Okay I got one. If I'm home and you can't reach me and you finally do, don't be asking me where I was, what I was doing, and why I wasn't answering the phone. If I want to share my day and my happenings with you, I will volunteer the information. Otherwise, a simple "I missed you and I"m glad to hear your voice" will suffice just fine.
I would naturally respect a man's space and expect the same treatment from a man. If you have to tell a woman these things you might want to reconsider future possibilites.
If a grown man told me these things it would imply that he doesn't feel that i have enough respect for myself to be considerate towards him and I it would probably deter me from entering into a relationship with him.
...but I see your point. When explained, its sensible.
Unless it's family members, friends that I've developed an understanding with, or someone I'm expecting -- you arrive at my door unexpectantly you WILL be left right there knocking. And don't think I'm sympathetic to inclement weather conditions 'cause if it's raining I sure hope that you brought an umbrella with you!
so true my sexy freind to true!!! start it how you want it to be and at the first sign STOP IT!!! great vid hun...i hope young bucks take heed in this vid. GO ON AND TELL IT HONEY oh yessh i have seen m any MEN and WOMEN tell their 'friends' to leave cuz she didnt want him round no ladies...f that mess YOU arent a friend to ME then u kno? i dont talk to him TODAY FOR THAT MESS. shit he should have choose me then he would be tellin 237 women to get out of his life. no controlling here.
what kinda crazy ass women you dealing with twalk that you have to set up all these boundaries ... my brother stop dealing with girls and find yourself a woman who has a life .... please
thanks for the info..that makes sense..weed out all the bullshit before it gets started.. i have a question. how soon do you think a person should have sex?i know it depends on the situation.. but shouldn't you lay down the ground rules then see where the relationship goes from there? before getting intimate? because once that happens sometmes its hard to stand up to a good piece of ass...lol
Damn Sexy!! Not just women though Twalk, cause their are some overly emotional men also.. Whew specially the controlling ones. Everyone should know not to come ova b4 calling, common sense. If we dating though I think u should have the privilege of answering ur phone lol if you don't have anything to have, I'm just saying baby...
i don't like the word boundaries, it sounds so limiting and i feel like a relationship shouldn't be limiting at all. but i agree with what you said on respecting the other person and their desires of you. i feel like that should be COMMON KNOWLEDGE tho for people who choose to be in relationships. stupid TV got everyone wanting to get with someone but don't teach 'em how. thanks for pickin up the media's slack. peace.
I started making up the most boring shit in the world and emailing it to myself from a phony females email. My girl wanted to know who this girl was that I was discussing civil engineering with!
Great Video! Your message in this video is similar to something I read in Steve Harvey's book, Act like a Lady Think like a Man. Steve did women a big favor by writing that book.
ok why can't people send this vid out like they do those useless chain email?! LOL this is so necessary for everybody to know and understand...good vid!!!
LOL I used to be that girl....well not that extreme but I used to just show up and look at the phone....I DIDNT TRUST HIM! For good reason though! O well Im glad Im over all of that I was young and DUMB....
I agree with your 3..but a lil snopping can be fun lol BUT 4real when you get older and mature you realize goin thru his "things" is not cool cuz it will all come out eventually..takes too much time and energy being someone elses keeper...hey I have a question tho..do you think "late night calls" send out a different vibe then normal day time calls? Hope that makes sense.
WORD Twalk!....folks are crazy for real! You think you're just cool w/a person and then they start acting like they have PAPERS on you then you're like "Hol up playa! I'on know you like that!" LOL Gotta set boundaries!
Dude, you hit it on all cylinders!!! One thing I will NEVER tollerate is unannounced vistits!!! You will not do that to me cause that will cause me to cut you off with the quickness!!! That's disrespectfull IMO!!! Great vid dude, this needed to be disscussed!!!
I definately agree with #1, I hate unannounced vistors. Whenever I express this to family and/or friends, they ask "why? do you have something to hide?" That's not the point, I just like to be prepared.
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twalk2008 1 year ago
Okay I got one. If I'm home and you can't reach me and you finally do, don't be asking me where I was, what I was doing, and why I wasn't answering the phone. If I want to share my day and my happenings with you, I will volunteer the information. Otherwise, a simple "I missed you and I"m glad to hear your voice" will suffice just fine.
iroc31407 1 year ago
I read its important that both partners like eachother friends when you get married
breakofdawn26 2 years ago
They may not like me sayin it, but the only reason the females like dis is because they can't interupt, gotta hear you out! It's all love.
DOGMANE601 2 years ago
I would naturally respect a man's space and expect the same treatment from a man. If you have to tell a woman these things you might want to reconsider future possibilites.
If a grown man told me these things it would imply that he doesn't feel that i have enough respect for myself to be considerate towards him and I it would probably deter me from entering into a relationship with him.
...but I see your point. When explained, its sensible.
ladyEulaelie 2 years ago
Unless it's family members, friends that I've developed an understanding with, or someone I'm expecting -- you arrive at my door unexpectantly you WILL be left right there knocking. And don't think I'm sympathetic to inclement weather conditions 'cause if it's raining I sure hope that you brought an umbrella with you!
Khrys32 2 years ago
I totally agree with that. sometimes you still have a crazy person on your hand. I feel even if you are married you still should not do that.
lattice3 2 years ago
so true my sexy freind to true!!! start it how you want it to be and at the first sign STOP IT!!! great vid hun...i hope young bucks take heed in this vid. GO ON AND TELL IT HONEY oh yessh i have seen m any MEN and WOMEN tell their 'friends' to leave cuz she didnt want him round no ladies...f that mess YOU arent a friend to ME then u kno? i dont talk to him TODAY FOR THAT MESS. shit he should have choose me then he would be tellin 237 women to get out of his life. no controlling here.
tashaluvsyou 2 years ago
yea wow
nochokin 2 years ago
preach it "T" even when u set them sometimes people just do whatever then be looking at u crazy when u ready to just up and leave its crazy
YourDailyApple 2 years ago
Even if you have been them for awhile, privacy is necessary and personal space is essential. Setting boundaries is a Good Idea.
wyinuza 2 years ago
what kinda crazy ass women you dealing with twalk that you have to set up all these boundaries ... my brother stop dealing with girls and find yourself a woman who has a life .... please
amna1973 2 years ago
thanks for the info..that makes sense..weed out all the bullshit before it gets started.. i have a question. how soon do you think a person should have sex?i know it depends on the situation.. but shouldn't you lay down the ground rules then see where the relationship goes from there? before getting intimate? because once that happens sometmes its hard to stand up to a good piece of ass...lol
travis650d 2 years ago
True words spoken brother!
alm619 2 years ago
As long as you ain't fucking your homeboys we good! LOL LOL nah jus kiddin..
msrbsinger 2 years ago
Damn Sexy!! Not just women though Twalk, cause their are some overly emotional men also.. Whew specially the controlling ones. Everyone should know not to come ova b4 calling, common sense. If we dating though I think u should have the privilege of answering ur phone lol if you don't have anything to have, I'm just saying baby...
msrbsinger 2 years ago
true.
twalk2008 2 years ago
U got some good direction in the relationship sphere my friend
Sanctuary1976 2 years ago
much respect
twalk2008 2 years ago
Truth and honesty should be a boundary. That is often overlooked in too many relationships/friendships.
Moknosmusik 2 years ago 2
sudanese men creep on me. no boundries
goinginwater 2 years ago
lol!
twalk2008 2 years ago
hey twalk long time...
well first off great video!(like always)i wanna do a video response to this.great topic!...stay tuned:)
DestinyAwaiting 2 years ago 2
oh yeah I will.
twalk2008 2 years ago
dont have to now i got it posted already in your video response lol
DestinyAwaiting 2 years ago
Good Vid and "Rules"
uknomee 2 years ago
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clueei 2 years ago
Good one, T!
ChocDiva75 2 years ago
i don't like the word boundaries, it sounds so limiting and i feel like a relationship shouldn't be limiting at all. but i agree with what you said on respecting the other person and their desires of you. i feel like that should be COMMON KNOWLEDGE tho for people who choose to be in relationships. stupid TV got everyone wanting to get with someone but don't teach 'em how. thanks for pickin up the media's slack. peace.
brwneyedbeatnik 2 years ago
Those type of things be driving a man nuts.
Jabbaro123 2 years ago
good video T
tytygertv 2 years ago
I started making up the most boring shit in the world and emailing it to myself from a phony females email. My girl wanted to know who this girl was that I was discussing civil engineering with!
dp100eboggan 2 years ago
I hear you man...the phone call thing. Whew.
Ive found myself being guilty of the late night calls...
Emotions ARE best described as EXTREME.
But yea, the pop-ups, and email thing should be understood without mention, but I guess it isn't...for some.
Grillmaster33 3 years ago
Amen!!
patflix 3 years ago
Great Video! Your message in this video is similar to something I read in Steve Harvey's book, Act like a Lady Think like a Man. Steve did women a big favor by writing that book.
yolonda1982 3 years ago
Thanks TWalk !
rizeuse 3 years ago
*instant favorite* You definitely hit the nail on the head with this video.
mratl567 3 years ago 2
ok why can't people send this vid out like they do those useless chain email?! LOL this is so necessary for everybody to know and understand...good vid!!!
nonpareil313 3 years ago
Great video! :-)
mayahotblaze 3 years ago
does the same go for marriage
datgurlfly 3 years ago
LOL I used to be that girl....well not that extreme but I used to just show up and look at the phone....I DIDNT TRUST HIM! For good reason though! O well Im glad Im over all of that I was young and DUMB....
Thanks for the info darling....
leslied81 3 years ago
Is this the "MAN LAW" that you and tommy were talking about?
tashawillis2004 3 years ago
I agree with your 3..but a lil snopping can be fun lol BUT 4real when you get older and mature you realize goin thru his "things" is not cool cuz it will all come out eventually..takes too much time and energy being someone elses keeper...hey I have a question tho..do you think "late night calls" send out a different vibe then normal day time calls? Hope that makes sense.
mzcoca24 3 years ago
It's all about respect, and I agree with your words Brotha. If they have a problem respecting you & the set boundaries, then...*Poof*
seand67 3 years ago
WORD Twalk!....folks are crazy for real! You think you're just cool w/a person and then they start acting like they have PAPERS on you then you're like "Hol up playa! I'on know you like that!" LOL Gotta set boundaries!
buttaluv10 3 years ago
Dude, you hit it on all cylinders!!! One thing I will NEVER tollerate is unannounced vistits!!! You will not do that to me cause that will cause me to cut you off with the quickness!!! That's disrespectfull IMO!!! Great vid dude, this needed to be disscussed!!!
thruthealcove 3 years ago
Hmmm.
Okay.
....I hear ya.
KnightOverEgypt 3 years ago
This is the first clip you have done that I agree with everything you said.....well said Thomas.......I feel ya on the boundries.......lol
chrismarc207 3 years ago
I definately agree with #1, I hate unannounced vistors. Whenever I express this to family and/or friends, they ask "why? do you have something to hide?" That's not the point, I just like to be prepared.
kdbrown1385 3 years ago