Should I Act On My Threesome Fantasy?

[sweetguy410]

have yall done a vlog about people who are bisexual, pansexual or polysexual(born with ability to really love 2 or more people at same time) and polygamy/polyandry/polyamory?

[wilksman]

people are too hard on Jen and Dan as they are not posting video's as professional therapists. What they are doing is bringing issues to the table that many people have. Not everyone is into the lifestyle and that is fine, but makes you think your opinions or beliefs are the only acceptable ones? Couples who have engaged in this lifestyle have often times strengthened their relationships and for those who had problems, chances are they were going to have problems anyway down the line

[hotdrumchick]

If you're gonna do a 3-way, both of you have to be very secure and trust each other. I did with my bf and a mutual male friend.many years ago A few weeks after, my (ex) bf started making little comments about how much he thought I enjoyed our friend more than him, asking me if I would do it again with the friend, stuff like that. I got tired of trying to convince him that I wanted HIM, and that what we did was a one-time thing, so eventually we broke up.

[WizardKing78]

The best possible advice for any man who wants a threesome is to avoid marriage or longterm relationships. That way you can have a threesome any time you want, without having to ask permission from your partner.

[reggaetoncalle]

is jen Bi sexual??????

[manyblings]

damn look at that bald spot...he has a toilet seat head!

[61085987]

man this couple is creepy,especially him.

[OMFGsf]

hell no... if you love your partner you will never do a threesome.... either he or she

[acerockstar69]

This is a bad idea. If she chooses to do this it should be with a people that she doesnt know and use protection. But other than that I think that its disgusting that this is even a subject worth dicussing. This is also the reason that soo many men cheat on there wives. Women are free with themselves and have no moral value anymore. The world has gone to hell in a hand basket. (as grandma used to say)

[gersboy4life]

why not try this out im sure all swingers will love it i know myself how much it costs to get on a swingers site where they cost you an arm and a leg not any more go to supersexyswingers+com

[alaitain]

i like group sex male and female. its fun. opened minded and trust each other. sharing is a good thing. i see nothing wrong with 3some and more. its all you know and how sharing and opend your are.

[VanceMendoza]

Free-ends

XD at Jenn's accent

[UTo098]

"come on we are all grown ups" are afraid not mate

[darkmiststjerne]

And don´t push it if you wanna try it again! Its their relationship, not yours.

[ianingersoll321]

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[bigboyvernon]

Not recommended! A man of integrity, who is interested in the longevity of his marriage, would turn it down.

[darkmiststjerne]

BULLSHIT! Thats only if your relationship isnt strong enough!

[ThewZ]

hi and tnx for sharing this clip dude.

i know for sure there are more out there (flirtycams, org) for be sure

[loroanno]

Not all guys want to see the mother of their children poofing with another women. It's called morals. Yes I know it's old fashioned these days but at least it's decent.

[Flipper79able]

nice bald spot

[disarray09]

wow you wanna do it with your friends wooow thats pretty wierd

[300tunes]

ohh and one thing i got to say girls^^never be scared to ask a guy to have sex or any sexual activity girls you can just say wanna fuck and the guy would be like yes:D

[smalldickie]

@300tunes the penis always says yes to the pussy!

[300tunes]

TRue that bro!

[roybmx2k8]

omg i read tht comment and thought itsaid 13

[69Bluntsmoka420]

My goal in life is to have a threesome and get two straight girls who are best friends to eat each other out.

[jpeel132]

damn right

[FelixRockyRicardo]

sad life

[rockleex1000]

I have simular thoughts.. with guy though =D

[acadusle]

I'm a thirty-year-old woman. Recently I have started a terrible experience. When I am having sex, in the moment of my orgasm, my throat closes and I cannot breathe for a long time. Last time was scary because I spent more than 30 minutes with my throat completely closed and every 1 or 2 minutes I could take a big breath and again it closed. I felt like I was going to die; my partner gave me mouth-to-mouth respiration and I survived. I am really scared about having an orgasm again.

[dartmann110]

go to an hospital O_o

[thebluesrockers]

try getting some med. from the store for your lungs. you may have a respiratory infection.

[savjo728]

Why did u post that here??? GO TO A GYNY!

[junkie4vids]

Remember this little rhyme to guide your decision:

If it is two and with you, then we have something to do.

If it is three and for free, then it is for me.

If it is four with a whore, then I am out the door.

[Angrybeaver1988]

Dont worry bout asking the guy. If he says no you can be sure hes gay.

XD

[partyprash2000]

lol, im not interested in a threesome

lol

[CRAZYHORSENYC]

I have always been lucky. I have always been with women who were open to threesomes. Even if they were not bi-sexual, they were open to atleast participating in it. Threesomes/Threeways a great! I think it adds alot of spice to your sex life !!

[CUtELiLBRAt90]

idk what to do with my situation? i have a bf and we've been happily together for years already,i have a friend we know(shez dated girls before also) and i always think about having a 3some and ive mentioned it before to my bf a few times already kinda seems like hes not 2 hot about it his reaction was stunned like 8) but that was it i feel like i want it more or sumthing then i think if we all do i dont wanna worry about what if they do stuff behind my back thinkin its ok to cheat?

[johnnypav]

You guys are correct in every way. Really good advice. I say that as a registered professional counsellor! xx

[shraggreg]

ur to pretty for that ugly fucker

[harleymaster63]

I was married to a bi lady for ten years until one of her lovers introduced her to hard drugs. She turned mean and wanted a divorce. She got it.

We had fun with the threesomes until she started having problems admitting that she enjoyed what she was doing. I left it up to her. It was part of her make-up but it caused her a good deal of trama that she had those type of desires.

We did have open discussions about her needs. After the divorce she wound up with a cute little blonde.

[LateKnight347]

dont do it with your friends lady. too many fealings

[riftalope]

As long as the bi or not bi question is talked about before anything happens, you should be fine. I've had a straight threesome and found out later the other guy was bi. He said he didn't try me cause he knew I'm not bisexual. I thanked him for that.

[jeannie0007]

he's funnuy

[Brilyantee]

I would say if all adults consent, then go for it but it s should be a voluntary choice. Some people believe in monogamy but not everyone does, it is up to those people involved and their consesus!

[Jayjen35]

even take a threesome with her thrown in on the side?!

And what if she agrees only because she feels that the two of you have sort of "ganged up" on her? Or what if she does it because she's afraid of what her man will do if she turns it down?

Bottom line, its an intrusion on their relationship. Why not try talking with a single friend that has a male friend who would like the idea? It is far less likely to be awkward than involving yourself in your friend's relationship. My 2 cents!

[Jayjen35]

Bad idea. Very bad idea.

Has your friend ever mentioned to you that she would like to have a threesome? Has she ever said that she would want an open or polyamorous relationship?

If not, both you AND and her husband/boyfriend bringing it up might well seem as though the two of you already have at least a very serious flirtation going on. And if she says no, will she really be able to see you as her friend? Or will she see you as the woman that is so desperate for her man that she'd

[tmf1977]

It would greatly depend on the views of this girl's two friends. I would drop hints and joke around to feel things out to see how the two friends would react. However not everyone takes sex with a grain of salt so to speak. I know some people who have engaged in threesomes and were able to remain as friends and others who have not spoken to each other since. As long as all three people are open minded and its a fling, just sexual, no harm can really be done.

[santichrist]

You people are terrible at advice, this is the fourth or fifth video I've seen where you've given completely ignorant advice to people seeking help. Stop doing it. You aren't qualified and you definitely aren't wise enough to be soliciting yourselves in a position of knowledge.

[DanAndJenn]

Hi there. What would you advise in this situation?

You don't have to agree with us, but please provide something constructive to the conversation...

[Jez2008UK]

Dan and Jenn, I definitely agree with santichrist here 100%. You are NOT qualified.

What I detected from the letter is that they are ALL good friends who LOVE each other AS friends.

I don't deny that the born again person should live life (absolutely) - go for a 3some but NOT with your best friends.

Totally also agree with Jayjen35 that it's a VERY bad idea for exactly the same reasons.

Sorry , but as the other poster says, you really MUST stop giving advice like this and go do smthng else.

[2DaCheapChimp]

@DanAndJenn ...penis can be destructive...

[StarryKid22]

I think if you have to ask someone else whether to do it or not, then uhh... DUH that's yourself basically saying, "I shouldn't do this but I'll ask someone else to justify it for me anyway."

Call me the rogue psyhologist.

[500019579]

Hey, I wouldn't go for it... not a good idea lol. Long term effects even if they say they are cool with it. Bad effects that is lol.

[StarryKid22]

You mean like VD?

[500019579]

Well.. not just STI's but i'm talking emotional long term effects haha. Where is the trust that your partner won't go out ny him or herself with that other person who joined in. Not cool! I don't know how some people can't be satisfied with one person.. you will have a much happier life that way... and yes, this is my own opinion, but I'm sure alot of people would share the same opinion with me lol.

[MacBooksToHandrail]

honestly, i have a super steady girlfriend, i wouldnt go for it, thats just me

[BobDoleismyBitch]

Threesomes are only good if they are between three singles, like a guy and two girls who are best friends...best summer ever :)

[stevecash83]

I would never intrude in another couple's relationship. If even another woman wanted to have a threesome with me and my girl, I would never, it would ultimately be like cheating to her and I. I dont think it's about being an adult and having fun, its about being loyal. I don't want another man's dick in my lover just as she doesn't want my having pleasure with another woman. Its wrong.

Threesomes are for relationships that lack actual LOVE.

[Thystonius]

That is one way to look at it and that is fine.

You define a relationship as something like man - woman and nothing can come in between. There are people who define a relationship differently.

[RushYesCrimson]

@stevecash83

Well stated!! That is the absolute truth!

[MoralHazardous]

she has an annoying voice

[joroma77]

"part of being a grown-up"? Yeah, like these two are grown-ups...

[joroma77]

The world is a madhouse.

[omgstoptakingnames]

threesomes are for ruining relation ships, only do it when your single.

[stevecash83]

Thank you!

[vermonofdeceit]

imma guy and i would never have a threesome if my guy-friend was involved,that would just be awkward,the only 3some i would EVER be into would be with 2 girls

[smashballbrawler]

ITS SEX NOT A LOAN! jk... i know horrible joke

[Hayk1991]

if you do it your not going to get anything at all. Usaly the girls come 2 u. Mostly best friends "females" best friends like the same guy i think this is the only way unless u find 2 hoes and pay them. Then for get it

[UbaBalouza]

DONT DO THIS !

Of course 3some is awesome but don't do this. They are a couple, they love each other. Do you really wan't to take a chance of messing that up ?

If you wan't to have a threesome there are plenty of people you can have it with i'm sure.

DONT DO THIS WITH!

Oh ok do whatever you want.. :)

[livelifesledge]

i dont know

[bodmondude]

These people arent even experts, i could give better suggestions and not make fun of the person asking the question.

[nmelocolombia]

Then by all means, please do. What would YOU suggest?

[panamapaul706]

they are right just bring it up jokingly at first and if everyone is wasted it is much easier. easier for you to get the balls to bring it up and easier for the girls to give in to your beautiful technique

[LMedley02]

I used to be the third person in a marriage. It was so much fun.I am now in a relationship now for about 8 years and we have brought up having a threesome but we cant find a girl that we can trust. Some girls end up falling in love or go and tell you personal life to everyone.But I am all for licking pussy but don't ask me to sleep with 2 guys!!

[megaead69]

i just came on teh jkeyboard and i had a hooker like the cum off the board

[boy6974]

I'll never forget my first 3-some. On the way to a good friends place like 30 min. from my house he bust out with "Will you sleep with my girlfriend?" I said I can do that and from there it was a fuck frenzy! Although afterwords I swear there was a silence in the room. Might have been my 8 inch cock I dont know.

[engeldestotes]

I did one, everybody was just chill. No awkward no silence. Plan on hanging out again.

[piasladic]

FAIL

[WiPTornado]

Get them drunk first, got it.

Do I also put drugs in their drink?

[poorcku]

LOL! :/

[livelifesledge]

haha

[seeker6797]

I've done it a couple of times. We knew the other person well and it was very enjoyable. It comes down to can I handle the emotion afterwards. We did and our sex life took off!!!! Our friend did come by again and we rocked the bedroom. We didn't pick a stranger we picked someone we both liked. It can work out you just have to be open, safe, and be clear and up front.

[kiploca88]

if im in a serious relationship i wouldnt even think about a 3some...i dont like sharing...and if the guy brought it up id dump him...put it these way guys what if your girl told u she wanted a 3sum with u n ur best guy friend?

[PiercingKnight]

People have to be secure for this stuff it's not for everyone. I mean there is no right answer yes or no for everyone, some people are secure some are jelous, u know what i mean.

[ts70732]

actually, that did happen. And it was awesome. We had ablast. We weren't drunk,high, anything and it was a great time. I guess you have to be comfortable and not prone to jealousy? We are still best friends and I'm still married to the same woman. It is possible if you are able to be open and honest about the situation.

[ShawnNeil8131]

threesomes are awesome. me and my girlfriend and her best friend do it all the time.

[ajbarnstormer]

Get another one to make 4

[tripit15]

if you wanna do it with your girlfriend or wife,it is best to do it with somebody your never gonna see again...that would be my suggestion of the day :))

[blinkava123]

so cool!!! msg me! T

[GangrelFledgling]

I tried it and it fucked up the relationship for me and the best friend. It felt great and it was awesome. Then afterwards is when things went downhill. I dont suggest anyone in a relationship should do it.

[LiambsDen]

HI Dan & Jenn: A threesome was our first impression with the love triangle in the womb, so perhaps the lid is opening on this can of worms. To approach a threesome from the perspective of helping each other heal the pain/pleasure complex of the inuterine suffocation memories, openly dialogue when the pain surfaces,as it will and use my techniques to love and forgive your parents who gave you what their parents gave them, its a much needed understanding with all the confusion around gender&sex.

[roadkill1984]

How sexist can you be? As a man lacking two penises and not wanting two penises, I dont see the appeal of sex with multiple wo/men.

[darmokandgalad]

Wow, I love his hair plugs. What a sexpert he must be with those.

[FlyingHotdog125]

I've once been in a foursome.

[noisepuppet]

take off your top!!

omg that was uncalled for.

[megskiisskimeski]

'threesome is every guys fantasy' - iv always wanted one, but my boyfriend is against it... which sucks, but at the same time, me and him are happy together so it doesnt matter anyway

[pawnedbymagic]

threesomes are best when your not in a relationship! I think its better to have two women than 1

[FABCHiCK13]

oh my goshh..hahah the other day, my friend fred, he found out i was bi, and then he was like "sooo...threesome with tayler?" tayler is his girlfriend...but oh my gosh i dnt kno if i should..haha

[pixiepqueen]

threesomes are best experienced when you are single. I think it gets messy if you are in a committed relationship, but then each to their own.

[DJCLUBPRINCESS]

who are these people? professionals? Threesomes can ruin relationships! It's such a dark place to go too..

[KendraHoder]

@DJCLUBPRINCESS Why? I'm often with my best friend and husband. I love them both so what's wrong with sharing our affection and desires for each other? I think it would be worse to suppress our feelings.

[newyorkbushi]

threesomes are awesome everyone should do it

[DLoc137]

?????

[drogaroga]

hey i just redid my profile :)

[pitts1989]

ya know, i'm not gonna lie, i couldn't do a 3-some. i don't have the sexual coordination to pull that off. anyway, you guys are cool. lol

[Turkisstory]

WTF? Lol the women got slapped in the face with Cancer then recovers and instead of actually making something of her life, she decides to wanna do a 3some? Wow, that's one screwed up bitch, you would have thought they would learn from the mistakes since the got so close to death.

:D

[jessicamolko]

how does it make you screwed up if you want to fulfill your fantasys? ... what?

[DLoc137]

dallas texas

[bhamberkiran]

jenn is a milf

[Sydneyw24]

fucc i did it and im a girl and im married and i was sober

[TheFutureMrs01]

dan and jen are you swingers?

[lizyray8294]

lol shes bi!!!

[censor48]

wake up with a wart on your you know what.

AIDs

Divorce because wife might go lesbo.

not wanting sex anymore because wife has somebody elses spew.

ugh

no 3somes with me.

[DanAndJenn]

Wow, by that rule singles would never have sex with other singles. It sounds good "on paper" but is not a realistic strategy.

This is why we always, always encourage safe sex - and you should always know who you're with and where they've been. That applies the exact same way between two single people (guy and girl for example) or a threesome. It's all people, just a question of how many - nothing else changes. :-)

[BillzHearse]

my fiance' is bi. she hints at having a threesome sometime eventually (she's had one before, i haven't), but it kinda puts me on the spot because she had a past relationship in which whenever she would get pissed off at her ex or have a problem with him, she'd go have a fling with a girlfriend of hers...i mean, i'm not homophobic, but i don't want to get into a threesome and have her have a relapse and solely focus on the other girl. what should i do???

thanks.

[2peppershakers]

You cannot "go" gay. You are born gay, it is not a choice.

[FABCHiCK13]

thank you! finally someone agrees

[wolfinside]

Yes, talk about it first. I think it is very important to talk about everyone's boundries before jumping into these things. In that way no one feels like they were taken advantage of, or cheated on. What kind of activity is acceptable? What won't be acceptable? (sex acts etc) Will this woman respect these people's relationship after the sex? Or will she want to have him again even if his girlfriend isn't around? (or visa versa etc)

[gossamerwindweb]

Just be honest and talk. Be grown up like they said.

[resilientkid]

"That's not a problem, all guys would go for that one"

WOAH WOAH WOAH. GENDER STEREOTYPES. KTHX.

[DanAndJenn]

No, no, we did clarify - this only applies to 99% of men. LOL :-)

[Sorry100000]

My girl would not like this... I think so ... but who knows :-D

[dare2baware]

I bet she would, but she doesn't say and she has thought about it many times. Haven't we all...

[wheateater]

Lucky Rick.

[halo2994]

i know a couple of guys who would not go for this...and i am in KY.

but i think she should just ask them.

[chrisairwolf]

im 3333333 yesssssssss hahahahahahahha

[lavinder11]

I don't like to see my friends in action. I'd rather meet a person I chose for that purpose instead of going to a close friend couple.

With friends you have to worry about one or both of them thinking you were shady and plotting to have sex with their partner the whole time. Mad uncomfortable for no reason.

I hope they do it though. Keep these videos up.

[dannykim100]

2nd? lol, love the vids!!!

[DanAndJenn]

LOL!. Thanks for watching!

[Shifty4Adam]

Yeah im 2