2 years 1 kid and its over.... This was the most painful thing I ever did in my life, and the hardest part was having to see her every week I picked up my daughter for the weekend... I wish I would have come over this video 6 months ago when we broke up.
I've had the worst time of my life lately, and i can relate to everything this absolute hero of a man has said. Thanks very much mate, hopefully this is the start of feeling better!
Hey, just wanted to say thank you so much! I followed your advice and at first I felt like it was probably the most stupid idea ever, but I actually worked! I got over an 8 month relationship within less than a week! I am so grateful and I cannot thank you enough! :D
3 years and she's gone... I think about her everyday but what can I FUCKING do? It took alittle time but now I see that I can move on, the pains gone. I feel alive!
Your a very smart man, in how you explain things. After my break up I did some of these things without even knowing what I was doing.. thank you for making my reactions seem normal.
I have felt like the end of my life has come but am now in the transistor phase...my secret has being letting go of my perception of her as the ideal woman, even if it's true but that thoug jus prolongs the pain.😢
like I know how gay this is gonna sound but when my ex broke up with me and I was sad (still kinda am), my mom told me that break ups are a part of life, and even my uncle told me "Its cool bro, Players fuck up too ... all we can do is say 'fuck it' and move on."
Shit. Dumped me and now she's having sex smoking and drinking...i kept her safe and away from danger...do i stay and help her get back on her feet. Or leave..and watch her fall ..
Same here dude, She dumped me after 3 months of supporting her emotionally and mentally in her darkest hour, dumped me supposedly on the biggest night we planned, and had a 3 sum just hours after she dumped me with a guy who happens to be her Bondage master. Let the Fates deal with it dude. worry about yourself this time
Losing someone you didn't think you would is so painful. I agree that the hardest part is a few weeks later after the break up when you realize she's probably not coming back. It's weird. I know one day I'll be totally over it,but it just doesn't process in my mind that way. I'll try your method. Good video.
wow thank you so much. my boyfriend just broke up with me 3 days ago and but i feel everything your talking about..intense pain..repitive thoughts of what if..your right i need to move on and let the grief take its toll to become stronger. it feels good knowing break ups feel like this for everyone, the suffering im going through is normal. i havnt been able to talk about it without crying for the past 3 days, so i think its hitting me and i need to just face the pain head on.
Sometimes I think to myself, why did I ever got with my ex in the first place, she left she fuckin with me. I should of broke up with this bitch along time ago. The more we brag, the more stronger and confident they become.
I've been separated from my ex-wife for one year now. Six years of living together traveling through six countries. I wake up every morning missing her. I was a warrior in the Army that never cried ever ...I cried everyday when she left for three months straight. I still break down in odd places. It doesn't go way. I miss her and love her so much. Help me ...My Vet-Center counselors aren't working neither is Yoga or crying. I pray for the pain to stop. I'm falling behind in college ....
Those freckles on her face and the smile that would light up the room. Nobody else noticed it, but i sure did. No matter how hard i try, i can't seem to get her out of my heart. I do wish for her to be happy, but i want her to realize that the guy she's with now tint as good as me.
I Wasnt one of those perverts who tried to screw on the first date. I miss her hugs and kiss, our talks, when she would fall asleep on my chest. I did nothing to deserve this to add insult i tried to ask more girls out but they lied and said they were taken (when they werent). I dont know what to do. Be a serial killer, just commit suicide, be a drunk. It hurt me that bad. I may just be ugly i dont know anymore (i lost a lotta weight). PS my ex has been having one night stands.
2 years have passed and she never apoligized. I never dated since the break up. I know im not William Levy, but if you've seen the cheatees (Thats what I call those douchebags) you would think that no woman would go near them. I actually cried myself to sleep many times because of this. As a child i wanst really sociable,didnt think I would ever find somebody who loved me FOR ME. She is really cute and i first i did see how she actually liked me.
I dated her for 6 months until i found out that she had sex with 3 guys (all ugly as hell). I found this out because one of the idiots recorded it and showed my cousin the video. When I confronted her about the video she told me they raped her. I told her "If they raped you why were you screamin HARDER?!" She got mad and told me that if i was gonna act that way we were done. I said "Hell Yeah we're done" She then tells me she could find people 10 times better than me.
I know that no one will read this but fuck it. Im gonna post this anyway cuz i dont know what else to do. When i was 15 i dated my first gf for 2 months. She dumped me for another guy. I didnt feel too bad cuz i figured i had many years ahead of me. By the time i was 17 I met my second gf. I loved her so much. You couldn't tell me NOTHING, I had a mind set that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her
Severelykilled15: I know how you feel cause I did the same thing to my ex, I had so much anger inside me that I would have these random emotional outbreaks and so now today is my first day being single again :(
I hate you so much but i love you so much. It's your fault that we're like this but it's my fault we're like this. I want you feel as miserable as me but i want you to be happy. I hate having this Sad-Anger feeling where you hate but love her. I hate being short tempered and hurting her emotionally. She's such an amazing person. FUCK ME. I wish her nothing but happiness.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 9 months. We were completely in love and she was my first real love. Now she doesn't love me anymore because she's going to college next year. Im only a sophmore in highschool right now, but our love was so so deep. I wanted to marry her after like 9 months! She broke up with me today. I could never love another girl, I gave this one my whole heart </3
I had a hard time getting over my ex too, I talked to one of my friends about it and my friend told me to write all of the wrongs I thought she had done to me on a piece of paper. Every time I would start to think of the good things we had together, I would read the paper. - Try it out! It worked for me ;)
Guys trust me stay away from hard hearted girls, ive got an addiction for girls that are passionate but ruthless too, i dont stay with sweet girls. We guys tend to love girls that challenge us, or dont show us much feelings.. you know the types that love u passionately, but the fact they can be ruthless and end it if she has problems like family, husband etc? ..that shocks us, we want them even more then. Well i do anyway.
Guys trust em stay away from heard hearted girls, ive got an addiction for girls that are passionate but ruthless too, i dont stay with sweet girls..we guys tend to love girls that challenge us, or dont show us much feelings..we know they love us, but the fact they can be ruthless and end it if she has problems like family, husband etc ..that shocks us.
Im going through this now guys....so painful, feel isolated. We were so locked together, she would message me like all the time, we just had such passion and love. But...here is the messed up part, she is married! we loved each other at school, but i went away and did other things..she got married..and 15 years later were reunite and we tried to stop it many times, but we just couldnt. I dont get it she says its over (coz of her kids) but she still messages me, good and bad - hurting ones
ok some1 plz help me like my gf broke up with me for a stupid reason after she said 2 weeks earlier that she was deeply in love with me nd never wanted 2 brake up with me but yet she does nd then she goes out with my best frend and she tries to get me jelous now and i cant even be with my frend because im to mad at him nd my ex
My gf of a year left me for another guy and shes been a bitch about it. Its been 3 weeks. And it just seems to hurt more and more every fucking day...
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
This is brilliant stuff! As an old guy I needed a refresher course in dealing with what I call "Tunneling"It's a dark lonely place of incredible sadness and grief ....
And this time is was an import....That's right a flown in gal from Europe....It cost me $1000.00s and it turns out she had someone else waiting.So not only do I suffer the intense heartache but add to that a feeling of being a complete moron as well.
I kno how u guys feel I've been going with my girl 4 about 2 years I really love her and I've even broken up with other girls jus 2 go back out with her. Recently I did and now we don't even talk at school we jus walk rite past each other without saying anything it really hurts cause she is my first love :(
this is great but my only problem is i dont want to let her go and i dont think she wants to let go of me either but there is to much getting in the way :(
My girl just said, Its over now get over it , i said if i where dieing you wouldnt say get over it, then she said i wouldnt care less if you where dieing.
i snapped and said some stuff to her i kinda regreted
@HSVPatzz i jumped in font of 3 cars (individually) after she said "just go die." i woke up in the hospital. no fractures, plenty of bruises and scars. i texted her saying what i did and sent her a pic of how i looked. she replied "cool"
@74blackout17 Fuck Man Shes Got a no heart watsever , thos girls r just looking for a fuck thats it, if u had a like my attitude, i would do somthing to her house, like spray paint no heart on her front lawn, or her car,
@HSVPatzz no..,Of course i still love her and i wish with all my heart that we never broke up. but my friends and family are right. i shouldnt kill myself over her. im just going to try and move on with my life. keep my dream that she'd come back. but im not going to wait. just move on, she'll always be my love. Im going to leave her alone, keep doing what im doing, heal up from these cuts and bruises, get out of this hospital in a few days. and be who i was a long time ago.
@74blackout17 yer my girl wanted me back,, i rejected it ,reason is i just dont want to be in any relationships anymore, i just want to have fun now, goin to clubs and shiz, im prob gonna get another girl when im past 20
@HSVPatzz hell yea dude. we dont need no relationship. Bro's before hoes N shit. just have fun n lets keeo our heads up. we got our whole lives ahead of us :D
@74blackout17 yer my girl wanted me back,, i rejected it ,reason is i just dont want to be in any relationships anymore, i just want to have fun now, goin to clubs and shiz, im prob gonna get another girl when im past 20
its so hard to find a girl that loves you more than you do
I remember, when I was sick, or depressed, and I would have her text me, and we'd talk 2gether, and I would be so thankful for her, because she was always there for me, and now it's almost 2weeks since we've talked to each other... I tried hating her, but I can't. Every-time I see something that reminds me of her, I burst into tears, I hate myself for loving her much... Oh God I'm getting teary eyed now.
@ACTORoWRITER same fuckin thing for me man. like what the fuck. well its been 4 months so how yo udoig now. been 6wks for me and we still work together!!! so its shit.
@ACTORoWRITER hey man, how you doing now, my girlfriend just broke up with me too, its so hard man i know, i cant stop thinking about her and i really thought she was the one. its the hardest time in my life and it really sucks dude, it hurts so much. i really loved her more than any other person in the world, and i thought she did too, and im taking it really bad. How are you doing now?
This has got to be the most painful year ever and I'm still goin through this shit like getting beat up hurts at first but the pain didn't stay with u where ever u go like when ur heart broken
yes u must cry, intentionally, LOL!! in the shower? LOL!! just keep urself busy, laugh like a little bitch when u watch comedy movies, any comedy, go to the club n get a chick ugly/pretty or whatfuckingever and have some sex where u put the other person down, so u can feel good. muahahaha. or if ur ugly and not fucking awesome looking like me, just go and bang a hooker, take a nice 1, waste some bucks, repeat this progress as often as u can, oh n hang with friends and talk on the phone a lot.
Hey can u help me cus me n my ex girfriend hav been broke up for ages now nd thn all of a sudden I wake up nd she's in my hed agen any tips for y tht has happened nd how to gt rid of the pain cus I don't wana go through tht again.
how exactly do you get over the feeling "she was the one"? honestly i know ill be pissed when i see her with another guy and i understand and i believe im ok with all but not with that feeling. I truly believe she was the one and its hard to let it go, i dont even think about that all day or so, to be honest it pops up in my head like once every 3 days or so and it still feels the same.
@Picobeat with all due respect: You "thought" she was the one but clearly she's not because she's gone. Accept that fact first. And your lucky, you think about her every 3 days...I think about my first love everyday of my life. It sucks.
Thumbs up if you feel the pain inside your heart (chest area) :( Wish you guys all fall in love again and feel that same feeling like we all did once before!
your vids are brilliant, i feel better already. i got dumped the other day and i can't eat or sleep or enjoy anything right now. i would say that also a good thing to remember for anyone in my situation is that if she seems to be unaffected and cold in the break up after you gave her your heart, it's her problem! being loving and caring is a GOOD thing and she's lacking it if she can fuck you over like that.
I never thought that in some point, i would search for advice from internet or youtube. Well , i did saw this video in one of my darkest hours... and you helped me alot men. Thanks for that.
When she broke up with Me, she was flirting with another guy straight away. I dont think she liked me that much.. :( I tryed too be friends with her, But i ended up getting drunk and trying too cut my wrists. The next morning i wake up, Feeling enraged. So i go on her facebook account and i start writing all her secrets out. She hates me now. Great. I freaking blew it.. >_<
It took about five weeks for me to get over the steep jagged mountain of pain, though I still have my moments. I still love her, but it's seems I am the only one willing to compromise. I think I finally see reality clearly.
just going through one now, and i was always a dick n treated her like shit and she would always come back to me n cry for me, but now that she never came back and is with someone i feel like a total dumbass! this sucks! oh and you forgot to mention alcohol doesn't help at all! it just makes it worse!!! lol :(
going through a bad break up too.It really hit me many months after she left. So it's been like a week of sleepless nights just thinking and thinking. It's truly hurts the fact that she's moved on and wants nothing to do with me. We have a daughter together so I call up every once in a while to talk to her, with the ex, well we just keep it brief.Biggest mistake I made I drunk text her a couple of days ago telling her how hurt I felt bout everything.She never answered.Felt embarrassed afterwards
That's the kind of help I can't get from my friends or family.
This breakup it's been the most hurtful thing that's ever happened to me, I hope I can move on. Knowing that there's people who've gone through the same nightmare and kept going is reassuring.
Thank you this video has helped me alot made sense of the way im fealing and ya it hurts like fuck to be away from her. But i think its time to move on and get on with life and take better care of my self for the 1st time in over 3years. Thanx again
Great video. Thank you so much for creating these. I just found out my ex of five years is seeing someone new, even though it hasn't been long since we broke up. You're right, I have been in a haze. I am looking forward to reading your book.
I’m thinking that she’s been talking to this guy and now wanted to move on but had to make some sorry ass excuse so don’t feel bad for something loss remember the good times but just say it like this I learn form this and move on I know it’s hard I still can’t sleep at night but you know what she doesn’t care about you sleeping or not she only cares about her feelings and what makes her happy
she changed she just turned 21 and now she says she wants to mingle I did everything for her but she changed. Heres my thoughts on it. She doesn’t know that you’re sad and she doesn’t care no more if she really did care she would of stayed by your side or called but she even tolded me she didn’t want to be in a relationship but now she’s going out with somebody after 4 weeks
I’m going through the same shit Sundays are my worst days I sit there having nothing to do I abadon all my friends and I’m currently in Dallas she stays in Louisiana I used to drive 8 hours to go see her and now she said we argue a lot but I realized she always started it. I hated it I was about to be discharge from the service in 2 months true she could of hang on so we can see if it was the distance that made us mad at each other.
She would always call me to see how I was doing and tell me she loved me..etc. I never really called her. But last night was just too much and I told her to stop calling me (nicely of course). She got mad and hung up on me. I can handle the break up but the biggest problem I’m having is thinking about her being with someone else (sexualy). I just can’t stand the thought of her sleeping with someone else.
I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. She has two kids from a previous marriage and she dicided she didn’t want to have anymore kids. I don’t have any but I would like to one day. So I broke with her because i didn’t think there was a point in moving on if we weren’t on the same page in regards to children. I’m doing ok. I had to tell her last night that we shouldn’t talk anymore.
My ex calls me from time to time. She wants to remain friends but I can’t do that. My feelings for her are too strong and one day she might meet someone and I don’t think I will be able to handle that. I do so much better when I don’t hear from her because I don’t know what she’s doing or who she’s with but then she calls and tells me about her going out and I get down all over again. I think I’m going to tell her to not call me again.
I broke up with my girlfriend two months ago and I still feel down and depressed at times. However, I am MUCH better than I was two months ago. This site does really help and all the posts from different people are a great source for recovery. I’m really trying to be strong mentally. I truly believe that things happen for a reason. My relationship with my ex was very stressful but I loved her. Now, I’m stress free and I could focus on other things. There is one problem.
. This leaves me in a very lonely space in a place where I have no real friends and so today I made the cardinal mistake of giving her a call and saying “maybe we could just start from the beginning again and see how things go” meaning going out on a date every couple of weeks she agreed.
Then about 10 days ago she just stopped hugging me as much and was only affectionate when heavily drinking (she drinks every night just some more heavily than others) and we went from having sex every day for 5 months to having it once that week. She then told me she felt like it had all been too much too soon but she was the one who was soo keen for me to move closer to her and left me with no friends just round the corner etc so she wanted to call it off.
Having said that a couple of months in I started to notice her blowing hot and cold on me all the time but by that time it was too late for me as had already moved 200 miles away to live near her, when my dad asked me how I really felt about her i said to him “i really like her but i’m not totally sure i can trust her with my heart” she talked about marriage and kids and all the stuff which would normally turn me off but for some reason with this lady it just made me want her more.
. Think the whole thing boiled down to the fact I was really attracted to this girl and when we first got together she was so forward about her feelings towards me that i totally fell for her as hadn’t ever felt that loved so early on by someone before, she kept telling me how perfect I was and how much everyone else thought so too so I really bought into the trap.
I split up from my girlfriend of 5 months about 3 days ago, it was really wierd as before that had been in a 5 year relationship and when that ended I wasn’t too bothered to be honest but it was such an intense 5 months with this girl that when we broke up i seemed to take it really badly. I wanted to cry but for some reason the tears just couldn’t come out, even today 4 days on I haven’t eaten anything other than a bowl of soup.
I can’t seem to get over her and if the contact continues, I never will. It’s hard but it’s something that I have to do and so do you. I’ve tried a couple times asking her not to call me but she gets mad and says she’s going to call anyway. So the only thing left to do is not pick up. It’s going to be really tough but that’s the only way she’ll know I’m serious.
It’s been two months since the break up and she’s the one who calls still. I don’t call her but I do pick up the phone and she’ll either ask for a favor or just call to see what I’m up too. I’m so good when I don’t hear from her but then she calls and I’m back at square one.
, ever since I’ve been thinking about how that whole thing happened. I’ve tried hanging out with friends and I joined the gym and have started going, but something still seems to be missing. I realized that I don’t really have many female friends, and I was just trying to think of some ways to go about meeting girls.
My girfriend of 2 years dumped me a little over a week ago. It was hard, because she threw that at me all of a sudden. There was no forewarning that anything like that would happen. Worst of all, I hadn’t seen her for a few days and she dumped me on AIM. I can’t believe that she didn’t have the courage to explain to me in person what she was feeling and that she didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. So,
, i just am tearing myself to pieces at the moment over her, i only think of the good things/times i cant even think about the times she pissed me off, all i can think that my girl is not with me anymore, i miss her shes probably having fun without me and i dont think she really cares whether im hurt or not, its as though i dnt exist to her,
, xmas new year, birthdays, valintines, etc, she was such a sweetheart my family loved her to we had lots in common, nice looks and great personality, we even had a similer circle of friends who ive also lost, i thought she was the one,i pictured us having a future together, i have never met a girl as caring and sweet as her before, she stood by me at times when other people didnt, and i dont know if there could posably be another girl like that out there,
, i began to hurt as bad as i did when she 1st mentioned the break up, this last 4 weeks has been torture for me not knowing if it was over or not, giving myself false hope then getin knocked back down, i cant get her out of my mind i miss her so bad i went on her bebo page and saw she is going out with friends etc and i wasnt part of it i have been moved from her top frinds list to like he 37th friend, i keep thinking of all the time we had together, all the places we went,
, when she was leaving she said she would hear from me at some stage, i sent her a txt that nite to thank her for the visit she ignored it, over a week went past and i got out of hospital but she never contacted me not even to see if i was ok as far as she knew i was still in hospital, i gave in to temptation and txt her the next day she replyed to say she was fine, hoped i was feelng better and that she knew now for sure she had made the rite choice ending the relationship,
a couple of days later she txt me and said she was coming to see me in the hospital to see i was ok but under no circumstance to get my hopes up, when she arrived she looked great she seemed to have put more efort it than usual, she told me how she was havin a good week and was goin to some party, how good things where for her, this time i played it cool and said i was glad things where goin well and her exams etc, just talked like friends,
, i was confused cause she was breaking up with me, after that nite, the next day we txt and she told me that she cared for me but needed time and space for her, i had an operation planed before the split, that hurt me that she would bring this all up before i surgery, i went in anyway i was sitin in the hospital after the operation and i had no pain from the wound i wasnt even thinking about it all i could thnk about was my girl,
, i said to her lets go out some evening and have fun cause we hadnt been out in a while with her exams etc so she gave in to me and the next week we met up went to crazy golf and went bowling it was fun we laughed and played about, at the end of the evening she said that it seemed like we had gone out as friends and it hadnt helped her make up her mind we talked more, i mentiond moving to a different county and she started to cry and said it seemed like i was wanting her out of the picture,
, she said she still didnt know what she wanted at the moment and she just want a few days to think, a few days later she called over to my house to talk, it was as though she was just a friend when she came over she said again that she still didnt know what to do and wasnt my fault,
i pleaded with her to rethink it and said we could work it out, she told me she would sleep on it, and contact me the next day! like a fool the next morning I wrote her a letter telling her my feelings for her and a plead for another chance, i then sent her 24 red roses and 2 concert tickets for her and 1 of her female friends, she sent me a txt to thank me for the gifts etc and seemed really nice to me,
my ex told me about 4 weeks ago after we had a bit of a fight that she didnt think she was happy anymore and she was confused and didnt know what she wanted anymore and she didnt even know if it was me that it was her, i got really mixed up by this, she wanted to meet later that nite so i went to hers and was as nice as i could be, i told her i was sorry for being grumpy with her etc, anyway it ended up with tears and she said that she thought it may be best to end it,
!!! I have just lost faith that there could be another girl as good as she was out there, this maybe makes me sound like a pussy but i went out today to try and interact with other girls but ive become really nervous around them now i have no idea how to even interact with girls anymore, ive forgoten how to get in the game, ive i could get back in the game this may help me to get her off my mind!
I just keep wondering what shes doing or if shes going out or how her family are keeping, i just have to keep repeating to my self that its none of my business anymore, i should probably just go out and have fun with other girs as i am still young and didnt have the chance when i was with my ex as she was my first proper girlfrind, but its so lonely at the moment we where in contact everyday before this, she was not only my girlfriend and lover but she was also my best friend
She was the first girl i have ever been in love with, she was my first long term relationship and it was the same for her she had only dated a guy for a couple of weeks before me, she told me how much she loved me rite up to a couple of weeks before the break up, but told when she broke it off with me that she was putting on a brave face the last month of our relationship, this also hurt bad as during this time we had seemed to get on so good,
. the problem is that alough i think she is out of my system she keeps sliping back in tomy mind usually in the morning or at nite, but even when i drive by some place we went together, a song on the radio, a band she liked, a tv program we watched together, everything brings back the memories, I do tend to forget about the bad memories th
You said everything I need to hear. Thanks! I wish you would upload more vids...You must be in a relationship now lol jk
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2 years 1 kid and its over.... This was the most painful thing I ever did in my life, and the hardest part was having to see her every week I picked up my daughter for the weekend... I wish I would have come over this video 6 months ago when we broke up.
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pokandy 1 week ago
I've had the worst time of my life lately, and i can relate to everything this absolute hero of a man has said. Thanks very much mate, hopefully this is the start of feeling better!
STFCLoyalist 1 week ago
not trying to be sappy but this dude knows what hes talking about the pain is so real its not just mental it physically hurts
rjp9871 1 week ago 2
Hey, just wanted to say thank you so much! I followed your advice and at first I felt like it was probably the most stupid idea ever, but I actually worked! I got over an 8 month relationship within less than a week! I am so grateful and I cannot thank you enough! :D
louisattfield 2 weeks ago
3 years and she's gone... I think about her everyday but what can I FUCKING do? It took alittle time but now I see that I can move on, the pains gone. I feel alive!
djsyko100 2 weeks ago
Your a very smart man, in how you explain things. After my break up I did some of these things without even knowing what I was doing.. thank you for making my reactions seem normal.
86iceblue 3 weeks ago
I have felt like the end of my life has come but am now in the transistor phase...my secret has being letting go of my perception of her as the ideal woman, even if it's true but that thoug jus prolongs the pain.😢
TheForegift 3 weeks ago
Im so sad. I want to cry so badly. I miss her too much. I just want to die.
FunnyAsFudgeBros 4 weeks ago 6
like I know how gay this is gonna sound but when my ex broke up with me and I was sad (still kinda am), my mom told me that break ups are a part of life, and even my uncle told me "Its cool bro, Players fuck up too ... all we can do is say 'fuck it' and move on."
mexitec713 1 month ago 2
life suxs
BilalShaKILL 1 month ago
Shit. Dumped me and now she's having sex smoking and drinking...i kept her safe and away from danger...do i stay and help her get back on her feet. Or leave..and watch her fall ..
sepiroth2 1 month ago
@sepiroth2
I'm going through the same exact thing. I feel you.
Bojiggles1214 1 month ago
@sepiroth2 Dump her, it's the best thing you could do for yourself.
atomicgdog 1 month ago
@sepiroth2
Same here dude, She dumped me after 3 months of supporting her emotionally and mentally in her darkest hour, dumped me supposedly on the biggest night we planned, and had a 3 sum just hours after she dumped me with a guy who happens to be her Bondage master. Let the Fates deal with it dude. worry about yourself this time
wwadebatista 1 month ago
@sepiroth2 thats a simpler, you leave..
Elcristoph 3 weeks ago
its been 3 days and it feels like months.someone please kill me!!!!
MrBoomable 1 month ago
@MrBoomable
Same here buddy. Well at least you didn't fall for a slut.. I did.. Damn it
wwadebatista 1 month ago
@wwadebatista well,i've heard it gets better,hasn't started yet but i'm still hoping,so hang in there
MrBoomable 1 month ago
@MrBoomable
Yeah... That's all what we can do... Hang in there
wwadebatista 1 month ago
@wwadebatista yeah guys hang on (: friends are a good way even if u dont have many socialize because it will get you thinking about other things
blobmagic 1 month ago
Thanks dude... I owe you alot
wwadebatista 2 months ago
You saved a life sir, thank you.
Hfdwar 2 months ago
@Hfdwar same man...same thing
TheJBAG13 2 months ago
Am I the only one who doesn't hear any audio when he speaks?
Bojiggles1214 2 months ago
@Bojiggles1214 me either
ryanryu 1 month ago
Losing someone you didn't think you would is so painful. I agree that the hardest part is a few weeks later after the break up when you realize she's probably not coming back. It's weird. I know one day I'll be totally over it,but it just doesn't process in my mind that way. I'll try your method. Good video.
GrungeHo 2 months ago
wow thank you so much. my boyfriend just broke up with me 3 days ago and but i feel everything your talking about..intense pain..repitive thoughts of what if..your right i need to move on and let the grief take its toll to become stronger. it feels good knowing break ups feel like this for everyone, the suffering im going through is normal. i havnt been able to talk about it without crying for the past 3 days, so i think its hitting me and i need to just face the pain head on.
hdubs1234 2 months ago
thanks you so much man. your a hero right now.
Creolebway 2 months ago
This is probably the best advice of post-break up pain ever. Thanks man!
mrjibran421 2 months ago
God Bles you man this helps alot
Brandon4lif317 2 months ago
Sometimes I think to myself, why did I ever got with my ex in the first place, she left she fuckin with me. I should of broke up with this bitch along time ago. The more we brag, the more stronger and confident they become.
Acurasdeath 2 months ago
I've been separated from my ex-wife for one year now. Six years of living together traveling through six countries. I wake up every morning missing her. I was a warrior in the Army that never cried ever ...I cried everyday when she left for three months straight. I still break down in odd places. It doesn't go way. I miss her and love her so much. Help me ...My Vet-Center counselors aren't working neither is Yoga or crying. I pray for the pain to stop. I'm falling behind in college ....
crunkerdrunk 2 months ago
Its been 2 weeks and shes back in town and I told her we should hangout. I meet her in 20 minutes. I'm so scared...
JMahs4Life 3 months ago
Those freckles on her face and the smile that would light up the room. Nobody else noticed it, but i sure did. No matter how hard i try, i can't seem to get her out of my heart. I do wish for her to be happy, but i want her to realize that the guy she's with now tint as good as me.
tvbsebalstr11 3 months ago
I Wasnt one of those perverts who tried to screw on the first date. I miss her hugs and kiss, our talks, when she would fall asleep on my chest. I did nothing to deserve this to add insult i tried to ask more girls out but they lied and said they were taken (when they werent). I dont know what to do. Be a serial killer, just commit suicide, be a drunk. It hurt me that bad. I may just be ugly i dont know anymore (i lost a lotta weight). PS my ex has been having one night stands.
josornio300 3 months ago
2 years have passed and she never apoligized. I never dated since the break up. I know im not William Levy, but if you've seen the cheatees (Thats what I call those douchebags) you would think that no woman would go near them. I actually cried myself to sleep many times because of this. As a child i wanst really sociable,didnt think I would ever find somebody who loved me FOR ME. She is really cute and i first i did see how she actually liked me.
josornio300 3 months ago
I dated her for 6 months until i found out that she had sex with 3 guys (all ugly as hell). I found this out because one of the idiots recorded it and showed my cousin the video. When I confronted her about the video she told me they raped her. I told her "If they raped you why were you screamin HARDER?!" She got mad and told me that if i was gonna act that way we were done. I said "Hell Yeah we're done" She then tells me she could find people 10 times better than me.
josornio300 3 months ago
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I know that no one will read this but fuck it. Im gonna post this anyway cuz i dont know what else to do. When i was 15 i dated my first gf for 2 months. She dumped me for another guy. I didnt feel too bad cuz i figured i had many years ahead of me. By the time i was 17 I met my second gf. I loved her so much. You couldn't tell me NOTHING, I had a mind set that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her
josornio300 3 months ago
Idk i feel just hatred
hxcdsal89 3 months ago
Severelykilled15: I know how you feel cause I did the same thing to my ex, I had so much anger inside me that I would have these random emotional outbreaks and so now today is my first day being single again :(
petermeers47 3 months ago
You are a wise man, thank you for your uploads!
Brigadierbadger 3 months ago
lol how do you plan to cry?
gregorymaillis 3 months ago
I hate you so much but i love you so much. It's your fault that we're like this but it's my fault we're like this. I want you feel as miserable as me but i want you to be happy. I hate having this Sad-Anger feeling where you hate but love her. I hate being short tempered and hurting her emotionally. She's such an amazing person. FUCK ME. I wish her nothing but happiness.
severelyKILLED15 3 months ago
@severelyKILLED15 Same here , same here
tvbsebalstr11 3 months ago
I've been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 9 months. We were completely in love and she was my first real love. Now she doesn't love me anymore because she's going to college next year. Im only a sophmore in highschool right now, but our love was so so deep. I wanted to marry her after like 9 months! She broke up with me today. I could never love another girl, I gave this one my whole heart </3
Oahuboi62 3 months ago
ok so what do you do if you have an ex that just keeps constantly comming back to you after you throw her away so many times?
not only that every time i see her i feel bad and i want to be there for her i need help on this lol.
itsRawqit 3 months ago
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enzym13 3 months ago
I can not believe it's been a year since me and my ex-girlfriend broke up but my heart hurts me more then ever .......... what
can I do to go on ?????????????
MsAndjelko 4 months ago
I had a hard time getting over my ex too, I talked to one of my friends about it and my friend told me to write all of the wrongs I thought she had done to me on a piece of paper. Every time I would start to think of the good things we had together, I would read the paper. - Try it out! It worked for me ;)
NicDK91 4 months ago
I'll rather get shot by a gun after i felt true heart broken
chosenfantasy 4 months ago
I wish this guy was my best mate, i would have recovered much easier . Why cant i have mates like him
SidneyXda 4 months ago
Guys trust me stay away from hard hearted girls, ive got an addiction for girls that are passionate but ruthless too, i dont stay with sweet girls. We guys tend to love girls that challenge us, or dont show us much feelings.. you know the types that love u passionately, but the fact they can be ruthless and end it if she has problems like family, husband etc? ..that shocks us, we want them even more then. Well i do anyway.
SidneyXda 4 months ago
Guys trust em stay away from heard hearted girls, ive got an addiction for girls that are passionate but ruthless too, i dont stay with sweet girls..we guys tend to love girls that challenge us, or dont show us much feelings..we know they love us, but the fact they can be ruthless and end it if she has problems like family, husband etc ..that shocks us.
SidneyXda 4 months ago
Im going through this now guys....so painful, feel isolated. We were so locked together, she would message me like all the time, we just had such passion and love. But...here is the messed up part, she is married! we loved each other at school, but i went away and did other things..she got married..and 15 years later were reunite and we tried to stop it many times, but we just couldnt. I dont get it she says its over (coz of her kids) but she still messages me, good and bad - hurting ones
SidneyXda 4 months ago
ok some1 plz help me like my gf broke up with me for a stupid reason after she said 2 weeks earlier that she was deeply in love with me nd never wanted 2 brake up with me but yet she does nd then she goes out with my best frend and she tries to get me jelous now and i cant even be with my frend because im to mad at him nd my ex
rkoistheman 4 months ago
@rkoistheman
Im going through the same shit... all in one class... but you just have to get her the fuck out of her life.
t1mb3r7and 4 months ago
Thanks a lot man
dman121989 4 months ago
got dumped like 4 hours a go yeah it hurts bad feel right now been puched in the stomach like 1000 times love sucks!
FukFace616 5 months ago
@FukFace616 Hope youre feeling better bro.
DrJohnMarston 4 months ago
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rkoistheman 5 months ago
My gf of a year left me for another guy and shes been a bitch about it. Its been 3 weeks. And it just seems to hurt more and more every fucking day...
bord3rlands 5 months ago
@bord3rlands same here
poomunj 5 months ago
@poomunj it sucks man
bord3rlands 5 months ago
Break ups suck!!
My girlfriend of 3 years left me for someone who could "take care" of her more (her words).
I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep .. seriously, I never knew I could feel sooo terrible. Losing (and getting rejected by someone you love) is by far the worst feeling in the world!
Anyway, I'm back with her now after the 3 months of what was basically emotional torture.
If you're going through the same, go to:
Breakups2Makeups. com
That guide helped me get through it.
MMArtist99 5 months ago
Anybody having trouble with an ex?!?!? Check out "hate your face" and "complex" on my page and I GUARANTEE you will laugh and feel better!
PlanOfAction 5 months ago
This is brilliant stuff! As an old guy I needed a refresher course in dealing with what I call "Tunneling"It's a dark lonely place of incredible sadness and grief ....
And this time is was an import....That's right a flown in gal from Europe....It cost me $1000.00s and it turns out she had someone else waiting.So not only do I suffer the intense heartache but add to that a feeling of being a complete moron as well.
dagodino 5 months ago
I kno how u guys feel I've been going with my girl 4 about 2 years I really love her and I've even broken up with other girls jus 2 go back out with her. Recently I did and now we don't even talk at school we jus walk rite past each other without saying anything it really hurts cause she is my first love :(
INF1N1T3SW4GG 5 months ago
this is great but my only problem is i dont want to let her go and i dont think she wants to let go of me either but there is to much getting in the way :(
any help?
Adedpig 5 months ago
thanks for the helpful tips Its helping me out alot right now
DavyTaylored 5 months ago
but i love her ;''(
SurealisticBeing 5 months ago
hes sooooooooo fucking right!!!!
neonrunner1 5 months ago
excellent insight here... thank you for posting.
and its true...crying does help. it feels like it kind of 'cleanses' your soul.
RedGrendel 6 months ago
i ignored the pain so much that i can't feel anymore...
when some one says i love you the only thing what it is doing is hurt
gallema0wnz 6 months ago
bro where were you 6 years ago when I needed it most. Now im addicted to benzodiazepines to sleep. Its fucked being a guy
thumbs317 6 months ago
im exactly like all the points you made..This was so much help....i need to let my emotions out..the ones im trying to hide..
oluwa123 6 months ago
This helps. :,)
woc8ov 6 months ago
i hav lost two girls. i fell for the love word both times n got hurt. n that makes me never want to lov again because i dont want to get hurt again.
nightelf691 6 months ago
My girl just said, Its over now get over it , i said if i where dieing you wouldnt say get over it, then she said i wouldnt care less if you where dieing.
i snapped and said some stuff to her i kinda regreted
HSVPatzz 7 months ago
@HSVPatzz the same thing happend to me. all of a sudden she didnt give a shit about me anymore. and it was done and she was over me.
liltonky 6 months ago
@HSVPatzz i jumped in font of 3 cars (individually) after she said "just go die." i woke up in the hospital. no fractures, plenty of bruises and scars. i texted her saying what i did and sent her a pic of how i looked. she replied "cool"
74blackout17 6 months ago
@74blackout17 Fuck Man Shes Got a no heart watsever , thos girls r just looking for a fuck thats it, if u had a like my attitude, i would do somthing to her house, like spray paint no heart on her front lawn, or her car,
she might press charges but fuck it
HSVPatzz 6 months ago
@HSVPatzz no..,Of course i still love her and i wish with all my heart that we never broke up. but my friends and family are right. i shouldnt kill myself over her. im just going to try and move on with my life. keep my dream that she'd come back. but im not going to wait. just move on, she'll always be my love. Im going to leave her alone, keep doing what im doing, heal up from these cuts and bruises, get out of this hospital in a few days. and be who i was a long time ago.
74blackout17 6 months ago
@74blackout17 yer my girl wanted me back,, i rejected it ,reason is i just dont want to be in any relationships anymore, i just want to have fun now, goin to clubs and shiz, im prob gonna get another girl when im past 20
HSVPatzz 6 months ago
@HSVPatzz hell yea dude. we dont need no relationship. Bro's before hoes N shit. just have fun n lets keeo our heads up. we got our whole lives ahead of us :D
74blackout17 6 months ago
@74blackout17 yer my girl wanted me back,, i rejected it ,reason is i just dont want to be in any relationships anymore, i just want to have fun now, goin to clubs and shiz, im prob gonna get another girl when im past 20
its so hard to find a girl that loves you more than you do
HSVPatzz 6 months ago
Can't hear a thing dude, no sound at all.Just a beep in the begining
??????
logan2267 7 months ago
I remember, when I was sick, or depressed, and I would have her text me, and we'd talk 2gether, and I would be so thankful for her, because she was always there for me, and now it's almost 2weeks since we've talked to each other... I tried hating her, but I can't. Every-time I see something that reminds me of her, I burst into tears, I hate myself for loving her much... Oh God I'm getting teary eyed now.
ACTORoWRITER 7 months ago 10
@ACTORoWRITER know how u feel u basically wrote whats on my mind
angel32080 6 months ago
@ACTORoWRITER same fuckin thing for me man. like what the fuck. well its been 4 months so how yo udoig now. been 6wks for me and we still work together!!! so its shit.
Creolebway 2 months ago
@ACTORoWRITER hey man, how you doing now, my girlfriend just broke up with me too, its so hard man i know, i cant stop thinking about her and i really thought she was the one. its the hardest time in my life and it really sucks dude, it hurts so much. i really loved her more than any other person in the world, and i thought she did too, and im taking it really bad. How are you doing now?
TheJBAG13 2 months ago
@TheJBAG13 i feel u man, i feel like i am going through that son,
Mr24kingaces 1 month ago
Why is it so easy for girls to find a guy but no so much the other way round :( ?
ArGyProductions 7 months ago 11
@ArGyProductions yeaaaa i agree man
rslax 7 months ago
@ArGyProductions Any guy can easily find a girl too. At times we just might have to lower our standards lol
Gerrome45 7 months ago
@Gerrome45
Ah but thats the problem compromising and settle for less lol...
ArGyProductions 7 months ago
I'm a girl and I found this video quite accurate. Mourning or grieving is a spiritual catharsis. 5 steps:
-Denile
-Anger
-Depression
-Contemplation (What if's/ Over analyzing)
-Acceptance
LaceFX 7 months ago
@LaceFX
Do girls do that too... Or is ArGrProductions right?... Cause I too think girls have that ability to stop
ACTORoWRITER 7 months ago
This has got to be the most painful year ever and I'm still goin through this shit like getting beat up hurts at first but the pain didn't stay with u where ever u go like when ur heart broken
FocusFilmsProduction 7 months ago
man i swear, i watch this video every 3 to 4 months. breaks up suck ass!
deathpool209 7 months ago
yes u must cry, intentionally, LOL!! in the shower? LOL!! just keep urself busy, laugh like a little bitch when u watch comedy movies, any comedy, go to the club n get a chick ugly/pretty or whatfuckingever and have some sex where u put the other person down, so u can feel good. muahahaha. or if ur ugly and not fucking awesome looking like me, just go and bang a hooker, take a nice 1, waste some bucks, repeat this progress as often as u can, oh n hang with friends and talk on the phone a lot.
Baalzubaab1 7 months ago
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Baalzubaab1 7 months ago
Hey can u help me cus me n my ex girfriend hav been broke up for ages now nd thn all of a sudden I wake up nd she's in my hed agen any tips for y tht has happened nd how to gt rid of the pain cus I don't wana go through tht again.
golferproZx3 7 months ago
no sound
bradt106 7 months ago
kant hear nada
agarcia2044 8 months ago
how exactly do you get over the feeling "she was the one"? honestly i know ill be pissed when i see her with another guy and i understand and i believe im ok with all but not with that feeling. I truly believe she was the one and its hard to let it go, i dont even think about that all day or so, to be honest it pops up in my head like once every 3 days or so and it still feels the same.
Picobeat 8 months ago
@Picobeat with all due respect: You "thought" she was the one but clearly she's not because she's gone. Accept that fact first. And your lucky, you think about her every 3 days...I think about my first love everyday of my life. It sucks.
LaceFX 7 months ago
What if she said she wasn't ready?
chelseafcfanisy 8 months ago
Thumbs up if you feel the pain inside your heart (chest area) :( Wish you guys all fall in love again and feel that same feeling like we all did once before!
wallc777 8 months ago
Thank u so much ;-)
pizzabol 8 months ago
this guy hits the nail right on the head..
billyboby28 9 months ago 33
I just want to have a girl that loves me...
bradleypianoman 9 months ago 37
Thanks for this man, it's funny how everything he said not to do is what I'm doing. :)
KorruptedCell 9 months ago
your vids are brilliant, i feel better already. i got dumped the other day and i can't eat or sleep or enjoy anything right now. i would say that also a good thing to remember for anyone in my situation is that if she seems to be unaffected and cold in the break up after you gave her your heart, it's her problem! being loving and caring is a GOOD thing and she's lacking it if she can fuck you over like that.
scottishlad1987 9 months ago
i drink and pain goes away
Zodiac6th 9 months ago
I never thought that in some point, i would search for advice from internet or youtube. Well , i did saw this video in one of my darkest hours... and you helped me alot men. Thanks for that.
pipeno 9 months ago
When she broke up with Me, she was flirting with another guy straight away. I dont think she liked me that much.. :( I tryed too be friends with her, But i ended up getting drunk and trying too cut my wrists. The next morning i wake up, Feeling enraged. So i go on her facebook account and i start writing all her secrets out. She hates me now. Great. I freaking blew it.. >_<
DrGhoztz 9 months ago
3:07 for some reason made me feel better
Lion4free 10 months ago
this is brilliant, just what i was looking for, thanks for the advice
dylasauruswrecks 10 months ago
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my ex girlfriend is a cunt.
andresmolina89 10 months ago
1:31 man, true! i noticed that to..
SaintJmartin 10 months ago
It took about five weeks for me to get over the steep jagged mountain of pain, though I still have my moments. I still love her, but it's seems I am the only one willing to compromise. I think I finally see reality clearly.
fearsomegladiator 11 months ago
just going through one now, and i was always a dick n treated her like shit and she would always come back to me n cry for me, but now that she never came back and is with someone i feel like a total dumbass! this sucks! oh and you forgot to mention alcohol doesn't help at all! it just makes it worse!!! lol :(
gonnaragonu 11 months ago
@gonnaragonu I feel exactly the same as you, she's with someone else now aswell and alcohol does make it much worse!! :(
nield8 9 months ago
thank you
massicare1 11 months ago
going through a bad break up too.It really hit me many months after she left. So it's been like a week of sleepless nights just thinking and thinking. It's truly hurts the fact that she's moved on and wants nothing to do with me. We have a daughter together so I call up every once in a while to talk to her, with the ex, well we just keep it brief.Biggest mistake I made I drunk text her a couple of days ago telling her how hurt I felt bout everything.She never answered.Felt embarrassed afterwards
caltrof 11 months ago
Man thank you very much
That's the kind of help I can't get from my friends or family.
This breakup it's been the most hurtful thing that's ever happened to me, I hope I can move on. Knowing that there's people who've gone through the same nightmare and kept going is reassuring.
kamaleo 11 months ago
@kamaleo thankyou i am realy going through a hell atm and seeing your videos are helping me alot ..thankyou so much again
TheWolfishguy 11 months ago
This guy knows what he's talking about.
curly8393 1 year ago
Thank you this video has helped me alot made sense of the way im fealing and ya it hurts like fuck to be away from her. But i think its time to move on and get on with life and take better care of my self for the 1st time in over 3years. Thanx again
Paddyeire11 1 year ago
Great video. Thank you so much for creating these. I just found out my ex of five years is seeing someone new, even though it hasn't been long since we broke up. You're right, I have been in a haze. I am looking forward to reading your book.
BrianPedd 1 year ago
good way of presentation.
diyanasuzi 1 year ago
love this guy for uploading it
subestianful 1 year ago
sharing the expression and feelings after breaking up..good video having emotional touch
michietoni 1 year ago
amazing video.........
anthoni574 1 year ago
I’m thinking that she’s been talking to this guy and now wanted to move on but had to make some sorry ass excuse so don’t feel bad for something loss remember the good times but just say it like this I learn form this and move on I know it’s hard I still can’t sleep at night but you know what she doesn’t care about you sleeping or not she only cares about her feelings and what makes her happy
pyaribilli 1 year ago
she changed she just turned 21 and now she says she wants to mingle I did everything for her but she changed. Heres my thoughts on it. She doesn’t know that you’re sad and she doesn’t care no more if she really did care she would of stayed by your side or called but she even tolded me she didn’t want to be in a relationship but now she’s going out with somebody after 4 weeks
pyaribilli 1 year ago
I’m going through the same shit Sundays are my worst days I sit there having nothing to do I abadon all my friends and I’m currently in Dallas she stays in Louisiana I used to drive 8 hours to go see her and now she said we argue a lot but I realized she always started it. I hated it I was about to be discharge from the service in 2 months true she could of hang on so we can see if it was the distance that made us mad at each other.
pyaribilli 1 year ago
She would always call me to see how I was doing and tell me she loved me..etc. I never really called her. But last night was just too much and I told her to stop calling me (nicely of course). She got mad and hung up on me. I can handle the break up but the biggest problem I’m having is thinking about her being with someone else (sexualy). I just can’t stand the thought of her sleeping with someone else.
hannahcuteish 1 year ago
I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. She has two kids from a previous marriage and she dicided she didn’t want to have anymore kids. I don’t have any but I would like to one day. So I broke with her because i didn’t think there was a point in moving on if we weren’t on the same page in regards to children. I’m doing ok. I had to tell her last night that we shouldn’t talk anymore.
hannahcuteish 1 year ago
Or maybe I just won’t pick up. I guess I’m just kind of venting
coolkaite1 1 year ago
My ex calls me from time to time. She wants to remain friends but I can’t do that. My feelings for her are too strong and one day she might meet someone and I don’t think I will be able to handle that. I do so much better when I don’t hear from her because I don’t know what she’s doing or who she’s with but then she calls and tells me about her going out and I get down all over again. I think I’m going to tell her to not call me again.
coolkaite1 1 year ago
I broke up with my girlfriend two months ago and I still feel down and depressed at times. However, I am MUCH better than I was two months ago. This site does really help and all the posts from different people are a great source for recovery. I’m really trying to be strong mentally. I truly believe that things happen for a reason. My relationship with my ex was very stressful but I loved her. Now, I’m stress free and I could focus on other things. There is one problem.
coolkaite1 1 year ago
. This leaves me in a very lonely space in a place where I have no real friends and so today I made the cardinal mistake of giving her a call and saying “maybe we could just start from the beginning again and see how things go” meaning going out on a date every couple of weeks she agreed.
freyafairy7 1 year ago
Then about 10 days ago she just stopped hugging me as much and was only affectionate when heavily drinking (she drinks every night just some more heavily than others) and we went from having sex every day for 5 months to having it once that week. She then told me she felt like it had all been too much too soon but she was the one who was soo keen for me to move closer to her and left me with no friends just round the corner etc so she wanted to call it off.
freyafairy7 1 year ago
Having said that a couple of months in I started to notice her blowing hot and cold on me all the time but by that time it was too late for me as had already moved 200 miles away to live near her, when my dad asked me how I really felt about her i said to him “i really like her but i’m not totally sure i can trust her with my heart” she talked about marriage and kids and all the stuff which would normally turn me off but for some reason with this lady it just made me want her more.
freyafairy7 1 year ago
. Think the whole thing boiled down to the fact I was really attracted to this girl and when we first got together she was so forward about her feelings towards me that i totally fell for her as hadn’t ever felt that loved so early on by someone before, she kept telling me how perfect I was and how much everyone else thought so too so I really bought into the trap.
freyafairy7 1 year ago
I split up from my girlfriend of 5 months about 3 days ago, it was really wierd as before that had been in a 5 year relationship and when that ended I wasn’t too bothered to be honest but it was such an intense 5 months with this girl that when we broke up i seemed to take it really badly. I wanted to cry but for some reason the tears just couldn’t come out, even today 4 days on I haven’t eaten anything other than a bowl of soup.
freyafairy7 1 year ago
I can’t seem to get over her and if the contact continues, I never will. It’s hard but it’s something that I have to do and so do you. I’ve tried a couple times asking her not to call me but she gets mad and says she’s going to call anyway. So the only thing left to do is not pick up. It’s going to be really tough but that’s the only way she’ll know I’m serious.
zaralucyful 1 year ago
It’s been two months since the break up and she’s the one who calls still. I don’t call her but I do pick up the phone and she’ll either ask for a favor or just call to see what I’m up too. I’m so good when I don’t hear from her but then she calls and I’m back at square one.
zaralucyful 1 year ago
, ever since I’ve been thinking about how that whole thing happened. I’ve tried hanging out with friends and I joined the gym and have started going, but something still seems to be missing. I realized that I don’t really have many female friends, and I was just trying to think of some ways to go about meeting girls.
jessyeveful 1 year ago
My girfriend of 2 years dumped me a little over a week ago. It was hard, because she threw that at me all of a sudden. There was no forewarning that anything like that would happen. Worst of all, I hadn’t seen her for a few days and she dumped me on AIM. I can’t believe that she didn’t have the courage to explain to me in person what she was feeling and that she didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. So,
jessyeveful 1 year ago
, i just am tearing myself to pieces at the moment over her, i only think of the good things/times i cant even think about the times she pissed me off, all i can think that my girl is not with me anymore, i miss her shes probably having fun without me and i dont think she really cares whether im hurt or not, its as though i dnt exist to her,
emma4085 1 year ago
, xmas new year, birthdays, valintines, etc, she was such a sweetheart my family loved her to we had lots in common, nice looks and great personality, we even had a similer circle of friends who ive also lost, i thought she was the one,i pictured us having a future together, i have never met a girl as caring and sweet as her before, she stood by me at times when other people didnt, and i dont know if there could posably be another girl like that out there,
emma4085 1 year ago
, i began to hurt as bad as i did when she 1st mentioned the break up, this last 4 weeks has been torture for me not knowing if it was over or not, giving myself false hope then getin knocked back down, i cant get her out of my mind i miss her so bad i went on her bebo page and saw she is going out with friends etc and i wasnt part of it i have been moved from her top frinds list to like he 37th friend, i keep thinking of all the time we had together, all the places we went,
emma4085 1 year ago
, when she was leaving she said she would hear from me at some stage, i sent her a txt that nite to thank her for the visit she ignored it, over a week went past and i got out of hospital but she never contacted me not even to see if i was ok as far as she knew i was still in hospital, i gave in to temptation and txt her the next day she replyed to say she was fine, hoped i was feelng better and that she knew now for sure she had made the rite choice ending the relationship,
emma4085 1 year ago
a couple of days later she txt me and said she was coming to see me in the hospital to see i was ok but under no circumstance to get my hopes up, when she arrived she looked great she seemed to have put more efort it than usual, she told me how she was havin a good week and was goin to some party, how good things where for her, this time i played it cool and said i was glad things where goin well and her exams etc, just talked like friends,
emma4085 1 year ago
, i was confused cause she was breaking up with me, after that nite, the next day we txt and she told me that she cared for me but needed time and space for her, i had an operation planed before the split, that hurt me that she would bring this all up before i surgery, i went in anyway i was sitin in the hospital after the operation and i had no pain from the wound i wasnt even thinking about it all i could thnk about was my girl,
emma4085 1 year ago
, i said to her lets go out some evening and have fun cause we hadnt been out in a while with her exams etc so she gave in to me and the next week we met up went to crazy golf and went bowling it was fun we laughed and played about, at the end of the evening she said that it seemed like we had gone out as friends and it hadnt helped her make up her mind we talked more, i mentiond moving to a different county and she started to cry and said it seemed like i was wanting her out of the picture,
emma4085 1 year ago
, she said she still didnt know what she wanted at the moment and she just want a few days to think, a few days later she called over to my house to talk, it was as though she was just a friend when she came over she said again that she still didnt know what to do and wasnt my fault,
emma4085 1 year ago
i pleaded with her to rethink it and said we could work it out, she told me she would sleep on it, and contact me the next day! like a fool the next morning I wrote her a letter telling her my feelings for her and a plead for another chance, i then sent her 24 red roses and 2 concert tickets for her and 1 of her female friends, she sent me a txt to thank me for the gifts etc and seemed really nice to me,
emma4085 1 year ago
my ex told me about 4 weeks ago after we had a bit of a fight that she didnt think she was happy anymore and she was confused and didnt know what she wanted anymore and she didnt even know if it was me that it was her, i got really mixed up by this, she wanted to meet later that nite so i went to hers and was as nice as i could be, i told her i was sorry for being grumpy with her etc, anyway it ended up with tears and she said that she thought it may be best to end it,
emma4085 1 year ago
!!! I have just lost faith that there could be another girl as good as she was out there, this maybe makes me sound like a pussy but i went out today to try and interact with other girls but ive become really nervous around them now i have no idea how to even interact with girls anymore, ive forgoten how to get in the game, ive i could get back in the game this may help me to get her off my mind!
MultiGoldensparrow 1 year ago
I just keep wondering what shes doing or if shes going out or how her family are keeping, i just have to keep repeating to my self that its none of my business anymore, i should probably just go out and have fun with other girs as i am still young and didnt have the chance when i was with my ex as she was my first proper girlfrind, but its so lonely at the moment we where in contact everyday before this, she was not only my girlfriend and lover but she was also my best friend
MultiGoldensparrow 1 year ago
She was the first girl i have ever been in love with, she was my first long term relationship and it was the same for her she had only dated a guy for a couple of weeks before me, she told me how much she loved me rite up to a couple of weeks before the break up, but told when she broke it off with me that she was putting on a brave face the last month of our relationship, this also hurt bad as during this time we had seemed to get on so good,
MultiGoldensparrow 1 year ago
. the problem is that alough i think she is out of my system she keeps sliping back in tomy mind usually in the morning or at nite, but even when i drive by some place we went together, a song on the radio, a band she liked, a tv program we watched together, everything brings back the memories, I do tend to forget about the bad memories th