hun.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I love the way you presented this video,o hope all that needs to hear it does hear it.
keving52002 1 month ago
@keving52002 Thank you luv
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I agree with you 100% because I've been through it with my ex-wife over my daughter because of her attitude!!!!
DOUBLEGDOGGGGGG 1 month ago
@DOUBLEGDOGGGGGG Thanks hun. I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that and hope that it did not damage your and your daughter's relationship.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
excellent topic.u look gorgeous P
Daddy336 1 month ago
@Daddy336 thanks
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I call it child support ransom. Whenever my dad was late my mom would play those games.
jasadin 1 month ago
@jasadin Wow, really? That's so sad. I can't understand for the life of me why people would do something like that. Hopefully you and your father's relationship went unscathed as a result.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
i love you for ever
1q2w3e253 1 month ago
I LOVE YOU PEARSHAPEDSISTA
einsteinhombre1 1 month ago
children means sacrafice..even your emotions. for the sake of maturity and stability
tommybrown187 1 month ago
@tommybrown187 Exactly! Totally agree
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I agree completely, I bet that his ex-wife has suffered since her childhood from several problems like that, tell your friend that he should fight for his child, either through legal ways, or the ongoing attempts and determination to give the child life together free of psychological contract that will affect it in the future, no doubt.
I like your outfit..
Pear, here is the million dollar question for you: "Why you don't respond to your fans requests" ??
enjoy your time, have a good day
MaZaGY1000 1 month ago
@MaZaGY1000 You know, I have seen some of the ugliest custody battles. It has gotten so bad for some people that I know that they ultimately gave up, which is the worst thing that could happen, but I guess they felt as if all attempts were useless eventually. Not really sure what you mean about why don't I respond to fan requests because lately that's usually who my video topics are from.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Pear i dont have any kids but i have a gang of nieces n nephews and like u said dat was some bitchmade nonsense most men love their kids but might not be able to show it wit da effort dat man made to see his child she shoulda gave dat nigga some lol nawl foreal those are the kind of women guys b talking about when we down grade women not name calling just genuine hate for evil spirited BITCHES
js10582 1 month ago
@js10582 lol @ she shoulda gave him some. Though I know we are joking, to be honest, I'm sure there are many other women who probably WOULD have given him some! Some men could care less about their children and it really upsets me when a man who truly does care for his child is denied the opportunity to see them because of evil spirited bitches. She shoulda met that man anywhere in that damn state so he could have saw his child!
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
I agree with you pear just cause thinks didn't work between to parents doesn't mean a child should feel the pain of that. I can relate to that cause my mom never let my dad see me. umm if want know more just hit my inbox pear I'll be glad to tell you sweetheart.
stevey3100 1 month ago
@stevey3100 Feel free to inbox me if you like hun and thank you so much for sharing.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
im a white teenager and honestly i love your personality and everything about you id do anything to be with you but the problem could easily be solved dont talk to people with that much drama in their life trust me it saves alot of time and trouble
jasonbaseballer 1 month ago
@jasonbaseballer lol, you are too cute luv. As far as not dealing with people with drama in their life, I totally agree, the unfortunate thing, though, is that sometimes that drama remains hidden until it's a little too late. Before you know it, not only did you not see the drama coming, but you are swept up in it yourself, which is even worse. Thanks for commenting sweetheart.
pearshapedsista 1 month ago
Awww great video Twin. Tell momma Pear I love her for the woman she is n the woman she has raised. Prayers n heart goes out for dads doing the right thang.
woodallmd 1 month ago
@woodallmd Thanks so much twin, I will be sure to tell her ;-)
pearshapedsista 1 month ago