say what you all want to, but i was the one who was cheated with, not on. The guy was married and i knew him for a long time. it just happened and still from this day on, i dont understand why he cheated. Oh, im 17. the guy was 33. i dont care what u say about it being gross. but i just dont understand why he, supposively being happy with his wife for 5 years, would cheat, when they were only married for not even two months???????? i dont get it.
Maybe we should save ourselves hurt by not expecting so much from our spouses...it's obvious at least half of people "cheat" so why do we still enshrine monogamy as the most perfect and loving relationship and place everything outside of that regardless of the reasons as "cheating"?
Good point, I think The Idea of monogamy is just an Idea, most people cheat or have been cheated on so why are we so surprised and hurt by it? I think we've been taught to expect the impossible. I never thought I would cheat but I did, couldn't stop myself and I wouldn't doubt it if my wife has cheated too lol
most of the time women want to feel loved,they age quicker than a man does and any sort of lady that eyes your hubby tends to make the woman more insecure.if you could read a womans mind your a better man than me.
say what you all want to, but i was the one who was cheated with, not on. The guy was married and i knew him for a long time. it just happened and still from this day on, i dont understand why he cheated. Oh, im 17. the guy was 33. i dont care what u say about it being gross. but i just dont understand why he, supposively being happy with his wife for 5 years, would cheat, when they were only married for not even two months???????? i dont get it.
BarrelChic15 2 years ago
Maybe we should save ourselves hurt by not expecting so much from our spouses...it's obvious at least half of people "cheat" so why do we still enshrine monogamy as the most perfect and loving relationship and place everything outside of that regardless of the reasons as "cheating"?
Optimusnorm 2 years ago
Good point, I think The Idea of monogamy is just an Idea, most people cheat or have been cheated on so why are we so surprised and hurt by it? I think we've been taught to expect the impossible. I never thought I would cheat but I did, couldn't stop myself and I wouldn't doubt it if my wife has cheated too lol
MrROTD 1 year ago
it hurts... but every persons different. i have been cheated on quite a few times. Idk exactly why but they do.
Dirahmer 2 years ago
Well, some it;s just in their naature others after a while they need something new...
Many things are needed by a spouse.
Being clean !
Being attractive like cologne and dressed well.
Being wanted by others so they know what they have and want to keep it.
give them sex when they want it and doing a good job.
And really like each other.. and don`t take bad things seriously arguments and stuff..
Choose well and you will not be cheated on.
Dorisequador 2 years ago
All can be reduced to evolution and sexual competition...
Stardusk 2 years ago
most of the time women want to feel loved,they age quicker than a man does and any sort of lady that eyes your hubby tends to make the woman more insecure.if you could read a womans mind your a better man than me.
forestgumpaed 2 years ago
i just don't know why people sheat!!? if the guy doesn't, the girl does or in backwards. that's not fair man. there is no scape from being hurt.
victormania2008 2 years ago