If you don't please your man...somebody else will??

[KendalMiss]

I think you are absolutely right! Men can be very manipulative, but so can women. It goes both ways, and ultimately depends on the person. I love your videos and your ideas--they're always so deep & thoughtful :)

[MySmile012]

@KendalMiss aww thank you so much! :-) I just try to say what I feel..I'm a very passionate person. yea you are right about it going both ways there are manipulators of both genders!

[TheBlackAlBundy]

(1) why do women assume the worst case scenarios? of course there is going to be some guy who cheats if his woman is doing things for him but life isn't black or white it's probabilities and the truth is if you do for your man the less chance he has for cheating if he is serious about the relationship. don't punish the dude who won't cheat on his girl if she fulfills all his needs just because a couple of knuckleheads would cheat on a girl who would cheat on a woman who does things for her man.

[TheBlackAlBundy]

(2) are you saying only men will cheat when the partner is doing everything for them. women seem to have this thing that they will never cheat unless the man was doing something wrong. (3) would you be okay with it if your man didn't give his all in a relationship because he was scared he might get hurt because things some other girl(s) did to him?

[MySmile012]

@TheBlackAlBundy Nope...women will cheat too..this goes for both sexes but i hear that stupid statement said more to women "if u don't do it, someone else will"..and like i said..i'm not saying don't do it because of what other people did..I'm not talking about doing all this if you truely want to...i'm saying you should never just go all out JUST so somebody won't leave you.

[TheBlackAlBundy]

@MySmile012

the only reason that saying should be used as a threat is when you're giving your all and the other person isn't. it shouldn't be used to get her to do something she doesn't want to do sexually.

[MySmile012]

@TheBlackAlBundy I'm just saying you shouldn't give it all away for someone..meaning doing things that you are not comfortable with in order to keep your man "satisfied"