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    In December 2011 Deborah acheived her 11th number 1 with "If It wasn't for Love"

    Cox currently lives in Miami, Florida. She is married to her high school sweetheart and manager, Lascelles Stephens.[4] They have three children: son, Isaiah and two daughters, Sumayah and Kaila Michelle [5]

  • where are you D. Cox we are missing your music

  • Love this ol' jam........Love Deborah Cox! Where'd she go?

  • I love this video!

  • this was my shit man in junior high ahhh man wooow i loved she had janet danvcers in the back deb u betta saanng

  • Words Matter!

  • Lol...wasn't there a better looking or better dressed guy back then to star in her video

  • Forgot about this song. Was this song originally written for or written by Toni Braxton. It has that Toni Braxton vibe to it.

  • I love all of Deborah's songs. Such a diva and the voice!

  • Dawg on VEVO! What is it with these commercials? I just want to see the video!

  • damn girl had forgot about you ,glad i found you

  • yes flex used to be a video man back in the day. lol i used to love this video when i was 5yrs old i used to do the dance when they do dancing in the street. lol arent them the same girl dancers that used to dance for janet jackson in 1993??

  • @glassbikes they are...I recognized Tina Landon, Janet's choreographer and dancer :)

  • I love this song!

    What's the boyfriends's real name?

  • @kork37 flex alexander is his name

  • i miss the 90s, wea people wore clothes on vidios lol

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  • DANCERS were real women... not what we see now

  • Does anyone know the name of the (white) girl @ 2:49 ? I just can't find it! :(

  • i miss this sort of music especially songs that actually had story's to them not like nowadays when there's just women dancing round practicably naked to a shit beat that has no meaning.. bring back the 90's!!!!

  • Super tendência no meu passado, hehehehe!!! =]

  • my damn song!!

  • hahhaha " take your earings off"

  • I HATE VEVO ..

  • Classic

  • these are the video have miss~!

  • classic

  • im missin the old 90s R&B the days with Aaliyah 212 TLC BrownStone MJB and others

  • they promise! NEKMINNIT ARSEHOLES

  • ffs! i hate guys hu ar like this !! guys like ths ar fuckn selfish bastards!

  • To all the guys that are like this all i gotta say is " FUCK YOU!!" LOL

  • Reminds me of older soul days Tina Turner she looks like Michele Obama.

  • eh eh, this song needs to get a one remix. Going something like, "if you really dont want me den gwan bout your bumba hole business"

  • Tuneeeeeeeee!!!

  • Man Tina, Shawn, Kelly and Nikki.. this takes me back. AND TISH!! whatever happened to Tish? I miss that group. Used to call them the Dynasty of dance troops. I miss Deborah too. When singing was real... sighs.

  • Adoro esse vídeo.Deborah Cox está muito bonita.

    Voz poderosa e uma das melhores canções dos anos 90.

    Coreografia maravilhosa e uma presença em cena perfeita.

    Deborah Cox - superstar.

  • Stupid flipping commercials!

  • Classic 90s jam!

  • 90'S IS THE BEST

  • @CaramelLitegloss dam i see Monica in this song lol

  • she makes an appearance at the end of the video from about 3:48 on, with a close up at 3:48 :)

  • @LoyalBrit....Appreciate the info....Adore Paula~

  • on the next episode of "the meddlin broads without men..."

  • thumbs up for Michelle obama

  • ~ Love this video re: the dance moves are modern and fitting for today....I wonder if Janet Jackson choreographed this video wouldn't surprise me....Love it~

  • @theeetruthseeker - Janet Jackson didn't choreograph anybody. PAULA ABDUL choregraphed Janet Jackson...and practically everyone else in the 90's!!!

  • @LoyalBrit Paula choreographed Janet for a small time in the 80's. Tina Landon did all of Janets memorable dance moves thorughout the 90's and beyond. As well as everyone else's. As you can see from this video. Everyone wanted Janets dancers.

  • Where's Tina Landon?

  • love itttttttttttttttt

  • dam theyre nt the most fashionable time in r and b but the groove and soul was tight and in check..thats what music is missin these days..not tight lycra all the time and shaking ur bum cheeks for all to see.

  • GREAT track!!

  • Man, all of the world's greatest conflicts are always solved with dance-offs....

  • man...i'm stil wanting to sing like her !lmao

  • I use to sing to this song in the shower.It use to drive my boyfriend at the time crazy.We are marrried now.

  • This ain't George Thorogood.

  • THUMBS UP FOR 1990s R&B CONCEPT VIDEOS. THEY ALL WERE ON THIS TIP.

  • my jamn that used to be real music right there better than todays crap.

  • Song suffers from severe lack of cobra snake necktie and houses made of rattlesnake hide.

  • Man I miss 90's R&B music, music that made sense, and music that told stories. All I know is that Deborah, Tamia, and Kelly NEED to get back together and finish The Queen Project and bring true R&B back ASAP!!

  • lmao i love how dey got flex wasington n dis vid hes a funny man great song... dis bump

  • they had the best songs in the 90's but not the best dancing lol

  • i miss debra. she def. needs to come back and send some of these nonsingers packing...keri hilson anyone?

  • @MegaTyte99 kheri can sing

  • yes yes yes..now this is the jam..where did she go??

  • she has a great voice she coulda been the next whitney houston if she was out

  • @tjchataol they were in 'U want this' and 'thats tha way love goes'

  • OMG been looking for this song many years now... made my day thnxxx

  • She can pass for michelle obama's sister.

  • @TheNefilimSirius Deborah is Actually good Looking...

  • Hahaha...thought I was the only one who loved and loves this song!!! I learnt how to dance to this one lol!

  • i got to get her cd. hehe

  • still love this song, she has an amazing voice !!

  • deborah cox want's to ask flex alexander who do you love cause she slept alone and stayed at home for the first time sense you beeb gone baby.

  • wow i miss the 90"s, never thought i'd say that... but today's music is just shit..

  • I was in love with her :)

  • yeah, not quite as good as Juicy Lucy - Who Do You Love. ;-)

  • this would still be a hit today

  • i love this song sooooooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhh

  • love this song. good ol song jam! hehe "why you trippin???" lol

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  • Don't forget Tina Landon!! She's in the video too and she Choreography this video

  • love the dance nd the song

  • love the dance

  • double tittie grab 1.53

  • i ♥ dis song

  • if i had a man like Flex and he cheated i would be angry bu il get over it.... he is soooo HOT lol Shanice girl you so lucky, I didnt realise she sang this ... also how come the girl pronounces her name as Debra?????????? TUNE

  • Lmaooooooooooooooooo Look a flex !!!!

  • Man I been feelin this way for a couple of months tears... im really feelin this song but you put a smile on my face at baltimores pride i thank u so much :)

  • Love this fucken songggg!!!!

  • MY GIRLS: TISH, SHAWNETTE, KELLY, TINA, AND NICKI...(Janet's dancers!)

  • @WeLoveJanetJackson I thought they looked familiar..i love those dancers

  • I saw her live today!!!! She was gorgeous!

  • I LOVE THIS SONG I BET HE WISH I DIDN'T CHEAT ON HER NOW I

  • Awesome Song.. Love how she always has add emotions when she sings.. We need songs like this today..Wish she would come and make another album.

  • Flex Alexander is bettter now one of the few Brothers actually like . Very fist time saw Flex was in this video. Bring back Ms Cox she is brilliant.

  • Why are they trying to turn rnb into techno? It's so annoying!

  • i have this on bebo its awsome

  • She had the original rachael (jennifer aniston) hairstyle before it was hijacked

  • My sister recorded this music video on the VCR, and rewinded it CONSTANTLY

  • when you could dance and not be naked*

  • love this jam so much

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  • i miss the 90's music videos. It has a true story, now adays it's them behind a microphone. Music videos is about the story of the song, not like Lady Gaga's weird, doesn't even make sense videos.

  • one of my favorite songs from her!!

  • me gusta mucho esta cancion y el video es muy refrescante como pra escucharlo cuando uno se recien levanta x la mañana.no soy fans de deborad pero apenas la estoy conociendo y me parece super de hecho me gusta mucho su tema your part es muy ambientosa y rebuena ya estoy adicto a ese tema

  • the chicks who play her friends i would wear their outfits still the people who came later stuff was ugly

  • i love this music ppl even tho its old i cant help it coz new music sucks its all e music u need an e tablet 2 dance 2 the shit its all hard core dance shit remixes

  • Ahhh! This use to be my wish :D

  • With singing as good as this why is she barely known ?

  • OMG they are Janet's dancers aren't they..never knew that..until now..i knew i seen Shawnette..but now i see Tish and Kelly.. I wonder what happened to Tish?

  • miss these times, not all the clothes tho! /

  • lovee ehtt :D not from this generation :D but absolutley love the music in this era <3

  • Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan this song use to be my "JAM" back in the day and till this day I still know the words LOL.

  • @2002Danniegirl LOL I just said the same Maaaaaan and this was my Jam about Up & Down. Too funny to see your comment 5 mins later about this song

  • @2002Danniegirl me too

  • Love it the days when women had each other backs lol...woohoo for the womanzz

  • FLEX know he a fine mutherfucker!!!!!!!!

  • FLEX know he is a fine mutherfucker!!!!!!!!

  • I swear the streets and buildings are so similar to Christina Aguilera's video for 'Cant Hold Us Down' and Mary J. Blige's 'Love @ 1st Sight'

  • this is my theme song right now

  • awesome song

  • It looks to me that the quality of popular music went to shyte when people started wearing low-rise jeans....

  • JANET'S DANCERS!!

  • @nicolemonrue I already knew who choreographed it as soon as I saw Shawnette and Nikki.

  • what a monster of a song, powerful melody, good beat, good vocals, and it takes you right back to 96 when it was frequently on pop radio, great music, great singer, never gets old! :-)

  • this was early 90s right? terrific?

  • ilove it whodo u love

  • I am really jammin over here...where is Deborah!! Bring us some good music girl.

  • I forgot how beautiful her voice is.

  • For anyone who ever felt unwanted and ignored for life because someone lied

  • You guys taught me something!  I didn't know the dancers are "Janet Jackson's Dancers".!!!!

  • I found my cassette single of this song the other day.lol

  • hey it's one of those wayans brothers :P

  • This girl is Hot!!

  • I've always loved this video! The song is awesome.....look at Flex looking all young. He's matured a lot!

  • she used Janet's dancers in this video

  • @solito801 you noticed that too who could forget janets dancers huh lol!

  • @solito801 I notice that from the beginning and I saw Tina Landon(Janet's old choreographer) in the background.

  • damn@ i want my 90s back!! wah wah 

  • She has one of the greatest voices of all time. Up there with Whitney and Mariah. Very powerful I love her. We can't be friends is probably my favorite song of hers. Damn I miss 90s R&B.

  • i listened to this song endlessly for 2 days straight when my ex fiance broke my heart in 1997...

  • Kind of funny that he Married Singer Shanice in real life....I always thought of Shanice and Deborah like Brandy and Monica or Britney and Christina...

  • the best R&B music i ever listen the 90s R&B i grewed up in the late 90s and i end up listening to her songs i missed it so much

  • @ibm615o: you lucky lol. and what was the code again?

  • Mann, i miss these days. I was about 14 when this song came out. This is when music actually meant something

  • WISH TO TURN BACK THE HANDS OF TIME..WHEN  ARTISTS SING WITH PASSION NOT NOWADAYS...I WISH

  • my beborah cox with guyanese roots girl i,m so proud of u,.

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  • I used to be pressed when somebody ordered this on the box back in the day. Go Deborah

  • @dancinstarr10 you know whats more pressed? I still remember the 3 digit number to dial when requesting this video on The Box. lol

  • @ibm615o : LOL DAMN. GOOD MEMORIES HUH?

  • @dancinstarr10 they sure are. got a big autographed poster from her (with my name on it) from about 14 years ago too lol

  • i cnt believe hw flex alexander'z hair wuz lukkin n thiz video!!! lol. bt then again tht wuz th a style bck then!!! lol. alzo wen he wuz on tht 1 epizode uv "sister, sister". :-).

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  • Omyg...I Hav3nt H3ard This Song Snc3 I Wuz Lik3 8 Itz B3en Ova 10 Y3arz I Lov3 Diz JoiNt<---Lol

  • CLASSIC!!!

  • I just realized at least 4 of Janet Jackson's dancers were in that video

  • @songbird143 hmmm thats why there is a touched of MJ steps into it... i loved the clips though... loved Deb too... great artist!

  • @songbird143 all of them were janet dancers from the janet.tour

  • @songbird143 the 4 females dancer

  • @leo469nw I see Kelly Konno, Shawnette Heard and Nikki Pantenburg for sure. i think there are like 2 others that have danced for Janet at one point or another

  • @songbird143 @songbird143 Tish Oliver (janet. era, in the grey sweater) and Tina Landon (comes in at the dance sequence near the end, in the black floral top with the short hair), who was Janet's choreographer back in the day.

  • What i love the most about this video are seeing the black stars i grew up with ... you know the ones that could actually act? lol

  • dayum we had sum good music in the 90's

  • im young but ya have a point

  • Flex is so sexy :)

  • NIKI,WITH THE BROWN PANTS HAS A BABY WITH BABYFACE EDMUNDS,LOG ONTO "WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE" BY DEBORAH COX,I WONDER IF SHES RELATED TO BRIAN MICHAEL COX THE PRODUCER? AWESOME SONG AWESOME CHOREOGRAPHY.

  • THE LOVE INTEREST OF DEBORAH IS "FLEX ALEXANDER" HES A FORMER STAND UP COMADIAN FROM THE 90'S HE USE TO HAVE HIS OWN COMEDY SHOW,HE'S MARRIED TO SINGER "SHANIECE" SONG "I LUV YOUR SMILE" SOME OF THE DANCERS ARE FORMER JANET JACKSON BACK UP DANCERS,I SEE TISH,NIKI,AND TINA LANDON,JANETS CHOREOGRAPHER,THE BROWN SKIN GUY WIT THE CURLY HAIR IS ALSO A DANCER/CHOREOGRAPHER HE CAN BE SEEN IN "BRANDY'S VIDEO "BABY BABY"THE SPANISH LOOKING CHICK WITH THE LONG CURLY HAIR IS NIKI,ENGAGED 2 "BABYFACE EDMUND

  • OMG!!!! This was my jam when this first came out. I recorded it on my VHS, learned the dance and did it everyday, practically all day. I probably still remember the dance. The good ol' days.