Why do people divorce? Lee Rosen - Raleigh Divorce Lawyer

[Lesrevesdhiver]

A divorce attorney discouraging divorce? Noble I guess but different. Isn't divorce the "bread and butter" for a divorce lawyer?

[leahestey]

Yep, that's my marriage problem: sex! lol

[brut1973]

It is amaseing how much better love making is when you wife isn't ran down from the day.

For those of you who don't think being a house wife is tough, for just one week walk a mile in your wifes shoes. Start the day by getting the kids ready for school, start laundry, got to the store, prepare meals, fold laundry, pick up kids, tighty up the house, ect.

[brut1973]

The children will grow to be confident, when they get in troble it will be minor usually.

DO NOT USE NEGATIVE energy to correct situations. This is where we usually fail is because we were tought by our parents to yell and slap our families when we are frustrated, and you will not get the responce you are looking for. All punishment's should fit the crime. Most important the husband and wife are a team and are equals, help your wife when you're home it will lead to a better intimant love life.

[brut1973]

Scriptures say that our father created woman to be a helpmate, Not a slave. The price for our sin in the garden is that man has to labor by the sweat of his brow and that his wife is to labor beside him. This means at home.

Where does infidelity useually start? At the work place and at club on ladie or mens night out. Women crave security and if men dont provide it they will go somewhere to find it.

When men provide secureity at home to their wives it changes the atmosphere at home.

[brut1973]

Divorce is on the rise because people get married thinking divorce is an option. Our divorced parents tought us when the relationship gets tough divorce. The #1 cure for divorce is men must provide their wives with security. Security comes from spirtually, dealing with everything that stresses your wife, helping @ home with chores and the kids. Your wife will feel more valuable if you help with some of the household tension. Wives need to be at home to provide structure for the children.

[masertimer1]

My mom and dad are getting a divorce:( I want to kill myself!

[UcanbeGOD]

Marriage is just a contract, thats it folks. Don't ask someone to love you forever its like asking a person to fear you forever. You can't promise those things its impossible.

[JPPT1974]

That is why I am waiting to get married. To make sure my first marriage, ends only in death.

[OS253]

Why are you waiting to get married? Marriage isn't that great. I've been married since 1995. I want out! I hate being married. It sucks! I want my freedom back!

[leahestey]

Marriage can be beautiful if you and your spouse chose to have it that way. No marriage is perfect. It takes two to work and if you are not trying, it arn't gonna work!

[818doodooroo]

thanks for you advice :)

[DivorceInfo]

Nice video, very interesting! More power.

[OS253]

I can't wait to get my divorce. I hate being married. Assume you don't have kids or property to divide, what's the fastest way to get a divorce without seeing a lawyer? I've been married since 1995.

[4932493203]

EXCELLENT VERY TRUE!

[gscotm55]

I have never seen a happy marriage. It is much better to have dogs. They really love us and don't spend your money. I will never get married again. It's not worth my remaining time. This is only my opinion that I have formed from experience. Things might go different for you. Good Luck.

[fpm229]

It's all about sex...Period!

[nagzul]

It's the lie we think that love is about finding happiness.

Seeking out happiness is a love for yourself.

We are contradictory love.

[pepsi744]

Thats a realy good video.Thanx for sharing it with us.Its realy good information and i think everybody should watch this video and take few lessons from it.Thanx again

[mvetanen]

Thanks for this good information. I think what you are saying about immaturity in our relationships and in ourselves, leads to a lot of problems.

[gautham28880]

This is a very informative video.very professionally explained .i will recommended every the subscribe to it.

[eysofthewest]

great video i love the explaing its helped me so much i dont know what id have done if i hadnt found a video like this , well made video as well ,your clear in your speaking and you speak well to the audience . An easy choice to favourite and subribe to this one

[eysofthewest]

This is a great video nice one , great explaining

[olarrazvanioan]

this is maybe the most educating video about divorces i have ever seen. i allways said that the biggest problem in a relationship is comunication, and also that anything can be resolved. Where there`s a problem, there`s a solution. I know a couple that are divorcing right now, and i will recomand them this video. Nice work, very good video.

[TheRageOfGaia]

This was a very informative video, and honestly, that was the main thing that I liked about it. Your list was very clear, very straightforward, and very truthful. My only experience with marriage comes from observing those around me, and I don't think I have ever met a couple that communicates well. I think it's important for people to realize that it is a major issue. Kudos.

[prosen1973]

A good video that explains some of the reasons causing distress in marriages. As you point out, communication is important. However my feeling is that with communication, one should be mature enough to see marriage as a bigger responsibility and that mutual adjustment (or compromise if you prefer that word) is absolutely necessary. There ought to be active effort by both to get to properly understand and know each other. Ego is one thing that should not come in between a relation.

[2crzy2live]

Divorces rates are still pretty high. My parents' just got divorced recently. It made me think about stuff about them that what talked about in the video. Also, I think this will be great to talk to my boyfriend about money issue. We live with each other so we have handle our money well.

[lovespock]

What do you do if you communicate, but the problem is we just end up arguing?

[TwistedFatex13]

I was so surprised when he mentioned that most married couples only talk for a few minutes per day. It makes so much sense why people get divorced so often, if they only communicate that much. This video is quite helpful for learning about how to avoid marital breakup - he really knows his stuff.

[menomember]

I can attest to the point about not being mature enough to be married. I have seen two close friends marry young and as soon as any trouble came up, they were wanting out of the deal. They both did get divorced and really regretted jumping into marriage so quickly. Luckily, there were no children involved. I think this video is a great idea and may push some couples considering marriage to get pre-marital counseling. It could save someone a divorce down the road!

[AlCh1990]

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[jesisi67]

Great and informative video. I liked the communication part of the video it was very interesting to know that married couples barely even talk. I think that is probably the major reason why most couples divorce. Its probably why my parents divorced as well.

[BandaidQueen724]

I think the money reason is a big issue in marriage, more than most couples realize. Couples getting ready to get married might think that marriage is about romance, not money, but money is incredibly important in relationships. Communication is a good issue to address as well, but money is probably one that many people don't think about. Great video.

[clb49503]

Nice job Mr. Rosen...this was an informative video. I'm not one who's married or planning to get married but his advice will come in handy just in case, especially the bit about communication and addiction. I'll have to pass this along to my stepdad and mom. I know they could use it.

[Chris12LeakFan4Ever]

I really like the 5 main reasons for why couples divorce. The communication one was very interesting, I didn't know how few conversations happily married couples actually have. The money spending thing was also interesting, couples that have different ideas about money usually don't work, it is unfortunate that money plays such a big role in marriages today. I will use this advice when I decide to get married because I want to have a relationship like my parents and never get divorced.

[ankushuict]

The video speaks of different reasons why married people divorce. The life of my parents has been going rough for past two three years. Communication gap was the most influencing factor in relations between them as pointed out my Mr Rosen as one of the factors. And I was surprised to know that divorces can be settled out of court (as I am still not married how will I know about divorces?). This video makes me aware what I can try to do to avoid divorce.

[khushe31]

The reasons that you have listed for divorce are very true. I think this will help the couples to identify their problems and resolve them in time. The people can benefit from your video and bring peace in their married lives. I feel this is your experience and expertise in the field that I really appreciate.

[sonafreinds]

This is a quite informative video. I could recognize that the couples can have a good communication between them , so that they can avoid almost all the problem between them.Also disputes between the couples can affect their child's life. So a good communication at a good time can lead to a peacefull and happy life.Lee Rosen's pionts are very excellent and his way of approach is intresting.

[Gimmieafuckingnamee]

I found this video very informative in terms of the most common reasons people divorce. I think a major point Mr. Rosen pointed out was communication. The fact that so many married couples only have productive conversations for just a few minutes per day could cause extreme problems in a marriage as it forces the couple to go to outside sources for the much needed conversation - leaving the spouse feeling left out and eventually leading to divorce.

[adigupta19]

It's true but shocking to hear that marriages break because people can't give up their addictions, In my eyes no addiction is as important as marriage. Issues discussed in this video is very relevant and practical. Communication problem is too a major reason that causes breakups, sometimes we start thinking more negative than what actually it is. Full marks to Mr. Lee Rosen for covering these and other marriage breaking points nicely.

[tzukius]

Its true people have prolem this man mention in this video. Communication problems were main issue in divorce of my friend and his wife. I know also some people who divorced because people had problems with money and addiction. They diorced because one of the partners spent too much money on cigarets and most of the time they had low budget but she didnt stop her addiction.

[moontotheworld]

The video is very much informative.The speaker is very clear and legible .he makes us understand the concepts very well.Excellent information. Thanks. I had no idea that a divorce could be settled without ever going to court. I always thought a court appearance was required. I appreciate your help.

[runestoneone]

An amazing video! Who better to talk about the cause of divorce than a divorce lawyer? I never thought of the knowledge regarding the cause of divorce that a divorce lawyer must have. Even more amazing was it totally did not sound like a sales pitch, not even a little bit. I think this law firm may actually have a few lawyers that want to see people stay married or make better choices to start with.

[byseame]

This is a very good video. It was very informative. It gives and explains reasons for why marriages do not work. Many couples need to see this video. It will help them understand their relationship and also each other. If they have problems, this video can help them be aware of the reason behind it and possible solutions on how to fix it.

[mahtabvideos]

Thanks for making this video! I am so glad you mentioned addiction. Many people keep addiction a secret and no one really knows that this topic is a leading factor of divorce. It is really sad to see that happen to a couple. I really hope more people see this video and put some work into their marriage. Thanks for the advice Lee. I can't wait to check out your site.

[plalitha11]

The video is really awesome and much needed for the today's people. The first point by the author is great. the communication is the main one for every couple when its lacking then only the problem arise.the other tips are also very true about the reason for divorce many of us dont know about the counselling for these things. thanks for giving such a useful video.

[bobitube2008]

The information in this video must be very relevant, because it is coming from, obviously, someone with a lot of experience. I can agree that most of the marriages fail because of the lack of communication. Although, sometimes is very difficult to communicate with all that gathered anger inside, but it should be the first step to making things better.

[Necrobliterator]

this video reminds me of chunky peanut butter and my american idol spoof video. Very, very good.

[youdienowfool]

Finally i can get that divorce ive always wanted. Now i have several reasons to go to my wife with about our divorce. I have wanted a divorce from her for a long time but could never give her a reason. Now my day has finally come.

[faster9696]

I found this video to be very informative, and as a child of divorced parents I can say Lee is pretty accurate in the reasons for divorce. The common factor in many of the reasons he gives is just a lack of communication between partners. Solid communication will either take care of these problems, or allow them never to become a problems in the first place. Great video.

[REBrampage]

This video has been very helpful to me. My parents have been going through a rough patch and this video made me realize that it is because they are not communicating as much as they need to be. This was a really interesting video. Thanks for posting it. I was very useful.

[memphistiger121]

This video does explain why divorce happens and gives soon to be engaged people such as myself some warning signs to look out for during the engagement and early years of marriage. I agree with him completely when he states that a married couple need to communicate about money and there spending habits, and if there is a problem they both need to compromise on a solution and not just let money problems ruin what could be a great marriage.

[cookiemonstur7]

He has some great advice, I especially agree with the part about communication, I've seen a lot of people loose communication with each other in a relationship and this is when things go downhill. Also the control of wealth in a family greatly influences how long their relationship will last; I think this adds onto communication in then sense that if spending is not agreed upon then problems can arise. Lee Rosen is very informative and seems to have researched his facts greatly.

[sexxyjr]

There are couples who really need to see this video, As Lee Rosen said a marriage is all about a husband and wife reaching a compromise in matters of money and commitment. It is quite refreshing to see a divorce lawyer pointing out amicable ways for a marriage to succeed and a divorce diverted. We need more lawyers like him who are not looking out for themselves but the interests of their clients

[aks0309]

I would say that this video is very helpful for people who are married or who are going to get married as it emphasizes the 5 causes that cause an unsuccessful marriage. Lack of communication before or after marriage is very necessary and if two partners are able to communicate well I think all the matters would get sorted out with time. Counseling can also do wonders as said by Mr. Rosen.

[ccmarr]

This is a great video full of useful information. If you are having any marriage problems, I highly suggest you watch this video. I learned a lot from it and I am sure you will too.

[mirnutz]

Like Lee Rosen says in the video, Communication and Commitment are very important in a relationship. In todays world when the word Divorce has become a common term, very few people try and make their relationships work. Here Lee speaks of getting professional help to try and save a marriage. Lee also speaks of the site where one can find the right counselor as well. This video is very informative for a lot of couples out there. Keep up the good work Lee.

[mybigimagination]

This is a really cool post.. People should read "Leadership & Self Deception" This is a great book that will help people get through things like these. Check it out!

[marigoldml]

As a law student, I have a particular interest in amicable divorces. Your video gave lots of great reasons why people divorce. The information was really helpful, and I hope to put this to use when I go into practice. I can't wait for more videos!

[amr000897]

this is a really informative video which aims at enlightening people about divorce.during these times people are really mentally disturbed and depressed.its good to know they have a friendly shoulder to cry on.and for taking right decisions inthose times this video helps them out.nice work lee.

[nightje]

Lee Rosen provides some good information on why people divorce ! We all know communication and interaction is key in any relationship !

View this video and discover what you can do to help your marriage by actually listening to your partner and really interact !

After watching this video i finally realized i also should have better communication with my partner and guess what our relationship is better than ever these days

[shangy007]

Great advice given by the video. This will help in solving many marriage problems. Interaction with each other will help in reducing the number of divorces. This video will be of great importance for the people who are thinking about divorce. And also a lawyer is the best person to avoid in such cases. Keep up the good work!!

[booklover0871]

This is a really wonderful video. Your tip about communication is really great and important. People can save their marriage if they get to communicate with in a positive manner with their spouse. I agree that visiting a counsellor would be a great idea as this would really help those partners who are not on talking terms with each other. This video is a great help for people who are going for a divorce.

[ocanada133]

This is an excellent video. The information Lee provided about communication was insightful. I was surprised about the lack of communication he witnessed between couples. I completely agree with his money differences. My first wife and I divorced. I was a saver and she was a spender. It just didn't work well. Overall a good video from an experienced man

[adreamnotforgotten]

this is good information. communication is a big thing, sometimes, it gets more about daily responsibilities, than actual conversation, so it is hard to keep your communication the same. It can definitely hurt a relationship. and disagreements money too. i agree. thank you for the info.

[solowpoet]

Hey,You guy's and Gal's Better listen up ,this is some really great info.,Not to mention it's free of charge. Mr.Lee made some pretty solid points as we all know communication is a vital part of the survival of any knew or old relationship.I myself just recently made it threw a ruff stretch with a nasty divorce,and my lawyer wasn't as helpful as this video... thanks Lee !

[zodiactorzan]

it's good advice, probably the best free advice you'll get from a lawyer. I always thought a court appearance was required. I appreciate your help

[purplegengar]

In a way it's kind of ironic that a divorce lawyer is giving advice about how to keep the lines of communication open and avoid divorce. You'd think that if less people get divorced that's less business, lol. Seriously though, it's good advice, probably the best free advice you'll get from a lawyer.

[DmndD9]

Hey Lee, really great video! It's really cool that you want to help people resolve the issues and help them understand the real root of the problems. I know sometimes divorce has to happen (with violence and such), but you have really good ideas for people who just may not understand the big picture.

Take care!