im in year 9 and im scared of letting my family down i think they think i will be the best in the family but if not i will be classed as a failure i dont know what to do!
@111lonelygirl i know exactly what you mean. listen to this, for the first time in my life i get a D in maths at school and im usually a straight b+ / A- student, so my parents yell at me for 1/2 hour and now im doing math tutoring 3 hours a week and for 3 days this holidays i did 15 hours of math tutoring. 15 HOURS in 3 days. im in year 10 and it was my first time D in ANYTHING. Ontop of that im eating more and more. I compleely understand
nobody is ever going to be perfect... i love my life the way it is right now, and i have plans for the future. my life, as i see it, is perfect. sure... im not skinny, im not the most popular girl in school, but who'd want to be? i have an amazing family and loving friends, two in particular (you know who you are ;P) and i wouldnt trade it for the world ^^
thank you for making this video... i was feeling a bit down and this picked me up^^
What I always try to remember is BE YOURSELF! DON'T LIVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE! It's YOUR life! Okay, people around you may be not satisfied with the way you live but the important thing is that YOU are HAPPY!
my relationship with my parents is fake ive been cutting seens i was 11 they think i only did it for a month and that i did it when i was 14 they think everythings better after having a doctor check for infection and asking me once if id do it again and they still expect me to be perfect by poiting out all my flaws
my mother tries to make her dreams come true to me, but i don´t want to... she allways wanted to study sport and now she´s always tries to talk me ower about that.
this is how it is with me and my parents also! my sister is perfect! she has great grades like a 4.0, she goes to bed early, she does all her home work early and she never fights with my parents. Shes also the first born, which makes me think my parents made me by mistake, its hard living up to their expectations and the bar my sister set. This is a beautiful video, thank you
my parents are the same way....im losing control of everything and ive lost every sense of happiness
Delahock 3 months ago
God this is true. They only love me when I'm perfect... and I'm never perfect...
funsizedcupcake 5 months ago
completely*
AusParis2011 7 months ago
what's the song called?o:
StephanieInTheSky 1 year ago
im in year 9 and im scared of letting my family down i think they think i will be the best in the family but if not i will be classed as a failure i dont know what to do!
111lonelygirl 1 year ago
@111lonelygirl i know exactly what you mean. listen to this, for the first time in my life i get a D in maths at school and im usually a straight b+ / A- student, so my parents yell at me for 1/2 hour and now im doing math tutoring 3 hours a week and for 3 days this holidays i did 15 hours of math tutoring. 15 HOURS in 3 days. im in year 10 and it was my first time D in ANYTHING. Ontop of that im eating more and more. I compleely understand
AusParis2011 7 months ago
Alanis is so bold! "I love her words..
Be a good boy/girl..got to measure up"...
If we are perfect who do we make proud? Probably, still no one.. but yet we still try... You did a good job on this video..
watermagick1 3 years ago
i totally feel the same way : (
my family never pays me the attention im killing myself to get.
perfectXisX4Xsure 3 years ago
So many people are saying that we don't have to be perfect. It must be the people who lack self-control and CAN'T get there, but we can!
Kira213456 3 years ago
agree! :)
UniqueLykEvery1Else 3 years ago
Whats the name of this song?
<3
FxExNx 3 years ago
Love this vid , good song it is prefect ^_^
LonelybeeMJ 3 years ago
Why do we have to be perfect???Why people want love us as we are???Why???Great Vid
glupiregistar 3 years ago
ah, ok.. so are you also insinuating that you're a cutter as well as a walking skeleton?
zeppelinmousey1369 3 years ago
i'm sorry you went trough this :'(
babicmarina 3 years ago
what's the song called?
love ur vid!
sometimesimlonely 3 years ago
Alanis Morissette- prefect
classiceuro1 3 years ago
nobody is ever going to be perfect... i love my life the way it is right now, and i have plans for the future. my life, as i see it, is perfect. sure... im not skinny, im not the most popular girl in school, but who'd want to be? i have an amazing family and loving friends, two in particular (you know who you are ;P) and i wouldnt trade it for the world ^^
thank you for making this video... i was feeling a bit down and this picked me up^^
amyrox666 4 years ago
Of you are happy with your life, as you say you are. How comes you were feeling down and watching an ana vid?
perfectXisX4Xsure 3 years ago
that was a reply to amyrox666
btw
perfectXisX4Xsure 3 years ago
What I always try to remember is BE YOURSELF! DON'T LIVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE! It's YOUR life! Okay, people around you may be not satisfied with the way you live but the important thing is that YOU are HAPPY!
LoyalMJfan 4 years ago
One word BEAUTIFUL
julesmj 4 years ago 5
fantastic video! the format with the lyrics and the images compliment each other very well, along with the choice of music...I enjoyed this
bigdb2984 4 years ago 3
my relationship with my parents is fake ive been cutting seens i was 11 they think i only did it for a month and that i did it when i was 14 they think everythings better after having a doctor check for infection and asking me once if id do it again and they still expect me to be perfect by poiting out all my flaws
blindsoyourpoint 4 years ago 4
so touching...
kyadr88 4 years ago 3
I loved this video! I could really relate to it, my parents always are expecting me to be perfect, which is what helped lead to my eating disorder.
jdrama123 4 years ago 9
my mother tries to make her dreams come true to me, but i don´t want to... she allways wanted to study sport and now she´s always tries to talk me ower about that.
SweetLadoronaSerpent 4 years ago 4
Dont forget to keep that smile on your face... :(( amazin' :((
kittypriincess 4 years ago 3
yeah, cos they'll never love you if you dont.
XBeautifulEvilX 3 years ago
this is exactly how i feel 2 , im soo pressured in life 2 be as good as my other family members
imjustscared 4 years ago 12
I love this song. The video is nice. I really like the picture in 2:06.
xraggedyannx 4 years ago 5
this song is about me!!!
JuudaisAKittyx0x41 4 years ago 3
Oh god, I can relate to this so much.
killerrainbow 4 years ago 5
song -Alanis Morisette-perfect
007Fifina 4 years ago 5
what song is it?
djam1993 4 years ago
wow i can completely relate. thnkx for making this <3
besameshank7 4 years ago 3
really beautiful....
emokidsunited 4 years ago 5
what song is that?
MaryLynnBee 4 years ago
those pictures are so beautiful. Thank you.
Lockenkopf3 4 years ago
this is how it is with me and my parents also! my sister is perfect! she has great grades like a 4.0, she goes to bed early, she does all her home work early and she never fights with my parents. Shes also the first born, which makes me think my parents made me by mistake, its hard living up to their expectations and the bar my sister set. This is a beautiful video, thank you
Spicechild15 4 years ago 2
thank you for making that. that is exactly the relationship my parents and i have. if i'm not perfect then they don't love me.
carleeroxandyallsuck 4 years ago
I understand how you feel, my parents were the same way.
WittyNamesRTaken 5 years ago
i so dont get it
Honey54321 5 years ago
it's ironic
patikotek 5 years ago