Teenage Mothers: Breaking The News To Parents

[Sueezee1]

Teen mothers:.ONLY 1/3 get HS diploma. 80% will be on welfare !The children of teen mothers have lower birth weights, are more likely to perform poorly in school, do drugs, join gangs, be violent, and are at greater risk of abuse and neglect & are 13 percent more likely to end up in prison while teen daughters are 22 percent more likely to become teen mothers themselves

[jdenicut3]

people put them selves in your shoes hence underestimating you i have a daughter and life is not over as i know it. im sorry but you have to be really, really, selfish or really immature to be able to care for a child by 18 you should already be an adult by then that the entire signifigance of turning 18

[jdenicut3]

the only thing you will miss at being 18 is bein able to be irresponsible . i have 1 child and me and my fiancee are waiting to see if baby number 2 is a boy or girl

[emmyisawesome27]

Now pregnant teens always remember you don't have to keep your babay because adoption is just another word for love I was adopted and I'm happy I wouldn't have been able to do alot things I've done if my mom didn't put me up fir adoption she dud it becuz she loved me enough to

[Fan122able]

when i told my parents they were supportive but i had to help to i couldnt leave everything to them. P.S im on my friends account as i dont have time to switch accounts.

Natalie

[sublimechick571]

wow my comment is 1st here from 2 years ago!!!!! I am 26 now and my daughter is 8........I have been through it all and when I read these comments like-im 17 and I just found out I am pregnant......... I can feel for you. Feel free to msg me if you have any questions :)

Chrissy

[Super123Xxxxxxx]

i hate it when a pregnant teen girl gets called a whore because they're pregnant. we don't know the whole story. the pregnant girl could've been raped or something. i hate when a teen girl calls a pregnant teen girl a slut, when they are sexually active too.

[shygurl31]

im 17 and preg. and yes its hard but its an amazeing outcome.i dont understand why people say its bad to have kids in there teens almost 80% of moms have them in there teens..no mater what keep ur family together i have been threw alot threw my preg..and to say my son is preparing me for his arival.even thoe my son is in my tummy they kan teach u alot..you will be scared yes but when u see your child it will be soo amazeing...

[The94super]

explain what happend lol well i got naked he got naked and he put it inside of me and went in and out in and out in and out until he made a funny face and then bam there it was he was dun lol and thats how it happend lmao

[dominican23princesa]

my mom had my sister at 13 then me at 14 then when she turned 26 she became a grand mother everyone called her worlds youngest grandmother well she had 8 of us and i have 1 niece and 1 nephew getting pregnant young expect to have the same outcome - i dont judge pregnant teens i just inform them

[Lanna759]

I am 14 and just found out i am pregnant a week ago. I have NO idea how to tell my parents can somebody help me?

[AndreaAndJorge]

@Lanna759 maybe this is late since it was two months ago but what i did when i was pregnant (at 14) i made my bfs mom tell my mom but i bet your two months pregnant huh wish you the best!!!!

[ImaWormBaby222]

@Lanna759 ME TOO! i see it was 4 months ago...did you do it? help me!!!!):

[Lanna759]

I am only 14 and found out a week ago i am pregnant. My bf is 16 and neither one of us has told r parents.Does anybody have any advice for me?I could rly use it.

[CasualDeliqht]

@Lanna759 im 14&&inoe what your going through i thought i was pregnant at one piont( thankfully im not)..dont be scared.your parents are always going to love you no materwhat.granted they will be mad but eventualy they will get over it.you should have your boyfriend go with you to tell your parents..hopefully everything goes fine

[jdenicut3]

okay gettin drunk and stayig out all not is not what a teen ager is supposed to do, if it was there wouldnt b a drinking age limit or curfew

[rswanhaus]

@jdenicut3 finnaly someone else that understands that! my mom and dad say me and my soon to be wife dont know what we will miss by having a baby at 18 but i keep saying that yea i like to drink socialy not go to a bar and party. i hate bars because i hate the drunks that ull see there. i just hope things go well for her in july when shes due as i will be in boot camp :(

[hismama0620]

According to Erik Erikson's theory, as a teenager you experience identity vs role confusion. This could involve experimenting with religious beliefs, sex, drugs, alcohol, friendships, and style choices. As for sex, almost half of teens, 46%, have engaged in sexual activities. teen preg can result from this search for identity & while many believe it stops the process of figuring out who you are, it doesn't unless u let it. I was a teen mom and now one of the 1.5% who get a college degree.

[Lejon713]

Everyone is looking at teen pregnancy like "oh my gosh poor unfortunate soul" when the fact of the matter is this would be a normal thing back in the day. Now teens are too busy getting drunk and staying out all night that their parents believe they are going to "miss something" if they have a kid now. It is just about growing the fuck up and being mature when the time comes.

[icyangel13]

What the fuck?? no, it's A LOT different. Once, women got married at 15, so they were already in a stable marriage, and they certainly didn't have to worry about school or having a social life. Their only purpose in life was to make kids.

Nowadays, teenage mothers are usually not married, are not economically independent, and are still in school. Hence the problem.

[StephenJohnSays]

yea, if being on food stamps and welfare is a good thing. Stupid bitch. get a job.

[Sueezee1]

Le:Now teens are too busy getting drunk and staying out all night That is actualy what teens are supposed to do before having families. Everything a teen experiences i s all part of growing up , learning,and becoming a more knowledgable person BEFORE you have kids

[rswanhaus]

@Lejon713 i can agree with that i mean yea you can have a kid young and pplworry about 17 and 18 year olds like me and my soon to be wife having kids but its part of growing up ppl say your not ready at that age but when are you ever ready for your first kid....i think ppl are too consumed by the fact that you can party rather than be a mature adult when ur supposed to be which should be about the time you can have a drivers license sometimes i wonder who needs to grow up more the kids or adults

[kke11119]

ohkkk you guyss jessiCRUNK912 i do believe in god. but i also agree with you about everything does happen for a reason and that if god didn't want it to happen, that maybe he would prevent it. anddd i dont think that if you do one thing wrong youll go to hell thats bullll. but if you get pregnant lucky youu i freaking love kidsss.

[enie386]

Will everyone give this idiot who posted below me a thumbs down so he'll dissapear?

[stingspeedskate]

Dont have sex before marriage... It is against God!!!!!!

[swimmerchic2324]

Oh my god. I sooooooooooooo agree! What good comes out of it? Good way to put it!

[pirateofhyrule]

Not everyone sees it the same way, and sometimes, it's not the teenager's fault. Rape is a very unfortunate yet very real thing.

[ACharmingPlace]

crazymonkey186 got the crazy part in her name right

FFS people god is not real! People thought the earth was flat in old days and god walks on water? If god is real so is superman and magical witches = its fiction people

Thanksfor the video!

[crazymonkey186]

Dont have sex before marriage... It is against God!!!!!!

[JessiCRUNK912]

crazymonkey186 I don't believe in god. That's just my religion. But I think that everything happens for a reason, and that if god didn't want it to happen, that maybe he would prevent it? Some of you christians are so immature. You think that if someone isn't perfect that they'll automatically go to hell. Well I'm sorry but nobody is that perfect. Everyone makes mistakes INCLUDING YOU! So fuck you and what your god "says." You people always take things for granted. So how about grow the fuck up.

[lilphil88]

God has a plan for everyone...and whether or not we follow that plan is our choice.

and we don't think that...you obviously don't know anything about Christianity, we think all people who beleive in God go to Heaven...and we beleive that noone is 'perfect', because we all sin (commit wrong-doings).

[GoodMorningJane]

I agree

But....You dont have to be christian to go to heaven

God alows all of his children into heavin

"And jesus said to the children 'Let all of the little children come unto me. And do not hinder them for the kingdom of heaven is theres'"

Anyone gets into heaven because god loves every living soul

Other then that. Agreed

[becca2200]

no one is "perfect" and God knows that. It's his loving grace that allows us to go to heaven and he forgives us for our sins. and it is true that you are not supposed to have sex before marriage but if you do that doesnt make god love you any less.

[sarahbryan1988]

i am a teen mum i got pregnant at 14 and wouldnt advise it but you can see him messing about on my youtube

[sublimechick571]

I was 17 when I had my baby....Im 22 now with a 5 year old daughter....I can tell every teen out there that its NOT cute, fun or smart to do. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE for the love of god listen to me.... If you want to talk to me feel free to msg me anytime I will gladley help anybody. :)

Chrissy.

[godsfiddler]

@sublimechick571 You're about the only one that doesn't make it sound all glorious. I commend you.

[lantash75]

Children? Hell no... There not children if they are out fucking...

Telling them what happened? Oh gee, guess! That's not hard to figure out... Oh he slipped and fell in me, over and over and over again.

hopefully both parent and the soon to be young mother (and father) know how the hell it happened. If they don't they have other, more serious issues to deal with first; like say mental retardation.

[kimistirednow]

like say, YOU, probably have mental retardation. People make mistakes, and some girls get raped. oh gee mom, lets see, i was walking down the street, coming back from school, when a man sneaked out from a bush and mounted me. MMM, guess it was my fault, for going to school in the first place....

[riacharda]

i agree with what u say but when it comes to african/carribbean parents its a different story. They will get beaten but sometimes in extreme cases they get thrown out and have to live in youth hostels.

[12valvepower]

Communist party is the greatest party

[SarahViliocco]

hahah. whhhy?