PRETEND- SECONDHAND SERENADE[[with lyrics]]

[mrscrazygirl10]

Right now I have a stuffed nose, am dizzy, and tissues and food everywhere. I feel horrible phisically and emotionally. My mom knows I cut myself, you went and told her. Now I'm being sent off. and you're making me look like the bad guy here. Even after all this, I'm so stupid as to still love you </3 But nothing stops love ://

[BlackTshirtFan]

you tell me to drop dead. you tell me to go kill myself. you tell me that i'm worthless. you tell me that i'm a horrible person. you tell me that i'm crazy. you tell me that i'm a rude bitch that doesn't even matter. "I can face the truth." you can't. <3

[creepysmall]

<3 xx

[dreamer1051]

@Mrscrazygirl10 a guy who wants to be free from a girl he was once in love with..

[SpwinkleToose]

I will sing this song for my ex...

[mrscrazygirl10]

What is this song about, exactly?

[mrscrazygirl10]

</3....

[IndiSucks]

my crying drunk song was "two is better than one" by boys like girls.

now its pretend. fuck! lol

[akn0ledge]

nice...

[SingingOnTheRoofTops]

Well. Nine More People Are Now Added To My Hit List

[bellacullen1818]

should i sing this to my ex?

[TheAaronKellyLover]

this songs so beautiful and perfect):

[cryssylynn2]

8 people are entitled to their opinions, no matter how wrong they might be(:

[jovzilike]

I love This SOng!.

[paigenunes]

Can someone tell me wat exactly this song means? I think i noe but i just wanna make sure...? :) thanks.. -3

[Hybirt101]

the clapping was a good help,because i was playing and singing alone to it. it made my day. :)

[Ac3ssD3N13d]

Out of every single Secondhand Serenade song this is above all my favorite. Calms your emotions more than any of their songs. Dunno what it is about this song. Love it.

God bless everyone.

[StepheyIsBORED]

The beginning of this sounds like "Your Guardian Angel" by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus. <3

[cameronp20]

I like it when he said "further" in the begining.

[ncarlson4]

u said "i just cant pretend no more" what the hell were you thinking! those words will haunt me forever just please come back... </3

[keeshiamarie]

@ncarlson4

somwetimes its hard to move on but u know its right but still want them back

[smokeyafterlife]

somepoeple are pathetic

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[TreeHugger116]

Oh Robert. Why can't I seem to forget u? I thought I was over u but apparently not. I figured that out when I found myself searching for ur name in the comment boxes where people were stating their true love. I found myself hoping u still cared for me, but instead I found that I still care for u. Why is that? U were just pretending, so y am I still thinking about u?!?!?!

[TreeHugger116]

@dalene4 he's saying the rainbow he saw in her (his love) was just pretend and he sees it now

[dalene14]

What does it mean when he says " Im blind to all of your colors that used to be rainbow then; My eyes where did they go to why disappear" ?

[ThisAUsernameIs]

How did I get here, what did I do?

Those 9 words caused one of my biggest emotional breakdowns I've had in a long time, and it felt amazing <3

[imajessachu]

I fell in love, this guy he was using me so much, everyone could see it but me.

I don't know why I fell for him, Im not someone who gets attached, but I did.

Probarbly because he lied his way to my heart.

He cheated, Said he only got with me for sex, he cheated because I never give him it, thankfully, I might have loved him, but I wasn't that ready.

He tore me apart, I cried every night.

The past month, I haven't, I'm free of him.

[LonleyNiteMareDreams]

@imajessachu Wow sounds like my ex :/

[GummyBearsRAwsome]

my ex PRETENDED to love me, he really didn't >.< he can drone in his lies and suffer from it... i will never forgive him for what he did to me...ever.

[gymnasstgurll]

i wish i could get over the love of my life cause he hates me , but he gives me mixed signals cause he says im ugly as fuck and he hates me but hes always looking me in the eyes and smiling .. i just wish i could be free from him .. and i want him to tell me how he feels .. cause ill be able to face the truth .. </3

[pineappleattack1]

sorry zak...

[MeganBiancaBlatz]

My best friend told me he loved me. I thought he was just using me. Now I realize he wasn't I'm sorry but it's too late for that isn't it....

I still love you

[MyCheese1997]

people gotta stop pretending these days cuz pretending isnt going to get u anywhere in life but in a bad situation

[markjerwin03]

7 don't have freedom ;)

[allie9935]

is it a bad thing if this song makes me think of my ex-boyfriend but the song 'geine in a bottle' by christina aguilera makes him think of me?

[daisypunk1]

i hated,..,ny boyfriend cux,.,.he pretend that he loves me but then he just using me.,.,to forget his ex girlfriend.,.,

it breaks me too much

[MissMouseMorisa]

an error occurred, please try again later. NO i want to litsen to this amazingness NOW!!!

[RAMmusicc]

@MissMouseMorisa nooooo

[TheToughdawg]

all the lies u make...all of u...u torn me apart ...but u can never put a good person down.......

[TheToughdawg]

all the lies u make.....

[xoxomrsinglexoxo]

basically my whole life in only 3 and a half minutes

[kitkatgoRAWR]

I dedicate this song to zach. (:

[cloudstar772]

finally free from you... after a year and several months, i can finally smile at your memory, and hardly wince at what we used to be...thank you.

[bobbymatienzo]

calming song



[watermelon180]

I wish there was guys out there just like HIM! </3 I <3 youu secondhand serenade.

[narutohomeee]

@watermelon180 there are guys like him ;) but girls just take the false ones because they look better or something ....

[watermelon180]

@narutohomeee i donttt belieeve ittt yett.. ivee been lieed too so manyy timess my brainn cant function straihtt ;P LMAO

[myfireflie]

Beautiful song <3

[Prounspected]

7 ppl just PRETEND they dont like this.

[MicaelasaurousRex]

I enjoy the clapping at the end. :]

[Britasticx7]

you ruined the fucking song with the clapping.

[RAMmusicc]

@Britasticx7 cry about it.

[Britasticx7]

@RAMmusicc i did.

[FruityJuicySkizors]

@RAMmusicc I will.

[Lumophage]

@Britasticx7 I agree

[DontWannaLoseYuuh]

@Britasticx7 What Clapping....?

[gmguadalupe]

peborit ko :)

[cRimz0n21]

wooot woooot...

i love this song..

[gilbert7055]

wat a nice song..,tamaan jd q duh..,

[SabrinaSigns]

God I love this song C:

[MsBaileybee]

ur eyes telling me lies making me FIGHT myself

also, pick me up GIRL

[TheOtherVampire]

@MsBaileybee they got it right actually.. XD

[MsBaileybee]

its pick me up girl

[ThatEmoGirl4]

I love how John knows how to make any teenager cry. It's like he stalks all of our love lives and writes us all our own little songs.

[CassimaPwnsWoW]

@ThatEmoGirl4 Man, if only it were just to teenagers... I'm 22 and these songs hit me hard sometimes.

[cloudstar772]

@ThatEmoGirl4 so thats where my diary went...

[ThatEmoGirl4]

@cloudstar772 I know right, I feel the same way.

[adyprime]

@ThatEmoGirl4 u know what..ur right..its like he's creepin in our head.



[d0nkeyy4saLe]

LOVES IT!!!!!!!!!!! thankyouu x

[Cotopaxiheart]

DEEEEEP

[rico2905]

John vessily loves to break down the youth ,

damn i feel so fucked up bad after listening a song of him

like he has experienced my whole love life

[xsophstermarizx]

i messed up . im so foolishh :'(

[d0nkeyy4saLe]

@xsophstermarizx ?

[hiimbobwhoareu]

@xsophstermarizx i dont know u but i dont think you messed up, every one love the way your life is no matter how rough look forward to the next day things can always get better what ever u did to make u think u screwed up it happened for a reason

[michelledino07]

ouch

[Rawrnuss]

Reading all these comments makes me happy that i have my love still... some people take it for granite. i don't... but it makes me sad that some people don't have the love of there life :'(

[tucow123]

@Rawrnuss granite. lol

[cade1995]

@Rawrnuss really deep comment.woudve been really deep but u said granite lol. its taken for granted.

[Rawrnuss]

@cade1995 Well you should have capitalized words that begin a sentence, and used the right its. Another thing, you should have spelled "u" as you. would've is not spelled "woudve" and is there even a space between comment and "woudve"? 6 mistakes and i made 3. Now who cares about spelling obviously not you, so shut up. ^^

[bandnerdsopranopiano]

so please let me be free from you, please let me be free, now i can face the truth.

[bandnerdsopranopiano]

So hey you, I really miss you. When you came into my life you brought hope and color and light. With you gone its like im seeing in black and white again. I cant move on; I keep replaying every moment we had in my head relishing your eyes, your hair, your laugh, your smile..... Stupid right? It's been months. The last thing everything was okay was March 31st; April 1st it all came crashing down. I never saw you anymore, it was like you had never existed except for the last txt that I saved.

[bandnerdsopranopiano]

It's still on my fone to this day, still locked; my only memory that you were real. That what we had was real. Believe me Ive tried to move on, a lot. But everyone I come to i compare to you. They have your eyes, or they say that phrase you loved to say, or they have your smile, and when I close my eyes I see you instead of them. I subconsciously compare them to you and you win, everytime.Even though you no longer want me I still want you.... This is my silent plea for you to come back to me.

[bandnerdsopranopiano]

 I'm too proud to beg you but everyday my heart begs me to swallow my pride and run back to you even though you probably dont want me. After all you didnt April 1st, why would you now? Everytime I talk to you the memories come back, so alive, so vibrant. It's hard to forget how you make me feel. Something more powerful than butterflies grips my heart and everytime the conversation ends it rips it out. I'm in pieces, because of you.I cant see anymore, because of you.

[bandnerdsopranopiano]

But I know how to love, because of you. I know how to be happy, because of you. I know wat its like to be alive, because of you. But I want to be done with this, I want to forget this all. But if I cant make myself wish that I'd never met you because it brought me so much joy and happiness but is now followed with pain and longing. So Im not sure what I want right now, I know I want you, but I also know i cant wait for someone that will never want me. I have to move on but I dont know how.

[0mumay7]

Every time i hear this song, i remember my first love, i love him, with all my heart and all i am !!! :(

We're not committed, i accept the truth that he has a gf, even though i love him ..

but i didn't fight for it.. i allow myself, to love him each day.. all i wanna do that time is to moving on and forget about him, however we're friends!!!

But this time ... MOVING ON IS DONE,& IT'S SUCCESSFUL !!>

but im thankful to him, he taught what love is !! :)) :D

IM HAPPY NOW WITH MY BOY & MY LIFE !!

[xSLiiCKZx]

i hate it once i get heartaches it hurts but turns in tears way to hard to stop u cant stop cause all i think once it happens is the person who did it to me i cant stop until i stop thinking about it so then once i do i feel shame like its my fault cause it happened maybe i should of ignored it once they said it to me it hurts in the inside and it wont stop secondhand serenade is the best band it decibes life and things tht could happen thank u so much secondhand serenade

[JessiRose2]

The guy I like... we've had a thing for 4 months... and he said he hasnt asked me out cus he's going away to college this summer. :(

It sucks knowing the guy you like will NEVER be your boyfriend. like there is absolutely no hope. worst feeling ever.

[ashpoynter13]

this song defines me right now.

just had a rough break up with my boyfriend of 1 year and 4 months..

he brought me bags full of everything i had at his house an hour ago.

i know life goes on, but i can't live like this:( he was everything to me.

secondhand serenade has always been the band i go to when i need some help dealing with things. this is such a beautiful, touching song. it means a lot to everyone posting here.

[xSLiiCKZx]

@ashpoynter13 same with last paragragh

[inzanemada]

what exactly do you do when you see the person you love dancing with other guys? i don't even understand the way i feel right now.

[shesoars]

All my Late son wanted to do was to love and be loved. He's an angel in heaven now...his life ended way too soon...but he was so tired and couldn't fight the sickness anymore...Rest in Peace my sweet angel...your surrounded by so much love...until we meet again...hugz and kisses forever, mom.

[lagoman283]

i never that being so lonly could be soooo sad everywere i look everyone with someone why cant i be loved i messed up with this amazing girl iv been trying to get bck to gether with her i just wish i could show her i have changed my life is a complet wreck with out her its been so long since iv had a real relationship everyone trying to be with me but i only want to be with this one girl anyone got any tips for me right me i got no were else to go

[adamjessi4ever]

so i finally got my dream girl, and im so in love with her, i love her with all my heart, shes my best freind, but shes cheated on me with a couple of guys. and some days she just loves to tell me what she did with them, and tell me mean things just to put me in tears. she will say terrible things that just breaks my heart, but shes so beautifull, inside and out, but shes still cheating on me with a couple of dudes, and i love her so much, she says she loves me too, but i have so much heartache.

[TWENEER5]

@adamjessi4ever Leave her bro. You deserve better. Besides she doesnt know what she's missing. Dont waste your time on her bro, Trust me, your gonna end up

heartbroken.

[PearlCupcake]

@breannanicolesouza Your right heartbreak feels like the end of the world but it just takes time to overcome it. It's a feeling that just doesn't go away and you feel that it never will. Sometimes it's so strong that it begins to control your entire life. But one days things will get better even if it does take years.

[XxXMikeyHorrorXxX]

Its such a bitch to learn for me :/

[fooddancer33]

@XxXMikeyHorrorXxX

what do you mean?

[BreannaNicoleSouza]

This song is amazing and im sure it relates to what alot of people are going through. In general, just pain. Theres always going to be that guy or girl that will hurt you, and it will happen more then once before you find the right person; the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with. And even then, you never know when they'll walk away. And yes, it's gonna hurt, but you have to believe you can get through it. It may take days, weeks, months, maybe years, but you can do it </3 We all can<3

[1number1twilightfan]

i friken love this song! dude the trailer for.. charlie st. cloud made me cry Dx

[s6m6nt6]

Every1 commenting is heart broken. We all share the pain that comes with. Its always easy having some1 2 tell u "Move on its for the best, he or she wasnt worth of u" Its harder doing so. Maybe some don't want 2 move on, some want 2 forget,keep on living. We r all different beings n we have different perseptions.If u have the love of ur life there treause it no matter what because most of us lost it. Think well b4 u do something u'll regret 4ever,bcuz a mistake can cost u everything. xoxoxox

[xxxHollisterBabexxx]

This is the first song I learned on guitar.

I played along with the video then had to rewind it several times trying to get it perfectly.

I eventually got it right then when it ended I heard clapping..

:'D i felt so proud.

ANYWAY, <3 secondhand serenade is amazing.

[missandreaxoxo]

i am crying. this song is so true. the words my heart is saying.

[tessakurt13]

Theres this guy.... And he doesn't know how I feel about him and I don't know how he feels about me, but theres no denying that something is there. And everything would be great and I'd tell, but he's moving thousands of miles away in a matter of weeks. And I can't bring myself to ruining our relationship while I still have precious time with him...

[SuperCoolkid42]

i have a love but he does not now i am to shy i just stare at him in class write songs bout him and draw him he is so pretty i want him really bad bout i am to shy what do i do?

[1foru2watch3re]

i've had this 'relationship' for three years now and it breaks my heart, he's my best friend and we use to date but because he's ashamed of me or something we are just friends, last year was excruxiating, he told me he loved me and all but it can't be. that was the lowest point for me. the thing is even when i've been told to forget him and i do move on he finds away to come back into my life and we're 'friends' now. I just don't understand, i think he's just too afraid to admit it. <3

[nickole0254]

This song reminds me of him...It makes me cry...and whenever he says "so please, let me be free from you"It makes me cry alot and makes me wanna scream..Because i try my best to get over him but then it kills me because hes not mine anymore...

[MmeMuscade]

Let me be free... !!!

[yeltrao]

i too I'm in a similar situation. it sucks more then anything. you love somebody who doesn't feel the same about you. I try to ignore her, but it is just impossible. i want to hate her so bad, but just cant. theres another boy in her life and she clearly shows affection for him although there not going out. i had my chance with her, but its gone. don't let love slip away. trust me.

[casstarburst101]

I have to say this song is Awsome, I love it...

[pinkroseLoui]

i reaLLy love this song, it reminds me of someone who use to be mine.. hoping he will come back soon. i can face this truth!

[gtasaadik1]

nice!!!!!!

[DevilAngel771]

i can smile to pretend that im not hurts

[kittyhelloyouandme]

this song makes me wanna cry..,

i like the chours part "let me be free"

to me i think it means he is in pain and doesnt want to hear what the person has to say because he doesnt what to be hurt"

thats what i feel about everything..:\

[CHINGAY1000]

PRETEND :[

Ouch

[TheDes94]

whoa.. this song is so relatable! ive been in this situation before..i never actually told him about my feelings cuz its unbearable..thankfully ive moved on..but i still remember him..guess he will always be a part of me..

[deathseven101]

idoL talaga song na to!

[Abataba3]

Nice!!

[rayathatonechick]

e-mail me and let me no if this would be a good song to sing at battle of the bands. or take me with u!?!?!? i cant pick. id love ur help

[SimsNurd]

take me with you. definitely xx

[sarreall]

EMOic song.....hell....the EMOtion GENeration.....what a drag...just kidding..

[Andras0978]

Great Song, Great Band, Great Voice!

I Love John Vesely!! <3 SS-4-Ever

[dillymilly0809]

This is amazing

[BoyProof44]

regina2483, Very Deep : )

I just like to listen to it.

[regina2483]

yes the lyrics speaks itself that's why : )

[bobod46]

who doesn't :)

[SimsNurd]

urmm basically right, they dont work!!!! and basically, my crush cant kizz me on friday coz he lives 150 miles away :'(

[regina2483]

very strong emotional song dealing with the pain of loving,trying to let go but still hoping for something

[sarreall]

@regina2483 yu are good in commenting...............like yu..

[Aj51793]

this song is sooo sad but i love it.

[Dylaneatswatermelons]

this song really tears me up everytime i listen to it... but i still cant get enough

[secondhander0021]

love it =[

[NightmareUnescaped]

Fmll/:

I love you austinn! </3

[popularity111]

This is an Amazingg song!I Love Secondhand Serenade♥ This song makes me wanna cryy though.I still love it.

[sesamhau]

labit.. c;

[McRoBsEsSeEfOrEvR1]

sad part is: now this is the song i dedicate to my brother. the girl he's with is. . . . .terrible. its a long story. . . .

[xx0nickjonasluvrxxo]

wat up with the clapping at the end?

anywayz, rlly good song.

[buttonsonacow]

it sucks when you know you screwed up....and you know this song was written about people just like you. GREAT song. :)

[McRoBsEsSeEfOrEvR1]

this song is one that i dedicate to a friend of mine who likes me in a relationship way but the girl he's with keeps putting him down and hurting him

[bilymaine08]

i hate this song..

it makes me cry ;'c

[rukashawn]

heart breaker

[chibichuckles]

=*(

[kAeRfKiSuM]

hamma geil das lied...voll schön, muss bei deren lieder sowieso imma weinen.^^ =)

[theSkAtErGiRl96]

OMG! ich liebe des lied! :D

[MurasakiKitsune]

He has an angel voice <3

I really LOVE this songs

I tell my bestfriend my feelings and he hasn't speak to me for 2 month, now he's in love, and she's my friend, broken heart T-T

Sorry for the english if I did mistakes, I'm french

[wyvernhall]

@MurasakiKitsune

Ce n'est pas grave. Nous peut comprendre d'accord. Je suis Anglaise, [so] desolee pour mon Francaise horrible!

[37752830]

@ 4ever144

please tell him your feelings..i'm like your best friend..i'm in his situation..it's like hell..i just want to be with her but there's another person...if she would tell me that she wants to be with me and love me like i love her...i would be so happy and alive like i never was..i would give my life for hers..so..tell him your feelings..don't think you're not good enough for him...he loves you so in his eyes you are the best for him!

sorry if the english isn't the best..i'm german

[maybeyoutoocanplay]

@37752830 your english was good so no worries

[Crazy4MusicBabe]

@37752830

your english is fantastic no worries dude:) and good luck... it sucks to be stuck in the friend zone

[BreannaNicoleSouza]

@37752830 I agree with kAeRfKiSuM. Your english is amazing. And I love what you had to sayy. And I hope everything worked out(:

[yuriyukiarashi]

he's voice is so lovely

I love it <3

he's the reason of me wanting to learn guitar XD