oh and another thing...what the fuck do you mean "why do I want to tell them?" what? what? why else? so that when I get a girlfriend they don't look at me like i'm crazy! so they know who I am! what the hell? that's kind of offensive, just saying. you guys are stupid as fuck.
@GrrFaceILY I agree with you.......wtf...your telling them because your coming out of the closet, and don't want to hide who you are any longer! duh!!!! This was a horrible video!
you guys really helped me with this thanks!.............haha lol jk you didn't. that was terrible, and I still don't know how to tell my friends and family. you suck. bye.
bah. I've told my mom like three times that i'm bi, and each time she was sure that it's a phase -.- . I can't accept the fact that my mom thinks i'm still "discovering" myself, when i already did D:
And my dad doesn't know o. o' he'd slap me, i think v_v
@ItsElluBaby haha i'm in the same position as u... i think now my parents are starting to realize that i'm actually serious though... i'm 20... i told them/they found out when i was 16... it's been a while :P i still don't think they will ever fully accept me though... harsh reality, especially with religious catholic parents...
@hermione1135 I know how you feel i told my parents last year when i was 17 & my mom thinks that its a choice when in reality its not ! & its very unfair when they treat you like you have a disease or something :( Now i'm only treated from a distance from my own mother ...
you both fucking suck and this doesnt help me at all,i could ask bullies at my fucking achool for advice and theyd probablly give better advice than you :P fuckheads
Dude, don't be such a prick. I don't want to instigate, but man, did you think about any of what you said before you posted it? No, I have never been abused by anyone at any time. Yes, I am bisexual. That might not be okay with you, but you need to think about other people before you post negative comments.
Well this doesn't help at all. My parents don't know at all yet that I'm bi, because I'm scared to tell them, because they are the kind of parents that find liking the same sex disgusting, they are also the kind that want a perfect daughter, but didn't get one. -.- Now how do you deal with this kind of situation??
ok my family is awayz like sayin shut up faggot or wat a homo or sumtin like that im bi not gay but how do i tell them i think i might do it through facebook or just call on the fone someone plz help and give me some advise and if ur single im 13 who is gonna come clean to my school like tthis week soo
Okay, so I need to ask this kid out in English within a month before school gets out, and this shit didn't help. This kid has the most beautiful eyes, he plays soccer, he was on the honor roll as a freshman(yes, he is a sophomore and so am i), he has a nice tanned skin color, brown hair and about 5'9" and not overweight even a pound. WTF DO I DO?!
Ok this really does not help. As a bi teen I know that keeping it a secret is almost painful and hearing "it's a phase" is almost just as painful because in a way they are basically blowing you off when you have tried to be honest with them.
Well... erm... I still don't know how to tell my parents that I'm Bi... oh screw it, I'll just wait for another one of those days when my mum asks me if I'm a lesbian. It might soften the blow :)
I told my Parents and they Judged me I told them when I was 13 and I was with a Girl and I am still Bisexual to this day lol and sometimes they still give me dirty Looks Man Just cause My Parents have a problem with anyone who Likes the same sex They really need to learn and start acting like the parents they are Supposed to be
I want to tell my parent becuz i am tired of keeping it a secret.. i jusst wanna tell them and have them except me for who i am..bcuz it feel lyk there is a big part of my life that they don't know about.
@xXLipsLykSugarXx You are exactly like me, they don't know me fully and i don't want to have the corny line "theres something i have to tell you, i'm bi." If you have told your parents please give me some advice i'm moving out in a few days and i think they need to know before I go.
I saw this video in the related videos thing, and I figure I'd check it out. To anybody who is thinking about coming out to your parents: don't be afraid, they'll love you regardless. I'm not gay, but I have friends that are. That's their advice when they get asked that question.
I'm bi, i have been for almost a year now, only my sister knows I don't have the balls to tell my mom yet;--i'm sure i will in time--now my dad, I could NEVER tell him, how could i come to tell him i'm bi when he swears if i date someone out of my race such as an african american;-he'll DISOWN ME.!?...If itell him I'm bi--he'll prolly say what the fuck do you know about love && yur sick you'll go to hell that shit. This video helped NONE.
@XxRissaRiotxX THAT'S CRAP!!!!!>:(. You DON'T go to hell just because you have a different sexual prefference! & trust me, I DO understand! my WHOLE FAMILY is like that 2!! & there racists 2!! & talking 2 them might just be a small taste OF HELL!!. unfortunately I don't KNOW how 2 help, because i'm straight & I'm sorry you & alot of people have to deal with this situation, because your not aloud to do anything just because of your parents & family :(
@lilkitty8 I know, I think it's fucking bullshit that my family knowingly wouldn't accept me. If they held my beliefs they'd completly understand, they're pretty much close-minded in my opinion, where as I 'am open-minded to many things. If they looked at things the way I do; they'd understand.! The way I think of it...
Love hold no gender, love is what you feel for another person, not what's between your legs.
@XxRissaRiotxX well i hope & wish you the best of luck 4 your family 2 exept you!!!!!:) Your so right!!!=) Everyone deserves 2 be happy NO MATTER what gender, culture or ethnicity!:) The heart wants what the heart wants:)
Im bisexual, And this doesnt help much . x| , my dad has always been making fun of Bisexual (And gay) People, I don't know if i should tell him or not . :/
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You should not tell your parents you are bi. Maybe if you was gay then yes because being bisexual is not love. Bisexuals are fucked up and i have been out with them but never again.
thats unfair , I bet bisexuals can be in love just like anyone else , and just because some of them you went out with were fucked up , it doesn't mean all of them are!!
@pjcod Part 2: In the end its your choice wiether or not to tell them, but I say sit on it at least a week or two, be sure to think out anything and everythin they may ask. Many will still think its just something for now, or something silly like that. Just be honest and say, "its not, but if you want to talk abt it tell me and we will" and leave it at that, most parents will respect u more for that then if u yell or scream at them, or agrue in any way.
@pjcod Part one: Normally the best way to say anything is to(say ur a girl) "btw mom, is it okay if I go with my girlfriend to the movies saturday?" Treat it like a normal, everyday thing, because it is! Just because there r ppl who don't like the thought of it doesn't make it wierd or strange, its who you are, so be honest with urself and others.
@pjcod Part one: Normally the best way to say anything is to(say ur a girl) "btw mom, is it okay if I go with my girlfriend to the movies saturday?" Treat it like a normal, everyday thing, because it is! Just because there r ppl who don't like the thought of it doesn't make it wierd or strange, its who you are, so be honest with urself and others.
I am strong enough to beat up anyone i want on my school.... But still.... If i tell i am bisexual.... I wont be accepted..... And i don't want to beat up people... Realy... I just want to be accepted as a normal human being...
im bi, my sis is bi, my bestfriend is bi and my other bestfriend is gay. my mom would except me the way i am and she already excepts my friends the way they are. i just don't feel the need to tell her at the moment that i am.
Ooooh that reminds me of that song, from Kronk's New Groove, I thinks thats what its called, anyways, the song "Be true to your groove" ^^= *Squee!* lol I love that song, its so cute and so true :D
Weird thing... the "you're just being eccentric" "Its just a phase" is the same response I got from my dad when I first told him I wanted to start my own company. After about a year of seeing me working on it he's finally being supportive. Sometimes it just takes time.
I'm bi, and I'm proud, I'll tell them on my own time. I don't care what anyone says, be your own person and as much I would love and cherish my parents approval , I don't need it on everything.
Hey im bisexual and I just came out to my family/friends last summer.
It was fairly easy, I just told them. It was scary as shit but it was SUCH a great relief off of my shoulders.
& my parents don't exactly understand why im this way, and they do possibley think im going through a phase, but i've been this way since elementry school so its not a phase lol.
Everyone is still very accepting of me, and thats all that matters :)
I'm bi-sexual... Mostly inclined towards women though, so long as there is some sexual action going on I get turned on. And to be honest with myself I really couldn't care what anyone thought about it so there is no point in telling them... I just want the orgasim! = )
I agree, I came out to my mom about a year or so ago. I'm bi too. I actually had bi feelings since very young, but due to religious peer pressure, I tried so hard to make excuses and deny myself :( But once I learned it's okey, that to be an honest person, I should be honest with myself, I stopped gay-bashing. Which I'm glad for. I'm a better person for it. And yes, it's such a relief.
So I hope she tells someone in her family, someone she trusts, so she might have support when others learn.
My question is this person who submitted this question. If you are still somebody who is dependent on his/her parents for income, food, a place to stay, etc. then you may not want to tell. Telling them really can backfire in ways that you can't imagine. I've read some stories about parents who've actually disowned their children for not being heterosexual. I don't know much truth is in those stories but why even put yourself at risk?
I think some stories are real. Due to doush bag parents. :( They suck and one of them should own up to being not fully straight, since being straight/bi/gay/lesb is genetic. ~_~;
But yes, for that reason, I agree with you. I hope the person will be alright. Or that they're parents are understanding.
Is that so? Do you have proof to back up that statement?
From what I've learned, people who become homosexual/bisexual have gone through some type of abuse at some point in their life. I'm talking about being abused sexually. And I don't know if I would call this trauma or something else but I haven't found any evidence that proves it wrong.
Actually, I'll get you several links, I'll message them to you.
And btw, I'm bi-sexual, and neither of my parents have sexually abused me, nor my non-straight friends. ~_~; Who told you you had to of been sexually abused to be non-straight?
Was the person themselves straight or non-straight?
So I take it that both of your parents and all your grandparents are bisexual too?
Also, I didn't mean to say that the only way for somebody to not be heterosexual is to be abused. I know not everybody gets abused in their lives but I did hear that there was a study about homosexuals/bisexuals who have been abused as children. Whether there is actually a link or not, I don't know for sure.
Actually, I think there's several family members who have ye to admit to themselves muchness others. My family is Military/Right Wing ~_~;
Anyways, alot of kids sadly are sexually abused in one way or another. Some grow up to straight, homo, or bi, some even grow up hating whichever gender, be it their own or the other. Or hate all sexual things all together.
But I can say it's something you're born with. It's just a matter of when one discovers/accepts that part of themselves.
@YourEternalRest it's nt anywhere related to being abused. it can be related, but it's nt the definitive factor. the whole experience that your life is shapes your choices.
Unless you are already out on your own, I would not tell your parents, i have seen some parents do horrible things to their kids from finding this kind of stuff out.
Beating, kicking them out, disowning.
Better to just wait till you are living on your own if you feel the need to tell them.
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being bisexual is bullshit. you are either straight or gay. bi people are gays in denial. lets fave it ..who the hell wants to be gay? theyre gays who wanna fuck everything even the normal sex. its like total slutting around.
If you're straight, then no problem; if your gay, your family and friends might accept it without causing trouble; but if you're bi, it's confusing for everyone. This type of orientation is somewhat difficult for people to understand and parents tend to regard it as merely a passing fancy. That is the problem. Accepting homosexuality is easier than accepting the fact that you can never know if your son/daughter is gonna bring home a boy or a girl.
being older is alw*ys the best time to come out. once you're in college or something your parents are out and they can't do anything about it. even if you're 16 or you have a car and are wanting to move out. if you come out younger they could send you to christian camps or something, make you live on your own, put you into boarding school.. if they disapprove of your bisexuality.
staying in might be a pain but it pays off in the end. you can still come clean, just not to your parents just yet.
He/she could allso try waiting till the said person is in college. When you are in the dorm, away, parents don't have that much control over you. So when you come out you can just go away from their "Just a phase" bs(Sorry for language.) Staying in the closet drives you crazy, but blame society for that.
If you want to be true to yourself why not declare it?
Notverysane 1 week ago
Dan & Jenn.. You should really stop making and posting these videos.. No offence, but you are not helping one tiny bit!
limited2all 1 month ago
Well this is shit?
iJessieJ 1 month ago
I'm so scared I dont even know how to start to tell them
DrtyDza 2 months ago
this did not help
lol101pink 2 months ago
Why? Because we want our parents to accept us for who we are and to be open. Jeesh.
TheAbster46 3 months ago 2
lol...nothing we already know...now how does this help? O.o
TheEmobabe94 4 months ago
oh and another thing...what the fuck do you mean "why do I want to tell them?" what? what? why else? so that when I get a girlfriend they don't look at me like i'm crazy! so they know who I am! what the hell? that's kind of offensive, just saying. you guys are stupid as fuck.
GrrFaceILY 6 months ago
@GrrFaceILY I agree with you.......wtf...your telling them because your coming out of the closet, and don't want to hide who you are any longer! duh!!!! This was a horrible video!
robersonbarnett 2 weeks ago
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you guys really helped me with this thanks!.............haha lol jk you didn't. that was terrible, and I still don't know how to tell my friends and family. you suck. bye.
GrrFaceILY 6 months ago
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GrrFaceILY 6 months ago
why are you bald at a young age?
SuperFreakyDancer 6 months ago
bah. I've told my mom like three times that i'm bi, and each time she was sure that it's a phase -.- . I can't accept the fact that my mom thinks i'm still "discovering" myself, when i already did D:
And my dad doesn't know o. o' he'd slap me, i think v_v
ItsElluBaby 7 months ago 2
@ItsElluBaby haha i'm in the same position as u... i think now my parents are starting to realize that i'm actually serious though... i'm 20... i told them/they found out when i was 16... it's been a while :P i still don't think they will ever fully accept me though... harsh reality, especially with religious catholic parents...
hermione1135 3 months ago
@hermione1135 I know how you feel i told my parents last year when i was 17 & my mom thinks that its a choice when in reality its not ! & its very unfair when they treat you like you have a disease or something :( Now i'm only treated from a distance from my own mother ...
LaLoKiTaVeRoNiCa 2 months ago
@LaLoKiTaVeRoNiCa sorry to hear about ur situation :( i share ur pain <3 let's hope things get better for the both of us!
hermione1135 2 months ago
Ughh this made it worse for me now I'm totally scared to tell them UGGHH
PedroyItatiFan 7 months ago
you both fucking suck and this doesnt help me at all,i could ask bullies at my fucking achool for advice and theyd probablly give better advice than you :P fuckheads
gamerzhelper101 7 months ago
this video is complete bull shit -.-
mollieVidsxXx 7 months ago
@YourEternalRest
Dude, don't be such a prick. I don't want to instigate, but man, did you think about any of what you said before you posted it? No, I have never been abused by anyone at any time. Yes, I am bisexual. That might not be okay with you, but you need to think about other people before you post negative comments.
Madi12597 8 months ago
Well this doesn't help at all. My parents don't know at all yet that I'm bi, because I'm scared to tell them, because they are the kind of parents that find liking the same sex disgusting, they are also the kind that want a perfect daughter, but didn't get one. -.- Now how do you deal with this kind of situation??
goodsinger1214 8 months ago
@goodsinger1214 im n the same boat with you
XxJilliannxX 8 months ago
try telling them your lesbian.
NecroWizard9000 8 months ago
If i told my parents i was bi i would be slapped. lol. >.<
Theitiger96 8 months ago 6
@Theitiger96 lmao!!!
gaylolful 6 months ago
ok my family is awayz like sayin shut up faggot or wat a homo or sumtin like that im bi not gay but how do i tell them i think i might do it through facebook or just call on the fone someone plz help and give me some advise and if ur single im 13 who is gonna come clean to my school like tthis week soo
gta4kingification 9 months ago
Okay, so I need to ask this kid out in English within a month before school gets out, and this shit didn't help. This kid has the most beautiful eyes, he plays soccer, he was on the honor roll as a freshman(yes, he is a sophomore and so am i), he has a nice tanned skin color, brown hair and about 5'9" and not overweight even a pound. WTF DO I DO?!
Jokes0nce95 9 months ago
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KaylaMaella 9 months ago
"a girl this week, a guy this week" she's a bitch. i don't like her.
Raphrodi 10 months ago 7
noooooo help
MRclabish 10 months ago
this fucking sucked, excuse my language. anybody who listens to the advice of a STRAGHT person is just seriously idiotic. that is all.
ashleerocksyoursocks 10 months ago 4
Ok this really does not help. As a bi teen I know that keeping it a secret is almost painful and hearing "it's a phase" is almost just as painful because in a way they are basically blowing you off when you have tried to be honest with them.
AliceBellaGirl 10 months ago 3
Well... erm... I still don't know how to tell my parents that I'm Bi... oh screw it, I'll just wait for another one of those days when my mum asks me if I'm a lesbian. It might soften the blow :)
SmexyRyou96 1 year ago 3
I told mine by goin
"Hey Mom, check your facebook! Something important has happened :D"
And it was my relationship status sayin that Im dating a girl and it went just fine though she was confused at first. (:
TheDancingDuckie 1 year ago
uhh not to be rude but this didnt help at all!
HigherThanDeSky 1 year ago 3
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sarahrang1 1 year ago
wait...so I be honest by not telling them??
Good to know...
clumsyiscoool 1 year ago
im so bored im watching this!? ugg, i need something to do..
BrianTakesValium 1 year ago
thanks for this video
buba10002 1 year ago
I told my Parents and they Judged me I told them when I was 13 and I was with a Girl and I am still Bisexual to this day lol and sometimes they still give me dirty Looks Man Just cause My Parents have a problem with anyone who Likes the same sex They really need to learn and start acting like the parents they are Supposed to be
KirstyBandicoot1 1 year ago 3
I am a bisexual teen.
I want to tell my parent becuz i am tired of keeping it a secret.. i jusst wanna tell them and have them except me for who i am..bcuz it feel lyk there is a big part of my life that they don't know about.
xXLipsLykSugarXx 1 year ago
@xXLipsLykSugarXx i know how you feel...
peanutmaster1231 1 year ago
@xXLipsLykSugarXx You are exactly like me, they don't know me fully and i don't want to have the corny line "theres something i have to tell you, i'm bi." If you have told your parents please give me some advice i'm moving out in a few days and i think they need to know before I go.
qwertyasdyaln 1 year ago
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Harelgur 1 year ago
@Harelgur Not a choice dude.
ThexNerd 1 year ago
I saw this video in the related videos thing, and I figure I'd check it out. To anybody who is thinking about coming out to your parents: don't be afraid, they'll love you regardless. I'm not gay, but I have friends that are. That's their advice when they get asked that question.
likeewoahhh95 1 year ago
I'm bi, i have been for almost a year now, only my sister knows I don't have the balls to tell my mom yet;--i'm sure i will in time--now my dad, I could NEVER tell him, how could i come to tell him i'm bi when he swears if i date someone out of my race such as an african american;-he'll DISOWN ME.!?...If itell him I'm bi--he'll prolly say what the fuck do you know about love && yur sick you'll go to hell that shit. This video helped NONE.
XxRissaRiotxX 1 year ago
@XxRissaRiotxX thats exaxtly how my dad (and my whole family is) seriously this vid was stupid a didnt help at ALL
Dogflame10 1 year ago
@XxRissaRiotxX THAT'S CRAP!!!!!>:(. You DON'T go to hell just because you have a different sexual prefference! & trust me, I DO understand! my WHOLE FAMILY is like that 2!! & there racists 2!! & talking 2 them might just be a small taste OF HELL!!. unfortunately I don't KNOW how 2 help, because i'm straight & I'm sorry you & alot of people have to deal with this situation, because your not aloud to do anything just because of your parents & family :(
lilkitty8 1 year ago
@lilkitty8 I know, I think it's fucking bullshit that my family knowingly wouldn't accept me. If they held my beliefs they'd completly understand, they're pretty much close-minded in my opinion, where as I 'am open-minded to many things. If they looked at things the way I do; they'd understand.! The way I think of it...
Love hold no gender, love is what you feel for another person, not what's between your legs.
XxRissaRiotxX 1 year ago
@XxRissaRiotxX well i hope & wish you the best of luck 4 your family 2 exept you!!!!!:) Your so right!!!=) Everyone deserves 2 be happy NO MATTER what gender, culture or ethnicity!:) The heart wants what the heart wants:)
lilkitty8 1 year ago
@lilkitty8 Well thankss lovee(:
But idkk if I'm gonna tell my family my sexuality, I don't want to go to hell && back XD
XxRissaRiotxX 1 year ago
@XxRissaRiotxX Hehehehe!XD Take care:)
lilkitty8 1 year ago
this video irritated me i culd have did tht myself >:O
tasteshappy 1 year ago
This video doesn't help. At all.
joejonassvunut 1 year ago 84
Im bisexual, And this doesnt help much . x| , my dad has always been making fun of Bisexual (And gay) People, I don't know if i should tell him or not . :/
DrugsWinTheRace 1 year ago
u 2 r bi
TheGarrettDressler 1 year ago
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You should not tell your parents you are bi. Maybe if you was gay then yes because being bisexual is not love. Bisexuals are fucked up and i have been out with them but never again.
neil22100 1 year ago
@neil22100
thats unfair , I bet bisexuals can be in love just like anyone else , and just because some of them you went out with were fucked up , it doesn't mean all of them are!!
ladychaza96 1 year ago
@neil22100 no. anyone can love. maybe you shouldnt judge something you dont even know about
oursongtayswift 1 year ago
@pjcod Part 2: In the end its your choice wiether or not to tell them, but I say sit on it at least a week or two, be sure to think out anything and everythin they may ask. Many will still think its just something for now, or something silly like that. Just be honest and say, "its not, but if you want to talk abt it tell me and we will" and leave it at that, most parents will respect u more for that then if u yell or scream at them, or agrue in any way.
koibitooflife89 1 year ago
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@pjcod Part one: Normally the best way to say anything is to(say ur a girl) "btw mom, is it okay if I go with my girlfriend to the movies saturday?" Treat it like a normal, everyday thing, because it is! Just because there r ppl who don't like the thought of it doesn't make it wierd or strange, its who you are, so be honest with urself and others.
koibitooflife89 1 year ago
@pjcod Part one: Normally the best way to say anything is to(say ur a girl) "btw mom, is it okay if I go with my girlfriend to the movies saturday?" Treat it like a normal, everyday thing, because it is! Just because there r ppl who don't like the thought of it doesn't make it wierd or strange, its who you are, so be honest with urself and others.
koibitooflife89 1 year ago
I am strong enough to beat up anyone i want on my school.... But still.... If i tell i am bisexual.... I wont be accepted..... And i don't want to beat up people... Realy... I just want to be accepted as a normal human being...
atatyrknumber1 1 year ago
im bi, my sis is bi, my bestfriend is bi and my other bestfriend is gay. my mom would except me the way i am and she already excepts my friends the way they are. i just don't feel the need to tell her at the moment that i am.
juicylolipop93 2 years ago
u mean "accept"
inferajum 2 years ago 16
Somehow, she might not be surprised.
blondrose84 2 years ago
Always looked like the drinks was fake but notice they are real when he took a sip.
300tunes 2 years ago
Ooooh that reminds me of that song, from Kronk's New Groove, I thinks thats what its called, anyways, the song "Be true to your groove" ^^= *Squee!* lol I love that song, its so cute and so true :D
blondrose84 2 years ago
How do you tell your girl friend you are bisexual? For no reason as such, but I believe in complete disclosure..
konchamnilav 2 years ago
Weird thing... the "you're just being eccentric" "Its just a phase" is the same response I got from my dad when I first told him I wanted to start my own company. After about a year of seeing me working on it he's finally being supportive. Sometimes it just takes time.
LadyDiscordAphrodite 2 years ago 3
I'm bi, and I'm proud, I'll tell them on my own time. I don't care what anyone says, be your own person and as much I would love and cherish my parents approval , I don't need it on everything.
Anglicme007 2 years ago 2
Hey im bisexual and I just came out to my family/friends last summer.
It was fairly easy, I just told them. It was scary as shit but it was SUCH a great relief off of my shoulders.
& my parents don't exactly understand why im this way, and they do possibley think im going through a phase, but i've been this way since elementry school so its not a phase lol.
Everyone is still very accepting of me, and thats all that matters :)
So really to this girl: Just tell them.
jesushatesme666 2 years ago 2
I'm bi-sexual... Mostly inclined towards women though, so long as there is some sexual action going on I get turned on. And to be honest with myself I really couldn't care what anyone thought about it so there is no point in telling them... I just want the orgasim! = )
XXTheRealMcCoyXX 2 years ago
I agree, I came out to my mom about a year or so ago. I'm bi too. I actually had bi feelings since very young, but due to religious peer pressure, I tried so hard to make excuses and deny myself :( But once I learned it's okey, that to be an honest person, I should be honest with myself, I stopped gay-bashing. Which I'm glad for. I'm a better person for it. And yes, it's such a relief.
So I hope she tells someone in her family, someone she trusts, so she might have support when others learn.
blondrose84 2 years ago
My question is this person who submitted this question. If you are still somebody who is dependent on his/her parents for income, food, a place to stay, etc. then you may not want to tell. Telling them really can backfire in ways that you can't imagine. I've read some stories about parents who've actually disowned their children for not being heterosexual. I don't know much truth is in those stories but why even put yourself at risk?
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
I think some stories are real. Due to doush bag parents. :( They suck and one of them should own up to being not fully straight, since being straight/bi/gay/lesb is genetic. ~_~;
But yes, for that reason, I agree with you. I hope the person will be alright. Or that they're parents are understanding.
blondrose84 2 years ago
I've never heard of homosexuality or bisexuality being genetic. I don't think that's true.
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
There's plenty of evidence for it actually, it's a well known fact.
blondrose84 2 years ago
Is that so? Do you have proof to back up that statement?
From what I've learned, people who become homosexual/bisexual have gone through some type of abuse at some point in their life. I'm talking about being abused sexually. And I don't know if I would call this trauma or something else but I haven't found any evidence that proves it wrong.
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
WTF your so ignorant there is no point in helping you!!!
alvarenga2007 2 years ago
@alvarenga2007
Funny how I'm being called ignorant from someone who can't even use your/you're properly.
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
Actually, I'll get you several links, I'll message them to you.
And btw, I'm bi-sexual, and neither of my parents have sexually abused me, nor my non-straight friends. ~_~; Who told you you had to of been sexually abused to be non-straight?
Was the person themselves straight or non-straight?
blondrose84 2 years ago
So I take it that both of your parents and all your grandparents are bisexual too?
Also, I didn't mean to say that the only way for somebody to not be heterosexual is to be abused. I know not everybody gets abused in their lives but I did hear that there was a study about homosexuals/bisexuals who have been abused as children. Whether there is actually a link or not, I don't know for sure.
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
Actually, I think there's several family members who have ye to admit to themselves muchness others. My family is Military/Right Wing ~_~;
Anyways, alot of kids sadly are sexually abused in one way or another. Some grow up to straight, homo, or bi, some even grow up hating whichever gender, be it their own or the other. Or hate all sexual things all together.
But I can say it's something you're born with. It's just a matter of when one discovers/accepts that part of themselves.
blondrose84 2 years ago
@YourEternalRest
Me! I have never been abused in any sense and I'm bisexual!
And Ive been bi since I can remember..I didnt "become" bi.
lost2darkness 2 years ago
@YourEternalRest it's nt anywhere related to being abused. it can be related, but it's nt the definitive factor. the whole experience that your life is shapes your choices.
SergioSource 6 months ago
Unless you are already out on your own, I would not tell your parents, i have seen some parents do horrible things to their kids from finding this kind of stuff out.
Beating, kicking them out, disowning.
Better to just wait till you are living on your own if you feel the need to tell them.
Backhymen 2 years ago
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being bisexual is bullshit. you are either straight or gay. bi people are gays in denial. lets fave it ..who the hell wants to be gay? theyre gays who wanna fuck everything even the normal sex. its like total slutting around.
rctriplefresh5 2 years ago
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ALiSsDr 2 years ago
If you're straight, then no problem; if your gay, your family and friends might accept it without causing trouble; but if you're bi, it's confusing for everyone. This type of orientation is somewhat difficult for people to understand and parents tend to regard it as merely a passing fancy. That is the problem. Accepting homosexuality is easier than accepting the fact that you can never know if your son/daughter is gonna bring home a boy or a girl.
alaswoeisme 2 years ago
Really? I don't think bi-ness is any more confusing than gay-ness.
kaisergrendel 2 years ago
Why?
kaisergrendel 2 years ago
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You can never know if your son/daughter is gonna bring home a boy or a girl.
alaswoeisme 2 years ago
being older is alw*ys the best time to come out. once you're in college or something your parents are out and they can't do anything about it. even if you're 16 or you have a car and are wanting to move out. if you come out younger they could send you to christian camps or something, make you live on your own, put you into boarding school.. if they disapprove of your bisexuality.
staying in might be a pain but it pays off in the end. you can still come clean, just not to your parents just yet.
kaditacute 2 years ago
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if i found out my kid was gay/bi i would stop paying tuition. if my wife didnt agree id kick her out of the house -p
rctriplefresh5 2 years ago
@rctriplefresh5 You're a loser.
CatMommy84 2 years ago
Do society a favor- chop your balls off and never have kids.
kiwisunshine5233 2 years ago
I hope you don't become a parent.
YourEternalRest 2 years ago
He/she could allso try waiting till the said person is in college. When you are in the dorm, away, parents don't have that much control over you. So when you come out you can just go away from their "Just a phase" bs(Sorry for language.) Staying in the closet drives you crazy, but blame society for that.
lediadruid 2 years ago