Dating Rules # 6: Find Your Energetic Match

[therealcraig5]

Crys be really carefull talking to 'whothehellgivesadamn..this guy is a total womanizer who admittingly uses women for only one thing and thinks thats all they're good for. He is a total pig and not who u want to listen to..he finds most people boring because he is BORING. Liferegen and I are totally cool, no problems. This dude talks in all caps cause no one wants to pay him any attention & looks like a baboons ass. Take care and stay away from this loser

[therealcraig5]

@whothehellgivesadamn are you kidding me? this coming from the KING of trolls who talks in CAPITALS & goes around youtube leaving long insulting speeches. You are the full blown clown you jackass..i had a respectful conversation with Crys, you on the other hand are on here calling her 'sweety' and dissing women!! Get a life you loser. Im happily married with kids, u on the other hand state most women are good for one night & are boring, that makes u a dead beat so BITE ME :)

[sybillaw]

Amen, sister. To all of it!

[SkittlezAddict4Eva]

What you said at 3:23 is the same as me, i'm very picky on who i keep close to me too :) I like this vid it pretty much summed up everything i think and feel, thank you :) xx Please keep more vids coming, i like this energy stuff 'intuitive' i think you said :S Please speak more of this stuff :)

[therealcraig5]

You said in this video, that ur not just talking about dating but anyone who brings you down is "bye bye'. Anyway, I said what i think & ur entitled to your opinion. I do pick up contradictions in what ur saying but hey. Thanks for the chat. Bye bye.

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 -- the video is called "dating rules" for a reason --- that's what i was referring to. anybody who thinks i judge people and discard them based on their energy doesn't know me at all, and is unfamiliar with the type of work that i do. so, while you sense contradictions and that is fine --- i heartily disagree. but be well! no animosity, thanks for your input. :)

[accordingtolive]

@therealcraig5 I think you're misinterpreting her video. There is a BIG difference between someone who is "having a bad day" and someone who exists in negative energy. You can always understand a persons energy, too, via the fruits of their lifestyle. We all have bad days and we all need a shoulder to lean on at times, but if you find yourself having to emotionally bear someone else's existence, you're constantly being the one to pull them out of their pity party.. "To the left to the left."

[therealcraig5]

I get that if a person was hurt alot in their life, that they would become very guarded of their heart & energy. The point is, that we all go through tough times, change & growth, & it takes a real friend to be there & be supportive. Its possible to be there & have boundaries. I feel that you have been through alot & now that ur at a better place, youre overly protective. Be careful to no judge. A person may have a negative energy one day & feel better the next, its not up to u to label them.

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 -- but your'e talking about friendship again. place the video in the proper context; it concerns considering a mate or life partner, also preliminary considerations -- not considerations one would make after being in an established relationship. fact is, everybody has their own nature, it doesn't mean you have to MARRY or fall in love with someone with an opposing nature simply so as not to "judge" them. i think discrimination and discernment is good, all day long. 

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 --- as for me being hurt, well, yes, i've been divorced twice, a lot of pain comes with that. but i'm in a good place. more solid than ever before. and yes, i do think it's probably wise that i take my time and vet people -- not out of some dysfunction or fear, but because it strikes me as wise and prudent. i should note (and will in the future) that i am exceedingly grateful for both good husbands --- and without them, would not be where i am today. nothing but love. :)

[therealcraig5]

I understand what ur saying about harmful energy, what i dont agree with is the idea of neglecting people in our life who are going through hardship, that would be selfish. Im sure during your hardtimes in ur life, you appreciated having a positive friend around, can u imagine if they ditched u cause u were harming their vibration! that would suck. Its ok to have a path but we live in a world where there is yin & yang no one is in a positive bubble all the time. Acceptance is key.

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 -- but we're talking about dating, right? we're talking about making choices concerning who to partner with in a love relationship --- not children, friends, family members who are down on their luck. that's different. i have plenty of friends who are doing their own work and are in their own place ... i would never consider neglecting them, ever. but if i'm considering a man for a love relationship? he's got to at least be able to match me in this way. ...

[whothehellgivesadamn]

@MissShineBright OH MY GOD SWEETHEART, YOU'RE TALKING TO REALCRAIG5, THE GUY IS A FULL BLOWN CLOWN TROLL...I'VE SEEN HIM TROLL ON DAN THE LIFEREGENERATOR'S CHANNEL, HE'S A REAL DRAG...ANYWAY SWEETY..YEA, IT'S NOT ABOUT GAME OR ANY OF THAT CRAP, ITS JUST ABOUT FINDING SOMEONE THAT WORKS FOR YOU..IN CONVERSATION OR SILENCE OR IN BED IDEALLY....IN MY CASE, I'M EXTREMELY ADVANCED AND GOOD LOOKING AND I FIND MOST PEOPLE BORING...SO I PASS ON MOST GIRLS BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO USE THEM AND DUMP THEM

[whothehellgivesadamn]

@MissShineBright I SEE YOU'VE GOT A LOT OF ENERGY AND YOU'RE FUN....SO YOU HAVE A REAL CHALLENGE....MOST GUYS ARE SIMPLY GOING TO BE BORING COMPARED TO YOU...SO YOU'VE GOT MORE OF A SELECTION CHALLENGE THEN A COMMUNICATION CHALLENGE...ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU MAY JUST WANT A GUY WHO IS A NICE DILDO...WHO KNOWS....ANYWAY, FROM A VERY ATTRACTIVE GUY'S PERSPECTIVE....MOST GIRLS ARE BORING...THEY'RE NICE IN BED FOR LIKE A NIGHT OR TWO AND THEN THEY BECOME A REAL DRAG..SELECTIVITY IS THE CHALLENGE

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 --- so, i don't know that we're disagreeing. i think, simply, that the context is different. and also, let me say, if i MARRY a guy and he takes a turn for the negative or whatever -- i will absolutely stay there and work that out with him and be there for him. but i don't want a project. i am my own project and believe me that's enough work! :) and someone who brings me down? yeah...no can do. periodically is one thing, but as a rule? he's negative? NOPE. do not pass go.

[therealcraig5]

I get what ur trying to say however I think its still judgemental & a bit arrogant. You had times in life when things were rough & your 'energy' might have been low, should everyone in your life have abandoned u because they didnt want u to bring them down?? Everyone goes through tough times, should they just be left out? according to your rule, you may end up with no friends since ur so protective of your 'space' & 'path'. Of all people, u should know better! those people need love too.

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 -- they absolutely need love! they just don't need it with me. i absolutely could have brought someone down in the past (or even currently?) and have absolutely been derailed by the energies of a negative person. the concept of being "equally yoked" is a very old one and i think it dovetails rather nicely with what i am saying here. if someone hateful is in a relationship with someone loving --- what happens to the loving one? or the hateful one? lots of wheel spinning.

[MissShineBright]

@therealcraig5 --- also, energy can absolutely be "felt" or experienced. we've all felt it, somebody walking into the room CHANGES the energy or vibration in the room. MANY times that actual energy can be damaging and harmful if we are exposed to it. i don't think there's anything wrong in the least with being discriminating with who you allow to influence you. i think it's pretty wise, but i do thank you for your input. :)