... cuz he doesnt wnt 2 take the risk of loosing me as a gf or a bff now wat do i do i really wnt 2 confess 2 him n he is single n i trust him completly i jst dont no wat 2 do plz i need help (n thts the end of it... plz replay as soon as possible plzz)
i have my best friend n i really really lik him alot. ive liked him for 3 years now but now tht were in high school i want 2 tell him.my friends hav asked him if he likd me this n that n all he wouls say was "no i see her as ma sis" thn i had a friend who was txtin him n she was all like victor jst tell me the truth n in the end he did tell her tht he liked me alot n he would wnt 2 go out with me but if we wernt best friends(wait theres more))...
I fell in love with my best friend about 2yrs ago and we have been friends since middle school. lucky he showed me how much of a jerk my ex boyfriends were. lol. we have been together for 2yrs and are now engaged. lol. sometimes staying quiet and just being there for your friend is the best thing to do.
Almost the same thing is happening with my best friend! She has liked a guy for 7 years, and the guy she likes is her best guy friend, but she never has dated anyone.
And unless you consider Justin Bieber my best friend, then I have never fallen in love with my best friend. LOL!
Basically i had liked this guy for 4 years and then he asked me out. We had been going out for 8 months and then he broke up with me. He has now come back... 2 months l8ter and asked me to take him back and tht he wasnt thinking straight and was sorry. We havnt dated anybody else since and i think i still like him... Shld i take him back? Plzzz answer im desprrate!!
I just stared dating my best friend,he is like my clone,we have everything in common,to favorite singer,Favorite music,favorite color,likes and dislikes,and etc.We just started dating two days ago,I am worried though,that if we ever break up,it would never be the same.I keep on telling myself if we really care bout each other no matter what happens we'll be best of friends still.And also people keep talkin crap bout him,saying all this insulting things to him and about him.
yah i told this guy i like him ya we dont talk anymore but its awkward andd like i think he likes me cuz whenever where at church he'll like smile at me and look at me alot. :) what do u think?
Yea, i've known guys like this...it's even happened to me with guys that were friends and wanted more but it's best to just say nothing because it may wreck the friendship and more. Why not go out and find your own relationship? Plenty of us around and waiting for "failure" of a friends relationship isn't really healthy for anyone...especially the person waiting. A partner in a sexual relationship should be a "best friend"...that's the point so go out and find a friend with benefits.
First of all, your hair looks fine BeBes! You always look fine! lol :)
And once again, great advice! Couldn't have said it better myself.
My best friend actually told me that she loved me and I told her that I loved her just as a friend. That I cared for her but not in that way. At first we were both uncomfortable, but then we realized that if we would have been together, we would lose our friendship. Ironically, I started having those feelings about her later on lol...
7 years is a long time. i wound up liking one of my friends that i work with.(I told her a couple of days after i realized it) i told her, she said it'd be better if we just stayed friends. honest, it did work out better that way. we're really close now than we ever were :)
Well .. @ first i didnt rely notice her she was un-popular & i was popular but the thing was we were both in a group that happens after college and we both seemed to ignore eachother until 1 day she added me on facebook .. thats when it all started. We began 2 talk 2 eachother often & we became really good friends & contacted over msn aswell & we used 2 txt eachother all night for about a month.. & then i finally asked her if she'd go out with me and she sed yes! we've been together for 2 months
Yes I have, and he knew it before my other friend told him. I chased her around the school when he told me that lol. Anyways, it turned out that he had a secret girlfriend, and I had no way in to that place in his heart. Now, we aren't talking, but that's to hopefully let conflicts between us calm down. After things do calm down, we'll hopefully talk and sort things out enough to where we can be close friends again, but nothing more than friends.
Wisdom from ARMOROID. This fellow needs to sit down and deeply ponder his motives. He needs to decide first if he wants friendship from his lady friend or breeding rights. If he values her friendship then he needs to lay off and do what he can to help her be happy. I.E. help with her relationship to the other male. Otherwise he will find that he will be excluded when she becomes exclusive. If he wants to be her mate he needs to stand up and contest for her affections, but risks offense.
I get what you're saying but I say it's BS. He should talk to her seven years ago.But since time travel is not possible for most people (?) tell her now, idiot. And for the advice: It doesn't fit coz usually people who give advice didn't taste the poison they're trying to cure. Hearts are stupid assholes,if we don't follow they get mad. Why I'm saying all that? "It Means Nothing" by Stereophonics might clear the air. Plus I loved in silence for 6 years. It sucks!
Bebe is right on alot of aspects on this one, as she helpme find out, you cant force it onto anyone and dont let your actions get the best of you and ruin what you DO have.sometimes there might not be much you can do about it. it hurts and it sucks to say the least but its how it goes. Bebe is a real sweetheart and i admire the fact that she takes time to help out random people when we dont know what to do. we need more people like this around
Your very welcome, just keep doin what you do, advice like this can help out alot! i know you sure saved me from gettin myself into a bit of trouble lol :P
i did tell him one day , finally , and he said "thats nice" and we just went on about our day. Patrick may be gay .. i dont honestly know for sure but he gives off hints everday. since i thought he was gay i was scared to tell him i like him. but i still like him and were in freshmen year right now and i think i should maybe ask him how he feels about me ... but im not sure
It's not easy to open up like that to your best friend but you're right about your advice and we should be honest with our feelings all the time.
You're looking more stunning and beautiful with each video Bebe!! That face! wow! So gorgeous. There's a song from an old movie,In Like Flint called "Your Zowie Face" You gotta hear that. You have that! I love that kiss at the end! You're the best!! :)) Your blonde hair is so beautiful too.
yes i was inlove with my best friend, for like 10 years, when i finaly told her she spread a roomer about me that i was an so called player and only wanted to have sex with her and that went so far so her Big brother beat the crap out of me and sens then i keep my feelings to a minimum -_-
I had a guy I was best friends with for about 3 years. I always knew he had a crush on me but I never felt that way about him, I only saw him as a friend. As time went on he would just want more and more to be more than friends with me. Although he knew I only wanted to be friends. It killed our friendship. As long as you understand she may not feel the same way about you, respect that. Don't take it personally and let it ruin your friendship and keep pushing like my friend did.
my best friend and me talked last year alot about love and we feel for the other but we both have lied...( i said that i only want her as BF.....) now one year later i said that i love her and tadaaaaa we are fallin in love :P
He needs to keep quite, if he tells her while shes in this releationship she might take it as hes trying to come between her and her boyfriend. She might not like the honesty that he wants to show her. He needs to wait and see whats going to happen before he confesses his feelings. Who knows, if she breaks up with that guy she just maybe ready to get with him.
Maybe I should rephrase my comment, because I can't help but picture his best friend using him only for emotional support while she's been fooling around with other guys over the years. And in a way that is cheating on him and doesn't signify a best friend.
But I don't know the guy or the girl, but in any case it doesn't seem healthy to be hopeful and waiting. It's just time to move on.
I don't think I would continue on being best friends with a woman like that. It would be too heartbreaking and a waste of time. If she were to ask the reason for leaving, fess up how you feel and move on to find someone else. Some friendships are best not to last, if it doesn't go well.
honestly i did everything u just said and well me and him dated 3 times and we still have feelings for each other but we decided to see other people even though we are jealous of each other when we date...
I have been dating my honey for 3 1/2 years. we were friends before we dated and i consider his friendship the best thing that i have ever been blessed with. He is my best friend and the love of my life!
uhh well I liked my best friend once and what was the turning was that he told me he liked me first??!! ((o.O)) lol and then after that I moved. sooo I guess it didnt work out but were still friends though so it worked out in a way hehe :)
7 years ?? DAMN hes gotta say sumthing,, yul never know how she feels till yu say sumthing,, besides if she isnt into yu then yul know,, (she might like yu more then the other guy) <, thats to evryone in the same situation,, yu can find new friends but love is hard to find especialy if yu think ther *the one* :]
yes i did n she was goin out wit my guy best frend..they were gunna break up n i tried to do my thing but then my frend got mad n she was acting like she liked me , but then i found out that she was playin me stupid..so i ended up fightin wit my frend n never got wit her...NOT WORTH IT!!..
well i could say yes. but now i habe another best friend who is a girl. i realised straight boys r really difficult to trust in. as soon as they get to see a sexy girl around they forget about friendship))))))))))))))
MUAH!! Love your advice to all your videos, and yes i'v fallen inlove with alot (ALOT) of my friends, but i'v always been to shy to let them know lol. Love ya :)
... cuz he doesnt wnt 2 take the risk of loosing me as a gf or a bff now wat do i do i really wnt 2 confess 2 him n he is single n i trust him completly i jst dont no wat 2 do plz i need help (n thts the end of it... plz replay as soon as possible plzz)
i3chris 4 months ago
i have my best friend n i really really lik him alot. ive liked him for 3 years now but now tht were in high school i want 2 tell him.my friends hav asked him if he likd me this n that n all he wouls say was "no i see her as ma sis" thn i had a friend who was txtin him n she was all like victor jst tell me the truth n in the end he did tell her tht he liked me alot n he would wnt 2 go out with me but if we wernt best friends(wait theres more))...
i3chris 4 months ago
she is sooo peng i want to fuck her. i got a boner the first time i've seen her.
zlad2012 6 months ago
I fell in love with my best friend about 2yrs ago and we have been friends since middle school. lucky he showed me how much of a jerk my ex boyfriends were. lol. we have been together for 2yrs and are now engaged. lol. sometimes staying quiet and just being there for your friend is the best thing to do.
cookielee1031 1 year ago
Almost the same thing is happening with my best friend! She has liked a guy for 7 years, and the guy she likes is her best guy friend, but she never has dated anyone.
And unless you consider Justin Bieber my best friend, then I have never fallen in love with my best friend. LOL!
Harvestsprite10 1 year ago
Heyy I love ur show! I hav a question:
Basically i had liked this guy for 4 years and then he asked me out. We had been going out for 8 months and then he broke up with me. He has now come back... 2 months l8ter and asked me to take him back and tht he wasnt thinking straight and was sorry. We havnt dated anybody else since and i think i still like him... Shld i take him back? Plzzz answer im desprrate!!
LolaStrudel 1 year ago
fake
MuzicfreakDK 1 year ago
the dude didnt like me plus it was 3rd grade so mabe now
kibaXhinata101 1 year ago
I just stared dating my best friend,he is like my clone,we have everything in common,to favorite singer,Favorite music,favorite color,likes and dislikes,and etc.We just started dating two days ago,I am worried though,that if we ever break up,it would never be the same.I keep on telling myself if we really care bout each other no matter what happens we'll be best of friends still.And also people keep talkin crap bout him,saying all this insulting things to him and about him.
theofficalmandrshow 1 year ago
your hair doesnt look bad it looks nice
616ShadowFox 1 year ago 3
yah i told this guy i like him ya we dont talk anymore but its awkward andd like i think he likes me cuz whenever where at church he'll like smile at me and look at me alot. :) what do u think?
twilightlover1234568 1 year ago
Aphrodite Speaks !!
Broatch6 2 years ago
i cant get my cousin alex to stop watching football and he wont play with me
btw i hate foot ball and what should i do
jerryhinman10 2 years ago
i want ur tongueee lol :D
Houselovee 2 years ago
yes yes and not good
magagod2 2 years ago
Yea, i've known guys like this...it's even happened to me with guys that were friends and wanted more but it's best to just say nothing because it may wreck the friendship and more. Why not go out and find your own relationship? Plenty of us around and waiting for "failure" of a friends relationship isn't really healthy for anyone...especially the person waiting. A partner in a sexual relationship should be a "best friend"...that's the point so go out and find a friend with benefits.
jdfox1 2 years ago 6
Excellent video, as usual
Bouncer9000 2 years ago 5
i was in love with my best friend for like 4 years
and i tried telling him how i felt but he just ignored me
and then like..after i got over him, he confessed that he USED to like me.
ZammiUndead 2 years ago
i agree, he shud only tel if it goes wrong, ive fancied alot of my frends b4, but i neva told any of them, i suppose it was just a phase xxx
RebelPebble432 2 years ago 2
First of all, your hair looks fine BeBes! You always look fine! lol :)
And once again, great advice! Couldn't have said it better myself.
My best friend actually told me that she loved me and I told her that I loved her just as a friend. That I cared for her but not in that way. At first we were both uncomfortable, but then we realized that if we would have been together, we would lose our friendship. Ironically, I started having those feelings about her later on lol...
RCJ1418 2 years ago 2
7 years is a long time. i wound up liking one of my friends that i work with.(I told her a couple of days after i realized it) i told her, she said it'd be better if we just stayed friends. honest, it did work out better that way. we're really close now than we ever were :)
tylerzchance 2 years ago
I just got your friend invite I'm impressed with your advice on this video so I subbed you. How old are you by the way? You seem very mature.
wildboy92004 2 years ago
Well .. @ first i didnt rely notice her she was un-popular & i was popular but the thing was we were both in a group that happens after college and we both seemed to ignore eachother until 1 day she added me on facebook .. thats when it all started. We began 2 talk 2 eachother often & we became really good friends & contacted over msn aswell & we used 2 txt eachother all night for about a month.. & then i finally asked her if she'd go out with me and she sed yes! we've been together for 2 months
SinghBoyPlaya 2 years ago
i love ur advice!! make more vids ur the best blond on youtube!!!!!!
omgitsabird0101 2 years ago 3
yeaa i fell in love with meh best guy frandd =P
never toldd him.
im not in love with him anymore but i do love him <3 =)
XoxSceneLaQueenExOh 2 years ago
you looke cute
superhaman 2 years ago
Nope, has never happened to me
MissRyan510 2 years ago
Yes I have, and he knew it before my other friend told him. I chased her around the school when he told me that lol. Anyways, it turned out that he had a secret girlfriend, and I had no way in to that place in his heart. Now, we aren't talking, but that's to hopefully let conflicts between us calm down. After things do calm down, we'll hopefully talk and sort things out enough to where we can be close friends again, but nothing more than friends.
DarknessofWhite 2 years ago
Wisdom from ARMOROID. This fellow needs to sit down and deeply ponder his motives. He needs to decide first if he wants friendship from his lady friend or breeding rights. If he values her friendship then he needs to lay off and do what he can to help her be happy. I.E. help with her relationship to the other male. Otherwise he will find that he will be excluded when she becomes exclusive. If he wants to be her mate he needs to stand up and contest for her affections, but risks offense.
ARMOROID5000 2 years ago
I have.. I confessed.. they said they didn't like me that way.. I lost them as a friend...
Xiox321 2 years ago
I was in love with my best friend once (ryan) and finally after about 2 years i confessed and now we've been going out since :)
QueenOfScene666 2 years ago
I get what you're saying but I say it's BS. He should talk to her seven years ago.But since time travel is not possible for most people (?) tell her now, idiot. And for the advice: It doesn't fit coz usually people who give advice didn't taste the poison they're trying to cure. Hearts are stupid assholes,if we don't follow they get mad. Why I'm saying all that? "It Means Nothing" by Stereophonics might clear the air. Plus I loved in silence for 6 years. It sucks!
thestate09 2 years ago
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thestate09 2 years ago
Bebe is right on alot of aspects on this one, as she helpme find out, you cant force it onto anyone and dont let your actions get the best of you and ruin what you DO have.sometimes there might not be much you can do about it. it hurts and it sucks to say the least but its how it goes. Bebe is a real sweetheart and i admire the fact that she takes time to help out random people when we dont know what to do. we need more people like this around
07TibSE 2 years ago
awe thanks so much 07TibSE!!
whatwouldBCdo 2 years ago
Your very welcome, just keep doin what you do, advice like this can help out alot! i know you sure saved me from gettin myself into a bit of trouble lol :P
07TibSE 2 years ago
im still best friends with this guy!
i did tell him one day , finally , and he said "thats nice" and we just went on about our day. Patrick may be gay .. i dont honestly know for sure but he gives off hints everday. since i thought he was gay i was scared to tell him i like him. but i still like him and were in freshmen year right now and i think i should maybe ask him how he feels about me ... but im not sure
whydoyouwant2know 2 years ago
He needs to tell her! Life is way to short to hold things in!
booya62056 2 years ago
It's not easy to open up like that to your best friend but you're right about your advice and we should be honest with our feelings all the time.
You're looking more stunning and beautiful with each video Bebe!! That face! wow! So gorgeous. There's a song from an old movie,In Like Flint called "Your Zowie Face" You gotta hear that. You have that! I love that kiss at the end! You're the best!! :)) Your blonde hair is so beautiful too.
cbrb40 2 years ago 2
I fall in love with him...
Then he was about to move and I didnt know what to do.
I tried to tell him but each time i got close
He would leave and run away.
So it didnt get to happen
chicbear12 2 years ago
When in doubt - whip it out.
jamesbeach2 2 years ago 2
yes i was inlove with my best friend, for like 10 years, when i finaly told her she spread a roomer about me that i was an so called player and only wanted to have sex with her and that went so far so her Big brother beat the crap out of me and sens then i keep my feelings to a minimum -_-
nornor9401 2 years ago
I had a guy I was best friends with for about 3 years. I always knew he had a crush on me but I never felt that way about him, I only saw him as a friend. As time went on he would just want more and more to be more than friends with me. Although he knew I only wanted to be friends. It killed our friendship. As long as you understand she may not feel the same way about you, respect that. Don't take it personally and let it ruin your friendship and keep pushing like my friend did.
LemonadeBunnie 2 years ago
hmm i like ur hair ;)
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my best friend and me talked last year alot about love and we feel for the other but we both have lied...( i said that i only want her as BF.....) now one year later i said that i love her and tadaaaaa we are fallin in love :P
greetings =)
1234561234aa 2 years ago
mayb she actually likes him but doesnt think he likes her and is trying 2 make him feel jealous or somethin so he'd do something :)
blackmagic661 2 years ago
i did and we actually liked eachother and now we're married!!! <3
dragonkiss131 2 years ago 2
He needs to keep quite, if he tells her while shes in this releationship she might take it as hes trying to come between her and her boyfriend. She might not like the honesty that he wants to show her. He needs to wait and see whats going to happen before he confesses his feelings. Who knows, if she breaks up with that guy she just maybe ready to get with him.
Prence 2 years ago
Maybe I should rephrase my comment, because I can't help but picture his best friend using him only for emotional support while she's been fooling around with other guys over the years. And in a way that is cheating on him and doesn't signify a best friend.
But I don't know the guy or the girl, but in any case it doesn't seem healthy to be hopeful and waiting. It's just time to move on.
animalntaz 2 years ago
I don't think I would continue on being best friends with a woman like that. It would be too heartbreaking and a waste of time. If she were to ask the reason for leaving, fess up how you feel and move on to find someone else. Some friendships are best not to last, if it doesn't go well.
animalntaz 2 years ago
I thought this was going to be a Cheap Trick video...
:-)
VeryNastynKinky 2 years ago
confessing your love and telling your feelings r two differnt things, tell her your feelings first...
deloreanfan81 2 years ago
honestly i did everything u just said and well me and him dated 3 times and we still have feelings for each other but we decided to see other people even though we are jealous of each other when we date...
cuterockfairy 2 years ago
I have been dating my honey for 3 1/2 years. we were friends before we dated and i consider his friendship the best thing that i have ever been blessed with. He is my best friend and the love of my life!
nataliejoh 2 years ago
that's awesome, nataliejoh, congrats!!
whatwouldBCdo 2 years ago
uhh well I liked my best friend once and what was the turning was that he told me he liked me first??!! ((o.O)) lol and then after that I moved. sooo I guess it didnt work out but were still friends though so it worked out in a way hehe :)
kuewaz 2 years ago
I love ur ending catchphrase makes me wanna hug u for some reason
TheHouseNewsCrew 2 years ago
7 years ?? DAMN hes gotta say sumthing,, yul never know how she feels till yu say sumthing,, besides if she isnt into yu then yul know,, (she might like yu more then the other guy) <, thats to evryone in the same situation,, yu can find new friends but love is hard to find especialy if yu think ther *the one* :]
DjStiv3 2 years ago
Good advice from what it sounds like she seem like the kind of girl that would let him know if she like him in a romantic way,
l say stay friends and let whatever is suppose to happen happen and your hair looks fine :)
tinypuppies3 2 years ago
yes i did n she was goin out wit my guy best frend..they were gunna break up n i tried to do my thing but then my frend got mad n she was acting like she liked me , but then i found out that she was playin me stupid..so i ended up fightin wit my frend n never got wit her...NOT WORTH IT!!..
realm213 2 years ago
lolz glad to know i'm not the only one who's hair doesn't behave on command!!
whatwouldBCdo 2 years ago
i told my best friend that i loved him, he said we should stay friends, what we actually did and eeverything was fine )
Shahzod8905 2 years ago
Shaahzod are you still good friends to this day??
whatwouldBCdo 2 years ago
well i could say yes. but now i habe another best friend who is a girl. i realised straight boys r really difficult to trust in. as soon as they get to see a sexy girl around they forget about friendship))))))))))))))
Shahzod8905 2 years ago
I say, if they don't notice or talk about it, then you know what - that friendship freaking sucks. =D
JPSalamancaMusic 2 years ago
u r so right!!!
=))) wish i could get such an advice 4 years ago (((((
Shahzod8905 2 years ago
LOL about the annotation. I think it looks sexy! :P
AbeVonThrash 2 years ago
MUAH!! Love your advice to all your videos, and yes i'v fallen inlove with alot (ALOT) of my friends, but i'v always been to shy to let them know lol. Love ya :)
AbeVonThrash 2 years ago
lul
Aegianlulz 2 years ago