Parent Alienation Revisited part 2

[anne9ism]

what about those absent parents who don't show up for visitation time after time. then show up unanounced and expect the child to drop everything and go with them because the absent parent decided they wanted to spend time with their child. Your assanine analogies make these absent parents think they are entitled to call the shots whenever they feel they can "fit' their children into their schedule.

[pdibianca]

yvon, where are you getting your information from? It is incorrect , and for whatever reason is accompanied by anger...not an angle that lends itself to persuasion



[yvon12100]

Amy Baker is NOT a psychologist!!! She is a quack. She is NOT licensed . She has NEVER provided therapy. She is a hired gun. She found a way to make a BIG paycheck through books.

My ex was grooming our daughter. We filed an Emergency Motion. My ex then hired Ms Baker, who NEVER spoke to the therapist , my daughter or me. Her CV was presented to the court and the judge laughed that Ms Baker would even try to be an expert witness. Thus, her credibility is non-existent!!!

[toddmaudlin]

You're a dumb ignorant fuck

[willis446]

Amy Baker, you are the most stupid psychologist. Actually you are so stupid that you are not deserve to be called psychologist. You are a child abusers and pedophile supporter. Another woman is also an idiot!!! Parental Alienation is totally a pedophile defender Dr. Richard Gardner created. It is totally garbage. It has no scientific support. Anyone is using this against any mother, they are child abuser and criminals. They should be prosecuted. Amy Baker, you are not a doctor. You are a witch!

[mrsstarzshine]

Ms. Freaky Fizzy haired woman, is hiding her black eye with her bangs. She obviously rolled out of bed, forgot to brush her hair, and her presence is disturbing. She looks like a freak. Her frizzy hair is ugly. She obsessively talks with her hands... and she has a PHD??? more bull crap piled even higher...

[addvoc8]

Amy seems to be in denial on how the system really works - how mothers dominate in most child abuse & murders and are entitled. This sick, sad system primarily supports and rewards mothers for abusing their children and their exes, using the tight marriage of false abuse allegations with parental alienation child abuse as the primary weapon of divorce.

Sick, sick system. Why would any fair, sane person defend it?

Judges don't know who to believe?

[usmcoth]

Any needs to go back to her cult that she keeps referring to.

[7YHWH7]

fantastic point at 5 mins by Amy..the fact that children can chose if they want to be parented on the weekend too or stay with the other parent when perhaps they should be with that parent regardless of what the child and the collaborating, more likely instigating parent think they need.....it's definately a "corruptor" of their "moral" compass !!!!

[thestreetdogg]

I have been married and got Divorced, and I do have a Daughter that i share 50/50 Joint Custody.

I got very upset that we had to divorce. I could not accept the fact that we have to raise our Daughter seperately.

Everything we had was destroyed, and we both fell to the bottom. Divorce is a big thing. in Fact Divorce i rated right below the Death of a spouse chart for Stress.

I think is a 40 point stress.

I did not date since than, cuz i fear Step Mothers like you.

[evesrib]

Ok well that sucks for you then. My husbands situation is different. He married after knocking her up in highschool because she lied about being on birth control to "trap" him. I suppose her "disorder" was apparent even back then. They didn't have much of anything, except for their daughter.

Stress is no reason to abuse a child, so maybe you should have put your daughter first instead of yourself.

[misteeq64]

@thestreetdogg Dont put step mother in all the same bag please . i have great relationship with my step children i pay for my step daughter college , clothe give her ppocket money because she has no job right now .Her mother is very kind but unable to provide for her . I am the first one to get on my husband case when he yelled at my step son

[thestreetdogg]

"evesrib" you said this on the removed comment:

----Joint custody is ALWAYS the way to go, UNLESS a child is being ABUSED. Parental alienation is abuse, and joint custody DOE NOT stop it as any expert would tell you. Maybe you would benefit by educating yourself some more"-----

LOL at you.......

[evesrib]

Yes, thank you for reposting - I accidently deleted it.

[thestreetdogg]

Joint Custody is the only healthy way.

Every Good Psychologist in the World will tell u that: Both Parents are Equally important to the Child's healthy Development Physically and Emotional.

Knowing that i just Don't understand what kinda Parent will feel good having kids turned against the other Parent!?

It's sick and No Courts always can't solve Problems.

However, situations like this one in Video don't always happen with grown Kids. joint custody from early age will stop this situation

[PASCRAA]

thank you for this please see my video

[evesrib]

Sooo true. My husband's ex-wife frequently breaks court orders and obsessively accuses me of abusing their daughter. She is NEVER punished by the court for anything, and my husband's lawyer said not to even bother filing contempt charges because it's a waste of money. The woman even tries to "alienate" their daughter from our family pets by telling her they are "evil" and "demonic" and want to "hurt her". This is an 11--year-old we're talking about.

[thestreetdogg]

"Evesrib"a good Step Mother/Father is the one who help the Child maintain a good Relationship with their BIOLOGICAL parents.

You are a StepMother in no way Biological, so if The Child's Mother acuse u of u doing smth wrong with her child than try to correct ur actions to satisfy her a littel bit.

It looks like it bothers u more than the Father, so stay away from Mother/Daughter relationship.

[evesrib]

Wow what a moron, lol

[thestreetdogg]

"eversrib" it's the truth... I know it hurts but u got to face the truth.

That's why u have to call me a Moron because u have nothing else to say.

[evesrib]

No, I do have something else to say. It's called an "education". Maybe you should try it.

Joint custody is not always the best choice when a mother is psychologically abusing her daughter, financially neglecting her because she refuses to work, skipping her volleyball games to party with her boyfriend, and encouraging her to lie and abuse animals - all because she is a bitter divorcee that cannot get over the fact that her husband left her - which is probably exactly what your problem is.

[evesrib]

Nope, didn't have to cheat. Divorced? That should be obvious. Stressful? My turn? The only thing stressful is being a step-mother and having to watch my step-daughter be abused by a neurotic, narcissistic "jealous" mother.

[misteeq64]

@evesrib welcome into the group

[evesrib]

Jealousy? There isn't much to be jealous of, but such comments indicate your level of maturity on this subject.

[jhan6120]

We need a Phd to tell us that if kids grow up with a parent who's a selfish jerk, they'll turn out to be selfish jerks themselves? Has everyday common sense become illegal?

[maqam4000]

the lawyers arguement that that no judge would force teenagers to go with the father is very true however if HE had custody and the mother got the judge to over turn this, then i am telling you with out a doubt, the jude would FORCE the kids not matter how old they are to go and live the mother. Its the same here in the uk. Judges will never seen mothers to prison, even its on the the statute books and they know it, its a joke, they ignore it with impunity, drag it through court,

[ykmsp]

I am from Singapore and I have to say that Parental Alienation DOES exists, and is still well and alive living "in a can" in my country.

It's a matter of time before the can gets opened up and all the worms start flowing out..

[2live42day]

I feel sad for Richard. The mother of these girls is very selfish? Why not share? These children deserve to have two parents.