Also, lying can save people from liability. Let's say you have a controversial peronal life, but at work you are a great person. You are the best employee at work, all the children and parents love you, you make everyone happy, you do a great job, etcetera. But if the boss knew details from your personal life, he might have to fire you, whether for social reasons or legal reasons. So when your boss asks you certain questions about your life, it might be much easier to lie.
This is a very complicated topic with many distinct circumstances. While I hate having to lie, I find it almost essential in my life. I'm not going to tell my own life story, but consider this. You're a well-loved and productive member of society, but you have a career or sexual orientation that society at large hates. When people ask you about your career or orientation, you lie to avoid society potentially hating you despite being such a good person in loved in all other ways.
@thefourthcumming - too right. I covered this in discussing the right to protect your own rights. If you are not hiding being guilty of violating someone else's rights, you are not continuing to violate rights by keeping your own personal details to yourself. The world is full of people who judge inappropriately and will create consequences for the judged even if they are legally prohibited. On the other hand, if you're an active child molester who wants to work at a school, it doesn't apply.
Someone posted on my page that withholding is tantamount to lying and I have to say that generally, I disagree. People have a right to privacy. What they do not want to share is their own business. Just because someone wants to know something, doesn't mean they have a right to know it. Now, that said, if you have committed yourself to full disclosure about something specifically, and then fail to follow through, that IS a breach of commitment.
Since you can't even SEE my boobs (C CUP) I'll assume you were just meaning to offend me and that you assume that all women are insecure about their size: you're wrong, and you failed. FTR I can appreciate that you may prefer plastic to flesh, but I don't plan on endangering my life, health or breast function for any reason. In fact, even if I had less, I would love it. I happen to be a fan of small boobies (greener grass)
You made some really good points, here. I don't think you need to right it down ahead of time. You can only grow more and more comfortable talking to the lens. And the more you do, the more your thoughts flow perfectly. Keep wingin' it! A point that I'd like to make about lying. When you lie, your also violating people by damaging their ability to trust, which, in turn, makes them more likely to lie. That's what makes lying a communicable disease.
I want to give you a hug. AWKWARD.
thejobloshow 10 months ago
wtf get a hobbie
1748380 11 months ago
@1748380 - How did the fact that this is one of my hobbies escape you? lol
whatUneverknew 11 months ago 3
Also, lying can save people from liability. Let's say you have a controversial peronal life, but at work you are a great person. You are the best employee at work, all the children and parents love you, you make everyone happy, you do a great job, etcetera. But if the boss knew details from your personal life, he might have to fire you, whether for social reasons or legal reasons. So when your boss asks you certain questions about your life, it might be much easier to lie.
thefourthcumming 1 year ago
This is a very complicated topic with many distinct circumstances. While I hate having to lie, I find it almost essential in my life. I'm not going to tell my own life story, but consider this. You're a well-loved and productive member of society, but you have a career or sexual orientation that society at large hates. When people ask you about your career or orientation, you lie to avoid society potentially hating you despite being such a good person in loved in all other ways.
thefourthcumming 1 year ago
@thefourthcumming - too right. I covered this in discussing the right to protect your own rights. If you are not hiding being guilty of violating someone else's rights, you are not continuing to violate rights by keeping your own personal details to yourself. The world is full of people who judge inappropriately and will create consequences for the judged even if they are legally prohibited. On the other hand, if you're an active child molester who wants to work at a school, it doesn't apply.
whatUneverknew 1 year ago
@whatUneverknew Cool cool, I love your videos by the way.
thefourthcumming 1 year ago
Very insightful
RayDandy 1 year ago
@MisterMassMurderer - It's very unlikely. Do you have a productive question for me?
whatUneverknew 1 year ago
Someone posted on my page that withholding is tantamount to lying and I have to say that generally, I disagree. People have a right to privacy. What they do not want to share is their own business. Just because someone wants to know something, doesn't mean they have a right to know it. Now, that said, if you have committed yourself to full disclosure about something specifically, and then fail to follow through, that IS a breach of commitment.
whatUneverknew 2 years ago
Do you happen to sell books?
theDude3434 2 years ago
GET a BOOB job
vanpat1987 2 years ago
Since you can't even SEE my boobs (C CUP) I'll assume you were just meaning to offend me and that you assume that all women are insecure about their size: you're wrong, and you failed. FTR I can appreciate that you may prefer plastic to flesh, but I don't plan on endangering my life, health or breast function for any reason. In fact, even if I had less, I would love it. I happen to be a fan of small boobies (greener grass)
Peace, and natural parts!
whatUneverknew 2 years ago
errm...what about your buttocks...small, medium, large??
Peace!
judasinwaiting 1 year ago
Perhaps someday there will be some legitimate reason for them to be on camera, and the world will know. ;-)
whatUneverknew 1 year ago
Lying is antithetic to intimacy.
chupacerebro 2 years ago
HA! YES! Harm begets harm. So true. When you're rude to someone what do they want to do to you? End the cycle! =)
whatUneverknew 2 years ago
You made some really good points, here. I don't think you need to right it down ahead of time. You can only grow more and more comfortable talking to the lens. And the more you do, the more your thoughts flow perfectly. Keep wingin' it! A point that I'd like to make about lying. When you lie, your also violating people by damaging their ability to trust, which, in turn, makes them more likely to lie. That's what makes lying a communicable disease.
geoffstockton 2 years ago