What Men Think About Saying "I Love You"

[vDaema]

Hmm this is interesting =) I came across this while I was looking for something else.

But, I told my boyfriend that I loved him before he said it to me and it didn't go badly. (The way I did it was hilarious/cute but I was so nervous haha) To me saying that to somebody is a big deal, especially somebody you are in a relationship with. Saying 'I love that book' and 'I love you' are completely different things and saying it a lot is a way some girls show that they mean it.

[shadd255]

women wants love and guys wants to make love.simple

[dirtyrussians666]

bullshit, my man told me he loved me firzt, =) this video is proof that guys are idiots, tell him that u want him to tell u that he loves u more. leave it at that. once its said its said, no need to remind him.

[Palpaw87]

@dirtyrussians666 he will just think you're needy and while saying it more, he wont mean it.

[Uaxis]

@dirtyrussians666 Yeah, well guys like me do hate it when women nag. If I had a girlfriend, and she became like my mother - I wouldn't like that very much.

[juanmincia]

@dirtyrussians666 I don't think you really paid attention to the video. . . .

[dirtyrussians666]

@juanmincia u have a right to ur opinion, but thats how i took it so deal with it. i dnt need to take it as you do. we r different. i understand things a different way. thanks for ur comment! =]

[CookieBear99]

yeah pretty true im a girl and i agree.... we say "I love you" haphazardly and guys when they say it and truely mean it they will :D u cant force them so say it cuz they will say it just to make u feel happy lol

[stategrad350]

Haha I dated a girl one time where I would say to her "I love Jew"... she didn't find it too funny when she finally figured out I wasn't saying "you"

[luname82]

question for all you men out there: I am all for letting the man say "i love you first" it's true it feels more real.I also would rather him wait 5-6 of really knowing me to say it.However where do you draw between taking your time to say it and plain out waisting it?I he doesn't say w/in a year is the woman waisting her time?

[FindTheBody]

I'm not sure about a woman waiting for the man to say it first. I mean, I did with my boyfriend of 6 months (though we were similarly paced), but at the same time, if the girl really feels it and wants to say it, I don't see why not. Just don't expect him to say it back. Say it because you mean it, and love what it means for you. Not because you *really* just love to hear him say it back.

[sugarshula64]

3 little, powerful words...Actions speak louder than words.

[videographerr]

ohhh yaaaaa..love them all ...., at least as long as I have to

[TheAdvant]

i use the phrase ''i love you'' to family because that kind of 'love' is unconditional in most cases.. and the girlfriend kinda love is always conditional. Family will be family for as long as you live.. gf's and wives come and go.

Girls are way less careful where they drop that phrase than men are.

[skittb89]

girls say i love you way to quickly imo

[LocustCloacina]

Well, she obviously needs to hear it more, so their advice isn't going to help her get what she needs at all. Anyway, these people say let the man say I love you first, and I've seen other articles saying the same thing, and women saying they're waiting for the guy to say it first. Yet, I've also seen articles advising guys to let the lady say it first, & now this show is advising people not to ask their partner if they love them. If people take all of the advice I've read, NO one would say it.

[Ashlee198522]

@LocustCloacina I agree to confusing and no one wins...

[TheAdvant]

women by nature are more insecure than Men are.. which is why they ask to hear "i love you" all the time.

Women are spoiled by nature. They don't have to chase Men.. men come to them and it puts women in a boarderline spoiled brat comfort zone which later turns into a curse when women overanalize everything and want to hear ''i love u'' all the time out of fear that the guy will leave them and find another woman.

[irishangel707]

you're right about most women when you say that, however not all.

[PrincessAlliMom]

@TheAdvant well from experience ive had a guy who was any womans worst nightmare tends to make u a little paranoid in future relationships

[TotallyAnnika]

0:58

i don't think the host has a WIFE ;)

[soleilangela]

"How do I get my boyfriend to say, I Love You, more?'' .. my personal opinion would be to tell him that you need to hear it just as much as he needs bedroom time. Might help him understand how you feel as many guys show their love through actions instead of words so they think that they are getting the message through when it isn't really.

and like one guy mentioned, if your not being good to him, that's certainly not helping.

[soleilangela]

I know that it's not easy for some guys to express their feelings and I'm not saying that they are jerks, but most of guys in this video are not being very sensitive towards womans needs and feelings and are pretty much telling girls to put their needs aside.

so I'm telling girls no, see the sweet guys below? Look for them instead .. lol

I can't sleep with a guy if I'm not 100% sure that he loves me and that's probably why I never got duped into sleeping or being with a guy that didn't. phew

[soleilangela]

I agree and I didn't mean to sound harsh. I was mostly offended by the guy who had a problem with a girl asking if she was loved. I'm sure he wouldn't have a problem sleeping with her though. lol the girl just needs to be reassured and any girl with a little self respect will want to make sure that she is loved before sleeping with a guy. During the relationship of course there are ups and downs, but a girl needs to know she is loved just as much as a guy needs sex. lol

[sanjuria7]

I totally agree with this :)

[bobobano]

real men are strong enough to overcome their hard shell for the person they love.

[soleilangela]

If a guy doesn't like me asking him if he loves me, he can head for the door .. and if he doesn't bother to say I love you sometimes, he's not worth my time and efforts.

These guys are total jerks.

[Shiningstars20]

I'm a guy and i totaly Agree with Soleilangela Those guy are total jerk your lover deserve the attention and to hear that you love them that show is a joke

[chadchad125]

@soleilangela but if a guy just tells u he loves by being forced to he doesn't mean it, it's just empty words and no emotion behind it. i tell my girl i love her almost every hour of the day, not because i have to but because i want to, she gives me so much reason to love her.

[soleilangela]

I don't think a guy should feel forced to do so either, but if he doesn't bother to do so, it's a different story. If he doesn't feel the emotion, I'd personally rather not be with him.

[elvenwoor]

if i had a girlfriend, it would mean more to me if she said i love you when she really meant it, that would touch me more than the ocassional i love you and such

i think with guys it's the same, men say it when they mean it, because they don't want to project false feelings onto a girl, if we aint sure, we aren't gonna say we do (at least, that is what I do)

[CrybKeeper]

Wow...they never really answered anything :( She asked, "How do I get my boyfriend to say, I Love You, more?

She didn't get an answer from these jokers.

[MissHannahJanel]

@CrybKeeper The answer was to not ask and just not hound them about it. When they say, I Love You, appreciate it. Because see the guys are saying that a lot of times they don't say it a lot because it becomes knee jerk reaction and loses its meanings. I never say I Love You first. But that's just me.

[FindTheBody]

@CrybKeeper Of course she did. They expressed that she shouldn't try to make him say it more, and laid down the reasons why. Just because you weren't satisfied by hearing exactly what you wanted to, doesn't mean it wasn't a straight up answer.

[TheCyoruk]

I only say that to my mom.. bitches can wait to be moms!!

[freemanian2027]

unfortunately... (thinking about alimony clause in divorces) yes.

[iamborghini1]

I love me... i mean you....

[meka4996]

The counterpart of this question: What do women think about saying "I obey you" or "I surrender to you" or "Yes, Sir" or "You are the Man(Head) of the house" or "I am the princess to be rescued by you[thus she is under him, as illustrated in a blow job =) ]"

[paomontenegro92]

but i meet this guy who said i love you first and i didnt say anything untill i started feel kind of bad aboyt it, what does that mean?

[kjams85]

You didn't love him and you just felt pressured into saying it by guilt, because he felt so strongly for you. Girls get guilty and feel obligated to say it as well. A guy would probably run if he were in your shoes. (just personal opinion)

[paomontenegro92]

i know! you get to feel guitly xD but he is just to nice with me that is staring to be better xD

[Deroliebe]

YAY!!!! I haven't seen these guys make a new video for a while!!!!

[WhiteDove81]

There has always been men panels...why not we have woman panels as well. Kinda discussions...will make it more interesting and much understanding.

[ZephyrEcho]

Then make one?

[IDontDoDrumCovers]

woo matt

i agree chicks just say i love .... to much ill try and not say i love stuff as much as possible and only say it when i truely meen it

[amanatee27]

MORE VIDEOS WITH THE GUY PANEL PLEASE! These at least provide the most realistic answers to questions with multiple people giving feedback!

[SophieCarol]

I agree, I always let the guy I'm dating say I love you first, but they always seem to be so early to tell me, then I am, I don't know why.

[silivrenisil]

Yeah, it makes me feel a little awkward when the guy I just sort of like tells me that he loves me... after only a few weeks of dating XD

[waldoman7]

part of the problem here is that our language only has one word for love. I hear chinese has at least 20 something. We use the same word for a crush as we do for a 70 year old couple that could still be happy just looking into each other's eyes for hours. It's possible to come to care about someone a lot in a few weeks, maybe they're even the most important person in your life, but would you sacrifice your life for them? probably not. your career? i doubt that too.

[Prettynsmartncool]

@SophieCarol same here! let me kno if u ever figure it out !

[butonlyifitscool]

yes i love how that one guy says nothing and just drinks beer. awesome gig for him

[dbz987]

YAY, ITS MATT =D

[jakylili]

half b-day sex guy!

[chealish]

YES HE IS HOT

[jakylili]

no... hes not.... im a guy i just find him funny with his facial emotions : D but shur!

[dudekillr]

OMG you said SEX

half b day sex song/vid was awesome :D

[jakylili]

lol im watching that rite now fuking funny shyt

[moolikeachicken]

it's definitely not a good thing to say it over and over, because just like that guy said, it becomes a reflex

[flowingover]

my ex bf would say i love you soooo much like all the time, and it was a little too much for me and I'm a woman.

[JoolieRoolie]

my boyfriend says he loves me all the time. and he means it. theres nothing wrong with a guy saying it a lot. he says it more than i do. its all just personal preference. as long as he's meaning it when he does say it, then its all good.

[lostdenizen]

Fuck yeah! Matt!

[RankayKreatief]

well... some people never say 'I love you' but that's not bad. Because if they say it one day, they really mean it. And this is the best feeling you can ever have.

It's more important to show how much you love someone. Who cares what you say?

[luckyclover012]

Yea Matt!

[dorifto]

it's a good thing not to say i love you too much. because if you over use it it won't have that strong meaning anymore. it will than be like any other phrase

[LmagnifiCent]

lol nice

[geekybutpretty101]

Isn't Baron the guy from College Humor's Half-Birthday Sex?

BTW, great convo.