My favorite PU line? "Just sleep naked with me. No sex." To those ladies who would agree I would do exactly that. In 75% of the cases (the lady slept naked with me) the ladies would come back raring for action. I married the last lady I ever tried that line on. Twenty-eight years ago and still going strong.
Secret of the alpha male: always be confident whether you feel it or not (course correct in private and if you are going to be successful you had better learn course correction)
Your "faces" come across with flashes of strong bitterness.
BTW your "different" sounds so normal. Take up nuclear engineering. That is different. If you want some help with your fast neutrons look me up on the 'net. Or perhaps you would like something more obscure. Try the FORTH Programming Language. Or perhaps you are more interested in processor design. As you can tell I'm a Power and Control kind of guy. Gigawatts.
You are so cute love totally love your personality. If you lived down hear in Ft Lauderdale we'd hit the beach by day then were headed to Las Olas and part!!!
I live here in Dubai UAE. God I wish we had more people like you. Intelligent and a good conservationist. You got so many stories to share. 90% school, university going, (I am NOT talking about professionals etc) have lost their individuality.
I am thinking of joining the Toastmasters club to meet people who are working as I myself am looking for a job. Hope things get better. Come visit the worlds tallest building here if you can, also a good place for sun and sand. Great video.
@dhanwantri Wow, Dubai, huh? Damn, that's a long ways away.
Yes, join the Toastmasters club. Join clubs and make friends. The easiest way to practice interacting with the opposite sex is simply to practice interacting. That more you do that, the better you'll be.
If you need to make up a great personality, wellcome, do it... but:
If you are good looking what the hell do you need?
Normal women have 100000 times easy to pick up men than men have.
THAT IS the reason why PUA community was created... We don´t have idea in how to relacionate with women. That is how society teach us, and that sucks.
I respect women, but if all of them began to study PUAs methods... What remains to boys? Money? Fame?
@ShadowsSeven You've got some good points - it is easier for women to pick up men. But we always end up with the terrible ones. Do you know how many times ugly men have tried to pick me up in clubs? And they're so damn aggressive. That's why I studied PUA. I wanted to pick up the men that I wanted, not the ones that thrust themselves upon me. An FYI though - you're right, women ARE studying PUA techniques. We know your tricks and we're prepared for them. Watch out.
to every new PUA out there. dont follow one PUA and everything he says. as the book the game made very clear, and as i have experienced myself, its all about expressing yourself the right way, and not manipulate yourself. therefor you cant copy one PUA, but rather copy them all. and be pleased with your final work.
DON'T NEG; it's only for good looking women who typically get lots of compliments. good looking guys do not get nearly as many compliments... so you don't need to NEG them. You'd probably have better luck with a IOI than a NEG, as long as you're not needy and approval seeking about it. I'm dead serous.
Hell almost all of the concepts you read are specifically for guys attracting women... you should just try everything out and develop your OWN routines/system/identity.
Man I can tell you right now this pua shit doesn't work... Most guys just copy some line or method and they aren't being themselves, so they are like robots... most of the info has the truth is twisted with lies and manipulation... You're always going to focus soley on getting the girl instead of being the man that attrats them.I can save you embarrasement from doing this.Go download "The dating wizard" by michael marks, n "secrets of the alpha male" by carlos xuma at 4shareddownload for free
dude that's a sweet ass shirt!!! I have a hoodie like that. But yea anyways it's good to see girls entering the field. I actually had a girl as a wing, who would help me a lot in the field, until she got married to an idiot, but w/e, welcome to the community!
Girls that are fascinated with this stuff kick ass. If you are out sarging and meeting guys with this stuff let us hear your field reports. I'm not into guys or anything but it would be interesting to know if this stuff works both ways, especially since I automatically disqualify women that approach me. I have my reasons for this. Keep us up to date
Why would he be afraid? I do the same thing and I am most definitely NOT afraid of women hahah. It just makes me not like them much when they do. I can't explain it.
I'm probably a traditionalist at heart ay. The guy should chase the woman (to an extent) and take the lead. NOT the woman.
You seem like you have a cool personality, but unlike the way women are primarily attracted to a man's personality, men are primarily attracted by a woman's looks. Personality enters the picture later. Fortunately looks are way more malleable than most women think. If you re-did your hair, got on a hardcore workout regimen, dressed sexy and got super in touch with your feminine polarity, i think you'd have high-quality guys drooling over you.
While I can't disagree with you - if I wore sexy clothes and worked out more, I could certainly draw the attention of more men - I'm not out to just get noticed. I want to draw the kind of men that I like. For me, in general, that's guys who play video games and are artists by profession. I'm a nerdy, sexy girl and I like nerdy, sexy guys. And I just love the self confidence. But hell, watch my next video. I promise I'll dress sexy for my March/April update.
If I wanted any skeevy guy that came up to me then yes, that's all I'd have to do. If I wanted a good fuck, that's all I'd have to do. However, being a woman of high value, I have high standards. By being a Venusian Artist I get to choose the men I sleep with, approach them with confidence and without intimidation, and I get the man I want. My decision, my rules. That's why I'm a Pick Up Artist.
This whole PUA community is interesting to study. "ladymelba", I've heard others state their desires and objectives in broad and sometimes vague terms as well. What exactly are you looking for in this? As a woman, are you hoping to find the man you are looking for or something other? You are attractive, surely you have men seeking time with you constantly.
Honestly, I don't. I'm quite intimidating for most men.
The PUA community gives me, first, a way to approach men without scaring them. By not telegraphing interest, they have no idea I'm flirting with them.
Second, I started reading the books because I need a way to get my career off the ground. It doesn't work well to walk up to someone and say "Hey, I sing really well, let me show you." If you sneak it in, they don't even realize what's going on.
I can see where the social dynamics practiced by the folks in this community could be used for business. You don't seem like an intimidating woman but rather outgoing and probably a good conversation. I hope everything works out well for you.
I get the 10s when I want to. I just find most conventional 10s sort of boring. For me, I'm not the type to go after a Matt Damon. I'm way more into guys who look a lot like Mystery - tall, lanky, more feminine. Think Johnny Depp with the eyeliner.
I'm looking to infiltrate the film music business and score everything from huge movies to obscure films. You should be my wing. And don't worry, wings don't fuck with each other, or each other. It's the rules right? :) Besides I love Superman. Oh well..maybe Batman too i guess...*rolls eyes*
maybe i should clarify my question... i guess i meant what is your sexual orientation but didn't know how to put it nicely.. so again feel free to private message me..
I think, for a female PUA in particular, being ambiguous about sexual orientation is twice as attractive as being straight. I wouldn't mind making out with a girl, and I've certainly hit on girls for training, though I'm more into men than women. But, to men, if it looks like I'm hitting on chicks, that makes me twice as hot.
Of course. Expand the community, learn a few things, and see where it takes me. Yes, I want to meet Pick Up Artists. I'm a PUA - I'm getting there, anyway. And I like it.
wtf no such thing as u being a pua..u go to a bar and ask a guy if he wants to fuck and he will prob say yes. u can not expand on this skill if u are a women unless u r a mental case and if so find a doctor
I disagree. I've gone out to bars and "not tried". Believe me, the men who would fuck me without question are not the men I want to hang around. They go to bars to get drunk and have an excuse to be obnoxious without consequence. I want to meet, and sleep with, who I choose. Without question, without fear. The method lets me choose without having to deal with AFCs. I like it. And, I'm a dragonslayer. I go after the PUAs.
Women have just as much approach anxiety as men. For us, we've got to come up with something that we think you'd be interested in. Lines like "Hey, there was a fight outside between two chicks" aren't going to necessarily intrigue a guy. But something like "Hey, do you know who won the fight last night - my ex and I bet $20 on it" might.
Congratulations! You have a knack for being crystal clear & obscure at the same time: instant captivation. Update your progress frequently, okay, and show those bloodstains who's boss!!!
You can expect 2 new videos in November. An update on progress/what I'm thankful for sort of kindergarten thing. Also a live video of me singing one of my own songs.
Hey Mel (Fearless), Great intro video. Very easy on the eyes too. lol Once again thanks for commenting my video and I wish you best of luck on your music journey.
Much love - Tommy
P.S. When I go to philly again, im expecting to having fun with you as my wing lol. Take care
Just wanted to tell you that you're very beautiful. Thats all, carry on!
3zib 10 months ago
My favorite PU line? "Just sleep naked with me. No sex." To those ladies who would agree I would do exactly that. In 75% of the cases (the lady slept naked with me) the ladies would come back raring for action. I married the last lady I ever tried that line on. Twenty-eight years ago and still going strong.
msimon6808 1 year ago
Secret of the alpha male: always be confident whether you feel it or not (course correct in private and if you are going to be successful you had better learn course correction)
msimon6808 1 year ago
Your "faces" come across with flashes of strong bitterness.
BTW your "different" sounds so normal. Take up nuclear engineering. That is different. If you want some help with your fast neutrons look me up on the 'net. Or perhaps you would like something more obscure. Try the FORTH Programming Language. Or perhaps you are more interested in processor design. As you can tell I'm a Power and Control kind of guy. Gigawatts.
M. Simon
msimon6808 1 year ago
You are so cute love totally love your personality. If you lived down hear in Ft Lauderdale we'd hit the beach by day then were headed to Las Olas and part!!!
Keep ya head up.
Neverstop954 1 year ago
I live here in Dubai UAE. God I wish we had more people like you. Intelligent and a good conservationist. You got so many stories to share. 90% school, university going, (I am NOT talking about professionals etc) have lost their individuality.
I am thinking of joining the Toastmasters club to meet people who are working as I myself am looking for a job. Hope things get better. Come visit the worlds tallest building here if you can, also a good place for sun and sand. Great video.
dhanwantri 1 year ago
@dhanwantri Wow, Dubai, huh? Damn, that's a long ways away.
Yes, join the Toastmasters club. Join clubs and make friends. The easiest way to practice interacting with the opposite sex is simply to practice interacting. That more you do that, the better you'll be.
Good luck.
ladymelba 1 year ago
If you need to make up a great personality, wellcome, do it... but:
If you are good looking what the hell do you need?
Normal women have 100000 times easy to pick up men than men have.
THAT IS the reason why PUA community was created... We don´t have idea in how to relacionate with women. That is how society teach us, and that sucks.
I respect women, but if all of them began to study PUAs methods... What remains to boys? Money? Fame?
PD: Sorry for my english, i´m from Spain.
ShadowsSeven 1 year ago
@ShadowsSeven You've got some good points - it is easier for women to pick up men. But we always end up with the terrible ones. Do you know how many times ugly men have tried to pick me up in clubs? And they're so damn aggressive. That's why I studied PUA. I wanted to pick up the men that I wanted, not the ones that thrust themselves upon me. An FYI though - you're right, women ARE studying PUA techniques. We know your tricks and we're prepared for them. Watch out.
ladymelba 1 year ago
to every new PUA out there. dont follow one PUA and everything he says. as the book the game made very clear, and as i have experienced myself, its all about expressing yourself the right way, and not manipulate yourself. therefor you cant copy one PUA, but rather copy them all. and be pleased with your final work.
WoBr 2 years ago
Pivot = female wing
Xray5150 3 years ago
wat forums r u on?
Jakmehauf 3 years ago
female pua? shocking.
DON'T NEG; it's only for good looking women who typically get lots of compliments. good looking guys do not get nearly as many compliments... so you don't need to NEG them. You'd probably have better luck with a IOI than a NEG, as long as you're not needy and approval seeking about it. I'm dead serous.
Hell almost all of the concepts you read are specifically for guys attracting women... you should just try everything out and develop your OWN routines/system/identity.
itCameFromEarth 3 years ago
Man I can tell you right now this pua shit doesn't work... Most guys just copy some line or method and they aren't being themselves, so they are like robots... most of the info has the truth is twisted with lies and manipulation... You're always going to focus soley on getting the girl instead of being the man that attrats them.I can save you embarrasement from doing this.Go download "The dating wizard" by michael marks, n "secrets of the alpha male" by carlos xuma at 4shareddownload for free
jdog4usmc 2 years ago
dude that's a sweet ass shirt!!! I have a hoodie like that. But yea anyways it's good to see girls entering the field. I actually had a girl as a wing, who would help me a lot in the field, until she got married to an idiot, but w/e, welcome to the community!
comiebastard 3 years ago
Wow... I think Im in love lol
Girls that are fascinated with this stuff kick ass. If you are out sarging and meeting guys with this stuff let us hear your field reports. I'm not into guys or anything but it would be interesting to know if this stuff works both ways, especially since I automatically disqualify women that approach me. I have my reasons for this. Keep us up to date
peace
Spacedevil13 3 years ago
yea here is how a pick up works for girls:
Girl: Hey what's up you wanna go to the hotel and have sex?
Guy: yes.
Done. lol
comiebastard 3 years ago 8
Tell me,are you afraid of womem? I'am very curious about the reason you got to disqualify girls who take the step.
tuliof 3 years ago
Why would he be afraid? I do the same thing and I am most definitely NOT afraid of women hahah. It just makes me not like them much when they do. I can't explain it.
I'm probably a traditionalist at heart ay. The guy should chase the woman (to an extent) and take the lead. NOT the woman.
edwebo 3 years ago
well... as they say, ~Respect~
Duneatmydonuts 3 years ago
You seem like you have a cool personality, but unlike the way women are primarily attracted to a man's personality, men are primarily attracted by a woman's looks. Personality enters the picture later. Fortunately looks are way more malleable than most women think. If you re-did your hair, got on a hardcore workout regimen, dressed sexy and got super in touch with your feminine polarity, i think you'd have high-quality guys drooling over you.
Humjob 3 years ago
While I can't disagree with you - if I wore sexy clothes and worked out more, I could certainly draw the attention of more men - I'm not out to just get noticed. I want to draw the kind of men that I like. For me, in general, that's guys who play video games and are artists by profession. I'm a nerdy, sexy girl and I like nerdy, sexy guys. And I just love the self confidence. But hell, watch my next video. I promise I'll dress sexy for my March/April update.
ladymelba 3 years ago
Man enter the game to get woman in bed.
You just change your clothing style, and you can get every man in bed. You look good. Show a little more skin.
nielsje777 4 years ago
If I wanted any skeevy guy that came up to me then yes, that's all I'd have to do. If I wanted a good fuck, that's all I'd have to do. However, being a woman of high value, I have high standards. By being a Venusian Artist I get to choose the men I sleep with, approach them with confidence and without intimidation, and I get the man I want. My decision, my rules. That's why I'm a Pick Up Artist.
ladymelba 4 years ago
Ahaha this video made me happy.
Good to see a woman getting into the community, I really think everyone can benefit from it.
Nerdy question: You mentioned LARPing, have you ever been to Gencon?
clovermite 4 years ago
I have not been to GenCon, no, but I'm looking to go to a Con at some point, just to see what it's like.
ladymelba 4 years ago
Thank you for this... it helps confirm the theory that both of us males and females struggle at times with this.
Welcome.
UntamedSoul82 4 years ago
This whole PUA community is interesting to study. "ladymelba", I've heard others state their desires and objectives in broad and sometimes vague terms as well. What exactly are you looking for in this? As a woman, are you hoping to find the man you are looking for or something other? You are attractive, surely you have men seeking time with you constantly.
IronViking 4 years ago
Honestly, I don't. I'm quite intimidating for most men.
The PUA community gives me, first, a way to approach men without scaring them. By not telegraphing interest, they have no idea I'm flirting with them.
Second, I started reading the books because I need a way to get my career off the ground. It doesn't work well to walk up to someone and say "Hey, I sing really well, let me show you." If you sneak it in, they don't even realize what's going on.
ladymelba 4 years ago
I can see where the social dynamics practiced by the folks in this community could be used for business. You don't seem like an intimidating woman but rather outgoing and probably a good conversation. I hope everything works out well for you.
IronViking 4 years ago
Maybe there is an opportunity to for girls too to get the hottest guys too. Maybe she gets the 6th and 7th and wants 10s, who knows :)
hardToSignUpHere 4 years ago
I get the 10s when I want to. I just find most conventional 10s sort of boring. For me, I'm not the type to go after a Matt Damon. I'm way more into guys who look a lot like Mystery - tall, lanky, more feminine. Think Johnny Depp with the eyeliner.
ladymelba 4 years ago
Cool vid,
feel free to private message me or not answer but just out of curiosity.. r u looking to meet men or women?
anonymousPUA 4 years ago
I'll meet anyone who interests me.
ladymelba 4 years ago
I'm looking to infiltrate the film music business and score everything from huge movies to obscure films. You should be my wing. And don't worry, wings don't fuck with each other, or each other. It's the rules right? :) Besides I love Superman. Oh well..maybe Batman too i guess...*rolls eyes*
TheArthen 4 years ago
If you're in Philadelphia, give me a holler. I'll be around.
ladymelba 4 years ago
maybe i should clarify my question... i guess i meant what is your sexual orientation but didn't know how to put it nicely.. so again feel free to private message me..
cheers
anonymousPUA 4 years ago
I think, for a female PUA in particular, being ambiguous about sexual orientation is twice as attractive as being straight. I wouldn't mind making out with a girl, and I've certainly hit on girls for training, though I'm more into men than women. But, to men, if it looks like I'm hitting on chicks, that makes me twice as hot.
ladymelba 4 years ago
wtf is this shit? u want to meet a bunch of pick up artists?
captnkurt83 4 years ago
Of course. Expand the community, learn a few things, and see where it takes me. Yes, I want to meet Pick Up Artists. I'm a PUA - I'm getting there, anyway. And I like it.
ladymelba 4 years ago
wtf no such thing as u being a pua..u go to a bar and ask a guy if he wants to fuck and he will prob say yes. u can not expand on this skill if u are a women unless u r a mental case and if so find a doctor
captnkurt83 4 years ago
I disagree. I've gone out to bars and "not tried". Believe me, the men who would fuck me without question are not the men I want to hang around. They go to bars to get drunk and have an excuse to be obnoxious without consequence. I want to meet, and sleep with, who I choose. Without question, without fear. The method lets me choose without having to deal with AFCs. I like it. And, I'm a dragonslayer. I go after the PUAs.
ladymelba 4 years ago
iv never thought about a women PUA but i can see it working.. let us know how that works out.
i heard women might have less approach anxiety, is that true for you?
anonymousPUA 4 years ago
Women have just as much approach anxiety as men. For us, we've got to come up with something that we think you'd be interested in. Lines like "Hey, there was a fight outside between two chicks" aren't going to necessarily intrigue a guy. But something like "Hey, do you know who won the fight last night - my ex and I bet $20 on it" might.
ladymelba 4 years ago
what is live action...?
aNYWAYS..fREELESS...Hollar at me..
If your ever in south florida..
Miami or Ft lauderdale let do a beach date!
pick me up!
~peace
myspace/parishernandez
paris8000 4 years ago
the stuff you do sounds pretty normal to me...
neildavid 4 years ago
Congratulations! You have a knack for being crystal clear & obscure at the same time: instant captivation. Update your progress frequently, okay, and show those bloodstains who's boss!!!
runemesa 4 years ago
You can expect 2 new videos in November. An update on progress/what I'm thankful for sort of kindergarten thing. Also a live video of me singing one of my own songs.
ladymelba 4 years ago
Hey Mel (Fearless), Great intro video. Very easy on the eyes too. lol Once again thanks for commenting my video and I wish you best of luck on your music journey.
Much love - Tommy
P.S. When I go to philly again, im expecting to having fun with you as my wing lol. Take care
Kireal21 4 years ago
Tommy, I would love to wing you. The community here seems virtually non-existant. I need to get out there again.
ladymelba 3 years ago