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  • Aw this made me sad. Someone edit this and replace the mom with Spock instead.

  • I loled. =D

    -Chaos

  • @Chaos28561 You don't need to sign your post... Your name shows up beneath them.

  • This type of reaction is not unique to babies or children. It is common in adults and seems to be hard wired into us. If we reach out to someone for an extended period of time and they don't respond in a kind and loving way we tend to lash out and try various approaches to get their attention. Failing this we fall victim to returning the same behaviour to the one sharing it with us. In this way we often build walls between our loved ones in relationships.

  • I always show this video to my clients when they start Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Couple counselling - it very quickly focuses our work on the the central focus of EFT - attachment . Most people can easily identify with this wonderful video - which is why it is so helpful. I first saw it at EFT training with Sue Johnson - luv it !! thanks sue !!

  • kind of got really upset watching this and stared tearing up.

  • OMFG THAT"S SO MEAN I FELT HORRIBLE WATCHING THIS

  • Nice move Dr. Edward

  • i am surprise by this experiment..babies do connect to adults on their own way.

  • That's awesome I wanna make babies cry

  • The reaction is definitely not 'unique' to babies. We all want to be 'seen'.

    But as babies don't understand 'verbal' language,

    so the objective of this experiment is to emphasize that it is crucial to respond with good 'non-verbal' language :)

  • I'm currently writing my thesis on something involving the still-face task and Dr. Tronick is my version of a celebrity right now.  I think I need to get out more.

  • I could not be that strong. I couldn't keep a straight face not even for 30 seconds if a baby was smiling at me and reaching out for me. I would crack a smile immediately.

  • I could not be that strong. I couldn't keep a straight face not even for 30 seconds if a baby was smiling at me and reaching out for me. I would crack a smile immediately.

  • poor baby! It is not good for it! stupid man!

  • @Mr123Jupiter @ 2 minutes being ignored wont hurt it :P

  • lol u could tell the mother felt really guilty at the end of the experiment lol

  • @numnumon we watched another video of this experiment in our developmental psych lecture today, with a 24 week old baby (just under 6 months old). Same results, except the baby got upset quicker than this one.

  • @amelialolz Guess a smaller baby's gonna be less confident/more dependent on his/her mom. Human babies might not have as much inborn abilities as your average little animal, but recent research has shown that they DO come with quite a lot of "software". In other words, babies are people, too.

  • this is why i love developmental psych, we get to watch cute videos of babies :P

  • what a cute baby :D

  • We are learning about attachment in infancy in my Lifespan class, and the professor suggested we check out this experiment. It's quite fascinating to see how the baby reacts when the mother turns off her responsivity to all of the baby's behavioral cues. Even to the point of becoming distressed. Great narration of the observation.

  • How would you say this relates to attachment?

  • @mcrcrazedfan18 This relates to attachment given the fact that by this type of behavior displayed by the mother in when she is interacting is a form of secure attachment. and the latter demonstrates insecure attachment. Yes, no doubt painful to watch yet many caregivers display this behavior because they themselves had experiences of some sort of insecure attachment. The primary caregiver is a infant's first relationship and is vital in their adulthood.

  • Spock should never have children.

  • 1:25 "There!"

  • 1:25 "There!"

  • The amazing thing about babies is how pure their emotions are. Because they haven't learned to hide their feelings, every emotion you see on their face comes strait from the heart. The only things that's more amazing is the mother's face while she's trying to remain emotionless. She mirrors the distress that her child shows, but it's so subtle you can miss it the first time... But she's honestly just as upset as the poor kid. The best example is when the baby cries and she tenses up all at once.

  • The fact that a mother would agree to participate in this experiment is diagnostic in and of itself.

  • Why are people so upset about this? haha, I mean it was 2 minutes that the baby will not remember, and its not like she was punching the baby in the face or anything.

  • this is how John Dorian would look like when he becomes old... this person really has the same voice as Zack Braff!

  • I don't even like children but I just felt so damn bad for that poor baby!

  • I would like to see this research done with a much younger infant. I thought the baby here was old enough that the response would be expected. It is no surprise that the baby reacted this way. I would like to see this done with an attached (and also not attached) 6 month old or younger.

  • I would like to this research with a much younger infant. I thought the baby here was old enough that the response would be expected. It is no surprise that the baby reacted this way. I would like to this with an attached (and not attached) 6 month old or younger.

  • this was actually quite amusing

  • 2:10 - 2:13 sounds wrong...lol

  • I have definitely seen certain moms act this way in reality, which is quite awful.

  • I feel so bad for the baby. :(

  • Pa-Pa-Pa-Poker face

  • LOLOLOLOLOL. try experimenting with a trollface next time :D Really good video btw.

  • If this was difficult for me to just watch, I can only imagine how difficult this must have been for the mother.

  • This is the fastest and most depressing psychological experiment I've ever witnessed.

  • This is Kristen Stewart. Holy crap.

  • 2:00 PUNY HUMAN, WHY DO YOU NOT RESPOND!

  • Yeah, I feel bad for the baby, but she's gonna forget about mommy's "still face" in less than an hour. I feel worse for the mother, she looked like she was having a really hard time and she'll remember doing that forever.

  • I really wonder how the child would have reacted if she didn't have a secure attachment with her mother. If you know what I mean....

    If the child was insecure: avoidant, whould she not go back to playing with her motehr?

    Resistant, Would the child keep crying even after the mother tries to comfort her?

    I would like to see how the different types of attachments found in the "Strange Situation" experiment?

    Please answer me if you know what I'm talking about.... :)

    Thanks for Posting!!

  • @Zaidalboy I find these kind of "experiments" realy hard to watch. Do we have to make people suffer in order to scientifically prove something we intuitively know?

  • @mrorahilly Well...yeah. Our intiution feeds us plenty of false information. A lot of times things "everybody knows" are demonstrated to be false(Black holes, contrary to their common image, do not necessarily suck up all the matter in the vicinity for example). Scientific proof is the only way to truly determine such things and this experiment will help hopefully help parents in the future raise their kids better.(My grandmother did this sort of thing often, she thought it bred independence.)

  • @Zaidalboy This baby seems to be very young (around one year old), and I think the children used in the Strange Situation experiment were at least a year older than this baby. During this stage of the child's life, the child is in the process of forming one of those attachments (avoidant, resistant, "normal", or even disorganized).

  • hahahah at 2.09 the babies looking at her like damn mum u must have bipolar

  • You can tell this is hard for the mother too by the way she starts rapidly blinking the more upset her child becomes.

  • I can tell the mother is having a hard time too because she starts blinking so rapidly the more upset her child becomes.

  • Are you naysayers insane? You think 2 minutes of still face is going to permanently injure this kid, either cognitively or emotionally? Read a damn book, folks, we animals are quite resilient...

  • I've been having a very good today and decided to watch this video again. I don't know why, but I started crying when the baby started smiling again at the end of the expirament.

  • That must have been so hard for the mum.

  • @omgshift111 It's so sad when the baby starts crying and you can see how much the mother's face tighten.

  • wow this is amazing!!!

  • wow this is amazing!!!

  • Science is amazing. By using it we get to very uncommon and usually uncomfortable places, that's the only places where you learn.

  • Oh my god, the poor kid. I almost cried when he started crying.

  • I don't think this is unique to babies at all. I think adults respond the same way. Adults have just learned to regulate their responses to this sort of rejection with most people, but they go through these stages when it happens with their adult significant attachment partner. That's my theory, anyway.

  • The memories...

  • I'm a man...and I almost cried too.

  • The smile of the infant at 2:11: it made it all worth it.

  • I don't think this is unique to babies.  I'd probably cry too.

  • @Zebonka That's not the point. The point is that we already read faces and emotions very early. When you have an unresponsive face it means that you're emotionally distant. An emotionally distant mother can't take care of you. Reading faces is a survival trait.

  • what are negative feelings?

  • @gigi1bokus distress, sadness, despair, frustration, angst, phobia...?

  • @Salokin92 Those are feelings, and sometimes negative (when there not an appropriate respons to a negative situation) but not negative in themself like a wrong turn to a certain type- and class of feelings right into a common dark place...thats what the dr made it sound like when he said the baby turned away well into two minutes of not getting the normal reaction.

  • I wonder if babies react differently to this situation depending on which attachment style they show in the strange situation. This kid's behavior is pretty similar in theme to the 'secure' attachment style - happy playing, distressed when Mom is gone, then easily soothed when she returns. Would insecurely attached kids reject Mom or stay upset when she goes back to normal?

  • "COME ON. WHY AREN'T WE DOING THIS."

    gotta love babies.

  • That mom has a lot of self-control. I would've snapped and started fussing over her again the instant she started reaching out like that. And the baby is adorable. :3

    Also, that guy stole the 11th Doctor's coat.

  • he sounds like ted out of scrubs

  • I never laughed so hard before this moment

  • @AwesomeAirJew well then youre damaged.

  • that was so hard to watch :(

  • That hot mom looks like a young Sigourney Weaver. Cute baby too awhs.

  • annww.

  • <3

  • lolllllllllll the little girl recovers soo quickly <3

    shes tooooo cutee

  • That was so cruel! That baby did not understand why the mother was completely ignoring it, especially with her looking right at the baby. This breaks the bond and trust that the baby has for mother. I could not do that to my child.

  • @4carterfamily oh please. it's not like this mother was doing all the time. it was only this once. no doubt every mother left their baby crying in the crib at least once in their life, do you remember that one time? no you don't. I fail to see how this is cruel since the baby won't even remember it.

  • @ATDFXN

    You obviously have no clue how psychology and child development works. Go do some reading and stop making an ass of yourself.

     There is a reason why they were doing this experiment on an infant in the first place.

  • @4carterfamily If you only do it once, it's really not going to do anything. That sort of non-response could happen and does happen in real life for a myriad of reasons. It's usually not that creepy, but it does happen. Ever been on the phone "mommy's busy"? Once, while traumatizing to us to watch, isn't going to really shred anything, and she made it all better by finally hugging him. If he remembers anything at all, it's the overwhelming happy of mommy 'coming back'.

  • Actually now that I see the video again, I just realized this question : By the mother responding to the child when he/she starts crying, doesn't that reinforce crying in the baby to get the attention of others??? because he is going to associate crying with getting the right attention...

  • @Es1frankesteinKswap You are right, this would reinforce that kind of response, but to actually condition this into the baby it would need to happen over and over again until the baby learns that crying yields attention - one isolated event does not consolidate any sort of behavior.

  • @Es1frankesteinKswap Well, technically the only way for an infant to communicate his/her feelings during the infant age is through crying.

  • This is amazing... I love developmental psychology!!!!

  • @Es1frankesteinKswap Me too. It's what I study in school :)

  • Hahahaha! Suffer baby, Suffer!!!!

  • Oh my gosh. That poor baby. Even raises her eyebrows at 1:07.

  • Is it me, or does mom look like Mary McCormack?

  • That was painful to watch! Good proof of children's feelings, but WTF... a bit unethical experiment I'd say.

  • LOL that was kind of mean

  • Scariest mom ever. Even when she's being "nice" I'm afraid she's going to eat her child.

  • Oh my god, I could not do that, jesus.

  • That's a little painful to watch.

  • aww i'd crack at the smile the baby did, weak LOL

  • 1:03-2:01- it's Kristen Stewart in Twilight!

    No wonder the baby cried.

  • @MsAnakinSolo HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH! Fantastic!

  • BatGirl, it seems like you really have deep emotions. It's a good thing.

  • This video is probably the best argument for never having Botox.

  • I'm sure there was not nearly as much trauma as baby feels when Mommy walks away for the first time and leaves baby at the daycare.

  • @phantasma616 And its not just that first time, its all the time they spend IN daycare with effectively everyone giving them the still face. I think that is part of the cause of the epidemic of violence in the schools, a ton of kids with stunted growth in relationship.

  • @givebirthathome

    That is an absolutely RIDICULOUS remark. How can you blame children being in a child care facility on the violence epidemic in schoosl? And even worse, accuse EVERYONE in a center on giving children the still face?! I'll admit, there are schools in which children are not properly taken care of, but as and extremely dedicated child care provider, and nurturer of children, I couldn't disagree more. Studies show that children in centers do better later in life than those who don't

  • I bet that was hard for the mom to not react to her baby

  • I don't want to be a bad father, but I'm definitely trying it with my son.

    But I'll give ice cream after that.

  • Yeah I almost cried when the baby started smiling, as a desperate attempt to get the mother to smile...

  • So Sad :( I hope people learn from this.

  • omg the poor baby's reaction.. =(

  • The mother is about to loose it when the baby starts crying full tilt. It was hard on her. I agree, it makes you think about neglected kids who simply stop waiting for a reaction from their parents.

  • this is just so creepy. Informative, but disturbing as all hell. I hope that kid doesn't get some kind of weird trauma from this...... :(

  • @repogirl20 the Doctor actually says at the end that "the bad" is when a parent doesn't/can't respond, but if they return their attention to the baby (as the mother in the video did) quickly enough then the baby is able to overcome the negative experience. So, I don't think there'll be any lasting trauma : ).

  • D'aw. I felt so bad when the baby got upset. It looked so pathetic! No one I could do that to my child or someone elses, it would just make me feel too bad XD

  • That experiment made me cry. The consiousness that this is what happens to neglected children... God.

  • Any reason the mother starts blinking like crazy when she starts the "non-responsive" phase?

  • @bballbackus I think she was just trying to stay focused and in character even though she didn't really want to on a subconcious level.

  • @Aphearicus You can see later on that she looks a bit sad as she's doing the still-face. Its definitely hard on her to ignore her baby like that.

  • Giving a baby emotionall streass looks like a fun way to kill a few minutes.

  • So being deadpan is now child abuse?

  • I'm surprised they still get IRB approval for stuff like this. I guess some places aren't as strict about it.

  • @FantajiFan

    They didn't even do anything to the baby-

    of course they'd get approval

  • That's why Spock can't have kids

  • @joeicatrivante but then the baby would be unresponsive too!

  • @joeicatrivante Cracked :D

  • She doesn't just make her face still, she stops interacting with the baby entirely after having just been highly responsive. This would freak out lots of people of all ages. If they wanted to test the effect of the "still face" vs normal mommy face, then she should have only stopped reacting facially and possibly speaking while continuing to exhibit otherwise normal body language. His conclusions are hardly accurate if this is how they conducted the experiment.

  • I just put on my stillface and go browsing the internet.

  • Interesting... I felt a bit bad for the mom having to do that to her own kid, but I think it's kind of worth it to know for sure that the babies are every bit as sensitive as us at reading faces.

  • LOLOLOLOLOLO

    if only the still face part lasted longer...

  • If any thing I think the baby was just confused as hell by the sudden change.

  • Good lord, that hurt my soul.

  • Baby torture... for science!

  • Fascinating and it explains why children look at me like they often do.

    What? I'm not interested in them outside of science, okay!?

  • Oh my God... I must translate this into art!

  • that was so sad

  • Thats just cruel.

  • @xeinkolt Cruelly HI-larious

  • @xeinkolt If you think this experiment was cruel, you should read a newspaper sometime.

  • very interesting experiment, although i felt a little sad for the baby during the still face part.

    the mother was very good at being still though.:)

  • That mom is beautiful

  • actualy what USAforlife2057 says is very much to do with the clip as a whole part of child psychology is to do with memory and how the child remembers there mother, i find this facinating, but USAforlife2057, you should not call someone an idiot for not knowing this stuff no one can know everything, and its luckily enough that you have obviously had the chance to learn it, people are not idoits for not knowing something you were taught, that is thinking very highly of your self

  • Hmmm, this seems really interesting... This could be fun, BRB GOING TO GO MAKE BABIES CRY >:D

  • That's a pretty mom. Also Cracked rules

  • Cracked is one of the best sites ever

  • Thats amazing

  • What a smart baby!

  • @shirleygene How is this baby more intelligent than the others?

  • Seriously people are complaining about this? The baby will forget about that in a few minutes, lol. Do any of you remember anything when you were 1?

  • That looked painful for both mother and baby. :(

  • It is absolutely hilarious how the minute the lady turns around with the blank expression, the baby expresses her eyebrows in a very "Wtf?" way that is just hilarious.

  • Jeez, you people are so uptight about minor things. Seriously, the baby went through no more emotional stress than if it was a regular day at home and mom was just busy with something and not paying attention to the baby. It was the lack of response which the baby responded by trying to get mom's attention.

  • BABY GOT SOME SKILLZ

  • Let's see what happens when we take away the puppy.

  • @assfax Props for the ghost busters reference.

  • This is why we cant have nice things.

    I know not to hire people with no emotions as baby sitters.

  • That was amazing, when the baby pointed to get the mothers attention again it literally sent shivers down my spine.

  • I just wanted punch those people in the face.... poor babies :D

  • ohh, poor little baby! Smile at her already! SMILE AT HER!

  • This is horrible. I wonder if after this experiment, Dr Tronick experimented on how many lashes it takes to club a baby seal to death.

  • Oh man, that broke my heart.

  • Poor baby.

  • That was..... disturbingly creepy.

  • It's always fun to creep babies out, I use clown masks!

  • LOL I CAN MAKE BABIES CRY WITH MY FACE

  • Give me thumbs up if you got here from reddit!

  • You just had to work reparations into this huh? Thank a lot pal!

  • Oh my god, creepy eyes.

  • In 30 years baby will be telling a shrink that still faces always freak him out.

  • And there you have the source of many of the issues facing kids (and later adults) in the mental health system. We're wired to be social and our world begins and expands from Mom and Dad's faces. If that doesn't start properly - the result isn't a good one. Some cases of ADHD and most Boderline Personality issues have strong roots in parental behavior.

  • Wow this was pretty hard to watch.

  • Cracked. Also wow, that's awesome, I'm totally doing that to babies now.

  • I use the still face at work in hopes that people will leave me alone.

  • @cymer00 me too. they either get really pissed off or walk away

  • @cymer00 hahahahahahahahaha

  • @cymer00 Are you me?

  • @cymer00 A+ comment.