So people are acting like you cant have a relationship while going to school, but your suppose to jump in that great relationship right after you finish schooling and now have a busy career? That makes no sense. These BW arent celebant while getting their education so they have relationships or whatever they want to call it, but htey just want to act like school is all that they are concentrating on. Hell some get pregnant while in school. Like you said they have first dibbs at those men.
@thatnewguy84 These women are looking at the right now instead of the future. They want that picture perfect husband right then and there because they feel they deserve it and anything less is settling. What sense does that make. Not to metion a degree doesnt mean successful. There are people with degrees who have regular average paying jobs. So you have women thinking they deserve a picture perfect CEO, doctor or lawyer when they work at walmart or some regular place.
@thatnewguy84 you got it.......also i'd like to point out that just because a guy is a doctor, lawyer, or a CEO doesn't mean he's a good man......he's well paid i'll give you that but who's to say that he's good......idk if they see it but when play women scream out "we want ballers" it makes them look like sluts trying to sell their body to the high bidder.....how about "we want men that treat us with respect"......"we want men that listen to what we have to say and value our opinion".....
they going to reach out to black men some day soon or later..... thats when the pale man say reach out to them, you know they have the tendencies to obey the pale man. i.e when the pale man say "reach out, and be humble to the men of your kind and love them regardless of their educational back ground" then most of them will act with fidelity.
It's not fair that a educated , nerdy Black guy has to get with some older, uglier, fat woman that demands marriage.She's all dried up ovaries wise so she's not breedable and she's getting uglier all the time.
black women who are educated fall in love with options, they have one of the qualities society deems valuable, but they don't understand marriage is for Godly women, and every woman just because she or he went to college does not mean they are Godly. With that education she holds as a trophy only to whore themselves out to the highest bidder. these type women are not concerned about being faithful to God or anyone but themselves for that matter. so your answer is simply out of being SELFISH.
Blacks date and marry each other most of the time. The same goes for each race. So If bw are single in high numbers. Then bm are ALSO single in high or even higher numbers than bw. You see only a very small percentage of bm marry out their race. And more often than not those relationships completely fail. Yet the partner is not a bw.
My thing is this,BW claim to have it all,Even men of other races,And claims BM aren't nothing,Why in the year 2010 are we still talking about this dead topic?
You're right. That is why I didn't bother talking about the recent story on 20/20.
On the other hand, I may bring up the fact that many black women move to ATL, where the ratio is like 13:1. That is like going to an Adidas outlet, but wondering why they aren't selling Nikes.
Exactly!!How many times we've been on those blogtalkshows plenty,And the few who called,for the exception of the few saying the same things over and over.That's why I say,Its not worth it anymore.I'm surprised SWP and Kap are still talking about it.
i totally agree with you. cause i feel that those women on the video were going about catching a man in not exactly the right way.if a dude is after a chick for her money and what she has hes a jefferson darcy.
and a dude has more money and power, hes not gonna care too much about her income & job title unless hes royal ( a king) or in the political field ( mayor, senator,president ) .
all and all, its sad to see cause they were cute. they just really need evaluate their selections in men & become more realistic about just what a good man really is. its not always about the money, there are stay at home dads too that rasie the kids.
If black women feel black men are the lowest, how do they feel any other race of men will want to marry them if even the lowest of the low would'nt marry them? women feel just because a man utilizes your bodies for his own self gratification, does not mean he loves or that you two actually have a future together.
@hermanglimsher . here is the catch a BW only wants a BM that is not loyal & that every other BW wants & the loyal BM have no chanse with BW, even if both men are identicle twins. the studies have been done & the results are in. lol
Great vid Smitty, u made some valid points. Nevertheless, even though you've explained it in a clear, intelligible manner, there will be black women who still won't get it. As a result, they'll continue to be single...
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Tsmitty, why are you assuming that bw have first dibbs on bm at institutions of higher learning? Many times these BM are not interested in their female counterparts. Also, do not think for ONE moment that BW are NOT interested in men of other races, it is not true anymore. BW are more inclined to exercise their God given right to love across color lines. Have you ever thought that many BW over 45 who are single because they CHOOSE to be? Thanks for sharing this vid.
That succesful bw mess is so overrated its rediculous.
JGREEN3575 1 year ago
So people are acting like you cant have a relationship while going to school, but your suppose to jump in that great relationship right after you finish schooling and now have a busy career? That makes no sense. These BW arent celebant while getting their education so they have relationships or whatever they want to call it, but htey just want to act like school is all that they are concentrating on. Hell some get pregnant while in school. Like you said they have first dibbs at those men.
thatnewguy84 1 year ago
@thatnewguy84 These women are looking at the right now instead of the future. They want that picture perfect husband right then and there because they feel they deserve it and anything less is settling. What sense does that make. Not to metion a degree doesnt mean successful. There are people with degrees who have regular average paying jobs. So you have women thinking they deserve a picture perfect CEO, doctor or lawyer when they work at walmart or some regular place.
thatnewguy84 1 year ago
@thatnewguy84 you got it.......also i'd like to point out that just because a guy is a doctor, lawyer, or a CEO doesn't mean he's a good man......he's well paid i'll give you that but who's to say that he's good......idk if they see it but when play women scream out "we want ballers" it makes them look like sluts trying to sell their body to the high bidder.....how about "we want men that treat us with respect"......"we want men that listen to what we have to say and value our opinion".....
vanityrose12 4 months ago
they going to reach out to black men some day soon or later..... thats when the pale man say reach out to them, you know they have the tendencies to obey the pale man. i.e when the pale man say "reach out, and be humble to the men of your kind and love them regardless of their educational back ground" then most of them will act with fidelity.
cocoaj13 1 year ago
They might be married but they have a boat load of kids and them frat boys at the college are the babby daddies in some of those cases.
mightyblack1 1 year ago
"My Take on Why Many Highly Educated Black Women Are Umarried At 45"
Perhaps because they're "45"...
Efferts 2 years ago
It's not fair that a educated , nerdy Black guy has to get with some older, uglier, fat woman that demands marriage.She's all dried up ovaries wise so she's not breedable and she's getting uglier all the time.
nerdon3rd 2 years ago
it's college..wtf.
TheAtown101 2 years ago
black women who are educated fall in love with options, they have one of the qualities society deems valuable, but they don't understand marriage is for Godly women, and every woman just because she or he went to college does not mean they are Godly. With that education she holds as a trophy only to whore themselves out to the highest bidder. these type women are not concerned about being faithful to God or anyone but themselves for that matter. so your answer is simply out of being SELFISH.
MrWarrenblue 2 years ago
Most educated Black women are lesbian.
Tsugua21 2 years ago
Blacks date and marry each other most of the time. The same goes for each race. So If bw are single in high numbers. Then bm are ALSO single in high or even higher numbers than bw. You see only a very small percentage of bm marry out their race. And more often than not those relationships completely fail. Yet the partner is not a bw.
openmindedfemme 2 years ago
We should take the opportunity to hook up right here instead of whining. Single women 32-38 get in touch with me
lemmieatit 2 years ago
My thing is this,BW claim to have it all,Even men of other races,And claims BM aren't nothing,Why in the year 2010 are we still talking about this dead topic?
chenderson30 2 years ago
You're right. That is why I didn't bother talking about the recent story on 20/20.
On the other hand, I may bring up the fact that many black women move to ATL, where the ratio is like 13:1. That is like going to an Adidas outlet, but wondering why they aren't selling Nikes.
TSmitty3000 2 years ago 2
Exactly!!How many times we've been on those blogtalkshows plenty,And the few who called,for the exception of the few saying the same things over and over.That's why I say,Its not worth it anymore.I'm surprised SWP and Kap are still talking about it.
chenderson30 2 years ago
i totally agree with you. cause i feel that those women on the video were going about catching a man in not exactly the right way.if a dude is after a chick for her money and what she has hes a jefferson darcy.
riddickvonsayian 2 years ago
and a dude has more money and power, hes not gonna care too much about her income & job title unless hes royal ( a king) or in the political field ( mayor, senator,president ) .
riddickvonsayian 2 years ago 2
@riddickvonsayian The smart Black guy gets old, ugly ,bitches while the thug was fucking the fresh ones in HS.
nerdon3rd 2 years ago
all and all, its sad to see cause they were cute. they just really need evaluate their selections in men & become more realistic about just what a good man really is. its not always about the money, there are stay at home dads too that rasie the kids.
riddickvonsayian 2 years ago
If black women feel black men are the lowest, how do they feel any other race of men will want to marry them if even the lowest of the low would'nt marry them? women feel just because a man utilizes your bodies for his own self gratification, does not mean he loves or that you two actually have a future together.
MrWarrenblue 2 years ago
One of the biggest problems facing black women is their loyalty to black men.
Black men on the other hand have no loyalty to black women.
Black women have to make themselves more marketable to other races of men.
hermanglimsher 2 years ago
@hermanglimsher . here is the catch a BW only wants a BM that is not loyal & that every other BW wants & the loyal BM have no chanse with BW, even if both men are identicle twins. the studies have been done & the results are in. lol
rikshaw223 2 years ago 2
@hermanglimsher Huge lie
llatimer2 2 years ago
Great vid Smitty, u made some valid points. Nevertheless, even though you've explained it in a clear, intelligible manner, there will be black women who still won't get it. As a result, they'll continue to be single...
YoungGrizzly82 2 years ago 2
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Tsmitty, why are you assuming that bw have first dibbs on bm at institutions of higher learning? Many times these BM are not interested in their female counterparts. Also, do not think for ONE moment that BW are NOT interested in men of other races, it is not true anymore. BW are more inclined to exercise their God given right to love across color lines. Have you ever thought that many BW over 45 who are single because they CHOOSE to be? Thanks for sharing this vid.
BlakeBarbieDoll 2 years ago