Ah, just because society accepts, trains & rewards women for being entitled, self absorbed & exalted on pedestals (hmmm, sounds like narcissists) does not mean that most narcissists aren't women. Rigged stats & analysis mean little.
Most unidentified narcissists: women, though denied, ignored & encouraged by narcissistic therapists, media & "leaders" who wish to be seen as politically correct, thus loved & admired. Can you stomach truth? Then search: "youtube - the psychology of hate")
You are truly amazing. You have defined everything I've been trying to verbalize for the past 10+ years to family/friends w/no success. I tried to explain the internal machinations of the mind of my X to people, who just end up looking at me with eyes glazed over and me feeling so alone. Because I KNEW the X had a personality disorder but didn't know how to define it, having not ever been around anyone like this before. Now, YOU have given me the info I have desparately been seeking. THANK YOU.
you sure do understand I have felt so releived someone is able to understand what I have been dealing with for many years which has completely ruined my life thankyou for this it is all so real and true
@5:00: In addition to what you're suggesting, there is a Zen Buddhist technique where if an ignorant person refuses to admit or accept the truth, simply pretend to humour them- then bring up questions and ad hoc comments in relation to whatever delusion they are asserting, that they can't seem to answer, "let the fool persist in his folly, and he will become wise", goes a saying.
"10% of cops are honest, 10% are dishonest, and 80% wish they were honest." - Detective Frank Serpico NYPD, testimony to Knapp Commission. COP. 2. to steal; filch. 3. to buy (narcotics). 4. cop out, a. to avoid one's responsibility, the fulfillment of a promise, etc.; renege; back out. 5. cop a plea, a. to plead guilty or confess in return for receiving a lighter sentence. b. to plead guilty to a lesser charge; plea-bargain." - Random House Unabridged Dictionary.
look worse with every question. It was clear, I was there out of concern for the child and she was there to retain her custody, which is where her power over others all came from. Custody was her income from child support. Custody was her way to punish me and our son's family by withholding him from us and blaming us, to the child, for forcing her to keep us apart in order to keep him safe. I've had custody for 5 years now, 3 1/2 more years to go. She continues to file for custody or contempt.
My ex wife (a narcissist) had custody of our son until he was 9, After 2 &1/2 years in court, I won custody of our son. She represented herself after she had fired several of her lawyers for being "incompetent". That was her claim anyway. She questioned em on the stand for 2 and a half days (our final hearing was 4 days long). Quick responses, facts, and knowing dates killed her in court. She could not handle losing control of the direction she wanted the questioning to go. She made herself cont
Why all the references of narcissists being "HE???"
Most narcissists in court are women, esp in divorce court where surveys show about 2/3 to 3/4 of divorcing mothers use false abuse allegations which lead them to commit much more associated abuse (esp parental alienation child abuse) connected and inseparable with that entitled superior narcissistic behavior by those placed on pedestals by themselves AND by others.
I had this experience with the ex of my hubbie. They have a kid together and this woman thinks the world turns around her and she can do whatever she wants, as she is the mother of the child, so she manipulates everyone around. She first was very fake friendly to me, now she hates her guts out for me, as I pinpoint her down everytime she tries to manipulate. A simple " I don´t agree, sorry" or a "do you think what you do is right?" makes her totally lose her composure and she loses it...
Part II I fooled the police and court many times. It’s very easy, but lots of people don’t like anything out of the ordinary unfortunately.
Ever heard about the Scandinavian Jante lov?
Sublime intellect, thus elitism. NO, they prefer the mediocre, so even those strings can be played on as the narcissist is capable of, to their self-mastered degree so forth.
Give them no attention and they crave for the reflection so with no reaction you get them to play along.
You absolutely right Sam, on the approach of the grandeur Narcissist!
However if you are more brute than in your appearance with the narcissist,
The person will start to victimize a new pattern of objects, into to his corporation of overtly manipulation. Hence you can be ruled out as manipulator of the personage itself!
But by ridiculing the narcissist after first hearing his grandeur epic ideas, then you can dismantle the person complete.
Ah, just because society accepts, trains & rewards women for being entitled, self absorbed & exalted on pedestals (hmmm, sounds like narcissists) does not mean that most narcissists aren't women. Rigged stats & analysis mean little.
Most unidentified narcissists: women, though denied, ignored & encouraged by narcissistic therapists, media & "leaders" who wish to be seen as politically correct, thus loved & admired. Can you stomach truth? Then search: "youtube - the psychology of hate")
addvoc8 3 weeks ago
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addvoc8 3 weeks ago
This is ironic and scary
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You are truly amazing. You have defined everything I've been trying to verbalize for the past 10+ years to family/friends w/no success. I tried to explain the internal machinations of the mind of my X to people, who just end up looking at me with eyes glazed over and me feeling so alone. Because I KNEW the X had a personality disorder but didn't know how to define it, having not ever been around anyone like this before. Now, YOU have given me the info I have desparately been seeking. THANK YOU.
ANGELSVEN 5 months ago
you sure do understand I have felt so releived someone is able to understand what I have been dealing with for many years which has completely ruined my life thankyou for this it is all so real and true
Gngbgnbu 6 months ago
@5:00: In addition to what you're suggesting, there is a Zen Buddhist technique where if an ignorant person refuses to admit or accept the truth, simply pretend to humour them- then bring up questions and ad hoc comments in relation to whatever delusion they are asserting, that they can't seem to answer, "let the fool persist in his folly, and he will become wise", goes a saying.
LeHuyAnh 6 months ago
"10% of cops are honest, 10% are dishonest, and 80% wish they were honest." - Detective Frank Serpico NYPD, testimony to Knapp Commission. COP. 2. to steal; filch. 3. to buy (narcotics). 4. cop out, a. to avoid one's responsibility, the fulfillment of a promise, etc.; renege; back out. 5. cop a plea, a. to plead guilty or confess in return for receiving a lighter sentence. b. to plead guilty to a lesser charge; plea-bargain." - Random House Unabridged Dictionary.
operationnorthwoodz 6 months ago
look worse with every question. It was clear, I was there out of concern for the child and she was there to retain her custody, which is where her power over others all came from. Custody was her income from child support. Custody was her way to punish me and our son's family by withholding him from us and blaming us, to the child, for forcing her to keep us apart in order to keep him safe. I've had custody for 5 years now, 3 1/2 more years to go. She continues to file for custody or contempt.
jboritzki 7 months ago
My ex wife (a narcissist) had custody of our son until he was 9, After 2 &1/2 years in court, I won custody of our son. She represented herself after she had fired several of her lawyers for being "incompetent". That was her claim anyway. She questioned em on the stand for 2 and a half days (our final hearing was 4 days long). Quick responses, facts, and knowing dates killed her in court. She could not handle losing control of the direction she wanted the questioning to go. She made herself cont
jboritzki 7 months ago
Why all the references of narcissists being "HE???"
Most narcissists in court are women, esp in divorce court where surveys show about 2/3 to 3/4 of divorcing mothers use false abuse allegations which lead them to commit much more associated abuse (esp parental alienation child abuse) connected and inseparable with that entitled superior narcissistic behavior by those placed on pedestals by themselves AND by others.
addvoc8 8 months ago
@addvoc8 case in point: wkyt.com/wymtnews/headlines/Judge_attacked_during_divorce_hearing_125593378.html
MsCheburashki 7 months ago
@addvoc8 probably because most (80%) of narcissist are men. "He" also tends to be the default ("he or she" can get annoying to say)
hitlerscow 3 weeks ago
Sharing this today - thank you - from all of us Sam!
audreymichellepoet 9 months ago
and cries on cue...drama!
MACSMovies 10 months ago 2
I had this experience with the ex of my hubbie. They have a kid together and this woman thinks the world turns around her and she can do whatever she wants, as she is the mother of the child, so she manipulates everyone around. She first was very fake friendly to me, now she hates her guts out for me, as I pinpoint her down everytime she tries to manipulate. A simple " I don´t agree, sorry" or a "do you think what you do is right?" makes her totally lose her composure and she loses it...
5671Karolina 1 year ago 2
Part II I fooled the police and court many times. It’s very easy, but lots of people don’t like anything out of the ordinary unfortunately.
Ever heard about the Scandinavian Jante lov?
Sublime intellect, thus elitism. NO, they prefer the mediocre, so even those strings can be played on as the narcissist is capable of, to their self-mastered degree so forth.
Give them no attention and they crave for the reflection so with no reaction you get them to play along.
Damn right Sam
rustedme 1 year ago
Part I
You absolutely right Sam, on the approach of the grandeur Narcissist!
However if you are more brute than in your appearance with the narcissist,
The person will start to victimize a new pattern of objects, into to his corporation of overtly manipulation. Hence you can be ruled out as manipulator of the personage itself!
But by ridiculing the narcissist after first hearing his grandeur epic ideas, then you can dismantle the person complete.
rustedme 1 year ago