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  • Pena ter acabado.  Era lindo os dois juntos.

  • @tma0120, I think she meant "my child" as in "my baby" like the love that parents feel for their little one. When you have a child you do whatever it takes to protect them, make sure their happy, and your love for them is unconditional.

  • mas bonita del mundo hasta llore con esta cncion me encntaba esa pareja era perfecta

  • Hey, people, J Lo's kids are adorable, cause after all, they are just kids, and Emme looks like J Lo a lot.. But I agree that Bennifer was better couple than Marc and Jenny.. And J Lo and Ben said that journalists are guilty for their break up.. But, life is life.. You can't fight against that..

  • She should've stayed with Ben, seriously JLo and Marc Anthony was just eww. She is so gorgeous and he is just BLAH and Ben he HOT! There fucking kids would've looked soo adorable . <3 Too bad they would not be together .

  • they made a beautiful couple and would have had kids that were more gorgeous than the ones they have now.

  • this was our song at our wedding

  • aww,,, poor jlo.. ben looks good though:)

  • they look so good with each other who care about marc

  • ben affleck is the best!

  • they should get back together !

  • I LOVE THIS SONGGG <3 LOVE LOVE AND MORE LOVE

  • @sambotta

    Dance the night away Live your life ,and stay young on the floor Dance the night away Grab somebody drink a little more Lalalalalalalalalalalalalala Tonight we gon’ be it on the floor Lalalalalalalalalalalalalala Tonight we gon’ be it on the floor VERSE 2: I know you got it clap your hands on the floor And keep on rockin’, rock it up on the floor If you’re a criminal kill it on the floor Steal it quick on the floor, on the floor Don’t stop keep it moving Put your drinks up.....

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  • This video goes to show you love can be so fleeing.. one min. you in love and the next your out of love.. so sad.

  • @sw3737 THEY WERE NEVER OUT OF LOVE THEY JUST COULDNT TAKE THE PRESS AND RUMORS ALOT OF OTHE THING DAT SUPPOSIBLY HE CHEATED ITS ALOT TO DEAL WITH THEY WOULD OF BEEN GREAT IF THE MEDIA GAVE THEM THERE PRIVACY SHE WOULD BE HAVIN HIS TWINS NOT MARCS

  • Why does she say 'my child'???

  • Ben-lesson! Never do a video with a megs-star,unless married-and then a risk.Now your wife/and kids see this "salt in the wounds"- not cool per another "Jennifer" who's mega hot marriage crashed,Don't trade down! look but-no touch...And I still know if Brad and wild child Marry (one of the sighns of the appoclipse)-2 yrs. Max! I hope the kids are fed with different spoons---But back to Jen...Marc-Anthony?comedown-fr­om South of the B, taco stand, to JLo? Ouch!. Wimp-my mother could kic his ass!

  • I wonder how stupid Jen feels, having created an entire album to Ben, only to have him dump her so closely to the wedding?

  • i wonder why the fuck would a guy give up on such a talented and gorgeous lady like Jenn.. come on man Marc you're the most lucky guy on earth. I`m just sayin`.

  • i loooooovedddd Bennifer...... 

  • @x0ticShwty me too<3 hottest couple

  • i wish J lo and ben were still together..

  • i wonder if ben ever looks at any of her performences...

  • Marc has written songs about his ex-es too. I think if he would be angry it will be because this is really a weak song. Just a sweet, because everyone knows to whom it comes. But every single song by Marc Anthony is a real art. Even the most personal songs are really meaningful music and amazing performance. Neither Jennifer nor Ben could ever be at the level of Marc. But apparently Marc loves her. Apparently the girl has something that I do not see.

  • ben is a big loser !he gave the sexy lady  to M.r Marc ! fool!

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  • they were so cute together :) but hey shit changes. But now im very happy to see her with marc anthony and two beautiful twins,

  • Aww, This Song is juxx so Kutee,(: Andd Yess I Aqree Im suree Marc Was Upset when he Heard it !

  • I've been a fan of j.lo for decade and still am! At the time she was dating Ben she was soooo in love with him that she couldn't hide her feelings from the public. i mean, the world knew how much she was crazy in love with him!

    The bad side of the story was Jennifer was married to Chris Judd when she had an affair with ben then she left Chris & to my belief it was karma! The fact that j.lo cheated while she was married and left Chris 4 ben it hit her back twice worse!

    *It was karma*

  • @ mdcarmenmiranda yea he is, but I'm sure he did love her because they both looked depress and Ben looked rough after the break up .

  • @ mdcarmenmiranda J.lo was married to Chris judd then she met Ben on the set of Gigli and they fell in love Chris was obvious a rebound . Well then she divorce Chris and Bennifer started but the media went crazy with them making up things they remain together and got engage but with Gigli being a flop the media went nuts and Ben could not handle the bad press and they called off the wedding . Sad. He got with the other Jen and she got with Marc. :(

  • @J2DLO1 he couldnt handle the bad press? wow, so he left her... what a total wiinnie!

  • wait, jennifer lopez was still married when she got with afflek? someone tell me the story! cuz i want to know what happend! lol..

  • I miss them they were perfect for each other Jlo was so in love with him . Ben was looking rough after the break up and till this day he don't look happy with his wife only with his little girls .

  • Ben is an asshole a great women like J.lo u go drop like dat... I really don't understand some ppl in duh world today.... but lukyy for Marc Anthony got her aka hes gold now dats wat u call not an asshole like ben

  • @babygirlsisi123 wow. look at you judging him without having a fucking clue about half the shit that went down. you think because you read some shitty celebrity magazine that you figured it all out? only those 2 know the exact reasons why they decided to call it off. ignore what the magazines said, half the shit in there is made up and the rest is put together from loose info. they only cover the outline of the story. only bennifer will know the details. calling sum1 an asshole withough knowing

  • @ReiTirona y dont u shut duh *F* up cuzz i neva wrote dat i have alot of ppl @ ma house how duh fuk would ui b comin up on here and playin britee u dont noe shytt so shut ur crap

  • @babygirlsisi123 thats great. now in english please captain retardo.

  • @ReiTirona i aint bout 2 start nothin wid assholes like u so leave mi 2 fuk alone

  • oh come on ppl this vid is from a reaaaaaaaaaally long time ago, they were a hot couple but they'have already moved on!!!And just becuz JLo sang a song for ben doesnt mean that she's the only one who gives love to this relationship!! If Ben was a singer he'd have sang a song for her too!!

    JLo is way better than J Garner!!! I bet this song was the most plaed song in Ben's playlist.....probably still is.....who knows?

  • The one person who would hate this song for sure at the moment must be Marc Anthony...

  • ben...u moron u lost the best thing that ever happened to u!! Idiot u let pride get in the way!!!!! U KNOW U LOST A GEM!!!!!

  • ONE OF HER BEST IMJUSSAYIN

  • bens a dick when they were filming gigli jen was all ready married to one of her back up dancers and bed kept doing inappropriate stuff like paying for adds in magazines expressing how much he loved her whilst she was still married so she got divorced fell in love with ben the media went crazy ben then proposed then flaked out and jen said marrie me or its over and obviously we know what he said

  • she was all down for him but he was too dumb & let that ass go

  • so smooth , so deep, so perfect

  • AND THEN THEY BROKE UP WEEKS BEFORE THE WEDDING. This is what HAPPENS when you pimp out your relationships. Duh.

  • This song brings me sweet memories.....really sweet memories, the best in my life. This used to be my song for him...

  • i think jennifer and marc r good together

  • Ben is like way better than Marc. Sorry Marc but its the truth. She made a bad mistake

  • Jennifer deserves better than Marc, better than Ben.

  • They would have had beautiful babies!

  • Awkward song for Marc Anthony to hear.

  • @marley4224 anyone who thinks his/her partner has totally forgotten about previous lovers, is absolutely retarded. and you have to be secure and know you can be happy with someone and not own him/her or his/her emotions or erase their memories.

  • Красиво =))))0 Очень красиво ! Музыка завораживает =))))

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  • Loved Jen and Ben together beautiful couple

  • I love how everyone has their own version (understanding) of these two's relationship...

  • As for me things are:Ben loved her till he met Garner.The one was devestated in this really intense relationship,was and always be,Lopez.Ben though took the right disicion for him because Garner is the best match for him.Lopez reacted in a clumpsy way and that is why she married this horrible man and did kids.It was and is obvious that she can't get over Ben but she tries.Ben looks blissful.The fact that he dumped her on the stairs of church is something that you don't forget.I can feel her pain

  • me encanta es preciosa

  • Love the song,love the vidro....This entire era in her life made me Sick. I remember the press CRUCIFYING Ben and the entire circus surrounding them. I still feel like they were soul mates but since they went so public about their relationship...they screwed each-others lives up and made themselves an easy target. LUCKILY they both got married to wonderful partners and both have 2 beautiful kids. I still don't understand why they flaunted their relationship like that...

  • I love this song!1

  • I love this song! When I hear this song I think about how much I love my man!1

  • I think That J Lo Is Very HoTT And Every Woman Would Luv To Have Her Looks & Voice!!! And Ben Hummmmm U Just Cant Say Enough About Him. BUT THAT SONG SUCKS!!! I love All Her Songs But This ONE!!!! SORRY

  • She fell hard for him, and not relize he was still a boy- Marc soooo much better for her- someone she can depend on to love her -Ben was a jerk when he said he regrets making a video w/ JLO! His wife probably made him say that! Ben u r NO GENTLEMAN- Quit putting JLO down, all she was guilty off was falling for u , so...GROW UP!

  • Poor Jen! I actually feel kinda bad for her. After watching this little montage of her and Ben, it's very clear to me that she was MAJORLY in love with him at the time.

    It soo comes thru loud and clear in every little scene she has with him. I'm SURE that having all that negative media surrounding them for those 2 years straight must of had a lot to do with the demise of the relationship too but I think it probably what REALLY did it was her being TOO in love in the first place.

  • I so remember seeing the countless photos in US weekly of her and she always had this overly moony gaze that screamed that she adored him all the time. I'm sorry but when it gets unbalanced like that in any relationship, it's doomed to fail eventually.

    He appeared to have very little interest in her towards the end and I remember thinking she was too obvious about it all the time! But then again.. Ben's tall, handsome with an adorably funny and endearing personality, so what's not to LOVE!

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  • Actually I am very happy that this song is about Ben, because it is personal song, meaning very weak lyric, which only makes sense for who wrote it. Very elementary melody. Only for personal use. Sounds beautiful, because it is a personal song and it is clear to whom it comes. Unlike the songs that were made by Marc for Jennifer - anyone can say - this is me, this is my girl (boy) and they have amazing lyrics and really good and precise melodies. Jennifer incredibly increased quality with Marc.

  • In fact, though I realize now how strong a person is Marc Anthony. Actually I've always know it, given that only he has enough strength of character to stay with her despite everything. Ben does not hate publicity - in fact even enjoy - at least in those days. Until Jennifer, even in Latin America interviews with Marc were strictly for music and movies and he never answered for the questions of a personal live or joking. That is what Ben does and even in big shows - talk about his live.

  • @mira2605 Jennifer too. And then - the media ruined our relationship! At least you make mistakes, do not assign blame elsewhere. Jennifer made a song for Ben and make all the people realized that is for him - in that not have any personal!. Marc has three songs for Jennifer and one for his ex-wife. But the only song in which mention name, is 'My baby you', which is dedicated to his daughter Arianna.

  • she was so in love with him, You can see it in her eyes

  • this song is soo beautiful

  • i can sense that she still loves ben but i can see to her that she is happy and inlove w/marc anthony.

  • love this song, this is me then is my fav jlo album

  • this is a beautiful song...even though they're not together anymore. lol

  • falls too hard

  • The song is really sappy.

  • i think jen loved ben the most of all of the guys! including marc

  • @Priscillachannel She was a big fan of Marc before meet him (much before meeting with Ben). With Marc was her first big hit - No me Ames. With Marc was her first live performance. With Marc was her first tour. With Marc was her first work as a producer. Together with him (Marc as producer) is her first all Spanish album. By Ben has two films - both much criticized. Think again who really she love most.

  • DAAAM 1ST TIME HEARING THIS....BEN IS THE STUPIDEST MAN ALIVE. FUCK HE LEAVE HER FOR?? DAM IT TAKES HEART TO REALLY SAY HOW MUCH U LOVE SOMEONE LIKE SHE DID

  • @Kurt22murdered that's true, but what really broke them up was the media. He really couldn't stand it, but oh well I believe nothing should ever come in between true love

  • ben affleck is so hunky

  • @berinization I do not understand half of what you are saying therefore I cannot give you any answers

  • @ShelLaura I'm sorry because napisać once again and you will probably understand

  • @ShelLaura Again I wrote so I molimte answers: D

  • @ShelLaura lol

  • @berinization Jennifer was with Ben when she wrote this song. They were together for 2 years between 2002-2004 and became engaged before breaking up. This was before Marc Anthony. Hope that kinda answers ur question

  • @berinization she was married nd then she divorce her husband to get with ben..her n ben was dating on the verge to get married byt then she didnt kno wat she wanted nd he didnt either because all the fam he was gettin nd he was just a sweet poetry writter nd he didnt kno how fam was so he wanted to give it a brake nd he kalled off the wedding

  • @berinization WTF? LOL

  • @berinization lol, yeah, wtf...

  • @berinization Jennifer and Ben were together. They got engaged but separated after due to media critics. I think Jennifer Lopez loved Ben but Ben wasn't too in love with Jennifer. This song called Dear Ben was recorded in 2002.

  • @berinization I personally think they loved each other although Ben didn't show that much affection to Jennifer.

  • @berinization noooooooooooooo one can understand what in the hell you are saying

  • @berinization yes dey were datin nd got engaged but ben was an asshole so dey seperated

  • @berinization Google your questions, my friend;)

  • @berinization YES!!!!!!!!!!

  • @berinization I can't either understand what you are saying . But JLo and Ben Affleck was in relationship and they broke up in 2004.

  • Ben Affleck is like the definition of HANDSOME!! and wow this 2 together are like heaven on earth. I was just watching Behind the Music of Jennifer Lopez and it's so sad that they broke up because of the stupid media. That makes me so angry :/ media fking ruiins ppl's life. The main reason I wouldn't want to be famous is because of that stupid media. It makes a famous person's life miserable. It's definitley not easy having a very public life. This video was so beautiful :')

  • i think Ben had style when he was w/ J.Lo now he looks like his character in He's Just Not That Into You. . .always wearing cargo pants. . . . . I LOVED Bennifer part 1

  • @MinahBinah7 I AGREE WITH YOU THE WERE A HOT COUPLE JLO AND BEN

  • @jramirez8057 I agree too 100% it makes me envious in a way I wish to have something liek what they had someday except withouht media in the way haha!

  • love this song♥

  • I watch it yesterday the story about her you can see that her heart we always be ben and that she still loves him still even that she is with marc i feel bad for her i hope she and ben get back togerther.

  • i looove this album got it when i was younger and watching "behind the music: jennifer lopez" makes me wanna listen to it all over. you guys need to watch it, it explains her relationship with ben. :(

  • @ROCKETJIZZ It explains it all

  • yeah i can see n her eyes that she really loved him , OMG love is crazy thing

  • She really loved him!

  • how long were they together ?

  • what a beautiful song to decicate to your man. love it so passionate and loving.

    <3

  • i like Marc Anthony & his music etc. and i 'm sure Jen and he have a great life together w/their twins but yea, i think there is a lack of sumthin that she 'felt' w/ Ben Affleck..but what i admire about Jen is that she always bounces back from any relationship setback or breakup...with a new man on her arm..u go, Jen!!!!

  • I LOVE IT

  • Mark Anthony is a cabron. What's it like being married to a woman that's been around the world more times than the space shuttle?

  • TRUE IS, BEN IS VERY HOT , GOD !

  • just listen to the words, so much love and meaning in the lyrics, i dont think that this strong feeling that she felt to him is just gone, it's still there... maybe just buried deep inside

  • They were such a cute couple :(

  • They looked cute together but they are not meant to be.. Jennifer is happy with Marc now. You know, too much love is not good sometimes :)

  • i wonder if they were really in love

  • nice video..jennifer lopez is so seductive in this movie

  • Awkward.. but great song and video!!!

  • ***However she won't care anymore about their memories together.*** Sorry, I'M NOT AMERICAN

  • yeah, mark anthony's most hated song. Ben and J.Lo broke up a long time ago but they cannot cancel all the memories together. She will never forget Ben but she is going on with Mark A. However she won't care anymore about togeher. At least, let's hope it! Because J.Lo&Mark A are a nice couple.If it didn't work with Ben, then...

  • @giuliabude HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you're so funny! TOO true though! i would hate to hear something like this about my currents' ex! lol!!!!!!!!!!! in that behind the music interview, i would HATE to watch how you can see how much ben meant to j.l.....not saying she's not happy with her husband, but EVERYONE who saw that told me they could see the place in her heart ben holds, DAMN! i would hate this song too! lol! oh well, best of luck to them all, thanks for making me laugh :-)

  • llol this song is besttt

  • mark anthony's most hated song

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  • Love this song........

  • passionate fidelity

  • I LOVE THE SONG:)

    GREAT VIDEO:)

  • i dont think ben affleck ever had a career the only film ive seen him in is daredevil his career hit a high when he was dating jennifer and jen will alway have a career her fans make sure of that

  • wtf? what are u talking about? ben affleck dont have a career? what about his oscar ? boolshit

  • @nazwa1000 agree!

  • Go watch Armageddon right quicc then say he dont have a career xD

  • they look stunning together

  • They both love each other but he was more selffish he want her but party at the same time. At least Jennifer since happy and him I don't get to see him smile often.

  • they were soo cute together

  • what movies are these from???