Listen, your perception about bad boys is off center. Many black men were not able to assimilate into this white world like you. Life inside this white's man world is not all the same for all black folks growing up. You sound a bit bitter like a bad boy sole your girl back then, and now you campaigning against them. American is buit off of bad boys gangsterism. You don't realized that with your shirt and tie on you have been America gangsterized?
These lying black american roaches won't dare say any of that nonsense towards their white men at all. Those black broads are ass-kissers! I swear an few years ago: i heard an arguement between an white dude & black chick. I don't know what was said between them until i heard the white dude said "shut up" to an black broad. Funniest part ever: "SHE DID". They've both walked away... I said with my mouth open after was: "Hell Naw"
In my eyes men should hold accountability for what goes wrong and fix it, comes with right lead it is how it should go. Obviously black women have their issues... but at the end of the day they are the ones who are stuck in their communities they are the ones who by large are raising children, not abandoning them. They suffer for the consequences of their actions and put with abuse and attacks... black men... all that is done is placing blame and making excuses, not becoming of men
It is funny when certain people try to twist everything around.When it comes to the sexes, It does not always work that way.Well it does, But you have to be smart enough, To twist it in the good and right direction. It is always funny,When women try to judge men so harshly on their age,When they are judged more harshly on it.The same can be said with looks.Women are throwing rocks,When they live in glass houses.We respect women,Now please respect us.Why is manhood not respected like woman hood.
Men are judge by their looks a whole lot.But that never gets mentioned, On top of that.We are also judged by our societal status,Which usually equals money and public power or possibly the perception or attainment of it.Men are over all judged on more things than women are probably depending on how you look at it.Men can have kids at any age pretty much Women can't.So that is why men age wise have more importance.I can really hear your biological clock clicking loudly ladies.
Women always say that they have good taste, And like good looking men,But no offense,A large amount of women date below average looking and ugly ass men.And women always say that they have a type,And then proceed to brag about it.But If you date ugly ass men.Then how can you honestly brag about your taste with a straight face. Women also are a bad judge of character or personality, Not all are.Why do men date for looks mostly,And seem to judge character and morals better than many girls do.
Look I am not saying that women do not have a right to date good looking men,But men are just more visual than women,And probably much more. This is partially why in society,That the darn girlfriend almost always looks better than her boyfriend,At least by some very small degree of margin.And this is also probably why men have better physical taste more so than women.And don't try to front too much. Why do you always see pretty women with ugly ass men.Men judge looks better than women.
Women who judge men mainly or mostly on looks should probably expect to get the same darn treatment. Like I just said earlier,Men and women are judged by different or separate standards. When it comes to life,The two sexes and their roles are not the same always and are perceived differently.And you know what the saying is that perception is reality,Of course not always.Men are judged by their money, job status, and public power.Women are judged by their looks.Men are supposed to date for looks.
It is so funny how women say that they want good looking men,And then turn around and get mad when men say the same,Then they have the nerves to say that men are shallow and way too superficial. Take a look here stupid ass people.That think this way,Men are mainly judged by their money or job status or title.And women are mainly judged by their looks. So men are most surly supposed to be the ones who should date for looks,We are judged on some separate or different basis.That's the way it is
WOMEN teach your daughters to be virgins--guys too.....Guys, there is NO PERFECT birth control!! If guys stay virgins and also not look at porn, it would make for many GOLDEN ANNIVERSARIES in the future...and strengthen our nation
It seems like If you're a BM who goes to jail for 4 years instead of college, you'll will have more BW then you know what to do with when you come out of prison. BM have to behave violently to impress BW. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. Never dumb yourself down or engage in criminal activity to get black women to notice you as you'll be in for a huge disappointment. Black women like Black men who need help or need to be saved.
@heavymetalloverz Not all, the godd brothas just lay low...... We are kept protected by the MOST HIGH. He will use us in the last days to wake up our people.......LION
@heavymetalloverz Once again all men wetn trying to be thugs, but when they saw that women wanted that they then did what was nessecary to attract women. There are good brothas out there. Remember looks at the heart, so many of the sistas saying they want good brothas really don't so why would the MOST HIGH sen one their way anyways......LION
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
@NerdManJr101 You men put on acts so we do not know who is a boy and who is not because you men especially black men are so good at acting as the loving and loyal boyfriend when the truth is you are trying to sleep with any and every woman you see. Then when a girl does it to you she is considered to be a hoe and wrong for doing it.
@MsKateRoberts This is a common claim from black women, the wolf in sheeps clothing excuse. For some reason black women have a difficult time admitting that they get sucked in by shallow trappings just like everybody else. If these men were pretending to be Theo Huxtable most black women wouldn't want them anyway. Its the "bad" that keeps pulling women in. Women have a hard time admitting this.
Why do topics like this have to be about "black" when the real problem is American? American women with the exception of Asians (who just tend to want any white guy) usually go for Mr. Bad Ass. It's a trophy system and you can't use your plans to earn millions 10 years from now to compete with a drug dealer who's making thousands today in women's eyes.
@daddyrichten 'Why do topics like this have to be about "black" when the real problem is American? '
Because black people are they only race in America that is very very very divided. We all hate each other for no reason and are more willing to kill each other over petty things opposed to helping each other in need unless we are getting something out of it.
So, this video is the same as, when a guy does not want to date a girl because she is too big. And, then she drops some pounds and "all of a sudden" he want to give her a chance....
Bro you are so on point. I'm going through the same shit now. I wanted these females when the were in there 20's not damn near 40 and used up. Ridiculous.
You are throughing out some huge generalizations about black women based on what 10 or 11 men said come on. There are some good black women out here that black men dont want for whatever reason or past issues they have. Before making such statements please have better data to back your claim
@MadeByEduNotLaziness I show know signs of stupidity I'm 19 years old and go to good university all I want to say about this is that the reason women look over nice guys is not because they just love morally unsound men, but because these men show a certain liberty and freedom in character apposed to you "nice guys" . " Your remembered for the rules you break, not the rules you follow", right, so live a little bolder.
LOTS OF BLACK WOMEN ARE AVAILABLE! THE ISSUE IS MANY (NOT ALL) BLACK MEN ARENT, AS THEY ARE HAPPY WITH BEING A BACHELOR AND THEY ARE THE ONES WHO DO NOT WANT TO COMMIT. WHEN I MENTIONA RELATIONSHIP, MEN RUN!! NOT BECAUSE BLACK MEN ARE BAD, BUT ITS BECAUSE THOSE BLACK MEN WHO I MEET JUST ARE NT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR MAYBE THEY ARE ALREADY WITH SOMEONE. SO ITS NOT ALWAYS THE FEMALE
LISTEN, LOOK AT THE NUMBERS!!! THERE MORE BLACK WOMEN THAN MEN, SO ITS HARD FOR ALL BALCK WOMEN TO BE WITH SOMEONE AND YOU ALSO HAVE TO DEMOGRAPHICS!!! WHERE I LIVE THERE ARE NO GOO BLACK MEN AS MY AREA IS 70% HISPANIC. WE NEED TO LOOK AT THE OVERALL PICTURE, THESE WEDDINGS YOU WENT TO DO NOT MAKE UP THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN. ON A NATIONAL LEVEL THERE ARE NOT ALOT OF EDUCATED BLACK WHO ARE SINGLE. IF THEY DO EXIST, MANY ARE ALREADY TAKEN
good vid man,but we gotta stop refering the street cats as thugs ,we start to believe that.when really its the conditions that made us that way.its been a smear campian for black men from the start,from jobs,to police .even are woman equal 60% of our stress.
@askdedan woman is this way, and as shallow as the women you were talking about. Ultimately, it's about setting standards. This rule applies for both men and women. After all, you do have a say in the matter. No one can do what you won't allow them to do to you.
@askdedan at the young tender age of 20 I did not have a clue. I tried to convince myself and others that I did...but I didn't. If you're 30 I guarantee your conception of a person is totally different than when you were 20. With time comes grace, and wisdom. You cannot gain that over night. So if there were some women who did not give a man the time of day because he did not have a car, but he had potential...shame on them. I agree with most of what you're saying, but you cannot assume every
@askdedan All men are not dogs, and thugs, I agree. However, in my honest opinion I don't feel that any man nor woman is ready for marriage at the young age of 20 and 21...especially if you haven't sewn your oats(both women and men). My reasons for saying that are clearly in response to what you said about "back then they didn't want me now I'm hot they all on me". You have to live and experience life and people...not saying be promiscuous, but learn from it. Experience is the best teacher.
@nillawafers96 I agree, but in that particular video I think he was stressing the fact that some black women make life changing mistakes like having children with these no good men and once they reach a certain age, they want to find the nice guy to care for them and their children. So I think at that age they should at least make better choices. If they dont see themselve in a long term meaningful relationship with the person they are dealing with, they shouldnt lay with them.
So now these 'nice' guys are judging these females off of decisions they made when they were young. We ALL make stupid decisions when we were young. And, just because you are a nice guy don't make you a right fit. There are many black women out there who are young, educated, and respectable. We are looking for men with the same qualifications who aren't trying to get into every woman they see. There has to be some disconnection somewhere.
@dallasaj3000 Young? so what? the decisions you make when you are young have a HUGE effect on the choices you are ALLOWED to make when you get older. thats not going to change.
good husband material. Just because a guy chooses to go to college instead of deal dope doesn't make him less than a man, but alot of black women don't see it that way until it's too late.
@clip11 And what women are you talking too. I know that my man graduated college owns his own business and wears business suits. But on the weekends he wears his baggy jeans, Polo shirt and durag when he is with me sometimes. That doesn't make him a thug or a bad man. Us women love that rugged look on certain occasions. Hell I prefr him with no clothes to be honest with you. He works he has a degree and is a damn good man. But he aint black,
Thats not to say black men aren't at fault at all, but black women do shoot themselves in the foot when it comes to this. When they're in their teens and 20's, they want a thug to mess around with, but when they get 30+ and need to find a husband before they loose their looks, then they want the guys they turned down from 15-30. Problem is, most of those guys have moved on. Meanwhile, the thug is also in his 30's, but doesn't have a job or a is making minimum wage and hardly
@clip11 Also for your information black men aren't the only ones that are thugs or dress in that fashion. Also its not always a black woman that wants a thug there are plenty of women with many different backgrounds that choose these losers. But most women only like the style of a bad boy not necesarrily a bad boyfriend or a gang member. My boyfriend who is a Mexi-Rican dresses in thug clothes once in a while especially on the weekend but he is also a business man and has his degree.
@clip11 But my point is no two people are alike regardless of race. Also my point was that black men are not the only ones that are thugs. And my last and final point is that you cannot speak on behalf of every black women. Generalizing is a very dangerous thing to do because you would end up sounding a little biased because you can't say that all black women are like what you say because I surely am not. I don't even date black men like that.
@clip11 My Mexican boyfriend is very relevant because he is a good man. He is the protge of how black men should be. I never had a black man treat me the same way he treats me.
No one is saying black women should date a Steve Urkel. No one is saying black women have to date a guy that dresses like steve urkel, talks the king's english, and has tea at high noon. But thinking of one guy as less of a man because he goes to college (and isn't an athlete) instead of being a stick up kid is crazy. And thats what alot of black women do.
@clip11 Well hello athletes are hot first of all. How can we not love the Basketball player or that beefy football player. Sorry honey women will never stop loving them. But what you are describing is an average man. some women love average men. But the thing is alot of you guys try too hard to be something you are not and we can see right through that act. Besides alot of you men black or white don't want to settle down these days. You guys just want sex w/ no strings. What are women to do?
@MsKateRoberts A few blk females that i went to college with would try to clown me because i would rather focus on my school work on the weekends than go out and partake in coonery. They chased after campus athletes and thugs off campus.
Now i just recently finished college and these same females got 1-2 kids by Mr. "Swagman" who pumped and dumped them. You get with who you want to get with but the problem with BW is when they do it and it backfires they blame everyone but themselves.
@MrPhillydude77 I take full responsibility for my own actions. i don not have time or patience to blame others for my mistakes because I understand why I do or did whatever I did. My problem is alot of black men are very good actors playing the role of a good man when deep down they are garbage. It isn't always the black womans fault. Most of you black men are good with your words and good looks charming us with your lies. I like educated black men but truth is alot of them are boring!
@MrPhillydude77 Black women love educated black men. The problem is alot of educated black men are boring and don't really want to take risks or take chances. Women love a guy that takes chances because it makes things exciting and adds spice to the relationships. It is good to see that black men are doing good with their lives and educating themselves I support that all the way. But you all need to not let all of that studying consume you. You have to have a fun side as well and enjoy life 2.
@MsKateRoberts You might be right. But then again, I'm fresh out of college(with honors),in shape, and on track to live the lifestyle I want in 10 years. Meanwhile, one my classmates who is now a single mother tried to see if I was available, after shittting on me. BITCH PLEASE, I only feel bad for that kid.
The problem is that women make bad choices in their younger years and think they don't have to take any responsibility for it. That"He is boring" is no excuse.
@MrPhillydude77 I have turned down many educated black men and haven't looked back nor do I regret turning them down. They simply were not my type. I don't care if someone has a college degree or a high school diploma because I am not an employer of a company. I am an employer of love and meeting Mr. Right. It's not about degrees and being rich and successful because I am already those things. I want someone who meets my needs and my standards of what I am looking for in a man!
@MsKateRoberts mskate there is no such thing...u know how ignorant that sounds..,lol...i used to be jus like you..wanted a church going woman, cute,sexy, and with a big booty who dont wear skippy clothing,dont curse,smoke, or drink..but is extremely freaky in bed...then i realize the problem was within myself...either shes going to be a good girl or a bad girl..you cant have both..if you like thugs or bad boys thats cool..but except the cheating,abuse, and jail time that comes wit it..
@TheBsheep How is setting a standard and looking for the right canidate ignorant? I am a very picky person for a reason. I want the best of the best in meeting the qualifications that I look for. The reason is because I want no screw ups and a less chance of me making a mistake and involving mysellf in a relationship with a guy that I regret dating. He has to be almost perfect and not a black man.
@MsKateRoberts I probaly feel the same way about black women the way you probaly feel about white dudes but if a white woman can offer what im looking for(which is a partner in life) ill take her...because im looking for love and your looking for a fantasy. thinking some brad pitt looking dude is going to find you. no disrespect but if your black and you did find that he probaly dont even like black girls. so accept the ben stiller look alike and call it a day..lol
@TheBsheep Umm I am not into white men like that. I love Latino men more than anything and it is because of my past history with them. Latino men treat me better than any black man that I have ever been with. White men are ok. I prefer the ghetto white boys more than anything else.
@MsKateRoberts well ms kate you like what you like but you also have to look at things on a geographical standpoint...i stay in memphis and there are alot of ghetto women who smoke, drink,and curse ( i dont ).i love my sisters but i make a nice yearly salary..and i am a classy guy who like my bmw without loud speakers and big rems.. so i want a classy girl..but i havent been treated fair by any black women but i cant say all of them are bad..its maybe jus memphis chicks...get the point?
@TheBsheep Oh honey I feel so sorry for you. Memphis is nothing but a huge ghetto black community that people pass off as a city when it is nothing but the gutter. If I were you I would move to Boston, New York, LA, Seattle or Chicago. Those are the best cities to live in in America. The suburbs of those cities are just as nice and its very affordable. Classy upper class black people like you and I do not deserve to be around ghetto black people like that. I will pray for you honey.
@MsKateRoberts aw ok...yea im sort of beginning to feel the same about black women too but i cant though..because i honestly know that there are some very respectable,sexy, black women out here..but i believe that either they are married, dont live near me, not attractive, or maybe not attracted to me..lol.. so the chances of me finding that woman is slim to none..thats just black america in 2011...but when i drive up in my BMW with katie im a sell out though...its a lose lose situation..lol
@TheBsheep Look Honey I do not hate black men. I just hate when you black men toy with my heart and play games. I'm a little bitter because I fell in love with a gorgeous black man and he cheated on me and it has happened to me more than once so now I just want revenge. I know that not all black men are bad but it just feels good to make a few black men suffer because it makes me mentally feel like I have gotten even with the ones that hurt me.
@MsKateRoberts I never said you hated black men. But ask yourself this, if you got bad service at a restaurant does that mean your're going to give up on EVERY restaurant?? probaly not..so why are you putting this negative stereotype on every black man? Then you say you fell in love with a GORGEOUS black man. not respectful, not hardworking but GORGEOUS. Im not saying get with someone who's ugly, but maybe your falling for the wrong qualities.
@TheBsheep Looks are a priority. The man I am with has to look good. I don't care how good the ugly man treats me I am not going to subject myself to him. I want cute babies and I want to show my man off to my friends and have other women looking at me and my handsome man together. let me give you an inside tip most women go for the bad boys because it makes other women jealous. All we are trying to do is show off and make other women jealous.
@MsKateRoberts And how are you getting back at your Ex's by hurting other black men?. Check your logic, if you're still bitter over what your Ex's did..then honestly who's getting back at who?..There still gettting on with their relationships and lives and your still bitter and mad over what they did weeks, months or years ago. Sorry but I think they're still winning...
@TheBsheep 'Sorry but I think they're still winning'
No actually I am winning because I have their social security numbers date of births first middle and last names so therefore I can destroy their credit by applying for loans credit cards, and renting furniture under their names which I have done successfully so that they will never be able to have anything under their name because I fucked them over and did it happily.
I can never get your name out of my head sister. You have made comments that I have never forgotten. Some of your outlandish comments in the past I use as a barometer and guidance. But it still seems like you are turning the corner nonetheless. I know deep down you love black men. And you know what? I love you too. Peace.
@mostsincere I do love black men I just rather not deal with them or date them because they are nothing but a headache and full of drama. To be honest with you I'd rather not be in a relationship period especially with a black man. You see sweetie black men do not know how to be boyfriends or husbands they are totally clueless in that department.
All black men are not that way. I have a big heart and I do not treat people like trash. I am sorry that you have met the wrong ones. I would not have treated you incorrectly. I know how to love a woman. Peace.
@MsKateRoberts Black women don't know how to be girlfriends, or wives they are totally clueless in that apartment as well. Matter of fact majority of black women are not even marriage material. Even though black women outnumber black men, there are still not enough black women out here that are wife material. You see black women can't even talk about how fucked up a lot of black men are, because there are more black women out here that are fucked up than black men, stop being in denial.
@4life1deep I am not in denial. I am a good black woman that has degrees and so much money that I actually donate to charity. I have tons of money and a successful career. I am ver independent and happy.
@MsKateRoberts Plus a lot of black women don't even want a good man. A lot of them fool around in their 20s chasing and having kids out of wedlock by thugs, drugdealers, gangbangers, convicted felons, and lazy bums, then all of a sudden in their late 20s and early 30s,they be looking for a good black man to step up and take care of her and her children she had out of wedlock by these lowlife niggas. Thats one big reasons why a lot of black women are not wife material, too many kids.
@4life1deep I have no kids and no man and I am soooo happy. i finished college I have a well paying job and I can go and do whatever I feel like. I tried the whole boyfriend thing and it is just so complicated and comes with too much stress especially with Black Men unfortunately. Honey you black men complain and are full of nothing but drama. Black Men are a huge headache in relationships. You all are sexy but when it comes to dating uh, uh. I won't do it again. I love being single too much.
@EricaKane2013 Hey a lot of black men feel the same way about majority of black women. Majority of you sistas are not marriage material. It's too complicated when it comes to black women as well, too many of you have kids out of wedlock by losers, too many of you have a promiscuous past you tried to cover up, too many of you don't want a good man, too many of you on this independent shit, too many of you are materialistic,too many of you have a fucked up attitude, i can go on.
@EricaKane2013 I don't have no kids as well and i'm looking for a sista with no kids that have her mind right. Its not easy to find a good black woman as well sista. As much as black women say that a lot of black men are no good, you all can't even talk about black men, you all need to look in the mirror at yourselves. Even though black women outnumber black men, that are still not enough good black women out here. Black women are more fucked up than black men are.
@4life1deep Just because someone gets convicted of a crime does not make them a bad person because trust me there are plenty of people out there that break the law. The only thing is the person who did time got caught. A criminal rapsheet doesn't tell the whole story about the person. Their actions do.
@4life1deep I only have 2 girls from the same man and whoever I decide to date doesn't have to worry about them beacuse my children are very mature for their age and can pretty much take care of themselves.
@MsKateRoberts Another reason why black women are not wife material is this i'm independent and i don't need a man mentality. That alone eliminates 90% of sistas unfortunately.
@4life1deep You do realize men play a dominant role and are over-seers in society. If too many women are dating no good men and are having children out of wedlock it says a lot about the men in the community. This idea that once the women change everything will be in place is pathetic and a tale sign on why the black community is in shambles. The reason why good black men have not established dominance over thug mentality and ghetto culture is due to their weakness not black women.
@kesomox No if the women are rejecting the black men that are good and purposely going to the black men that are living a life of crime, and bringing down the black community, then that tells a lot about the black women in the community.How can the good black men established dominance over a race that reject positivity, but embrace negativity?Seem like to me you are saying black women go for the thugs because they are stronger than the good black men. Black women are following false leaders.
@kesomox How are the good brothas are considered to be weak? I'm a good black man, and i'm not weak.I'm not only mentally strong i am physically strong, i can hold my own. Maybe black women are intimated by strong black men. Thats why they go for thugs, drugdealers,jailbirds and the lazy bums,because they can control those men. A lot sistas know that they have to fall in line and play their role when they are with real black men, but they don't want to,so they rather choose these lowlife niggas.
@4life1deep For someone who loves generalizations you should realize the individual does not add up to much. good black men have let their communities slip out of their hands and let it degenerate... It is up to men to make moves, then lead it is not an entitlement. Black men don't do that, Instead make excuses and place blame. You can try all you want to make it seem like a large majority of black men have their act together but come on
@kesomox I did not say the majority of black men have their act together. There are alot of black men that do have their act together and there are alot that don't. Black women can't talk about black men because the majority of them don't have their act together.Black women don't want to be led by strong black men, they want to keep the black community matriarchal. Thats why they choose to breed with the bottom of the barrel niggas because they want control and they can remain independent.
@kesomox I agree men suppose to lead,God ordain men as the head of the household, but the problem is the majority of black women rebel against that.They don't want to be led by black men,and its not because black men don't have their act together, thats a lame excuse from black women. Black women want to be independent, they don't need a man,black women made that clear. Thats why the majority of them are not marriage material. Feminism has ruined the minds of black women.
@4life1deep See all you do is make excuses and placing blame. That should not be the case. The issue is if black women are finding it to easy to breed with these kinds of men then there is something wrong with black men.... but that does not matter in your mind all you need to do is shift blame onto black women. They are the only women in the world that carry the burden of all the shortcomings of their race while black men do what they want and wonder why we can never get respect.
@kesomox Seem like to me, in your eyes black women are not accountable for nothing. You know thats a damn lie, black men get blamed for everything bad in the black community,black women are not held accountable for nothing.Black men are the ones carrying the burdens of all the negative things that go on in our community. Black women can do what the hell they want, and don't get judge on the poor choices they make,out of wedlock kids they have, and the negative behaviors they display out here.
@4life1deep But it is true we are independent and don't need a man to stress me out and interrupt my career. The only thing a man is good for is sex and giving me a baby. Other than that I don't need a man. i love my single life. I work, come home and do whatever I want with no man stressing me out. I have all of my bills paid I have two cars and live in a big house by myself. And you know what? It feels damn good. I wouldn't trade that feeling for the world. Independent and loving it!
@4life1deep Of course we are independent women. When we use the word independent we are referring to not depending on anyone for finances. We do it on our own. We buy what we want and pay our bills on time. It does not mean that we don't want a man.
@MsKateRoberts When black women say they are strong, and independent, i have my own car, my own house my own money, i don' t need no man. Thats a very arrogant statement to make. Black women are the only race of women that say that, and they wonder why they are single. The reason why black women like that don't have a man is that they rebel against their role in a relationship. Black women think being strong, means being, rebellious, belligerent, and stubborn, who wants to deal with that?
@MsKateRoberts You said you are a good black woman, you have a successful career,you have degrees, you make tons of money and you donate it to charity, you are very independent and happy. Are you really happy? Money don't make you happy especially when you are lonely. Plus just because you have degrees doesn't make you a good woman. I notice people who brag about what they have, deep down inside are insecure, not saying that about you because i don't know you.
@4life1deep Oh I am not unhappy ay all I am just stating my accomplishments. I have worked hard to get to where I am today. Money makes me very happy. I don't need a man to make me happy President Grover Cleveland and President James Madison are the loves of my life. They get me whatever I want whenever i want it. Money makes me secure.
@MsKateRoberts You said the key words''Money makes me secure". Lets say if you wasn't making that much money and you couldn't buy the things you wanted, would you still be happy? It seems like to me you depend on money and material things to make you happy. So i am basically right about people who tend to brag about how much money they have and how successful and independent they are, and they don't need a man, deep down are insecure and lonely.
@4life1deep Sweetie it's called a little something called governemt assistance. This is the number one reason why black marriages are falling apart. Black women find that they don't need to depend on black men as much because they get government assistance. Let me give you a little run down. Section 8 takes care of the rent. Food Stamps takes care of the food. WIC takes care of the baby. Welfare gives her spending money. SSI also gives her spending money and pays her bills.
@GwenHotchkiss Everything you are saying about black women and the welfare system i already know.I know black women that are on section 8 housing, and they do nothing but lay up and have kids out of wedlock by thugs. These women don't want responsible black men because they don't want a black man to be the head of the household they want to be the head. Being on section 8 getting government assistance, a man is not allow to be in the house, breaking up black families. I totally agree with you.
@4life1deep Medicare is free Health Insurance for her and the baby, The Food Pantry is a foodbank that establishes food just incase the foodstamps run out and there is no more food in the house. So as you can see there is no need for the black husband. The government has stepped in and taken over than role. So yes they are are INDEPENDENT.
@MsKateRoberts Also answer this question, if you black women are so strong independent, and don't need a man, then why you all complain about not having a man? Honestly this whole strong independent black woman, i don't need a man motto a lot of you sistas live by is a big front to be.
You're a man. We age like wine, and they age like cheese. As long as we focus on our careers and get that paper, they'll be there legs spread from sea to shining sea. You don't have to give it to them either. They just need to know that you have it.
You could look like Spongebob. But if you write your number on the back of a bank statement with $50,000 in your checking account, she'll be DTF that night, bro.
He puts up a bunch of videos made by this radio host in Los Angeles (the home of the golddigger) named Tom Leykis. White men go through the same thing with their women, so it seems it's just American women in general.
He teaches you how to deal them. If you're at a bar and you need to be an M.D. to get laid...then poof, your'e an out of town M.D. for the night.
If she has sex w/you just b/c she thinks you're an M.D., she got what she deserved.
@RBG02005 lol..i like that..that is a good way to break them up from the gold digging tendencies!!...thanks im going to check richguy out...afterall i guess you're right, both races black and white have their share of ignorant women
@clip11 yeah like MsKate said, when I was in college majority of bw are chasing after the pro-athlete prospects or the greeks, or the club promoters but you cant fault women for liking what they like... Now that I graduated no change still dont give me the time of day & always busy... but you gotta get into your flow I guess. I started going after hoodrats to get my flow & confidence going. Im doing my thing but we're seen just average like MsKate dont really have a fighting chance.
My man I agree with everything here. all through out high school and most of college i wasnt "thug" enough for the black woman. i just couldnt get one. turned down or cheated on, and i got dumped. Now that i got a new car, graduated college all these same women that overlooked me and dropped out! got babys by the thugs. NOW they come into my store and try to talk to me. they want to "chill" now . fuck that shit. I dont judge all black women by the ones that did me wrong. I still seek one.
@niceprince Honey not al of us black women are like that. I grew up in the suburbs and went to private schools and graduated college. I have my own condo and very successful in life. I love all men as long as they treat me right and can make me laugh. Wome love a man who can just simply make them laugh. The thing is most women love a man with a little edge to themnot necessarily a "thug". In your relationships you probably tried to hard instead of being yourself that is a turn off.
@niceprince Has it ever dawned on you that maybe those girls that turned you down weren't meant for you? You might not have been that womans type. You need to love yourself and accept yourself. Don't let anyone make you change who you are just because they do not like the real you. Because if you put on that act in the long run it will catch up to you and that woman is going to realize that you decieved her. Its best to be yourself and let love find you the real love.
lame and didn't want to fuck with him, the white women would fuck with him. The white women considered it a good thing he was in school and not in and out of jail. Now he's in his mid 30's and owns a McDonalds or 2, instead of flipping burgers at one, and he's married to one of the white women who didn't consider him a lame. And those same black women who considered him a lame are now mad that he's with a white woman. Why are these black women upset. Go to
Then when they want to get married they dont want to marry Javonte because he has several felonies, been in and out of jail, several children he doesn't support, and is now in his mid 30's and flips hamburgers at Mcdonalds with 16 year olds or maybe doesn't have a job at all. Meanwhile, the brother they considered lame and a square simply because he went to school and had never been to jail, OWNS the Mcdonalds that Javonte works at. But while the black women were knocking him for being
and opening their legs for all these so-called thugs and gangsters. I guess these ladies want the good black guys to just stand around and wait until they're through having their fun with Javonte. Black women need to quit contributing to their own problem.
the way alot of black women see it, if a black man hasn't been to jail or prison, or is in college (unless he is an athlete) he isn't man enough for them. And like I said, this attitude isn't just among your so-called hood rat black women, but also among your college attending black women. You can go to a HBCU and those same ladies who will later be complaining when they are 35 and 40 and ready to get married that there aren't any good black men, are running around with
Alot of black women complain they're no decent black men, but they don't want the decent black men. They complain about black men being drug dealers or kicking their ass, whenever these men aren't in jail. But then go to bed with these same men. And this includes college educated black women. I cant count how many times i heard of a black woman that was a college student or graduate who's boyfriend was the neighborhood dope man. Jaylove is right. If you want good black men, quit fucking the
Some think that these "thugs" are hustlers and they make so much money by selling drugs and ish, havin these material stuff but no positive future goals. Then when the baby get locked up, then what? Also BET is the cause of these actions of ppl, it actually influence them to follow the footsteps of what they see and heard, not knowing that everyone will receive the same result. Thats y alot of black are considered ignorant and has the most welfare. Im not trying to be funny its the truth!
@A9nomus his level of education, his long-term and short-term goals, and whether or not he treats women and people in general with respect. I bet if you go to your local Craigslist and browse the 'Women Seeking Men' section that you will find very little to none that addresses these wants in a man. That's because they don't really go seeking these things first; the qualities that make a good man, GOOD.
@A9nomus I mean preference is fine, but most women I've even come across have a list of standards that is in many cases so ridiculous that they cut off a majority of men, solely for physical or material attributes. And by doing so they effectively eliminate most men who are of any worth outside of the bedroom and/or what they have in their pocket. I see most women saying they want a TALL SEXY man, has his OWN CAR/JOB, and financially stable, and not once mention anything about his personality...
@A9nomus and/or are so emotionally unavailable for chasing the "thug/bad boy/prettyboy" types and getting hurt that their sense of a qualifies a "good man" becomes distorted. I wish I could find a "good" Black woman but even the ones here in college are swept up into the whole "frat/ football or basketball jock/thuggish" scene. It's astounding, even more so when I hear guys say they aren't trying to be in a relationship with these girls and those girls still go after these guys...
@A9nomus not "arm candy/fuck buddy" material. And I quote a girl who I was very interested in until I recognized the type of relationship she wanted: "I'm young, when I get older then I'll think about settling down but until then I'll play the field". Even at a young age, women, black and in general, tend to place guys into a "fuck the bad boy, then marry the good guy" scenario. I can't tell you how many of the same girls, many I've known since secondary school, are now pregnant single moms...
@A9nomus I'll respond to your postings. I AM a college student, 23, educated and very well-spoken. I've been looking for "wife" material for as long as I've been an adult and I can tell you, us men do look for that, even in college. The fact of the matter is, women at an early age do not put themselves out there like that and both you and I know this. All the girls I went to school with, from high school to my now senior year in college, saw guys who followed these principles as weak or ...
I don't even think you can limit the "type" of women that are enfatuated with these thugs..., to just black women anymore.
I mean, it is a very played out and tired statement to keep saying over and over again. Take a look around you, I tend to see more and more white and latino females with these low life-tatted up-pants around their-asses" type negroes. And what's even more sad.......they are starting to produce kids with these men.
Amen to this video, I always get "teased" (in a sort of way) by some of my friends for that man I'm choosing to date but I'm engaged and will be married next year more importantly I'm happy :)
well, the thing with me is that i keep getting men old enough to be my FATHER approach me, and thats not what i want. i want someone older, yes, but closer to my age...late 20's to early to mid 30's is ideal.
@MrPhillydude77 I'm sorry you feel that way. Then explain to me why there are white women with broke black men and why black men are with black women when they're at their low but as soon as they get some money they're dissing her. HMM. Sounds ignorant to me. Not all black and white women are gold diggers when it comes to black men that what you're saying. Some of them are playing themselves though.
Sisters can turn this whole problem around by making better choices and judgment on choosing guys. If every single lady say they want a guy with a $teady job,Career, some educational background, No or 1 child that he is taking care of, good family structure, Own car & Place to live then these "thugs" will be out trying to do just that. Don't settle for losers. Enforce the marriage option.Young women demand that and you will be able to make a change for the best.
FUCK these stuck up black hoes,,black men I encourage you to date other races and you will have so much more peace. TOO LITTLE TOO LATE. AND FUCK STEVIE HARVEY,,, NOTHING BUT A LYING ASS SELLOUT....
Black girls are horrible..you want black you gotta pick hispanic dominican panamanian brazilian etc or carribean...american black woman are usually not dateable.They are horrible looking most cases anyways..
Black american culture of mediocrity affects males much worse than females. No boy is going to turn down a girl who is extremely attractive but who also happens to make good grades. Boys don't care about the status of the girl as long as she looks fine. Girls do care about status and, unfortunately, the Black American culture of mediocrity tells us that Black males who like to fight and are defiant of authority have the highest status
@chris78253 Well said!!! We as black women are conditioned to be attracted to thugs because of the music videos and movies. In the end, the "thugs" are the ones who look and act like they have stepped out of a video or the jungle. I personally would rather have someone I can take around my colleagues or my friends and not have to worry about them making me look like a fool.
I gotta disagree with him on Steve Harvey...I do know some brothas that just want to have fun and don't want to settle down so even though that's not every black man it is some of us so there is some truth in what Steve said...shoot some have gotten married and divorced then they want to play the field a bit...me personally I like to have fun myself but when I find that certain women I know when it's time to be serious and work towards settling down
Listen, your perception about bad boys is off center. Many black men were not able to assimilate into this white world like you. Life inside this white's man world is not all the same for all black folks growing up. You sound a bit bitter like a bad boy sole your girl back then, and now you campaigning against them. American is buit off of bad boys gangsterism. You don't realized that with your shirt and tie on you have been America gangsterized?
biil30020 6 days ago
These lying black american roaches won't dare say any of that nonsense towards their white men at all. Those black broads are ass-kissers! I swear an few years ago: i heard an arguement between an white dude & black chick. I don't know what was said between them until i heard the white dude said "shut up" to an black broad. Funniest part ever: "SHE DID". They've both walked away... I said with my mouth open after was: "Hell Naw"
UltraDOG17 1 week ago
If there ever was a reason for women to stay away from "bad boys", Whitney Houston is the prime example. Rest in Peace, sister.
hotdrumchick 2 weeks ago
In my eyes men should hold accountability for what goes wrong and fix it, comes with right lead it is how it should go. Obviously black women have their issues... but at the end of the day they are the ones who are stuck in their communities they are the ones who by large are raising children, not abandoning them. They suffer for the consequences of their actions and put with abuse and attacks... black men... all that is done is placing blame and making excuses, not becoming of men
kesomox 2 weeks ago
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Hi, I hope that you'll have a chance to check out some of my BHM vids when you have a few- thanks so much
shieldsff 2 weeks ago
Definitely happened to me. Been passed over for plenty thugs. Sisters are so judgmental; its almost like they have a sickness.
Nightowl358 3 weeks ago
You are right preach on
Reyamor 3 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
It is funny when certain people try to twist everything around.When it comes to the sexes, It does not always work that way.Well it does, But you have to be smart enough, To twist it in the good and right direction. It is always funny,When women try to judge men so harshly on their age,When they are judged more harshly on it.The same can be said with looks.Women are throwing rocks,When they live in glass houses.We respect women,Now please respect us.Why is manhood not respected like woman hood.
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
Men are judge by their looks a whole lot.But that never gets mentioned, On top of that.We are also judged by our societal status,Which usually equals money and public power or possibly the perception or attainment of it.Men are over all judged on more things than women are probably depending on how you look at it.Men can have kids at any age pretty much Women can't.So that is why men age wise have more importance.I can really hear your biological clock clicking loudly ladies.
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
Women always say that they have good taste, And like good looking men,But no offense,A large amount of women date below average looking and ugly ass men.And women always say that they have a type,And then proceed to brag about it.But If you date ugly ass men.Then how can you honestly brag about your taste with a straight face. Women also are a bad judge of character or personality, Not all are.Why do men date for looks mostly,And seem to judge character and morals better than many girls do.
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
Look I am not saying that women do not have a right to date good looking men,But men are just more visual than women,And probably much more. This is partially why in society,That the darn girlfriend almost always looks better than her boyfriend,At least by some very small degree of margin.And this is also probably why men have better physical taste more so than women.And don't try to front too much. Why do you always see pretty women with ugly ass men.Men judge looks better than women.
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
Women who judge men mainly or mostly on looks should probably expect to get the same darn treatment. Like I just said earlier,Men and women are judged by different or separate standards. When it comes to life,The two sexes and their roles are not the same always and are perceived differently.And you know what the saying is that perception is reality,Of course not always.Men are judged by their money, job status, and public power.Women are judged by their looks.Men are supposed to date for looks.
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
It is so funny how women say that they want good looking men,And then turn around and get mad when men say the same,Then they have the nerves to say that men are shallow and way too superficial. Take a look here stupid ass people.That think this way,Men are mainly judged by their money or job status or title.And women are mainly judged by their looks. So men are most surly supposed to be the ones who should date for looks,We are judged on some separate or different basis.That's the way it is
1makaylacoffman 1 month ago
WOMEN teach your daughters to be virgins--guys too.....Guys, there is NO PERFECT birth control!! If guys stay virgins and also not look at porn, it would make for many GOLDEN ANNIVERSARIES in the future...and strengthen our nation
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It seems like If you're a BM who goes to jail for 4 years instead of college, you'll will have more BW then you know what to do with when you come out of prison. BM have to behave violently to impress BW. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. Never dumb yourself down or engage in criminal activity to get black women to notice you as you'll be in for a huge disappointment. Black women like Black men who need help or need to be saved.
TimAmerica1000 1 month ago
4th quality. Be attractive.
kg062007 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
If so many bM weren't thugs, BW wouldn't be able to be with a Thug!
heavymetalloverz 1 month ago
@heavymetalloverz The reason men are thugs is because that's what women want so they are doing what they feel will attract women best.
BarbarianLion 1 month ago
@BarbarianLion women can only pick from what's there. So, if most BM are thugs, guess who BW R going to be with?Duh
heavymetalloverz 1 month ago
@heavymetalloverz Not all, the godd brothas just lay low...... We are kept protected by the MOST HIGH. He will use us in the last days to wake up our people.......LION
BarbarianLion 1 month ago
@heavymetalloverz Once again all men wetn trying to be thugs, but when they saw that women wanted that they then did what was nessecary to attract women. There are good brothas out there. Remember looks at the heart, so many of the sistas saying they want good brothas really don't so why would the MOST HIGH sen one their way anyways......LION
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 2 months ago
this is why i tell strong, hardworking bruthas to find a nice wholesome girl from the motherland like i did. you won't regret it.
mojo06 2 months ago
@mojo06 Umm not to burst your bubble but African women are not saints. I have a few African female friends and they are far from innocent.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
He's telling nothing but facts. Men are ready for marriage....females are just picking boys instead.
NerdManJr101 2 months ago
@NerdManJr101 You men put on acts so we do not know who is a boy and who is not because you men especially black men are so good at acting as the loving and loyal boyfriend when the truth is you are trying to sleep with any and every woman you see. Then when a girl does it to you she is considered to be a hoe and wrong for doing it.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts This is a common claim from black women, the wolf in sheeps clothing excuse. For some reason black women have a difficult time admitting that they get sucked in by shallow trappings just like everybody else. If these men were pretending to be Theo Huxtable most black women wouldn't want them anyway. Its the "bad" that keeps pulling women in. Women have a hard time admitting this.
fistoffries 2 months ago
@fistoffries What woman doesn't like a man with a little edginess?
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
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@fistoffries What woman doesn't like a man with a little edginess?
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
Why do topics like this have to be about "black" when the real problem is American? American women with the exception of Asians (who just tend to want any white guy) usually go for Mr. Bad Ass. It's a trophy system and you can't use your plans to earn millions 10 years from now to compete with a drug dealer who's making thousands today in women's eyes.
daddyrichten 2 months ago
@daddyrichten 'Why do topics like this have to be about "black" when the real problem is American? '
Because black people are they only race in America that is very very very divided. We all hate each other for no reason and are more willing to kill each other over petty things opposed to helping each other in need unless we are getting something out of it.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
Real talk girls here in London take note
blacckz 2 months ago
So, this video is the same as, when a guy does not want to date a girl because she is too big. And, then she drops some pounds and "all of a sudden" he want to give her a chance....
fiction150 2 months ago
Bro you are so on point. I'm going through the same shit now. I wanted these females when the were in there 20's not damn near 40 and used up. Ridiculous.
livendapast 3 months ago
You are throughing out some huge generalizations about black women based on what 10 or 11 men said come on. There are some good black women out here that black men dont want for whatever reason or past issues they have. Before making such statements please have better data to back your claim
texasdollar2000 3 months ago
At first I thought that it was just black women who liked thugs but I now know that women of all races are into low-lives.
scapegoatwax2001 3 months ago
This man just hit it right on the money with this video.. Good Job man!
rap19856 3 months ago
@MadeByEduNotLaziness I show know signs of stupidity I'm 19 years old and go to good university all I want to say about this is that the reason women look over nice guys is not because they just love morally unsound men, but because these men show a certain liberty and freedom in character apposed to you "nice guys" . " Your remembered for the rules you break, not the rules you follow", right, so live a little bolder.
SophicideTV 3 months ago
LOTS OF BLACK WOMEN ARE AVAILABLE! THE ISSUE IS MANY (NOT ALL) BLACK MEN ARENT, AS THEY ARE HAPPY WITH BEING A BACHELOR AND THEY ARE THE ONES WHO DO NOT WANT TO COMMIT. WHEN I MENTIONA RELATIONSHIP, MEN RUN!! NOT BECAUSE BLACK MEN ARE BAD, BUT ITS BECAUSE THOSE BLACK MEN WHO I MEET JUST ARE NT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR MAYBE THEY ARE ALREADY WITH SOMEONE. SO ITS NOT ALWAYS THE FEMALE
counselorllc 3 months ago
LISTEN, LOOK AT THE NUMBERS!!! THERE MORE BLACK WOMEN THAN MEN, SO ITS HARD FOR ALL BALCK WOMEN TO BE WITH SOMEONE AND YOU ALSO HAVE TO DEMOGRAPHICS!!! WHERE I LIVE THERE ARE NO GOO BLACK MEN AS MY AREA IS 70% HISPANIC. WE NEED TO LOOK AT THE OVERALL PICTURE, THESE WEDDINGS YOU WENT TO DO NOT MAKE UP THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN. ON A NATIONAL LEVEL THERE ARE NOT ALOT OF EDUCATED BLACK WHO ARE SINGLE. IF THEY DO EXIST, MANY ARE ALREADY TAKEN
counselorllc 3 months ago
good vid man,but we gotta stop refering the street cats as thugs ,we start to believe that.when really its the conditions that made us that way.its been a smear campian for black men from the start,from jobs,to police .even are woman equal 60% of our stress.
ghustla74 3 months ago
I WILL SAY THIS, I APPRECIATE HIM STRESSING THAT THERE ARE BLACK MEN WHO ARE LOOKING FOR RELATIONSHIPS.
january719 3 months ago
@askdedan woman is this way, and as shallow as the women you were talking about. Ultimately, it's about setting standards. This rule applies for both men and women. After all, you do have a say in the matter. No one can do what you won't allow them to do to you.
nillawafers96 3 months ago
@askdedan at the young tender age of 20 I did not have a clue. I tried to convince myself and others that I did...but I didn't. If you're 30 I guarantee your conception of a person is totally different than when you were 20. With time comes grace, and wisdom. You cannot gain that over night. So if there were some women who did not give a man the time of day because he did not have a car, but he had potential...shame on them. I agree with most of what you're saying, but you cannot assume every
nillawafers96 3 months ago
@askdedan All men are not dogs, and thugs, I agree. However, in my honest opinion I don't feel that any man nor woman is ready for marriage at the young age of 20 and 21...especially if you haven't sewn your oats(both women and men). My reasons for saying that are clearly in response to what you said about "back then they didn't want me now I'm hot they all on me". You have to live and experience life and people...not saying be promiscuous, but learn from it. Experience is the best teacher.
nillawafers96 3 months ago
@nillawafers96 I agree, but in that particular video I think he was stressing the fact that some black women make life changing mistakes like having children with these no good men and once they reach a certain age, they want to find the nice guy to care for them and their children. So I think at that age they should at least make better choices. If they dont see themselve in a long term meaningful relationship with the person they are dealing with, they shouldnt lay with them.
dmilon23 3 months ago
Who marked clip11 as spam? guess the black women don't wanna see the truth.. SHIT HURTS DOESN'T IT?
niceprince 4 months ago
So now these 'nice' guys are judging these females off of decisions they made when they were young. We ALL make stupid decisions when we were young. And, just because you are a nice guy don't make you a right fit. There are many black women out there who are young, educated, and respectable. We are looking for men with the same qualifications who aren't trying to get into every woman they see. There has to be some disconnection somewhere.
dallasaj3000 4 months ago
@dallasaj3000 Young? so what? the decisions you make when you are young have a HUGE effect on the choices you are ALLOWED to make when you get older. thats not going to change.
niceprince 4 months ago
True, True, True, True,
mizzaliyah 4 months ago
@pOetiQrOsesPublish
good husband material. Just because a guy chooses to go to college instead of deal dope doesn't make him less than a man, but alot of black women don't see it that way until it's too late.
clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 And what women are you talking too. I know that my man graduated college owns his own business and wears business suits. But on the weekends he wears his baggy jeans, Polo shirt and durag when he is with me sometimes. That doesn't make him a thug or a bad man. Us women love that rugged look on certain occasions. Hell I prefr him with no clothes to be honest with you. He works he has a degree and is a damn good man. But he aint black,
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@pOetiQrOsesPublish
Thats not to say black men aren't at fault at all, but black women do shoot themselves in the foot when it comes to this. When they're in their teens and 20's, they want a thug to mess around with, but when they get 30+ and need to find a husband before they loose their looks, then they want the guys they turned down from 15-30. Problem is, most of those guys have moved on. Meanwhile, the thug is also in his 30's, but doesn't have a job or a is making minimum wage and hardly
clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 Also for your information black men aren't the only ones that are thugs or dress in that fashion. Also its not always a black woman that wants a thug there are plenty of women with many different backgrounds that choose these losers. But most women only like the style of a bad boy not necesarrily a bad boyfriend or a gang member. My boyfriend who is a Mexi-Rican dresses in thug clothes once in a while especially on the weekend but he is also a business man and has his degree.
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts
We're talking about blacks so your mexican boyfriend is irrelevant to this discussion.
clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 But my point is no two people are alike regardless of race. Also my point was that black men are not the only ones that are thugs. And my last and final point is that you cannot speak on behalf of every black women. Generalizing is a very dangerous thing to do because you would end up sounding a little biased because you can't say that all black women are like what you say because I surely am not. I don't even date black men like that.
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@clip11 My Mexican boyfriend is very relevant because he is a good man. He is the protge of how black men should be. I never had a black man treat me the same way he treats me.
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts
No one is saying black women should date a Steve Urkel. No one is saying black women have to date a guy that dresses like steve urkel, talks the king's english, and has tea at high noon. But thinking of one guy as less of a man because he goes to college (and isn't an athlete) instead of being a stick up kid is crazy. And thats what alot of black women do.
clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 Well hello athletes are hot first of all. How can we not love the Basketball player or that beefy football player. Sorry honey women will never stop loving them. But what you are describing is an average man. some women love average men. But the thing is alot of you guys try too hard to be something you are not and we can see right through that act. Besides alot of you men black or white don't want to settle down these days. You guys just want sex w/ no strings. What are women to do?
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts A few blk females that i went to college with would try to clown me because i would rather focus on my school work on the weekends than go out and partake in coonery. They chased after campus athletes and thugs off campus.
Now i just recently finished college and these same females got 1-2 kids by Mr. "Swagman" who pumped and dumped them. You get with who you want to get with but the problem with BW is when they do it and it backfires they blame everyone but themselves.
MrPhillydude77 3 months ago
@MrPhillydude77 I take full responsibility for my own actions. i don not have time or patience to blame others for my mistakes because I understand why I do or did whatever I did. My problem is alot of black men are very good actors playing the role of a good man when deep down they are garbage. It isn't always the black womans fault. Most of you black men are good with your words and good looks charming us with your lies. I like educated black men but truth is alot of them are boring!
MsKateRoberts 3 months ago
@MrPhillydude77 Black women love educated black men. The problem is alot of educated black men are boring and don't really want to take risks or take chances. Women love a guy that takes chances because it makes things exciting and adds spice to the relationships. It is good to see that black men are doing good with their lives and educating themselves I support that all the way. But you all need to not let all of that studying consume you. You have to have a fun side as well and enjoy life 2.
MsKateRoberts 3 months ago
@MsKateRoberts You might be right. But then again, I'm fresh out of college(with honors),in shape, and on track to live the lifestyle I want in 10 years. Meanwhile, one my classmates who is now a single mother tried to see if I was available, after shittting on me. BITCH PLEASE, I only feel bad for that kid.
The problem is that women make bad choices in their younger years and think they don't have to take any responsibility for it. That"He is boring" is no excuse.
MrPhillydude77 3 months ago
@MrPhillydude77 I have turned down many educated black men and haven't looked back nor do I regret turning them down. They simply were not my type. I don't care if someone has a college degree or a high school diploma because I am not an employer of a company. I am an employer of love and meeting Mr. Right. It's not about degrees and being rich and successful because I am already those things. I want someone who meets my needs and my standards of what I am looking for in a man!
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts mskate there is no such thing...u know how ignorant that sounds..,lol...i used to be jus like you..wanted a church going woman, cute,sexy, and with a big booty who dont wear skippy clothing,dont curse,smoke, or drink..but is extremely freaky in bed...then i realize the problem was within myself...either shes going to be a good girl or a bad girl..you cant have both..if you like thugs or bad boys thats cool..but except the cheating,abuse, and jail time that comes wit it..
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep How is setting a standard and looking for the right canidate ignorant? I am a very picky person for a reason. I want the best of the best in meeting the qualifications that I look for. The reason is because I want no screw ups and a less chance of me making a mistake and involving mysellf in a relationship with a guy that I regret dating. He has to be almost perfect and not a black man.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts I probaly feel the same way about black women the way you probaly feel about white dudes but if a white woman can offer what im looking for(which is a partner in life) ill take her...because im looking for love and your looking for a fantasy. thinking some brad pitt looking dude is going to find you. no disrespect but if your black and you did find that he probaly dont even like black girls. so accept the ben stiller look alike and call it a day..lol
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep Umm I am not into white men like that. I love Latino men more than anything and it is because of my past history with them. Latino men treat me better than any black man that I have ever been with. White men are ok. I prefer the ghetto white boys more than anything else.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts well ms kate you like what you like but you also have to look at things on a geographical standpoint...i stay in memphis and there are alot of ghetto women who smoke, drink,and curse ( i dont ).i love my sisters but i make a nice yearly salary..and i am a classy guy who like my bmw without loud speakers and big rems.. so i want a classy girl..but i havent been treated fair by any black women but i cant say all of them are bad..its maybe jus memphis chicks...get the point?
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep Oh honey I feel so sorry for you. Memphis is nothing but a huge ghetto black community that people pass off as a city when it is nothing but the gutter. If I were you I would move to Boston, New York, LA, Seattle or Chicago. Those are the best cities to live in in America. The suburbs of those cities are just as nice and its very affordable. Classy upper class black people like you and I do not deserve to be around ghetto black people like that. I will pray for you honey.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts yea i thought about that instead of giving up on my black women altogehter...thanks for the advice
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep When you notice a consistency in something you begin to predict the possible outcome. That;s how I feel about black men. Sorry!
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts aw ok...yea im sort of beginning to feel the same about black women too but i cant though..because i honestly know that there are some very respectable,sexy, black women out here..but i believe that either they are married, dont live near me, not attractive, or maybe not attracted to me..lol.. so the chances of me finding that woman is slim to none..thats just black america in 2011...but when i drive up in my BMW with katie im a sell out though...its a lose lose situation..lol
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep Look Honey I do not hate black men. I just hate when you black men toy with my heart and play games. I'm a little bitter because I fell in love with a gorgeous black man and he cheated on me and it has happened to me more than once so now I just want revenge. I know that not all black men are bad but it just feels good to make a few black men suffer because it makes me mentally feel like I have gotten even with the ones that hurt me.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts I never said you hated black men. But ask yourself this, if you got bad service at a restaurant does that mean your're going to give up on EVERY restaurant?? probaly not..so why are you putting this negative stereotype on every black man? Then you say you fell in love with a GORGEOUS black man. not respectful, not hardworking but GORGEOUS. Im not saying get with someone who's ugly, but maybe your falling for the wrong qualities.
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep Looks are a priority. The man I am with has to look good. I don't care how good the ugly man treats me I am not going to subject myself to him. I want cute babies and I want to show my man off to my friends and have other women looking at me and my handsome man together. let me give you an inside tip most women go for the bad boys because it makes other women jealous. All we are trying to do is show off and make other women jealous.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts And how are you getting back at your Ex's by hurting other black men?. Check your logic, if you're still bitter over what your Ex's did..then honestly who's getting back at who?..There still gettting on with their relationships and lives and your still bitter and mad over what they did weeks, months or years ago. Sorry but I think they're still winning...
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep 'Sorry but I think they're still winning'
No actually I am winning because I have their social security numbers date of births first middle and last names so therefore I can destroy their credit by applying for loans credit cards, and renting furniture under their names which I have done successfully so that they will never be able to have anything under their name because I fucked them over and did it happily.
MsKateRoberts 2 months ago
@MsKateRoberts
I can never get your name out of my head sister. You have made comments that I have never forgotten. Some of your outlandish comments in the past I use as a barometer and guidance. But it still seems like you are turning the corner nonetheless. I know deep down you love black men. And you know what? I love you too. Peace.
mostsincere 1 month ago
@mostsincere I do love black men I just rather not deal with them or date them because they are nothing but a headache and full of drama. To be honest with you I'd rather not be in a relationship period especially with a black man. You see sweetie black men do not know how to be boyfriends or husbands they are totally clueless in that department.
MsKateRoberts 4 weeks ago
@MsKateRoberts
All black men are not that way. I have a big heart and I do not treat people like trash. I am sorry that you have met the wrong ones. I would not have treated you incorrectly. I know how to love a woman. Peace.
mostsincere 4 weeks ago
@MsKateRoberts Black women don't know how to be girlfriends, or wives they are totally clueless in that apartment as well. Matter of fact majority of black women are not even marriage material. Even though black women outnumber black men, there are still not enough black women out here that are wife material. You see black women can't even talk about how fucked up a lot of black men are, because there are more black women out here that are fucked up than black men, stop being in denial.
4life1deep 3 weeks ago
@4life1deep I am not in denial. I am a good black woman that has degrees and so much money that I actually donate to charity. I have tons of money and a successful career. I am ver independent and happy.
MsKateRoberts 1 week ago
@MsKateRoberts Plus a lot of black women don't even want a good man. A lot of them fool around in their 20s chasing and having kids out of wedlock by thugs, drugdealers, gangbangers, convicted felons, and lazy bums, then all of a sudden in their late 20s and early 30s,they be looking for a good black man to step up and take care of her and her children she had out of wedlock by these lowlife niggas. Thats one big reasons why a lot of black women are not wife material, too many kids.
4life1deep 3 weeks ago
@4life1deep I have no kids and no man and I am soooo happy. i finished college I have a well paying job and I can go and do whatever I feel like. I tried the whole boyfriend thing and it is just so complicated and comes with too much stress especially with Black Men unfortunately. Honey you black men complain and are full of nothing but drama. Black Men are a huge headache in relationships. You all are sexy but when it comes to dating uh, uh. I won't do it again. I love being single too much.
EricaKane2013 2 weeks ago
@EricaKane2013 Hey a lot of black men feel the same way about majority of black women. Majority of you sistas are not marriage material. It's too complicated when it comes to black women as well, too many of you have kids out of wedlock by losers, too many of you have a promiscuous past you tried to cover up, too many of you don't want a good man, too many of you on this independent shit, too many of you are materialistic,too many of you have a fucked up attitude, i can go on.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@EricaKane2013 I don't have no kids as well and i'm looking for a sista with no kids that have her mind right. Its not easy to find a good black woman as well sista. As much as black women say that a lot of black men are no good, you all can't even talk about black men, you all need to look in the mirror at yourselves. Even though black women outnumber black men, that are still not enough good black women out here. Black women are more fucked up than black men are.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@4life1deep Just because someone gets convicted of a crime does not make them a bad person because trust me there are plenty of people out there that break the law. The only thing is the person who did time got caught. A criminal rapsheet doesn't tell the whole story about the person. Their actions do.
MsKateRoberts 1 week ago
@4life1deep I only have 2 girls from the same man and whoever I decide to date doesn't have to worry about them beacuse my children are very mature for their age and can pretty much take care of themselves.
MsKateRoberts 1 week ago
@MsKateRoberts Another reason why black women are not wife material is this i'm independent and i don't need a man mentality. That alone eliminates 90% of sistas unfortunately.
4life1deep 3 weeks ago
@4life1deep You do realize men play a dominant role and are over-seers in society. If too many women are dating no good men and are having children out of wedlock it says a lot about the men in the community. This idea that once the women change everything will be in place is pathetic and a tale sign on why the black community is in shambles. The reason why good black men have not established dominance over thug mentality and ghetto culture is due to their weakness not black women.
kesomox 2 weeks ago
@kesomox No if the women are rejecting the black men that are good and purposely going to the black men that are living a life of crime, and bringing down the black community, then that tells a lot about the black women in the community.How can the good black men established dominance over a race that reject positivity, but embrace negativity?Seem like to me you are saying black women go for the thugs because they are stronger than the good black men. Black women are following false leaders.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@kesomox How are the good brothas are considered to be weak? I'm a good black man, and i'm not weak.I'm not only mentally strong i am physically strong, i can hold my own. Maybe black women are intimated by strong black men. Thats why they go for thugs, drugdealers,jailbirds and the lazy bums,because they can control those men. A lot sistas know that they have to fall in line and play their role when they are with real black men, but they don't want to,so they rather choose these lowlife niggas.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@4life1deep For someone who loves generalizations you should realize the individual does not add up to much. good black men have let their communities slip out of their hands and let it degenerate... It is up to men to make moves, then lead it is not an entitlement. Black men don't do that, Instead make excuses and place blame. You can try all you want to make it seem like a large majority of black men have their act together but come on
kesomox 2 weeks ago
@kesomox I did not say the majority of black men have their act together. There are alot of black men that do have their act together and there are alot that don't. Black women can't talk about black men because the majority of them don't have their act together.Black women don't want to be led by strong black men, they want to keep the black community matriarchal. Thats why they choose to breed with the bottom of the barrel niggas because they want control and they can remain independent.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@kesomox I agree men suppose to lead,God ordain men as the head of the household, but the problem is the majority of black women rebel against that.They don't want to be led by black men,and its not because black men don't have their act together, thats a lame excuse from black women. Black women want to be independent, they don't need a man,black women made that clear. Thats why the majority of them are not marriage material. Feminism has ruined the minds of black women.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@4life1deep See all you do is make excuses and placing blame. That should not be the case. The issue is if black women are finding it to easy to breed with these kinds of men then there is something wrong with black men.... but that does not matter in your mind all you need to do is shift blame onto black women. They are the only women in the world that carry the burden of all the shortcomings of their race while black men do what they want and wonder why we can never get respect.
kesomox 2 weeks ago
@kesomox Seem like to me, in your eyes black women are not accountable for nothing. You know thats a damn lie, black men get blamed for everything bad in the black community,black women are not held accountable for nothing.Black men are the ones carrying the burdens of all the negative things that go on in our community. Black women can do what the hell they want, and don't get judge on the poor choices they make,out of wedlock kids they have, and the negative behaviors they display out here.
4life1deep 2 weeks ago
@4life1deep But it is true we are independent and don't need a man to stress me out and interrupt my career. The only thing a man is good for is sex and giving me a baby. Other than that I don't need a man. i love my single life. I work, come home and do whatever I want with no man stressing me out. I have all of my bills paid I have two cars and live in a big house by myself. And you know what? It feels damn good. I wouldn't trade that feeling for the world. Independent and loving it!
EricaKane2013 2 weeks ago
@4life1deep Of course we are independent women. When we use the word independent we are referring to not depending on anyone for finances. We do it on our own. We buy what we want and pay our bills on time. It does not mean that we don't want a man.
MsKateRoberts 1 week ago
@MsKateRoberts When black women say they are strong, and independent, i have my own car, my own house my own money, i don' t need no man. Thats a very arrogant statement to make. Black women are the only race of women that say that, and they wonder why they are single. The reason why black women like that don't have a man is that they rebel against their role in a relationship. Black women think being strong, means being, rebellious, belligerent, and stubborn, who wants to deal with that?
4life1deep 1 week ago
@MsKateRoberts You said you are a good black woman, you have a successful career,you have degrees, you make tons of money and you donate it to charity, you are very independent and happy. Are you really happy? Money don't make you happy especially when you are lonely. Plus just because you have degrees doesn't make you a good woman. I notice people who brag about what they have, deep down inside are insecure, not saying that about you because i don't know you.
4life1deep 1 week ago
@4life1deep Oh I am not unhappy ay all I am just stating my accomplishments. I have worked hard to get to where I am today. Money makes me very happy. I don't need a man to make me happy President Grover Cleveland and President James Madison are the loves of my life. They get me whatever I want whenever i want it. Money makes me secure.
MsKateRoberts 4 days ago
@MsKateRoberts You said the key words''Money makes me secure". Lets say if you wasn't making that much money and you couldn't buy the things you wanted, would you still be happy? It seems like to me you depend on money and material things to make you happy. So i am basically right about people who tend to brag about how much money they have and how successful and independent they are, and they don't need a man, deep down are insecure and lonely.
4life1deep 3 days ago
@4life1deep Sweetie it's called a little something called governemt assistance. This is the number one reason why black marriages are falling apart. Black women find that they don't need to depend on black men as much because they get government assistance. Let me give you a little run down. Section 8 takes care of the rent. Food Stamps takes care of the food. WIC takes care of the baby. Welfare gives her spending money. SSI also gives her spending money and pays her bills.
GwenHotchkiss 2 days ago
@GwenHotchkiss Everything you are saying about black women and the welfare system i already know.I know black women that are on section 8 housing, and they do nothing but lay up and have kids out of wedlock by thugs. These women don't want responsible black men because they don't want a black man to be the head of the household they want to be the head. Being on section 8 getting government assistance, a man is not allow to be in the house, breaking up black families. I totally agree with you.
4life1deep 1 day ago
@4life1deep Medicare is free Health Insurance for her and the baby, The Food Pantry is a foodbank that establishes food just incase the foodstamps run out and there is no more food in the house. So as you can see there is no need for the black husband. The government has stepped in and taken over than role. So yes they are are INDEPENDENT.
GwenHotchkiss 2 days ago
@GwenHotchkiss They are not independent, they depend on the government, but everything you said is true.
4life1deep 1 day ago
@4life1deep In their eyes they are independent because there is no man.
GwenHotchkiss 23 hours ago
@MsKateRoberts Also answer this question, if you black women are so strong independent, and don't need a man, then why you all complain about not having a man? Honestly this whole strong independent black woman, i don't need a man motto a lot of you sistas live by is a big front to be.
4life1deep 3 days ago
@TheBsheep
Dude, why are you trying to reconcile with that bitch?
She's obviously nuts and no real man will put up with that mouth of hers on Youtube or in person.
RBG02005 2 months ago
@RBG02005 lol..your right man..i havent texted back since..it seems like her mind is made up..sad
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep
Sad for her...she's chosen her own fate.
You're a man. We age like wine, and they age like cheese. As long as we focus on our careers and get that paper, they'll be there legs spread from sea to shining sea. You don't have to give it to them either. They just need to know that you have it.
You could look like Spongebob. But if you write your number on the back of a bank statement with $50,000 in your checking account, she'll be DTF that night, bro.
RBG02005 1 month ago
@RBG02005 lol...man you are absolutely right.."you can look like sponge bob"..lol..but there are plenty of women out here like that!!
TheBsheep 1 month ago
@TheBsheep
Youtube "richguy1975".
He puts up a bunch of videos made by this radio host in Los Angeles (the home of the golddigger) named Tom Leykis. White men go through the same thing with their women, so it seems it's just American women in general.
He teaches you how to deal them. If you're at a bar and you need to be an M.D. to get laid...then poof, your'e an out of town M.D. for the night.
If she has sex w/you just b/c she thinks you're an M.D., she got what she deserved.
RBG02005 1 month ago
@RBG02005 lol..i like that..that is a good way to break them up from the gold digging tendencies!!...thanks im going to check richguy out...afterall i guess you're right, both races black and white have their share of ignorant women
TheBsheep 1 month ago
@clip11 yeah like MsKate said, when I was in college majority of bw are chasing after the pro-athlete prospects or the greeks, or the club promoters but you cant fault women for liking what they like... Now that I graduated no change still dont give me the time of day & always busy... but you gotta get into your flow I guess. I started going after hoodrats to get my flow & confidence going. Im doing my thing but we're seen just average like MsKate dont really have a fighting chance.
JHeights83rd 3 months ago
My man I agree with everything here. all through out high school and most of college i wasnt "thug" enough for the black woman. i just couldnt get one. turned down or cheated on, and i got dumped. Now that i got a new car, graduated college all these same women that overlooked me and dropped out! got babys by the thugs. NOW they come into my store and try to talk to me. they want to "chill" now . fuck that shit. I dont judge all black women by the ones that did me wrong. I still seek one.
niceprince 4 months ago
@niceprince I agree with you 100% brother!
thuglifegreg24 4 months ago
@niceprince Honey not al of us black women are like that. I grew up in the suburbs and went to private schools and graduated college. I have my own condo and very successful in life. I love all men as long as they treat me right and can make me laugh. Wome love a man who can just simply make them laugh. The thing is most women love a man with a little edge to themnot necessarily a "thug". In your relationships you probably tried to hard instead of being yourself that is a turn off.
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
@MsKateRoberts I tried too hard instead of being myself? are you serious? Myself is what they didn't want.
niceprince 4 months ago
@niceprince Has it ever dawned on you that maybe those girls that turned you down weren't meant for you? You might not have been that womans type. You need to love yourself and accept yourself. Don't let anyone make you change who you are just because they do not like the real you. Because if you put on that act in the long run it will catch up to you and that woman is going to realize that you decieved her. Its best to be yourself and let love find you the real love.
MsKateRoberts 4 months ago
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Mcdonalds and marry Javonte. He was good enough to fuck around with from 16-30.
clip11 4 months ago
lame and didn't want to fuck with him, the white women would fuck with him. The white women considered it a good thing he was in school and not in and out of jail. Now he's in his mid 30's and owns a McDonalds or 2, instead of flipping burgers at one, and he's married to one of the white women who didn't consider him a lame. And those same black women who considered him a lame are now mad that he's with a white woman. Why are these black women upset. Go to
clip11 4 months ago
Then when they want to get married they dont want to marry Javonte because he has several felonies, been in and out of jail, several children he doesn't support, and is now in his mid 30's and flips hamburgers at Mcdonalds with 16 year olds or maybe doesn't have a job at all. Meanwhile, the brother they considered lame and a square simply because he went to school and had never been to jail, OWNS the Mcdonalds that Javonte works at. But while the black women were knocking him for being
clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 Amen!!! I agree! I been saying the same thing for numerous years.
thuglifegreg24 4 months ago
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and opening their legs for all these so-called thugs and gangsters. I guess these ladies want the good black guys to just stand around and wait until they're through having their fun with Javonte. Black women need to quit contributing to their own problem.
clip11 4 months ago
the way alot of black women see it, if a black man hasn't been to jail or prison, or is in college (unless he is an athlete) he isn't man enough for them. And like I said, this attitude isn't just among your so-called hood rat black women, but also among your college attending black women. You can go to a HBCU and those same ladies who will later be complaining when they are 35 and 40 and ready to get married that there aren't any good black men, are running around with
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clip11 4 months ago
@clip11 Exactly!!!!
thuglifegreg24 4 months ago
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no good black men. Men want sex, so if all they see is the black woman going to the no good black men, more black men are going to be no good.
clip11 4 months ago
Alot of black women complain they're no decent black men, but they don't want the decent black men. They complain about black men being drug dealers or kicking their ass, whenever these men aren't in jail. But then go to bed with these same men. And this includes college educated black women. I cant count how many times i heard of a black woman that was a college student or graduate who's boyfriend was the neighborhood dope man. Jaylove is right. If you want good black men, quit fucking the
clip11 4 months ago
great advice
pinkcow27 4 months ago
Some think that these "thugs" are hustlers and they make so much money by selling drugs and ish, havin these material stuff but no positive future goals. Then when the baby get locked up, then what? Also BET is the cause of these actions of ppl, it actually influence them to follow the footsteps of what they see and heard, not knowing that everyone will receive the same result. Thats y alot of black are considered ignorant and has the most welfare. Im not trying to be funny its the truth!
kkdb22 4 months ago
@A9nomus his level of education, his long-term and short-term goals, and whether or not he treats women and people in general with respect. I bet if you go to your local Craigslist and browse the 'Women Seeking Men' section that you will find very little to none that addresses these wants in a man. That's because they don't really go seeking these things first; the qualities that make a good man, GOOD.
OmniDaAngel 4 months ago
@A9nomus I mean preference is fine, but most women I've even come across have a list of standards that is in many cases so ridiculous that they cut off a majority of men, solely for physical or material attributes. And by doing so they effectively eliminate most men who are of any worth outside of the bedroom and/or what they have in their pocket. I see most women saying they want a TALL SEXY man, has his OWN CAR/JOB, and financially stable, and not once mention anything about his personality...
OmniDaAngel 4 months ago
@A9nomus and/or are so emotionally unavailable for chasing the "thug/bad boy/prettyboy" types and getting hurt that their sense of a qualifies a "good man" becomes distorted. I wish I could find a "good" Black woman but even the ones here in college are swept up into the whole "frat/ football or basketball jock/thuggish" scene. It's astounding, even more so when I hear guys say they aren't trying to be in a relationship with these girls and those girls still go after these guys...
OmniDaAngel 4 months ago
@A9nomus not "arm candy/fuck buddy" material. And I quote a girl who I was very interested in until I recognized the type of relationship she wanted: "I'm young, when I get older then I'll think about settling down but until then I'll play the field". Even at a young age, women, black and in general, tend to place guys into a "fuck the bad boy, then marry the good guy" scenario. I can't tell you how many of the same girls, many I've known since secondary school, are now pregnant single moms...
OmniDaAngel 4 months ago
@A9nomus I'll respond to your postings. I AM a college student, 23, educated and very well-spoken. I've been looking for "wife" material for as long as I've been an adult and I can tell you, us men do look for that, even in college. The fact of the matter is, women at an early age do not put themselves out there like that and both you and I know this. All the girls I went to school with, from high school to my now senior year in college, saw guys who followed these principles as weak or ...
OmniDaAngel 4 months ago
I don't even think you can limit the "type" of women that are enfatuated with these thugs..., to just black women anymore.
I mean, it is a very played out and tired statement to keep saying over and over again. Take a look around you, I tend to see more and more white and latino females with these low life-tatted up-pants around their-asses" type negroes. And what's even more sad.......they are starting to produce kids with these men.
Creditgirl2020 4 months ago
Intro music is epic...
tim23tom23 4 months ago
Loves a good man.....There's nothing sexier than a man who is educated, goal-oriented, respectful, loyal, and BLACK
MsInterpret 4 months ago 2
At 1:24, they are not "overlooked". They are disregarded and looked down upon.
There is a difference.
krizzex 4 months ago
Amen to this video, I always get "teased" (in a sort of way) by some of my friends for that man I'm choosing to date but I'm engaged and will be married next year more importantly I'm happy :)
AStaRLuV 4 months ago
well, the thing with me is that i keep getting men old enough to be my FATHER approach me, and thats not what i want. i want someone older, yes, but closer to my age...late 20's to early to mid 30's is ideal.
piscesariescusp121 4 months ago
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@MrPhillydude77 I'm sorry you feel that way. Then explain to me why there are white women with broke black men and why black men are with black women when they're at their low but as soon as they get some money they're dissing her. HMM. Sounds ignorant to me. Not all black and white women are gold diggers when it comes to black men that what you're saying. Some of them are playing themselves though.
MysteriouzBrown 5 months ago
fuck blk american women brothas go get a latina!!!!!!
thesouthrapsucks 5 months ago
@thesouthrapsucks no asian ^_^
krzintegraboi 5 months ago
@krzintegraboi another good choice
thesouthrapsucks 5 months ago
@thesouthrapsucks What do you mean by your comment?
carmendecor 4 months ago
Again this is real talk, Im already married but I went through the hell of the dating game. Great Channel.
ErikandAndreea 5 months ago
Sisters can turn this whole problem around by making better choices and judgment on choosing guys. If every single lady say they want a guy with a $teady job,Career, some educational background, No or 1 child that he is taking care of, good family structure, Own car & Place to live then these "thugs" will be out trying to do just that. Don't settle for losers. Enforce the marriage option.Young women demand that and you will be able to make a change for the best.
bigreef2007 5 months ago
FUCK these stuck up black hoes,,black men I encourage you to date other races and you will have so much more peace. TOO LITTLE TOO LATE. AND FUCK STEVIE HARVEY,,, NOTHING BUT A LYING ASS SELLOUT....
theright1allthetime 5 months ago
I agree I was rejected by these women now that I made it they want me now. Too little too late.
erictbrown1 6 months ago 2
Preach brother!!!!!!!!!
RalphFee 6 months ago
I cant blame woman for not wanting broke people but i will never respect women for liking criminals..
julioholderbusiness 6 months ago
Black girls are horrible..you want black you gotta pick hispanic dominican panamanian brazilian etc or carribean...american black woman are usually not dateable.They are horrible looking most cases anyways..
julioholderbusiness 6 months ago 2
The truth is like rain, it doesn't care who it falls on. Well said brother.
dfrost45 6 months ago
Black american culture of mediocrity affects males much worse than females. No boy is going to turn down a girl who is extremely attractive but who also happens to make good grades. Boys don't care about the status of the girl as long as she looks fine. Girls do care about status and, unfortunately, the Black American culture of mediocrity tells us that Black males who like to fight and are defiant of authority have the highest status
chris78253 6 months ago
@chris78253 Well said!!! We as black women are conditioned to be attracted to thugs because of the music videos and movies. In the end, the "thugs" are the ones who look and act like they have stepped out of a video or the jungle. I personally would rather have someone I can take around my colleagues or my friends and not have to worry about them making me look like a fool.
SimoneDew87 6 months ago
I gotta disagree with him on Steve Harvey...I do know some brothas that just want to have fun and don't want to settle down so even though that's not every black man it is some of us so there is some truth in what Steve said...shoot some have gotten married and divorced then they want to play the field a bit...me personally I like to have fun myself but when I find that certain women I know when it's time to be serious and work towards settling down
dollarbill125 6 months ago
excellent video dude,speaking the truth!
TheSwastika999 6 months ago