You know...I just found this video...I lost my baby at 10 weeks in March and well, I'm still heartbroken and depressed. I just can't deal with my husband being relieved it happened. We have to healthy children and I feel like I was the only one who really wanted this baby. Everyone in the family has taken the "Well, you didn't need another one" I am so sick of that attitude!
i am so sorry for your and your wife's loses! i too have lost my angels. 5 to be exact. it is very hard to deal with. i pray you and your wife find peace and get the bunlde you so much deserve!
geek371-how did I deal? it was very difficult but counseling helps as does leaning on family and friends for support. but the biggest healer is time. I am sorry for your losses and my prayers are with you
geek371-how did I deal? it was very difficult but counseling helps as does leaning on family and friends for support. but the biggest healer is time. I am sorry for your losses and my prayers are with you.
I lost two sons right at the start of 2nd trimester. How did you deal personally? I haven't really encountered ways for a father to deal with such things. I just turned 30 myself and so I'm not getting any younger either.
so sorry to here! i am so glad you posted so many men (like my husband) act like there fine and its no big deal. i am so glad you said this! so sorry for your loss
I see this happened several months ago, but I wanted to respond. I am so impressed by a man who is so caring and understanding about this subject. One poster here was afraid his marriage would fail...it happens. My former husband left after miscarriages and infertility rocked our relationship. He said he couldn't take it anymore. I admire your bravery in talking about it, and it says a lot about what kind of a husband you are. Hope you are all doing ok. Take care.
One of the things that is so difficult about miscarriage, are the comments people make because they do not know what to say. Please refrain from this message if you meet people who have miscarried. G*d does not take babies away from people any more than he "gives" cancer to people, and it is cruel to suggest this. I am not sure where you get this thinking from, but it is not part of any theology or religious thought that I know of, and I do have familiarity with religious thinking and belief.
Awesome to hear a lovely man talk about this issue. Thankyou for being brave enough to share your pain with us. I admire you, and I know my man can totally relate to you after we have been through the pain too.
Stumbled on you following links on another uses page. I don't know you, but I feel for you. Sorry for your loss, that is tragic. My parents lost one before me and one after me, fortunately they tried again and I have a younger brother.
You know...I just found this video...I lost my baby at 10 weeks in March and well, I'm still heartbroken and depressed. I just can't deal with my husband being relieved it happened. We have to healthy children and I feel like I was the only one who really wanted this baby. Everyone in the family has taken the "Well, you didn't need another one" I am so sick of that attitude!
mamma0daddy 8 months ago
i am so sorry for your and your wife's loses! i too have lost my angels. 5 to be exact. it is very hard to deal with. i pray you and your wife find peace and get the bunlde you so much deserve!
102938mom 1 year ago
geek371-how did I deal? it was very difficult but counseling helps as does leaning on family and friends for support. but the biggest healer is time. I am sorry for your losses and my prayers are with you
zhoeman 1 year ago
geek371-how did I deal? it was very difficult but counseling helps as does leaning on family and friends for support. but the biggest healer is time. I am sorry for your losses and my prayers are with you.
zhoeman 1 year ago
I lost two sons right at the start of 2nd trimester. How did you deal personally? I haven't really encountered ways for a father to deal with such things. I just turned 30 myself and so I'm not getting any younger either.
geek371 1 year ago
I'm so sorry for your loss, it's terribly tragic. I hope things have gotten better.
BlindMagSoprano 2 years ago
when i watch this video i almost cry i am so sooo sorry
I am say this from bit of heart
JDG2764 2 years ago
so sorry to here! i am so glad you posted so many men (like my husband) act like there fine and its no big deal. i am so glad you said this! so sorry for your loss
glorifying00 2 years ago
Hi. I am watching this video nearly a year later. Very sorry. How is everything? Maybe a better year has passed??
nf12686 3 years ago
thank you, things have gotten better. On Jan 31 our second daughter Rose was born and she makes us happy.
zhoeman 3 years ago
I see this happened several months ago, but I wanted to respond. I am so impressed by a man who is so caring and understanding about this subject. One poster here was afraid his marriage would fail...it happens. My former husband left after miscarriages and infertility rocked our relationship. He said he couldn't take it anymore. I admire your bravery in talking about it, and it says a lot about what kind of a husband you are. Hope you are all doing ok. Take care.
EMD2 3 years ago
how did you and your wife cope
i think it's going to end my marriage
it's just hard to overcome
why aren't you angry
i'm angry with the world
i just want to stay locked in a room in the dark and never be bothered again
why noone can tell me why
topsykrett17 3 years ago
we just had to hang in there. It was hard but we survived and you will too.
zhoeman 3 years ago
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I'm sorry for your loss but look at it this way, God does this only to those who its good for in the end
Khanstant 3 years ago
One of the things that is so difficult about miscarriage, are the comments people make because they do not know what to say. Please refrain from this message if you meet people who have miscarried. G*d does not take babies away from people any more than he "gives" cancer to people, and it is cruel to suggest this. I am not sure where you get this thinking from, but it is not part of any theology or religious thought that I know of, and I do have familiarity with religious thinking and belief.
EMD2 3 years ago
Awesome to hear a lovely man talk about this issue. Thankyou for being brave enough to share your pain with us. I admire you, and I know my man can totally relate to you after we have been through the pain too.
Thankyou.
AuntyHatred 3 years ago
thank you everyone, I really appreciate it.
zhoeman 3 years ago
I've gone through this same thing. I had another miscarriage today. I don't know if I can deal.
McYummie 3 years ago
That is so sad. I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and I hope you and your wife are doing well.
thesaltvixen 3 years ago
I'm going through it too...I'm so sorry. We're strangers, but I'm sending love your way...
guerapreciosa 3 years ago
im so sorry to hear that :( terrible thing to go through mate
timelordfromhell 4 years ago
seriously, i am so sorry to hear that. i can't imagine what you're going through.
TimeLegendProduction 4 years ago
thank you everyone
zhoeman 4 years ago
Stumbled on you following links on another uses page. I don't know you, but I feel for you. Sorry for your loss, that is tragic. My parents lost one before me and one after me, fortunately they tried again and I have a younger brother.
anonymous1312 4 years ago
that's too bad... Luckily, the baby is not safe in Heaven.
wlwanderer 4 years ago
I meant "Now," not "Not" xD
wlwanderer 4 years ago
thank you, I appreciate your kind words.
zhoeman 4 years ago
I'm so sorry, Tim... Must be horrible.
Boggert 4 years ago
bluddy hell. its horrible when these things happen. I'm very sorry, very, very sorry.
Toclafane76 4 years ago
:( im soo sorry :(
TimelordsRevenge 4 years ago