***Stillbirth and Child Death*** May upset some viewers

[molliecaka]

Jonathan Makai Caka Conbere was stillborn at 36 weeks on Sept 5, 2010 in Seattle WA. He was 4lbs 7 oz, 17.5 inches and had a full head of golden red hair. He was beautiful and perfect. I will miss him forever.

[07va87]

5 days past my due date, 4/21/07. I had my baby boy weighing in at 8#2oz. 21". I still cry about this. The reason is unknown. Chase Xavier Beck I love you!!

[enternickname]

Erm... I've never heard stillbirth referred to as SADS... SADS is Sudden *Adult* Death Syndrome. This is the first time I've heard it referred to as that, and I've been obsessed with stillbirth awareness since my son was born still this February.

Okay, enough of me being annoying, sorry *blush*

This lady's amazing, I'd love to get properly involved with stillbirth research and awareness.

RIP Ianto Jack, and all the other Angel Babies out there...

[mumtoemmaeliza]

mothers need to be aware that these things happen,or can happen,woman need to know it can happen

[mumtoemmaeliza]

mothers need to be aware that these things happen,or can happen,woman need to know it can happen

[ccnrps123]

Thank you Joanne so much for doing this! What a wonderful thing that you are doing for Cheyanne and for all of our angels born silently.

[mylovesofmylife]

Silent Love

There's no vocabulary

For love within a family, love that's lived in

But not looked at, love within the light of which

All else is seen, the love within which

All other love finds speech.

This love is silent.

[mamaanja2000]

my son passed away on 02 -24 2009 stillborn at 38 weeks.......

[dharyisingh]

my baby died at 26 weeks and they told me that her heart just stop beating...and i could never geta right answer as to y she died ever doctor give me the run around i i here different answer from she autophy reports...

[jrlovr88]

I just came from a funeral today. My BFF's daughter was stillborn on Sept. 15 2009. She was just about to start her 6th month when the Dr. couldn't find a heartbeat and after 1 week, she was induced and gave birth Grace Marie. A poem read at the funeral mass, called "The Cord" is so beautiful and perfect for parents who are going through this.

[ccooper4]

I had my baby sleeping on Sept 10th 2007 2 yars ago today. I was 41 weeks pregnant with him

[TheBabybunny88]

my baby was 10 lb 11 and 63.5 cm long.

An angel wrote in the Book of Life

My baby's date of birth

Then whispered as she closed the book

"Too beautiful for Earth"

[TheBabybunny88]

i lost my baby 3 months ago. i went full term +1 (the day after due date). i went to the doctor and heard her heart beat then a few hours later she was gone. i am still struggling to come to terms with it. please go to gloucestershireSANDS websites and show support.

[scottishgirl2005]

my sister lost her baby on Nov she only had 3 months to go

[mitsuevo8mr]

three days ago my wife started hurting nad the ambulance took her to the hospital, she have 39 weeks when she got to the hospital they started asking for papers and insurance cards and a bunch of bullshit instead of taking care of her and the baby right away, when they took her up the baby was still alive and about two minutes later the baby was dead, he poop inside her and breath it in and diedn his heart stopped, this happenned becouse they care about the money first, the baby weigt 7.8pounds

[pilarq]

I would need to know more about the history of stillbirth before commenting on whether or not it is a tragedy on a national level. It certainly is for the parents of stillborn children, and I am truly sorry for their loss. I also know that compared to the number of healthy births in the U.S., 30,000 is still quite small. It would be great to reduce that number even more...but if that is not possible, maybe the only explanation for some tragedies is that they simply happen.

[rigey6]

I don't think there are any more stillbirths now than in the past, in fact the number was probably much higher before prenatal care became standard practice, but the numbers are still fairly high - 1 in every 100 pregnancies will be lost after the 20th week. That's over 40,00 per year - way too many, by any standard. Cancer used to be a tragedy that "just happened" to people, until people started doing research and came up with treatments.

[vansree]

My baby died on May 02 - sat. Second time. 22 weeks 2 days ... :-(

[vansree]

We lost the baby in 22 weeks 2 days. Last friday - may 02 :-(

[GeminiAzules]

blame the new technology! All of the radio waves and cell phone towers everywhere are probably causing it.

[angbang]

Oh, Bless your heart

[mandyiom]

The same thing happend to me.

One week before my baby was due he was perfect, strong heartbeat and ready to be born, but on the 20th jan 2009 the day I was going to be induced the nurse couldn't find a heartbeat and at 18.47 that night I gave birth to Matthew James.

Something needs to be done to find out why this is happening because after he was stillborn I found out it has happend to so many other people.

My heart goes out to anyone who has been though the same.RIP my beautiful baby boy.

[mowsey321]

My Mother-in-law/friend had a daughter who was still born, I know she will always love Shannon and wonder what would have been.

[tionna1985]

this is sad it makes me scared to get pregnant i couldn't take losing a child

[tiggercrazy87]

My nephew was stillborn as well... he was 4 days overdue and the autopsy didn't show anything wrong with him....NOTHING. Sometimes it's just how God wanted it to happen, even though we have to endure the pain.

[thessaly20]

This just makes me appreciate my baby more...I love her so much!

[tanyamercedeez]

what is the name of the song that they sang?

may all your angels rest in peace!!!!

[blondeuni34]

I delivered my angel son on Feb 13, 2008 due to a cord accident. May God bless us all in our journey or pain and sorrow. I love you Coleton my son, you are forever in my heart.

[empg23]

I too lost my baby girl on 10-16-08 everything in my pregnancy was fine we have no idea why this happened it is the worst feeling a mother can ever know she was my first and that hollow she left in my heart can never be filled by no one she showed me how much a person can ever come to love another human she will forever be in my heart no one can ever replace her

[snowblossom81]

today is the one yr for my lil angel i have lost 3 babys so far so if any other angel mommys are out there and want to talk add me and i will talk and lissen

[Dymyns]

Wow, I am 34 weeks along and I have had many worries but this is so touching and it scares Me, My heart goes out to all the Ladies out there who have been thou this or are going thou it now. God Bless all the babies taken too soon.

[azbliap12]

Im crying right now!

[toddster1968]

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[54spiritedwill54]

That is so sad....i almost cried.

[ploppy75]

hi all...... sorry 4 the loss of such beautiful children. does any1 know the song in the news clip.... who sings it

[rebekah951]

I am a MISSister and i have lost 2 pregnancy's due to stillbirth, one was twins back in 2004 and the last was this year in Feb. Joanne has done wonderful things at MISS and without this support group i dont know what i would have done. I thank you for putting stillbirth out in the public for people to know it exsists.

[imperfecta89]

This kinda thing is really scary. Im 23wks pregnant right now.

[sylviesangels]

Thank Gosh I have her. Lilike was born sick at 39 weeks and treated as having suspected sepsis from a high white cell count and rapid breathing and being pale and cool temp at birth. She was given a full course of iv antibiotics and is healthy and happy today and is 5 years old.

[sylviesangels]

So sad the poor parents who loose there little loved ones. I did not know until I went to the doctor. Got my blood results back and found out I had severe maternal anemia at 35 weeks with Lilike and my hemoglobin was 56. I went to the hospital with 2 blood transfusions. Lilikes heart rate the whole time was nornal. Lilike is really a miracle from God.

[mommaof3angels]

I lost my son at 24 weeks and 3 days gestation on November 23, 2006. The doctors said that there was a kink in his cord and that his cord was wrapped around his neck too tight and he was gettin no oxygen. I've also had 2 miscarriages aftwards. one on October 21, 2007 and the other on Apirl 16, 2008. It is so hard to lose your baby. I wouldn't wish it on any body. Not one of the many ppl i dislike.

[8585747]

Comments about a Birth or Death record in video

My much loved healthy baby boy was "Stillborn" January 1981 due to a true knot in the cord. In BC Canada there are no identifing records for stillborns as of the 1980's. The hospital classified my babies' death as an Abortion. It deeply hurts me to have that discription on his hospital record as everyone regards an abortion as an unwanted child on top of losing my little one.

[lovemyfamilysomuch]

Honey your baby boy will always be your miracle. You made a whole perfect being who is now with God. The creation of a life in itslf is a miracle. Even when we are not in the womb we know all human life is fragile outside of the womb. We must not take life for granted. Your son would be a month older then me today. His spirit is around you. Your heart has been touched deeply by an angel.

[Beautifull2385]

This happened to my mom and an old friend of mine

[Couzens2002]

My prayers are with all families affected by this, and anyone who lost a child too soon. God Bless You!

[risquebabe]

my little baby sister died from loss of oxygen and brain damage in my mom's womb i've seen her in pictures but not in real life during the surgery my mom almost lost her life (she went into a 11 day coma)

[starbabe58]

god be with you sorry for your loss rest in peace

[aliciaanne]

My little sister Rebecca was a stillborn. She was born on August 7, 1994. I'm 21 now and I still think about her every, single day. Why she was a stillborn is still a mystery to us. We live in Massachusetts. I'd like to know why. Every family would like to know. We need to do more research.

[chobitsprincess55]

to all the angel mothers mothers who have had their baby die in the womb befor and after being born are called angel mothers i don`t believe there are any words to comfort the grief stricken mothers but however short a time it may have been please do not forget about the life that once lived in you this is something you never heal from or get over but for the love of your angels please don`t cry you will only bring tears to their eyes as well you must be storng

[SandDevil6]

Does anyone know if there is something like this in Northern Ontario, Canada??

[babydoll241991]

I Live In Arizona and i never saw this until now

[Horrorrock666]

break through in stillbirth,found in australia may be linked to viruses,

[mommylain]

I had no idea - I live in Az - noone has mentioned this!

[247princess]

im so sorry for your loss i ma currently trying to do the same sort of thing ere in england with losses from early mc to age of five after the loss of my daughter

thanks for sharing

xxxxx

[KC1967]

i'm sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you.

[1ATC4LYFE1]

I also share your pain. In 2003, I lost a baby girl.

Angels Treniece Calloway 11-14-2003

[latham3200]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost two boys. One at 5 months into pregnancy and the other child was murdered the day before his seventh birthday. I know your pain to well. God bless you, and great job for being so strong in your quest for answers. In loving memory of Jason Andrew Alcorta

[Yadichick81]

Im so proud and happy that someone is finally doing something to bring attention to these victims of stillbirth. It is an epedemic and needs funds to research and save loves. No one should go through this. My thoughts and prayers are with all of u.

[courtney31chris32]

I lost my daughter Hanna at 21wks 10-11-07. Nothing pains me more than her death and the doctors shrugging of his shoulders with a simple unsympathetic "I dont know." I'm so glad someone is doing something. If as many planes crashed a day, the FAA & the whole world would be all over it, but no one is "all over it" when so many babies (our babies) die. Thats not ok with me. Good job and may the Lord bless your continued efforts!

[Yadichick81]

Im so sorry hun. Thank you for sharing this because I have reaserched this and it's an epidemic!! they most do somthing.

[mumandtwins]

good one, I lost my 18 yr old son in August last year, at least I know how he died,

[BellaDia91]

I just lost my son over a month ago 12-21-2007... they told my my little boy Landen Elliott was a healthy little boy... I wish I had an answer to my pain.

[MrDarty]

Your baby was surely beautiful, and you were truely blessed to hsve known her. I couldn't ever have children and, since I found this out, there doesn't ever seem to be a day goes by when I don't feel like my own real child died, and I can't ever quite seem to reach out and touch the hand that calls out to me in my dreams. Berieved Dads like me are truely lost in the dark, and it hurts so bad all the time.

[Yadichick81]

Im sooo sory. God ofers hope Revelations 20:4 read it..he will wipe all tears away and only he can heal and change all of this.

[gmodmaster5]

Omfg!!!!! its so sad seeing all these videos of dead babie's and kids,,R.i.p to all the kids that couldnt makke it today :(

[nomorepropaganda]

My mother in law had a stillborn girl in the 70's. No one really acknowledges it and the baby was taken away immediately. It's nice to know that there is more awareness about this now and that doctors are gaining sympathy and empathy for such a situation.

[robertorgan]

Today, Dec 10th, 2007 would be my girl, Amanda 5th birthday. She was stillborn, It was true knot in umbilical cord. Until to day I still don't know how to mourn her, among mourning parents or among friends that never have problem like this. I live in NJ, I wish they passed the bill to give stillbirth parents a birth certificate insted of death certificate.

[Grlbsoft]

thats my birthday im so so so sorry

[tejmummy]

As a mother of 2, 1 being a live child and the 2nd being born a sleeping Angel. Icommend what she is doing. Victoria

[IluvAandN]

I had an uncle that was stillborn he would be in his 40's maybe 50's.

[fluteplayer]

I totally agree, in fact it does happen and families that are mourning the lose of a child is very tough and takes time to heal from the pain and sorrow.  Also, God is with them and their all smiling and watching over us all and of course, the cause for these conditions are genetic like: Edwards-syndrome, SIDS, SADS; and the non-deadly ones: Down-syndrome and Asbergerus-syndrome = High function Autism like I have.

[LCVila]

I commend you for your "faith in action". You have blessed me this day. Thank you so much. Your baby, even in the face of death, carried beauty that embodied the radiance of our Lord. She was, is and always will be perfect! God bless you.

[pflipsenta]

kind of makes one wonder why these things happen. a normal pregnancy then all of the sudden, dead. my condolences to the family but as an atheist, it almost reinforces the atheist belief. it just doesn't make sense for this to happen.

[MHunter1975]

This is a heartbreaking AND heartwarming story of tears and love and grief and recovery----------what a great, great story thanks for posting it

[sarascrew]

It has been 15 years this month. Our baby Robby was stillborn. I was full term. His Birthday is Oct 31st. He would have gone to High School this year with is older brother. A lot of things have changed in how parents are treated in the hospital to research that is being done. It is from parents who do programs like this and make a difference.

[lakeyta098]

Hey, Durghan, it's not God's falut! He wants the babies to live and do great things! But, when they die, it's something that happened during the pregnency. So, don't yell at God, 'cus when the babies die, they go to heaven and God takes care of them. Even if they find nothing wrong with the baby, it was something that happened in the womb

~God Bless!~

[DoogleWho]

so very sad,i lost my little man 1 year ago,here,where i live in rural NSW australia,still birth is like a taboo topic,i think because it has happened so rarely in our small town,but open your eyes,and its a world wide problem that needs fixing.FAST

[lambchop7400]

Thank you for making this public. My son died from SADS. Its time we make it known that this can happen and does happen. People need to know. I'm sick of keeping this to myself because no one wants to hear about it. God bless.

[Dragonballgeek101]

This is so sad!!!!! I'm crying....

[dreeamer86]

i went through this last year, my pregnancy for the hole 9months was great not a single problem with my daughter until the day before she was due i found out she was not alive. it broke my heart....they said she was extreamly healthly and they couldn't 100% confirm the reason she passed

[fluffyviolet]

its not fair

[Serenity9614]

God bless these brave parents, such a loss is unbearable, I pray this strong organization`s act ends such pain. All of these young children are remembered with love, may they rest in peace in God`s loving arms as this organization helps their parents mourn them together.

[65spongebob65]

That is so sad....i almost cried.God bless them!

[Durghan]

I seriously hope you haven't censored my comments. What happened to freedom of speech?

[Durghan]

To hell with God. If the bastard exists it's HIS fault these children didn't survive. You should NEVER have to bury you children.

[fluffyviolet]

I totally agree....but God knows that we will all be together someday with him.....these people will see their children again....I promise

[starflower713]

It is about time that this subject stopped being so tabu and that it gets the attention it deserves. We really need to learn how to help parents that experience stillbirth, infant death, and miscarriage in this country. We need to stop ignoring that babies die and learn how to reach out to parents who are going through this hell.

[ember1988]

it makes no sense y this keeps happenin. its not fair n it neva will b. if that eva happend 2 me i think i would jud die...

[REPLICESS]

My grandaughter was born still 3 weeks ago. The pain will never go away.

[grlpwr75]

Wow! This is amazing. I had no idea your group existed! Thank you so much! I'm so sorry for your losses!

[GardenStatePhD]

This is amazing! I think your organization is the best! Thank you all for all you do!

[Mizz40oz]

god bless u and ur beautiful family

[dqdime13]

just remember god is with chianne and with u , god bless u

[IcePrincess73]

My heart goes out to all of these parents and any parent who has a had baby die. xoxoxoxo