You can't MAKE a person want to fix things as much as you do. You can't make a person respect and care for you as you deserve. If it's much easier for a partner to hate you than love you, that is the biggest red flag you can get.
These videos are just going to lead people into continuous hurt. You broke up for a REASON. Your ex CHOSE to hurt you, worst if they had even done it repetitively. Your ex loves THEMSELVES not you if they've continuously put your hurt BELOW their ego.
In an abusive relationship, what I've let happen for too long, is a cycle. 1. Tension builds, 2. Abuse occurs, 3. Making up, where the abuser says the most perfect things to get the victim back, 4. Honeymoon phase, "everything is fine", repeat.
Date everyone once becuase if they come back a second time after
leaving you , well often it wont work , thayll be alot of past history
and Often they dont deserve you and dont torture yourself over maybe getting
them back if its over ots over , If you dont have kids and a wedding ring connecting you thiers no reason to stay becuase the end is the end . If they ask for you back it most cases you should say NO they gave up in you
@mg00swold My ex and broke up 8months ago, but we started talking a month of ago , but now we both have those feelings again. But today she textd me, so i took an hour to text back and we had a small chat over text. But she said she wants to be with me, but her bestfriends don't like me, so she said something about her friends, so she cant. anyways.. I know she still loves me, but she is throwing mixed signals. I tell her there is no point to talk if all we will be is friends . so what to do ?
Hi all we have a facebook group that you can join and share your stories in regards to getting your ex back..etc its for people over 18+ please contact me on liveloveandlove@groups.facebook.com
He says he still loves me but he has an other girl. What do I do? I still love him more than anything in the entire world and I'm acting cool about them together. I', taking your advice and all. He tells me he still loves me like every day. But he's still all over her. I'm so confused!
@XOEmoQueenXO He is using you for back up! And men are afraid to be alone, so they use a crutch/crotch, this way they always have someone around them. Don't make it easy for him, when you stop taking his talks, watch what happens!!! Your not cool with them being together, this shows him you are waiting for him! NO NO! Read the book WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES & WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES! Good reading!!!
@soupbowl417 Friends with your ex? ..Is it possible? It's not a simple answer, but it IS possible. Will you be okay with seeing your ex/new best friend holding hands with another guy and knowing that he is sleeping with her? Will that make you mad? Can you handle your ex talking to you about how happy she is with this new guy?
If you honestly can't handle that stuff, then just move on and dont contact her until you found a girl that makes you happier and you love more.
@TheSuperAlphaMale Thanx for the advice. Ive had a week to think about this and have come to the conclusion that being friends with someone who broke my heart is stupid. Bye bitch!!
@soupbowl417 I just broke up with my girl a few hours ago, she was putting me through too much pain. i'll be feeling better in about a week. Its hard not to send a text reply back when she says things like "you never loved me or you woulda blah blah blah" because I did actually love her.. But the pain is not worth it. Im going to better myself, and in the future she will see how good im doing.
And good job bro. Im in the same boat with ya. we are never alone.
@TheSuperAlphaMale Sorry to hear about that bud. I know how bad you must feel right now. Women are a complicated thing. Never say what they mean. Everything is a riddle with 5 posible answers. But we still love them. Try to keep busy. i started working out and its helped me alot. Whatever you decide to do make sure that you start fast cuz you will never be more motivated than right now. I wish you all the best man.
Hey so I loved the video and it did help a lot. I dated a guy in 6th grade, well boy, and moved 7th grade then dated in 8th grade, moved fr 3 years then we got back together senior year of high school but rushed it because I thought it would be fine since we had history but it scared the both of us so we broke up. he found someone else and they had a bad relationship. Now we are talking again. How should I talk to him because I am eager to get back together?
dont call her at all trust me she will my ex is with some1 else n we berly broke up a month ago n its bn a week n 4 days since the last time we talked n she text me 2 days ago that she would really like to sitdown n talk u knw if she really didnt want me why try n talk to me at all u knw just give it some time n dont call her at ALL!!!
Many relationships with break ups has alot of ups and downs. I mean not all break ups mean wow it's over. No not all you be surprise on how many get back together in time. Trust that some may be good to have broken up. But some, cause well they may have been confused or have alot on mind.
Great video...You know what you;re talking about. Just to add to it...I think you NEED to be self sufficient anyway...With or without someone...Neediness is a yurn off....I just put distance bettween my ex and I this morning... I begged her last night....It wasn't working because she just wants to be friends for now....So I let her go because I want more. She called this morning to see if I was ok and I was like, Yeah...I'm fine..you're right.....She lost it! lol...Now..I wait.
Relationships are complicated and when your ex sends mixed signals it makes the situation worse.... You already fill like crap especially if you were dumped.
@MsMickii Yes!! But how to you get peace of mind? No one knows that you are grieving for the loss - but the person is still around haunting you!...even wanting you...then not! It is beyond the grief of someone dying. This is extreme torture! I don't know how to be, or act. I want to be authentic and honest with my feelings, but am supposed to act with poise and control. I do that and inside I am in complete agony. Nothing feels right or true or possible anymore. I feel like such a nothing!
My ex-boy friend calls me all the time and acts like were going out again.....but then he says im ugly and regrets going out with me,then he looks at me like he loves me or like he cares idk HELP ME!!!!
i know wat u mean, my ex gf was literally bipolar and was on meds for it. i want her back and shes doin the same thing. try confronting him and keep asking him questions and if he tries putting it on u then ask more so he'll really think about it and figure out wat he wants
@BayleeTeddii What has happened since? I hope you don't mind me asking. My husband walked out on me saying I was too fat and ugly for him. I was so gutted. Yet he looks at me sometimes as if he wants me so much, other times as if he can't stand the sight of me, then he says he can't get me off his mind!! I don't want to use poise anymore, I want to just scream and cry lots!! Can't though, can I? I feel quite hopeless, sad and confused. I need certainty. x
its true...my ex left me..as soon as I told him I accepted it he started calling agian ..and drunk dialing...sadly he was angry and and rejected and started putting me down...lame
I'm not taking relationship advice from a guy wearing no shoes and a baseball cap
griffinboio 3 weeks ago
You can't MAKE a person want to fix things as much as you do. You can't make a person respect and care for you as you deserve. If it's much easier for a partner to hate you than love you, that is the biggest red flag you can get.
HateDoctor 1 month ago
These videos are just going to lead people into continuous hurt. You broke up for a REASON. Your ex CHOSE to hurt you, worst if they had even done it repetitively. Your ex loves THEMSELVES not you if they've continuously put your hurt BELOW their ego.
In an abusive relationship, what I've let happen for too long, is a cycle. 1. Tension builds, 2. Abuse occurs, 3. Making up, where the abuser says the most perfect things to get the victim back, 4. Honeymoon phase, "everything is fine", repeat.
HateDoctor 1 month ago
damn that's a massive moniter
Emma1111Oz 1 month ago
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thereactorleak 3 months ago
Heres some advise for everyone , Never date twice
Date everyone once becuase if they come back a second time after
leaving you , well often it wont work , thayll be alot of past history
and Often they dont deserve you and dont torture yourself over maybe getting
them back if its over ots over , If you dont have kids and a wedding ring connecting you thiers no reason to stay becuase the end is the end . If they ask for you back it most cases you should say NO they gave up in you
Allizare 3 months ago
@mg00swold My ex and broke up 8months ago, but we started talking a month of ago , but now we both have those feelings again. But today she textd me, so i took an hour to text back and we had a small chat over text. But she said she wants to be with me, but her bestfriends don't like me, so she said something about her friends, so she cant. anyways.. I know she still loves me, but she is throwing mixed signals. I tell her there is no point to talk if all we will be is friends . so what to do ?
hermitmason111 5 months ago
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Hi all we have a facebook group that you can join and share your stories in regards to getting your ex back..etc its for people over 18+ please contact me on liveloveandlove@groups.facebook.com
tashmanaia 6 months ago
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joytoys4less 9 months ago
He says he still loves me but he has an other girl. What do I do? I still love him more than anything in the entire world and I'm acting cool about them together. I', taking your advice and all. He tells me he still loves me like every day. But he's still all over her. I'm so confused!
XOEmoQueenXO 10 months ago
@XOEmoQueenXO He is using you for back up! And men are afraid to be alone, so they use a crutch/crotch, this way they always have someone around them. Don't make it easy for him, when you stop taking his talks, watch what happens!!! Your not cool with them being together, this shows him you are waiting for him! NO NO! Read the book WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES & WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES! Good reading!!!
CROWNOFTHORNS82 1 month ago
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BELLABEARBEAR 1 year ago
My ex and I are trying to be friends is this possible? This girl is my best friend
soupbowl417 1 year ago
@soupbowl417 Friends with your ex? ..Is it possible? It's not a simple answer, but it IS possible. Will you be okay with seeing your ex/new best friend holding hands with another guy and knowing that he is sleeping with her? Will that make you mad? Can you handle your ex talking to you about how happy she is with this new guy?
If you honestly can't handle that stuff, then just move on and dont contact her until you found a girl that makes you happier and you love more.
TheSuperAlphaMale 1 year ago
@TheSuperAlphaMale Thanx for the advice. Ive had a week to think about this and have come to the conclusion that being friends with someone who broke my heart is stupid. Bye bitch!!
soupbowl417 1 year ago
@soupbowl417 I just broke up with my girl a few hours ago, she was putting me through too much pain. i'll be feeling better in about a week. Its hard not to send a text reply back when she says things like "you never loved me or you woulda blah blah blah" because I did actually love her.. But the pain is not worth it. Im going to better myself, and in the future she will see how good im doing.
And good job bro. Im in the same boat with ya. we are never alone.
TheSuperAlphaMale 1 year ago
@TheSuperAlphaMale Sorry to hear about that bud. I know how bad you must feel right now. Women are a complicated thing. Never say what they mean. Everything is a riddle with 5 posible answers. But we still love them. Try to keep busy. i started working out and its helped me alot. Whatever you decide to do make sure that you start fast cuz you will never be more motivated than right now. I wish you all the best man.
soupbowl417 1 year ago
you sound so cute:)
Mistizza 1 year ago
Hey so I loved the video and it did help a lot. I dated a guy in 6th grade, well boy, and moved 7th grade then dated in 8th grade, moved fr 3 years then we got back together senior year of high school but rushed it because I thought it would be fine since we had history but it scared the both of us so we broke up. he found someone else and they had a bad relationship. Now we are talking again. How should I talk to him because I am eager to get back together?
taylorklove7 1 year ago
My ex called me back..we hung out and everything seemed to went well..Now should I call here on a date now or should I wait??
darksidez81 1 year ago
I'm supposed to trust someone wearing those socks?
Sage80 1 year ago
dont call her at all trust me she will my ex is with some1 else n we berly broke up a month ago n its bn a week n 4 days since the last time we talked n she text me 2 days ago that she would really like to sitdown n talk u knw if she really didnt want me why try n talk to me at all u knw just give it some time n dont call her at ALL!!!
XxDaRkLuNyxX 1 year ago
by the way.. how long should i not call or text my ex back "in my own time"?
PHEOLA1 1 year ago
dude, this makes sense...Im going through this now, I mean like right now...
sj2sac 2 years ago
Many relationships with break ups has alot of ups and downs. I mean not all break ups mean wow it's over. No not all you be surprise on how many get back together in time. Trust that some may be good to have broken up. But some, cause well they may have been confused or have alot on mind.
GaaraxRose91 2 years ago
Great video...You know what you;re talking about. Just to add to it...I think you NEED to be self sufficient anyway...With or without someone...Neediness is a yurn off....I just put distance bettween my ex and I this morning... I begged her last night....It wasn't working because she just wants to be friends for now....So I let her go because I want more. She called this morning to see if I was ok and I was like, Yeah...I'm fine..you're right.....She lost it! lol...Now..I wait.
stripes5150 2 years ago
Relationships are complicated and when your ex sends mixed signals it makes the situation worse.... You already fill like crap especially if you were dumped.
MsMickii 2 years ago
@MsMickii Yes!! But how to you get peace of mind? No one knows that you are grieving for the loss - but the person is still around haunting you!...even wanting you...then not! It is beyond the grief of someone dying. This is extreme torture! I don't know how to be, or act. I want to be authentic and honest with my feelings, but am supposed to act with poise and control. I do that and inside I am in complete agony. Nothing feels right or true or possible anymore. I feel like such a nothing!
Samua3 1 year ago
My ex-boy friend calls me all the time and acts like were going out again.....but then he says im ugly and regrets going out with me,then he looks at me like he loves me or like he cares idk HELP ME!!!!
BayleeTeddii 2 years ago
i know wat u mean, my ex gf was literally bipolar and was on meds for it. i want her back and shes doin the same thing. try confronting him and keep asking him questions and if he tries putting it on u then ask more so he'll really think about it and figure out wat he wants
AnchorDude 2 years ago
@BayleeTeddii What has happened since? I hope you don't mind me asking. My husband walked out on me saying I was too fat and ugly for him. I was so gutted. Yet he looks at me sometimes as if he wants me so much, other times as if he can't stand the sight of me, then he says he can't get me off his mind!! I don't want to use poise anymore, I want to just scream and cry lots!! Can't though, can I? I feel quite hopeless, sad and confused. I need certainty. x
Samua3 1 year ago
how long do have give to answer their call simnce you do not want to respond to fast?
1thirdie 2 years ago
@1thirdie just like a couple of hours id say wud b enuf
avfc12321 2 years ago
Mack Guru baby!
cortezforever 2 years ago
hey men, your intellectual is beyond many so called guru
khing66 2 years ago
its true...my ex left me..as soon as I told him I accepted it he started calling agian ..and drunk dialing...sadly he was angry and and rejected and started putting me down...lame
sweeetly 2 years ago