You're correct that in this day and age it's nearly impossible to stay with the same person for you entire life - most relationships don't have that long of a shelf life - but that doesn't make cheating okay. If you don't want to be with the person any more break up with them. It's as simple as that. I don't understand people who walk through life with no thought of who they're hurting in the process.
I do feel for you, and not in a patronising way. People in general are selfish, you seem like you would be a good Bf / Friend and give too much, but see people like that sometimes get taken advantage of... Stay strong, you will find someone who deserves you soon man... ;)
I don't think that being attracted to another person is cheating, nor letting it be known that you're attracted to another person. As long as it is done in a way that the other person can digest, so like still maintaining that level of responsibility and caring for the other person's feelings. It obviously demands a certain level of confidence, which, sometimes it comes with age, and a feeling of security.
I am in the best relationship of my life with my partner, but we both have sex with other people too we are honest about it and sometimes play together with other guys.
I believe it keeps the relationship fresh and stops it stagnateing as long as ya honest with each other form the start I dont see a problem with it
it is sad when people cheat. Personally i don't understand why people do it in the first place. They should just end the relationship then move on. It only just hurts people. If u know that you cannot be just with that one person then you would just not have relationships at all.
Where I live people don't divorce even if they hate eachother, they stay together in loveless marriages that effect their children even worse. How am I suppose to ever really fall in love when my whole life I've only seen buissness-marriages? I've never met a grown up couple that is really in love. Welcome to scandinavia.
When u spoke about your Parents splitting up, I could feel your pain and started crying for REAL. Just wanted to say that when u find TRUE LOVE u will know because u will be giving your partner your WHOLE self and you won't have eyes for another in that way. I wish u luck on your life"s journey.
Basically.. people are people feelings are feelings People change.. but what do they stand on..If they do.. I personally don'y bother letting people pass aquaintance if they don't have something solid beneath there feet. usually a sincere passion for people or god is the biggest highlight. But in general I'm not a trusting person. I size everyone and anyone up before they get into my door.
I've been watching your videos all night and became an instant fan haha. You are actually soo intelligent, the stuff you say is amazing. I don't know if I agree with every single point you make, but you express yourself extremely cearly, you're really good at explaining your views. Just some observations. :)
humans are more animalistic then we know. the masculan fantasy is to have as many partners as possible. its an evolutionary trait from when we were ape-like. if you look at gorillas theres a silverback who has the right to mate, while the females (or in some cases homosexual males) are like cattle, or a nice house. they are a value of their worth. humans need to be less sexest but we cant get rid of that evolutionary trait. peace and <3!!!
I see it how it is. If marriage is such a grand old "Divine" time where you literally get swept away in blinding light and holy auras explode forth, (I'm obviously exagerating because it's bullshit) then why do over 50% get divorced? hmmm...? hmmmm...? Exactly, because it's not holy, it's not divine. It's simply something on a very humane level, and all humans deserve the chance for it. Not for the "sprituality" of it, but for the fucking freedoms themselves. Jesus Christ, why are so many blind.
its so fucked up expesialy watchin it in front of your eyes 3 times. jeeze y? i hate you but i love you at the same time its ahhh very grrr... cheaters are mean =[
When a penguin finds a mate they wish to make their life partner they search the entire beach for the perfect pebble, and place it in front of the feet of other penguin. If that penguin accepts the pebble they're life mates. They stay together and never stray from one another. They're completely monogamous. Just so ya know. :)
i know you made this video a bit of a while ago but i just wanna say how much a i agree with you, i was only 13 at the time but the same thing happened with me when i told a friend i really liked someone, and they help me and give me hope that i can maybe be with that person.. but then they go and stab me in the back and go out with them. it pisses me off too. and im surprised you havnt been in a relationship! you seem like such a great person. but for all i know you could be in one now :)
Come on Carl. You cheated on my bro Joe Blog5 and blocked him from writing on your blogs just cos he didn,t agree with your Freaky Taxi Cab vid. He wasn,t offensive. You just chickened when someone came out with another view.
I would look into Chris Aable's philosophy of "self-evolution". It admits that some of us (not all of us) have base instincts for multiple partners, but that we as humans can rise above our most base instincts and kindness, fairness and nurturing become a stronger part of our nature simply through repetition. It's easier said than done - but we have to keep saying it in order to evolve. "Love and nurturing are our best traits worth growing - because none of us would be here without them."
Monogamy is selfish and it was invented by those who feal loneliness. Love can not be set by rules and regulations. You can love someone, but you don't own them.
i had a time where i liked this guy for a few months.. i told my so called ''best friend'' & she told him a bunch of BS to make him hate me and not want to talk to me .. it took about a year but in the end he hates her , & now were friends D; ..
cheaters are an unfortunet group that we find, the animal kingdom is different from human kind in a lot of ways, but humans are often very selfish, more so full of greed. it takes a lot more looking but genuine people are still out there carl.. they are much shyer, and harder to find but i garentee you can and will find the one. it will be harder because many of these people are not out yet, and can be hard to pin point, watch and get to know people, and you will find him. your a special person!
Cheaters are cheaters no matter what. What I hate is when someone is in a relationship and cheats to be with another person. I would not accept that cause they are going to do the same thing to you. Once a cheater always a cheater.
And I think when I cheated on my boyfriend~ I was not sure that he was the one~ but i am not saying that is reasonable excuese~ I am just saying why i cheated on him~
Hey, if you have a problem with your friends dating the guys you like you should start finding trustworthy straight men to confide in. Just think about it,a straight man would never steal your man from you. I'm not saying I know your whole thought process on trust and who you confide in, it was just some thing I observed while watching this video.
I love you Carl and I think you are a beautiful and amazing person! :) -Quentin
It is not human nature. It is just that our culture teaches us that if you just don't "feel" that your current partner "isn't just right for you", you just get rid of them and date someone else. It also says, "screw your current partner and forget trying to work it out. Forget that they will be affected by this." This is absolutely ridiculous and must be changed.
to actually be with someone while youre with someone else is despicable, breaking up with that person then being with someone else hurts much less then having the person being cheatin on find out for themselves would crush their selfesteem and their hearts
I know what you mean. No one knows I bi so I dont have anyone to talk to so I am in the closet. I like this guy but dont know if he likes me, all I have is looking at him while he stares back and SO MUCH DRAMA! AH! Being in the closet and liking someone else is probably the hardest thing anyone will ever go thorogh, I am sorry to hear your so called "friends" will actually do that, I do have a friend I trust with my life but I am not ready to come out and if I were I knw she would back me up!
I know I'm a little late to comment but I hope you'll read it. I've been thinking about cheating and cheaters for the past few days. I just want to ask you: So a girl's ex-boyfriend who is now in a relationship with another girl comes over and they don't fuck but you know they do other intimate things which you should just do with your girlfriend and the girl knows he's in a relationship and but still paricipates in this is she any better than him? I mean isn't she a kind of a cheater also?
I understand your point of view Carl. I grew up with the same values. If you get married and love that person, why look elswhere? I found out about someone in my family after she passed away that she might have cheated on her husband and got upset over that, eventhough it's none of my business. Thank God she wasn't alive when I found out. It's against my values. Enough said.
i feel weird saying this.. but i feel like im attracted to both girls and guys. i know that i want to be with a guy in the end.. but i really wouldnt mind dating a girl.. but when it comes down to it, id like a traditional family with children of my own.. idunno it's very confusing! ur lucky that you know exactly what you want
15,000 views....20,000 views...thats becus you are so damn cute. I know its more then that now, but again - you are just too cute. You also make good points while you are talking. Interesting at that.
i think that ppl shud not cheat becuzz they have no idea how it hurts ppl n how they kill them inside with their actions little do they know that when they descide to cheat later in life some one will cheat on them n no the guy shud be blamed but the girl hes messin' around with shud also take the blame no matter wat but its ok u shud always keep an open mind to things no matter how many times u get hurt but thats just me ipersonly ive been cheated on more than once n i know how it feels but ya
I think people should just be realistic about their desires and abilities so that they can get into relationships with compatible people. Personally I would also like to be in a monogamous relationship and I know I would be able to, but most people do not discuss these issues with their potential partners. People CAN have good, ethical, open relationships and polyamorous relationships, and those people who wish to do so shouldn't pretend they want or are able to be in monogamous relationships.
You definitely come across as a sweet guy. No one should mess you about as a friend, nor as a love interest. That is not fair on you.
I've experienced friends like that and some men that I thought could be the right guy, but I've sadly not met the right guy yet, nor have I been in a relationship with a guy either.
Take care and I hope you're ok in general, Carl. Lots of people on here are fans and I guess good friends too, so we're all here for you, mate. Daryl *hugs*
I'm 19, I'm Gay and I've been in a totally monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years... Before then I wasn't in a relationship before... I had been out since I was 14. But anyway.
People I know who have been in relationships end up sleeping around with friends in our circle, but to them they paramount trust as above all. But then I trust the one person I'm with, and have no desire to be with anyone else, I guess I'm just lucky. Also, yeh, backstabbing is annoying...
I believe your friends should not even start talking to those guys..It shows lack of respect for you and your feelings...and for you not to say anything lets them think that it okay even if he is straight..the whole point of a friendship is respect of one another
You said you were rambling on, but seriously you weren't! The longer the videos the better!
Yeah, I'm gay and I've never been in a relationship either, Carl! :( [I'm 17]. But when I'm older, I want to be with that ONE person. I don't want to be used and abused.
Carl, please reply to this question:
When you came out, did your friends 'secretly' spread that you were gay? As gossip, not for revenge or anything.
Wow. I can't stop thinking about the things you talk about, which are all serious topics. You are extremely insightful, and I believe anyone would be lucky to be friends with you, so whoever that dumbass is, don't worry about it. I know you'll find faithful/loyal friends. best of luck. (: YOU ROCK. <3
I totally agree! I dont understand why people (especially gay) dont want monogamy. I dont want to be with anyone other than that one special person. I know it sounds idelistic but why cant it be possible!?
Well yeah that friend of yours. That's all High School. It's not you, her, the person, its being super naive and dim. Stuff like that has happened to me and it always turns out for the worst. So nothing to be upset about there! You're handeling it correctly anyways :)
u are fabulous, very insightful, I believe when your with somebody whom you love, and are confident in yourself, then they wont cheat, its when your not happy within yourself that it happens. anyways, you have beautiful eyes!
Amazing how insightful you are. Definitely not boring, I enjoy hearing about other peoples lives because my life is well boring... Does that make me creepy? I think it does... Oh well good luck with life.
Carl i said this before your God given inner qualities,strenghts, understanding is so impressive. I hope to God my grandkids can be like you. I have done my best to be the best human possible-your before 20 -i'm 60 I feel the exact way you do. People can suc but also be so good. Cheating isn't just a love thing, hurting friend and lov ones, stealing, shit at work, gossip, deceit, ect.,anything that can hurt and cause pain is cheating-all need to take second to review what there actions may do
Cheating is NOT OK. It is done by those who don't have the moral strength to stand up and tell the truth. I have had the chance to cheat pleanty of times, be didn't. If i really need to leave or end a relationship i do it with the hopes that we can still be friends. why waist someone else s or my time on something that isn't going to be. ppl who cheat do so because there self worth is lower then dogs. yea u know who i am talking about!
I don't think having thoughts about other people is cheating. It's only natural human thought/nature/thing? I've had thoughts about some pretty crazy people. Not that I'd actually do it though, mind you. But yeah! That toy house is stalking you I believe. Fun stuff. Goodbye!
If you really love someone, how could you betray that person? Don't think that just because everyone seems to be ok or use to the whole cheating issue it makes it alright. There are many many people who have a relation based on loved and thus trust. So, even if your friends tell you that you are crazy if you want to be faithful to someone and expect faithfulness aswell, well they are the ones who will be lonely and get divorced in the future, but you´ll have a different and much happier ending
i think that if you get married you are most likely in love right ? and if you are so in love with your hubby or wife why not work it out instead of gettin divorced .
i dont agree with the whole we cant be faithful thing. ok sure now a days their is a lot of cheaters out there but it wasn't always like that it only recently became that way. but yeah i liked ur thoughts and video
i agree soooo much. i have been cheated on twice and i never cheat. whats the point of being in a relationship or getting married if your just gonna cheat? thats no fair, your just keeping the significant other from being with someone else who will actually be true to them and not cheat on them. what is with our society today..
hmm..... please don't try to justify cheating. It only happens in USA.. IT'S NOT "we as an animal".. it's the american culture.. at least that's what I think. I'm from japan... and divorce rate is like <2%..... it's not human to cheat!! you can't justify it like that
At first I was curious as to whether or not you were a Christian but now It's quite clear you're not. I don't mean that to sound caustic or biting but that whole scenario won't make sense until you understand that God created us to be a paragon of the animals. We're not like them so you can stop comparing the human race to that. Next you should know that it really isn't that deep - in a world sick with sin, people will do bad things - including cheating. Accepting Jesus cleanses us of our sin :)
Oh but that's the thing darling - accepting Jesus works for everyone on this earth. He's THE way, THE, truth and THE life, No other spiritual leader claimed that not did they suffer as bad as a death while PINNED to a cross only to be divinely risen 3 days later. Jesus Christ is very real and He's a live, risen savior to this day. And I mean this in the nicest way - I sincerely invite you to see for yourself. Accept Him as Savior for your sins and see that your life doesn't change.
I completely respect everyone's personal beliefs, but you thinking Jesus is "THE way, THE truth, and THE life" is your own personal beliefs.
Religion is obviously a very touchy subject for some, but what I'm saying is that just because people think or act a certain way doesn't mean they need Jesus. Those who feel they need and live for Jesus believe in him.
Exactly- REGARDLESS of the way they people think or act - they need to accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. That's because every single person on this Earth is sinful ; if you've ever committed even one sin , then you're seen as sinful and rebellious against the very being that created you - therefore, accepting Jesus Christ makes you guiltless in the eyes of God once you die and you won't be damned to eternal Hell. Sins(ex. Cheating) are everywhere - which was my original point to Carl.
I understand your point very clearly; what I'm saying is that you're wrong- Jesus IS for everyone. That's the point He made when He was hear. Buddha, Confucious, Mahammad, and etc. were merely human attempts at life meaning and clarity but Jesus was GOD's attempt to do the same. And yes, everyone NEEDS to accept Jesus Christ whether you're going to be belligerent enough to do it or not- it's the truth - I'm sorry it doesn't tickle your ears like the other liberal doctrine of today.
There are people who believe in Jesus that aren't nearly as close-minded as you are. Accept differences in others. Not everyone can believe and be what you are.
This is a pointless Youtube argument with someone who clearly is living from America's conservative past.
You comparing my confidence that Jesus Christ is the ultimate answer to life meaning, clarity, and salvation to close-mindedness is akin to someone calling me close-minded because I'm sure that 2+2 equals 4. I'm SURE that Jesus Christ is the only way to truly knowing God and living life eternally after death with your creator, God. I'm very accepting of everyone ; I love diversity in the Earth and I love people - which is why I want you guys to accept Jesus Christ - you're better off with him!
i hate when christians try to push their religion on other. just because your god says we're different from mammals doesnt mean its true. scientist believe we are very similar to mammals mabye u should think before you offend other people and religions
1) Monogamy is possible, but some researchers find male sexuality tends to be quite unstable. There's an interesting book called "Boy Crazy" that talks about some of the issues.
2) Cheating happens when you break the agreements you have in a relationship. Communication is key!
3) People in polyamourous relationships have more than one "love," but everyone involved consents, and therefore it is not considered cheating.
A recent study proposes that there might be a link between hormonal contraceptives and the divorce rate in America. The study points out that around the time the pill came out divorce rates skyrocketed. The general idea is that changing your hormone levels might effect who you are attracted to. It suggests that women who go on birth control after they are married are more likely to leave their husbands. There's still a lot of holes in the theory but it's compelling nonetheless.
Keep in mind that the word 'cheating' implies that there are 'rules'. If the rules aren't made clear between the people in a relationship it is very hard to decide what cheating is. Also cheating is a matter of perception. What is perfectly fair to a couple in a relationship who have discussed and made their own decisions as to the rules, might seem, to someone outside the relationship to be cheating. We have to be careful when judging such things that we know all of the circumstances...
But cheating is completely different issue from life long marriage. If a couple agree to be monogomous, it's very hurtful when one doesn't follow through. You both need to discuss and change the agreement when needed. Cheating is unethical; it's just like lying.
When marriage and monogamy were a big thing, people generally lived about 30 years. That means with a partner for about 15 years. But now people live twice as long. 15 years with one person is doable; but 45 years is quite a lot of time for both partners to significantly change.
Life long marriage as a social construct is heading to obsolescence. It works great for many people; but not for most.
meh there will always be asshole who stab ya in the back,ive gotten my fair shair,and im gonna be turning 17 in november and have yet to be in a relationship either,suppose u cant control any of that,u like someone go for,worst case scenario u end up back where u were before....or somethin along those lines...idk what im talking bout half the time o.O
You can have lifetime partner, but sometimes people change. I see that has a evolution, a good one, about a person, so I don't think it's really... bad.
Everything happens for a reason, so, if so many parents divorce, thats just their choice, kind of. And now we live in a society when we can make those kinds of choices. So, I guess it's in our nature.... because we change.
You know, birds, I don't know exacly what kind, oftenly stays with a life partner...
The worst is when an attractive individual says dishonest things and compliments just because it provides more passion and when in the end its all somehow meaningless as the individual lacks a drive for a monogamous relationship.
I understand what you are saying...basically its just these days back in the day like renaissance times If someone cheated on their husband or wife they would be dead or even in the 50's............I have been cheated on 3 times which sucks, I have always been a loyal person so i never understood why people want to cheat but I hate it
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protOMGphzy 1 month ago
dude, if someone cheats on you they are stupid!! No one will EVER cheat on you!! You are way too hot!
Roelf 6 months ago
You're correct that in this day and age it's nearly impossible to stay with the same person for you entire life - most relationships don't have that long of a shelf life - but that doesn't make cheating okay. If you don't want to be with the person any more break up with them. It's as simple as that. I don't understand people who walk through life with no thought of who they're hurting in the process.
jryanroberts 8 months ago
carl i think im gay but im not sure what sighns should i look for ?
mrbeany18 8 months ago
I do feel for you, and not in a patronising way. People in general are selfish, you seem like you would be a good Bf / Friend and give too much, but see people like that sometimes get taken advantage of... Stay strong, you will find someone who deserves you soon man... ;)
chrisbellydance 9 months ago
It's like that line from 'the Sunscreen Song' - Don't be cruel with other peoples hearts, don't put up with people who are cruel with yours. period
darrenholcomb42 1 year ago
I don't think that being attracted to another person is cheating, nor letting it be known that you're attracted to another person. As long as it is done in a way that the other person can digest, so like still maintaining that level of responsibility and caring for the other person's feelings. It obviously demands a certain level of confidence, which, sometimes it comes with age, and a feeling of security.
satrapy27 1 year ago
Carl there's no need to worry. Nobody would ever cheat on you, like ever.
MEOWSTER1204 1 year ago
I am in the best relationship of my life with my partner, but we both have sex with other people too we are honest about it and sometimes play together with other guys.
I believe it keeps the relationship fresh and stops it stagnateing as long as ya honest with each other form the start I dont see a problem with it
trippinonbud 1 year ago
You were excited to have subscribers back in May 2009. Now you rarely talk with us. : (
black429 1 year ago
it is sad when people cheat. Personally i don't understand why people do it in the first place. They should just end the relationship then move on. It only just hurts people. If u know that you cannot be just with that one person then you would just not have relationships at all.
Strawberry198027 1 year ago
No other animal?.....uh what about Penguins?
1982mockingbird1982 1 year ago
If you were my boyfriend i'd never cheat on you I swear
gaara125able 1 year ago
Welcome to the new forward thinkers. I like you......You make me laugh! LOL
1973doolittle 1 year ago
and now you have 35K subs =)
MrZOMG1234567 1 year ago
Where I live people don't divorce even if they hate eachother, they stay together in loveless marriages that effect their children even worse. How am I suppose to ever really fall in love when my whole life I've only seen buissness-marriages? I've never met a grown up couple that is really in love. Welcome to scandinavia.
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JansRox 1 year ago
When u spoke about your Parents splitting up, I could feel your pain and started crying for REAL. Just wanted to say that when u find TRUE LOVE u will know because u will be giving your partner your WHOLE self and you won't have eyes for another in that way. I wish u luck on your life"s journey.
iCanHearUSign 1 year ago
there is a group called Love Addicts Anonymous that has helped me establish some boundaries for myself...................it's available online
weathersaoysius 1 year ago
Lol agreed! My sister has cheated on EVERY boyfriend that she has had! Damn she has commitment issues... :P
TheDustinBroke 1 year ago
Basically.. people are people feelings are feelings People change.. but what do they stand on..If they do.. I personally don'y bother letting people pass aquaintance if they don't have something solid beneath there feet. usually a sincere passion for people or god is the biggest highlight. But in general I'm not a trusting person. I size everyone and anyone up before they get into my door.
bilbobagginsk 1 year ago
I've been watching your videos all night and became an instant fan haha. You are actually soo intelligent, the stuff you say is amazing. I don't know if I agree with every single point you make, but you express yourself extremely cearly, you're really good at explaining your views. Just some observations. :)
CrazyCarnival 1 year ago
it sounds like you were thinking to much on this day
cumlickin 1 year ago
humans are more animalistic then we know. the masculan fantasy is to have as many partners as possible. its an evolutionary trait from when we were ape-like. if you look at gorillas theres a silverback who has the right to mate, while the females (or in some cases homosexual males) are like cattle, or a nice house. they are a value of their worth. humans need to be less sexest but we cant get rid of that evolutionary trait. peace and <3!!!
838287 1 year ago
I see it how it is. If marriage is such a grand old "Divine" time where you literally get swept away in blinding light and holy auras explode forth, (I'm obviously exagerating because it's bullshit) then why do over 50% get divorced? hmmm...? hmmmm...? Exactly, because it's not holy, it's not divine. It's simply something on a very humane level, and all humans deserve the chance for it. Not for the "sprituality" of it, but for the fucking freedoms themselves. Jesus Christ, why are so many blind.
ShadowOfRahl 1 year ago
I would never go out with somone and flirt with somone else. I'd hate that to happen because it doesn't mean anything.
desasterz 1 year ago
I'm the youngest of 3 (18) My parents have been together for 22 years =D. That's the part of rambling I listened to :P
domino66 1 year ago
"you know who you are" hhaha made me laugh:p
Napoleon997 1 year ago
LOL I can so Tell your IB you totally think too much
MrPigeonSlayer 1 year ago
tok classes taking a toll on you!
cruciokatieee 1 year ago
its so fucked up expesialy watchin it in front of your eyes 3 times. jeeze y? i hate you but i love you at the same time its ahhh very grrr... cheaters are mean =[
screamochick143 1 year ago
When a penguin finds a mate they wish to make their life partner they search the entire beach for the perfect pebble, and place it in front of the feet of other penguin. If that penguin accepts the pebble they're life mates. They stay together and never stray from one another. They're completely monogamous. Just so ya know. :)
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you seem to be a very nice smart young man...I am twice your age and you are right ,
cheating is wrong...end of story...but I wanted to tell you it gets better later on...when
you get older...hold on.......J...
JStephens1966 1 year ago
you seem to be a very nice smart young man...I am twice your age and you are right ,
cheating is wrong...end of story...but I wanted to tell you it gets better later on...when
you get older...hold on.......J...
JStephens1966 1 year ago
You bring up many excellent subjects to which there are no easy answers. I do wonder how much the media has influenced the degradation of society.
scotland4ever00 1 year ago
On the contrary, I thought it was a great topic to dwell on and I agree with you 100%.
haha lol "you know who you are" favorite part XD
07MrsEdwardCullen18 1 year ago
Why would someone want to even THINK about cheating on a guy as sweet as you?
AdamMichaelMercer 2 years ago
i know you made this video a bit of a while ago but i just wanna say how much a i agree with you, i was only 13 at the time but the same thing happened with me when i told a friend i really liked someone, and they help me and give me hope that i can maybe be with that person.. but then they go and stab me in the back and go out with them. it pisses me off too. and im surprised you havnt been in a relationship! you seem like such a great person. but for all i know you could be in one now :)
Anna070794 2 years ago
Are you gon a blok me (his twin straight bro) too soon cos of my opinion in supportin by gay bro?
josiahBLOGS 2 years ago
Come on Carl. You cheated on my bro Joe Blog5 and blocked him from writing on your blogs just cos he didn,t agree with your Freaky Taxi Cab vid. He wasn,t offensive. You just chickened when someone came out with another view.
josiahBLOGS 2 years ago
dude ur sooooooo HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cnystormchick 2 years ago
I would look into Chris Aable's philosophy of "self-evolution". It admits that some of us (not all of us) have base instincts for multiple partners, but that we as humans can rise above our most base instincts and kindness, fairness and nurturing become a stronger part of our nature simply through repetition. It's easier said than done - but we have to keep saying it in order to evolve. "Love and nurturing are our best traits worth growing - because none of us would be here without them."
terrymadison 2 years ago
it's the instinct of the human beings it's genetically integrated into us to make babies and have more of us like all the other animals
skiball2012 2 years ago
Monogamy is selfish and it was invented by those who feal loneliness. Love can not be set by rules and regulations. You can love someone, but you don't own them.
AstroMen2911 2 years ago
i had a time where i liked this guy for a few months.. i told my so called ''best friend'' & she told him a bunch of BS to make him hate me and not want to talk to me .. it took about a year but in the end he hates her , & now were friends D; ..
OnlyTheObvious 2 years ago
i can stay & have a life partner xD .
OnlyTheObvious 2 years ago
cheaters are an unfortunet group that we find, the animal kingdom is different from human kind in a lot of ways, but humans are often very selfish, more so full of greed. it takes a lot more looking but genuine people are still out there carl.. they are much shyer, and harder to find but i garentee you can and will find the one. it will be harder because many of these people are not out yet, and can be hard to pin point, watch and get to know people, and you will find him. your a special person!
jmaine1998 2 years ago
a truly selfish person acts rationally and often seemingly altruistic.
if people are foolishly selfish they are just blundering, because they act against their self-interest, thus they are not truly selfish.
think about this.
k0n14k 2 years ago
Your fag hag tried to make you jealous, you liked the guy so she went and fucked him. I heard you say she towards the end. You gave her up. :)
Oh and you think you can have a girl friend FRIEND, not true she wants you and thinks in some way she will by befriending you.
HerosComment 2 years ago
Cheaters are cheaters no matter what. What I hate is when someone is in a relationship and cheats to be with another person. I would not accept that cause they are going to do the same thing to you. Once a cheater always a cheater.
FreshBoyCF 2 years ago
my kids were told in high school, that they were weird cus thier parents were still together.
Funny stuff
akfunnyguy 2 years ago
And I think when I cheated on my boyfriend~ I was not sure that he was the one~ but i am not saying that is reasonable excuese~ I am just saying why i cheated on him~
but after that, i feel like he is the only one!
that will never be changed by anything~!
I hope you will find your the other part~
I am sure you will find him!
parkwoonbong 2 years ago
I think that if I was gay, I would date a man.
Paulwhoisvegan 2 years ago 2
I cheated on my boyfriend once~ And he gave me a second chance~
After that, I realize how much I love him~
He is the kind of honest and truely person that you have talked in this video~
I love him so much!
ps: your camera is in really good quality!
parkwoonbong 2 years ago
Hey, if you have a problem with your friends dating the guys you like you should start finding trustworthy straight men to confide in. Just think about it,a straight man would never steal your man from you. I'm not saying I know your whole thought process on trust and who you confide in, it was just some thing I observed while watching this video.
I love you Carl and I think you are a beautiful and amazing person! :) -Quentin
Hornstar94 2 years ago
WELCOME TO THE GAY LIFE :D (Seem u dont read the small words ) :D
leaneemo 2 years ago
I voted for u!
KristiCutie92 2 years ago
It is not human nature. It is just that our culture teaches us that if you just don't "feel" that your current partner "isn't just right for you", you just get rid of them and date someone else. It also says, "screw your current partner and forget trying to work it out. Forget that they will be affected by this." This is absolutely ridiculous and must be changed.
DeepTimeUnit37 2 years ago
lol i think that baby slide is yours young man XD
KimPimSlim 2 years ago
dont trust a cheater
fuck em
to actually be with someone while youre with someone else is despicable, breaking up with that person then being with someone else hurts much less then having the person being cheatin on find out for themselves would crush their selfesteem and their hearts
OnTheToiletBeyotch 2 years ago
I know what you mean. No one knows I bi so I dont have anyone to talk to so I am in the closet. I like this guy but dont know if he likes me, all I have is looking at him while he stares back and SO MUCH DRAMA! AH! Being in the closet and liking someone else is probably the hardest thing anyone will ever go thorogh, I am sorry to hear your so called "friends" will actually do that, I do have a friend I trust with my life but I am not ready to come out and if I were I knw she would back me up!
dufromage37 2 years ago
I know I'm a little late to comment but I hope you'll read it. I've been thinking about cheating and cheaters for the past few days. I just want to ask you: So a girl's ex-boyfriend who is now in a relationship with another girl comes over and they don't fuck but you know they do other intimate things which you should just do with your girlfriend and the girl knows he's in a relationship and but still paricipates in this is she any better than him? I mean isn't she a kind of a cheater also?
sknarl 2 years ago
I understand your point of view Carl. I grew up with the same values. If you get married and love that person, why look elswhere? I found out about someone in my family after she passed away that she might have cheated on her husband and got upset over that, eventhough it's none of my business. Thank God she wasn't alive when I found out. It's against my values. Enough said.
Styopa61 2 years ago
Fun Fact...
Dolphins and Bonobos are the only other animals who have sex for fun XD
Love fun facts dont you lol
And all cheaters out there DIE
RhysyTime 2 years ago
i really3 wanna know u well..:)
btw, do you have a date yet??
u've always say that u don't..
xsonerdylad 2 years ago
If the person that the boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating WITH doesnt know,s/he isnt to blame.
If s/he does know,then s/he is at fault,but not as much as the person who is actually cheating.
And cheating to me is showing a person the same emotions that you show for your significant other.
ewtasha510 2 years ago
i feel weird saying this.. but i feel like im attracted to both girls and guys. i know that i want to be with a guy in the end.. but i really wouldnt mind dating a girl.. but when it comes down to it, id like a traditional family with children of my own.. idunno it's very confusing! ur lucky that you know exactly what you want
rebecka1234 2 years ago
15,000 views....20,000 views...thats becus you are so damn cute. I know its more then that now, but again - you are just too cute. You also make good points while you are talking. Interesting at that.
Should be a law against being so young & cute!
akfunnyguy 2 years ago
i like to think we, as humans, are higher above animals. therefore, relating to them is ridiculous to me.
if we lower ourselves to just being animals, then what makes us so special?
altho, a lot of ppl act in such a way, so maybe u r right.
haha, who knows. :]
jpaddie04 2 years ago
i think that ppl shud not cheat becuzz they have no idea how it hurts ppl n how they kill them inside with their actions little do they know that when they descide to cheat later in life some one will cheat on them n no the guy shud be blamed but the girl hes messin' around with shud also take the blame no matter wat but its ok u shud always keep an open mind to things no matter how many times u get hurt but thats just me ipersonly ive been cheated on more than once n i know how it feels but ya
mizzrandom142413 2 years ago
Ohh !!! I don't understand... It'ss.... so terrible !!! I want become Americain !!!!!!
The french is nt beautiful..... )=
stephydu640 2 years ago
I think people should just be realistic about their desires and abilities so that they can get into relationships with compatible people. Personally I would also like to be in a monogamous relationship and I know I would be able to, but most people do not discuss these issues with their potential partners. People CAN have good, ethical, open relationships and polyamorous relationships, and those people who wish to do so shouldn't pretend they want or are able to be in monogamous relationships.
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77dirtbikedude 2 years ago
Hello there, Carl. :)
You definitely come across as a sweet guy. No one should mess you about as a friend, nor as a love interest. That is not fair on you.
I've experienced friends like that and some men that I thought could be the right guy, but I've sadly not met the right guy yet, nor have I been in a relationship with a guy either.
Take care and I hope you're ok in general, Carl. Lots of people on here are fans and I guess good friends too, so we're all here for you, mate. Daryl *hugs*
Summerskill 2 years ago 2
you can be in a relationship with me haha
maggie120120 2 years ago
I'm 19, I'm Gay and I've been in a totally monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years... Before then I wasn't in a relationship before... I had been out since I was 14. But anyway.
People I know who have been in relationships end up sleeping around with friends in our circle, but to them they paramount trust as above all. But then I trust the one person I'm with, and have no desire to be with anyone else, I guess I'm just lucky. Also, yeh, backstabbing is annoying...
*from UK*
rob0 2 years ago
i honestly believe that people are just forgetting what real love is, that's just my opinion on why more people get divorced more these days.
Most people are starting to get married for the wrong reasons I think. =]
LimeGreenWolf 2 years ago
You've totally hit the nail on the head. =] If people would slow down and fall in love with the right person divorce would be unnecessary.
thecheekyfrenchy88 2 years ago
I believe your friends should not even start talking to those guys..It shows lack of respect for you and your feelings...and for you not to say anything lets them think that it okay even if he is straight..the whole point of a friendship is respect of one another
jordenlee100 2 years ago
ILY AND I TOTALLY SUPPORT U
MultiCherry123 2 years ago
its so cool you record all of your videos in the most random places everyone elce just does it in their room
emsgirl101 2 years ago
Right On!
bkctoo 2 years ago
If you will be my boyfriend i'll never cheat on you!!!
hofnoan 2 years ago 43
@hofnoan he is gay
skillaze215 1 year ago
that's rough man just thinking about all that melts your head.
maybe its hard but only worry about your own relationships even good people can fuck up on a bad day
shorty967 2 years ago
monogamy is a LIE
sexfanatic 2 years ago
I completely agree with you, Carl.
You said you were rambling on, but seriously you weren't! The longer the videos the better!
Yeah, I'm gay and I've never been in a relationship either, Carl! :( [I'm 17]. But when I'm older, I want to be with that ONE person. I don't want to be used and abused.
Carl, please reply to this question:
When you came out, did your friends 'secretly' spread that you were gay? As gossip, not for revenge or anything.
It's just my friends are gossipers...
:(
Pokemongo1 2 years ago 13
your like perfect!!!!
cooltoe608 2 years ago
Of course you didn't bore us! ;]
Wow. I can't stop thinking about the things you talk about, which are all serious topics. You are extremely insightful, and I believe anyone would be lucky to be friends with you, so whoever that dumbass is, don't worry about it. I know you'll find faithful/loyal friends. best of luck. (: YOU ROCK. <3
musicx20 2 years ago 2
I totally agree! I dont understand why people (especially gay) dont want monogamy. I dont want to be with anyone other than that one special person. I know it sounds idelistic but why cant it be possible!?
89musak 2 years ago
That was very well said man
sonofavinci 2 years ago
I wish I knew you! I want to give u a hug and tell u everything will balance out in the end
CultofAlexander 2 years ago
Great :)
The thing is, I'm planning to watch this video again, this time counting how many times you say "like".
yttobychanthesecond 2 years ago
I believe that cheating is wrong!
Me and my boyfriend are perfectly fine together, and he doesn't want me to cheat on him nor i want him to cheat on me
but there is this boy that wants me to cheat on my boyfriend and I say no
but he keeps insisting and keeps saying that my boyfriend could be cheating on me
but my boyfriend proves to me that he never cheats
what should i tell the other boy?
he never leaves me alone!
its like a 3 year old begging for cookies before dinner!
anaandpaula 2 years ago
If you dont like the other guy than dont cheat with him... but if you do, do it its human nature i guess :l
tylerisftw 2 years ago
Well yeah that friend of yours. That's all High School. It's not you, her, the person, its being super naive and dim. Stuff like that has happened to me and it always turns out for the worst. So nothing to be upset about there! You're handeling it correctly anyways :)
OHHH And this vid was posted on my BDayyyyyy! :)
JoCrlsZpd 2 years ago
There is a lot of guys out there looking to attack any weakness.
MichaelKunzmann 2 years ago
u are fabulous, very insightful, I believe when your with somebody whom you love, and are confident in yourself, then they wont cheat, its when your not happy within yourself that it happens. anyways, you have beautiful eyes!
brandonrdwyer 2 years ago
Amazing how insightful you are. Definitely not boring, I enjoy hearing about other peoples lives because my life is well boring... Does that make me creepy? I think it does... Oh well good luck with life.
Xternium 2 years ago
wow that sounds so cool.
The bit where you were like "i tell my friend (girl) that i like that guy and now she goes fucking him"
yttobychanthesecond 2 years ago
wow. THAT is real confusing =] But it makes sense.
yttobychanthesecond 2 years ago
Carl i said this before your God given inner qualities,strenghts, understanding is so impressive. I hope to God my grandkids can be like you. I have done my best to be the best human possible-your before 20 -i'm 60 I feel the exact way you do. People can suc but also be so good. Cheating isn't just a love thing, hurting friend and lov ones, stealing, shit at work, gossip, deceit, ect.,anything that can hurt and cause pain is cheating-all need to take second to review what there actions may do
kenefickjohn 2 years ago
Cheating is NOT OK. It is done by those who don't have the moral strength to stand up and tell the truth. I have had the chance to cheat pleanty of times, be didn't. If i really need to leave or end a relationship i do it with the hopes that we can still be friends. why waist someone else s or my time on something that isn't going to be. ppl who cheat do so because there self worth is lower then dogs. yea u know who i am talking about!
bigphat200 2 years ago
Holy Shit,
I was randomly searching through videos, and this was posted on my b-day xDDD
JayLoop1313 2 years ago
I don't think having thoughts about other people is cheating. It's only natural human thought/nature/thing? I've had thoughts about some pretty crazy people. Not that I'd actually do it though, mind you. But yeah! That toy house is stalking you I believe. Fun stuff. Goodbye!
BandMaster57 2 years ago
wow he uses big words but if u really think he does make since
JesseYouRock 2 years ago
good video, lots of well thought points. ps, that playset comment at the end was pretty amusing XD.
HenryMagicTouch 2 years ago
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LilFreakyChickbk 2 years ago
he is gay ^^
carl you are the best <3
oOsurfer657Oo 2 years ago
he is gay so how can a girl cheat on him if he isnt in 2 girls
JesseYouRock 2 years ago
If you really love someone, how could you betray that person? Don't think that just because everyone seems to be ok or use to the whole cheating issue it makes it alright. There are many many people who have a relation based on loved and thus trust. So, even if your friends tell you that you are crazy if you want to be faithful to someone and expect faithfulness aswell, well they are the ones who will be lonely and get divorced in the future, but you´ll have a different and much happier ending
DarkarLo 2 years ago
i think that if you get married you are most likely in love right ? and if you are so in love with your hubby or wife why not work it out instead of gettin divorced .
SummerRaye101 2 years ago
i dont agree with the whole we cant be faithful thing. ok sure now a days their is a lot of cheaters out there but it wasn't always like that it only recently became that way. but yeah i liked ur thoughts and video
SkyMidori 2 years ago
ahhhhh the ground is moving!! haha
brighteyedsongbird 2 years ago
i agree soooo much. i have been cheated on twice and i never cheat. whats the point of being in a relationship or getting married if your just gonna cheat? thats no fair, your just keeping the significant other from being with someone else who will actually be true to them and not cheat on them. what is with our society today..
EmilyAnnOfficial 2 years ago
hmm..... please don't try to justify cheating. It only happens in USA.. IT'S NOT "we as an animal".. it's the american culture.. at least that's what I think. I'm from japan... and divorce rate is like <2%..... it's not human to cheat!! you can't justify it like that
jonas199127 2 years ago
mm, i cheated on my bf.
i felt horriblee.
i didnt even mean fer it to happen.
FerrSureKatrina 2 years ago
dude that impression of urs sucks i cant believe u won ,wat luck
furious619RQ7 2 years ago
At first I was curious as to whether or not you were a Christian but now It's quite clear you're not. I don't mean that to sound caustic or biting but that whole scenario won't make sense until you understand that God created us to be a paragon of the animals. We're not like them so you can stop comparing the human race to that. Next you should know that it really isn't that deep - in a world sick with sin, people will do bad things - including cheating. Accepting Jesus cleanses us of our sin :)
HarryLeTroisieme 2 years ago 2
You shouldn't push religion on others.
You can believe what you like, but we're mammals. Scientifically, we're mammals.
"Accepting Jesus" works for you, but doesn't do much for some.
VideosByTJ 2 years ago
Oh but that's the thing darling - accepting Jesus works for everyone on this earth. He's THE way, THE, truth and THE life, No other spiritual leader claimed that not did they suffer as bad as a death while PINNED to a cross only to be divinely risen 3 days later. Jesus Christ is very real and He's a live, risen savior to this day. And I mean this in the nicest way - I sincerely invite you to see for yourself. Accept Him as Savior for your sins and see that your life doesn't change.
HarryLeTroisieme 2 years ago
I completely respect everyone's personal beliefs, but you thinking Jesus is "THE way, THE truth, and THE life" is your own personal beliefs.
Religion is obviously a very touchy subject for some, but what I'm saying is that just because people think or act a certain way doesn't mean they need Jesus. Those who feel they need and live for Jesus believe in him.
VideosByTJ 2 years ago
Exactly- REGARDLESS of the way they people think or act - they need to accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. That's because every single person on this Earth is sinful ; if you've ever committed even one sin , then you're seen as sinful and rebellious against the very being that created you - therefore, accepting Jesus Christ makes you guiltless in the eyes of God once you die and you won't be damned to eternal Hell. Sins(ex. Cheating) are everywhere - which was my original point to Carl.
HarryLeTroisieme 2 years ago
Well, my point was that accepting Jesus isn't for everyone. There are tons of different religions that believe in other things.
No one "needs" to accept Jesus.
To each his own.
VideosByTJ 2 years ago 8
I understand your point very clearly; what I'm saying is that you're wrong- Jesus IS for everyone. That's the point He made when He was hear. Buddha, Confucious, Mahammad, and etc. were merely human attempts at life meaning and clarity but Jesus was GOD's attempt to do the same. And yes, everyone NEEDS to accept Jesus Christ whether you're going to be belligerent enough to do it or not- it's the truth - I'm sorry it doesn't tickle your ears like the other liberal doctrine of today.
HarryLeTroisieme 2 years ago
Ignorance is bliss, I suppose in your case.
You should try becoming more open-minded.
There are people who believe in Jesus that aren't nearly as close-minded as you are. Accept differences in others. Not everyone can believe and be what you are.
This is a pointless Youtube argument with someone who clearly is living from America's conservative past.
VideosByTJ 2 years ago
You comparing my confidence that Jesus Christ is the ultimate answer to life meaning, clarity, and salvation to close-mindedness is akin to someone calling me close-minded because I'm sure that 2+2 equals 4. I'm SURE that Jesus Christ is the only way to truly knowing God and living life eternally after death with your creator, God. I'm very accepting of everyone ; I love diversity in the Earth and I love people - which is why I want you guys to accept Jesus Christ - you're better off with him!
HarryLeTroisieme 2 years ago
nobody "needs" to accept your god jesus christ. If they choose to become christians they will be okay, if not... I bet they´ll be fine also.
XxkarazuxX 2 years ago
oh ! oh!o ! why are you so angry with Jesus Christ?
kviky0 2 years ago
i hate when christians try to push their religion on other. just because your god says we're different from mammals doesnt mean its true. scientist believe we are very similar to mammals mabye u should think before you offend other people and religions
Peace4Life100 2 years ago
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XxkarazuxX 2 years ago
wat does monogamous mean?
rndmnssfortahfive 2 years ago
mono means one, so it means you stick with one person
totoland1234 2 years ago
I do not care if your gay your still hot! :)<3
idonthaveanyfriends 2 years ago
i honestly think cheating is when you break the bond between the person your with.
if your going to cheat, don't date someone.
and if you truly love someone, then you wont have to cheat, and you wouldn't put them threw that.
but that's just my opinion.
201166a 2 years ago 3
Awesome, Carl, i like it when yu talk a lot. It would be so great to meet somewhere and to discuss such interesting topics in the deeep details.
Sorry that you're parents split, i didn't know that. Same here.
My short reply to the vid is: More love in this world.
Cause you really have a healthy thinking about relationship... That's what i like here.
- a boy - (!)
meldotburn 2 years ago
im so lucky that my parents are still together
calbum08 2 years ago
you'rea big huge bottle of awesome sauce.
and I'm kind of in the same boat as you. :/
iBlastoise 2 years ago
Carl,
I just subscribed...you are made of awesome. :)
1) Monogamy is possible, but some researchers find male sexuality tends to be quite unstable. There's an interesting book called "Boy Crazy" that talks about some of the issues.
2) Cheating happens when you break the agreements you have in a relationship. Communication is key!
3) People in polyamourous relationships have more than one "love," but everyone involved consents, and therefore it is not considered cheating.
What do you think?
Kharisma1980 2 years ago
Did you know that the leading cause of divorce is marriage?
GothicMunky101 2 years ago
hmm...tok topic.
i agree with you totally
!
XxLeDuhxX 2 years ago
A recent study proposes that there might be a link between hormonal contraceptives and the divorce rate in America. The study points out that around the time the pill came out divorce rates skyrocketed. The general idea is that changing your hormone levels might effect who you are attracted to. It suggests that women who go on birth control after they are married are more likely to leave their husbands. There's still a lot of holes in the theory but it's compelling nonetheless.
quakewad 2 years ago
haha,vey insightful
i love your vids=]
zetimzetimzetim 2 years ago
It comes with maturity.......and that comes at different times in an individuals life.
Please.....stop using the word 'like' -like in every sentence, like or like every other word, like that is like immature....
strangeangel82 2 years ago
Wait a second.. that's by your house?? I thought you were in some exotic rain forest or something 0:
Sounds like you're going through a lot.. sometimes people can be so low. It sounds like you shouldn't tell that person anything anymore.. just saying
mitivers 2 years ago
Virgin!
himynameisbraddd 2 years ago
hmm, doesnt it suck when you get to overthinking things like that?
but yah, youre right :(
i think alotta ppl feel the same way about that sorta thing, but dont care enough to back up what they believe.
talk the talk, but cant walk the walk.
yknow?
man oh man i love your vids lol
Nevaine 2 years ago
It is OK to cheat if you are under 30. If you are over 30 you are supposed to be in a committed, monogamous relationship, ok?
KyleVarner 2 years ago
we are not animals! In the bible, it says we are superior to animals and we can do whatever we want to with them!
Awalker454 2 years ago
So you're saying if you wanted to take a puppy and smash its face in, that would be okay?
AlphabetSoupCircus 2 years ago
you're so gorgeous
and not just cos your a babe lol
naww its so cute how you can just
confess all that
xoxokat
TVYTVY 2 years ago
Keep in mind that the word 'cheating' implies that there are 'rules'. If the rules aren't made clear between the people in a relationship it is very hard to decide what cheating is. Also cheating is a matter of perception. What is perfectly fair to a couple in a relationship who have discussed and made their own decisions as to the rules, might seem, to someone outside the relationship to be cheating. We have to be careful when judging such things that we know all of the circumstances...
Ikkalam 2 years ago
Wolves mate for life as well... Often if the mate dies they leave the pack and go off alone to die.
Ikkalam 2 years ago
No - the swans do stay with 1 partner for the whole life...
BuenoFin 2 years ago
But cheating is completely different issue from life long marriage. If a couple agree to be monogomous, it's very hurtful when one doesn't follow through. You both need to discuss and change the agreement when needed. Cheating is unethical; it's just like lying.
donstrom 2 years ago
When marriage and monogamy were a big thing, people generally lived about 30 years. That means with a partner for about 15 years. But now people live twice as long. 15 years with one person is doable; but 45 years is quite a lot of time for both partners to significantly change.
Life long marriage as a social construct is heading to obsolescence. It works great for many people; but not for most.
donstrom 2 years ago
meh there will always be asshole who stab ya in the back,ive gotten my fair shair,and im gonna be turning 17 in november and have yet to be in a relationship either,suppose u cant control any of that,u like someone go for,worst case scenario u end up back where u were before....or somethin along those lines...idk what im talking bout half the time o.O
ScarlettRomanceJAH 2 years ago
Well, life is an experience
You can have lifetime partner, but sometimes people change. I see that has a evolution, a good one, about a person, so I don't think it's really... bad.
Everything happens for a reason, so, if so many parents divorce, thats just their choice, kind of. And now we live in a society when we can make those kinds of choices. So, I guess it's in our nature.... because we change.
You know, birds, I don't know exacly what kind, oftenly stays with a life partner...
camstorys 2 years ago
I would NEVER cheat.....plus i'm alone
LostBoyLife 2 years ago
my parents are split because my mom died..
not really the same thing as divorce but they're not together.
twilightfever101 2 years ago
The worst is when an attractive individual says dishonest things and compliments just because it provides more passion and when in the end its all somehow meaningless as the individual lacks a drive for a monogamous relationship.
satrapy27 2 years ago
I understand what you are saying...basically its just these days back in the day like renaissance times If someone cheated on their husband or wife they would be dead or even in the 50's............I have been cheated on 3 times which sucks, I have always been a loyal person so i never understood why people want to cheat but I hate it
Dream2sing2009 2 years ago
The cheater should just break up with the person before it happens, if they're attracted to someone else they should pursue them
ittyxbitty 2 years ago
My mom and dad are split up
Nick9564 2 years ago