Mary J. Blige - Your Child

[browntreasure]

I don't think I can stay in this situation... He lied about his flesh and blood and I couldn't swallow that because if he could do it with her kids, he is going to do it with ours if we have any... I'd rather be alone then have him staring me in my face everyday knowing he lied to me...

[grownsexy46]

mary you know what you are sing about because i know a firend that her guy did that to her . He got child by somebody eles and that all most kill her.

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[amberbstleo]

ive been going thru this for about a year my boyfriend of 9years has gotten 4 other woman pregnant plus me in 1 year and i dont know how to walk away, im scared becuz there are to many diseases out there

[MzMarioWms08]

@amberbstleo Baby WALK AWAY b4 that man give u somethin u can't walk away from...aids/hiv is everywhere these days i understand what u goin thru...

[TionnaRenea]

Love this song

[wr513]

Classic

[mezy1mereyez]

Yes I am dealing with a man denying my baby. LMAO I thought I was the main chick til I had her and found out He live with somebody else...How was she not worried where her man was 3 to 4 days a week, but whatever I'm also a stripper and if he walks in my club Mary will be on repeat...Thanks Mary for being so real

[SexyBlack3442]

ok in the video right..mary tryna say that he cheated with a women that resembled her, ommmgg that eactly what he did to me.

[SexyBlack3442]

ommmmgggg im going through this right nowww..he tried to keep her secret but i found out smh,,its killing me to mary..wtf

[willtate2011]

Lets just remember.......not all men are the same........trust me!!!

[severe8807]

This song is tru; cus mos niggaz do deny their own seed...

[MzMarioWms08]

@severe8807 MAJORITY DO...SMH THATS THE SAD PART

[2009holister]

Is it me...or does the other woman resemble Mary???

[MzCnajohnson]

@2009holister Lol

[2009holister]

@MzCnajohnson lol doesnt she though???

[MzCnajohnson]

@2009holister Yess!

[deeclouds]

@2009holister Because it is Mary :)

[2009holister]

@deeclouds lol I know now,,I feel dumb smh lol.

[jlow331]

The song is so spreaks the truth!

[polo5785]

I know one thing kids are a blessing

[alliehazelangel]

OMG just realized thats LEON. LOL Well I was just about eleven when this came out. But I still love this song to this day. Its sad that there are men out there that are like this. SMH, when will it change.

[HoldAwn2Me]

LEON!!!!!! <3

[supalicous]

yeah this song is for me my husband has really fucked up this time i just dont know

[SLICKDSM]

Takes me back to my late junior year in High School spring 2000!

[SLICKDSM]

Correction: this video is from spring and summer 2000!

[cccceeeeddddaaaa]

I want ot put my penis on mary's vaginas :D

[MzMarioWms08]

It takes a REAL WOMAN to say she's not going to stand by a man that doesnt stand up to his responsibilties....My heart goes out and thumbs up to the REAL WOMEN who's out there making a man realize he's not a man if he doesnt take care his OWN CHILD/CHILDREN!!!

[chocolatecuban]

@MzMarioWms08

Exactly, so many women just sit there and take because they don't believe that there is better. Sad.

[MzMarioWms08]

@chocolatecuban Thats so true. And then you have some men out there that don't give a damn bout their own children but quick to take care another's man child/children...Hell do for ur own b4 u try raising somebody else kids

[Kisswish1]

@MzMarioWms08

Hell yeah cause my boyfriend might be the father of another woman baby he is not claiming it but if I find out that he is the father when she has this damn baby you can bet I might have stayed before but that will be my calling from God. I be damned if I am going to have a deadbeat man living in my shit!

[TashaSidney24]

Or on here lyfe24seven..he is a poor excuse for a human being for putting pussy before his kid..

[TashaSidney24]

My baby pops tried to committ suicide after some girl he was dealing wit for a year left him when she found out he had another kid...unfortunately he was unsuccessful..he needs to die slow..look his as on Facebook wakeel born Islam..lame ass dude

[rara1322]

Love this song

[alg78able]

She killed it

[SlimBones552]

She wasnt disrespectfull...

[MarQuez123i]

Ain't heard it in a min

[rideordie4god]

This is a response to Kelly Price's "As we lay" :)

[deke123]

thats my song

[deke123]

thats the song!

[SiiNTi]

Ladies, just be an independent woman and don't rely on a man even in a relationship :) I don't need a man or a child in my life. And I don't plan on getting married, rely and live for God instead. It's alot better. I don't need the drama <3

[motherofurkids]

Ammar how do you deny ur own flesh n blood????

[yakeshia1]

Shit crazy as hell niggas str8 snakes can't man up to they shit!!!

[jennifermassey1]

This song should teach every girl a lesson!!!.!

[TashaSidney24]

@lyfe24seven your girl is just as wack as you for allowing you to not to take care of your children..she is just as pathetic..wack bitches fuck with wack niggas..yall belong together

[TashaSidney24]

a woman who stays with a man knowing that he doesnt take care of his children on purpose is just as bad as the man

[3YECANDY08]

@TashaSidney24 True statement, this need to b told to my baby father's dumb azz chick

[Cindefcukinrella]

I've been through this shit and I still gave the mother fucker another chance. Boy, love can make you do some crazy arse things!

[grownsexy46]

I do understand what she saying because my firend had something happen to her

[pimphstrong1]

i love this song it takes a man to step up and do for his

[MzMarioWms08]

Imma tell u whats sad, u got some women out there who actually wouldnt care, as long as that man didnt do anythin with the woman again or for the child, but what kind of man is that to take care of another woman's children when he cant even take care his own, THATS NOT A MAN AT ALL!!!

[3YECANDY08]

@MzMarioWms08 U damn right, my baby father doesnt take care of nun of his nor his girlfriends kids either..so she sad azz hell thinking she got something

[MzMarioWms08]

@3YECANDY08 Thats true, she's no better than him...some women jus desperate to have or say that have a man

[3YECANDY08]

@MzMarioWms08 hell ya, but im maintainin and me n my babygirl making it just fine. thank GOD

[MzMarioWms08]

@3YECANDY08 Thats right, The Lord gone make sure he makes a way for you and your baby...A strong woman is a woman of God... you kep your head up and keep doing ur best!

[Yolireals1]

Its crazy because I'm experiencing this shit rite now...I been wit ma baby dad for 9 years I knew about his two kids before me but this year 2011 i just found out from FACEBOOK he has anotha son who is 15..& he never told me about this child or the girl... i was madd as hell but like Mary said "the girl wasnt disrespectful" And u know i hadda 86 his ASS!!!!

[Cindefcukinrella]

@Yolireals1 Been there too sweetie, but guess what? I aint putting up with that shit any more. A man only gets one chance with me, and if he fucks up, he's gone!

[mrremi12s]

@Yolireals1 damn. but are you still with him?

[Yolireals1]

@mrremi12s We tried to work it out but u kno how dat old sayin go..."FOOL ME ONCE, SHAME ON U, FOOL ME TWICE, SHAME ON ME"

[mrremi12s]

@Yolireals1 Amen, you did it right

[Kisswish1]

@Yolireals1

Are you serious! I am going through this now! I been with my boyfriend for 6yrs I am not ready to give him a baby. So I guess he found a woman who would and I think its his child because his friend is saying its his. I know he was cheating with this psycho cause she wouldn't let me forget. Then he had the nerve to lie say he aint seeing her anymore says its not his child he know he is not the father. SMDH I WANT TO LEAVE HIM SO BAD!

[Yolireals1]

@Kisswish1 Well u doin the rite thing by NOT havin a baby wit dis dude! Because trust me, a baby is not gonna keep a man around!!!! And as for u leavin him u gotta do wat u gotta do...dont stick wit a man dats gonna lie to u. Not only dat da B@#$h probably lying too becuz nowadays you gotta take these B@#$he$ straight to the MAURY SHOW j/s

[janetjackson44yo]

ok i never went throu this and i dont no anyone who has y do i want to cry everythis i wach this song mary j go hard

[MissJuicyWorld]

its the truth..men do this shit rite today.DNA dont lie baby..

[OriginalLibra]

HOW COULD YOU DENY YOUR OWN FLESH & BLOOD!

[TaZSoDopE]

Lmao yes its a wig but shes playing different ppl

[carlasow]

i b leave this happen 2 my aunt she played this song over n over when i younger she never talkd about it n she still wit the man

[Jecire]

It to bad...its to bad..its TOO BAD...Gurrrlfriend she wasn't Disrespectful ~! She said its yo child DAMN!

[westside159]

she wasnt disrespectful

[bnice71295]

I was Mary J. Blige's character once and it is not a good feeling. This song is so inspirational to me and it helped me to get through a very trying time in my life.

[iNaja1992]

ilove mary OMG !!!!!!!!

[itz00004]

reallylike this song...thank god thats not my case...but is is a good jam <3

[MindlessR3D]

@Kimmieleggs she has a lacefront and the reaso why its different colors because she playing oth girls and there appereance(hair,makeup and clothes) must be soem what different so thats why she change so much in this video

[Kimmieleggs]

IS THAT A WIG???? from blonde, to red, to brunette?????hello????Who please tell me is Mary J blige...seems like she sings the same song over and over again and I USED to like her. i just wish that she would pleaaaseeeeee...pleasssse make up her damn mind about what color she is? Seriously.

[Mamboo107]

@Kimmieleggs Is that so important to you?! Just listen to music.This is amaaazing song and you talk about hair colour ?!!

[mrremi12s]

@Mamboo107 lmfao

[Kimmieleggs]

IS THAT A WIG????

[kevinlin50]

the Maury show inspire this song this song is still dope tho

[trynitya16108]

love this song 2 death... and mary looks beautiful with that orange hair jst sayinn

[fancyface432]

her voice sounds so different

[january20brandi]

It true a real woman wudnt say someththat like that over the fone or atleast I wudnt

[january20brandi]

Love this song

[olddud25]

I love this videos she did a good job

[JayySimms211]

This is when r&b was just the rhythm an blues...=`]

[wackybait]

@JayySimms211 damn sure miss these days

[TheVick408]

BITCH ASS NIGGAS ALWAYS WANNA BE DENYING THEIR KIDS whats new all i gotta say to them is fuck them they anit shit. my sisters dealing with some shit like this :( but shes strong shell gett threw ittt

[TheRobinstanley]

i love this song.why denied that what i said to him

[D1mndprnc355]

2:43"Your own child, What kind of man of you"? I'ma tell you Mary, he is not the only man who every did it! Men Are BASTARDS!

[loveerofdancing6]

-my favorite sonq.

[1973msjasper]

this is one of my favorite songs!!!

[sheda0325]

so so so very true, we have to learn to take ownership!!!

[donalds380]

iam guilty / i am going through this / but i never denied my child/ a real man will admit hes wrong and still acknowlege his child/ b cause no matter what the child is a innocent bystander/

[sjessica401]

@ Josephine your so right but some women won't even care about that !! It's such a shame I see it all the time

[tamtyala]

This whole album helped me get through a bad relationship....I love Mary J. Thanks to KCI for messing her up

[JosephineTM]

This song is such a sad song and you know that he is not a worth it if he will deny his own child.

[sjessica401]

As women or mothers with daughters we shouldn't show man that denying kids or mistreating them is ok for our own selfish ass reasons to show some chick you mean something cause if you meant that much it would have never happened to bring with. Men will always come back as long as u let it happen it has nothing to do with love. So that men will be men can go somewhere with that ..sorry ass excuse 9 years waste. Don't hold on to things you already know at heart won't work !!

[sjessica401]

Sometime its the opposite I was the main girl 9yrs and two kids later. Now he moved on with some girl that still lives with her baby daddy won't see my kids cause she is so insecure of what we use to have but I don't want him any woman with a brain or self respect wouldn't want a man that doesn't even care about his own kids. That's the deepest bond you can ever have as a,human So any kids whether before or after a relationship I couldn't ever respect that type of man real woman do what's right

[sjessica401]

Wow you stay with him yet you are punishing him for it as well as that child your not a real woman that child is innocent Hope no one ever treats your kids like that just saying

[DwnSthDame]

Kids are always innocent. Will neva mistreat even outside kids!!

[espanola82]

smh having babies on they main girl/ wife with girls in the streets no respect true story it happens to the best of us. Think you picked a winner and then you find out about babies in the streets, std, and then you realize everything was a lie

[DwnSthDame]

@espanola82 Wow said perfectly! I think everyone should try TRUE LUV at least once n their adult like...not talkn bout that kiddie shit either. Once u have experienced it, u would neva try n b a homewrecker at least that's what I think.....but these men lie 2 n we all know they lie to fuck n leave u n da damn cold.

[DwnSthDame]

My situation also. I feel so fucked up by this entire situation I have no clue if I should leave or stay. Had to find out by text....now aint that some shit? I tried to talk to her like somebody but she just was throwing shit in my face like he doesnt want me he wants to be a family with her and of course he denied it. He asked me to marry him like a month ago......Im so confused, hurt and don't know what to do. Been wit him for going on 7 years and I"m still in LOVE wit him.....

[Lazzygyrl]

@DwnSthDame Girl, I'm sorry to hear you going through that. It happened to me...but it was from a freak he didn't even love or hardly knew for that matter. karma is a bitch cuz he will never be a part of that child's life the right way cuz of how he brought him into this world. I'm still with him and we got through it, but he will never have my support when it comes to that, he's on his own!!

[DwnSthDame]

@Lazzygyrl N that's exactly what she was n I was more disappointed to see that she was the typical chickenhead! I mean she was tore 2 pieces....that was a dbl slap n da face! Unfortunately she SAY she miscarried, there it still doesn't make me feel any better cuz he was still out there n feel betrayed. How did u guys throught it cuz my god it aint easy, but of course REAL women do REAL things n stick wit there man...cuz I swear they need help!!

[DwnSthDame]

I just found out my bf might have someone pregnant!! Shit hurts like hell...

[donalds380]

this is so true



[JusSayFatty]

Im so tha baby mama :( -

[TionnaRenea]

OMG just be a fuckin man 

[iamBONNIEALI]

Im goin thru dis ish smh

[HalfandHalf1983]

Leon...those lips r SEXY

[dshai0803]

this is a deep song...only MARY can deliver a message like this !

thumbs up

[cjacja21]

Lovely song... but that wig has got to go.... lol

[curtiskyle71]

Huh that is it...working

[sincere85699]

THIS THAT OLD WORK!

[khadija119]

"And you told her about me after the baby was born" . Damn I went through that situation . SMH

[HONEYLOVEBLISS]

Lord Jesus LEON is fine as heaven!!!! MMM MMMM MMMMMM I wonder if he comes in a Campbell's flavor!! LMBO

[h2o1204]

Leon ol triffling ass!

[charlita25]

@h2o1204 Lol but he is a great dad in real life...

[robynn1978]

I LOVE THIS SONG!!! I was the baby mama not knowing he was married..Men are dogs don't trust them. They deny their own flesh for sex....I wish his wife was as nice as Mary....lol...Not my fault he was a lying bastard...DONT TRUST THEM

[jbrumfie79]

@robynn1978 Not all men are the character in this video. It sad that though a few rotten apples ruin the bunch of other "good" men that work hard to be a decent.

[Lyric1701]

@robynn1978 Counselling.. might be helpful ..

[meiiabookii2013]

that song make me feel like i can't trust any man

[BlueeHazee]

She did the right thing..

[morqanstar]

crazy im the kid in this situation && im 15 stereotype is that im suppose pregnant a drop out but im neither ...im good in school and boys are the furthest from my mind...my dads whole family denies me and my lil bro i just want my dad there to show my lil bro the right way thats all i will be okay w/out him ''/ crazy he chose his other fam over me and my lil bro but i refuse to think we are mistakes but my dad swares he loves us if thats what love is about i dnt want it ...

[robynn1978]

@morqanstar

YOU ARE NOT A MISTAKE!! He is wrong baby... When you become successful don't be surprised when he comes around. Forget him. Guide your brother in the right path. If he needs a role model contact the boys and girl club for the big brother program, Live your life to the fullest..All you can do is pray and let GOD be your father. He will never forsake you. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. You are GOD's child...Not a mistake. ONE LOVE

[LACREATA]

@robynn1978 I love this comment .



[mstemakag]

Too bad it's to bad I gotta face reality,he is ur son!!!!!!!!! Do we need to go on MAURY???????????? u Bitch u is the babys father!!!!!!! Now step ur game up,be a dad!!!!!!!!! I'm givin u a new start!And a new chance,ima let GOD take care of u ,u lame!!!!!!!

[NobleSixElite0000]

how can girl deny a man to be a father when she fucked

[cokecain2010]

i been the woman who had the child.but when the love of my life had one on me i though i WAS GONNA DIE LIKE DAMN.......KARMA A BITCH

[teetee121000]

Girlfriend she wasn't disrespectful "/

[rightlydivide08]

@teetee121000 thats right she wasn't disrespectful. And that is why Mary heard her out. Today people want drama, then after the violence--they want to talk calm. Second--we need to get back to God and what he wants us to do in this brief life. The women here just learned the difference of a man after God heart and a man after his fleshly heart--self. last piece of advice for the men--if you see the baby mama's car at your ladies house, and they aren't supposed to know of eachother--RUN

[rr8151960]

@rightlydivide08 very well said.........  (-;

[Misssexy3000]

i love dis song <3



[3YECANDY08]

Omg i lov3 D!S i am so in This situAtion With My Babygirl

[olddud25]

go my baby

[TheAmanda101091]

this song makes me think of my baby daddy... i am 19 with 2 kidz and he has a baby by my friend.. 2 mite i add

my son and his other son is only 4 months apart

[Sweetashanni]

@TheAmanda101091 you're too precious to be treated like that, girlfriend... find yourself a man who knows how to respect a woman! YOU are gold!

[tjravo]

why is marys blouse wide open and the baby mom is in bedroom. guess he lost 2 women that day ????

[TammyNickyWhite]

that baby is tooo gorgous!!

[rexj2]

go check ot my page n let me wat yall think abt my team music

[thic1ness]

That was me when the song came out and I just prayed he still a nothing baby daddy

[Alquisha5]

This is a good video i love it so much mauh. Mahdjnae was here..:)

[MSTINKERLOVER]

y dont they make music like this no more

[youngjuvy1]

My favorite mary j blige song

[mayena]

Theme song to Maury paternity drama tests.

[Yolireals1]

To all da DEADBEAT DADS out there....PAY UR CHILD SUPPORT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[greensidemikey]

Come on now gone mary... I love this.... Omg!!!! Takes me back. This for them real women....

[gas55kill]

for the ladies that accept a man into your life when he is not in his children life. STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[queeneastcoast]

@gas55kill That is so true, because he gonna do the same thing to you. He ain't taking care of his other kids, so what makes you think that he would take care of yours?

[trulydabaddest]

@gas55kill real shit

[gas55kill]

females that be trying to deny their bf's/husband's child should really listen to this song.

[LACREATA]

@gas55kill

That is so true . I know from experince.

[gas55kill]

@LACREATA i expericed it too im glad you can relate to my comment also.

[TheWiifey]

LOVE This

[Willietaylorgur]

How can you dislike this ?

[steph4930]

iF U MaN aNoUgH tO NuT & HeR bE a MaN & TaKe cArE Of wAtS YoUrS pIdD

[canterrob123]

What a beautiful woman! She always looks great and always different

[johnette1105]

i love this song

[jailynwoods]

Does anyone give a fuck what year your watching because you will be watching this all the damn time!!

[alminor1]

What album is this on?

[1beyondblessed]

@alminor1 i think its the mary mary ablum