I think the hardest thing for me has been learning to discern what information to listen to. Because some information uplifts me and reflects this fact that I deserve love exactly where I am on my path, yet some makes me feel like I am not good enough because I am a trainee, or a certain weight etc. Whilst some information has been life affirming such as being encouraged my Raphael to eat healthily so my channels are clear and I can be open to receive angelic love. Thank you Helen <3
So totally agree with what you're saying! And I think acknowledging that we deserve the love we give ourselves is often the most difficult, but a very fundamental step!!
Another great video Helen and wonderful message! ;)) so true! I get tired of people making rules as to how we should be and what kind of partner we should have. You would hear stuff like "shes too ugly to be getting married to him..he could get a super model if he wanted." I had a friend once who kept trying to set me up with men in which she though were suitable for me as though I couldnt get anyone else. I told her I would find my own man when the time was right....LOL haha. Love Louise xoxox
@Looby75MagicFly LOL dear me :S its really strange how people think others see us how they do. Thank you so much for watching and sharing, beautiful xxx Hugs and love!!!! xxx
Another wonderful message! I am tired of everyone going along with society. I was always told that I'm not good enough when I have been attracted to certain guys in my past. And so I never pursued it. It wasn't until I was 26, when I met my first boyfriend that I ignored people and went for it. We are still together today, 6 years later. Of course, it was after I started learning that I deserve love. And also it's all about what's inside that really counts. Great vid!
@AuroraMoonWolf you know what i mean? lol and you have a gorgeous little boy too!!! people think they know us more than we know ourselves lol thanks so much for watching beautiful and for sharing! hugs xxxxx
@TheSirra yes its because we need to learn it about ourselves first...that we are beautiful and deserving of love. Thank you so much for watching beautiful sister Goddess! BB xxxxxxx
@TheSirra Very true dear. I feel so lucky that I was born in a place where food and shelter were more important than how you look and I was raised by someone who taught me that honor, dignity, compassion, kindness, understanding of other's plight, and self-love were some of the most important factor in life. I was lucky in that I never saw a television until I came to the US along with a lot of things that deprives women of self-esteem hehehe. Thank you Goddess!! BB XXX
I love this video. You are absolutely right, you should never let anyone limit you even yourself. This whole "out of your league" thing is ridiculous and IMO has been proved wrong time and time again. Blessed Be!
Love you darling. Just said couple of hours ago to my wife that the only thing I want is to be loved and it is an I feel the love here. Sounds cheezy but I do!!
There is someone for everyone and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And of course, true beauty comes within... Real is love is not superficial. This is a great message. Love to you xxxx ~S~
Blessings Sweet Angel and Goddess..Thank you for this awesome and RIGHT TO THE POINT message...AMEN..I had to add...I couldn't put it better myself..WOW..Much love respect and Celestial blessings.....Muah ~ Millie
Lovely video Helen.I think the media present ridiculously artificial standards for women
to "Aspire" to, there is much airbrushing and obsession with physical perfection. and as you say conditioning has a lot to answer for!Beauty is more than outer looks.x
@Elfwife that is so true!!! i wish the world could see themselves inside first because thats where our beauty lies xxxxx Thank you for watching beautiful xx Hugs and blessings xxxx
@Aniyra you see? it hurts someone to tell them that they dont think their partner is handsome enough for them :S not everyone is superficial ;) im so proud of you for following your heart!!! Hugs and love and hugs and kisses xxxxx
So very well put sis...(standing ovation)...so many people allow other's opinions to dictate their emotions. I agree, we should all subscribe to a limitless lifestyle.
I think it is also soul attraction too - how many times do we hear - I can't see what he sees in her, or vice versa, as one may be more attractive then the other partner. Well - true love runs deep - soul deep. Maybe that's why they say love is blind. ;)
WOW!! Y are allmost vat 400 ideos HELEN!!!! That is amazing! Not sure if I will ever top that Helen! That is just wonderfully amazing! GOOD JOB! I really like ths video. I also realize sometimes that I get things in my head that I know are no right. Like as to judge other people. I allways correct mself after, but it s hard to eliminate those types of thaougts. Especially when you hear people saying them all of the time. I guess they are not my thaoughts, but thaoughts others put in my head.
@LopidoEmeraldFlame its all part of the ego..realising that you are doing it means you recognise its something to work on...doesnt mean your an evil person lol i know! i cant believe how many vids ive made lol Hugs and love handsome and thank you! xxxx
@theforestmagic aw thank you so much for watching and commenting :) i think its because i meditate before i shoot my videos and confer with my spirit guides and they come through in the video :) Blessings and love xxx
You are so right. No one is out of or in anyone else's league. That's just silly to classify people. And there is someone for everyone!!! Hugs and much love to you. I need to find you on Facebook!
That is one of the best videos you've done to date, Helen! That is one of the attributes of being a Witch: we've broken our former societal conditioning and its perverted version of love and I'm happy to say that I am now engaged to the High Priestess of our coven and we couldn't be any happier!!!!!!
@DrGiggles68 Awwwww congratulations!!! that is SUCH happy news!!! I'm so pleased for you!! thanks for sharing this!!! hugs and blessings to you both ALWAYS!!! xxxx
awww Sister cani just say i absolutely LOVE your Big beautiful hair!!! I was gonna comment somethin insightful, but i feel the need to say that women with big hair ROCK as a fellow big haired lady i am Proclaiming this :D haha )O( BB
@OnyxMarigold hahahaha ditto!! From a big head of curls here too! Were you all teased in school and called medusa or just me??? How long did it take us to embrace and love our curls because all the ads & tv commercials for hair make curls something that must be controlled and straightened. (hmmm just like the sexuallity of women!) :-)
@hipretty SOOOO TRUE!! Curls and Kinky hair are beauitful they don't have to be tamed or "white-afied" :P if you rock an Afro and your proud , i respect you ! :P hahaha
People are social creatures. We are all hardwired to love and be loved. The complications enter in when fear and hurt corrupts the software and the culture writes the software. Human beings are more than machines. Love should be our transcendent operating system. :)
Helen! What a beautiful video. Your are TOO true. You know, I totally agree with everything you say on this video. Thank you for being you, and I love you! :) x
I agree. Many people, especially those in my generation, have rules I guess you'd call them, of who you can go after and who you cant, and I've always found that very confusing. Love is blind and it doesnt matter who you are or where you come from, but the love that the two of you share.
Love has NO comparisons, judgements, expectations, dependancies, or attachments. That's pure energy alchemy. LOVE of self is all there is. It can transform us if we give it a chance. It's in us and around us if we tune in. Go out and find out what love is yourself and not from some other brain washing source. Love you Helen Demetriou.
1-Yes beautiful Helen...we all deserve to be loved, we all have gifts. i feel we KNOW this deep in our hearts as children. Before the pain comes. At first children know what they are hearing is wrong & it hurts. But it IS eventually learned (& believed) the hard way through their life's path that "they are not good enough, pretty, smart, thin enough" people beat themselves up w/these mantras in their heads, through their lives, but it is my belief that is never their voice.
2-Someone else taught them that. We do not arrive here feeling that way. I have spent many years trying to love someone who did not feel they deserved it. Sabotaging love, dwelling & thriving in chaos. :(
It was very hard to find that jumping off point going from loving them unconditionally and wholeheartedly to loving myself more to not go down with the ship...why? Because I still Love them, but because I deserved more...I deserved Love! Thank you for sharing this message!
@hipretty blessings and love beautiful xxx and thank you for sharing your thoughts here xxx thing is,what people tell us about ourselves we believe yet if someone says they saw a flying pink elephant we dont believe lol
I agree with what you are saying, Helen. But, of course, it is hard to keep that mindset when the person one wants to be with is with someone whom you find less attractive than oneself. ;)
Very empowering words, Goddess!! I've been trying to "unlearn" the effects of the social conditioning and brainwashing of the media... Love is unconditional, it is not skin-deep, it resides in us and everywhere around us. If we connect with it, it will help us embrace who we are, and appreciate others more and look past the surface. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, my beautiful Soul Sister!! I love you so much!!! ^♥^
Human beings are the only animals on animal planet who think like "do i/he/she/they deserve love?" Other animals just can get each other's love.
Franktheman149 1 month ago
hello helen plese heal me and my 7chakra give me reiki distance healings++++love n light +++ i love you and like your all video +++ love and hugs
anandamohanratha 6 months ago
@anandamohanratha Blessings xxx have you been to my website?
Helenhealer 6 months ago
I think the hardest thing for me has been learning to discern what information to listen to. Because some information uplifts me and reflects this fact that I deserve love exactly where I am on my path, yet some makes me feel like I am not good enough because I am a trainee, or a certain weight etc. Whilst some information has been life affirming such as being encouraged my Raphael to eat healthily so my channels are clear and I can be open to receive angelic love. Thank you Helen <3
Thejoanneishappy 1 year ago
@Thejoanneishappy but you know inside you which is truth and which is ego xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
So totally agree with what you're saying! And I think acknowledging that we deserve the love we give ourselves is often the most difficult, but a very fundamental step!!
aikitherese 1 year ago
@aikitherese yes exactly.but its the only way forward xxxxx thanks for watching beautiful xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I love this video. I agree with you. Blessed Be!
Witchminor1 1 year ago
@Witchminor1 Blessed Be sweetheart xxx thank you so much for watching xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Another great video Helen and wonderful message! ;)) so true! I get tired of people making rules as to how we should be and what kind of partner we should have. You would hear stuff like "shes too ugly to be getting married to him..he could get a super model if he wanted." I had a friend once who kept trying to set me up with men in which she though were suitable for me as though I couldnt get anyone else. I told her I would find my own man when the time was right....LOL haha. Love Louise xoxox
Looby75MagicFly 1 year ago
@Looby75MagicFly LOL dear me :S its really strange how people think others see us how they do. Thank you so much for watching and sharing, beautiful xxx Hugs and love!!!! xxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Another wonderful message! I am tired of everyone going along with society. I was always told that I'm not good enough when I have been attracted to certain guys in my past. And so I never pursued it. It wasn't until I was 26, when I met my first boyfriend that I ignored people and went for it. We are still together today, 6 years later. Of course, it was after I started learning that I deserve love. And also it's all about what's inside that really counts. Great vid!
AuroraMoonWolf 1 year ago
@AuroraMoonWolf you know what i mean? lol and you have a gorgeous little boy too!!! people think they know us more than we know ourselves lol thanks so much for watching beautiful and for sharing! hugs xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
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TheSirra 1 year ago
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TheSirra 1 year ago
@TheSirra yes its because we need to learn it about ourselves first...that we are beautiful and deserving of love. Thank you so much for watching beautiful sister Goddess! BB xxxxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
@TheSirra Very true dear. I feel so lucky that I was born in a place where food and shelter were more important than how you look and I was raised by someone who taught me that honor, dignity, compassion, kindness, understanding of other's plight, and self-love were some of the most important factor in life. I was lucky in that I never saw a television until I came to the US along with a lot of things that deprives women of self-esteem hehehe. Thank you Goddess!! BB XXX
TheSirra 1 year ago
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TheSirra 1 year ago
I love this video. You are absolutely right, you should never let anyone limit you even yourself. This whole "out of your league" thing is ridiculous and IMO has been proved wrong time and time again. Blessed Be!
PrairieFaery 1 year ago
@PrairieFaery exactly! lol Blessed Be sweet soul! Love and blessings xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Hi Helen,
Love you darling. Just said couple of hours ago to my wife that the only thing I want is to be loved and it is an I feel the love here. Sounds cheezy but I do!!
propulsar 1 year ago
@propulsar aw i love you too!!! No, its not cheesy :) When we ask for love then we get it :) Thank you so much for watching xxx hugs and kisses xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
There is someone for everyone and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And of course, true beauty comes within... Real is love is not superficial. This is a great message. Love to you xxxx ~S~
SunflowerRising 1 year ago
@SunflowerRising so so true!!! Blessings sweetheart xxxx hope you are well xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Blessings Sweet Angel and Goddess..Thank you for this awesome and RIGHT TO THE POINT message...AMEN..I had to add...I couldn't put it better myself..WOW..Much love respect and Celestial blessings.....Muah ~ Millie
miji1963 1 year ago
@miji1963 Celestial Blessings sweet Angel :) Thank you so much for watching xxxxx :)
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Lovely video Helen.I think the media present ridiculously artificial standards for women
to "Aspire" to, there is much airbrushing and obsession with physical perfection. and as you say conditioning has a lot to answer for!Beauty is more than outer looks.x
Elfwife 1 year ago
@Elfwife that is so true!!! i wish the world could see themselves inside first because thats where our beauty lies xxxxx Thank you for watching beautiful xx Hugs and blessings xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Bleed Be ! you are love here
SOIFreak69 1 year ago
@SOIFreak69 Blessed Be beautiful!!! hugs and kisses xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I L♥Ve U!
DaizyMoonMist 1 year ago
@DaizyMoonMist I love you too beautiful sister!!!! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
@Aniyra you see? it hurts someone to tell them that they dont think their partner is handsome enough for them :S not everyone is superficial ;) im so proud of you for following your heart!!! Hugs and love and hugs and kisses xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Thank you for reminding us of that!
KaotikTigress 1 year ago
@KaotikTigress Thank you for watching! Hugs! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
So very well put sis...(standing ovation)...so many people allow other's opinions to dictate their emotions. I agree, we should all subscribe to a limitless lifestyle.
SeriusTruth 1 year ago
@SeriusTruth so true and as Atomarane said, some people see the soul first and the face after :) hugs and love and thank you! xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I think it is also soul attraction too - how many times do we hear - I can't see what he sees in her, or vice versa, as one may be more attractive then the other partner. Well - true love runs deep - soul deep. Maybe that's why they say love is blind. ;)
atomarane 1 year ago
@atomarane thats so true!!!!!! i love this comment! peopel SEE the SOUL...not just whats in front of them :) Thank you! hugs and love xxxxxxxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
WOW!! Y are allmost vat 400 ideos HELEN!!!! That is amazing! Not sure if I will ever top that Helen! That is just wonderfully amazing! GOOD JOB! I really like ths video. I also realize sometimes that I get things in my head that I know are no right. Like as to judge other people. I allways correct mself after, but it s hard to eliminate those types of thaougts. Especially when you hear people saying them all of the time. I guess they are not my thaoughts, but thaoughts others put in my head.
LopidoEmeraldFlame 1 year ago
@LopidoEmeraldFlame its all part of the ego..realising that you are doing it means you recognise its something to work on...doesnt mean your an evil person lol i know! i cant believe how many vids ive made lol Hugs and love handsome and thank you! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
great video!!! and there were soo many orbs soo that must be a sign that what ur saying is true :D
BBx
theforestmagic 1 year ago
@theforestmagic aw thank you so much for watching and commenting :) i think its because i meditate before i shoot my videos and confer with my spirit guides and they come through in the video :) Blessings and love xxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
You are so right. No one is out of or in anyone else's league. That's just silly to classify people. And there is someone for everyone!!! Hugs and much love to you. I need to find you on Facebook!
PaintedRavensong 1 year ago
@PaintedRavensong aww find me! just remember to add a little note so i know who you are xxxxx hugs and love beautiful sister xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
so pretty! and completley agree
luvbites23 1 year ago
@luvbites23 Thank you for watching! hugs and blessings! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Another terrific Video Dear Helen!! I love you!! HUGS!!
NaturesFairy 1 year ago
@NaturesFairy I love you too!!! Blessings beautiful xxx have a gorgeous day! xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I agree with your views @helenhealer you speak with such knowledge
spiritualgirl2010 1 year ago
That is one of the best videos you've done to date, Helen! That is one of the attributes of being a Witch: we've broken our former societal conditioning and its perverted version of love and I'm happy to say that I am now engaged to the High Priestess of our coven and we couldn't be any happier!!!!!!
DrGiggles68 1 year ago
@DrGiggles68 Awwwww congratulations!!! that is SUCH happy news!!! I'm so pleased for you!! thanks for sharing this!!! hugs and blessings to you both ALWAYS!!! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
awww Sister cani just say i absolutely LOVE your Big beautiful hair!!! I was gonna comment somethin insightful, but i feel the need to say that women with big hair ROCK as a fellow big haired lady i am Proclaiming this :D haha )O( BB
OnyxMarigold 1 year ago
@OnyxMarigold HAHAHAHAHA!!! long live big hair!!! lol thank you beautiful Goddess sister xxx Blessings and love xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
@OnyxMarigold hahahaha ditto!! From a big head of curls here too! Were you all teased in school and called medusa or just me??? How long did it take us to embrace and love our curls because all the ads & tv commercials for hair make curls something that must be controlled and straightened. (hmmm just like the sexuallity of women!) :-)
hipretty 1 year ago
@hipretty SOOOO TRUE!! Curls and Kinky hair are beauitful they don't have to be tamed or "white-afied" :P if you rock an Afro and your proud , i respect you ! :P hahaha
OnyxMarigold 1 year ago
@OnyxMarigold I respect you too sister! :-)
hipretty 1 year ago
People are social creatures. We are all hardwired to love and be loved. The complications enter in when fear and hurt corrupts the software and the culture writes the software. Human beings are more than machines. Love should be our transcendent operating system. :)
battlebauble 1 year ago 2
@battlebauble i LOVE this comment! thanks so much hun! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Yes! Thank you :)) <3
aikitherese 1 year ago
@aikitherese thank you too!!!!! xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this. Thank you for spreading your love and wisdom. xxxxx
sexyaviator 1 year ago
@sexyaviator and thank you for taking the time to watch and comment!!!! hugs and kisses beautiful xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
ooh rah, Helen
dbot66 1 year ago
@dbot66 lol
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Helen! What a beautiful video. Your are TOO true. You know, I totally agree with everything you say on this video. Thank you for being you, and I love you! :) x
JJPR0DUCTI0NS10 1 year ago
@JJPR0DUCTI0NS10 i love you too angel face! thank you! xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Love is the Law and Love is the bond. Thank you for healing a wounded heart.
bectom40 1 year ago
@bectom40 Healing and blessings for that healing heart xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I agree. Many people, especially those in my generation, have rules I guess you'd call them, of who you can go after and who you cant, and I've always found that very confusing. Love is blind and it doesnt matter who you are or where you come from, but the love that the two of you share.
JaydenExpelliarmus 1 year ago
@JaydenExpelliarmus so true xxxsx and so we give up trying before we have found out for ourselves :)
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Love has NO comparisons, judgements, expectations, dependancies, or attachments. That's pure energy alchemy. LOVE of self is all there is. It can transform us if we give it a chance. It's in us and around us if we tune in. Go out and find out what love is yourself and not from some other brain washing source. Love you Helen Demetriou.
mandalynny 1 year ago
@mandalynny so very true beautiful soul xxxx Thank you so much for watching xxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I also wonder why some think its ok to judge a person for wearing nice clothes, make up. it should be nobody's concern.
safehouse123 1 year ago
@safehouse123 exactly lol
Helenhealer 1 year ago
1-Yes beautiful Helen...we all deserve to be loved, we all have gifts. i feel we KNOW this deep in our hearts as children. Before the pain comes. At first children know what they are hearing is wrong & it hurts. But it IS eventually learned (& believed) the hard way through their life's path that "they are not good enough, pretty, smart, thin enough" people beat themselves up w/these mantras in their heads, through their lives, but it is my belief that is never their voice.
hipretty 1 year ago
2-Someone else taught them that. We do not arrive here feeling that way. I have spent many years trying to love someone who did not feel they deserved it. Sabotaging love, dwelling & thriving in chaos. :(
It was very hard to find that jumping off point going from loving them unconditionally and wholeheartedly to loving myself more to not go down with the ship...why? Because I still Love them, but because I deserved more...I deserved Love! Thank you for sharing this message!
You are Loved! :-)
hipretty 1 year ago
@hipretty blessings and love beautiful xxx and thank you for sharing your thoughts here xxx thing is,what people tell us about ourselves we believe yet if someone says they saw a flying pink elephant we dont believe lol
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I agree with what you are saying, Helen. But, of course, it is hard to keep that mindset when the person one wants to be with is with someone whom you find less attractive than oneself. ;)
-Harmony
StellaMoraDotCom 1 year ago
@StellaMoraDotCom yes but then thats the ego talking and thats up to us to remedy lest we get judged the same.
Helenhealer 1 year ago
I'm a Dark Pagan, a realist and as such, I know that people...are mostly and usually malevolent.
SmaragdineSage 1 year ago
@SmaragdineSage but its what we think that matters to us xxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago
Very empowering words, Goddess!! I've been trying to "unlearn" the effects of the social conditioning and brainwashing of the media... Love is unconditional, it is not skin-deep, it resides in us and everywhere around us. If we connect with it, it will help us embrace who we are, and appreciate others more and look past the surface. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, my beautiful Soul Sister!! I love you so much!!! ^♥^
idreamofwolfkisses 1 year ago
@idreamofwolfkisses i love YOUR wisdom beautiful Goddess sister!! i also love you! very much!!! hugs and thanks sweetness! xxxxxxxx
Helenhealer 1 year ago